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Friday, March 27, 2015

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CONSEQUENCES OF BEING A BABYMAMA

Stella is Bae I just needed to talk to somebody .I am a regular and ardent reader of your blog, I just feel so bad and kinda hopeless. My younger sister is getting married soon and its been crazy my house is like a living hell for me. My mum doesn't even allow me drink water and keep the cup.
I Am a mother of one,had her when I was 17 and had to leave her dad cause he was always beating me up,starving me as in he almost killed me ever since then its been hard to get a relationship and when I even manage to get one at the end of the day they would say "ehnnn my kid this my kid that" and the annoying thing is that she doesn't even live with me and I can't lie about it. 

Recently I met this guy very nice and he's a likeable person we were going on fine till he now said  we can't go on that his family won't let him marry a girl with a child. I don't get this part o, is it that to have a kid is a crime?



Honey i dont think having a kid is a crime,they judge you because you had a kid out of wedlock.you know most people see baby mamas as very sexually loose.
I pray you find a man who will love you despite all...and please dont get jealous that your sister is getting married before you,who knows you might meet someone at the wedding so please be actively involved....you hear?I wish you luck..and love!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
SITUATION-SHIP ALERT.

Stella this is my chronicle, kindly publish really need advice from my fellow BVS  
I have been in this relationship for 8 years now, I was really in love and I felt he was too. Through it all, I have been of great help to him and his family financially because I got a job two weeks after my NYSC and he wasn't doing anything,in fact he was not a visitor in my base. I was doing virtually everything.

Finally he got a business he's doing courtesy of his brother and he wanted us to get married which I said no because he was expecting me to foot the bill, rather I added almost a million Naira to his business (please don't ask me why) and encouraged him to put in more effort to enable him sort the issue of marriage within a year. It's over a year now and anytime I ask him how far with his business and the profit he's been able to make within the period it becomes an issue.

He nags at every little issue, offends me without an apology, in fact he expects me to apologize to him whenever he offends me and when I refuse he could keep malice for months, never accepts his wrong doings, "I am sorry" is not in his dictionary.

Now he's asking for more money to add to his business without any explanation regards the 1million and it is not the first time, I gave him more before to run a little business and he could not give account of the capital let alone the gain.

 I can't even ask him for money when in need because the last time I tried he kept malice with me for a month. Did some unthinkable things for him. 

His family appreciates me much more than him most especially his sister's but he's the one I am going to live with if we get married. I am really thinking and confused, please help a Sister in need. 

Please don't crucify me for being in love, just need your sincere and candid advice.
God bless you all.


You are in love? ok fine but please make sure that you keep postponing the wedding ok?....You are in a situationship that needs to be fixed fast.Dont marry this man with his 'Liability' status oooh!.
To give your man money to support his business is okay but to become a permanent ATM machine is WRONG!




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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE
THE CONSEQUENCES OF WHISTLEBLOWING

Hello, Queen Stells. I'm the lady that posted the 'HELP! I'm at a crossroads' post. About my class pupil that was molested by the proprietors' son.
 I sent an anonymous text to the girl's parents and its like they contacted the proprietor and his wife. The man boldly said to me that he suspects I'm the one that did it,because the other staff working with him always keep every 'dirty' secret but it seems I can't. 

So he just called me to the office and verbally told me to stop work(without any form of Termination or pay). He sacked me for:
1. Not keeping shut.
 2. Not agreeing to vote for Buhari (his candidate).
3. For complaining about the poor hygiene of the school.
4. For over dressing (that, do I think I work in a bank? This is a school.).                                          
5. For telling him that they are backward academically.

 The beef no be hia o. In fact, like 5 parents have called me to ask what's happening. That the man called them to stay away from me 
(as if I stole his money o)
 Now, I am jobless and angry. I would really love it if BVs would advice me on what to do next.
 Thanks.




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What do we do now?
Whatever happens just know that you did the right thing!








133 comments:

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    1. For not agreeing to vote for Buhari? ? For real?? ??

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    2. @poster 3, sorry about how this turned out; you did the right thing nonerheless.
      Just keep your head up and keep praying and looking; you never know, someone inhouse might even offer you a job.

      I hope you're equally bad-mouthing him and his school to all that care to listen. The worst has happened, so make sure you loud the whole affair as much as possible.
      As far as i'm concerned, that environmrnt isn't even worth working in. Pele, all the best.

      Click my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers

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    3. @poster1 : hold on n hold out
      You time will come
      You didn't do anything wrong ok
      @poster2 : 8yrs? 8 wasted years
      Please leave that guy/relashionship asap
      @poster3 : hmmmmmmm speechless

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    4. Poster 2

      I personally think u are in the frustration stage of ur rshp (8yrs), that is why u feel this way! Please, do not throw in the towel when the journey is almost over. From ur right up, I can sense ur emotions are moving away, hence the fault finding.

      U know u didn't just meet him today. By now u should be aware of his capabilities (esp one u want to spend the rest of ur life with). U shouldn't have given him one million. Rather u would have given him loads of ideas and seen to it that he used you put in the one million urself for HIM.

      Never give a man u love fish to eat, rather show him how to catch fishes for himself and u.

      I pray God guards u and shows u how best to handle things in ur rshp. All will be well soon. Please don't give up

      All d best*

      Ps: as for his acting up, he is frustrated and broke now. So it is normal. But don't forget to draw boundaries on what u can and can't tolorate ok?

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    5. But this poster 2 is dumb sha for a graduate. I weep for you. You are here asking.

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    6. Poster 1.have in a kid out of wedlock is not a crime.your dream hubby will locate you.just don't be despirate. Poster2.i hope your bf is not trying to use your head. Poster3.dont worry you will get another job

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    7. @poster 1. U will surely get a man and don't let ur sister getting married before u be a problem. Cos in life, overtaking is allowed but the end of the race is what matters. Ur man is on his way.

