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| TOKUNBO MELAYE |
Tokunbo confirms she was not referring to Blog Visitor Pola as one of the ladies who sent naked pics to her estranged controversial hubby Dino Melaye.
Pola realises her mistake in defending someone accused of domestic violence and her tendered her apology to everyone....
Dear Blog Visitors,
I sincerely apologise for my comments in the Tokunbo Fabiyi-Melaye post that came across like I was defending someone alleged to be involved in a domestic violence saga. I realised my comments were very insensitive and I know they must have hurt you (Tokunbo) and other SDK Blog Visitors. I am totally against Domestic Violence so will never condone it.
I have contacted Toks to personally clarify things and tender my unreserved apology but also thought to use this medium to reach out to all those who misunderstood me. I hope you Toks and all blog visitors will forgive and move on.
About me being called out on twitter and the rumours, my understanding of Tokunbo's tweet was that she perceived I judged her based on what I heard. That I apologised for.
I also want to clarify here that I'm a happily married woman. I'm NOT one of those ladies Tokunbo referred to in her tweets oh. I NEVER SENT indecent pics to anyone. I didn't do such while single how much more now that I'm married. Waking up to 53 missed calls and messages yesterday morning from loved ones regarding this issue is really disturbing. I should have just kept my gob shut rather than making people misunderstand me. Make una nor vex oh.
In conclusion, i deeply apologise if my blind defence of someone i call friend has put me on the hot seat and misrepresented the fight for justice….Toks and i are cool now after our talk,i hope you will also forgive me and move on from this…it won't happen again.
Regards,
POLA
*Apology accepted on behalf of blog visitors..thank goodness you have resolved this with Toks.
Abi o! no be only Pola dey dis world. Good u cleared ur from this palaver!
ReplyDelete@Steph..........Us as in? Like Seriously Us???!!
Delete*one*
DeleteLol. Am apy Pola cleared her name. So sumbdy cannot give his/her opinion in peace now?
DeleteI love you Pola.
Buh dere myt be several Polas now, no be only one Pola go dey dis world. You gat ma respect as from 2day Pola! It shows you're very responsible.
Lol, I never suspected u were guilty as charged.
DeleteLet's move on
It's a bright new day
Mamie, must make foolish comment. Idiot. Making me abuse this morning. Pola is mature n sincere. Unlike u. U can lie for Africa. Who are u to pronounce her guilty as charged? Didnt u read the part where she said she didnt send indecent pics to Dino. Oh no. U read but couldnt comprehend. U're just an idiot honestly. Every other person is commending her, u want to come n sit as jury abi. Anu ofia. U r disgusting.
DeleteJust so u know, everyone on this blog now respects Pola. Even if they didnt before. N trust me, no one gives a hoot about u. At least we reached out to her to come n clear her name n she honored d call, respectfully n sincerely.
I for one, i'm impressed she bothered to put all the information out there, with her picture, called Tokunbo to apologize, confirmed she didnt send indecent pics and also saw her mistake in supporting Dino.
So Mamie, gtfoh with ur fish brain, lying tongue, low level reasoning and wicked mind.
@anon ur bitterness has turned u dyslexic.
DeleteRead mamie's comment before saying rubbish,she said I never suspected u were guilty as charged,u are obviously the one with the fish brain.
DeletePola De lik prs wey too talk sef
ReplyDeleteShut that your smelly gutter you call a mouth. Only una tear this pretty lady down with words yesterday. Now she's done the right thing by clarifying issues you dey there dey type nonsense say she be like who like talk too much. Ode!!!
DeleteWelldone POLA and I'm so proud of your sence of reasoning. Sorry for the call outs by SDKers jor, they were ignorant. Now we know better. I'm now following you on twitter cos your tweets make sence die.... #TeamAries
Sade u r ill. Get ur drugs
DeleteStella, I'm trying so hard to understand how you connect with your blog visitors on a personal level!
