Prolific Delta born and bred movie producer Jeta Amata my brother and friend has separated from his beautiful wife Mbong.
If you all know Jeta,you will know that he lived for Mbong,he loved her with a passion and their love was so glaring for all to see.
Their love is temporarily on crutches, developed a hitch and my proudly Delta brother and his wife have parted ways despite their love and commitment.
Do you believe in the old saying ''if you love someone set them free,if they are yours they will come back''?
Jeta let Mbong go because he loved her...was that the right move?..she wanted to be free to build new dreams,become an actress in Nollywood where the word actress has been taken over by the word 'runs'.
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Jeta may have tried to protect her from Nollywood.....you may not know this but Mbong may not have shot plenty movies but her profile as an actress is more loaded than what you find with most Nollywood actresses and she has dined and wined with some of Hollywood's best......Every Nollywood actress' dream.
When a young and beautiful love like Jeta and Mbong had falls apart for flimsy reasons,then it is scary...they had love,respect and commitment going for them but it still fell apart!
Is love no longer enough to keep it going?
Sometimes people fall in love,get married and along the line,they fall in love with someone else,some decide to stay together and carry on with the charade (typical Nigerian way) whilst some move on and decide to try their luck with someone else.
I have some very rich friends..people who have fallen out of love with their spouses but cannot announce a divorce because of their status' in society,some take a bold step and relocate/get relocated but when the cookie crumbles.....
There are so many relationships out there where couples are breaking up for flimsy,selfish and self centred reasons and it is so heart breaking.
What do you do when the spouse you love wants to take a walk?Do you apply the proverbial letting them go and seeing if they come back or hold on and pray?
Someone reading this must have a story to tell so others can learn,come on,don't hold back,Lets talk.
*This is a shout out to anyone who has been married for just one decade and still has the fire going on in their marriage.it isn't easy staying with one person for so long,sometimes it becomes so boring and all you want to do is walk........to everyone out there who is married,God bless your marriage and seal the fire...may God heal and replace whatever the locust has taken from Jeta and Mbong.
Its sad that they have parted ways but its good that they have done so without drama,bitterness& hatred (hopefully!) I know what it feel like to no longer be in love with a spouse.. Everything he/she does will irritate u..u can't kiss them anymore, having sex seems like rape..its safer for them to seperate as it might be the best thing for their daughter. Myself and my ex have a child together and we aren't together anymore but we are happier than ever and people get confused when they see us.. Even his new wife has come to terms with the fact that we will always be friends for the sake of our child. ..I say if your marriage isn't working, try..try..trya again and the leave b4 resentment sets in! God hates divorce..(He hates lies,gossips,envious people....) Ask for grace..he is a forgiving God. Ok bye..let me start going to work!! Lool
ReplyDeleteSorry bt from what I read you and ur ex hubby shld never have taken it to marriage level. Every marriage goes thru tht stage of disliking ur partner bt tht doesn't mean separation. Working things out is the best solution nt divorce. Ask people that have been married 40yrs they'll tell u they passed thru tht stage and let's face it our todays women don't want to be submissive that's the major issue we are having, even the bible says we shld be submissive.
DeleteBible said husband love your wife like christ loved the church then said wife be submissive to your husband.I hope u no christ loved the church enof to die for the church. Mr man can u die for your wife. I am tired of nigerian men quoating be submissive but not willing to love their wife like the same chapter of the bible comanded. If you love me like christ loved the church then I wil be submissive. Shekena
DeleteWhere u there to know that they shouldn't have married or why? Referee!
DeleteIf I catch u! Submission my small toe. The same Bible that talks about submission talks about mutual submission. Some people are woefully ignorant of the Bible and men are rotten and plain selfish towards their partners. The man is the head of his home. There's no argument about that. It is not old fashioned for a woman to submit but it's the right thing. It's God's way and so also is mutual submission. Ehpesians 5:21 shows that the man is commanded by law to submit to his wife. He should yield to his wife's requests and wishes. That us what love is. Women are not slaves and should have their own will. Submission isn't a one way street. When a man isn't meeting up as a man na there wahala tie wrapper. A godly man will not manipulate and control his wife. She shouldn't be kept in a cage. A man should love his wife, encourage and brag on her and build her up. People should take the truth to heart. If I ain't getting shit he ain't getting shit. Simple.