      @Poster 2: leave that relationship for good. In life, watever u over stressed to have is never met to be urs. Leave so as to creat an atmosphere for a better man to come in.

      @Poster 3: U are a great woman with great values. I bet by the end of this election u will receive a call for a better job cos millions have read ur story.


      www.mimiubini.com

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    8. Poster3: you ve lost the job abi? Now begin to blow the trumpet tell all who care to listen what happened make sure you tell the parents of the little girl you sent the note, black list the school in all prospective patrons eye let the proprietor know that wickedness does not reside in the soul of a single fellow mtcheeeeew.
      poster2: leave that relationship to be frank i do not see any future it in for you, after 8yrs with all your sacrefice he doesnt deem it fit to take you into confidence even when you re the one to help with 1million quid? Pls let it go.

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    9. Poster 3, u did the right thing, just like my office where they expect me to dress down, I don't care anymore, am looking for another job. Anyway, next time u don't ve to state d candidate's name

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    10. Poster one. Dont worry ur guy will come. Poster 2 kindly cut ur losses and leave that man. He wont marry u and even if he does u will be forever miserable. Poster 3 open the propeitors nyash i beg. Hes a pedophileand the worst he can do has already been done.

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    1. Bwahahahahaa..Bianca u don cray finish..So u no read am before posting a comment?

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    2. Stella you are just so dramatic, what's "OMG " about these stories? Lol!

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    3. Anonymous 13:39 I tayaaa oh!

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    4. Poster 3, send ur story to newspaper houses and blogs

      Poster 1, leave that man, u would get a good man, my friend left a guy after 11 years and she still got married before him

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    5. Poster about boyfriend who does not work. NAWA 2 U OH! If you follow this blog religiously, there are some questions or chronicles you won’t ask Stella to publish for you. There was a story just like yours. A woman who married a fake doctor and began to suffer. Dude was not really a doctor just fronting. She ended up managing the house and the man still kicked her out. Go back and find that story!

      There are so many stories about women taking care of men (not wrong to an extent) doing everything for a lazy man and still getting the short end of the stick. What is wrong with you women? Are you so ugly? Are you so insecure? Is your self esteem so low? Do you think you are so old? Why don’t you let this leech out of your life and start afresh? Why are you people so scared? Why hold on to someone who spells doom? Why are you so afraid women? M out!

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  3. Look for another job that's what's next! U have done d right thing by God and man. U knew d consequences of doing what u did so don't be sounding like bvs made u. So u musta foreseen a sack coming. So dust up ur cv and start applying, pray to God to see u through as u are in this predicament for doing the right thing and he will come through for u.
    Now note, don't go about complaining and being bitter about ur decision and where it landed u cos that just defeats d purpose of what u did. I wish u God speed.

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    1. Be nice jare,u sound like getting a job is Soo easy in Nigeria,my aunt told me they ask her to pay 150 thousand naira to get a teaching job.

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    2. 150k for teaching job?...na 1m monthly dem wan dey earn?

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    3. And because u did the right thing,by saving that lil gal from more assault,know that God is going to reward u with a better job.if nigeria were a gud country that justice prevails,i would have said u should take him to court!but for now,as he is telling parents to stay away from u,u also tell them to watch out for their kids cos he's a child molester.
      Poster1,ur boyfriend is an irresponsible,lazy man,leave him!if u marry such a person,u will have overwhelming responsibilities u will hate urself!
      Poster2,the man that is urs is not yet around,but when he comes u will know cos he will love ur kid and accept her.we have seen pple with 3kids get married,so urs will not b a special case.

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    4. 150k to get a teaching job? To teach aliens in Pluto or jupiter?hahahahaha! And they'll be paying her in cowries abi??? Hahahahaah...I cannot fit to laf!

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    5. What fuckery? Poster 3 should still take up the case, it should not end there. I repeat, it should not end there. Send me the name of the school and the principal's or whoever the man is. Is he mad?

      If you have proof of his sexual assault then that nonsense school will be shut in a matter of weeks. Say what? I am very serious poster, if u can send the details to Stella I will raise an alarm against that school and also alert the state government. Why should u be fired? You have rights and it is being trampled on.

      It means he will continue with his sexual molestation and no one should keep quiet. All the staff who know this are as culpable, hence that school be discontinued asap. What did the parents u alerted do? Is their daughter still attending the school?

      Ah don't be a mumu o please, exercise your rights. He has done his worst so let's treat his fuck up. Can't deal

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    6. Spot on Sisi Eko!

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  4. Whistle blower God will bless you for being so fearless to say the least...
    Baby mama why have a baby for a guy u can't marry?
    It's an indelible scar u have to live with forever!!
    U will always be seen as a 2nd hand and no reasonable eligible bachelor wants a 2nd hand even if her punani is laced with gold.
    Why indulge in sex when u know nothing about flushing of sperm,pills or abortion?
    You have to live with yourself by yourself or look for a divorcee or widower or become a 2nd wife cos that's where u belong...
    If u keep waiting for Mr.right without dent,na menopause sure pass!!
    Read your bible

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    1. Bwahahahahahaha..M-amie dont let babymamas come after u on dis blog..Most of dem will go anon to cuss u out.

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    2. You're MEAN M-amie, chai.

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    3. Mamie haff killed dis girl oooh
      Too blunt
      So true, but dis will make her feel bad.

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    4. No one supports an abortion yet baby mama's re desperate...... Mrs poster pls stop waiting for husband nd get rich , work hard nd men will run after u stop living in self pity , I'm a baby mama wit a didference , my hands re full dat I turn down suitors cos I'm not yet ready to suffer nd smile , pls pick ur life together.

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    5. Sometimes, the medicine wey sure pass na the ones wey bitter pass! Eg. Alomo Bitters.

