*Tongue click.....
NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
SISTER WITH 'HOT PANTS'
My elder sister is just 22 years of age currently a final year student. But in the past 4 years since she entered the University she have had 17 boyfriends and i am very sure she has slept with them.
This is because when she came home for christmas i SNOOPED through her
whatsapp and BBM chat.
Funny enough the three that burst her bubble are Alhaji's. Asin Big Men like this. If you ask me, i am seriously scared because by God's Grace we are cormfortable.
We dont beg for food. So i wonder what drives her to this level of insanity. She acts in an Overtly Lewd and Lascivious way at school. But at home. Oh My.
My Mom and Dad always says i should be more like her. lmao. Her CGPA
is ona 2:1 level and i wonder how she manages to keep it at that.
Please SDKers. I Need help. I cant say what i just said at home
because i love my sister and i am very secretive too. So coming here
as an anonymous to shed my Plight with you all is going to be helpful.
Please BV's tell me out of your own experience. I dont want my sister
to Die of HIV or other related diseases. I dont even want her to be
Barren.
Like our dear BV. G-PHARM would say, ''I SEE DEAD PEOPLE''..
Infact i am seeing my sister Dying silently.
Okbye.
You are practising snooping with your elder sister?wonderful!....why dont you do the confrontation then?....#teamsnoop wey una?
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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO #TEAM SNOOP MEMBER CAUGHT IN THE ACT
Dearest Stella,
I have been hurt pretty many times and i think i have shut my heart to love. Any relationship i go into,i end up cheating and this makes it hard for my relationships to last. I am the kinda gurl that can only be faithful if i see the guy is puting 100% into the relationship.
Fastword to two months ago,the guy i am dating might have gone through my phones and seen some sexchats. He didnt say anything but i noticed his attitude has changed. he hasnt called or seen me since then and he hasnt come all out and accused me therefore i dont wanna use my mouth and put myself in trouble.
I like him a lot,but i cheated cause he is all about himself and he doesnt satisfy me when it comes to sex ,he has small penis and he is a two minuits man. I am so confused cos sincerely apart from his short comings he treats me like a Queen. What should i do BVs?. I have made up my mind not to call him but how long can i go on entering into relationships and coming out unsuccessful?.
And i didnt mention that i suspect he is cheating but i no get concrete proof. He respects me when am around but as part of the #teamsnoop# i see texts that puts him in the bad light.
*waving hi to #teamsnoop members as they troop in to advice one of their own.
Hahaha
ReplyDeleteah done tire to write person go just write full page network go just wipe am commot make i summarize jare..poster 1..pray for ur sister she is into runs..poster 2..u re a HOE..ashawo kobo kobo..
Delete1. Face your meat.
Delete2. You are not ready. Utilize a few seats TTTTTTT
17 boyfriends
DeleteSaai....ur CV tight
Team snoopers...
He he he
Snooping good die
@Galore
Poster 1
DeleteWhen next you gist with your sister, form amebo and tell her your fears. But use the tactics of "one of my friend's said her sister bka bla bla"
Poster 2
If he doesn't satisfy you, please take a walk. Stop deceiving yourself.
Stella bae, shout out to #team_snoop.. Lol
Deletesnooper and snoopee.
Deleteu shld let ur elder sister be. u can try advicing her, but besides dat, ders nuffin else u can do bcos u got ur evidence tru d wrong means, whc renders it inadmissible. except u dnt mind her being mad at u for snooping.
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#teamsnoop I dey hail all of you, una try well well.
DeleteP2: And to think girls treat their potential hubby like bfs n bfs like potential hubby's n be praying to God years later
DeletePoster one like Sugar and Spice has advised apply wisdom to it. just give her a story about someone and get to know her reaction. with her responses you can continue.
DeletePoster two. You are not even married yet. You have an option to take a Long walk. if you love him so much go look for Penis Enhancement dietary product for him. His Penis will be Enlarged. his two mins things, You guys should engage in ForePlay for a longer. you can even get to orgasm during that process. Before penetration. its well
Team snoop all day every day.... lool!
DeleteNarrative 1: Even if u talk to your sister she won't hear Cos possibly her problem might be spiritual or just plain old covetousness. Find a way to tell your mum and not your dad , be very careful with How u relay your message too.
Narrative 2.: Seems ur confused. U love a 2 minute man that has small pee pee and is possibly cheating! Ignore the Mufu jor.
Me sef i just caught my hubby cheating with a married woman, madam ur days are numbered, d pain u cause me and my family u wil receive 100 fold, 08089070149 is her number, shame on her na midnight chat dey sweet her pass.
DeleteSometimes I wonder why God decided to punish me with my hubby I wasn dat bad wen i was single help me lord
DeleteSnoopers!!!
ReplyDeleteStella abegi,P1's snooping is a very healthy one...its timely, pls talk to trusted family members about it..it is well
DeletePoster 1: talk to her.. Poster 2: be the change you wanna see in ur relationship..stay faithful..stop cheating
DeleteSnooping rocks like sshhh! It saves u 4rm unnecessary heart aches, help u realise whether u are truly ur boo's boo and last but not least, safe guard u from getting HIV(datz if he/she hasn't given it to u alredi)...hehehehe
DeletePoster 1, sit ur sis down n talk to her. Ask her y she z in2 such life. D best u can do for her z to kip praying for her
Poster 2, u said ur boo z al abt himself n a 2min man wv a smally pee pee. Dese 3traits r gud enof to make som1 talk a walk, pls do so n try chill out small before going into another relationship.
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DeleteBeen a waiting for the chronicle..finally it arrived
ReplyDeleteFeedback from previous narratives please? N bae I saw ur reply..good ya still going strong, don't allow any man be a time waster..dig?
DeleteHehehehehe! Stella free team snoop jor
ReplyDeleteOriegwu
ReplyDeleteMy question whenever I read such stories is, are people not scared of HIV/AIDS? Even if they don't have the fear of God, how about caring about their health and safety?
