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How Day Care Centres Kill Children Slowly...Be Watchful!


 “If your child is sleeping too much and not eating a lot, these could be signs that there are medications in his or her system. If you visit your child’s day care at a time that they are not expecting you, you may check to see if the baby is difficult to arouse or the baby is not really eating. But most times, you might not see anything to give them away. These people are good at it. It is necessary for every mother to be very detailed about her child and be able to tell if there is any form of change." SUN


 Many caregivers in Nigeria often administer sleeping drugs and other sedatives to children in their care. But experts warn that sedating children can affect their vital organs and cause them permanent damage or death.



“If the kids become too much to handle, slip them a little cold medicine,” goes a routine joke among mothers, who want to take a break and possibly rest from the ‘chaos’ created by very active children.Ironically, this brandished joke is being put to action in most day care centres and crèches across the country. Of late, the number of infants in crèches has increased astronomically, with most people attributing the trend to the demand thrown up by the society at homes and the need for survival.
Though, seldom discussed, drugging of children with sleeping pills, cough or cold syrup is an act that most parents know goes on behind the walls of day care centres. But for them, in spite of all that, the day care centre is not just a “necessary evil,” it is a necessity.

Of late, the use of sedatives on infants in crèche has become a troubling issue for parents. Sedatives are compounds that cause physiological and mental slowing of the body. In recent years, a number of infants have died at the hands of day care providers, with some of the deaths attributed to the use of over-the-counter medicines to quiet cranky babies without their parents’ permission.

Mrs. Idowu Martins (not real name) received the shock of her life when she decided to take her very vibrant daughter to a day care centre close to her home.

“She would be drugged. Kamsi is too active. It’s better you get someone to take care of her at home,” was the candid advice she got from a family friend who works in the at the centre.

Mrs. Chinonye Okonkwo was not that lucky. Even though she was able to detect on time that her son was being medicated and immediately withdrew him from the day care centre, she still wishes there is something she could do to put a stop to the dastardly act.

Recounting her experience, she noted that each time she went to the crèche to pick her son after the day’s work, she would meet him sleeping. Mrs. Okonkwo recalled that on the day she discovered that her son was being sedated, she went to pick him up, but met him sleeping.

“When we got home, he continued sleeping and refused to be breastfed. Each time I tried to wake him up, he would slump and sleep off. My son slept from 6.pm that evening till 5.am the next morning. He was so weak. It was then someone told me that he must have been drugged. I just decided to allow the sleeping dog to lie and didn’t bother going back there,” she said.

But the family of Pius Okafor was not that lucky. For them, the controversial death of their only son, Christopher Akachukwu, in a crèche was a blow too many for the family. Seeing his lifeless body literally halted their world and they are yet to recover from the shock.

The arrival of Akachukwu through a Caesarean Section (CS) on November 10, 2011, threw the family into joy, especially being the first boy after three female children.

Just like other children, he was enrolled into a nearby private school, owned by a very popular Pentecostal church in Lagos, alongside his other siblings. But on June 8, 2012, at seven-month-old, Akachukwu, who was earlier taken to school hale and hearty, was confirmed dead.

According to a medical report from the hospital where he was taken, “the complaint from his care-giver was that the baby was closing his eyes unusually, as he was being fed his lunch. Examination revealed a well-nourished male infant, who was obviously lifeless on getting to the hospital at the time. There were no breathing moments, no pulses felt, no heart sounds were heard and the pupils were dilated and unresponsive to light. He was certified dead by attending doctor as a ‘Brought-In-Dead’ (BID).”

However, the report of the toxicology test carried out on the dead child in LUTH, and signed by a pathologist, certified the cause of the death to be severe cerebral edema due to marked anemia and toxicology evidence of Diazepam in body fluid.

Diazepam is a tranquilizing drug used to reduce anxiety and tension and is a muscle relaxant and sedative.

