In March 2012, my Isoko sister and OAP Cordelia Okpei shared this picture with me and other friends on facebook and BB. ........to say i was shocked is an understatement.
Cordelia shares this again.....
''this woman's husband did this to her... against wise reasoning She went back to the house after the brutality of the above picture because of the children. Few days ago (Feb 14), the husband she returned to tried setting her on fire whilst she slept but their 16 yr old son managed to fight him off.
However, the husband succeeded in stabbing her several times on the neck and other parts of her body. Right now she is just coming out of coma in the hospital. I have nothing more to add.''
WTF!!!...this woman should run for her dear life....the man is barbaric...he need to die a painful death...if am the woman,I will kill him first before killing me...ihe na eme
ReplyDeleteOh my days!!!! Someone's sister and daughter? Go back cos of the children? Wtf is going on???? This is attempted murder!!! Isn't there a law in Nigeria to keep such men behind bars??? Wow....
DeleteThat man is the devil himself!!! Woman pls run for ur life and never look back... Thank God for her son if not , this would v bn a different story altogether. Some ppl r wicked oh...
DeleteI wish d man succeeded by then she will run f her life wen she is in d grave.. Mschew *smh* women can b so dumb, y live in a burning house cos of ur kids? U die- anoda woman comes in n take over d home u have suffered t build. My advise t all those in her shoes: LEAVE ooooooo cos u might neva live t tell ur story. Be proactive in moving on cos no man is wot dying for.
DeleteWhy must she run? Pls stay and let him kill you. Listen to the stupid reason because of her children. If she die, she killed herself .
DeleteWTF?
DeleteThank God for her son, cus all we would have been saying now is Rip...really why are some men like this, chase a woman away if you are fed up, habba
DeleteGod help women who can't he'lp themselves
Wat is there more to add?she has choosen death over life,so be it.
ReplyDeleteJust like that?
ReplyDeleteOk...she's waiting to be murdered before she runs for her dear life.
Her husband must be a very wretched frustrated evil soul to have carried out such act.
Poverty!
sometimes it is not poverty, it is a speacial kind of wickedness at parallel with a special kind of stupidity
DeleteNo this is it, woman take ur chidren and leave, that man is no more human, he's a beast! Woman run! Don't look back, no reconsideration! Get a divorce immediately. Please don't even let him know were u will run to, he simply wants u dead.
ReplyDeleteWhat the f**k!
ReplyDeleteThat man must be a raving lunatic
Hope he rots in jail.
Mehn dis is very brutal, Evul peeps err where
ReplyDeleteMan Exposes his girlfriend on FB
Women!!! They think going back is for the children's good! Think about ur life, if u die who will take care of the children? May God heal her...
ReplyDeleteAs you make your bed dianyi!
ReplyDeleteNne you no dey hear the feeling?
Some ppl are born stupid &stupid dey will remain till death do dem part!.. wen she recovers she shud go bk to the horseband..na u first get children for marriage.#weakwomenmentality#. Oshisco!
ReplyDeleteI tire o.
Deletelion of tribe of his household! Ashiere!
DeleteWhat da heck! Y did she even go back to begin with and y is d man so wicked? Mtchw, o said in d Russian woman's post that women need to learn self defense. Trust me a man (or anyone for dat matter) would think twice before raising their hand to you ifthey knew uu're well capable of defending ur self
ReplyDeleteThe woman should better apply wisdom and flee from every form of violence if not she'll be going to see her creator soon.
ReplyDeleteA lot of women are suffering and smiling in their marriages but because of the societal stigma of being"unsuccessful" they prefer to stay put and die there, children or no children.
ReplyDeleteRip to her , we don't care , she knows the difference between life and death n she chose death so y should we be bothered? It gets annoying .
ReplyDeleteShe ain't dead fool!
DeleteShe must be stupid am sorry to say that. You went back to him even after seeing the hand writing on the wall. Thank God for your son who saved you from the untimely death you went looking for.
ReplyDeleteI pray for God's healing upon your life. When you leave that hospital, it will do you good to stay FAR away from your husband. As for your kids, you can monitor them from afar & don't worry cos when they come of age they will come looking for you.
Your husband is a raving lunatic & a beast in human form. Don't you have a family? He needs to be taught a lesson asap.
