I have a friend who is like my sister from another mama.when i want to talk to someone,i call her and she listens....she is everyone's best friend because of the kind of heart she has...too kind!
She will be reading this because she reads this blog but i took permission from her to do this post but leave out names...someone might be going through this and needs to sit up before it is too late!
My friend has been sick for a while and her sickness slowly progressed to the stage that she almost died a week ago if not for God's intervention in the carefully orchestrated plan of her house girl who was poisoning her slowly so she would die and she (the housegirl) would inherit her husband!.....Inherit him after her mama dolphin laced tohtoh had blindfolded him!
The long explanation would be too much but the most important thing is that it took the visit of someone else who eavesdropped on the housegirls conversation to decode what was happening.
The effect of the poison on my friend left her weak, had made her loose almost all of her hair and she had been tested for every kind of sickness,most times the doctors ended up treating for typhoid and malaria....All in vain!
This happened in a space of six months.
The housegirl is from Neighbouring countries surrounding Nigeria's borders.
This housegirl respected the living daylight out of Madam and showed so much love,it would have been wicked to point a finger at her without proof.
She was fucking the man in the house!.
If you are reading this and you have a story to tell,please do so and help save the lives of others,my friend is on the path to recovery but someone else might not be lucky.
If you suspect anything,please act now...check the signs.
have you been constantly ill and the doctors cannot say for a fact why?is your hair falling out and you think its the weave you constantly wear?Are you loosing weight?loss of appetite?
My friend survived but needs proper medical care,there is poison in her blood,its been six months and she was supposed to die slowly and it would have all looked so normal.!!!!
Shine your eyes and be alert..it could also be a male househelp poisoning oga because he is in love with Madam!
*I am still in tears of thanksgiving to God for sparing my friend from the lovecrazed housegirl.
Me I no get house help ooo.I handle my home my own way.me and my husband dey share domestic chores
ReplyDeleteLol@ your name. You know BJ is a woman abi?
DeleteI won't be surprised if the househelp was gotten from cotonu. That's how they behave. There's a Naija man who owns one of the most powerful organisations in Benin Rep. of recent, he's been having problems with his health, and even went to the states for surgery. Anytime I see the girl responsible for cooking his meals, my intuition keeps telling me she's giving him mild dosage of poisonous substance with his meals, such that the reaction is not immediate and traceable. It's only God that saves.
DeleteLinda Eze...so common sense does not tell u ur child's pic should be there????
DeleteSorry, I keep forgetting dat common sense is not so common afterall.
kai this is wickedness. . .
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I know of a lady whose house help poisoned her tea. She died and the house help snatched her white man.
ReplyDeleteI know of a lady whose house help poisoned her tea. She died and the house help snatched her white man.
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ReplyDeleteYes o, a big sis gave me her story of how her husband was being feed daily with efo riro laced with period blood, so the maid could marry her oga. These girls are evil. Some of them are even prettier than madam, cook better and take care of the kids better. Some women are so lazy, housemaid does everything, including washing his pants, making his bed, and cooking for him!!!. How she no go aspire to be madam. Women, wise up. Never allow your maid to be too familiar with your husband. Once that starts, time for her to go. Quit being lazy! Take charge of your home. They are evil spirits.
ReplyDeleteExactly!never allow them to be familiar with ur husband!
DeleteMine is just ok dou I still monitor her thru my 3D,and I pray God everyday she should not change,I still never let her join any issues with my hubby or vice versa!
I make sure she reports every house related issues and even her personal issues to me even dou its hubby that brought her.with that d communication gap is created.
So if suddenly suddenly they start getting familiar,u can easily code.
Had to tell a colleague to watch herself but I sounded like a prophet of doom to her!:her hubby and maid do every together eg going for shopping,church,take kids to function etc while she just chills at home acting madam at d top' told her she will soon be on a very long ting,she didn't listen,
Lo and behold it came to pass,the rest is history.!most men are weak and get easily attached to whoever meets their needs in any way.
God keep evil and ambitious maids off my lane forever IJN.amen
I can't even hire a househelp cos househelp nowadays are evil and deadly. Thank God she survived.
ReplyDeleteI just know I cant take househelp, my fiance was saying it the oda time, and I told him my NO. I saw a moive like that, its bin lung tho, the relatives told the maid to poison the rich parents in oda to inherit them, it was a slow poison like this, they died, buh the daughter later came ohm to take ova evrytin.... Am hapy for your frnd, she's just lucky. Thank God..... Househelp for me, No thanks.: TEEMAH
ReplyDeleteThank God for your friends life. Wishing her speedy recovery. Anyway, na una for naija wey get time for house help. I don't have that luxury to pay a child minder £20 per hour, so I try to enjoy the stress living without a help, it will not last forever, d kids will definitely grow up surely.