DeleteSex is not food as xoxo mystery would say and material things do not satisfy. But what do I know?
Talking of Xoxo mystery sef, where is he, she or it? I haven't noticed comments from that character for some time now.
DeleteNow to the matter at hand.
Poster1: I sense sibling's jealousy in your tone.If you love your sister as much as you claim then you should feel free enough around her to discuss her private issues with her and not with total strangers.
Poster2: If you don't love a man enough to want to be faithful to him then you have no business being in a relationship with him. If you both are already cheating on each other as dates then that relationship is already doomed. My advice is that you leave him and wait for your ideal man to locate your. And while at it, exercise some self discipline and keep your pants up . Remember HIV/AIDS is real.
Hope there is fight in today's IHN can't wait o.
ReplyDeleteSdk dey post am as e they hot
Lol.. fight between who and who???...turn on ur TV and watch wwe thats wrestling If u want to watch fight
DeleteLol @WWE. All those unnecessary long rants. Stella should block them jor.
DeleteSabo, jaem, eze wanting n co
DeleteHmmmmmm
Aunt Bukky of life,How are u? Been a while.Hope the family is Alright? I Miss u!
DeleteHmmmmmmnnn! Snooping #wide smile# I snoop too but have never been caught. Keep whatever I see to myself and bring it up @ a later date, when the messages must have been cleared and they wonder where I got my info from.
ReplyDeleteSame with me. I don't confront immediately
DeleteMe 2
Delete@sugarcassie I like u. The way I'll bring it up ehn he won't believe I read it from his phone. Looool
DeletePoster one, confront your sister if she is the listening type, poster two, I don't know what to tell you, stellosky good afternoon, how you dey? You know ask of me abi? Ok no problem just came back from holiday , harmattan dey too much.
ReplyDeletePoster one, confront your sister if she is the listening type, poster two, I don't know what to tell you, stellosky good afternoon, how you dey? You know ask of me abi? Ok no problem just came back from holiday , harmattan dey too much.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, y not have a conversation with her, tell her wat u saw. Nd if she refuses to change just know it's not ordinary.
ReplyDeleteTo poster 1, I think she needs to pray for her sister and also make up stories that relates to d way u see her and that ended up badly. I'm sure she will confide in U when she needs advice and if u follo dis, she will be needing it soon.
DeleteTo poster 1, I think she needs to pray for her sister and also make up stories that relates to d way u see her and that ended up badly. I'm sure she will confide in U when she needs advice and if u follo dis, she will be needing it soon.
Deleteteam snoop..over to una
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I no support this yur snooping... stay on your lane.
DeletePoster 2- the answer you seek is within
N1, talk to your sister. N2, You are a bloody cheat stop looking for excuse. BTW since he doesn't satisfy you why not leave him alone and carry your cheating ass elsewhere? I see, you want to eat your cake and have it like you all do right?
ReplyDeleteDon't mind poster 2 ashewo kobo kobo. Poster 1 your big sis na runz babe. So anything you say will fall on deaf ears. Face your studies and pray she no eventually fall into wrong hands. Google stuff about STDs with images and send to her e-mail she might get the message. Goodluck.
DeletePoster 2 ur cheating and at the same time complaining that he's small down there...u want to keep him cos he treats u like a queen then u keep on cheating right? Stop asking Bvs wat to do just ask Google msheeewwww...
DeleteLol, coming back later, let me go get my daughter from nursery
ReplyDeleteNo be samall wahala Snooping and d search 4 BIG DIQQs go put women.
ReplyDeleteGracious God!
Snooping is sweet when u are the snooper. Snoopee will always have a stories that touch to tell after snooping.
DeleteI will always be #teamsnoop# till thy kingdom come though.
lmao....I snooped through my bfs fone and almost died of stroke...oh my!!! is it the sex chats,nude pix that girls send him or what? I confronted him but he didn't stop only started deleting d msgs n pictures and I got tired. I got myself a lover and last nyt me n le boo were playing the cheating bf n gf game,where he carries his fone to his nose and I put mine in my eye while sleeping on d same bed so we won't see each others chats....no be small tin n I don't feel any iota of guilt...#ice maiden
ReplyDeleteChai! This una r/ship sef. It's not healthy at all
DeleteLol...two wrongs dnt mk a right, just leave him n move on instead of doing competition of cheating wit him
DeleteHahahahahahaaa....i love u bae
DeleteThief jam thief na ur case, I want to know d winner btw d 2 of u o
DeleteLeave him already please. There are too many spiritual and physical implications for having multiple Sex partners. Bear in mind that if he's sleeping with other girls, they may be also sleeping with other men, the spiritual ties are wide enough don't rope in yourself tighter. Leave him and get back on the straight path.
DeleteOriegwu
DeleteMemo to Chizoba Ibebuike!
ReplyDeletePlease learn to be civil for once. Stop cursing people under their own comments! People mustn't reason same way with you. They mustn't have or share the same opinions with you. Learn to respect others opinions on issues for this is only but a blog. Stop displaying your stupidity for this blog is not only meant for you.
ZIEN.
Tell chizoba abeg and to think that she is a mother, i wonder what she is teaching her children. Yeye dey smell
DeleteTell chizoba abeg and to think that she is a mother, i wonder what she is teaching her children. Yeye dey smell
DeleteR u minding that demented ugly razz idiot called chizoba?? It's obvious she has no home training and comes from a broken home..so don't expect her to reason or talk like every other person cos she's so senseless and her IQ is less than that of a day old baby!
DeleteEzenwanyi does that too n u pple has never called her out. Are u guys afraid of her or what.
DeleteBetter than the BV narratives. Hahahaha. Any memo to Chizoba? And please let it be interesting like the other day. Lol. Amebo Na enye obara.
DeleteHehehe! 10m likes!!! This is a GREAT MEMO..😃 Stella please take.