Pls wat in God's name is dis lady stil doing wth dis devil incarnate inshort d devil himself she refers to as horse-band bikonnu oooo
ReplyDeleteIs it until her family comes for her corpse dat she wil realize she isn't meant for him
Pls she shldnt go bck to dat frustrated demented lunatic of a man all in d name of marriage
Enough they said is for d wise so lady take a very long walk away frm dis man nd don't look bck but ofcos pls go wth ur kids,it might not be easy at first our good lord will be ur strength ok
Jeeeeeez. Am just shivering. The kind of mind ppl ve, to do dis to ur fellow being its just devilish. I pray he is arrested n kept in prison. Mad ppl lyk him shldnt be let out. I feel for dis woman. Women if d marriage is nt comfortable anymore leave ohhhh, dnt be sayn for d sake of my children let me manage.
ReplyDeletePeople, there was a post on Stella just a few days ago where a man said his wife is violent to him and most of the comments here mentioned that the guy must be doing something wrong.
ReplyDeleteWhy is no one asking what THIS woman is doing wrong then? My people, DV is DV regardless of GENDER. No one deserves to be beaten, stabbed, mutilated or killed because they are doing something wrong to their spouse.
I pray God gives this woman the strength to leave before it's too late.
Madam save your life and leave that marriage for good.
ReplyDeleteUnbelievable!
ReplyDeleteUnbelievable! i pray she lives to tell her story. it's unfortunate to what extent some women would go just to stay married. God is not a task master, if your life is in danger RUN! There is no marriage in heaven o.
ReplyDeleteThe story sounds too ridiculous and one sided to be true
ReplyDeleteWe should hear his side of the story first.
But no matter what, he deserves to be in jail for doing this to a fellow human being
No, she shouldn't go yet oh. Till the man borrows Dino's advice and points a gun with a single bullet to her head, then she can wake up from dreamland. Rubbish!!
ReplyDeletePlease where can I go and enroll in marshall art???????
ReplyDeletenational stadium. Go for taekwondo
DeleteAny man who did this to this woman under whatever guise should rot in jail?
ReplyDeletewoman is it by force!?
ReplyDeleteAfter loosing your finger you still carried yourself to that semi-murderer you call a husband.
na wa for your own surulere o.
the devil that did this is still roaming the streets freely??? i hope not!! cos he needs to be sent to the psych hospital he is raving mad is it until he kills her that they will know he is a danger to the woman and her kids even everybody around him
ReplyDeleteMadam, a broken marriage is better that dying inside it o, better run, I understand why u went back, but please run for ur life unless u have no reason to live anymore.
ReplyDeleteShe lost one finger!!!! Infact she lost more than one and had the other ones stitched. God!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhy wasn't he even arrested the other time? What women go thru in the name of staying married. It's really not easy bcos the guy will come crying on his knees begging. I experienced violence in a relationship and I ran with my legs touching the back of my head.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not by force
ReplyDeleteI don't feel sorry for her, she decided to stay so...
ReplyDeleteomg! this woman should run for her life. the husband is mentally sick, coz this cnt just be normal
ReplyDeletePeople should please go and watch Unforgivable. Desmond, Mike and Dayo acted it. We need to love ourselves enough to leave early before it gets worse.
ReplyDeleteShe isn't stupid nor a lunatic.agreed d man s wicked,buh until u ar n dt situatn,u hv no right to call her names.she s basically n dt marriage 4 her children oly#sighs#May God hlp her to hlp hersf. EVE E Ume
ReplyDeleteOMG.....SPEECHLESS
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ReplyDeleteVery very good oo. Devoted wife n mother! Please go back there and die oo, u hear. I just don't know why some women have chosen to be forever foolish! In this age and time? And please stop saying your staying because of your children. The man's dick is probably sweet and you stupidly think you can't have it better elsewhere. Well consider this, if you die that man will fuck another woman before your even buried!!!
ReplyDeleteAnd if you truly love your children as your trying to make believe, then you will take them out of that abusive house. Do you know the effect watching you been brutalised have on your children ? Do you want your son to grow up thinking it's okay to beat a woman ? Or your daughter thinking it's okay for a man to hit her? Please and please if for nothing do it for your children. And if you die, what's the guarantee that another woman would be good to your children. Na wa oo woman and prik sha. Issshhh!
And if she takes her children with will you give her the money to take care of them?granted what she did is bad but pls do give advice over something u have experienced.
DeleteWomen is it by force?
ReplyDeleteNawa o! And they'll say no woman is complete without a man, tufiakwa! *snappingfingers* woman save yourself if not you'll die for nothing and another woman will send your children to you.
ReplyDeleteThis I must remain married syndrome na wa o!