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    6. Holy M-amie, no one is innocent of this. People of Africa rarely marry for love. I agree being a single mom is almost a taboo in our culture but it's got nothing to stop if u find favour in the eyes of a man. Holy M-amie if u ever used pill the bible will judge u same. so, stop and feel for ur fellow human whenever and whatever it is.
      Dear poster 1. Ur moms attitude is common with mothers. Positive attitude is the key cos someone could be noticing from a distance.

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    7. U just hit the nail on the head Mamie.Though it may sound bitter itz the truth. That's why ladies need to stop opening their legs indiscriminately. Lets teach our daughters from their young ages how morally degrading it is to end up as a single mother and how society unfriendly it is(despite the fact that someof them e.g narrator will not take heed) And if u are going to have unprotected sex at all,make sure u are ready for the consequences. Be independent, so that if the man ends up not marrying you,it will be easier to sort urself out. Ur mother is just behaving as a pained mother would do.Trust me,Shez unhappy on ur behalf and thinks frustrating you will make you bring a man home.Nevertheless, it doesn't always work that way.Be patient with her cos she and perhaps other members of your family presently see you as a dissapointment.And I pray that won't be for long. Also,like Stella said,they Our society see mothers out of wedlock as sexualy loose people and I don't blame them.Cos why would we allow what God has ordained for a legal union to become a plaything. I don't get angry at pple who see me as indecent cos I put myself in that situation. It was difficult getting a responsible that would espect me enough to want to walk me down the aisle until I got myself busy and started makin something tangible out of my life(took me 5 years).To be sincere with you,I found out most of these single men don't want to marry you when u have nothing else to bring to the table apart from another man's offspring. I love my son and I want more kids/sibs for him in an ideal/happy home setting. Finally found an understanding and compassionate man with whom I plan to spend the rest of my life with.The rejected stone(oh! How I was abandoned by family and friends) has now become the corner stone.Now my story has changed.So my dear, life can be h ard like that.Not everyone that had pasts like us have it tough sha but if u find ur self amongst the unlucky ones,quit looking for sympathy and forget ahead.Nobody put us in that situation. We are/were victims of our own desires.So with God on ur side, make sure u turn your story around too. Finally, to answer ur question,having a child aint a crime but FORNICATION that results in an illegitimate child is a SIN.And this my dear,is the hard truth. #SELAH#

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    8. Mamie or what ur name, there is nothing true in d rubbish you have said..who are you to judge or determine someone future..u need to change ur idiotic thinking that she can't marry a single man or it a life time scar...
      @ poster..that lie from pit of hell.. It only God that will decide who u end up with.u not married yet not becos u r a baby mama but bcos it not ur time...like Anony 14:49 said don't live in self pity..get busy, dress well..go out and av fun like single ladies..turn deaf hear to whateva pole or ur parent r saying..get close to God and go for deliverance if possible..and stay calm enjoying everyday of ur life and take each day as it comes..
      Gid will show forth for u and shame pple like mamie when u get married to a single guy

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    9. Anonymous27 March 2015 at 16:49 thanks for speaking up. I find that its easier for single mothers in Nigeria who are somewhat established or are painfully pretty. Even the pretty ones still have it hard. It takes a man with a heart of gold to marry a single mother in this our obodo Nigeria.

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  5. N1: you haven't met the right man. Relax and stop worrying your pretty head.

    N2: Use your tongue to count your teeth and make the bold painful decision now.

    N3: God will send you a helper to bless your life with a better job.





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  6. Poster 1- anyone who loves you and doesn't love your child is a no no

    Poster 2- Pls go ahead and give him all your life savings because of 'love'. Mtcheww!! I don't know why we girls never learn

    Poster 3- you did the right thing, God is on the throne and He's paving the way for a better job for you.

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    1. P1- you'd find your match, chill.
      P2- For my side, to give man money na bad luck, no further comment.
      P3- Turnt ur unlooking game n start searching for a new job.

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  7. Poster1. relax God will bless you with a man soon. Fear not and look upto God dear.
    Poster2. don't bother he doesn't deserve you. Go find someone else joor. You are only giving him money to fund his marriage to another lady watch and see bfr two months his IV will be out.
    Poster 3. God will bless you with another job. Fear not. That job sef isn't worth it biko. Look for another teaching job.

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  8. Poster1. relax God will bless you with a man soon. Fear not and look upto God dear.
    Poster2. don't bother he doesn't deserve you. Go find someone else joor. You are only giving him money to fund his marriage to another lady watch and see bfr two months his IV will be out.
    Poster 3. God will bless you with another job. Fear not. That job sef isn't worth it biko. Look for another teaching job.

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  9. Dear poster 3, just try and put yourself together. You were just unlucky to work for a retarded man. The school doesn't deserve someone like you. I can't deal with such people. So sorry dear! God will bless you with a good job and sophisticated boss. It's well with you. You are blessed!

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  10. Poster 2 sounds like Xoxo Mystery....Anyway i will give u my advice..Get out from dat relationship..8yrs of relationship for what kwanu? Are u an aunty gwegwegwe dat u are spending ur money on efulefu like dat? D most annoying is he doesnt appreciate or respect u..Dont make d mistake of marryig him..He does not love u..He is managing u bcos of d money u lavish on him..Bring back ur sense from ur pussy and put it to good use.

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    1. Such a love you have for me

      Such an unrequited love

      *Loving someborri and she don't love nor loff u*

      And I love that stunt you pulled until a smart BV called you out.
      Who has time to impersonate you?
      Just cos I called one bish out for impersonating, all of a sudden you had so much time in your hands to open two IDs.
      Are you that bored?
      My goodness, I know its election period and things aren't moving in your market but calm down na.

      Stop soliciting for strong black dicks here
      When you tied your albino down with pregnancy, didn't you know their dicks are mele mele?

      For someone with a veejay that can swallow the world. You should have done better.