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Hehehe...my dear!
DeleteHere it is me and me alone with my kids
If hubby is there to help fine, if not i do my thing jare.
It is even better here, but house help for naija...Chukwu Ajuu...
U can lie. £20/hr for which sort of child minded? How much do proper British nannies take then? My friend gerrout
DeleteI still can't understand how people take such high risk of bringing in a total stranger to live with them in the name of house help!
ReplyDeleteFor goodness sakes! Your comfort zone is no longer comfortable!
Quite agreed, some are good, but majority are terrible! Can't deal abeg! My family is too precious.
A good relation living with you maybe better than an outright stranger/schemer.
....and yes S to D K, you are right bout houseboy might be plotting to take madam.
I know a wealthy family whose driver got into a hot romance with madam and Oga was killed. driver is now married to madam and spending late oga's money like he knew how it was made.
A lot of things are happening. Prevention is always better than cure.
Thank God for the life of your friend.
Joma?
Deletebloglord...what do u do for a living? u seem to be, read, and constantly comment on any naija social website...i bet u do not have a girlfriend....leila
DeleteToo much familiarity breeds contempt. Most families don't need live - in help anyway but do so because they are affordable with dire consequences.
ReplyDeleteNigerians should try and cultivate the habit of having house service done during the day by the help and let them go home, it's safer.
Twitter peep or follow @ DSmartNigerian.
Hmmm,na wa o
ReplyDeleteNa real wa!
DeleteAnd to think my friend is looking for a housegirl!
Mbanu! Girl come hear wetin house girls dey do o!
You know stella dis shit happens every day and even right under our nose..am a witness my mum infact died and God brought her back if not for her kind heart am sure. By now shld be 3yrs remembrance..I urge every woman/man out there to be on alert..even though some ppl till now don't believe shit cld be diabolical or spiritual..it happens!!tot cut my own story short my dad's sister was killing my mum gradually without my mum knowing..she will come to our house and cook etc and stand for my mum when shit gets funny in d village not knowing whatever. Clothe,money,food stuff my mum gives her she sacrifices it to evil covens,well things got weird when u could literally hear stuff on my mums stomach rumbling and moving round..just if not for God stella!!!!she for don die..but thanks to God,she was healed and that my aunt died d same day my mum was able to recover and stand up by herself..till date that shit still scares me and its unbelieveable but I can give more dettails and experience if u want.. #y'all gotta be careful.. U can't trust no1 even ur own husbands/wife..evil no dey show for face
ReplyDeleteThank God for ur mum's life...
DeleteAdvice taken...I don't trust easily o,even hubby.
When he acts funny with his people, I go guard myself up straight...no careless eating, nothing from him, increase my prayer everything o
D heart of a Nigerian man/ woman is desperately wicked...Hian, I dey shine my eyes wella...no step mum for my children o...Heavens forbid.
Caught my 4yrs old daughter lickin my niece pussy,nearly killed her and sent her back 2 her parents in d north by night bus
DeleteRead wot u wrote nd be more explanatory
DeleteJESUS !!!
DeleteMo Gbe!!!
DeleteHousehelps ehn... Tnk God we neva had any nd I'd try nt 2 hv 1 wen I gt married..
ReplyDeleteJesus Christ!!!
ReplyDeleteThe heart of man is truly WICKED!!!
Thank God for your friend's life.
May God help us all.
Amen
Blood ofJesus
ReplyDeleteNawaaa
ReplyDeleteDemonize househelps however u want but from my personal experiences,i don't blame househelps who do terrible things to their employers especially in Nigeria because majority of Nigerians treat their househelps BADLY!!!! Househelps,CARRY ON!!!
ReplyDeleteHousegirl, you are busy browsing instead of doing your chores. Fly away from here.
DeleteOloshi radarada.
If you can afford it,get hidden cams in specific areas of your home. Who else saw the nanny in indonesia slamming a baby repeatedly on the floor? Its on youtube. The cams caught her in the sadistic act! I know of a church member,whose maid confessed during deliverance session,that she peed and pooped in their meals. She had no reason to, cos they treated her like family. The madam finally understood why her maid rejected food sometimes.The heart of man is desperately wicked I tell you. And pls,men,stop sleeping with the maid just because you can!
ReplyDeleteMay God grant her quick recovery.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, na wa o. Househelps are just a necessary evil sha
ReplyDeleteSounds like dis so-called househelp is still living wif ur friend bcos no1 wants 2 point a finger??
ReplyDeleteOr did I read it wrong??
The thing is, if d house help poisons and eventually kills madam.....
Dat doesn't mean d man's affection wud automatically shift 2 a dirty, filthy, illiterate, stinky househelp....
Wen he is sure 2 get a qualified lady outside....
He aint brain-dead now aint he??
And plssss spare me d fucking bullshit abt mama Dolphine or wateva.....
