Blog Visitor Says ''I Have A Perfect Relationship But Something Is Fishy''

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 I greet the house too. Am sorry if this is too long.
      I am a lady of 25 and I've gone through numerous heart break that I don't border my self again. Am left with the notion that my husband is coming and while he is on his way I can still date and see how it goes. I meet a guy 3 months ago and I  started dating him becos I haven't had a boyfriend in a while. And I decided not to expect much from the relationship( that's what I told my self). He told me he has a son but isn't married to the baby mama. He is in his late 30s and is into politics though works in an oil company. He stays in d estate  owned by his company as a result of d numerous political threat to his life(according to him). I've
not been to his house b4 though he says he has buildings on rental. I've not met his family b4 though he said he is an orphan with step sis and step bros.

All married and busy too. I've not been to his house b4 @ d company estate either becos he complains of d strictness. I met him always sleeping in a hotel and when ever I want to sEe him, that's where he takes me to. Of recent, I noticed am beginning to want more. Like am falling in love. He doesn't call much cos he says he is always busy( his weakness + no one is perfect). 

He loves groove, so he doesn't sleep much  in d estate becos of d restriction of late night movement, so some times I spend d night in d hotel with him.
I told him I wasn't too okay with d constant hotel movement and he said he knows am not. And that I should be patience with him, that sleeping there won't be for long. I complained about him not taking me to d estate, he says the restriction there is much. That I will need a pass and plenty monitoring. So can't take me there. Bros has answers for all my questions.

I've been with him and no strange calls come in. And he doesn't make any strange calls either(women related). He treats me nice  and doesn't make any unnecessary promises. He is d kind that would empower his woman financially( teach u legal means of making money), and have taught me to be independent and not to depend on any man, even him.

We communicate wella. We can gist for hours. I have learnt a lot from him like a sister would from a brother. We are like friends that have known for long. But something just isn't right and I can't place my fingers on it. He haven't given me a reason to doubt him. But mehnn!! I am just too scared of falling totally and getting the biggest heartbreak of my life.


Now my questions are......
Is he lying to me?
Is he married?
Is it possible his family is abroad and he is lying to me?
Is there even a tiny possibility he is real?
Some men are too smart and am scared!!! . excuse my typos too.


*yep,i smell the fish.