Disregard any typo biko... This lady has provoked me.
definitely pple like u will neva last with a man. U said some right things thou! But I can see pride and arrangance from your countenance. Find out what it takes to find a Goodman who will love you, respect you and cherish you. NB: don't not quote the bible to your favour ..it's hypocritical!
DeleteStupid you are! Bring your own bible verses to counter what I've said. ITK. You don't need to be a doormat for a man to love and cherish you. How u take arrange your market go determine price. Again I say, submission is a two way street. Na u last pass for marriage. Laster!
DeleteJulit thank u o... Who made them judge and referee..who the hell is that retard to tell me we shouldn't have gotten married in the 1st place.. Abeg..each man to his own! If u don't like my 10cents..shut up and keep it moving!!
DeleteYou're the one who's retarded, only said my 2cents too so why is it paining you? If u guys are still friendss it means u never really loved eachother or u r still into eachother and to julit you're. A fool, why you so pained tho? Was I talkn to you? Dumb ass shit. When you get married dnt be submissive now and whoever said being submissive meant. Being a. Doormat? There's a clear difference btw both idiot use ur dictionary.
DeleteI come from a broken home and I knw the effect its had on me I'd rather try all means to make my marriage work instead of divorce.
Wonder why the goat is pained tho. Ewu mmo
You're from a broken home? Ewoooo. Nne ndo o. You miss I swear. #big hug.
DeleteLmaooo..Juli Juli..ur a witch I swear!!
Delete@mzanon, dnt get it twisted kids know when their parents r unhappy. Nd a marriage shld be a happy n secure thing. If nt u r doing ur self n ur partner a disservice. What's d point of being unfulfilled, angry n insecure after 40 years in marriage when u can be brave n nt care what peeps like u think by leaving an unhappy situation.
DeleteShe feels being with Jeta has denied her so many things. So she wants out huh? NA RUNS SHE WAN START TO DO so she can sleep with all dem big men, build house, buy expensive cars, bags, shoes etc and be tweeting at us that hardwork pays. Yimu! We will be watching her on 3D.
ReplyDeleteAnd stella biko tell the story as it is. You hav even judged the girl and painted her black from the way you are sounding. Even her husband accepted dat he was caging her too much. So don't just tell the story one sided and paint her like a bad person biko. And stella post dis comment.bc u don't like it wen someone says the truth
DeleteWhalahi stella this your story is one sided, haba
DeleteHe was holding her too tight, don't we read posts of women who have had enough of their husbands restricting them in chasing their dreams? That's all she wanted to do
+jeta has moved on to the girl in spartacus sef so he is enjoying himself
Afterall its the one who wears the shoes that know where it hurts
Pls o, just an innocent Question: How come she didn't have a baby all these years? She Couldn't have or She Didn't want to spoil her shape? Just asking o!
ReplyDeleteShe has a child. Stupid question btw
DeleteShe has a 5yrs old daughter
DeleteI just found out she has one. Stupid and useless answer btw. Plus, u are an idiot.
DeleteNext time confirm before you start typing ok, and don't display how dumb you are. Even if she does not have a child, how is that an issue here? You so dumb and jobless.Bye!
DeleteThis is what you get when you get married too early. That's why there's a natural order of things. You grow up and get married, you do not get married and grow up. Marry an 18year old and expect her not to want better for herself when she grows up? Seriously? Jeta should have seen this coming. Goodluck to them. Oh, and Mbong is sooooooo beautiful. Its time for you to spread your wings and fly gurl! Just don't crashland sha..
ReplyDeleteI take an exception to tht, omotola was 18 when she got married, she's doing well in her career and home front bt thts cuz she has an understanding man. BUT what omotola does behind closed doors is what people don't knw and thts what Jetta is trying to protect his wife from. What goes on in the entertainment industry many of you wldnt believe
DeleteSharrap there! What does Omotola do behind closed doors. Are you her man friend?
Delete@MzAnon, please I understand thepoint you ve made with all due respect, but she is Mbong. Her reasons could be real 2 her. Good luck to them.
