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Monday, August 26, 2013

If A Man Can Marry Two Wives,Can A Woman Also Marry Two Men?


                                                            

Please before we start this ARGUEMENT,can anyone show me where the new testament agrees to a man marrying more than one wife?...Where did the phrase ''for better for worse,till death us do part'' come from?

I have been thinking,why is okay for a man to openly marry up to four women and a woman cannot else she will be given names..infact it is seen as a taboo!


Most Nigerian men are polygamous by nature,they break their vows and hurt the women they vowed to stick with for life and she is supposed to sit down and welcome the other wife/wives like they are her sisters?

I really don't understand.........what is wrong with a woman taking more than one husband?

A man wakes up and pays bride price on the heads of different women,why cant it be that a woman wakes up and allows four men pay bride price on her?

Since we have embraced technology and all the vices that come with it,we can as well embrace polygamous women abi?

This post is a thought......share yours!

*men if you feel this post doesnt make sense,maybe y'all should stop being serial husbands!

126 comments:


  1. Stella this was posted in another post,i had to copy and paste here because i am shcked and it fits better here.she practically has two husbands and is already talking down on one.....women are wicked oh

    see the comment on another post below.


    My husband is unknowingly sharing me with a billionaire, just like I have been sharing him with Unilag undergraduates. Stupid man! Two can play that game. I was faithful to him for ages and he kept on humilating me. Not that I'm old o. I'm a size 8 32year old mother of 3. The day he will find out I have hundreds of millions more than he will ever own in his lifetime, he will die. Just looking at my bank account and house documents give me multiple orgasms. If only he knew my sweetheart pulled strings to get him a job and get him posted to Abuja so he would be out of our way. He thinks he is balling now cos he is dating numerous abuja babes, but I'm the one balling cos I come and go as I please. Anyday he annoys me, he will out of job so fast his head will spin! Hahahahaha. Life is good! Stupid man that wanted to give me high BP..... Back to sender on all curses because nobody knows what I went through in the hands of my husband before I chose to be happy.

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    1. Yes! I wrote it.... Sue me! So my husband is not wicked to be dating under 20's, I'm the wicked one for playing him at his own game. I hear you! My husband dated my colleagues, househelps, neighbours etc. And I always took him back and forgave him. He would buy numerous gifts for his lady friends and go to Dubai with them, yet he would tell me to cut back on my spending so we can save. The 2 times I gave birth my husband was in Dubai with 18 year old unilag girls. I fought, I cried, I prayed and he didn't change. I was having high blood pressure and went from 65kg to 43 all cos of how he was treating me. Young girls calling me on the phone and telling me to die already cos he lied to them I was bedridden with cancer and would die at any moment. And now that I have found happiness you want me to apologise cos I'm finally happy? No I won't! I don't have an iota of feeling or respect for my husband. I'm still here cos my kids are small. Once they get older, I will leave. I am happy! Very happy! I'm back to 67kg after 3 years of being underweight and having ulcer, and my blood pressure is perfect. My man friend loves me and treat me like a husband should treat a wife. I have money and everything I need to take care of myself, my children and my family. More money than I know what to do with. Honestly if my husband drops dead today, I would only shed the necessary tears and move on with my life. Yes, I said it!!! After all he has been telling his concubines I only have months to live. Say whatever you want to say or call me any name you which I don't care. I have chosen to ne happy and I won't apologise for being happy! What is good for the goose is also good for the gander!!!

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    2. My dear, why don't you just divorce him?

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    3. Sorry o Anon 7:05, please what about your Man friend's wife... U sure she isn't under weight cause u are dating her husband?

      Me I cannot judge you o, just be wise about what u are doing o,if he is married,know his wife isn't also happy..cheers

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    4. My manfriend is a widower. His wife died of cancer before I met him. Once my last child clocks 10 in a few years and enters boarding school, I shall marry him!

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    5. Iyawo i fully support you because that man you call your husband is focking wicked!

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    6. Madam, I support you jare. If only half of us could have such guts!

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    7. Divorce the looser(hubby). You really don't have to stay with him if he truly makes you unhappy. Move on. Enjoy.

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    8. Kai, pls I nEed to b ur friend, so dat u can link me to ur man friends friend.my husb worst pass ur own o, evrytin u stated here my husb do dem apart from d cancer own. My own is to tell d girls dat I have spirit husb and am posesed cos am rily beautiful. I need a rich man too step up my game. Wot is good for d goose wil b beta for d gander

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    9. As you like it... an eye for an eye makes the world go blind. wat u r doing is wrong albeit the circumstances. I won't say u shd stop,because i am a nobody. But pls, hve a relationship with God. Let him direct u. Fyi.. money,riches is only fr a while. Its all vanity. Don't sit bk and think u hve money..life,esp one with God is all dat matters! Think about your children also.. will dey ljke wat u doing? I knw u hve had experiences dts wat made u do this.. hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.. its in d bible.

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    10. YOLO
      Me Im waiting for my kids to reach legal age bc I am determined they mist not grow up to know any woman as step mother and no children as half brothers or sisters

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  2. Okay, so no she's wicked bcos you know she's gonna win this 1 abi?? Pls o, let the woman be.. Ride on my sister.. He deserves it !!
    ~meemah~

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  3. Okay, so now she's wicked bcos you know she's gonna win this 1 abi?? Pls o, let the woman be.. Ride on my sister.. He deserves it !!
    ~meemah~

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  4. We all saw it, y are yu bringing it up here again?
    And how is she more wicked dan d man?
    Men and their "I must get/taste everythin and get away wit it" mentality

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  5. Aunty stella...*fell???? R u sure dats d ryt word????

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  6. *FEEL' not ' FELL

    I DON CORRECT MYSELF

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  7. Stella wen evn 1 husband most of us neva c,(or bfrd)where we wan c d chance 2 become polygamist.joor o,no mk me remember tinz o

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    1. My naija people, this comment got me cracking. True talk

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    2. This comment got me rolling on the floor!! Gbam

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    3. LMAO u got me laughing so hard...hahhahaha

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    4. You're so right girl...Your comment is so amuzing. But that's the fact though.
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  8. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. If a man cheats he receives insults normally. But a woman cheats...some of her new names are unprintable. "For better for worse" isn't in the bible but it's a solemn advice given to couples who don't fully understand the solemnity of marriage - remain with your spouse through good and stormy times. My religion doesn't support polygamy, but I support the fact that since society allows one man-numerous wives, it shouldn't frown at one woman-numerous husbands too. #yurk

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  9. Stella, The reason I love you is your humility which tends towards HUMBILITY. Thanx babe.

