Older Versus Younger Women - Blog Visitor Kevwe Ogunje Narrative.

I have properly thought of the reasons why friendship and relationships don't work amongst young people.  I think it's the fault of the silly girls and the useless guys who feel dey are rich.

Now I realised that some young Nigerian girls between the ages of 20 to 28 lust and die after male celebrities and people in position of  authority whom they feel have money, reason this, why be in a formal or informal relationship with a guy and go to hotel rooms of stars like actors and musicians and want your guy to trust you (na evangelism u go do dere), or be with a guy you are involved with and excuse him to speak to your toaster because the other guys are richer (bullshit) .

I once had a professional friend I was involved with tell me she got a watch gift from her man friend worth 400 pounds that if I do such things her affections can grow for me, my Response was am 24 and he is 42 why not be with him so you can end up a happy widow and leave me to build my life stupid devourer.

Young girls just feel they are right in whatever they do and it surprises me  that they do not understand the struggle we young guys face to gain relevance in what ever field we are, they are always looking for already made men (your papa na already made wen he meet your mama?).

Lastly they always talk about trust and loyalty, how can you trust a girl when the number of her uncles keep increasing by the day, and the number of aunties keep reducing by the day, spending time in uncles hotel room (na family reunion abi?) it is beyond me.

They say guys are bad but these girls have fingered  our brains and confidence to a maximum low, making us feel worthless, I overheard a call from a girl I loved with all my life calling me a small class mate to her toaster on Skype and I said God raise me up so that at least I can be called a friend and not a classmate which am not.

Young Girls talk that guys lie too much when they never say the truth on anything,  what makes me laugh is they question your loyalty and you keep explaining and all and you question theirs they get so upset and angry (the bible says a clear mind fears no accusations).

I  am saying this to encourage boys and young men do not be pressured by any young lady into pulling stunts you can't effortlessly pull, save and invest in your dreams and future, helpers will come and so will blood suckers.

My take is for now, I rather settle with an older lady that has past through all these stages and phases and sees life clearly than be with a young girl that will make me physco-emotionally sick and imbalanced.

My humble Wednesday morning thought I stand to be corrected.

Thanks
Kevwe Ogunje

UK Based Nigerian Actor.

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Kevwe please sit down and read the comments..lol