Dat shit is just mere fiction and doesn't work...
If she wants she can eat a truck-load of chickens...
Its all in ur damn heads....
And dis madam Dolphine is obviously a very intelligent poultry seller who just devised a way 2 sell her chicken at a fast pace 2 desperate women...
Buhahahahahahahahahahahah..
D househelp is obviously clueless 2 fink she can take over just like dat....
*rme*
Billie jean
Billy Jean, I sincerely believe there are nicer ways to state your opinion on matters. You don't always have to be a bitch when commenting. I mean, all that negative energy you pour out with your comments are unnecessary. You behave like a sadist.
DeleteLord have mercy
ReplyDeleteMy friend went through same in the hands of a housemaid. This one poured the poison at once to get even for being punished. But for my friend's driver who rushed her to the hospital when she passed out, she would have been dead.
I've told her and my sisters to stop this housegirl business. Its laziness that living in Naija thrusts upon you. No one has househelps abroad and we get by. Get household appliances to help you in the House and save yourself from untimely death from the Hands of a minion.
My dear ,God will heal her soonest.my house girl of 8yrs nearl killd me few yrs back but couldn't get me,she enter my 3months old son,was turning into strange animals to torment him.d one that paines me most was by 1am midnite,I hrd my name n woke up so in d morning I asked her who calld my name,she said it was one of her mates dat she has knife on her hand n wanted to stab me but I didn't respond.d next few days I sent her packing.so many tins she did that I can't mention here.ladies shine una eyees well n pray fervently .
ReplyDeleteThe demon possessed ones are the most scary!
DeleteFor me one can try manage any other type but possessed ones,dats too deep it has gotten spiritual!
I lost my lil cousin of 12yrs to dat:they initiated her and when she couldn't deliver' her mum,they took her instead(well so the househelp confessed)
It's advisable to go check them for witchcraft before u let them into ur home,very important! Take them to deliverance pastors dat can detect a witch just from seeing them.i did that all thru!
Can't take those chances o,e better make she be thief or eye Oga sef.
hmmm......stories my moda 2ld me! "my dear dauta no mata hw plenty ur house chores r mek sure u dnt ask 4 third help in d name of house help o! If u feel lyk its bcumin bad,pretend 2 b ill gt leave of absence go home clean ur hous,finish ur chores n mek sure u rest. Resume wrk wen u can." dat has bin my game plan 4 yrs nw n it has nt failed me! House geh/boi? Nor b me o
ReplyDeleteChai
ReplyDeleteAnd this Oloriburuku husband would have shed crocodile tears if his wife had died. No wonder they move on fast and remarry within a year of their wives' death.
I hope the Oloriburuku housegirl is in Jail
Stella. I hope your friend gets well quick. And Let her know we are praying for her. GOD is her strength and doctor.
ReplyDeleteMEN!!!!!!! IF the he goat hadn't brought himself so low to sleep with someone living in their matrimonial home, this wont happen.
I remember as a kid my dad disvirgined one of our maid and my mum found the sheets with blood. Dont know how they resolved it but the maid left.
And my mum only took in his relatives afterwards as helps while she took them as her own kids.
No matter how nice u treat some of this helps, they are still wicked, heartless and evil.
When I first met and was dating my ex husband, he had a househelp from Cotonu, who thought with a woman in the house, the money he made directly from my ex, he wouldn't make any more, as all household expenses now passed through me.he went diabolical on me.
Well to cut long story somehow short, I dont believe in jazz, juju, charm or diabolic things affecting any one, so no matter how much people saw what he was doing, I never believed.
The quarrels with my ex was like every second.
I went to church one day and d pastor asked me to go for a 9 days fasting for something that had nothing at all to do with my ex or his help.
On the night 8th day of the fast I had a big fight with my ex and packed my things to leave the next morning.
That night I had a nightmare where my help was chasing me round the house with a cutlass to kill me. Somehow in the dream I got hold of a bible and turned round and started chasibg him while praying and casting him and his evil ways and plans and he was running away from me and the bible and was hiding.
When I woke up the next morning, my ex was no where to be found but the first person I met that morning after tge nightmare was the househelp, he couldn't look me in the eyes, he just knelt in front of me begging me to forgive him.
Well I told him, I could only forgive him if he tells me what he did wrong. He refused to say and he refused to stand up, so I told him, I forgive him but he should ask God for forgiveness.
Well the big surprise was my ex that I couldn't find when I woke up, drove into the house with a brand new car for me begging me not to leave as I meant the world to him.
I fired the guy and was not surprised that after my divorce, my ex went and hired him again.
now I don't have househelp living in my house. She is a married woman who comes in the morning to clean the house and sometimes late evenings If she knows she has her personal matter to take care of the next morning.
Sometimes too bringing in relatives are worse too.