DeleteI know this chic way back. Till when she was crowned miss Eket at Royalty hotels. I forsee her doing interviews, coming up with photoshoots and trying to rebrand. If she ever lies about her age, I will soooooo expose her.
ReplyDeleteLies how? Everyone knows she got married at 18 and everyone knws hw long they've been married. Stop trying to famz like you know her personally. Wonder what you want to expose about her age :s
DeleteShe was 20 just claiming 18. If you know her. Ask her how old she was when she contested for miss eket.
DeleteOMG!!! Why would they stay apart? If na cos of Nollywood, Babe think twice. Such a pity. I used to admire them/ Marriage/ Love. Tis well.
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Mbong wants to groove, she envies d likes of tonto dike nd rukky sanda. Women! U people can neva av enough, just bcos u want 2 feel free, u av started feeling free my posting bikini body online. Is nt as if d report claimed jeta was cheating, go into d world nd sin 4 eva. Akwa abom gals, una 2 like “abunna”
ReplyDeleteMumu not like ur mother
DeleteYou're just daft in a stupid way!!
DeleteHer bikini pics r nt bad. He is already publicly dating another woman. Why nt talk that?
DeleteSeparation doesn't mean Divorce.Sumtimes you need a brief separation to go bck 2 d drawing board n then come together to rekindle ur love.Marriage is hard n u cn loose urself in it if u don't take a pause sometimes.
ReplyDeleteExactly. And I really hope they come back. I always advice couples to take a separate vacation sometimes it can be boring and tiring being with the same person year after year. If ur work allows you take a month or 2 away from your spouse go on vacation let ur spouse miss you. I really hope this is one of those kinda separation where they come bk after awhile. I think Mbong has been listening to people too someone is telling her things outside. Ladies pla learn to keep ur marriage away from friends and family if u need someone to talk to pray to God and go see a councellor
DeleteWho r the doomed couples ure always advising?
DeleteLwkm.@ doomed couples. Kai una get bad mouth
DeleteStella,Mbong wanted to build her dreams in Nollywood,But everybody knows she is a heavy runs girl.She became every politicians toast and was offered money ,gift et al.Omoni Oboli is doing same thing and still married,a lot of them are cheating but Jeta obviously no wan put up with dat kain life.Same with Chika ike,Stephanie Okereke.This is y likes like Gene no wan marry because she no say all dis babes no dey respect dia homes,if she make up her mind say she wan marry,she go dey for her marriage.All dis women dey cheat and our country na corrupt place.Men don dey even prefer married women as dem tink say na dem wey no get commitment.Calabar women no dey stay house,na dat one I sabi.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Married women are masters of the game now. I have a few married friends who are married and cheat to the bone marrow. Some want to keep up with the Joneses and some are simply unhappy in their marriage, but they can't let go of the Title(Mrs). I am single but I believe there some happy couples out there. Pls speak up if you are one of the happy ones. Some of us are of the opinion that marriage over rated! True or false? Sun mi jare. (Tired).
DeleteYou know Omoni well ,now a runs chick ooo
DeleteAnon 8:39 na people like u dey know sex of chicken inside egg. Are you jeta or part of the family cos none of them goes public on the cause(s) of the separation. Its a trend in nollywood. We have lost count of divorce and infidelity in nollywood from yoruba, igbo, etc, so please stop pointing finger on tribe. Theirs is even better cos both parties show great maturity and respect for each other.
DeleteRe U̶̲̥̅̊ from cross Rivers state? N for Ɣ☺U̶̲̥̅̊я info there is nothing like Calabar girl, its either Efik , anang , ibibio or Ogoja so pls stop bad mouthing US we are respectable women n even sef point of correction she is ibibio from akwa ibom. Efik women re brought up to honour the santity of marriage so pls stop painting us black b'cos one woman has left her husband doesn't mean evry one from that tribe is bad
DeleteMbong used to do runs oh!! We were in unical together. So yes! Its possible that she feels plucked.
DeleteStella, U know one big factor that negates compatibility in marriage which pple ignore? CLASS DIFFERNCE.
ReplyDeleteSometimes it cld be cos of age gap causing difference in taste.
A friend of mine came back from Holland after several yrs, he's over 40yrs and decided to marry a 23yr barely exposed girl. The separated right after dowry wt a baby in btwn.