    To the subject, The Bible did not in any place say that it is "One man: One Wife" I challenge anyone to show me with scriptural reference where this is stated. The only place it mentions being husband of one wife is when Paul (Who by the way preferred staying alone) was describing the qualities of a Bishop and deacons. 1 Tim 3:2,12.

    The concept of Monogamy is a sociological necessity. Infact the bible admonishes the man who has 2 or more wives to love them equally. Deut. 21:15.

    As for a woman marrying 2 or more husbands, some cultures practice it but also as a sociological necessity, it is discouraged. Many countries in the world have passed laws that make it illegal to have more than one partner and many have tried to use VAGUE bible verses to support this like when Jesus talked about "A man leaving his mother and father to cleave to his wife" Matt 19:5. However it was during a discussion about divorce.

    A woman may choose to marry more than one husband but "Menage a trois" sounds better with 2 women and 1 man than with 2 men and 1 woman. hehehehehe!
    Let me rest my case for now. Thanks once again

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    1. U must be a joker. So it suits a man better to v numerous affairs. FYI it suits a woman perfectly to v several men too.

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  10. Stella culture and tradition were created by men and.thats why it favours men. I.studied this in.school. We can.create our culture. If we want to marry more than.one.man then we will. It happens in india. Now in kenya. Soon the rest of africa. Its abt us beinh independent and makinh our own.choices. It js now women leading the world. No longer men. If the woman can.handle it why not. Diff men for diff things.

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  11. How would u bring up such a debate Stella... No gud no gud no gud...

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  12. I wish women can marry more than one wive,like me I wish I have d guts to cheat on my husband who sleeps with different babes and when I see traces and ask him he'll not only deny but keep malice with me for several days

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  13. Welther she slept with billions or not is nt ur own business, I don't understand why u posted it, Pls let her be ,I can feel u woman bcos have gone thru dat with my hubby. but I never slept with any man. trust me it takes grace of God 2 stand man humiliation.he never torched me for two years. Stella, we're in d world where anything can happen!

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  14. Most Nigerian men are polygamous, *poligamists*

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  15. Stella I reserve my comment about this topic, until you take 4 able bodied men to bed and come out alive.

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  16. whatever is good for the jews is also good for the gentiles( whatever ).

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  17. “THE MAN WRITING”: THANK YOU STELLA FOR BRINGING THE WORD OF LIFE TO THIS FORUM. MAN SHALL NOT LIVE BY BREAD ALONE. Let’s go:
    1. The Love in marriage is an “imitation of Christ and the Church” (his bride);
    Ephesians 5:30
    30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[c] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.

    2. This perfection of love is only for one man, one wife in the New Covenant:

    2 Corinthians 11:2 I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.

    3. The only thing that can (but not compulsorily) break a marital covenant is “unfaithfulness”/idolatry/fornication (all are same);

    Matthew 5:32 But I say that a man who divorces his wife, unless she has been unfaithful, causes her to commit adultery. And anyone who marries a divorced woman also commits adultery.

    4. What folks call “church” (congregations) is not given the mandate to wed couples. From the old to the New Covenant, no wedding was seen in synagogue or meeting places for the “church”. Marriages are conducted in families; the father receives the bride price (not pastor).

    John 2: 1The next daya there was a wedding celebration in the village of Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, 2and Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the celebration.
    Hallelujah; Jesus (and his disciples; the real church) was invited (not the host). YOU WILL NOT SEE ANY SCRIPTURE WHERE JESUS OR HIS APOSTLE CONDUCTED WEDDINGS!

    Think of it folks, let a lady go home and tell her parents that her pastor has married her (she is wedded); is it not a recipe for trouble? Once a lady’s bride price is paid to her dad, she is married and can have kids (lady’s please do not abort your sweet babies b/c you’ve not done “white wedding” this is the contraption of men. God hates it see Proverbs 6:17). Once Christ paid “our” bride price (with his blood); it was finished; the marital covenant was sealed.

    5. If a man married to two ladies gets converted, he can keep them but he cannot be a leader in the Church;
    1 Timothy 3:1 1This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. 2A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; 3Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous;
    see also 1 Corinthians 7:12-14

    6. POLYANDRY (simultaneous marriage to multiple husbands) is Satanism, mockery of God; WHY DIDN’T GOD CREATE TWO ADAMS AND ONE EVE? Why did he not create 2 Adams or two Eves?

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    1. And y didn't he create 2 Eves and 1 Adam?

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    2. Yes, y dint he create 2 Eves n 1 Adam.... meaning it shld be a man n a woman

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  18. “THE MAN WRITING”: THANK YOU STELLA FOR BRINGING THE WORD OF LIFE TO THIS FORUM. MAN SHALL NOT LIVE BY BREAD ALONE. Let’s go:
    1. The Love in marriage is an “imitation of Christ and the Church” (his bride);
    Ephesians 5:30
    30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[c] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.

    2. This perfection of love is only for one man, one wife in the New Covenant:

    2 Corinthians 11:2 I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.

    3. The only thing that can (but not compulsorily) break a marital covenant is “unfaithfulness”/idolatry/fornication (all are same);

    Matthew 5:32 But I say that a man who divorces his wife, unless she has been unfaithful, causes her to commit adultery. And anyone who marries a divorced woman also commits adultery.

    4. What folks call “church” (congregations) is not given the mandate to wed couples. From the old to the New Covenant, no wedding was seen in synagogue or meeting places for the “church”. Marriages are conducted in families; the father receives the bride price (not pastor).

    John 2: 1The next daya there was a wedding celebration in the village of Cana in Galilee. Jesus’ mother was there, 2and Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the celebration.
    Hallelujah; Jesus (and his disciples; the real church) was invited (not the host). YOU WILL NOT SEE ANY SCRIPTURE WHERE JESUS OR HIS APOSTLE CONDUCTED WEDDINGS!

