This lady read the ''Married with a pregnant girlfriend post and her conscience sprang up...what do you tell someone carrying a lorry load of baggage from her past?....Dirty baggage i say!
This is her unedited mail.
''Help
me post this on ur blog Stella.
After reading people's post, I decided to share mine.
Am ashamed of my seif and may God forgive. I got married and within a
year I couldn't conceive.
I went back to my ex-boy friend, we started having sex.. After one
month, I took in and my hubby was very happy.
After 2yrs,i went back to my ex-boy friend we slept together again and I
took in again Wit my second child and it continued like this till my
last child.
Today Am a mother of 4children(3boys &1 girl ),The father of d
children thought may be those children belong s to my Husband ,I didn't
Let my ex- boy friend to know that those children belongs to him.
my Boy friend is married now wit 3boys but we are not seeing each other
again.
Could that be my hubby is infertile or what?,Am Just 33yrs while hubby
is 46yrs old.
my past keep hurting me, can I speak or keep mute forever''
*Madam I am sorry i cannot advise you on this one,what if your hubby knows he has no sperm count at all and knows those kids are not his?let your conscience speak to you..no matter what any of the following comments will say,let God minister to your heart...your matter pass me!
Please go and CONFESS!!! You are a WICKED woman!
ReplyDeleteShebi naija men sabi cheat ni? Plenty of dem no knw sey d pikn wey dem dey nurture no be dre own!
DeleteHahahaha, wish I can do same to dis my lying and cheatin husb. Una wey get nose make una sniff well well
DeleteU'd be as wicked as she is na, pls don't. Talk 2 him rather. Hope say no be based on money u marry am. Just bringing out worst case scenario; no vex. Cheers
DeleteMadame relax,let sleeping dogs lie.u will gain nothing by opening up rather u break ppl,s heart ok.
ReplyDeleteYes o madam keep quiet. I was in a r/ship wit dis guy and was hvin sex wit anoda. D oda one got me preg and I told my bf he is d owner. I dint even tell d oda guy. I'm married to my bf nw, d child is officially his first child and nobody can argue dat. Funny enof my conscience isn't even tellin me anytin. We hv oda kids but he loves dat boy dats not even his blood best. He is currently in Uk studying courtesy of my hubby. All oda kids we hv r studyin here in nigeria. My dear leave matter 4 mathias
DeleteJesus Christ!!! Things dey happen oooo.... May God forgive u.
ReplyDeleteOh gosh!What women do to maintain their position in their husbands house its only God that will help us! My dear what u did was terribly unspeakable so u beta keep mute besides ur hubby prolly knows he has a problem,in short I just can't....
ReplyDeleteWhat you did is and was very wrong. You should have first gone for check up with your hubby. if it turned out to be that any one of you was the cause then could seek for treatment or even adopt that is when you should be crying onto bloggers for advice on what to do not when every thing goes bad.
ReplyDeleteNow how would your boyfriend feel if he found out those kids are his and not your hubby's and think of how devastated your hubby would feel if he found out.
And how would you feel if your hubby had kids outside of the marriage with another woman without you knowing?
Now how can all this be undone?. had it been that you were now asking if you should do that... Then it would be a NO NO! Pls ask befor you do something not after the harm has been done. You all seeking for advice should first ask for advice when the thought crosses your head atleast then good advices and remedies even help can be given not when the harm is already done
You should have thought of the consequencies of your actions first. the problem with people now a days is that we refuse to think.
Please do what you think is right.
MadAm,the names I desire to call u are unprintable!
ReplyDeleteBut u need to knoW thAt you are very very wicked!!
Sister u made a terrible mistake..y didn't u tell ur husband to go to hospital wiv u to do torro check up,rather u went at his back and took In .na only God go fit ansa dis ur case..*****chewing ginger**
ReplyDeleteYour Husband most likely already knows. He is not confronting you because he knows he is the one with the problem. So while it may be good to bring it all out in the open, its probably not the best. Wait until the children are all grown and out of the house before letting him know. Telling him now will only mean you are ready to move out with your kids.
ReplyDeleteWell said...my thoughts exactly
DeleteJst confess
ReplyDeletePls pls pls madam.....yinkus
ReplyDeleteAbeg, make everybody advise their brother's to carry out secret DNA test. Naija women, na wa o!!!