Its not about humility or patience or greed. Imagine a graduate marrying a butcher no matter how rich, if they don't reason alike, compability wld be a problem. When one spouse is talking A, the other is understanding B and communication breaks down.
I so agree with you. I am planning to divorce my husband after less than a year if marriage. We have nothing in common not even love. Btw he's 41 I'm 24
DeleteAnon 9:05 you're dumb is all I can say
DeleteI just wish they could work it out! Divorce isn't the answer biko
ReplyDeleteMarriage is about compromise.. Her passion is acting, good, the husband knows what goes on in nollywood and doesn't want his beloved wife entangled in tht shit, good also. I see where they're both coming from bt why did they fail to reach a compromise is what I don't understand. I think there's more to the story than jst tht cuz this is a dumb dumb dumb excuse for separation. Everyone knws her to be a good and decent actress. One of the very few wehave why wld she want to be featured in 1m movies like the ritas and mercys them? Does she knw hw they got to where they are???? Her hubby is a director, why can't she write stories and feature in the movie since she so desperately wants to act? I think they are both stupid for throwing a love like theirs away for something stupid this is. Why I always says love can't sustain a marriage only friendship can
ReplyDeleteGbamest! Nothing beats friendship.
DeleteBTW first time comentter
You are right again. ;-) Genuine friendship is the key, which could be rare these days.
DeleteGenuine friendship now based on the size of ur pocket. Highest bidders now get women like goods in the auction sales ground and they are treated like properties. #myopinion#
DeleteWell, dis is d reason y am still single. D guy I really luved, I had to let him go cos things fell apart btw us. D luv just went away. I really luved him and I kip hopin and prayin dat one day he will come back. And we will get married. Its nt always easy bt sumtyms its d best tin to do to guarantee ur happiness and know what u really want 4 urself in life. I don't really blame Jeta and Mbong. Dey might still come together sumday.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, he should never have moved to America. And of all places to live, he chose Los Angeles. What exactly is he doing in Los Angeles? Pursuing a movie career? He had a perfectly good one in Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteThe culture in Nigeria and USA are totally different. In the USA, women are encouraged to be independent and have a career outside of there husbands.
So biko wat makes it bad forva woman to be independent and hav a career outside of her husband. Is it a crime or a sin biko tell me. Ancient man
DeleteAnnon 11:27, there is nothing wrong with a woman having a career outside if her husbands. It is how she manages it. She claims her youth was stolen from her. That is sheer nonsense. No one forced into marriage. Going back to the issue if America and the effect it has on Nigerian couples, the culture promotes total independence from your spouse. Nigerian culture fosters inter-dependence. In Nigerian culture, a woman can have a career but there family comes first.
DeletePls JJ go and learn the difference between there and their. With all you claim to know, you can't get your usage right. Totally irritating to the eyes!
DeleteAnon 5:22 shut it.. Obviously a typo. Dnt u misspell words sometimes? Miss perfuckt
DeleteThis not typo. Noice the use of there for their in the two posts. JJ needs to go 4 refresher English class
DeleteWhat's up in the Amata clan? Not one *stayed married? That's what am curious about. What's with the breaking up and *staying best friends?Zack,Fred,Ruke now Jeta? This is one coincidence too many. Can't deal!
ReplyDeleteThank U dear! I was just thinking same-What's wrong with them and their marriages?
DeleteI know who you are now; kinda figured u out after d joke umah post. Hehehe!
DeleteArrow from the village, that's the only thing I can think of. If nt why wld all the brothers in a family be divorced?
DeleteThey both ve a 5yrs old daughter. This is for u that ask don't they ve a child
ReplyDeleteShe probably thought marrying Jeta will make her a mega star, then he killed her dreams. Sorry-o! Mbong? Are you really ready for this? Hope you can fight Dirty cos this terrain you are about to thread is for the hard hearted. Good looks is a plus. Kopnomi is part of their games here, hope u know. As soon as we start hearing that u have bought new car, new house without any tangible source of income, then we will know where you are getting it from.
ReplyDeleteTAAAA She married young yes but she was already dating high class men. Back in Unical Mbong was untouchable because she was Donald Duke's Galfriend and he was the Governor at the time. She was always well guarded codedly but those that knew about it knew. She must have missed being doted on and grooving she had to break out of the stifling life Jeta had made for her.