    Think of it folks, let a lady go home and tell her parents that her pastor has married her (she is wedded); is it not a recipe for trouble? Once a lady’s bride price is paid to her dad, she is married and can have kids (lady’s please do not abort your sweet babies b/c you’ve not done “white wedding” this is the contraption of men. God hates it see Proverbs 6:17). Once Christ paid “our” bride price (with his blood); it was finished; the marital covenant was sealed.

    5. If a man married to two ladies gets converted, he can keep them but he cannot be a leader in the Church;
    1 Timothy 3:1 1This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work. 2A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; 3Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous;
    see also 1 Corinthians 7:12-14

    6. POLYANDRY (simultaneous marriage to multiple husbands) is Satanism, mockery of God; WHY DIDN’T GOD CREATE TWO ADAMS AND ONE EVE? Why did he not create 2 Adams or two Eves?

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  19. GOD DID NOT GIVE THESE CHURCHES THE MANDATE TO JOIN COUPLES IN WEDLOCK.YOU WILL NOT SEE ANYWHERE IN THE BIBLE WHERE JESUS OR PETER AND OTHER APOSTLES "WEDDED PEOPLE". BABES, WHEN YA PAPA RECEIVE YA BRIDE PRICE, YOU DON MARRY BE DAT. IF YOU COME HOME TELL YA PAPA SAY YOU GET BELLE, IM GO DEY DANCE BE DAT. BUT COME TELL AM SAY PASTOR DON WED YOU AND SAY YOU DEY EXPECT; NO BE WAHALA BE DAT ONE? COMMON SENSE. ANYTHING WEY DE HAPPEN FOR CHURCH LATER NA just feasting be dat one o! Well sha Church people go attack me b/c na moni and advertisement that one dey bring for them. Na big dude talk am!

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  20. Polyandry.

    It's not our culture. She'll be called a prostitute. Besides, we live in a patriarchal society.

    From history - "The Irigwe people of Nigeria practiced a woman having co-husbands, until their council voted to outlaw it in 1968. Until then, women moved from house to house, taking on multiple spouses, and the children's paternity was assigned to the husband whose house the woman lived in at the time." Also, women in the ancient Amazon had multiple husbands, as well as men having multiple wives.

    Tilda Swinton anyone? She did it until recently.

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  21. It still doesn't make it right... Two wrongs don't make a right..
    Enjoy ur orgasm in Million naira account and properties then give account when you reach heaven.. N I mean both you and ur husband who is still chasing young undergraduates too..

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    1. Na lie...which heaven? So when men with different wives go to heaven, they would be patted on their back and welcomed abi. Please spare the details of heaven.

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  22. *passing by, licking lime and chewing my chewing stick*

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    1. Mr passing by chewing stick and lime,does this look like back of ur village market?take ur time o
      Oya go and sit under the mango tree in the middle of the market and finish dat work before u come out to where civilised pple are.
      Hahaha*runs away*

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  23. Anon 14, if he 'torches' you, you will burn ma.
    Abegy, free this woman.
    She has suffered enough.
    Thats if she's telling the truth

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  24. @stella I think woman should marry more than 5 husbands ok?like 10 children ,10 or 5 fathers,
    Germany ladies are doing it now,so no wahala

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  25. Some Nigerian ladies are marrying more than 2 men already,abi what do you call a lady who is simultaneously dating 2 or more men at the same time for years?
    i have witnessed an hausa girl who was living with a long term fiancé in london,who went to nigeria to do engagement with another guy without the london one's knowledge.
    and she was dribbling both of them with carefully crafted stories

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  26. The day I knew my marriage was over was the day I saw a email print outs and papers in one of his files about his main girlfriend whom he has been dating for 7 years now. Usually I would scream when I see hotel reservations for 2, flight tickets, shopping receipts etc and I would cry and make him explain and lie to me. But that day, I felt nothing but relief and happiness. No sadness, pain, hurt. Happiness because I had another document in my pile of documents I have been keeping as evidence. I met my manfriend on one of my numerous trips to different hotels and eateries to catch my husband. I had recived a call from an anonymous person that my husband was at a well known hotel in VI. I hurriedly left all I was doing so I could catch him, scream then cry all over again and beg him. I got to the room, knocked and a girl that looked 15 opened the door cos my husband was in the shower. I just looked at her and felt all the anger drain from me. Then I knew my husband was sick. The girl was a 1st year unilag student. I entered the room looked at him in the shower and made sure he say me and left. As I was rushing out of the hotel crying, I ran into the path of man and nearly knocked him over and fell. He helped me up and took me to a chair at the reception. He asked me what was wrong with me and I couldn't utter a word. Tears were just streaming down my face. He asked me if I had someone to drive me home because he wasn't going to allow me drive home in the state I was in. I said no. He asked the driver to drive my car and follow him while I got in his car with him and he drove me home. When we got to the gate of my house, he looked at me and said 'I know a man made you cry cos I can see your rings. You are too beautiful to be going around hotels crying and chasing after a man. If you die, he will move on with his life and another woman will take your place. Make yourself happy, nobody else would'. That was 3 years ago and that was when I found happiness again..... We were friends for a year plus before we started dating. He got me a better job, listened to me moan about my husband, consoled me, laughed with me, laughed at me. The time my husband went on a 'business trip' to london with his girlfriend and my child got sick, he got a driver to take us to the hospital, his driver picked my other kids from school for 2 weeks because I was always at the hospital with my last child, paid the bills, came to the hospital everyday for 2 weeks while my darling husband came back after 9 days in London. Even after all these, I didn't want to cheat on my husband and he didn't want to date a married woman too..... To be continued.....

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    1. Pls pls continue, Sounds so romantic.

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    2. Sweety... Pls I'm patiently waiting! Kai! Men!!smh

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    3. As you like it! Pls can u pls send this story to stella in full, kind of enjoying it although am not in support of ur action but our men could sometimes be blind.