      Agadiekwenka...byeeeeee

      I know one bish will think of impersonating me
      *In sunshines voice* chaka boom, boom shaka, boom boom shaka
      This is how your ancestors will send kitikpa after you.

      XOXO MYSTERY

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    2. So true. Leave dat guy and run as fast as your legs can take you. I can spend this much for a man that isnt my hubby o. Even if u are my hubby, I av to be very sure he's not an efulefu accordin to chizoba

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    3. Xoxo Miserable whore..So u can reply under comments? Kikikikiki! What happened to ur google acct aunty gwegwes? U dropped it bcos of d cronicle u sent so dat u can fit reply people.. U wish i like u? I should be telling u dat..U got so addicted with me dat u started calling me out..Going down memory lane u first started messing with me on dis blog now fear don dey catch u..
      Are u sure u are not s efulefu impersonating me? I know u are jobless and frustrated enough to use my name on dis blog..
      Finally stop spending d money u dont have on usless boy in abuja..they wont marry u..U dont old finish..Atleast i'm lucky to get pregnant and tie an albino down to marry me..U think its easy? It its easy go and marry nah make i see..
      Agadi ekwe nka..Akwuna backyard..
      Xoxo fool.

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  11. OMG!!!!@poster 3,do not lose faith.God will come through for you.I salute your honesty plus you did well by confiding to the parents.Hold still your blessing is on its way.Yours sdkly dazzlinglizzy

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  12. @ N2: Shebi you have seen all these things the guy is doing, and you are still coming to seek advice? What exactly do u want us to tell u? 8years in one relationship. Please walk away and make sure you never borrow money to anyone you are dating, if you aren't sure of getting it back. Infact pretend never to have, except in emergency situations. When he marries you, and he sees the turn around ( helping when he needs, lending etc) he will be shocked and appreciate you more.
    N3: I'm so sorry about what happened. Maybe you should have sent an anonymous mail. Truth is, you did the right thing. keep on searching, God will definitely give you a better job. Hold your head high. I won't be surprised if you are offered a job by a bv. Shalom#

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  13. Poster two you have no business being with that man, he is mean and selfish he clearly has no regard for you. It will get worse if he is rich.
    He is lazy and entitled.
    Marry him and fill blogs with sob stories later

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  14. Poster 1 ... Mumu man

    Poster 2 ..... Mumu woman

    Poster 3: stupendous man. you better start blowing the whistle so that the 5 parents that called you will know his dirty secrets.

    dont worry you will get a good job. i think this whistle blowing is better you work with Nigerian Police.

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  15. Please poster sue him for unlawful termination. Claim huge damages.

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  16. #1 There is a man out there for you, just be patient. Next time you meet someone codedly ask their opinion about marrying a baby mama, to avoid your present situation.
    #2 That guy is using you, you should have fled when he asked you to finance your own wedding. Rather you gave him 1m, these guys are not loyal. Until a man marries you he doesn't deserve your 1kobo, only a good man will appreciate it. Use your brain.
    #3 You did well. I would like to know what the girl's parents did. May God reward your labour of love. Something better will come. Be patient.

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  17. Poster 3, God bless you. You did the right thing.
    I need a boyfriend oh. I need to feel that spark of love again.

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  18. OMG! Stellz you took me unawares, lemme go and read...brb

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  19. Wey ihn Joooor..........Stella u must enjoy me

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  20. Poster 2 how sure are you about getting married to a man that keeps malice with you at will? For upto a month. Please take time out to evaluate your relationship and ask your self if you are both on the same side. He maybe seeing someone else behind your back without you knowing.

    Poster 3 You may have lost your job for speaking out, but it's better that keeping that dirty secret on your conscience.

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  21. 1. Keep trusting God for your own husband and don't allow what you are facing now make you treat your sister's celebration with less concern. Be actively involve and God will surprise you.

    2. Stop giving him money to fund his business since he can't account for the one you gave him and can't even treat you nicely after your huge sacrifice. Pls leave your options open for a better man.

    3. You did the right thing by telling. Don't worry, God will surprise you soon. It is well.

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  22. olori western union27 March 2015 at 13:31

    Mrs Kork, concerning the second narrative, its not ok to give your man money to support his business ooo, is he your husband? Husband sef na with sense you go take dey do am. How are you sure you guys will end up together in future with the way some guys behave ones they are made. Hmmmm I love smart and sharp women oooo, I never for ones gave a guy one naira when I was single I dey craze?? Am even the one collecting hian!! You carry odindi 1million give boyfriend and you've even given him more according to you, my dear if na because you won marry make you dey do this one please and please stop it already. I will never get tired of saying every woman has a husband, as I take bad reach I still marry how much more you that's this nice. Leave this man he's not worth all the stress and don't give me the "I love him line", love catch fire smhh!! You will love another person even more. whatever you have done for him in the past, let it go and concentrate on something else, your own man that will love you un conditionally will come when you least expect it, this one no be am at all.

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    1. Olori
      Let me kiss ur yansh (muaaaa)
      I love u jare
      I love u like money!
      Those days Wen it comes to men, I'm so so stingy..

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    2. Thank you o'jare. You give him 1 million you say we shouldn't ask you. You did unthinkable things meaning you slept with other men. Mtchewww. Empty your bank account so both of you can rest

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  23. #1 Get yourself involved in her wedding and pray to God.

    #2Hope they didn't love u because of ya money? Have a talk with him, Don't foot his bills and try give him space and watch him, and if he doesn't change, my dear choro way-gi. 8 yrs not b 8 months o.

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  24. Chei...am crying for u @poster 2....thunder fire dat useless love out of ur head!!! Girls stop giving men ur hard earn money....dey are of no good!! See ur life now,ur boyfrend is giving another girl ur money...mumu oshi

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  25. Poster 3 U v really done well buh mind u try $ allow d parent of the girl pursue the case come out from the bag. Ask of help for job vacancy here I know you surely see help don't forget to be prayerful too. You have really done well!!!!