ReplyDeleteNa wao..see lie from d deepest pit of hell.chai
DeleteTrust me, she strtd seeing anoda guy nd btw I heard dey strtd dating since she waz 16...y won't she want d adventure?#childnotbride
ReplyDeleteOmo see gist.. Then why did you marry Him? Did you do that to be Mrs? Please we should know what we type in here as comments. You are barely upto a year in Marriage. Like seriously???
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Stella, the things am reading on this blog abt how men behave these days is making me scared.I might look hard or something but am som1 who loves wholeheartedly and if this is happening to every body, even mbong, then I 've to brace up.Mbong is a very pretty lady that has a very long natural hair which made some pple wonder if God is partial.She used to be a model in AKS and when Jeta and his crew came to shoot a movie then in the town we were,he never hid it from everyone that he was crazy abt her.My spouse is God sent and I can't wish for better, but if all these stories abt broken relationships 're true, then I'll trust nobody anymore and will brace up, so am not caught unawares.
ReplyDeleteI love the fact that u said he is God sent to u and u can never wish for another" good! Plz don't ever be pessimistic abt ur marriage, just continue to commit it in god's hand that d flame which binds u too will never go down, Amen. I love peaceful homes, divorce or even seperatoon is never an option. Am still single and seriosly prays abt my marriage. I want "my own man". Peace#
DeleteHmnnn...she wants to be free to live her life the way she wants. I guess she feels caged being married.
ReplyDeleteJeta should have been more flexible as it concerns her passion. But then again, he's been there, he knows what cards they play and most probably that 's what he is shielding her from.
Mbong, if Jeta is a good man, try to comproimise. I understand he casts you for roles in his movies...maybe that's too limited for you. Most times in life, you don't always get everything you want but always be grateful for the one God gave you.
We may assume that if you really love someone, let go, if he is truly urs, he will come back. But My dear, sometimes water de pass garri. Feelings change, love dies, new love interest sets in....
What becomes of your 5year old daughter? After all the adventure, glam n shine of stardom, what next????
Family first my dear....if Omotola Jalade Ekeinde can juggle both career n marriage, pls try to as well. You both married very early and have same acting passion. Use her as a guide if u may.
Bloglord you are so right. There is no perfect marriage. Sometimes you have to compromise for your family. It is called responsibility.
DeleteTrue, Omotola is juggling marriage and career BUT doesn't have a husband stifling her. Even if Jeta casts her in ALL his movies, it will get boring for her. He knew she was an actor, he should not have tried to cage her. And Stella, this story is too one-sided. Jeta is your Delta brother, yes, but get both sides and be OBJECTIVE.
DeleteTrust me there were times omotolas hubby lockd her outside cuz she came home late from filming bt she was persistent and he's a pilot who isn't around most times anyway so she had space to do what she wanted
DeleteHmmmmm, things sure happen behind closed doors! I thought they had a perfect marriage!
ReplyDelete@ anon October 21, 2013 at 8:20 AM your dumbness just showed. Stupid question.
ReplyDelete24 and 41? That's the problem, the age gap.
Nothing wrong with him moving to America, but she should have gone with him. Maybe the cracks started and he moved on.
dem no dey tell pickin say fire dey hot...
ReplyDeleteWao, so sad. Somehow i blame Jeta. Why on earth will u tk an18yrs old girl. Women should imagine themselves at that age and d way they were. He should hv left her alone.he was just lusting for her cos she is pretty.i never encourage dating or marrying a small girl.even if she doesnt leave you, she will do what evrygirl her age wnts to. I started dating my husband at a very young age, smtimes i look back i wonder hw bad my behaviour was and i realise dat i was just young and nw maturity has set in. I married im my late 20's. Smtimes its boring, smtimes, annoying,smtimes u wnt to leave but when u love smone and hv a good communication, u'll realise dat its just a phase.i'v bn married fr smtime now, no issue yet bt soon it will cm(meanwhile stella i wnt to say thank u fr sm posts about women in my situation.God uses u in ways u might not knw,Tanx) but d marriage is still strong cos we wnt it to. As for d girl,she really does not hv any excuse.she cn still do what she wnts in a decent way if she communicates well with her hubby.he loves her and dey cn compromise but obviously d runs bell has started ringing. No denying she's beautiful. To her she wnts d freedom to do what she has missed.its sad.people are praying fr men like dat. In as much as she was young, its really not an excuse. Datz d flimsly excuse tracy edmonds gv babyface, nw she's jumping frm man to man and babyface is well settled. Wish dem both luck and hope they do come back whn thy realise their mistake.thy need the space to appreciate wht thy hv.the grass is not greener outside but the water builds higher over there.