Delete@paka nima,exactly.lewd and crass comments from supposed mothers and people hail dem on top.mtchewwwwwww..cant deal abeg
DeleteI mean Stella take note!
DeleteStellz pass me your ludacris chair make I siddon. This should be interested.
ReplyDelete*chewing garlic*
belch
Posh wayo na su ihe ina asu
DeleteMaka udu nti concern
Thankiu.
if my hubby snoop on my phone,,he will die ooooo,,,,chio abeg teamnosnooping
Deleted way l open my pussy wide and send to my married bf but l delete at once ooooo,l password my phone and set my phone to lock at 5secs,he has his own gf,l av mine,hmmmmm team rock ur life
Afi interested! Kimon!
DeleteAnon 14.43 nice one babes..nothing do u..happy cheating jare..yolo...lmao
DeleteMadam are you serious? What a marriage!
DeleteAnon 14.43 both of you should get a life!
DeleteI'll wait to read comments. This is beyond me. Its well with you both.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure its not beyond you. If you keep reading, you might never know what's not beyond U. Lols... (Wide smile)
DeleteHahahaha. Stella Bae, you are a case. This your ntorr pic is the bomb.
ReplyDeleteN2, you cheated and now you are complaining and suspecting him? Serves you right. Sdk please give N2 that your stadium to seat all alone.
N1, it'll be difficult to talk to her however because she's your elder sister. All the same bring it up. You don't have to carry her matter and discuss in family meeting. Tell her what you saw. If she vex and slap you, continue to face your work. She will learn her lesson from her mistakes, if she comes out of it. At least uld have peace of mind knowing you tried your own bit.
Stella u harsh oh! Guess u don't like snooping. Honestly the thing dey cause problem oh.
ReplyDeleteAll these #teamsnoop things sef... hmmmm
ReplyDeleteP1 - how close are you and your sister? you should have a heart 2 heart talk with her and express your concerns.
P2 - i dunno o
I'll wait to read comments. This is beyond me. Its well with you both.
ReplyDeleteShake urself a lil bit na. No offense, but try being urself sometimes, its liberating. No one should be dis stiff. Like I said, no offense intended
DeleteEka Joy no offense but you are a bloody bully.
DeleteLike I said,no offense intended
Eka joy the fool....are you using her passport dp to judge. Or what she wrote...so choosing to read comments is stiff...do you know the number of people that read without commenting..so dey are rock solid them patt ogar the one liner na iron..
Deleteyou all would come on blog and start formng all know all knowing.
Stupid child
You abandoned the gist if people soliciting your advise to face another....
Wasted sperm of a person...na your mama I pity sef I wonder how she feels knowing you ended up so stupid
Silent observer d calling awt is too much! Wt does her mama has to do wv ds post bikonu? U pple nids to tone it down wv d cursing out o kos it's not plank buh human beings u r talking to.
DeleteEka Joy free Cynthia, she z onli bin hersef
Lol. I'm one of d silent observers. Read every single post, and comments but comment rarely. Abeg easy on Eka Joy... In fact, no easy! eka come and respond to these ppl (without apologies :)
DeleteKarma re u minding eka joy coming under peoples comment to spill trash, when they come after her now she would send long apology msg. Eka joy learn to behave your self, your not the only one on this blog, you want to be a celebrity here by force. SMH
Delete#Teamantisnoop
ReplyDeleteStella see as I rush the time lolzz
ReplyDelete1] My dear if you really love your sister like you claim to then I think you should definitely tell your parents. Tell them with enuf evidence, she might see it like as if you're jealous of her.. but in truth you'll be saving her life!! Good luck
2] You are a big fool, looka your stinking mouth like *I always cheat in my relationships*. Continue cheating you hear, you won't know when you'll miss the man for you. And also continue making excuses for yourself, you won't own up to your mistakes nd change!! Rubbish..
Ammy we had ur type in secondary sch then, snitchers. Instead of u to suggest confronting her, u r tellin her to carry the matter straight to their parents. Na wa 4 u
DeleteKai ammy Becky I disagree with your first advice...report to their parents????...How old is the sister again???She is in the university... What will they do...they will shout and She might just trow their advice to the birds...
DeleteBecky darling, 'like' and 'as if' do not go together. That's tautology. You use either of them.
DeleteLol. Why you vex for poster 2 like that nii? Her narrative is actually very annoying. N2 come right here and get an award darling. *yimu*
Lol to d 2 chroniclers! Kikikikiki..u guys just made my day!
ReplyDeleteHmmm..I don't have comments for todays posters, cause reading your chronicles am confuse as well.
ReplyDeleteBump.
ReplyDeleteJust passing by,
Hiiiiiiiiii
P1...Y did u go thru ur elda sis fone?u dnt av respect I guess plus I sense jlosy and mockery plus satisfaction dt u tink ur beta dan her....ur nt a smart cheater!
ReplyDeleteWhat is ds one saying now? Read it out n listen to urself. Maybe u are just like her elder sister - A Runz babe#
DeleteLmao! this is the case of "onye na enyo isi ya a naputa.
ReplyDeletePoster1 i hope does guys are usin condom on ur sister,why dnt you ask her if it true or not.poster2 say no to snooping it hurt
ReplyDeleteHv got nothing 2 say
ReplyDeleteJust waiting 4 comments
*Rmn blessed*
I need a mature & working class lady willing to settle down in marriage. Don't need a play girl.
ReplyDeleteAnonymously? Lol
DeleteWait for single mingle post...Lol...this ones here need advice...
DeleteAnd you are?
DeleteMr anonymous. Don't worry, she'll find you in spirit
Husband 4 free.
DeleteApplication is needed here
U ddnt state ur age,location and religion na
DeleteU don't have to wait for single and mingle post jare....drop ur mail add am sure someone interested will locate u
DeleteMr anonymous haven't you see her yet,she's right beside you or u go to a porters house to mould her for you.
