Anita Face Your Book And Leave My Husband- Blog Visitor Narrative.

Blog visitor just found out her hubby made love to his girlfriend on their matrimonial bed.....She was told by the un-apologetic girlfriend who told her ''your hubby will return to you when he is tired....''

 ''Dear Stella I would like to share my story with you..I wedded 2 years ago and I have a 1 year old baby.

I am a doctor by profession and I wedded as a virgin,I met my hubby who was everything I dreamt of in a man, he was a complete gentleman.

We courted for 2 years and he kept begging me to marry him but my parents insisted I graduated first from medical school,immediately I graduated we had our wedding.during our honeymoon I was alone in the hotel room and I decided to go through one of his phones to keep me busy lo and behold I was shocked at the sexual messages between him and several girls,and they were recent messages.when I confronted him he cried and begged me saying it was in the past,after that he started locking his phones .

8 months later while I was pregnant I stumbled on his laptop and BB phone and discovered he was practically begging for chicks on badoo while all his female bbm contacts were either his love,sweetheart etc,and this is a man that refused calling me a pet name saying it didn't matter, yet he had names for all of them.

I confronted him and he begged,cried and made promises ,my parents got involved and they begged me because of my condition to take it easy but it was too much for me ,some days later I developed hypertension in pregnancy and my baby had to be delivered by CS.

after delivery we reconciled and he was back to his role as the perfect hubby,5 months later he came home in the middle of the day and I saw him changing his boxers,I got curious and he kept giving excuses,my suspicion heightened and as I dragged the boxers from him, I felt sperm on my hands,he started explaining that he was watching porn in his friends house that was why……of course I knew it was a lie but he kept swearing and I didn't want to upset my mom who was around for omugwo so I let it slide..

I noticed that all his call history,chats and messages were always empty because he deletes them. last night I needed to use his phone to place some orders and he was hesitant to give me,while I was browsing one Anita sent him a message on whats app and it read " OK sweetie" .

I got curious and checked the chat history was blank as usual. so I decided to keep myself busy and replied her,then I subtly let her on so we could chat,she was evasive at first (because my hubby sent her a message earlier asking her not to send anything to his phone because he knew I would be with the phone).

I convinced her that I was my hubby and we got chatting.I stylishly asked her questions and I got to know that she was his girlfriend,and she had been to my house and that the best sex they have ever had was on my matrimonial bed and she enjoys when they have sex because they don't use condom,their last sexual encounter was 3 weeks ago (when he was supposedly at work).

she was even ready to come to the house that night when I made her believe that I (the wife)was on night duty.unfortunately she couldn't get keke by 11pm .I told her to travel with me to Lagos the next day and she agreed, I asked for her I.d card to book her flight and she sent not one but two ….the I.d cards are attached.

I asked her if she will marry me if I leave my wife she said yeah and they already had plans for Val's day..smh. 

Stella do you know that I was diagnosed with chlamydia recently and my hubby had the guts to ask me how come I had it because he was faithful.

When I told her that she had been chatting with me (the wife) she was unapologetic saying after all it was my hubby that approached her, and that I shouldn't worry when he is tired he will come back to me. she said That it is a normal game girls play and I wonder because I was taught differently. 

 my husband is crying and making promises but I know better, at least now I know I have to zip up in this my marriage hence I contact H.I.V 

Is this a normal thing wives have to go through?what do i do?''

 Thank you very much I feel better sharing this.

*ANITA WHOSE IDENTITY WE DECIDED TO SHIELD IS A STUDENT IN ONE OF THE UNIVERSITIES.