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  26. P1 its unfortunate. Keep tryin
    P2 Irresponsible man
    P3 God dey

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  27. #3 God will bless u with a better job, but tell the 5 parents the truth abt the owner of the sch.

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  28. N1 having a child out of wedlock is not your problem from what I read...not having anything that keeps you busy like working seems to be the problem. These men you are meeting perceives you n your child as a liability that's why they r not too motivated to pursue serious relationship with you. I bet you if you are working and spending more time to build yourself, they'd be flocking to you like ants on sugar....focus on building urself for now and show you got your stuffs together, real men will date n wife you up quick
    N2 I remember this old proverb that goes "a sucker(fool) is born every minute" n it seems you are one! An atm sucker at that! You lending money to a man that you've been with for 8years no ring, no commitment or marriage date in sight? Wow! You be maga! Give urself some brain or borrow brain from someone that has...what happened to supporting his dreams with words of encouragement ONLY??? Men these girls never learn ooo

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    1. Omg! I love U ......1000likes, girls never learn tomorrow she will tell us he wasn't like dis before marriage Nonsense! Nd trust me dis girl can't give her brother a kobo. Prick kill u.

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    2. Haa but that is what shes just done borrow brain from bvs since she doesnt have, pls take am easy with her.

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  29. #2 The hand writing is visible. Use yr tongue to count ya teeth.

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  30. olori western union27 March 2015 at 13:36

    Third narrative, sue the school please talk to your lawyer. The proprietor is a mad man, what has the parents of the molested child done after contacting him?

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  31. LADY IGO SAID:

    POSTER NUMBER 2: LOVE IS;

    1 Corinthians 13:4-8New International Version (NIV)

    4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Cor. 13

    Is this what you "fell into"; when you said, I'm in love or fallen in love?

    Young lady respect yourself and your creator by closing your legs and your heart to this impostor. Jesus open arms is waiting for you to make you the woman; virtuous woman he created you to be. That is the beginning of "falling in love" and he will give you a man with the characters of love like you read above.

    Praying for you to take the right steps.

    LADY IGO WITH REGARDS.

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  32. stella where IHN i don refresh tire

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  33. @Poster 1 don't worry, u would meet someone that would accept you and your child. As a matter of fact, a match made in heaven awaits you.

    @ poster 2,what are you still doing with him? My dear, marrying someone like him is suicidal. The next thing you would be doing is sending another chronicle to us for advice a few months after marriage to him. There is no need postponing the marriage. Just get out of that situationship u call relationship please.

    @Poster 3, God will get you a better job.your good deed would be rewarded.

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    1. Poster2's issue is quite disturbing,had to comment twice on it!8 f##king years managing dis bullshit?kai!women and I must marry matter' ehn,may God help us.

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  34. Poster 1,
    Having a child out of wedlock is a crime where I come from...
    The only people that get married to them are old men...well,I will advise you leave men for now and concentrate in achieving your goal in life....trust me,you will see men flocking around you when you are made....
    Don't mind your mum....

    Poster 2,
    You are a fool....
    If my sister should try giving his hard earned money to a man,I will so disown her...
    Just look at your self...
    How much have you given your parents???...Mumu....
    You are there spending on a man that only wants to be eating you Mugu...tufia!!...now I know girls on this blog don't learn things here....
    You better flee from this your guy and forget all that your nonsense love...
    Mumu your money is gone!!!..and he won't marry you...

    Poster 3,
    Wow!!'...
    What did the parents of the girl do after you told them what happend???..
    Why don't you say the name of the school so people can stop sending their kids there...
    Imagine!!..

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  35. LADY IGO SAID:

    @POSTER 3: YOUR ACTS ARE COMMENDABLE;

    1 pET. 2:19 For it is commendable if someone bears up under the pain of unjust suffering because they are conscious of God.

    You were "sacked" so that the Lord will employ you.

    FROM LADY IGO WITH REGARDS.

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  36. Poster 1, I've got 2 friends who were single mums, and today they are married. Got single men who they married and are happy. So chill, have the right attitude and all the best.
    Poster 2, better wear your running shoes and take off. If you guys marry, you won't be happy.
    Poster 3, if I were you, I will tell the parents that are making inquiries what really happened. After all he sacked you. All the best in your search for a new job.

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  37. NN1: **tight E-hugs** Your man will come. Just focus on building yourself and career

    NN2: He is broke and still giving you attitude. sorry sister you dont need advise, you need Jesus

    NN3: Wow!! its really a wicked world. God is not asleep, you will find a better job soon.

    Please click on my name for Fashion/Fitness/Beauty tips

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  38. Stupendous man? wow, just wow

    Bekee bu agbala

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  39. Ohh, poster 2 make me remember my ex, lazy guy like he wll sleep from 7pm till 10a while I go out to work, at a time he was even kind of encouraging me to av aristo so as to pay his bill. Thank God I dumb his lazy azz. He oesnt even know what he was doin then was wrong atall.

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  40. I get angry really pissed when a man leaves a woman cos she had a had a child in her previous marriage.
    What if d person u are rushing to marry hv done series of abortion? Poster any guy that loves u genuinely will marry u,just chill and wait for ur man.Madam teacher u did d right thing,infact someone should take that case up so that the school will be close down,what rubbish!!!! Evil doers everywhere
    Ermmm the other poster I can see desperation from ur write up why will u settle down for a liability?? In fact both of u are using each other u want him to marry u and he wants u for d money am sure u will sponsor d wedding too,dont come back and write chronicles here if u go ahead with that scumbag.

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  41. Poster 1: truth is when ur Man comes, having a kid won't be an issue. Just hold on
    Poster 2: d'u really need any advice, its very obvious dt you're OYO. Give urself brain oh
    Poster 3: don't worry, you'll surely get something better. U absolutely did what's right

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  42. Poster 1....this is Nigeria, a country full of educated fools with myopic mind.
    Just pray and stop searching, the real one will find you.
    Poster 2. Sorry but I can't make the decision for you, but If I am you I will not even be with him for a year...no nigga deserves my money.