DeleteNarr 1,I understand your fears towards the kind of life your sis is living,however since you snooped on her ,it wouldn't be wise to confront her on your findings as that would make her know that you snooped and she might never trust you,and she might not be willing to listen to whatever advice you have.I will suggest that you pray to God to change her ways.keep your fingers crossed..
ReplyDeleteNarr 2,something In your write up gives away the fact that you are still in the relationship for selfish purposes and not because you care nor love your partner..be honest to yourself,pardon me,but I think you are nothing but a schemer!
snoopers
ReplyDeleteLmao @ stellar bea's comments.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, you are not even faithful and you want someone to be faithful to you.@Poster 2, you are the causer of your problem.Give yourself respect. Even if your man cheats on you.,its not right to cheat because you want to show that you can also play the game...
ReplyDeleteExactly!
DeletePoster 2, u av to make an effort to stop cheating, u can do it. The devil Is using that avenues to give ur meals to the dogs to eat..u are only hurting urself. Unless, one of the men u ended up cheating with would have wifed you. But no one wants to end up with a cheat as a wife.
Make up ur mind to stop cheating, there is no excuse to cheat (his dick is small, u saw txt msgs on his fone, U sef
reason ur excuse)..do the honorable instead...walk out of the rshp wih ur head high knowing u gave it ur best! Some women are married to men with Deeks as small as my thumb yet they don't cheat!
And lastly I pray u Dnt carry dis attitude reach ur marriage home.ud be disgraced out! Think about that. And put a rein on ur cheating habits !!it would take u NOWHERE very fast.
P.s pls Pray as well. It might be a curse. Or maybe a case of spirit husband ensuring u never find a man of ur own.
Bia..P1 ur sister is playing silly game and u are not helping her at all, report her to ur parent..cos when she brings HIV both u and ur parent aint safe....a word for d wise is enough
ReplyDeletePoster1 its better you sit your sister down and talk to her in a respectful way abt her way of life than keeping quite,poster2 your only prb is guilty conscience
ReplyDeleteStella... I love the pix you have there.... I will sit and read comments today....
ReplyDeletePoster1: ur sister is learner, I know sum people ermmmm lemme hold my mouth.
ReplyDeletePoster2: hehehuhujkldsagtybigdy
Poster 2, he has small dick nd he's a 2minutes man? But he treats u like a Queen?. Well, if u don't want to be jumping from one relationship or da other, u need to change ur ways so u can make out da best from any man. That's my 20cent.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, y not have a conversation with her, tell her wat u saw. Nd if she refuses to change just know it's not ordinary.
ReplyDeleteN1: Just use style and tell your sister a story that depicts someone living her kind of life and conclude by letting her know how the person cut her life short by dieing from a deadly disease or even being used for rituals by these Alhajis and see what her reaction would be.
ReplyDeleteN2: Pls carry your cross with passion. Change as well for your own good cos if you don't, history will keep repeating itself.
Stella and her team snoop!!!!
ReplyDeletePoster 2, you don't know how lucky you are to have a guy that adores you. If you know you can't stand his shortcomings then don't play with his emotions.Move on
@Poster 1, sorry ooo!!!!!Just at 22?17 boyfriends?what is now left for her hubby to enjoy?Her rubber band go don slack.....Am sure you will find good advice here...Make me sef sidon read
Poster 1: Your sister's CGPA is 2.1 and you don't know how she still maintains it? Are you a learner? Someone who has up to 17 boyfriends that shines her congo definitely will submit her congo to whom ever it may concern (lecturers etc)maintain her grade
ReplyDeleteLemme lie down..... Am coming.. -*RUNS*.... TODAY'S OWN IS EPIC
ReplyDeleteNarrative one: Tell your parents. Na wa oh. How can someone be sharing f**ks like this to Alhajis and others at 22? Children of these days don spoil finish.
ReplyDeleteTell your parents, let them reset her brain.
Narrative two: If you're not satisfied in a relationship, LEAVE!
He has a small dick, you think he's cheating, blah blah blah! Stop justifying your cheating act. You cheated and he caught you, take responsibility!
The guy has silently broken up with you, he's just in for the free s*x now.
First narrative;
ReplyDeleteAbeg free your sister make she enjoy life as an adult...
What's your own sef...
I smell jealous from your write up...
I hate your type...
Tufiakwa!!!..
Of course, as expected. U never disappoint. I will include u in my prayers
DeleteWhat is wrong with you? Is this what u will tell ur daughters? To think you are a mother. What has jealously got to do with this? Pls stop this attitude. What is there to enjoy in having multiple partners? Will u rather she came here to say her sister died of a disease? Then I guess you would have said sorry. If can't make sensible comments then you don't have to comment.
Delete'I smell jealous from your write up'. You sure don't waste time throwing the 'ogbo' around. Daalu
Delete#1. Your sister might not be sleeping with all those guys, just keep remembering her in your prayers and once in a while sheepishly remind her to use condom cause you're just her younger one and not her mum therefore, I really don't think you can do much aside your prayers.
ReplyDeleteYou can as well, let her know you snooped depending on how you 2 relate and tell her how much you love and care for her without judging her, she'll open up to you.
#2, poster please its either you choose to be faithful in your relationships and solve your confusion problem or you continue cheating and keep giving yourself problems cause you not even a smart cheat. For the love of God be faithful for your own sanity cause you are learner in the cheating game!
N1, What do you actually want us to do?? I dont get the question you are asking.
ReplyDeleteN2, Why don't you call or text him, asking him why he's changed, and hasn't been calling like before, maybe he will tell you the reason, then apologise to him, and tell him he kinda pushed you into cheating, then ask him to commit himself more, then you too change.
Stela. I will be needing that ur d1ck chair for poster2,aha wt do we women want Sef? He treats u like a queen yet u can't worrk on his shorrtcomings?