To the Okafors, the medical and toxicology report was, no doubt, a staunch confirmation of the widespread rumour that most crèches use sedatives on the children put under their care.

Though still shrouded in mystery, the death of another infant, nine-month-old Osezua Emmanuel, has pitted the parents against the management of a crèche in Ajao Estate, Lagos. According to reports, the infant, who was described as vivacious, was in top shape when he was dropped off at school. The parents were later called and told that their son was critically ill and had been rushed to a nearby hospital. On getting to the hospital, they were shown the lifeless body of their son at the emergency ward.

Till date, whatever transpired behind the walls of the school is still left to imagination, as the staff of the school have remained secretive about the whole affair.

Recently, medical experts, in a bid to get a clear picture of malicious drug and alcoholic poisoning of children, especially those under seven years of age, and the fatal consequences of the practice in the United States of America, for example, analysed data from the National Poison Data System and found that an average of 160 cases of intentional drug abuse in children, including two deaths, are recorded each year.

The researchers, writing in the Journal of Pediatrics, said the most common medications administered without prescription were painkillers, alcohol, sedatives, sleeping pills, anti-psychotics, cough or cold medications.

The researchers speculated that the motives behind the practice of medicating kids is perhaps, for care-givers or baby sitters to have the infants sleep to avoid tantrums and ease their own workload.

According to a medical practitioner, Mrs. Obiamaka Osita-Ede, anytime a child is given a medication for any other purpose other than for what it’s explicitly prescribed for, the child run the risk of being harmed.

She warned that exposing children to medicines that they do not need could overtime affect immature organs of the body, adding that the danger inherent is that when eventually, the medication is medically necessary, they may no longer be effective.

Speaking further, Mrs. Osita-Ede said, “Sedative medications, whether for cough or any other treatment have no place in day care. Infants need to awake easily to protect themselves from dangers like choking when they spit up. The sedative interferes with that natural waking mechanism.”

According to a medical journal, the minor side effects of sedation include nausea, vomiting, mild allergic reactions, headache, dizziness and restlessness. The more serious adverse effects of sedative medications are slowed breathing, decrease in blood pressure or abnormal heart rate and rhythm. These adverse effects, it noted, however, are fortunately rare.

Speaking on the implication of drugging infants, a pharmacist and managing director of Sabiz Nigeria Limited, Damian Izuka, warned that sleeping pills must not be administered to a child less than two years.

“It shouldn’t even be administered to children less than six years. It is banned on them and anyone that does that must be prosecuted. These type of drugs changes the chemical composition of the brain.”

He explained that some of the sedatives belong to a larger family of drugs known as phenothiazine, noting that what a person set out to achieve determines the type that is administered. He disclosed that the most common thing the drugs can do to children is to depress their respiratory system, adding that once a respiratory system is in a depressed state, the heart does not function optimally to take care of the body the way it should.

“While some wear out immediately, others might take longer or eventually lead to death. If you look at what a sleeping pill does to an adult, you can then imagine what it can do to a child. When an adult uses such drugs, he is warned not to operate a machine. Putting this in mind and then administering it to a child is then not good.”

Mr. Izuka disclosed that a child’s body weight is calculated to determine the dose of drugs to be administered, adding that if there is need to administer any sleeping syrup at all, it must be done by an expert.

“Those that indulge in the act of drugging infants do it for selfish reasons. Possibility can’t be ruled out that at day care centre that has over 30 babies to one caregiver can indulge in the act to make management easier or to reduce the workload. I, however, believe that crèches should be able to put a ceiling on the number of children they can handle at a time.”

Mr. Izuka lamented that it is very difficult in Nigeria to draw a line between prescription drugs and over-the-counter drugs. This he attributed to the country’s value system, which he regretted doesn’t really place premium on human lives. He also decried the fact that no form of check or control is carried out on drugs, adding that this allows people to get away with certain acts.