    Poster 3. You did the right thing. Move forward

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  43. Poster 1. Take Mrs Kork's advice, get involved in ur sister's wedding, God who sees d depth of a man's heart,He will reward u accordingly and will send a man who will love u&everything about u plus ur child is a precious gift from God, always have that at d back of ur mind. God bless.
    Poster2. Pls walk a way from that relationship, na wah what other wrong sign are u looking for, love is not blind again these days, in fact it wears 3D glasses. Lol. Mrs Kork put it will, being an ATM machine is totally wrong. U bera stop wasting ur time in that relationship, thank ur God sey u nefa marry am cos u for regret am. U giving him money wouldn't make him love u more or make u have peace in ur home. and I hope he is not keeping a woman somewhere.shine ur eyes!

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  44. That Proprietor should be jailed. Am sure he didn't study education.

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  45. Poster 3 anyone that calls you in respect of the matter,tell them the truth and nothing but the truth also tell the parent of the abused child that you are the one that leaked the secret to them.Now that you are fired let the world know what is going on in his school,for sure you must get the desired sympathy,who knows something good must come your way! Don't loose hope.

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  46. Eating one badass amala and ewedu. Chai! I have missed it. Lemme go back n read properly

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  47. Poster 1,u will get a good man that will accept n love u.
    Poster 2,nawah oh! Men dnt respect women that spend on dem.
    Poster 3,God bless U for doing d right thing,u will get job.

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  48. POSTER 1,what advice can I give oooooo, honestly you are not in a relationship.Pls what's ur age? no matter ur age sef pls don't let desperation carry you to be the husband in a marriage, you shld be a helper and not a breadwinner. Marriage is not all abt love. Finances is a huge cause of divorce. You wld be making a huge mistake marrying this man. I understand u love dis guy, but pls don't join statstics of single divorcee mother. Bow out honourably b4 pregnancy enter am.
    POSTER 2,You did the right thing. its so unfortunate you lost ur job in d process,but believe me u don't need to be working wit such ppl. which one is d way u dress again ? so dem dey use style scoop u. Just put evrythn in prayers. God will surely reward you. you are not working in a good environment............. FOREVER 16

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  49. POSTER 1,what advice can I give oooooo, honestly you are not in a relationship.Pls what's ur age? no matter ur age sef pls don't let desperation carry you to be the husband in a marriage, you shld be a helper and not a breadwinner. Marriage is not all abt love. Finances is a huge cause of divorce. You wld be making a huge mistake marrying this man. I understand u love dis guy, but pls don't join statstics of single divorcee mother. Bow out honourably b4 pregnancy enter am.
    POSTER 2,You did the right thing. its so unfortunate you lost ur job in d process,but believe me u don't need to be working wit such ppl. which one is d way u dress again ? so dem dey use style scoop u. Just put evrythn in prayers. God will surely reward you. you are not working in a good environment............. FOREVER 16

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  50. N 1: don't loose hope of finding someone who would appreciate u and accept ur child. It might seem difficult but when the right man for u comes, everything else will be secondary.

    N2: I feel so sorry for u even though I do not know u. 8 yrs in a relationship is bad enough not to talk of 8 yrs in a situationship. Pls wake up and smell the coffee. it's caffeine .

    N3: Hmmm. When better employers are looking for people as honest as u, the yeye proprietor is busy sacking the one he has. Don't feel bad my dear. U did the right thing. Just imagine if that kid was urs and a teacher that could've informed u looks the other way because she wanted to be loved by the school owner and then u will be glad u did what u did. Not to worry, God never abandons His own. But abeg, tell those parents that are asking you what the problem is the truth. Some might say it's not ideal to blow the whistle on an employer, loyalty and all but was he loyal when he fired u? And then again, it's a case of molestation. If it's not handled, that his son will just assume it's OK to do that. That's what his father doesn't understand. He is rearing a prospective rapist, and a violent boy/man. God help us. As for a job, u will definitely get a better one. Good luck.

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  51. Poster 2, seems like you have lots of money to throw around. The man doesn't love you, he only loves your money and that's the bitter truth.
    Poster 1, don't worry. God will bring a man that would love you and your child. There's nothing He can't do.
    Poster 3, you did what was right. God will repay you in His time

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  52. Poster 2. Now that he has sacked you. You have to let the parents know what goes on in the school. Yes don't keep quiet. Go to the parents of the girl and tell them that you sent the text to them. Tell all who care to listen the truth.

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  53. PLS BV's I have a question,if ur fiancé slaps you 1nce can that be termed domestic abuse? I'm abit worried bcos as of late I noticed my fiancé likes shouting for no just cause, it cld be as little as he tells me to do smthn on his fone while driving,and im having difficulty opening it. Or telln him I went to visit a male friend, and he starts saying am I stupid,idiot etc. Bear in mind when we started dating he neva shouted 1nce,i even did the sparking. He was so niceeeeee
    Now he slapped me abt a mnth ago and flung my bag wit all its contents out. He apologised immediately and picked up d bag dou. But dat shit scared me.
    Did I add he's broken down the door during an argument b4,dou it was me dat started the argument den locked myself in. PLEASE ARE THESE THE SIGNS OF DOMESTIC ABUSE.I don't want to marry a man dat will be abusing me. What can I do pls ?

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    1. Nope. They are signs of domestic embrace. Inshort you are watching a seasonal movie so sit tight and watch. #smh# btw is he going through some difficulties? Emotional or psychological stress? Work/ money related stress? Baby mama, village people, parents or sibling stress? Maybe they have started calling his name @ his village square.

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    2. Uncontrollable temper,mood swings ,irrational behaviors, emotional and physical are signs of a futuristic domestic violence in a man. Ur man has all of the above from Ur write up.