ReplyDeletePOster 2 I was like u b4 I got married, I will be in a relationship but can never be faithful, even while I was dating my husband, he caught me once throUgh text message but he forgave me and it hastened his proposal and today we are happily married, I was d type dat cannot put all her eggs ihn one basket lol but pls be careful.
ReplyDelete@ Anonymous,Never heard where you said you changed after getting married. Or you are still the never keeping to one egg even when you have the egg? @ poster 2 is good you fix yourself,even though you call him back or not is practically inside of you. And would still give excuses tomorrow for your actions. Define what you want and put your mind to it,God's willing you would get it. The choice is yours,like she rightly said,please be careful.
Delete@Joeyish I have changed o, I can never cheat on my husband, I was doing those things b4 I got married cos these guys ain't loyal so I dint want 2 love anybody so I won't get hurt. It helped me in a way but I won't advise anybody 2 cheat on d bf pls
DeleteNumber one.....dnt u think u re too young to b snooping on ur sis, @22 ur sister is living this kind of lifestyle, I pray she doesn't learn d hard way, number two...u re not even sure if he knows, kip ur fingers crossed, instead of cheating in a relationship please quit, I hate cheats. What if u re married n ur husband doesn't satisfy u wil u still cheat?
ReplyDeletePoster 1 have a talk with her. I truly couldn't make head or tail of what you want BVs to do.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. You have 2 options talk to him about why he is now distant. Option 2 walk away.
@Poster2, Don't just bother being in arelationship because you ain't ready to commit or to be faithful to any guy..No matter what you will always find any reason to cheat on your man. @poster, I think your sister is influence by her peers; she would outgrow all this..I think you should also talk to her about her wayward life.,keep praying for her...
ReplyDeletePoster 1,hmmmmm nne u have to call ur sis.sit her down and really talk to her o.
ReplyDeletelike u said,HIV and other disesases are real.
She has to listen.and let her know that.or else u go to ur parents! KPAM!
so it's either that talk or ur sis's death.
And I know wot u wil choose.
Poster 2,it's not snooping that put u into trouble buh ur "whoring ways"
U think he cheated?? Not that u have evidence o.....
If u feel he is a two mins man,talk about it with him.get help.or walk.
talk about his selfishness.try to work on it or like I said walk.
Sorry dear buh u sound soo confused.u don't know wot u want sef.....
NB-Pls stop sleeping around.
Poster1 hope you are not exaggerating? Did you say 17 guys haba I don't what to believe that some may even be just online things, your poster sounds you are mocking her thou you love her,this is my little advice tell your mum in a good way not in a mockery way you know what I mean,and your mum will talk to her personally without your presence! And it might be spiritual may she can't help herself! Poster2 there is something called discipline please apply it to your life it will help
Delete#teamsnoop# I can snoop for Africa!! I use to snoop, I still snoop and I'll continue to snoop!! So help me God!! Lol
ReplyDeleteI'm a proud team snoop as the spirit leads...
ReplyDeleteNkwucha aburo ujo.
Poster 1,
I think your sister is possessed.
The devil is using her and may not stop till he destroys her young life.
I think you have to rescue her spiritually. This is not ordinary.
Thank you for looking out for your big sis.
You are a good person and God will bless you a million folds for this.
Please don't give up on her ok. She needs you now.
Make her change and encourage her as she does. I hope you get good suggestions on how to go about it here.
I wish your sis "speedy recovery " from hot pants spirit.
It is well.
Poster 2,
Stop being selfish!
You can't expect to eat your cake and have it.
If your bf doesn't satisfy you in bed, why not quit and move on. You are enjoying him treating you like a queen but can't endure his only failing?
BTW I'm not in support of fornication.
Stop it now!
So far as you continue being a cheat, you can never have a lasting good relationship.
That's a fact!
I think you too needs deliverance!
SMH
You have said it all dear.
DeleteI can't tok. Work wan kill me. Plus MP join! I pity masef.
If only my aunty go see work like you she will be grateful she is fustrated and her hubby is making life unbearable for her,all she needs is a job.
DeleteWork no go kill you IJN and don't pity yourself you are going somewhere great
Why not try talking to her because she needs counselling and most importantly pray for her.
ReplyDeletePoster 2
You can't stay faithful?You need deliverance asap cos your village oracles ain't sexy at all.
Poster 1. My dear talk to ur sis na, patapata na only one hot slap she fit give u, but ur mind go don clear say u don talk to her. So pls confront her jere. Poster 2. Hmmmm u are just like me sha, I sabi jump from one relationship to anoda iif d man no dey do me well, but my own be say I use am marry(Lucky me), so dear one day u go find ur own jere wey go giive u Wetin u want and u no go look outside again. Now I do Run away from hubby big Dick and I dey suffer from Over feeding of Love and care from hubby.
ReplyDeleteP1: WHY NO TELL EITHER YOUR SISTER OR YOUR PARENTS, THAT'S THE ONLY HELP YOU CAN GIVE HER
ReplyDeleteP2: NO WORD FOR U
@poster2 :what exactly do you want? You will definitely cheat on him again when he finally settles down with you.
ReplyDeleteSo y not let him go so dat girls dat wnt a small prick man will go 4 him.You cnt change as far as his small prick is concern.This the opportunity to let him go n btw, u don't know what you want.
@poster1 : please talk to your sister, that's y u are her elder sis......tell her the implications of wat she is doing.
Poster 1 confront ur sister and tell her wat u ve discovered or u keep ur mouth shut and mind ur business.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: u re responsible for ur happiness. That thing u re living is not life cos u re depriving urself the opportunity to love and be loved. At the time u will crave dis love u are pushing away, it will be too late.