“People have free access to drugs which is very unfortunate. Those licensed to sell drugs are insignificant in number to the unlicensed ones. The system is too loose. The enforcement system, when it comes to drugs circulation in Nigeria can be better than it is now. The healthcare sector needs to be repackaged.”

For Dr. Chukwurah Augustine, a general medical practitioner, since medicines are poisons, he declared, under no condition should anybody, be it a child or an adult, take a medicine that is not prescribed.

“Whoever dispenses a drug to a child without prescription has committed an abuse. Children are not supposed to be given any medicine except it was recommended and for medicinal purposes. A day care operator is not trained to administer medicines. The only person trained to administer any medicines is a nurse. It is supposed to be recommended by a medical doctor while it is dispensed by a pharmacist.”

Abolanle Kayode, a biochemist at the department of Chemical Sciences, Bells University of Technology, Otta, stressed that sleeping pills, especially melatonin should only be used temporarily and when necessary under a doctor’s supervision. He also warned that long-term use or abuse of it like that used by caregivers for preschool children may have serious impact on the systems in the body that govern puberty related changes.

“There is also the potential risk of delayed development for children who have taken it for a long time,” he warned.

However, Dr. Ijeoma Nwobi, a paediatrician says there are ways to tell if a child has being sedated. According to her, sedative medications last in the system a long time.

65 comments:

  1. Sorry but me can not read all this, but mothers should be careful of the daycare centre they take their children to before it can be too late.

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    1. Me too I didn't finish it, no time for long story.the world is full of wicked people mother have to be observant before they drug their babies to death

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    2. I will kill"any"wuman wu puts ma children n2 any form of abuse haba! Druggn a bby? Dts jst plain wickedness n wen dy ar caught dy wil blame d devil

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  2. Only God ll help someone, it just gets scarier by the day. My four year old son was being bullied by his classmate until it got out of hand and my baby stabbed him with a biro, to say i was shocked is an understatement, wat if my baby had damaged a vital part of d boy, wetin i for talk, d boy stopped bullying him after d incident. These days i just think n worry, what if my boy ll turn out a violent man. I ve had talks with him n he promised he ll never hurt anyone again but ll report to his aunty in school if anyone looks for his trouble. God help us o.

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    1. You need to work on your "baby". That's quite extreme behaviour for his age. I hope no one around him is exhibiting such violent behaviour.

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    2. Madam am sorry to say this but that is rather odd. A 4year old child stabbing someone with biro!!! Where did he learn that from?
      Please watch him very closely, stop him from watching violent cartoons and if you have neighbours whose kids act razz or play very rough play, please stop your child from associating with them.

      I personally don't allow my son play with our neighbours kids. You need to see them, they are very rough. Always playing rough and dirty.


      @post, this drugging issue is one thing that scares the sh*t out of me . I have always been watchful and extremely observant since my son started attending creche but thank God for the owner of the creche. she is really experienced and a very God fearing woman.
      Honestly speaking i used to sneak to the school midday with the excuse of "i forgot to put his bib/fork/extra pampers etc just to check on my boy.
      I feel for those women who lost their kids. 9months is not easy oooooooooo.

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    3. U can call it extreme Bt he had to stand up to the bully somehow.I'm not saying hitting him with a biro is a good thing but he has to fight for his freedom cos no one will do that for him.
      Bullies need ppl who will face them head on.

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    4. Anon 12.47 those wr my tots at first but then i tot, what if my son was d one stabbed, i wont want to hear jack. I dnt ve neighbours he plays with tho, i blive d talk we had ll work by God's grace.

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    5. Bullying is bad. Very bad. The other boy deserved exactly what he got. Next time, he will never bully another kid again. Bullying can cause a lot of damage in a childs life. I won't tolerate any of my kids bullying anoda kid. Cele will flog that evil spirit out of him.

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  3. Chimoo!!This is very bad...at this particular juncture,I think employing a nanny is the best thou not 100% safe...nawaoo,nsogbu di...