ReplyDeleteThis is the new cool in blogging mehnnnn!
You dey try. Forgiven Pola. One love.
Stella stop accepting apologies on our behaves shoti gbo
ReplyDeleteGbagaun!!!
DeleteBehaves kor , lmao please go back to bed
DeleteLoool. E gbe agbara le. Apology accepted.
DeleteLmao
DeleteOlodo Rabata, Oju eja lo mo je..!!
DeleteMatured minds....
DeleteWhy are U sparking like a naked wire? What is biting U? It appears U don't have a forgiving spirit. Take several seats abeg.
DeleteHahahahahhaah
DeleteNa this hate for innocent people go kill you. What's your business in the matter? Tokunbo has confirmed she wasn't referring to POLA but her tweets were muddled up with her name. God zip all una mouths wey don abuse this fine sisi.
DeleteApologies accepted jor for meddling. No homo! All the best Lady Pola.
It is not only 'behaves'😞
DeleteHahahaha this blog na wah.Me didn't join d band wagon I asked Pola who responded politely.I beleived her so y'all should pls let it go ,we love u Pola and u welcome back «««MON AMI»»»
DeleteThat's so thoughtful of U. God bless U.
ReplyDeleteHmmm interesting. Fair enough. But I wish to direct this to madame Tokunbo. I read your tweets that made rounds days ago, and honestly I must tell u this, I do not think it is wise for u to tow that line with Dino. Reason is that so far, everyone with blood running through their veins are on ur side. Only an animal would read ur story and not be sympathetic of ur predicament.
DeleteHowever, your constant spew tru d media will soon dilute the very strong potency your case has garnered media wise since it started. Please do not diminish it by taking to any social platform to play eye for an eye with Dino or his mistresses. You were, or shall I say, u are still dino's wife..not a mistress or a baby mama who's scorned.
U have taken the right step by seeking redress in court, and I suggest that u stick to it. Don't relinquish ur position like gutter bitter girls who take to twitter to wash their filthy pants in public. There is nothing u want to reveal that people do not already know about ur husband. I mean, not after Bisi's case. And lately, Dino himself displayed his folly by celebrating another woman in the midst of all these. So we know he has no upright moral etiquette befitting a man his status. So why bother?
Whatever evidence you have gathered against him can be used in court during the proceedings to favor ur case. Should u continue to tweet at him or his numerous whores, you'll begin to attract a lot of insults to yourself, which I suspect is already happening. When people start to insult u they won't remember that u are the victim anymore..youll be amazed. Hold up your integrity and try to be as silent as u can. I know it is hard, but trust me, golden silence should be your motto right now.
Notice he has been quiet about your issues lately, so don't give him any ammunition to say that u are frustrated, even if u are. Please madame, do the needful behind doors and not tru the media. Except it is absolutely necessary to air some info, I suggest you concentrate on other things and leave the media alone for now. Just my candid advice to a sister who's distressed. God will see you through.
Well said@mrs zulu. Tokunbo should better take this advice. Just be quite and stop d cyber rant
DeleteIssokai........
ReplyDeletePls close ur teeth, I'm trying to eat here and the particles between ur teeth are irritating. Thank you
Deletehheheheheheheheheheheheheh
DeleteHahahaha yomslaw ur teeth no dey close.
DeleteLmao
Deletei no even know say anything happen.
ReplyDeleteLol. Julit, u crack me up.
DeleteAccepted
ReplyDeleteGo and sin no more. Eyin aye e jebure oh.
ReplyDeleteApology accepted.....
ReplyDeleteMehn this pola chic is hot. If she weren't married,I would gladly propose to her. Bobs I luv this chic stature, plus tokumbo pls go and take a seat and stop constituting nuisance, if you held ur home well, you wouldn't be where you are today. Ur matter don tire everybody.
ReplyDeletepola why do I think u are the one writing this......