Then what caused the divorce?
DeleteWetin conSIGN u eh? Amebo tv! Aproko manager!
DeleteSo your ex was gay???
DeleteHahahahahahaha @anon 9:08 yu sharp gAnn
DeleteNigga was gay
Houseboy was jealous
God delivered u from d 1st one and u went for 2nd cos she's married nothing would happen abi??? I don't know why nigerian women with long nails and laziness always cry foul for what they bring upon themselves.
DeleteJesus is Lord, my dear may God Almighty give your friend total healing Amen. UYAI
ReplyDeleteJesus is Lord, my dear may God Almighty give your friend total healing Amen. UYAI
ReplyDeleteWhat was the poisonous substance she was slowly feeding her madam? If you don't mention it then you are not really helping readers.
ReplyDeleteY re u so concerned,u wanna put it in ur madam's food abi
Deleterotflmaoooooo at zizi
Deletehmmm.Stella..A friend of mine's sister was poisoned by her housemaid..May her soul rip..Househelp is married to her husband now......Life is so not fair, but God dey ooo.
ReplyDeleteStella! Please you need to name the poisonous substance that this house girl was systematically feeding her madam or else, you have not really enlightened or helped readers.
ReplyDeleteEnlighten ke? You want people to kill eachother slowly? Pls stella,don't create 'poisonous awareness' biko
DeleteI knew it,u re out 2 poison ur madam.dont just let ur madam catch u here
Deletelmaoooo...too funny
DeleteWhat was the poisonous substance she was slowly feeding her madam? If you don't mention it then you are not really helping readers.
ReplyDeleteWhy are u asking for the name of the substance? Is it important or u want 2 knw d name so u cn use it 4 ur own evil use? #jstsaying
DeleteSo you want to use the poison too abi??
DeleteI thought as much, why do u need the name of the substance? I bet have already plotted out ur little evil scheme n u thought this will be the perfect substance.......may God forgive u.
DeleteSay what?!?!?! The world has gone mad.I wish your friend speed recovery.
ReplyDeleteok so my trusted househelp had been trying everything in her power to seduce my husband, while i was busy working my a*s off. i sensed something was up and deliberately took time off work becos my home is more important. After then i started falling ill and having boils on my body. i was also very prayerful.
ReplyDeleteafter a while i asked her to leave. bottom line the day she was to leave i noticed some lizards dead all around my house, she had poisoned our food before she left and had left the unfinished medicine where the lizards ate it.
i thank God i was sensitive and no my husband never had anything to do with her so ladies especially working ladies be very prayerfful and watchful
This is sorry case.. God please don't giving somebody like this.. More trending news , entertainment news and celebrity lifestyle here at Gistyinka Blog
ReplyDeleteWt Da HELL u type dude?
Delete@ gistyinka blog.. u are such an illiterate, I wonder Wat Ur blog wld be and look like. F....k go back to skl
DeleteNa wa oh. Househelp wahala. GOD go put fire for that her toto. Xoxo said so
ReplyDeleteNa wa sha. Some men don't fear God. I hope she leaves him with his house help lover. I would leave if it were me. After all na the same thing if she had died. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteFucking ur help right under ur nose. Bastard man.
blood of God,this one done pass be careful, may God heal the woman and may devil punish the house help and her oga .
ReplyDeleteThe man of the house is a stupid fool. If you ask me he is the one trying to kill his wife. As for the househelp back to sender. Mj
ReplyDeleteSick thwart! She can't even try it with ma Italiano....I would 've shot her mother!!!
ReplyDeleteYou this demented pweety you have carried your winch here from miss petite's blog abi? Italiano my cute ass
DeleteI have always said that Nigerian women should learn to do their house choirs themselves! This their big madam too much! How do people cope in Europe? You have peace of mind! This house helps are EVIL! ( MOST )
ReplyDeleteChoirs????????? Lmao..*hands her brighter grammer* walksaway
DeleteGrammer??????? *now going to buy your own Brighter Grammar*.
DeleteHahahahaha.... Funny comments. Anon 1.36pm, you suppose dey sure naa before you correct someone.
Deletelmaaaaooooo...jokes all around...lmaooo
DeleteWomen should b prayerful dats all I can say cos have seen cases where sisters sleep wit their inlaws , life is indeed unfair.
ReplyDeleteany housemaid from togo fear them oooo
ReplyDeleteMay God forgive u.
DeleteJust lastwk,a househelp(boy) in ph strangled his madam,n ran away with her money n valuables..n left her to die in the arms of her paralysed husband in the bedroom..This workd is evil,pple dont harbour strangers in ur home,* my 2 cents*
ReplyDeleteMaid is a No! No! For me. A service woman is better. She comes like 2ce or 3ce in a week and leave, she's an old woman, not too old though. Its safer that way!