ReplyDeleteSo i think the age gap is the problem here too. How on earth can a 24yr old marry a 41yr old and expect the communication to flow? I just pray that these girls marrying their father's mates don't send their stories here, because i will so bash them
ReplyDeleteStella I beg you in the name of whatever you hold dear, don't tarnish ds poor girl's image in order to make Jeta look good. Your story is one sided and please reach Mbong for her own side of the story. Everyone knows Jeta is a Chronic womanizer and ds poor girl has made an effort. Ds is d best he's ever gonna get. N Stella I think u should really investigate before you come out here to feed your readers lies thereby tarnishing the image of the people involved. Lest I forget, you are a woman, you don't want peeps writing stuffs like ds about you when you and Mr Korkus decides to breakup...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteLmao @ Mr Korkus..sounds like an STD...
DeleteYou wicked sha.
DeleteJeta married her for her beauty (for God's sakes what was she doing with a man of Jeta's age when she was barely 16) and i think she married Jeta because she thought he would make her a big star. mbong is pretty but she doesn't have star quality, even if emem isong forces her down our throats. i don't see her becoming a big star because she is boring and her acting is boring. The Amata family are all the same, even if mbong didn't leave Jeta, he would have probably left her sooner or later. his dad Zack Amata is something else. meanwhile, why is it that women who hang around emem isong either divorce their husbands or remain single for life (i hope it doesn't happen to dakore akande)? hmnn
ReplyDeleteomoni oboli is soo pretentious. so she is also a runs girl just like her MENTOR omotola. i always knew there was something about her i didn't like apart from her boring acting. so her optician husband go sit for house, while madam will go out and fuck for money. i always wondered how they make money with three sons and living on the island. all these women who married young, their marriages don't last. marry in your 20s and 30s , sou won't feel left out. adaeze igwe and stephanie oforka's own will soon crash. it's the children i pity. marry fro love, not money or lust. nawa for people. and any man who allows his wife cheat just to bring money home is a stupid man.
ReplyDeleteNawa oh. Hmmmmmmmmm
DeleteAre u God to know whose marriage will break or whose will remain? Don't go and manage ur own life oh, keep "puk nosing" in ppl's life issues....
DeleteHmmm!Mbong is from my village.and she has been through a lot in this marriage.and she's a good girl.And d person who sd she dated Donald Duke is a liar.She has had a tough life,and loved and respected Jeta.Sometimes,we jst sit behind a computer and judge this people.especially the unmarried ones.May God help you when its your turn.They are a strong couple.I pray they overcome this challenge.For d sake of their baby.