@poster 2, "he treats me like a queen . . ." Queen of what? Queen of fornication of course . . . You are not cheating on him; no basis for that . . .You are in an unholy alliance; cheating on yourself, your body and the creator. When the Lord says keep your bodies undefiled until marriage and you go about sharing your buttocks, what are you doing? Are you not cheating on God and yourself? The Lord loves you and want you to repent and come to him today. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteTo poster 1: Fast and pray for your sister's soul; she is in captivity. Do not only see "death" as in that of the body; but see her as dying eternally and you will have compassion to fast and pray for her soul
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Poster 1- you can have normal talk with your sister and chip in what you feel directly or indirectly about girls with multiple boyfriends as for the Cgpa i no fit talk wetin i no sabi because na her brain e fit be or the other way round.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 - you need better cane !
There's never an excuse for cheating. You don't deserve any sympathy or compassion becauseyou cheated! That's for poster 2!
ReplyDelete@Poster 1, try talking to your sister one on one first. Let's see where that leads you and while you are @ it, remember to tell her you snooped!
Hahahaha @waving hands to team snoop to support one of their own.
ReplyDeleteAbeg its good to snoop so you won't be caught unawares. I don't do it though bcoz the boo hasn't given reasons for it.
Anyway, @ poster 2, this relationship might have ended. This one he didn't check on you for 2 months, just let it go. When you start another relationship, caution and respect yourself. You own yourself and you should be able to control your actions.
It's not like you make mistakes, you deliberately cheat. So please learn to respect your body and stop opening for every tom dick and harry.
@Poster 1, maybe you should talk to one of your sister's friends that look resonable or better still, tell your mum but tell her someone told you about it. Your mom will know how to talk to her . If anything happens to your sis, you all willl feel the pain no matter how little so look for a way to advice her.
Stella you sef ntorrr!
ReplyDeleteMind yourself o.
Snooping saves!
Snooping helps you take measures
Snooping is a window!
Poster 1- she is your sister, talk to her. The truth can only be spoken without fear to people we love.
Advice your sis no matter how she takes it.
Poster 2- you need to learn how to deal with the outcome of snooping.
You are still a learne. Upgrade!
*learner
ReplyDeleteNothing to say,today own tough ooo
ReplyDeletePoster one see hw u jst concluded that she has slept wit all 17 of them. How r u sure? You think say na so E dey easy, for somebody who doesn't stand at Allen avenue. I suggest u confront her sha, at ur own risk cos if na me be ur elder sister, the way I will slap u for reading my text eeh.
ReplyDeleteSanta nwegbe pls tell us what's in ur own chats, jealous chicken
Chronicle 1: confront her and threaten her with your discoveries, tell her you'd reveal her sexcapades to your parents if she doesn't change. If that doesn't work, try the cooler method,give her a piece of your heart, let her know she's treading on a very dangerous path and would get wounded both physically and spiritually
ReplyDeleteChronicle 2: am a team snoop member but I aint got any advise for you cos ure guilty already...both of you are cheating
poster 1: you only have to pray for your sister.i think she sees sex as fun,talk to her too,if you can in a loving way but don't sound condemning.make her understand that her kind of sex is called fornication,and there may be consequences.
ReplyDeleteposter 2: you have to forgive the man that broke your heart and forgive yourself too.Ask God also to forgive you.stop holding unto the pains of the past,it can only hinder your joy.remember time is never on a woman'side.
Yes...snooping saving hearts n opening bastards nyashes since 1802. P1- you were sent to save your sister,first off,thank the lord for using you to save a life. Now when u both are in the room act like you picked up her phone and for the first time you are seeing them chats..feign shocked, and tell her to gist you na..act like u are on her side to get the gist,then causually say 'hiv dey town oo..like shine your eyes oo..no go do without o,and help ur womb oo'..u know all in a play-like mode,anytime u get any shocking story on the internet show her,let her read and innocently ask her,her opinion. If all these don't work out make she escort you go mfm..she has a wayward spirit. But you are a life saver to have snooped my dear.
ReplyDeleteP2- your post annoys me,sorry dear,u cheat on ur boyfriend and u ask me what should you do about it? That's an insult to my intelligence.
Poster one: If you can,sit your sister down, and talk some sense into her.Shuo!
ReplyDeletePoster two :it seems you are confused about the relationship you're in in the first place.
And the reasons you gave, for cheating on your partner, do not make sense.
If you feel he's not giving 100%,how does cheating on him rectify that?
Oh well, whatever rocks your boat.
Poster one: just talk to ur sis but do it respectfully oh since she is your elder sis ........but if she does not listen let her b she wud see d outcome wen d time cums...cuz by den u won't b feeling guilty bcuz u talked to her b4 it happened
ReplyDeletePoster two:ur just a serial cheat......so stop covering up..if u knew guy won't satisfy u y not leave him for oda gals instead of going about sleeping with odas...for me I wud say u Shud let d guy be... but on d second tot u can still call him and tell him u want to see. him..... if he cums ....is beta u start opening ur mouth and saying all dis tinz ur saying here if he accepts u back fine but if he does not just move on cuz d deserve it.........
Poster 1: Let your sister enjoy her self before marriage abeg. Mind your own business
ReplyDeletePoster 2: No comment for you.
Poster One,leave her alone. Read for your JAMB.
ReplyDeletePoster Twosit your bf down and talk to him. Tell him i said he should pick one hustle. Small dick or 2minutes
2minutesplussmallprick is a sure ingredient for disaster.
Where is my RRV????
Delete#1 Don't be surprised when your sister marries a wonderful husband!!! Everybody's destiny aren't the same.
ReplyDeleteAdvice her and pray for God to change her but don't tell your parents anything, she's an adult let her live her life. I'm sure she knows you have a basket mouth that's why she's refusing to tell you anything. Stop been envious of her if you are, cos from your post you sound like you are.
#2 I'll sit back and read the comments.
l am submitting a report in 15mins time,i am running behind schedule but see me in Chronicles.
ReplyDeleteChai. Sutella. U wont kill me oooooooooo
Poster 1:
ReplyDeleteIn you are not "keeping malice" with your sister, advice her.