DeleteI salute this Pola lady. But here I have few questions to ask. This is a blog where we just give ourselves whatever name we wish right? Except for a few who put up their real names, and even those with pics are sometimes fake in my opinion. Yet we still cannot identify ourselves outside of here right?
DeleteSo, why and how did Pola's friends query her? Is she d only pola that exists? And why did pola even bother since we all do not know her? This is not fbk where people know themselves. It could have been anyone, although I commend ur courage pola. And now u even sent in a face to the name. Yea becos u have nothing to hide and u are plain, good for u.
But truth be told. I wouldn't. Except u tell me that ur husband and friends know that u visit this blog, hence u feel u have to clear the air for their sakes, then fine. Otherwise, if it wasn't ur naked pics..why dignify Tokunbo with clarity? Though am on her side too. Errrrrrrmm maybe am missing something sha
Never mind my query, investigative journalism and law training is compelling me to ask all these. Am not knocking u off at all.
@SISI EKO if u ask meee na who I go ask? Lol but tru tho, me sef won't bother.
DeleteGlad u cleared ursef from the mess, next time "look before u leap".
ReplyDeleteStella is our mother incase U̶̲̥̅̊ don't know!!! Pola, U̶̲̥̅̊ sure have a gud heart n so U̶̲̥̅̊ r 4given!
ReplyDeleteGood one pola. Its good you cleared the air. This goes to teach us all to be mindful of our utterances.
ReplyDeleteOne love.
Abrakatabra is here! Blog visitors say hu hu hu ho!
ReplyDeleteStella is d 'coolest' Blogger ever!
ReplyDeleteThen who is the Pola sending naked pictures? maybe Toks should expose that Pola.
ReplyDeleteAccepted....go and sin no more
ReplyDeleteLmfao @melayegate. Stella you no go kee persin.
ReplyDeleteFunny enuf when I saw the tweets na blog visitor pola enter my mind..
Its just a warning to women especially to guard Their tongues.
Btw, pola apology not accepted.*tongue out*
Apology accepted dear.
ReplyDeleteGo and sin no more...
ReplyDeleteApologies accepted.....lets us move on with life ooooo
ReplyDeleteApology accepted.
ReplyDeletePS. Pls, BlogFam, who knows where I can learn baking, making of small chops and decoration in onitsha, Anambra State. It's urgent. Am tired of looking for work. #helpanidlesister. Thanks sweeties.
Woman where are thy accusers? i see no one, go thy way,you are free.
ReplyDeleteAbeg make toks go sit down some where joor..when the man dey hiuse and buy car form am why she no move? Now she dey do spoiler..dino aint no sanit,but just move on and shut up.he is still d father of your kids...sipping my coke jeje
ReplyDeleteshut up onukwu.... brainless dummy
DeleteApology accepted, next time think before you react.
ReplyDeleteThis is soo cool! Stella ur blog nd visitors are soo mouthed... Stella I love ur level of connection with ur blog visitors nd sensitivity to srs issues. God bless U and Ur family and keep u alive to continue the good work He has started tru U. I love U #no homo
ReplyDeleteBut Pola Y are u always in d middle of bullshit sef? U talk too much and always trying to be friends with all the "Big people"-Go thru her twitter TL and see what I'm talking about.
ReplyDeleteDon't even come here and deny cus you've been thru dis whole crap of having to defend ur honor n integrity before. And it had to do with extra marital ish. Deny am make I mention names n instances here.
Pola shut the fuck up n face ur marriage. God has blessed u with a good man. Stop testing his patience. And learn not to famz so much on social media. Na I'm carry u enter the gbege wey u dey so.
'Nuff Said!
Pls tell her.... She's always claiming to be who she's not.
DeleteSee this scum catching bitch cussing out POLA here oh. This life sef!!! I follow her on twitter and I can't see the "Big People" you're talking about. Your brain is so unworkable and I pity you cos you will never have her kind of man. Awon Haters Oshi
DeleteYou that is perfect, go get a life BASTARDDDD *in 9CE's Voice*
Stella post my comment abeg make this hateful Frenemy see. Idiot!!!!