ReplyDeleteGbam
Deletepls kip mute forever abeg, mystep mum get same problem, 1 of her dauther is not for mydad my step sister inquestion was battling with stroke haven't taking her to diff hospital with no hope so familyfrnds advice to try native, on dat faithful day i was ask to follow dem along me mystepmum and her old mother including mysick sister. immediately we got there d native doc ask us to take d sick girl to other rooom dat wat he is about say is sour to d ear......my people wen native man begin dey see vision i hala say GOD get power my stepmum begin narrate d story how she got pregnant during d time she and my dad was having issue dat she never thaught my dad will come back to her again, that after she and mydad has settle thier riff she notice she was a month gone and decide to kip d pregnancy. das her 4th child out of seven, she is my dad 1st wife my mum is d secoundwife, to cut d story short(iknw is long already) d native doc now said das d cos of her illness dat her spirit need d truth dat my father spirit need to hear d truth also that she should take d gurl home.dat if she choosees not to confess den she should take d girl out of mydad house. on our way home mysick sister,my stepmum, and her mum start begging me crying dat i should not reveal d secret out even d sick gurl 28 then said she is ready to die dat to reveal d shameful act of her mum. me as d only gurl of mymum my step sisters was my source of joy and she was miysister,bestfrnd dat i tell everything to, but i told her she is going to die, then she reply and ask me how am i going to feel if everybody know that we aint sisters as we claim! i agree with dem up till date jst 3 of us knws of dis secret. nothing dey appen madam abeg no jst talk atall .....
ReplyDeleteWickedness in "low" places.
ReplyDeleteStella, please don't oblige these wicked people anymore.
ReplyDeleteIts like they have started contesting for who has the most wickedly shocking story.
Come, madam guilty conscience, you better zip your gutter mouth and take that secret to your grave. I don't want to waste my time cursing, chastising or advising you. You are a hopeless case.
Oloriburuku obinrin!
Thought going to the extreme just to have your own children will make you happy forever, now ur past is hunting you, Madam, the bitter truth is that you have to open up, and anticipate the worst. ** May God Help You**
ReplyDeleteCP (space) show biz blog of the year (space) Stella Dimoko Korkus send to 33121.
She won't give u award.calm down with ur stella advertisement oga *rme
DeleteWhen your husband married you he knew he had a problem. He is 13 years older than you. Trust me, he knew. So don't rock your already shaky boat. But be sure to start now to ensure yours and your kids future. The man may try and pull some stunts in his will. And under no circumstances should you tell your ex, your pastor or anyone even your family and especially not your friends about this.
ReplyDeleteIts very hard to get a man to talk about it. So to get a man to go to hospital for anything related to reproductive issues is a feat. Nigerian men are extremely proud.
ReplyDeleteConfess for what purpose?. What will she or he gain from that?
ReplyDeleteYou're a very wicked woman!
ReplyDeleteand i gat no advise for you do wateva you like...
#the heart of man is deceitful & wicked, who can know it#
Is there any better definition of a witch than this?
ReplyDelete4 children not only 1 or 2
U no just get conscience at all
the husband knows that the children are not his. He is just pretending
ReplyDeleteOpen up n watever happen bear it , so that ur mind will be at rest
ReplyDeleteYou people should stop calling dis woman wicked,if it was her husband he would have done the same thing.........Madam,may God see you through!
ReplyDeletemadam don't talk. let sleeping dog lie. who knws ur hubby fit get children too outside. prob u two jst cant av kids for each other.
ReplyDeleteYou had do it 4 times haba. Why did you not stop at 2. Imagine having to reveal the truth to 4 children.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm,speechless .don't dare tell this man anything yet.
ReplyDeleteIs that so?????
ReplyDeleteoh! her conscience sprang up?
blood of Jesus! ehhennnnnnn?
*claps once, puts hands on waist* na wa ohhh!
we de hear things o!
so wetin she wan come do now naaa?
this is a serious sontin!
heeeyaaaah!
#straight face: my friend OYO IS your case. if you can be heartless all this while to go screw another man, return to your husband and keep hanging pregnancies on him , then you should be able to deal with all of it all. {ika ni e. ika! you are wicked! very wicked} four times o! four! kai! u are mean!