      My advise is this .postpone the wedding date ,keep studying him. Maybe this is his real character peeping through ..all the best

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    3. Na so e dey start...
      Run run run....
      Thank God you guys are not married yet...
      But my mind is telling me you will still marry him...
      Oriegwu!!.,.

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    4. Ask Google! You see the biggest signs and you are still with him.
      A broken engagement is still better.

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    5. Hell yes! That's a sign of domestic abuse! Find your way out of that soon-to-be toxic relationship.

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    6. Na real domestic embrace. Nne find your square root before it turns to murder

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  54. Poster that just lost her job . So how will u cope before u find a new one ? Pls reply.

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  55. @Poster 1; having a child is not a barrier, the truth is that the man who will appreciate you and love you for who you are will soon meet you, meanwhile get yourself busy and don't be jealous of your sister, just give her your full support, be happy for her. My immediate younger sister is married and trust me e be like say na me dey do the wedding because the whole plan was done by me.Poster 2. it is well with you , somethings are to be enjoyed and not to be endured, this is not a relationship ,most time when we do things it is important to forsee the future,looking at things now the guy is not ready to plan the future with you, like Stella said e don become ATM machine o we don't need prayer for everything.

    Poster 3. I always believe that All things work together for good. just know that God is taking you to higher and better place,irrespective of wat it is now because He is the key that unlocks every door.

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  56. @Poster 1; having a child is not a barrier, the truth is that the man who will appreciate you and love you for who you are will soon meet you, meanwhile get yourself busy and don't be jealous of your sister, just give her your full support, be happy for her. My immediate younger sister is married and trust me e be like say na me dey do the wedding because the whole plan was done by me.Poster 2. it is well with you , somethings are to be enjoyed and not to be endured, this is not a relationship ,most time when we do things it is important to forsee the future,looking at things now the guy is not ready to plan the future with you, like Stella said e don become ATM machine o we don't need prayer for everything.

    Poster 3. I always believe that All things work together for good. just know that God is taking you to higher and better place,irrespective of wat it is now because He is the key that unlocks every door.

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  57. #3, Please you did good. GOD bless you. Explain to those 5 parents what happened. I pray GOD will open a way for you. The others knows how to keep dirty secret? Means so much have gone under the bridge!
    Nitty

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  58. @ poster 3,2,1.OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!*hawhawhaw*

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  59. Poster1,ur ideal man will come,is just time.
    Poster2, u are dating yourself,better leave dst boy ASAP b4 he ruins u.
    Poster3,is well

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  60. #1: No, my love, having a child is not a crime. However, society frowns at single ladies who are mothers, moreso if there isn't the foreseeable future of marrying the baby-daddy. Unfortunately, most people regard baby-mamas as "tainted". In the hierarchy of stigmatisation, a divorcee even ranks higher than a baby-mama where the issue of marriage or remarriage comes up. 

    Sweetie, I feel bad for you, I really do but you have to understand that it takes a higher level of maturity and a liberal mentality for the average Nigerian family not to have reservations about their son‎ marrying a lady who is already a mother. Remember a while ago  marrying a virgin was a thing of pride, but as we gradually moved into the jet age where certain moral standards became quaint, it's now unrealistic, even laughable in some circles, for a    family to insist on their son(s) marrying virgins. 

    Though the issue of virginity has been played down drastically, deep down,most families(especially the mothers) still desire a "pure" wife for their sons. So marrying a single mother makes a caricature out of the whole "purity expectation". It's just the way it is.

    I know you are hurting and may not be rational for now, but darling, when you calm down, I hope you get to see the blessing in this storm. I regard this as a form of "natural selection". Chances are very high that the guy who would marry you would have the kind love many ladies pray for. His love would be put to the test and when he weathers the storm to be with you, you know you've got the real deal. A lot of marriages crash today because the love professed by either party wasn't tested by adversity. A lot marry out of convenience or other wrong reasons and they crumble at the slightest form of adversity. You know your love is solid when you still love whom you love when they become not so "lovable" especially by societal standards. ‎

    As for your mum, all she's doing is out of love and concern. She probably doesn't realise she's hurting you. Some parents aren't too good at expressing their emotions the appropriate way, especially when they are upset, so don't hold her actions or words against her. It's always awkward when a younger sibling marries before the older, especially sisters. My darling, you have to keep your chin up and play the role of big sis during the upcoming wedding of your sister. It may sting like h*ll but you'll feel a lot better when it's all over. You can do this, if you lacked the capacity to handle this, God wouldn't have put you through it. You are a lot stronger than you realise.Remember, God always rewards any labour of love.‎ Hang in there, my love. One day, you'll look back at all this and laugh and crack jokes about it.
    #e-bearhugs.‎
     ‎

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    1. Ronalda, Don't I just love you?? You actually touched me; you brought tears to my eyes. God bless you

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    2. All these people shouting husband ND single mother should go and get busy jare instead of looking for man..carry zeal and energy go. Find.money abeg...learn from Geneviève Nnaji mehn

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    3. Hw did she bring tears to ur eyes u ass licker? U actually read paragraph by paragraph this long ass boring thing just to advice one poster
      Tufia gi, ibukwa ezigbo onye igbo?

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    4. Chizoba Tnx for dis. Too freaking boring n keeps repeating same thing in diff format. Not hating buh Ronalda gv it a rest biko. U can lik to drag matter pass d owner. Ogini?

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    5. Chizoba Pls goan throw dat ur fake LV bag away biko. Dis is a disgrace hw can u carry dat fake shit n be posing or abusing any1? Wiv ur pangolo plastic earring n chain. Hope u dint join to abuse mama Nnuku ere? Cos u sef kukuma need bag! Tufia!!