Let her know about your fears and then quit snooping on her. Face your work and get on a first class. No be your type of snooping we dey talk. You aint her boyfriend.
See, things are not usually the way they seem as first.
I once had a friend's friend whom I thought the worst of. She would flirt with any male specie and seemed to live off men. I assumed she had slept with the whole world.
Somehow I got closer to her, stumbled on her medical reports and realised she was even a virgin. Her mum made her undergo periodic virginity tests because of their religious leaning.
She later told me she came from an extremely poor home and perfected the act of collecting money from men without paying in kind.
Don't be quick to write off your sister.
And if she's really sleeping with 2 dozen men,you cant change her.
Poster 2:
Why are you crying over spilled milk? He has a small dick, he can't satisfy you but you desire the queenly treatment? While you continue to cheat?
Examine yourself and find out the root cause of your persistent cheating and deal with that'd first.
You sound like a very messed up individual who has no respect for herself.
You got served with this your last relationship. You were both snoopers and were both cheating. Good riddance!
Take time off relationships and stop sharing pussy all over the place. Go into your next relationship with a resolve to respect yourself and the relationship.
N1: Pls tell ur mom about ur findings. Ur sister needs to be counselled. Do not confront her by urself. At 22, she should know her self worth , value nd should be a disciplined girl. Best of luck.
ReplyDeleteSCN- Snoopers club of nigeria. Una welldone o kikikikiki
ReplyDeleteNarrative 1 : I don't know the level of closeness between you and your sister but I think you should sit her down and raise these concerns you've just raised in your mail.Make her understand how scared you are with the kind of lifestyle she has .I am sure she will appreciate your concerns. If she doesn't change after this, you can then report her to your parents.
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ReplyDeleteNarrative 1 : I don't know the level of closeness between you and your sister but I think you should sit her down and raise these concerns you've just raised in your mail.Make her understand how scared you are with the kind of lifestyle she has .I am sure she will appreciate your concerns. If she doesn't change after this, you can then report her to your parents.
ReplyDeletePoster One, you are the kind of sister NO ONE wants to have! God forbid. You came on a blog to report YOUR sister??? May jealousy not kill your spiteful self! Eheeen, so people can be like this? I bet you're the type that will sleep with your sister's husband just because! I also know from what you have said that your parents keep comparing you to your sister and you resent that HOWEVER, do not transfer the aggression to your sister cos she's not the one doing the comparison. She still manages to keep grades and your olodo self came here to vent...Taaaaa gbafuo from here...Anu Ohia Di Ka Gi...
ReplyDeleteStella not fair not always posting my comments *crying*
ReplyDeleteNawa two snooppy..I hail o
ReplyDeletePoster 2..
ReplyDeleteU cant eat your cake n have it..
Ntooor
Poster I
I think you should tell ur parents.
Someone like me would have reported her a long time ago.I cant see evil n keep quiet.
Stella I am shocked at ur response to poster one..
#teamsnoop
ReplyDeleteJust reading comments
ReplyDeleteLool...I really don't know where to start. N1: Gather liver and speak to your sister ok... When it becomes a big problem you all will be pulled down with it.
ReplyDeleteN2: If you can't deal with his shortcomings like you stated, allow him move on and try be a lil faithful in your next relationship.
@poster 1..... is it ya bizness? Emulate part of her character and Nt all. @ poster 2...his a 2min man and u still with him? Na wood we go soon shuk 4 dat ya #Kpekus# Ashewo fuckaholic...... serves u right...shior!
ReplyDeleteI can't just stand snooping! I did it some years back with my ex and at the what did I get pain tears sorrow depression! Over what? Over my ex's enjoyment cos even when I fight and quarrel, we know men naoo they still go back! Am in a relationship now for a year plus I have never picked his phone to check shit, I know he is cheating cos I have seen the signs but that's non of my biz, inside this matter soo he dey snoop my phone die ooo, every morning he go wake up early dey firm looking for stuff and as a fake sleeper I go act like I dey sleep na so him go check taya con rest! But even with dat I can never check his phone never and devil come help am sef he get pass word when I never ever ask am sef and ll never ask him cos I want my peace!!!!
ReplyDeleteN1: please sit your sister down n tell her what you saw n remind her the consequences of her action n beg her to stop also pray for her cos it's only God that can save her I actually was like your sister and I actually wished someone no matter who had advised me then just I was too secretive for anyone to find out what I was doing but thank God for his mercies today I am happily married and I have forgiven myself but I regret every single thing I did. I didn't end up with HIV had 2 abortions but not proud of any of these sometimes I sit n wonder y God is so merciful to me. I wish I knew SDK blog then...lol
ReplyDeleteN2 No need to justify your cheating, repent n stay with one person.
no1....your sister will soon start wearing pampers because she too dey fuck.
ReplyDeleteNo2cheat jam cheat....
1) i think the best option is to confront your sister nd try to talk sense in her head, because AIDS is REAL.
ReplyDelete2) you are the one putting yourself in deep shit! seems your are not ready for something serious!
P1: I can feel your love for your sister and also the fear of something bad happening to her as a result of her lifestyle. I wish there was a better way to talk to her to change, 'cos if you try to yourself, she will see you as a small girl, what do you know, and if you tell your mum she will see you as a snitch. Just resort to prayers ok. She is young and exploring life, just may be she is one of those destined to learn from their mistakes. Just be good, your lifestyle may rub off on her.
ReplyDelete@poster2: You lack what it takes to be faithful. The problem is, you got in the sex thing at an early age. Most people who have infidelity issues were early starts.
ReplyDeleteStelle bae, leave we team snoop o, the lord opens the eyes of many of ur thru snooping...lolz
ReplyDelete#1 Not all girls go into that kinda lifestyle bcos of the money alone, maybe she actually wants to feel in charge, in control. I dont know the kind of relationship btw u two but maybe as her big sis yu should try sit her down and give her ur two cents that's if yu guys av it going well btw u two,if not, try chip it into one of ur friendly conversations.Girls these days just want to have it all
#2 I think yu need to work on yourself first b4 getting involved with anyone.