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    4. Abeg dis one na nollywood movie o

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    5. Loool seems there is something about SDK blog that compels some people to post fictitious concotions as you know me I like long winded comments lool

      Out of all the times to knock on an hotel room door it is the pre use time your husband was in the shower that you go there second the girl knowing they are not expecting anyone or room service probably registered under an assumed name still freely opened the door without looking through the peep hole loool

      Which proper hotel on the island VI for that matter will not only admit your husband was in the hotel but gladly point you in the correct room or is the hotel a set of bungalow without a compound that you can see them go in the room and rush after them?lool
      Any staff will not even accept a bribe because they will instantly lose their job once your husband complains or the drama starts unless you have paid them millions

      While you were rushing downstairs of all the men you could meet you didn't barge into me James the plumber you didn't barge into domestus the waiter
      You didn't barge into an ordinary average NIG man na correct big boy you barged into who just happened to fall in love at first sight who just happened to leave everything he had come to do at that hotel and follow you a total stranger home

      Your story is nice but pls don't designate fiction as true story we are not mumus madam Stella can help you post but even she cannot convince me that this is true

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  27. still THE MAN WRITING; @ Anonymous 9.00pm. Thanks immensely for your insightful question. YOU MUST HAVE SEEN THE WORDS OF REFERENCE. WE STARTED WITH THE "PERFECTION OF MARRIAGE".
    2. This perfection of love is only for one man, one wife in the New Covenant:

    2 Corinthians 11:2 I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.
    LET'S SEE OTHER SCRIPTURES;

    POLYGAMY(A MAN WITH TWO WIVES) IS NOT GOD'S INTENTION FOR HUMANS, IT HAPPENED IN THE O.T. B/C OF MAN'S FALLEN STATE AFTER EDEN.
    Matthew 19:8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
    Matthew 5;17 17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.

    What you read above is the fulfillment of the law of marriage; CHRIST AND THE CHURCH -A BRIDE ESPOUSED TO ONE MAN (BRIDEGROOM)
    Thanks for reading.

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  28. still THE MAN WRITING; @ Anonymous 9.00pm. Thanks immensely for your insightful question. YOU MUST HAVE SEEN THE WORDS OF REFERENCE. WE STARTED WITH THE "PERFECTION OF MARRIAGE".
    2. This perfection of love is only for one man, one wife in the New Covenant:

    2 Corinthians 11:2 I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.
    LET'S SEE OTHER SCRIPTURES;

    POLYGAMY(A MAN WITH TWO WIVES) IS NOT GOD'S INTENTION FOR HUMANS, IT HAPPENED IN THE O.T. B/C OF MAN'S FALLEN STATE AFTER EDEN.
    Matthew 19:8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
    Matthew 5;17 17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them.

    What you read above is the fulfillment of the law of marriage; CHRIST AND THE CHURCH -A BRIDE ESPOUSED TO ONE MAN (BRIDEGROOM)
    Thanks for reading.

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  29. Anonymous said:
    And y didn't he create 2 Eves and 1 Adam?
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    ANSWER: SIMPLE, BECAUSE IT IS BAD; AS IN WRONG; AS IN SINFUL; AS IN INIQUITY.

    GOD FROWNS AT A MAN WHO TAKES TWO WIVES. SINCERELY, NO WOMAN WILL LIKE ANOTHER WOMAN TO COME IN TO HER MARRIAGE. DID NOT CHRIST TEACH THAT WE SHOULD DO TO OTHERS AS WE WOULD LIKE THEM TO DO TO US AND THAT IT IS THE SUM OF THE LAW AND THE PROPHETS. LADIES, WILL YOU LIKE ANOTHER WOMAN TO COME AND BE A SECOND WIFE TO YOUR HUSBAND? IF NO THEN DO NOT BE A SECOND WIFE TO ANOTHER WOMAN'S HUSBAND. DO NOT ENCOURAGE YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE A SECOND WIFE TO ANOTHER WOMAN'S HUSBAND.

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  30. @ as you like it...... my husband kept malice with me stopped providing for me and called me all sort of names cos i sent my maid out of my home whom he claimed he is not sleeping with.....so my question now is dt wetin cm dey pepper am if he no dey fuck her pussy?

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  31. Anonymous 6:25pm. Pls leave her alone. Am a gal and I understand what she really went thru. Experience is d best teacher. Do u know how it really feels for u to find out ur spouse is cheating on u with gals younger dan u? Do u know d kind of pains she went thru? I really support whatever decision she's taken. Men are born liars and cheats. Babygal pls enjoy ur life jare and do whateva makes u happy. If u kill urself with high BP who will take care of ur children. Y is it dat Nigerians av dis mentality of always ignorin when a man cheats on his wife bt always screamin Prostitute if its d wife? To all d people preachin 4 her... Abeg take several seats jare...

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  32. This blog is getting very interesting. First it was Franca E that came and told us some cock and bull story. She even threatened to show the Pastor "Level of Grace" American Wonder if he dares her. Then we heard she is running scared like a chicken. Now this faceless woman is serenading us with her story of being "Naija Cat woman" and we are swallowing it Hook Line and sinker.

    Madam "my boyfriend is a BILLIONAIRE and my account gives me orgasm" this your script for better if to say you give am Nse Etim make she produce. Oh I forgot, She has already done something similar!!!

    Abeg take several bench!!!!

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    1. Bad belle!! Don't worry ur own billionaire will come.

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  33. I just read about this...... in vanguard newspaper. one Adedoyin ajaba who later became Adedoyin okoro who is now Adedoyin Ogunmefun has and is still married to two men and they both want her and they are all in court now. Wonders shall never end. Also because of the ajaba I was curious and found out she is Sumbo ( Tuface baby mama) elder sister.

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  34. Anon 8.14pm, you see how warped your logic is? Because God did not create 2 eves for Adam, thats why it is satanism. Why isn't God creating your wife from your ribs these days? He should have continued to make every man sleep when its time to marry and create wife for him.
    @anon 10:17pm how does God frown at the man with 2 wives? Why didn't He frown at Jacob? Why didn't He frown at Elkannah? Why didn't he frown at David? Abi are you insinuating that God has CHANGED????
    I do not know which God you are referring to but If its the One that said, "I am the LORD, I change not" you need to study HIS word and don't go adding and removing.