ReplyDeleteMy hubby is insisting on getting a maid buh am setting my foot down on this. Its never gonna happen. Its not like I av sum1 that will flog me if I don't wash plates on time or clean d house. I do everythg at my own time, one of benefits of bn self employed, my time is very flexible. It shall be well with us!
Commentator 26, what would make you to start to understand that some things are just simply spiritual? You dont have to believe in those things, but please believe in Christ Jesus for salvation.
ReplyDeleteAnon2.49 u are suffering from paranoia and psychological issues.Get well soon
DeleteCyanide kills slowly without leaving any trace in the blood or any tissue except the hair.
ReplyDeleteMy wife once brought a house help and after 2 weeks I had to fire the help. I was always having a hard on whenever the help was around. I knew it was trouble waiting to happen.
Don't blame the men. And most times, madam is not home or comes back tired. Not all househelps are dirty or illiterate.
We used to have this neighbor that had a house help that was so beautiful, she was like 10-12 yrs old then.. whhen my neighbor had her 3rd child, we couldn't sleep at night because the baby would cry and scream till morning..at a point, the parents of the baby started fighting unnecessarily, the maan's business was dwindling. There was this cashew tree in the compound..the cashew was unusually sweet and everybody in the compound was just addicted to it. Whenever the wwoman beats the house help, she'll fall sick the next day but she never suspected the girl. One day I caught the house help beating the madam's son so violently that I had to slap her she insulted me and I gave her the beating of her life that day. The madam came back and he'll broke loose, she faced me and was saying all sorts of trash that I should never touch her househelp again. I was so shocked I couldn't say anything to her. The next morning, I couldn't stand up from the bed. My very good friend in school then happened to be the son of a pastor. He gave his father the phone to pray for me and that's how the man landed in my house 30mins later. Immediately, he stepped his foot in the compound, he started praying from the cashew tree, while he was praying, the girl was shouting inside and rolling the floor, to cut the long story short, she confessed to being a princess of one demonic compound, that she's responsible for everything happening to the family, she said she already initiated the woman's 2kids but she couldn't initiate the last one so she would always turn to big snakes to torment the girl at night that's why she never sleeps at night and so many other things she confessed to...she was sent back to her village that same day....so people beware of who u bring into your homes.
ReplyDeleteAbeg I nid d pastor's contact...fruityivory@yahoo.com. pleading!
Delete@myname Your story is bullshit!!!!There is no such thing as "demonic princess" or any other "spirit" for that matter.You dumb black Africans shld free themselves from ignorance and paranoia
DeletePlease can I have the pastors contact? Plsss: slimpretty2004@yahoo.com
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ReplyDeleteSounds like cyanide poisoning
The women should listen,My wife is so lazy and leaves the help to take care of all my needs,she hardly goes into the kitchen and does madam madam.if the house girl was a bit attractive God knows what would have happened .i spend more time around the help than my wife but she just doesn't get it.If not for my children I would have kicked her out long ago.Now I am looking for a nice girl with her own apartment I can go and chill out with from time to time as she has become so un attractive to me now.i suspect she is seeing someone bc the preparation to go to work is too much while when she is at home with me she dresses like the help and makes herself so un attractive .so please some women take the piss a times .the help is more useful to me than my wifey.
ReplyDeleteContact me..
DeleteMy husband I sincerely do understand ur PLIGHT and infact feel ur PAIN wella but what happens to dialogue??? Have u tried pouring out ur mind to ur wife and seek a change, dat exactly is TRUE LOVE!!! U may even spice it up by personally getn her sexy clothings to wear in d house for ur eyes only... See ehn, a succesful home needs to be worked out and COMMUNICATION is KEY. I could go on and on cos av ben dere too(am female) but hubby spoke 2me in luv and I make quick adjustments!
DeleteMade ***
DeleteCyanide poisoning is a slow killer while antifreeze or coolant poisoning kills in 24 hours.
ReplyDeleteMumu, thanx for sharing. I'm sure all these househelps here have written it down. Stupid woman like you. I'm sure you have tried it how else would you know the duration.
DeleteThanks for the insult. God bless you. Have a great day!
DeleteMature answer dere @stella Asemota... Dats the true meaning of MATURITY, tho I wishd u dint mention d name of d drug cos sum pple on here mite use it negatively or for evil purpose
DeleteI apologise if I annoyed anyone by naming them . Awareness was my intention.
Delete@stella,...why r u apologising....isnt there google? anyone needing such information can just search it out on google and even get a 'how to' guide...
DeleteBillie jean, I think that most times u write stupid insensitive stuff to just get atention. like seriously how do u feel?? im sure deep down u had other nicer ways to air ur shitty opinion that no1 cares about but yet u still decided to carry ur haggered fingers and type this rubbish. please if u dnt have anything better to say just shut up. its not right when u open ur mouth to produce such bull crap. be warned oh..be properly guided and stop being a stupid fellow!!!! hissss
ReplyDeletei know you all heard the jist. my mothers friend brought a girl to help with chores here in abuja.