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  4. Omo! Mehn! He that has ears let him hear! Read Nasty Hot Stories Here Now!!!

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  5. I started reading, fell asleep, woke up and continued. * nobody should come here calling me lazy o* I had no idea this kind of thing happens o. If you leave your kid at home with a maid, she'll turn out to be a witch, or she'll start sleeping with your husband, if you now take them to day care, they'll be drugged. What are we supposed to do now? Am scared of this world, am scared of people, cos you have no idea what they are doing to you in your absence. It's only God that will help us o. I don't understand anymore.

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    1. The best is taking care of your babies yourself till they can talk well at least. But with the economic situation, it's not possible for some mothers.

      Stella I don't know how to tell my neighbour that I don't know what her nanny is always doing to her baby. The baby is always crying,sometimes she can cry for more than 1 hour at a go. I have tried knocking for then severally when the baby is wailing like that, but once I knock or press bell, the baby will stop crying and no one answer the door, I always leave feeling like a fool. The child's mother is all these high class working class women, she leaves home as early as 6am and comes back around 11pm or later than that. The last time I saw the woman was about 3 or 4 months ago in a party. Before I could even engage her in a conversation, she has left with her driver.I don't get to even see her so I can talk to her about her baby's constant cries. I know we live a "mind your business" kind of life here but I always imagine what could be making a baby cry like that daily.Her husband is not in the county at the moment. Anyone who spends upto 2 days in my house always notices the way that baby cries. I feel for that baby really. Any day I stay home I feel so uncomfortable because that baby is always wailing and it breaks my heart.

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    2. @anony10.55am does this woman also work on Saturdays n Sundays? I think u shd actively seek her out on one of those days n voice ur concerns. No matter how busy she is, she must have time off work.
      If u're worried about the sort of reception u'll get, u cld slip a letter under her door (in a sealed envelope).
      U cld also leave the envelope on under the windscreen wiper of her car, if u're think the nanny might tamper with it.
      Bottom-line, u've got to do something for conscience's sake, incase something is actually going on with that child.

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    3. Haba! You ve not done well. Please look for the woman without delay. Isn't she home on Sundays? Even if it means going to her house very early in the morning, do your part and tell her your observation.

      Some women have mind sha! If she's so rich, she should take the baby to a standard child care center.

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    4. Pls I'm using God to beg u, go to the lady's house weekend or if possible monitor her n see when she comes back and talk to her. U will never forgive ur sef if something happens to that child.

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    5. Pls dear,look for Mrs. Busybee's number nd send her text if she will not pick her calls.

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    6. Thanks guys for your suggestions. I will put more effort in trying to contact her. Maybe on weekends, I hope she will be around tomorrow. I asked our gateman if he has her number he said he doesn't but gave me her husband's own. Hubby thinks I should try and talk to the woman first then if nothing changes, we can then call her husband.
      Phew! This thing tire me seriously. I no sabi meddle in peoples affairs but I can't rest until I find out what that woman they have as nanny is doing to that small girl.

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    7. Pls help dat lil girl asap, even if d nanny is innocent at least d woman shld b aware of dat kinda cry frm her baby, God bless u as u do dis pls ..

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    8. Pls help dat lil girl asap, even if d nanny is innocent at least d woman shld b aware of dat kinda cry frm her baby, God bless u as u do dis pls ..

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  6. some day care ds days,,dey are so selfish......why wud u gv a little child sleeping pills for goodness sake?

    @Galore

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  7. Na wa oo..what is all these nah??? Heeeii children too? Eye opener. Thanks for the info...Sterraaa

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  8. Them plenty o. My nephew was always getting drugged too. Until we stopped the daycare. Then, a vibrant boy was always sleepin n stuff, had to discuss with d parents nd they withdrew him sharpaly. Now he is back to his normal self. Parents shld just be careful with all these caregivers o,some r deadly!