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  35. But God did not create two eves and one adam, either so marry two wives should as well be satanism...if you are using that as a basis to write-off polyandry then it makes little sense.

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  36. Why write in Capital letters tho?. It seems boringn tedious and tiring to read. Good point tho

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  37. But God did not create two eves and one adam, either so marry two wives should as well be satanism...if you are using that as a basis to write-off polyandry then it makes little sense.

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  38. Foolish Nigerian men. They are idiots! Come and see them here in London misbehaving. Owon oni ranu. Any woman that can do it should go ahead joor. Kini big deal. They dont care about the poor wife, there own is to enjoy. Ingrates! Girlfriends in every corner plus they are the biggest liars. Let marriage be scraped joor. God no go vex when he hears the woes Nigerian men have caused. Why should i go to a psychiatric home because of one oloshi. Shior

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  39. Ohhhh dis woman story de tuff ohhh abeg continue....happy 4 u sha cus he doesn't deserve u

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  40. You are committing Adultery Ma.the minute u slept wiv that man,u put urself on the same level of sin wiv ur husband.I'm not condeming you,how can I?who am I to judge?only God truly knows the hell uve been thru,but if u want to be wiv ur widower friend,confess ur sin to God,stay off adultery,divorce ur husband and den u can marry ur friend.ur husband has already fulfilled the biblical ground for divorce,but u stayn on and sinning isn't the best foundation for ur new relationship.before God formed U ma,he knew U,he knows U made a fatal mistake when u decided to marry ur husband,but pls don't make a worse one by putting God in the back seat of the affairs of ur life.u may be happy now,but wivout God?for how long?anything outside God,is pointless,let God take the lead,even wiv ur new man.pls stop committing Adultery. Think God.

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  41. 2 Holes down there for 2 "Gilagilas"

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  42. Oo boi! Stella please post the rest of "as u like it " story abeg... Sounds like a nollywood movie I tell you.
    My dear ppl judging, I'm sure most of the ones judging are d single ones. Marriage is not easy oo especially on our women but like they say ... " who no go no know how far".. So don't be quick to judge someone until you have walked in their shoes....
    I rest my case..

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  43. Naa Nollywood movie script be this o jare.. Madam anonymous cheater abeg waka far, no come dey deceive us for here.. there is absolutely no justification for cheating.. Cheating is cheating whether naa man or woman.. Equality should be our watch word..

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  44. Amarachukwu just adding to that debate. God didn't bless polygamy. Now look at what trailed all of them as a result of their polygamous lifestyles.

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  45. As u like it pls continue. Ur story dey sweet me 4 body. Sum men need to be dealt with.

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  46. The straw that broke the carmel back was the day my husband flew to Benin without letting me know. I was queued up in one filling station during one of the fuel scarcity wahala when I got a call from someone asking if I could come to a hospital in benin. I told the person I didn't know anyone in Benin and he must be calling the wrong person. He insisted and said he got my number from a phone and went ahead and called my husband's name. He went through the contents of my husbands wallet with me on the phone. I nearly fainted.... This was someone that told me he was going to Abuja on an office errand and he would be back in 2 days.... I was in my house praying for my husband's safe trip to Abuja and covering the flight and captain of the plane with the blood of jesus.... I quickly called my ever attentive best friend and made arrangement for my kids to go to her house while I took a chartered car to Benin that evening.... It was when I got there that I met the taxi man carrying my husband when he had the accident and he told me he picked my husband from a University convocation. My husband has only a brother and he doesn't have close relatives in Uni... I already knew he lied to me but I didn't want to fuss cos I wanted to wait until he got better. Besides, he was on heavy pain killers and always drowsy. When I got my husband's electronic gadgets, I saw red! You see, we have a standing rule in the house. We wouldn't lock our phones in case of emergency but we shouldn't check each other's phone and we should respect each other's privacy. My husband made the rule because of a major incident I had when I fell sick and they couldn't reach my husband cos my phone was locked and I went ahead with it. Reason being that I needed the phone unlocked anyway so as to snoop in the middle of the night or when he is in the shower. Lol. Back to the main story.... I saw BB messages from a girl asking for money for convocation party, dresses etc and my husband sending name of hotels and time of arrival. My husband sent the girl 500k for her convocation. This was someone that told me before he left that he would have to withdraw 800k from my kid's account cos he needed to do something urgent with the money and would payback the next week. He usually does long term treasury bills and fixed deposit with his funds and he had just renewed it so he couldn't get money out. He took money from my kid and gave to a girl. Chai! I have suffered o. That I can laugh today is by the grace of God! If that was the only thing I saw, I would have been OK. I saw a hell lot more. More than 80 percent of my husband's bb friends are girls... Girls he would organise outtings, dinners etc with. Exchanging nude pictures in BB groups etc. Pictures of him and different girls on vacations etc. Even knowing all these I stood by him and nursed him until he got better. You know the first thing he did when he got better? He went to Ghana to 'calm his nerves'! Without me. With one of his girlfriends. I have suffered in my marriage my dearies. I lost most of my friends cos of my husband. I didn't keep close friends cos my husband would always end up sleeping with them or asking them out thereby embarrasing me. I was suspicious of everyone and anyone. So many issues.... The verbal abuses, cold shoulders, cheating, denying me sex, sleeping with people I know etc. When I was battling my ulcer, my husband would call me 'all bone, no flesh' if we have a misunderstanding.

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    1. Hugssss... I can relate... I know d bible talks about divorce not being good, but u know,this our God has a way of doing his things..I still wonder how david that had so many wives plus concubines was a man after Gods heart.. He was a big time fonicator and all.. My dear,if the new man makes u happy,y not leave this present one and start afresh..it crazy when u sleep with 2 men... Its your life sha,your choice..