ReplyDeletethe girl ended up stabbing her son to death...
dude was preparing to go for masters abroad. he was a lawyer...
Mehn! no helps ooo
*Cheechee...
Jesus! I have a househelp o. God help me ooo. I just need her till after delivery, I have a 4year old, and also preggy, and d doc said it's most likely gonna be cs. My mum is late, my mum in law is late, sisters ain't in the country. So what do I do? I need her till after delivery, with normal delivery, u need a help not to talk of cs. My intention is to send her away as soon as my newborn is 3months old. God help us oooo. Y'all saying nigerian women are lazy, it's not ur fault. U better thank God for d situation you are and stop condeming others.
ReplyDeleteI had a cs too and managed just fine without help from anyone. Once u can bath ur child properly ur good to go. Though u can get a help that comes in d morning, helps out and leaves when she's done. But if you insist on keeping ur maid till after delivery, be mighty prayerful about it.
DeleteIn Europe and America,women give birth daily via CS.
DeleteFire dat house help fast...get a service women 3 times weekly.
U can do it...I live without help.
Safe delivery
I hope the demon has left ur friend's house.May the blood of Jesus flow thru ur friend,may she be healed in Jesus' name.
ReplyDeleteI thank God i've left Nig,so i'm free from the stress of househelps.I had to deal with some in the past but i thank God i overcame.
Mothers/wives,please be prayerful.Prayers make u overcome all,it exposes all evil.
I think its better to employ elderly women that have children as helps instead of younger girls ready to unseat their madams.May God protect all wives/mothers that have maids ooo,u will not be replaced in Jesus' name.
Hmmmmm, some elderly women might want ur hubby for their daughters too.
DeleteNo be lie o
DeleteArsenic (aka tusa tusa or ogwu oke) is another possibility, it makes the hair to fall off. Guys always watch medical detectives, diagnosis unknown etc on Crime & Investigation or CBS Reality on DSTV, they televise related issues or true life documentaries that are also very educating. KKK
ReplyDeleteThe one i got was a snake!
ReplyDeleteShe confessed she had not done any harm when she was taken for deliverance, everyday i pray for my family, because i don't believe her, she stayed less than a year!
I get a laundry woman to come on weekends to do the washing which is the most tedious chore to me. We manage the rest like that.
different strokes for different folks.
ReplyDeletemy own house help na real prayer warrior. night vigil almost every nite. encourages my 6 year old to read her bible sory book every night before sleeping and the only time she asked for permission away from work was to go attend a church program.
Any day wey i skip morning prayers due to rush for work,the girl go dey eye me like say i commit adultery.
Wow!
DeleteAin't u d luckiest person in the world?she must have dropped from heaven!*rme
still watch o,it might be a decoy!
Born again maid?huh?dats a miracle!
dey are mostly religionless' or idol worshippers dats why dey love evil.
One "enemy" of mine I been calling my househelp with a concealed caller I D we already know who she is but I'm waiting for the next time she calls then i'll show her "kaki no be leather"!she hasn't made known her intents but knowing how evil she is I've deciphered why she would call my house at all,because she asks after the baby each time she calls and if my maid can talk.Lois you've been warned one more call and i'll expose your evil video for the world to see how Diabolical you are!!I know you'd read this and instantly know it's me.As for the mister,fuck him all you can because I've long moved on and he's history,all the stories you feed him with I know but don't care a KOBO!!!
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ReplyDeletethere are several sides ( morals, lessons, flaws and caution etc ) to dis story but i think its needless to bore SDKERS on all all of that. Lets thank God ur friend is gettin back on her feet and by d grace of God, she will be completely healed.. But lets ponder on these:
1. D maid couldn't have acted on her own without Oga's input and dats why d sex thing persisted despite Madam's deteriorating condition. So Oga too is very culpable..
2. Its obvious Madam has been visiting quacks for medical attention bcos a simple medical test should detect d poising eating up her system so why treating her for typhod and malaria? ( Abi na spiritual poison?)
3. Dis cannot stand as an acceptable excuse to attempt manslaughter on Madam though but is Madam really nice and motherly to her Maid?