ReplyDeleteI think I can relate with this a liitle. Met my first boyfriend wen I was 16, never dated him till I was 21 (I already decided wen I was 8 yrs old that I wld neva date anyman till I was 21...so I told him dat n he waited) but he was al I knew...I loved him too much...till today I rmbr him, call his name every single day...I miss him everytime...bt al d while I dated him...I felt like I was in a cage, I knw he was offerin me d best but ders is just dis feelin dt I needed to knw wat things were out der, I needed to b sure my decision was best. We met 3 months after I entered UNI and comi frm a pastors home, it means he was d very first guy I was goin to consider as a bf...other toasters I neva tot abt cos I knew I wasnt datn anytime soon...oh we had d best of love...it felt more like wat u read in those teen novels...wat we had was magical...no peckin, kissin, sex, not even a physical contact...bt we were almost obsessed wt each oda. We were frm diff backgrounds...I am frm an almost perfect marriage between my previously muslim now turned pastor parents...he is frm a very wealthy polygamous living separately parents....but at some point I knew I needed to let him go...its still one decision I pray to God daily about....I knw d future wl tell if it was right...he bein obsessed about me made him a bit too protective , he had al d exposure n experience, all I knew was wat I learnt frm him...for 5 yrs after d breakup he just always wanted to come back...cldnt move on wt his life...all d girls he dated after dat knew me...dey always gave him d chance wt me, dey neva call him weneva he is wt me, dey learnt to always be nice to me weneva dey speak to me or met me...but I just let him go...he wanted commitment frm me, I was brought up to live by my words n so I just cldnt commit to marry him at an early age, I knew I had not known enof things to commit myself to him den...started dating a close friend two yrs afta I left my ex....dis guy is d best man in d world...he is everything a man shld be (av bn wt him for 5 yrs now so I now him too well)...very consistent, neva lies, too caring, completely committd to me, loves me more than his very life, has an upbringing similar to mine, we av d same ideals abt marriage, divorce, love, trust, commitment, career n all....d only thing missin is dt spark n dt unspeakable joy n excitement I had wt my ex....but I put it down to youthful excitement n teenage crush. ..my ex lies, has a diff belief abt divorce n al bcos of his background, drinks occassionally n parties alot which do not fit into my lifestyle...he got married earlier dis yr...and I am gettn married in two weeks...I miss him everytime bt wen I rmbr aw much I av grown to love my fiance n aw compatible we r n av become over d yrs...I tell myself even if I stayed wt my ex we wld av broken up or divorced sometime later bcos I wld av felt caged al d while n wld nt av d experience n exposure to deal wt wateva comes our way...fingers crossed...al wl be well....its d diff between followin ur heart n follown ur brain...ur brain has all d experience , exposure n education to help u make informed choices...ur hearts doesnt....
ReplyDeleteYour writing is bad but you make sense die! Thank you jo.
DeleteHe doesn't want her to act. Yet he's dating a Hollywood actress now.... And u say he shouldn't be blamed. Mschheew!
ReplyDeleteDem don swear for them that's why.
ReplyDeleteI think we should hear her side of the story
ReplyDeleteWell if they cant live together,its better they go their seperate ways. We dont want an oscar pistorious episode repeating itself. But hope Mbong knows that the grass isnt always green on the other side,it gets to a point that you have explored everything and discovers that its all vanity. I wish her well
ReplyDeletewho told deirs will crash....pls mind ur damn business.let deir hubbys be the judge of that.
ReplyDeletestephanie oforka be living in nigeria while hubby in turkey abii qatar....all na maRRIAGE.WHILE ADAEZE BE DEALING WITH GROUPIES ON INSTAGRAM N SHERATON HOTEL TURKEY.....LOL,.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is about compromise. When the man decides to walk high and mighty and not give the wife the chance to have her own life, its starts getting comma. I've been married for 2 yrs. Planning on leaving my husband Cos of his pride and stubborn nature. Plus he is selfish. It's want he wants or nothing.
ReplyDeleteGirls, shine your eyes o, open your eyes well before marriage
if she married at 18,how old was she when she was supposedly straffing Donald Duke?
ReplyDeleteSomething does not add up.
Shattap anon 11:48.so you are praying for there marriage to crash abi? Fear God.Btw,hw did Omoni Oboli's name entered here? Ezi ofia dika gi
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ReplyDeleteMbong married at 23 and not at 18. Get your facts right. They had their child and then got married in 2008, 5 years ago. Their daughter is now 5. Meta met her at 16 or so but waited 4 her 6/7 years b4 they tied the knot.
ReplyDeleteFor her husband to restrict her from acting in Nollywood movies, he is obviously protecting her from certain things. I get the fact that she want a so called career for herself, but that's only temporal. She can't be in the limelight for a long time. So when her candle blows out, she is no longer in the limelight, who would she go home to? That is when she'll realise the mistake she's made. And by then, her ex hubby might have moved on en most likely happier with a woman who knows d value of marriage, 7 out of 10 divorcees are more miserable than when they were divorced. Most of the time, the men, as bad as they seem usually move on so quickly en end up happier. If she wanted a career so bad and wants to live happily eve after, she could have thot of other careers dt would make her happy, btwn, it's not guaranteed she'll be a successful actress. Then what happens to the home she lost in d process? Wish her all d best.