Welcome O pola. All curses back to ur head a hundred fold. If u like don't keep ur loose mouth shut and mind ur business. Next time u might not come out of scandal untainted. Friendly advice. U send ur dogs to cuss me out or u come under anon to cuss me out,all curses back to ur head a hundred fold.
DeleteI won't come back to read or reply you again. Moving on.
WOW! I'm glad you got it all cleared up.
ReplyDeleteEheee, where is GOLDSCENT DIAMOND that was carrying this matter on top her head like one busg gala seller? Shame on you! Pola is vindicated, now you can go visit the devil and never return. Agbaya oshi
Good for them
ReplyDeleteOkay
ReplyDeleteGood fr dem
ReplyDeleteis okay we forgive you
ReplyDeleteyomslaw your teeth na die you go need to do oral b and close up Adverts
is alright apology accepted
ReplyDeleteI just love the maturity displayed by both parties.
ReplyDeleteNo wahala
ReplyDeletePola,i love ur humility,good u cleared urself of this scandal.
ReplyDeleteU are a beautiful lady too#no homo pls o,i know say na 14yrs#
Only the strong apologise. I admire you....
ReplyDeleteApology accepted, welcome back into the fold.
ReplyDeleteWe don hear your apology. Go and sin no more.
ReplyDeleteCeeCee.
No pro make una carry go.....
ReplyDeleteAccepted
ReplyDeleteThat Gud. Sir alpachino.
ReplyDeleteThat Gud. Sir alpachino.
ReplyDeleteNice one Pola, God bless u
ReplyDelete@ Dimma pearl
..But wait a min, perhpas, I dnt get sth. So bcos Pola defended Dino, Toks turned around and said she's sleeping wt her man and dt she also has her nudes wt the head cropped off. Pola calls Toks and discuss certain tins and then Toks now said everything she said were not true. I'm forced to ask of these guys are playing wt our intelligence or I'm I just reading meaning into mothing.....just my tots tho. Feel free to counter me.
ReplyDeleteLike you read my mind
Deletesharap
DeleteSomeone's trying to save her marriage,lol. Who be fool?
Delete*If*
ReplyDeleteVery good
ReplyDeleteAiight.Eve E Ume
ReplyDeleteApology Accepted...
ReplyDeleteI just love this POLA lady. You're one of the very few blog visitors who have sence and act wisely. I'm sorry for the embarrassment this who saga has caused you and your family.
ReplyDeleteTokunbo should have separated her tweets sef! Na wa!
Anyway, make everybody move on from this jor. All the best to you all and may you find peace in your endeavours.
Its not SENCE oooo, please now. It is SENSE, oya spell after me S...E...N...C...E, good! This isn't your ist time of making this mistake
Deleteafi ist naa
DeleteApology accepted.. Case closed!
ReplyDeleteNice one gurl. Everybody cn rest on d mata nw! *yawns*
ReplyDeleteNext time Pola, no carry another person matter for head while u put your own in plastic bag... Falana sho ti e, tara eni la n sho!... Have a happy life.cheers
ReplyDeleteSo this is the POLA? Loool. I hope you have learned how to control you mouth, always yarning dust claiming to be who you are not. Smh
ReplyDeleteSo will madam Tokunbo go and tweet again that she was not referring to Pola in those scandalous allegations? It's easy to kiss and makeup but she's already given the whole world a wrong impression of the beef.
ReplyDeleteNow following POLA and Toks on twitter!!! Waiting for the fixing.
To think some faceless jobless hateful nonentities cussed her out here yesterday without getting the message in the tweet call out!!!! Shows how porous the brains of some blog visitors are..
Bla bla bla !! Whatever !! Can we now move on with our lives???
ReplyDeleteHmm pola and toks what can I say,fingers are crossed.
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