4. For those who s got maids, pls note, not all of them are dis bad oo so dont get inspired by this story to begin to frustrate d hell outta ur Maids existence.. Be careful? Yes, suspect her? Fine but at d same time, treat her like a freeborn and show her some love.. It is well with ur friend Stella..
sometimes if they treat us like human,we in return will act as one,they treat us as sorry azz,expecting us to act as human,if u treat us well, they will not poison u,they will not sleep with your husband ,they will be your third eye. -
ReplyDeleteThey treat me as their own,i work my aszz out to please them,u see i even have access to internet, i learn to read and write under their roof, i'm pretty ,figure 8, i will never sleep with my Madam husband, to talk less of poisoning her,been with her for 9 years, i'm enjoying my work,Madam's children call Aunty - Lizzy (House help) Abuja - not my real name
Hehehe house help gone wild,Lizzy baby ashia soteh u can use internet and type craze? Go back to work b4 they come beat u now
DeleteAjoke Olatunji!!! Must you know the type of the poison used? You sound really doggy!!
ReplyDeletethe first thing is i pity people who are in the habit of employing house helps and domestic help from neighbouring african countries.from my childhood till now there is no time we had less than 5 house helps are they come directly from my dad's home town.
ReplyDeletewe have never had any incident of theft,or this kind of incidents some after moving on to other jobs still live around with friends .
the only incident of theft we have had was from a benin guy john he didn't spend up to 6 months before he started stealing from my dad's bedroom until he stole a large amount and disappeared.it was a member of his family maybe out of jealousy who came back to our place to confirm if my dad really gave John money to buy okada,rent a house,set his family members up because he became an emergency big man.
Thank GOD i had already moved to uk by then as i would have been the first suspect due to my past ….errrrr NO COMMENT
having said that issues like this often boils down to how house helps are treated basically relationships between them and their employer
I can confirm this is the real Lucabracee cos he mentioned UK as usual.
Delete@11.56....ROTFLMAO...no mind Mr UK Lucabracee
Deleteobviously Ajoke is on a mission to poison somebody
ReplyDeleteajoke pls o, dont poison any gaddem o
My dears most of u are so mean to ur domestic help. If u treat them well then most times u won't have all these problems. I have had 3 who stayed with me for years. I sent them to school and 2 even got married from my house. Most of u treat them like swine so they act like swine. As for the hubby in this story he frolicked with the swine so what did u expect? Abi she charmed his abunna? Madam face ur hubby. I'm sure he was telling her that if not for u he will marry her.
ReplyDeleteMy aunt was strangled last week in ph by her house boy after beating her up . He dumped her body by her husband who is senile . He then took off with her car and valuables . I will never employ a help .They are the devils spawn: signed #d kalabarian
ReplyDeletehad a househelp growing up,my dad had a fatal motor accident in benin n was hospitalized for over 4 months, so my mum had to go stay there with him. My mum put our househelp in charge of her business cos we were really young then..she sold everything in the shop and just didnt come home one day. As at then there were no phones,so my siblings and i lived alone for almost a month before a family friend came visiting. Seeing that we were abandoned,he traced my grandmum to our village n brought her to asaba to take care of us. We never heard from that househelp again. check out my blog loloahia.blogspot.com for short stories.
ReplyDeleteYou know 'fatal' means die, death, dead, right?
DeleteFatal does not mean death, it means something so serious that can lead to death, an individual with fatal injury can also survive it
DeleteFatal means death jare....
DeleteGoogle said so.
yes. fatal means dead. fatal, accident injury, illness all mean they died as a result....stop exposing your illiteracy anon 6:53am
DeleteIt will always be dangerous and ill-advised to have any outsider, relative or non-relative, by whatever name you want to call them; househelps, cleaners, drivers, guards etc in our homes. They see and know far too much about us for our own good and seeing the opportunity to "better" their lots, they are very susceptible to dangerous approaches to enter waht in their own perspective is the big league. In Other continents where they don't have all these domestic helps, people get by. But because of our middle class, nouveau-riche mentality, we claim to need these househelps, maids, cooks or whatever stupid names we call them to massage our foolish egos and lay some claim of superiority. We will all be killing ourselves with our own actions and inactions
ReplyDeleteThankful
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Me and my house help was constantly having sex until my wife caught me. My advice, get ugly house help.
ReplyDeleteLMAO. Foolish man. Your type will still sleep with an ugly houses help. SWINE.
DeleteMay God almighty destroy ur life 4 ds rubbish U̶̲̥̅̊ J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ typed!!!
DeleteKai!!! This is why I abhor house helps of all kind. They are a menace. I just thank God for this woman's life. And men can be so irresponsible, totally senseless and weak. Imagine sleeping with your house girl who is slowly killing your wife....make una no tell me anything about love potion o. Men are just too weak. Anyway, I have sworn in my life, that I will not be bringing in the young girl/woman into my house on whatever pretext who will come to displace me. Mbanu!