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  47. He told me one day that the day he married me, he was the envy of all men because of how beautiful I was but that I had turned into a skeleton. That it would have been better for him if I added weight sef instead of drying up. I suffered o! Lol. Each day, I would mix egovin, malt and complan milk and drink all to add weight. If I may say so myself, I'm not ugly. I won best new face and most sought after girl in my 1st year in Uni. And most beautiful girl in my department for 3 years. All through the while my husband was abusing me, guys were asking me out but I would always tell them off. Most people don't believe I even have a kid talk more of 3. I cook, clean, do everything all by myself. The 2 househelps I got ended up sleeping with my husband and another male one was always touching my daughter inappropriately so I don't have househelps. I got to work, close by 4 and go home to my kids. That was my life before I met my man friend. Now, everything has changed for the better. With my husband in Abuja and busy with his girls, I am here loving my life and taking care of my kids. He always gives excuses for not coming to Lagos often and I just tell him 'take your time darling. I know you are so busy and missing us. But we will be here whenever you find time.' Hahahahaha. I have a better paying job, a personal business that is growing from strength to strength and a man that his first priority is to make me happy. I didn't break my marriage first, my husband did. God knows I tried to make it work. But when it came to choosing between happiness and sadness, I chose happiness. I chose life, joy, fulfillment and a better future. The funny thing is that now my husband is more attentive but its too late. A lot of water has passed under the bridge. He sends flowers, daily morning and night messages, always trying to organise weekends away together. Making love to my husband now is a chore I have to do just cos its expected of me. I'm just counting the days. Its 18months and 7 days today for my last child to be 10.... 18months and 7 days and I will be free! Even if I don't marry my manfriend, I shall finally be free from the bondage I have been in for the past 11 years. I thank God for my manfriend and I bless the day I met him. May God keep him for me! Sorry for the typos and long story.

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  48. If dis is hw marriage is...I beta remain single

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  49. Stella dear, so sorry. I should have sent the complete story to you. I don't mind if you decide to make it a post though. To other people, I didn't post my story for you to judge or pity me... But for you to understand me... I don't feel guiltyy, I don't feel remorseful and I don't feel bad.... I feel happy!!! Thanks all. Love ya Stella! Kiss kiss!

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    1. Carry go jare! Aunty stella I told my husband once if u marry another wife I will marry another man n we can all live together happily 50-50 no cheating. I will do wot this lady is doing with no remorse or shame but my husband is one of the best things ever, if he is cheating I definitely don't know about it.

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  50. @as u like it,ur story is so touching..Men are just too wicked!

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  51. Hmmmm @ super story. You can't really comment unless you are in such shoes. It's sad so many women are going through these things. Two wrongs don't make a right and your husband fell into the hands of a strange woman and that's what changed him.

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  52. It's your life babe, live it how you want!

    If you think it's all about the millions your manfriend has deposited in your account, then you have missed the goal.
    Is your husband right to be doing all that? No way, he is not! You took the easy way out rather than standing by your man to fight the evil girls he is frolicking with. And you missed the trophy by so doing..no, the trophy is not the millions but you will eventually know what it is except you retrace your steps.

    You must have read about the story of how a woman got her husband back since you are on the net. She confirmed the man was cheating because she caught him in the process. She never raised a word but went home and prepared the man's food, welcome him from his outing where she caught him and placed his food on the table.
    The man was waiting for the woman to attack him (all the devil needed to ruin their homes), she never did and the man became afraid. He could not eat and had to go talk to the woman, confessing he did her wrong and seriously apologising. The apologies got intense when the woman said he did nothing wrong and everything was fine. The man had to go confess what he did to people so they could beg the woman. The woman eventually accepted and it was all the man needed to amend his ways. It was a dark patch in their relationship but the marriage survived.

    It is all up to us what we do but we also must live with the consequences. Believe me, I am so scared of what is ahead of you but can only appeal to go get your man back. A lost sheep needs to be found, there is a reason you are his wife.

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    1. My dear you need to compare apples to apples u hear? U are telling of a man that has conscience this woman's husband obviously doesn't have it and doesn't care. Have u also not heard of women that lost their lives directly or indirectly as a result of bad husbands???
      Did u read where she left her kids to go and nurse the man after his accident only for him to recover and go to cool off in Ghana with another babe...
      You must be single and under the illusion that once you marry u must let the man kill you to prove ur undying love..
      Abeg take bench jare... Mschewww!

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    2. Story!! U neva jam naija man. Who will beg n confess? How many outings will u prepare food for him to eat? How many women even see their husbands more than once a week?

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  53. I am posting another comment since I just read the last part of your post.
    I cannot not judge you at all but why wait till your child is 10 before leaving your husband? You may have your reasons but you are playing a very dangerous game that you cannot win.
    It feels good right now because of the level of anger you have. And you will surely have gone with any man at the point you met your manfriend.
    Your posting here is also to justify yourself, you owe us no explanations. Some of us have worse experiences, working through them is a challenge we have resolved to take up.
    Wish you the best but remember that our lives are in God's hand. Since your child's 10th birthday is far away, you just might pay the ultimate price if you don't close out on this issue before then.

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  54. As you like it...Wat if ur hubby gets to read this? or better still, one if his girls draws his attention to it?
    No matter Wat we do in life, let's remember there is a God and salvation is a personal concern....

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  55. @as you like it, i'm sooooo loving your story! just had to comment. All of you that are preaching heaven and earth here, i'm pretty sure that if you were in her shoes, you'd do wayyy worse so please dont judge. The husband apparently doesnt just disregard her, but the kids too. If the kids dont sense any form of happiness amongst any of their parents, then the marriege is pointless. She endured way more than the average nigerian woman would stand for. My darling, your happiness and that of your children is so much more important than your pathetic husband!YOLO!!1 Ride on sista! bless your poor heart. byeeeeeeeeee

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  56. My God it should be allowed and accepted! I'd love to Marry 4 men at once mehn is gonna be soo hot!

    Ghanagirl

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  57. Sometimes I laugh at married women. Were you dating married men and doing runs before you married? Yes, check yourself. Did you or your mother use diabolic means to hook your man? Yes, check yourself.
    You now marry and when the man's head turns you are wondering what's going on. You slept with other peoples husbands as a single girl and they will sleep with your own too. Karma always comes back. This story repeats itself day in day out everywhere.

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    1. You fool! I married as a virgin at the age of 20 and my mother is late you stupid judgemental idiot! You think everyone is like you. Idiot!