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  9. Jeez!
    This is scary.
    Why would one in good conscience do that to a child?!
    Parents pay large sums of money to have their child taken care, to help nurture, teach. And they are too lazy to carry out what they are paid to do?!
    God have mercy.

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  10. Is it only sleeping pills that that gave babies? They eat the children s food, and if you go pick or drop your kid off in school and you don't give those hungry Anties tip they will neglect your child. Those ones that are owned by churches are the worst. All those witch sisters acting so holy are so wicked to children. I ve seen one eating directly from a child's food with her bare hands while I went to pick my niece, I had to challenge her, I asked her I said “madam is he your son? She said no, I was like but you are eatin his yam na, ,, she was like sorry I'm just tasting it for him,, so I said if you can taste this size from this small bowl what do you want the boy to eat cos you ve tasted almost everything , she just squizzed face for me muttering somethin from her filled up mouth. Uhmm pls don't mind my typos I'm typin with anger.

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    1. You should have found out the child's parents and reported the nonsense Sister

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    2. Hahahahahahahahahhaahahahahahahhahahahahahahaha

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    3. You should have given her resounding slap for even having guts to mutter rubbish. So that when she shouts people go meet una there n maybe the boy's mum too.

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  11. This is mainly because most Creches are substandard and have little or no activities tailored to the needs of active children. Housemaids of proprietors and other unqualified personnel are left in child of sensitive children.

    Where I live, its easier to pass through a key hole than to establish a child care center. The criteria are so stringent. A large space and play facilities for each age group are very compulsory. The children explore their adventurous spirits, not couped up in a room

    Even the home family day care are strictly regulated. I was surprised to find out that almost anyone with a room can set up a Creche in Nigeria and they are mostly unregulated. The government needs to take more interest in that segment.

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  12. This is the main reason I couldn't gather the courage to put my baby in a daycare. Those people are evil including the ones owned by some churches.

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  13. May God help us all and may we have the wisdom to discern when things are not right with our kids.

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  14. Don't take your children to the one own by some churches some nanny s there are pretenders. There is one in Oregun by NNPC Uhmmm the Anties there are hungry.

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  15. Witches And Wizards! But why will the government just allow anyone to open day care? Aren't they standards?

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  16. This is why I chose to do my personal business and stay at home and take care of my little nephew as opposed to letting his very busy mum putting him in a crèche. Biko, for now he's my parents only grandchild and the evils I hear about in all these crèches is so scary. My only worry is being the last child I have to siblings to do the same for me when my own kids come but I know God will make a way, I pray I never have cause to put my baby in a crèche.
    I hope those families, especially the Okafor's sued o! That crèche should be shut down and sued for whatever it is worth. Nigerians are so fuckin greedy. You know the workload is getting too much yet you keep accepting more and more children all because of money. Terrible.

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  17. Anon22: pls try to leave a note in a sealed envelope for the mother. Dont give it to the maid o, maybe a maiguard or someone within the house. Better stil why not try to target the mother leaving at 6am, its a huge sacrifice, but do ur part n move on. Its left for the working class mother to decide her priorities! Abi no be so?

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  18. this is so wrong, mothers beware.\
    Mabel Dufegha: PICTURES OF THE TRADITIONAL WEDDING BETWEEN AYEKIT... http://mdufegha.blogspot.com/2013/12/pictures-of-traditional-wedding-between.html?spref=tw

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  19. Omg!! This is so not cool. May God help our kids. Thanks for sharing Aunty stella

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  20. Na wa ooo...no place is safe again.