ReplyDeleteHousehelps are not good (90%) I and my sibling grew up having over 7 househelps as much as I can remember... And let me tell you, even if you must have a househelp,. Put your eyes down and be very observant.. Sadly I was just 2 then and I remember my mum was not always around ( bank job and other personal problems) so we were left with our dad and the househelp.. My dad too being a banker wasn't around during the day.. He'll come home by 6 or 7.. This househelp dealt with us, she was very wicked,( you can't say it's because my mum maltreated her, that goes to show you that some househelps are just plain evil) I just thank God that she wasn't diabolical because being unsupervised she could have done worse than just beating and maltreating I and my siblings.. I still remember those days when my mum would come home and ask if she was a nice person and out of fear we would say yes.. My mum would thank her and buy her nice things.. Till the day my brother summoned courage and told my mum the truth.. Lol.. That day my mum threw her out of the house with immediate effect.. (Day of liberation).. As for me and my future family... Hose helps are a no no.. Never! My future daughters won't go through what I and my siblings went through..
ReplyDeleteRachael
Some madam are so wicked too, imagine my neigh always giving her help #100 to eat everyday from early morn till 10:30pm when she closes the shop,how will she not be wicked if she wants to. Pls spare some of them and i've never had any bad househelp even right from my mums time.
ReplyDeleteSome madam are so wicked too, imagine my neigh always giving her help #100 to eat everyday from early morn till 10:30pm when she closes the shop,how will she not be wicked if she wants to. Pls spare some of them and i've never had any bad househelp even right from my mums time.
ReplyDeletemy househelp locked my 2 kids indoor one is 2yrs while the other one is 6mths and ran away
ReplyDeleteyou are lucky she didnt lock them outdoors
Deletehaaaaa make God dey help oooooo na so my sister dey do only for the house help to bring in thief into the house.the thief were got n after investigation their informant was d daily househelp.
ReplyDeleteSometimes u really need a househelp so my advise is pray frevently and get hidden cameras in the house
ReplyDeleteits always worth it to have a good heart i cnt even start spilling what helps have done to me
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ReplyDeletewetin lucabracee do again? drop your comments and follow your lane abeg
@Anon 6:21; are u sure d guy was not sexually harassing the maid? Stabbing d lawyer could be a way of defending herself. Some grownups r perverts, he might be committing touchery with d maid's private parts. Pls let's not rush to judge!
ReplyDeleteWords right out of my mouth. Maybe he was even sleeping with the girl and,they had a relationship then he wanted to dump her. Then she retaliated. Even educates people retaliate harshly.
Delete*educated
DeleteHmm house helps no be am oh!ours was a girl young but possesd she was sent by my mum's brother 2 frustrate her and her catering busines all becos mumsy asked for her car she kept in the village!she was ill for abt 2years!ders no church we dint go 2!celestial church sef join,but 10nk God for Jesus she was saved when my dad and a frnd took d maid by force after she confessed! Back to the village!she even tryd possessing us but God saved us(myself and my siblings) mothers need 2 b prayerful and allow God take full control of their homes.
ReplyDeleteI find it interesting that people are here tearing down househelps knowing damn well what they go thru in the hands of their ogas and madams. Yes there are househelps who can be outright wicked even when they are treated well...just like ur friends, family members who can be just as wicked and try to poison u for what u have. But please do not demonize all househelps like their mission in life is to come and destroy u. For starters,no one aspires to be a housemaid, and second the way people treat HMs in naija is horrendous! Like they have no souls or feelings. I dont see their own side of the story told often. We talk about domestic violence on this blog all the time but domestic violence against househelps are never brought up.
ReplyDeletebillie jean your comment here is so stupid....get a life cos you are dumb as shit
ReplyDeletethere is nothing wrong with having househelps and people cannot sit here and generalise....you however need to note the following:
ReplyDelete(1) the househelp is not there to replace you as a wife and a mother.....dont let them teach your children core values and dont let them perform some wifely functions like, cook for your hubby, serve him the meal, make your bed etc..
(2) monitor and be observant with all they do.....if you can afford it get hidden cameras...
(3) they are human like you and most do the job because they are from poor homes so dont treat them like animals.some people give their helps only left overs and they never get to eat things like meat or other delicacies the family eats...i.e give them good and enough food and pls dont beat them anyhow..i.e a woman put dry pepper in her housegirls vagina
treat them according to their ages....you cant get a househelp of say 10 and expect her to be super mature when your own daughter who is 10 cannot even do anything...some wake up as early as 4.am and sleep as late as 12.pm......they are there to assist you not do all the work..
(4) As soon as you bring them in take them for some necessary test like HIV, hepatitis n pregnancy test....also if you are a christian take them for deliverance...trust me we have seen cases where some witches have been discovered and saved the madams the trouble...
(5) please leave them with a skill that can help them in life...i know a househelp who is now a graduate cos she was willing to learn and she was put in school. now she is still a friend to the family and comes to visit with her husband.....
If you really do need to have one just be vigilant and trust God to protect your family...am not an expert on househelps neither do i traffic them oh but its just my own honest observations....