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  58. i want to ask why pple always say don't judge when story like dis come up what is d real meaning of judgement? Dat some1 fornicate or adultery if u say it is bad does dat mean u have judge d person?Ђôẃ den can we stop doing evil things if nobody speak? Why do everybody said killed those who commit murder of those innocent four boys in ph and d recent ones it is not judging?or kill d robbers or kidnapers are they not d same sin as adultery and fornication?before God every sin are equal and will be judge accordingly. From woman to woman change ur ways and take of ur home u have gotten enough remember all dat gliters are not gold

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  59. As you like it typical gutter language from a whore. You are a slut I hope you know that. Sorry for marrying as a virgin. You are now tasting all the men you should have tasted before marrying. Who begged you to tell your lies. Luca has caught you out. God knows what your husband will say about you? You are dirty, dry in bed, a lesbian, rude, brainless and what not. Remember there are two sides to a story. Your mother will be rolling in her grave. It's obvious you have no home training. Signed a happily married woman who didn't marry as a virgin, dated single guys in University, went on to further my studies, got married and sex with my husband and just him is the end of the road. If anything goes wrong, I have my family and God to guide me. It's obvious you have no one and think with your congo. You are dirt itself.

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    1. Y don't u face your own husband / family while she faces hers... In d end,who has slept with more men in their life time.. You!.. U go school o,u no marry as virgin o,u are hapilly married o,all dat one na your business... Leave d woman biko and stop claiming perfect.. Abi did ur husband tell his gf dat u have cancer and will soon die? Or are his gfs calling you telling u to die already.. With the tone u take write this comment,I bet u can't take it ! So leave d woman biko,and if u claim u can take, beg God to put u in her situation..ish.

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    2. Mrs happily married! Dey dia de deceive ur foolish self.
      So all the women that have loose husbands followed married men when they were single abi and the others use jazz to hook the man abi?
      And u say u go school. U must have gone to a night school abeg. And that's even elevating u cos u just de show us say na water full ur head not brain so how u take go d sch.? Ode ... Anu mpama

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    3. My dear leave mrs happily married to be living in her hateful fools paradise.
      By the way if you spend ur time reading gossip on Stella's blog your perfect husband may have something imperfect about u to grumble about....
      Unamikot!!!

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    4. Help me tell her ooooo.madam,u worse pass ds woman in question.u went to ur marriage bed defiled.dat says a lot abt u too hun(dat too,is against d scriptures).at least,she was pushed to d walls....Only God knows if u won't do worse if u were in her situation.so femme la bouche!

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    5. Abegy who dash am happy marriage?
      That one na for her mind .
      Dash her millionaire sef not billionaire even u go see different level...
      Retired runs girl. E de vex u say u bin do ur own runs with no pay... U come here to form "I slept with diff men b4 I got married" oya Stella abeg give am award na...
      Osho free na em worse pass u hear... Onuku

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  60. Abeg SDK end this ashewo's story. Others will read it and think it's the life. She's a disgrace to womanhood. I hope her husband is reading this.

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    1. Nobody invited u to this forum so if u don't like it exit already

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  61. I understand.

    Yes, my Christian believe is saying it is wrong, but my womanly instinct is hooting at the roof top for you!

    It is who wears the shoes knows where it pinches. Let this be between you and God and no man, because He sees and knows everything.

    Please when you divorce him, have a sincere repentance as David did in Psalm 51. God is just and faithful to forgive. Best of luck.

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  62. meant 'rooting for you and not 'hooting for you :)

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  63. as you like it, i must say u are a very strong woman for taking all these. For those attacking her just pray u dnt experience half of the things she went through cus u may do worse. I will say do more of what makes you happy as long as you walk in the light of God. Don't forget it's all about Jesus and his opinion abt u. I pray he directs ur path cus ur joy will be complete when u find him. All the best. For those of us not married, may God's blessing of a husband not bring sorrow into our lives in Jesus Name Amen.

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  64. WITH LOVE FROM A DOCTOR: AS YOU LIKE IT; SUPPOSING YOUR HUSBAND IS HIV+ OR HAS GOT SOME OTHER SERIOUS STDs AND YOU'VE EVEN GOTTEN IT AND INCUBATING THE THING IN WINDOW PERIOD -OR EVEN FROM YOUR "MAN FRIEND"? yes THEY ARE BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHER. DO YOU KNOW THE STD WE DOCTORS CALL "THE GREAT MIMICKER"? THE ONE THAT CAN FINISH YOUR HEART AND YOUR BRAIN CELLS WHILE YOU ARE ALIVE AND BOASTING ABOUT YOUR "MAN FRIEND" AND CONQUESTS. FINALLY, YOUR KIDS DO NOT HAVE DAD OR MOM . . . AND WHAT OF ALL YOUR MILLIONS, ALL YOUR HOUSES AND ALL YOUR ORGASMS? OH MY GOODNESS . . . HOW SMART SATAN IS . . . EVER SO DECEIVING FOLKS AND WEAK WILLED LADIES INTO THE ABYSS OF HELL.

    Mark 8:36 36 For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
    37 Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?

    WHEN HE STARTED SWIMMING IN ADULTERY, WHY DIDN'T YOU DIVORCE HIM (AT LEAST THE SCRIPTURE GAVE YOU THAT OPTION; Matthew 5:32 etc.) INSTEAD OF DOING THE SAME.

    There is time you know; TO REPENT AND BELIEVE IN JESUS WHO DIED FOR YOU. BELOVED "LADY CeC", I'M PRAYING FOR YOU ESPECIALLY THIS NIGHT. YOU WILL SERVE JESUS IN SPIRIT AND IN TRUTH AND HE WILL SAVE YOU FROM THE TEARS TO COME AND WIPE AWAY ALL YOUR TEARS TRULY

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  65. As you like as anon August 27, 2013 at 5:50 PM or your lesbian partner is here to support you. Omashe o. Whores the lot of you.

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    1. Abegi! Make we hear word...u dey come here dey claim Mrs Perfect,pls focus for your life abeg..U are d bigger Whore and a liar too

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  66. @ Anonymous 90, Amen to your prayers o for Anonymous 88, I think she needs to have a taste of what as you like it went through. She is also bitter about how well she's doing.

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    1. Abi o, amo iru won (we know their types)..Bad belle people

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  67. If her husband knows, he knows. I doubt it if she cares.