ReplyDeleteQuestion from anon October 21, 2013 at 11:45 AM; meanwhile, why is it that women who hang around emem isong either divorce their husbands or remain single for life (i hope it doesn't happen to dakore akande)? hmnn
ReplyDeleteThey said she's a big lesbo and she pimps them out to politicians too.
Kai Adaeze and Steph, please let's pray their marriages don't end.
She wants to start fucking politians and oil moguls like d oda actresses, may God help her.
ReplyDeleteShe snatched Jeta from a nice Lady,Ansa.who helped him through her family gain grounds in calabar.Karma is a bitch they say.May God always give us wisdom to do and live right
ReplyDeleteMarrying a girl under 25 is a big risk. No one should be married without a job, career and some dating experience. I would have done the same if i married early. Most women need to really exprerience the world and other blokus before they settle down. Now, i can marry and will not cheat in the marriage. Been there, and done that. Kids and career are just the priority.
ReplyDeleteThis is what happens when you marry for all the wrong reason which is the major reason for high divorce rate these days. The grass always greener on the other side until you taste it. So single men/women be really ready, search and make sure you are ready before making the commitment. Marriage is a lifetym affair.
ReplyDeleten so abeg if yobo does abi kalu ,go sleep for gutter...yeye dey smell fools watever kill ur selves
ReplyDeleteshut up pls
ReplyDeletemind ur fucking bizness
ReplyDeleteTHOSE WANS NA MARRIAGE.LOL.NA ENJOY WHILE IT LASTS NA.WHO KALU NEVER FUCK BEFORE,ABI YOBO.SHIIIIIII,PLS LEAVE MATTER SEFYES O
ReplyDeleteFASHOLA N CO ABI?
ReplyDeletepls take several seats
ReplyDeleteu are a big fool,which man doesnt cheat,u r a fool
ReplyDeleteShe has a five year old girl
ReplyDeletealso heard dat Jeta has started dating someone new, hollywood actress dat featured in Spatacus llithyia. ******MIMI******
ReplyDeleteStella why r u judging the poor girl already? Abi they called u to tell u their problem? Or cos Jeta is from your place? I don't like this at all.
ReplyDeleteif seperation is what they believe is the best; i think everyone should respect that and just move on
ReplyDeleteyes dear there are still some awesome marriages out there..im almost 6 years in mine and its like we just met ourselves,we are best of friends..and that's because we got married for all d right reasons. I didn't marry him cos he is handsome(he is not,but he is attractive),I didn't marry him cos he had cars cos when we got married he had a 1940s Nissan maxima,very old and always quenching in the middle of the express road,i didn't marry him cos he earned a huge salary(but hey he had prospects,he was hardworking and I new his meager salary was just for a season),I didn't marry him cos he was from a particular tribe,i married him cos I loved him and we had a lot of things in common..we built up our friendship to that level where when the passion fades,our friendship will keep the love growing strong. yes I married my best friend. people these days marry for all the wrong reasons,people this days forget to be friends with their patners before becoming lovers,remember passion doesn't last but wen it fades its the friendship built that keeps the marriage and love going. ask those that have been happily married for more than 25yrs they will tell u being best of friends with ur spouse is one of the key factors to a long lasting fulfilling marriage. so don't blame marriage,blame those who enter marriage for all the wrong reasons,blame those who mistake passion for love cos when that passion fades, everything falls apart.
ReplyDeletepls...let no one call @Emem isong Lesbian....bcos you dont know her ooo
ReplyDeleteAnd what if she is a Lesbian.......how does that concern you all?
Rumour Mongers
I hope ds nonsenc talk is nt coming from @Monalisa...used n dump fuckd up chick.
@Galore
sdk this idiot is back. Please delete the comments/spam; anon October 21, 2013 at 10:42 PM
ReplyDelete@ galore the lesbian always defends her fellow lesbos.
ReplyDeletembong if you are reading this please don't mind all what these people are saying ... to be a runs girl does not necessarily mean you will be jumping from one man to another, one big man can open all the doors and pepper will be rolling in, God will not come down from heaven to help you he will send somebody.... your net might catch dangote... YOLO (you only live once)
ReplyDeleteu may be unlucky, he uses u for his money rituals. Looo
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