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Hmmm ....Is it right for your spouse/boo to have a BFF that is not you but is the same sex as you?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
SEXUALLY MOLESTED BY THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE PREACHING AGAINST IT

Dear Mrs. Kork, 

I really love your blog. I have a childhood sexual molestation story i want you to publish to serve as lesson to all mothers and mothers to be. when i was 9 years old we attend holy communion & confirmation classes in the catholic church. This classes is mostly taken by seminarians (aspiring Priest who are still in Seminary school). The particular seminarian that took us, then was fond of me, always asking me questions and asking me to sit in front seat. He was a full adult, i could put his age to be about 24 then, while i was just 9 - 10.

After the classes i went on to secondary school to my surprise one day, my older cousine brought this seminarian to my house. He said he was asking and disturbing her about me. Afterwards anytime his Seminary school is on break he will always visit my home. My mum being and ardent catholic felt i was very safe with him.

Many a times he will come with his father's vehicle and tell my Mum that he wants me to escort him to see some of his parishioners where he had done his Apostolic work. I i noticed each family we visited then there is a small girl like me, that is his attraction there. He will also in turn pick them and all of us will be in his car, he will take us to his home, in the evening he will return all of us to our parents. 

By the time i became an adolescent i was between 15 -16 years, he started making sexual advances towards me. I must say here i grew up under very strict parenting, and we were trained to focus on our studies, i did not comprehend what he wanted me to do with him, because he was quite older and by now he had become a Priest in the catholic church and i knew they had no business with women or so I thought.

Then one day came he stripped him self naked before me that was my first time of seeing a grown Man's sexual organ, in my innocent mind it was too big and black compared to the little boy's own i see around. And i wondered from which part of my body that thing was going to penetrate i fled the room, and i asked him to take me home, he refused i found my way home. i did not mention it to anybody for fear i will be reprimanded for talking bad of a priest.

The next holiday, he came again and told my Mum, he wanted me to follow him to Enugu to celebrate one of those their mass. I was very reluctant to go, i did not have the nerve to tell my mum why i did not want to go, but she encouraged me to go all the same that it is better to be with a Priest than to be idling away at home. I followed him, i was young and timid all through the ride to Enugu, I dont recall us discussing anything. On getting to Enugu he told the family we went to visit that I was his younger sister, which should not be out of place because we are from same part of the our state. When it was night this family whether out of error or sheer stupidity made arrangement for one room. When i was tired and ready to sleep. They showed me a room to sleep in and I went to sleep, only for this evil priest to join me later on when i had slept off. When he woke me up for sex, the whole room was in pitch darkness, i realised he had been sleeping on that bed with me. He urged me not to make any disapproval noise as he has already told them i was his younger sister. My God! i exclaimed. the whole essence of bringing me to Enugu became clear. How could our host family allow him to come join me in the same room, my goodness.I thought to myself is it that the Woman in that house did not think it was improper, even if we were related.This Man made several attempt to penetrate it was too painful and i was bleeding. I guess he also did not find it easy and he left me and started apologizing. it dawned on me that he will be doing the same thing to other small girls he always picks along with me back then. Later it dawned on me also it was planned because we did not visit another priest or any church, and no mass was celebrated. The family we visited in Enugu it was outskirt of the city infact in a village called Ngwo. There was no Electricity. I thought it was stop over trip that we will finally end up in a parish house or something but nothing of sort.  He fooled my Mum to have a carnal knowledge of me. 

I distanced my self from him from then all through my University, I did not make contact with him, even though when i come home my Mum will excitedly inform me he came to check for me. Stella my love, do you believe that after I got married this Priest went to my house got my number from my mum, called me one day, i could feel his evil laughter and excitement of reconnecting with me on the phone, telling me he was in lagos and where i could come check him. I told him sorry I was married and no longer a catholic and have no need to see him. 

Till date once in a while he will call me asking when and how we can see. I hate him with a Passion and any day i see him which will be by error because, i will not go out of my way looking for him, what i will tell him will leave him numb for days. I have prayed for the hatred to go away,it cannot each time he callls me it comes back 100 fold

Mothers on this Blog never leave your daughter in the hands of any Priest or Pastor, especially the priests, they are virile men, looking for where to off load their sexual urge. Do not allow your daughter be their sex toys. When your children attend those evening  classes in church, make time to drop and pick them, or sit by the corner and wait for them to finish. 

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

CONFUSED GIRLFRIEND WITH A BOO WHOSE BFF IS FEMALE

Hi Stella love your blog, especially your chronicle of a blog visitor I have really learnt a lot from it. My dear I am going through something right now that is really making me confused, because the boy I am dating is making it look like I am over thinking the situation. I've been dating this guy for like 2months now, he is funny and I really love His company.

 He has this female friend who he became friends with after he met me o. They are very close, they talk to each other everyday, he goes to see her like three times a week and stays till late in the night, they chat a lot even when we are together. I didn't even tell you ooo, I know the girl and we all go to the same church. 

People say they are dating but he keeps assuring me that they are just friends that it is me he wants. I have told him to let me be if he must be friends with her but he begs and begs me not to leave him. We had a major blow out today when a friend of mine told me of how he spent the whole day with her he begged and I forgave him and at this very moment he is chatting with her. The very funny thing about this girl is that as soon as she became close to my guy she started giving all of us attitude. 

My main annoyance is that this girl knows we are dating and sometimes when she knows I'm with him she will call for like 20min and still chat with him one day we were taking a stroll together, that is how this babe called and for like more than half of the journey bros forget say I dey with am... Please what do I do, am I really over thinking this? Please help advice me I need to know I'm not the only one thinking this friendship is too much. Thank you for your time.

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