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  21. Its so sad. Some mothers are guilty of this reckless behaviour. There was this neighbour who wanted to stop breastfeeding her one-year-old son by giving d poor soul 4spoons of Guiness stout at night. The baby wud sleep all thru without demanding for milk. She actually succeeded after practicing it for 1 week. Imagine that? Wherever that idea fron from *surprised*

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  22. So so sad. Poor kids. I still think a nanny is the best perhaps if she is treated well she might love the kids and take care of them well on the other hand she might not. Wahala de o

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  23. anonymous 12 you are really stupid for your comments...how many churches do you know have daycare that u come out and make such statements? u do not generalise cos if you have had an experience somewhere do u join all churches? if you have proof name them and hide under anonymous, but dont say what u dont know....even witches like u wey no dey go church go dey abuse churches.....

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    1. Y is it paining you? Are you one of them? Are you one of those hungry dirty church goers who work with crèche? Madam holier than Mary, I'm a christian you hear? But I'm sure church tats like you go to church because of hunger,,,,, I'm sure you are one of those hungry mean church sisters who always look towards parent purse at that new church school on Oregun road by NNPC. Change your ways you hear,dirty hungry witch

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  24. I choose not to call the mothers that leave their babies to the care of someone careless or reckless.The economic situation of the country doesn't encourage career women.anyways,i also had a friend that lost her one n only cos she was a single mom.suspicions were that the baby ate something odd from her creche cos she dies of diarrhoea.
    Cece

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  25. I choose not to call the mothers that leave their babies to the care of someone careless or reckless.The economic situation of the country doesn't encourage career women.anyways,i also had a friend that lost her one n only cos she was a single mom.suspicions were that the baby ate something odd from her creche cos she dies of diarrhoea.
    Cece

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    1. "Dies"haba uju ejim..na so ur english be
      Henry

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  26. That's why I always advocate self-employment for women. Learn a trade/skill even if you're a graduate and become self-employed... It won't be easy in the beginning, but it's better than losing a child.

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  27. Every time I hear of stories like this, I thank God for making my husband capable of providing for me and my daughter. I stay home and at the same time have a small business that brings in small money on the side. I can't deal with all this craziness of leaving my child with someone. I was left with my own grandmother and she tortured me for years. She hated and segregated me for no reason. We just had a confrontation two weeks ago. I confronted her about everything she did to me as a child that ended up affecting me even when I grew older. She denied it at first and then apologized. I trust no one but God and myself. And I continue to ask him to keep providing for my family, that way I don't end up taking my kids to daycare or nanny or relative. I also ask God to protect all your kids and let them find favor everywhere you decide to take them.

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  28. Pls do something about it. How would you feel if you heard tomorrow that the baby died in the hands of the nanny. You would have your conscience to contend with God.
    Drop the nigerian negative factor and just do the right thing. Approach the mother and let her know...
    My friend lost her daughter in the hands of a maid

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  29. i dont know which is more disturbing,the fact that this care givers are pure evil or the fact that the parent that realised what was happening just withdrew their kids and did nothing about working to shut down these places to protect other children
    this is just crazy

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  30. Well said Oluyomi,self-employment is the best for mothers with growing up kids.Truth be told there are lovely creche where you can put your kids while at work/home, experienced staff & enough space for them to play around.sample people's opinion before putting your wards,I used one around Adetokunbo Ademola, wuse 2 on recommendations & didn't regret it(ll call severally in a day to hear my child's voice).children can be a handful especially if you've the hyper ones(lol),so some of these people drugging them are mean/uninformed no doubt but mothers should be watchful,don't be too busy for your children you brought them into the world.

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  31. Stella I must say the truth today. Your are the best blogger. Blogging is not all about Rihanna and Beyonce or gossip ..
    I learn each time I visit your blog.
    God bless you plenty plenty

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  32. The name of the place where the child died is Masters Children school in Ajao Estate.... pipo still dey go dere with their babies till date.... I sure say they feel it can't happen to theri babies that's why cos I no see wetin fit make person still take pikin go there

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  33. Master Children School ajao estate na dere the pikin die

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  34. Princess Charming20 December 2013 at 21:37