Poster 1 and 2 stop snooping before its late confrontation is d next on d line.
ReplyDelete#1# you are jealous of your sister,quit jealousy
ReplyDelete#2# you are not smart enough
@ poster 1...... is it ya biznes? Read ya book and pass ya JAMB. Olofofo!
ReplyDeleteNice cynthia, lol,do u ever argue? Hahahahaa,u r always nice like cynham cakes,lol.
ReplyDeleteMuch wahala
ReplyDeletePoster 1. U are such a stupid person nd I have no apology for using such harsh word for u, u snoop to ur elder sis's phone, clap for urself na, ppls like u will fuck the whole Nigeria and clean mouth, what are u even looking for in her phone? U want to see if u can snatch any of her man na, oya go and call her nd advise her urself or u wait for ur snoop members to advise u. U fear make she no die, u de follow her waka? Hw u take know she don sleep with all of them? Amebo like u. Poster 2. U fuck anything u see in trouser so stop giving this ur yeye excuses for cheating. Amend ur way so that ur real man will not pass u by.
ReplyDeleteAll i see is the ntorr character, had me lauging...
ReplyDeleteAll these chronicles can leave one weak sometimes.
Poster 1 i do not know the kind of parents you have, so i will not advice you to report her to them. If you are close to her, start by apologising that you went through her phone while looking through pictures, music or something and you stumbled across some information that is disturbing. Be mature with the conversation and see how it goes.. Back in school i had a friend who loved life and all its benefits, but would read all through the night and graduated with a very good CGPA, so don't judge your sister with that...
Above all, pray for her...
IHN rocksss!!!!
ReplyDelete@ Stella keep putting my comments in ya pot of soup you hear? One day it will rise like #Agege# in cold water.
ReplyDeletePoster1: what advice do u fink u cn give to ur sista datz into Runs??? Let her b coz she has made her pact,jst pray fr her datz wat u cn do nw.e de hard make runs babe stop oooo cos moni de inside d runs mata.
ReplyDeletePoster2: u nva readi to cool down,y u de worri since u say em dickson too small fr ur bolehole... Enjoy ur life n no mind pple wey de call u names,na dem do pass u die. Dnt waste ur tym marrying a 2mins man cos u will cheat on em.
~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan~
@ poster 1: the problem with your sister is peer influence and what they say in school; I want to belong and for you to belong in school; you should be up to date with unnecessary things which are distractions to the main purpose of being in school.they call them; I think aristos.i know she will not listen to you; so put her in prayers but the most important thing; you have to save your sister by telling your parents.desperate actions calls for desperate measures.try and confide in one of your parents that you are more comfortable with;but let the person not spill the bean yet; till you find a way of getting her phone out and then show the parent you confided in. let your sister hate you now; but you have to do something. the high marks can be that she is sleeping with the lectures for Marks. all the best; but do it with discrete.
ReplyDeletePoster 1: Your sister might be influenced by friends in school or its basically her life style and she's just pretending at home. 17 men *Opens Mouth* I don't think I slept with 17 men b4 I even marry self. I'm coming lemme count *lol*
ReplyDeletePoster 2: He does not satisfy you then why are you wasting his time, move on and let him. Find someone else that contented with him the way he is. You want him to treat you nicely and you pay him in return by engaging in sex chats with someone else. Sex is important in a union, if he's not satisfying you then you gotta move on
#My 2 cents
Warri bv where is una oh!!!
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ReplyDeleteANONYMOUS 14:43.
ReplyDeleteClap for yourself, 'I have my bf and my hubby has his own gf'. Very soon your story will come up on chronicles and as an obedient Amebo I'll feed my eyes and say a prayer for you.
Stop cheating on your hubby or better still divorce him, its not by force to bear the Mrs. title. Wonder the type of message you trying to pass across to we single ladies.
God bless the GW, and Stella who continue to give us hope that there exist good lasting marriages.
I pray God will bless all faithful wives and their families and drive far from them the evil one. Amen.
forgive my epistle and typographical errors, wrong English e.t.c
Stella Bae its rily difficult not to join #teamsnoop#, requires a lot of self discipline too,still trying not to join n seriously hoping le boo doesn't give me a reason to join.
ReplyDeletePoster1: discuss wit ur sis. Tell her what U think abt her lifestyle and move on with urs afterall she is an adult.
Poster2: you have to rily tell urself the truth and leave the dude alone. U rily think its okay to cheat on him cos his **** is small? What if he cheated on you cos U have small boobs or something else? How will U feel? Just leave d dude and find someonelse with d kind of **** U like.
@Poster 1- what your sister does with her body is not ur business. She is an adult and she manages to keep her grades up. Do not confront her. DO NOT. If you report, you don't have proof. So reorting to your parents is such a WRONG move. Keep praying for her, that's all you can do. She has her life to live.
ReplyDeletePoster 2- You are greedy. You can't eat your cake and have it.
#1, don't tell your parents... Yet! Speak with her...if she does not sound remorseful, then confide ONLY in your mosie, and leave her to handle it from there. Meanwhile, you too should not have any skeleton in your cupboard for her to bring out . Remember to pray for her as well. Best of luck.
ReplyDelete# He cheats, you cheat? That is a balanced equation! And he does not satisfy you? Then why are you still with him? Don't come and send stories that touch the heart later to SDK, if you both get married o! #pulls an ear for emphasis#
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P.1 pray and fast for your sister . Theres nothing impossible for God .
ReplyDeleteP.2 change ur ways and dump dat guy. Ask God for forgiveness and start Afresh. God b wit you.
Stella, out of interest, can you please do a post on how many people posters have slept with and the impact on their lives? what do they feel now? how has it affected them? any regrets?
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