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious that the man doesn't want her again but for reasons best known to her, (pls spare me the excuse of staying because of the kids) she chose to stay, madam is your destiny tied to this man?? The way she's going she may not be alife to take care of the kids that she's claiming is her excuse for staying in this abusive marriage. Wishing you speed recovery.
ReplyDeleteShe deserves what she got . It is only a living soul that will take care of her children and not a dead one . Love indeed .
ReplyDeleteYou are mean,I have never seen you but I can tell you are that you are heartless.
DeleteOMG! I remember this story vividly, I can't believe she went back to him.. people were outraged back then, a lot poured their support. She was asked to run for her life and was even offered help.. look now.. she barely escaped death. Let this serve as a big lesson to her and others in similar situation, using their kids as an excuse to remain in an extremely abusive marriage.
ReplyDeleteWhy is some people so stupid that they promised themselves not to learn until they die. Pls my dear woman it is glaring that man do not love you, maybe he is under the influence of something but run as fast as u can before you die. I don't know if it is love that is still sticking you to him. Maybe love is a battlefield as they say
ReplyDeleteSee d hypocrites are bak to commenting.if its a woman holding a knife to her husbands throat and kicking him in d balls, dey'll be singing anoda tune.make una dey use sense to comment.meanwhile madam, just thank God ur son was there dis tym.he myt not be nxt tym.as I dey see u so, carry ur slippers for hand make d bak of ur leg dey touch ur head.divorce d loser.
ReplyDeleteIs there still hope for the singles??? God help and deliver us all ooo...AMeN
ReplyDelete@i_ChoPtas_Not
Why do some women keep going back to their abusers in the name of "For the sake of kids" or "What will people say?".
ReplyDeleteDomestic violence is domestic violence!! Don't sugarcaoat it bcos your husband says sorry!! Once is enough to leave! If he beats you today, he will surely beat you again!
I know of a man who beat his wife until she died of internal bleeding.. During d burial he was crying like a baby to attract sympathy, nobody even cared.. The day you die is the day people will start refering to you in past tense.. Infact dats d day some people will remember last..and that's the day other women will be scheming to take your place!!!
Why have some men decided to turn der selves in2 animals?am so pained cos After doin such dey go away with it..dat is why dey keep repeating it.,such thing will not happen in US wiitout d man endin up in jail 4 life...I weep 4 her,i can't imagine d pain she and her child must gone tru..may God punish dat man
ReplyDeleteThings we do for the sake of our kids. God help her for the sake of her kids. Super sad
ReplyDeleteI'm speechless........... The unfortunate thing is that no matter what you say, it's what the murderer says that will matter most to her. She is as sick as the man, for the man, let him find help (IN A ZOO OR THICK FOREST amongst his kins, animals), but for this abused woman, she needs her self esteem removed from the dustbin, dusted and given back to her. Not only was she physically abused, the mental torture is what is keeping her there - unfortunately, it may lead to her early grave and those children will then SUFFER.
ReplyDeletetoo bad
ReplyDeletetoo bad and too sad buh why on earth did she go back to her husband?
ReplyDeleteSay what you like, the truth is, if he begs, some will STILL go back!
ReplyDeleteIf you don't want people to laugh at you. They will soon cry for u... Remain there. Mrs lover woman... Big hiss
ReplyDeleteI don't hv any word f u madam, I can't even choose d right words to say honestly, how can u do dis to urself? Must u marry? Haba
ReplyDeleteWhat a hatred this man have for his wife. It is obvious he doe snot want her to exist in his presence. As the saying goes, there is a thin line between love and hate.
ReplyDeleteNigerians will never cease to amaze me!
ReplyDeleteIt was this same blog i read comments where a male poster complained about his wife's DV towards him and many were telling him he was the cause.
Why are these same people not asking this woman what she does to bring out the beast in her husband?
Please DV is DV! No reason justifies it! If this woman survives this assault, she should not go back or it is in a coffin she would come out again! The family should arrange thugs and beat the beast called a husband so as to know how it feels!
No woman should endure any form of abuse in a relationship, be it physical or emotional. If you have kids together, take them and leave especially if they are still young. Don't be afraid to start over, I know it's hard but you'll be amazed at how strong you are. You really never know how strong you are until being strong is the only option you have.
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if i were this woman, i would lay low then kidnap this man, stand and watch them beat him up with bats, chop his fingers off, cook it, fry them and give him to eat. I would inject with stuff to make his life a living misery!
ReplyDeleteWow this is rediculous!
ReplyDeleteAre you just seeing this? Smh
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