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  68. I always say "Ladies don't marry as virgins" pls. Most people I know that married as virgins can't keep their homes(sorry to say that) but its true and I don't blame them. I don't know if the men are taking them for granted or they just can't tell a good man from a useless liability. Its not worth it! Groove moderately as a single lady.

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    1. Y kain advise b dis again? Well I know women that married as virgins that have a happy home and faithful husband.. Trust is,when u wan marry,marry your size,no go carry oversize,man wey u no fit handle go marry

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    2. Do you really know a lot of women that married as virgins that are happy? That's not the point anyway. When she was dating her husband that's if she dated him at all, she would have seen all this nasty behaviour his exibiting now. When ladies marry they expect the men to change and they don't, and when men marry they expect the women to remain the same and they don't.

      Madam I feel your pain nobody man or woman should ever have to go through the emotional torture you went through, having said that pls and pls for God's sake and also for your children's sake because your husband remains the father of your kids forever nobody can take that away from him, leave the man, divorce him, don't sleep with another man and come and sleep with him, that's so wrong! God bless you as you make the right decisions in your life.

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  69. I forgot to add, when you are ready to settle nothing will seem new to you also nothing will excite you.

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  70. Ow is she a dsgrace to womanhood?nd if shes,what abt d man dat slps around?PJ

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  71. As you like it,may happiness never delude you....you are on the right path,marriage is not a do or die affair....the risk you took by staying put is you could have been infected by HIV ,go get tested coz Nigerian men never use condoms.

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  72. If d woman is a ho as u cussed her, what would u call her husband?
    Disgrace 2 womanhood? what abt d man biko?
    Why would u be cussing mothers bcus u want 2 make a point? Did u no what your own mother did?
    Leave her alone! It's her life & nt yours!
    mschewww!

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  73. d mistresses r nt whores abi?
    they r nt a disgrace 2 womanhood ehn?
    go & read how a banker died after having marathon sex wt his mistress an undergraduate!
    is it nt d wife & children that would suffer d loss?
    a fellow woman opens mouth & call another a whore!
    u nko? have u nt slept wt several men b4 marriage?
    what do u call yourself?
    whether d story is fiction or truth, things do happen 4 d fact that it has nt happened 2 us or people we know, it should nt be mocked at!
    sterra babe! i hail u o jare!like ur blog well!!!!
    some comments suppose nt 2 b published so as nt 2 discourage people from speaking out.
    btw i wonder if it's a man that wrote that comment?
    bcus na dem body go dey pepper pass! :)

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  74. As you like it, I can tell this is a tough call for you. I pray God give you the strength, wisdom and grace to do the right thing regardless. Peace and God bless

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  75. With love from a doctor: as you like it; supposing your husband is hiv+ or has got some other serious stds and you've even gotten it and incubating the thing in window period -or even from your "man friend"? yes they are birds of the same feather. do you know the std we doctors call "the great mimicker"? The one that can finish your heart and your brain cells while you are alive and boasting about your "man friend" and conquests. Finally, your kids do not have dad or mom . . . and what of all your millions, all your houses and all your orgasms? oh my goodness . . . how smart Satan is . . . ever so deceiving folks and weak willed ladies into the abyss of hell.

    Mark 8:36 36 for what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?
    37 or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?

    When he started swimming in adultery, why didn't you divorce him (at least the scripture gave you that option; Matthew 5:32 etc.) instead of doing the same.

    Now is time you know; to repent and believe in Jesus who died for you. Beloved "lady cec", I’m praying for you especially this night. you will serve Jesus in spirit and in truth and he will save you from the tears to come and wipe away all your tears truly
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  76. Tales by Moonlight... hahaha. The truly sad thing is that As You Like It can't seem to find happiness on her own. She needs a rich "widower" man to save her from another man so she can find happiness. Hahahahahahaha! Pure foolishness. Most women that find themselves in your position are just happy to get out alive with their kids intact.

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  77. Some dumb whore typed this? By the way if you spend ur time reading gossip on Stella's blog your perfect husband may have something imperfect about u to grumble about. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha we read it together. Up yours. See her runs prostitute supporters supporting prostitution. Birds of the same feathers. I bet you all sleep with your Pastor's too. Over and out. Disgusting people.

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    1. Over and out ! And please stay out.
      Mrs holier than thou !
      Go pound yam for ur perfect oga and don't come back here reading about whores unless of course you are like minded...
      Delusionaly sad and miserable woman forming "happily married"
      Olodo...

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  78. @ anon August 28, 2013 at 5:26 AM gbam. Tell the prostitute. She has now gone under to comment as anon. Shameful belewu.

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  79. that is my girl! I like that spirit. Am tied of those 'mushrooming' marriage chancellors advising women to stick into their marriage even if they are victims of abuse! The bible says the bible says.... like real? am not sure if the bible wants one to suffer in the name of marriage. SO, madam, i agree with you. wish you happiness.

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  80. I feel urslf bitterness. as u like it. urslf husband. made u bitter and heartless so no one should judge u
    who know if dat it GOd dat hear urslf cry and decided. to make u happy dat u deserve to u

    yinks

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  81. Speak for yourself. You obviously don't know what it must feel like to go into marriage fully with your spirit soul and body and sacrifice all for your family only for an u deserving he goat to throw all that hard work in pit toilet and rub all over your face.
    You don't even need to experience it. Watch some home videos my dear some of them are actualy based on true stories.
    I pray u Neva experience such but pls leave this woman alone cos you don't know what you would do.
    Some women slowly kill their husbands with poison sef..
    Just pray it Neva happens to someone you care about, much less you.

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  82. All the single ladies, all the single ladies. Jealous women. Go and find husbands oh and leave your runs alone. Awon ashewo kobo kobo.

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  83. I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how i got my ex lover back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another woman,l in a couple of months ago,But when i meet a friend that introduce me to Dr kate the great spell-caster,I narrated my problem to Dr kate about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days, My love called me on the phone and was apologizing for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to plead for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i apply for to work as a manager,I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Dr kate at the following email address and get all your problems solved..No problem is too big for him to solve.Email him on: katelovespell@hotmail.com ,and all your problems will be solved and you will be glad at last.

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