Its women like you that give others bad names.
If the guy has a fault, tell me how you have helped him. no jus tell me!
You better confess your sins and deal with the consequences because you cannot ask God for forgiveness by concealing such.
abeg I tire for your matter
Is blog lord oteri?
ReplyDeleteAunty,pls let sleeping dogs lie.I seriously dnt understand why people are cussing you out.Even if her hubby knows he has a problem and d kids aren't his,y'all want her to remain childless? Atleast,the kids are hers.its nt better to adopt. U ppl can kill someone with ur comments oh,haba!
ReplyDeletekai the commentatrs on this blog deserve a reality show. lwkmd
ReplyDeleteNigerians! You are judgemental bunch! May your own hidden sins not come and bite you in the ass! Madam I refuse to judge u bcos I don't know wat pushed u to this level of desperation, this battle with ur conscience signifies that u feel wat u did was wrong. Stella is right wateva decision that must be taken must solely be yours. Ur either taking this secret to ur grave or ur telling ur husband the truth....God help u.
ReplyDeleteThose supporting her have done the same or their mothers did the same. Valueless.
ReplyDeleteI knw dat its normal for people like u to be stupid bt then u are taking it to a whole new level. My prayer is dat any day u have a secret or u do sometin u are nt proud of may amadioha strike u died, idiot wat do u want her to do the mistake is already done. U beta live ur life as an open book no secrets cos amadioha is waiting around the corner somewhere for u. Mkpe(if u are a he)
DeletePlease carry on with your life madam and ask the lord for forgiveness. some are saying you should have done test, you should have done adoption etc. fafafafowlllllllllllllll is all i will say. show me one Nigerian man who REFUSEDDDDDDDDDD to cheat and adopted because his wife could not bear a child? show me the man who remained faithful to the end and didnt bring in a second wife or have children outside wedlock.
ReplyDeleteNa waaaah ooo. many millenniums after woman craftily dispossessed man of his God given inheritance in the garden of Eden, women are still showing men serious pepper on earth. woe to man indeed.
ReplyDeleteAnon 8.09,u are very Rght ,but then God has given man power over woman wHc nobody can change or do.a man can marry 2wives at a tym n nothn anybody can do,but a woman can't do such,Nibo?.a man can brng a child in frm outsde to his wife at home,and d woman will acept d child wt pain.Can a woman brng in a child frm outside to her hubby n beg for 4gvness?kojor rara.dat is life,dat is wot woman ll always pay for,we dnt av d freedom as man does.as for ds woman,wot u did is n was wrng.u shudnt had done ds wtout ur hubbys consent.ther mght be prob wt him,whc can rsult to u both agreeing on brngn child frm outsde.u shud requested for some tests to kno wher n wot d prob is.takin decision on ur own pushed u to ds wtout thinkn of d aftermath.well,if u wnt to tell ur hubby abt ds,make sure ur acct is fully loaded,get an apartmnt set incase hE sends u out.juz be prepared for d worst b4 telln hm n get ready to move on.see hm as ur brother,wot wud u av done to his wife.as a lady I chersh bn freeminded,I hate Heavyheart,I juz can't live wt it.for u to be free,tell him n be prepared b4 breaking his obituary.PJ
ReplyDeleteMy dear,ask for forgiveness from God n move on with ur life...if ur hubby were in ur shoes he cud have done d same..all dis men u can't trust dem...am not gonna judge u...but I wish u d very best
ReplyDeletel believe most of the pple abusing this my sister has one dirty past or the other but the truth is that what she did was bad but l know she did that only to secure her marriage and wipe the shame that will be upon the man if he cannot hv kids of his own, sister pls go to God in prayer and ask for forgiveness.
ReplyDeleteAnon11:31am
ReplyDeleteAll said Gbam!
Ds woman u are very wicked dem suppose trow u where lion dey u no even do one 4children na una go dey spoil women name is batter u tell ur hubby n set him free let go luk 4 his own wife choi very greedy muchwwww ash!!!!!! After she go talk say things are nt going well in her business or @ work place u no wetin u do woman u dey vex me stella I love wetin u talk abeg no advice her Ooooh
ReplyDeleteYou are evil, a dangerous person..only worthy of condemnation!
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