    Hmm na wa oo. Imagine drugging kids. I never knew such things even exist. Stella thanks for this info, that's why I love this blog. I will be a mum by next year by God's grace, I will learn to take care of my child alone so help me God. Amen

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  35. a younger friend lost her only child at a creche, she went to pick her baby and they called her to come in cause they dont understand d baby not waking p, i have a feeling they knew d baby was dead just pretended they didnt know
    best thing is stay at home and care for ur kids while growing, its just for a while and not a death sentence, whats d benefit of all ur career and dough without healthy children? its better u stay home and have all ur babies, nurse them till they can talk and then go back to work, whie at that get ur hands at something, so many things to make u self employed, bake, sew, run a jucie company and all that
    pls get madam busy pepsi's attention by all means, even f t means dropping a letter wt her driver, if anything happens to that child she will open her pepeye mouth to cry meanwhile she's d architect of her own misfortune

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  36. I know the economic situation in the world as a whole presently means women must work to help support the home, but I urge those that can stay home,to stay home,at least for the first five/six years were possible. The truth is the damage caused to a lot of children,not all,but a lot, no amount of money earned can compensate for or rectify it. And in a lot of cases,the damage reflects as the child grows older, when it is too late to do anything about it. Let that child be able to speak to you before you leave it,and yes I realise not everyone can just drop everything and stay home,but where it is possible,please,please stay home for your children.

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  37. Thanks Aunty Stella 4 dis info, ur blog rocks!

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  38. U see ehn, I know things are not easy in this country but to leave ur child from 6am to 11pm every day!!! Habaaaaa,madammmm!!! Why did u give birth na? Dat nanny na ur blood? Even ur blood won't take care of d child like u can! Pls neighbour, make haste and talk to her ooo! Some mothers can make my jaw slack sha! I thank God for myself o! Hubby is d best! My son started creche at 7months,d creche was one of d most expensive in my area but I didn't mind cos dey had lik only 5kids there(my son was d youngest)so d care was out of dis world!I would walk in any time and I neva saw anything negative! my son even learnt how to walk there...People were abusing me,saying I'm wasting money,I didn't even think twice!Me n hubby had to deny ourselves of so many things to make sure he had dat... One creche I went to, I went there at 2 in d afternoon and like 5 children (all boys) were sleeping at d same time!!!! If dey weren't drugged, tell me wat that is! Children of dis days dat are soo hyper!! I picked race like a chicken! My son no even gree stay,immediately we got in, he started to cry for no reason! Children are really sensitive to things! Mothers shd try n read and decode deir feelings o! Its ur job to do so! Period! May God help us o, and we'll reap d fruits of our labour,Amen!

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  39. Aunty Stella ur blog is just d best, God bless u for all dz info, I'm still wondering y some pple choose to be heartless, drugging kids? Smh! May God guard and protect our kids from d hands of d evil ones in Jesus name Amen!

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  40. U see ehn, I know things are not easy in this country but to leave ur child from 6am to 11pm every day!!! Habaaaaa,madammmm!!! Why did u give birth na? Dat nanny na ur blood? Even ur blood won't take care of d child like u can! Pls neighbour, make haste and talk to her ooo! Some mothers can make my jaw slack sha! I thank God for myself o! Hubby is d best! My son started creche at 7months,d creche was one of d most expensive in my area but I didn't mind cos dey had lik only 5kids there(my son was d youngest)so d care was out of dis world!my son learnt how to walk there...Me n hubby had to deny ourselves of so many things to make sure he had dat... One creche I went to, I went there at 2 in d afternoon and like 5 children (all boys) were sleeping at d same time!!!! If dey weren't drugged, tell me wat that is! Children of dis days dat are soo hyper!! I picked race like a chicken! My son no even gree stay,immediately we got in, he started to cry for no reason! Children are really sensitive to things! Mothers shd try n read and decode deir feelings o! Its ur job to do so! Period! May God help us o, and we'll reap d fruits of our labour,Amen!

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