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  61. STORY 1: PRAY TO GOD
    STORY 2: KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING.YOU HAVE TO BE SPIRITUALLY ALERT
    STORY: BUHARI IS THE CHOICED CANDIDATE OF YOUR BOSS.....SO YOU NEED TO PLAY BY THE RULE

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  62. And now am pissed!!! Am feeling pissed because am a baby mama too. BV M-amie, you said, why have a baby for a guy you can't marry? And dat she belongs as a 2nd wife or wife of a divourcee''.
    So let's say you find out you are pregnant for someone who you later find out you are not compatible with. Who will rather NOT go see your parents regarding the pregnancy, but will gladly want you to live in his house, cook for him with your money, and still sleep with you! What should she do? Force him or back out??? Didn't you hear he beat her???
    Well, am a single mother and i did all that foolishness of cajoling a man to be with me because I got preggy , still he left me when I was 5 months pregnant! did I die? No!! My son will be 2 soon and I am the happiest woman on earth. Yes, men flock around me asking for marriage that it even seems the baby mama ish is even attracting them like ants to sugar.
    So don't even tell me it is because she got pregnant out of wedlock. People even appreciate that you were brave enough to not consider abortion. Do you know the determination it takes to stay pregnant and give birth and work hard everyday for your child? Many girls would have taken the easy way out and abort.
    So, it is not the pregnancy out of wedlock thing, it is YOU!! You need to find happiness on your own!!! Poster,you need to exude confidence, walk with your shoulders held up high and look at your problems square in the eyes. Believe me, you don't need a man to be happy. If you are happy and confident with who you are(baby mama), you will attract the right man.

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  63. #2: Honey, did you just write "but he is the one I'm going to live with IF we get married"? Or was that a typographical error? I had to go back to top and start reading all over again because that line made me believe I omitted some facts while reading your writeup. Alas! I didn't. Sweetie, I'm sorry but why and how exactly ‎is marrying this dude an option? Are you a masochist? OMG!!! Why should the words "marry" and "him" without the words "not" "never" "positively never" be in the same sentence? 

    Honey, in most cases, once a relationship moves into the 4th year without a cogent reason for this delay, it's a sign that you're with the wrong person. I know some relationships last longer and they still end up marrying but it's rare and in most cases, the marriage isn't fun anymore because all the excitement is gone and over-familiarity kicks in. The men feel obliged to marry the ladies who stood by them, so they marry out of pity while they keep a mistress who still excites them. 

    The minute you start funding a relationship with a man, it hardly ends well. Even when under financial stress, a real man would rather ask  friends or family for cash than his girl. Worst case scenario, he might not be able to provide some necessities for his lady for a while but he would rather go without than ask her for cash, even if she volunteers to loan him the money.

    Love tends to compromise commonsense but there's hope for you yet because you were smart enough to question your relationship. Some women keep quiet and plunge into a slavish marriage and start regretting almost immediately. Honey, if all you've written is true, then this guy is bad news. I don't care if you've spent 10M on him and his family, that debt shouldn't be paid off by marriage. Please claim your money through another means or consider it seeds you've sown into his life as well as his family. If the loan you gave him wasn't documented, it will be a herculean task to get your money back. How can it be difficult to ask for money from a boyfriend you helped financially when he was down? Shouldn't he spoil you rotten the minute he hits it big? You shouldn't need to ask before he carries out his duties. I wouldn't be surprised he is spending cash on some chics out there.‎

    Darling, don't be fooled by the "cupboard love" of his family, not like that should matter anyway, you provide their needs so why wouldn't they be nice to you and do everything to keep you around? If they care for you so much, why can't they call their brother/son to order? If you make the mistake of marrying this guy, you'll realise that indeed, a mirror has two faces.

    You've shown him you can't do without him because you swallowed and are still swallowing all the crap he dishes out to you. He's taking your love for granted. Please get out of that hell hole and create allowance for a man who knows your worth and is deserving of your love.
    God speed, honey. 
    #e-bearhugs. ‎

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  64. @poster 3 get a lawyer, your salary has to be paid in full

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  65. Poster 1.people make mistakes and you should'nt be castigated because of a silly mistake you made @ a young age of adolescence.dnt dwell too much on the situation of things right now ,but know that things will surely be fine.Poster 2.A man is supposed to provide for a woman and not the other way round.gbam.Poster 3.God will surely fight your battle for you.dnt worry.

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  66. Poster 1
    The right guy will accept you and your child. My cousin was in the same situation, and met an amazing, handsome young man. She was 26 and he was 27. She had a 5 year old kid then. Not only did he accept her and the kid, but he adopted her and gave her his name! They took the deadbeat biological dad to court, and won full custody rights. She is now a teenager and thats who she knows as dad!

    Poster 2
    Sorry but this your bf is an opportunist. He has basically treated you as you allowed him to, like dirt. How can you spend 8 years taking care of a man and his family, and you arent married to him! Imagine if you had taken that money instead and invested it, bought land, or started your own business! This has nothing to do with mature love and if you were my sister, I would tell you that this relationship is bound to have issues even if you do get married. Uf you marry, you will be the one to sponsor it, you will be the one to handle the home etc. If your man has no shame and pride in turning you into a bank atm, then thats very sad. All I see if you coming out of this at the tail end with absolutely NOTHING to show for it.
    See you saying you cant ask him for money when in need. Why wont you be in need? When instead of creating a safety emergency nest for yourself, you are throwing it to the next bird's nest who is flying away to who knows where.

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    Poster 2, ALL your money is gone and He will not marry you!!! Dont say no one told you so, when you send your next sorry narrative.

    Poster 3
    God bless you for doing the right thing. We all told you then to start looking for another job, so the fact that you waited this long, isnt great. I hope someone hiring on here will see your post, and offer you a post. Please go to the parents of the child now and tell them EVERYTHING you know. Why would you still be trying to protect this man/school after this?

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    1. Poster 2's bf even keeps malice with her over money issue. That BOY won't marry you. Period!

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  67. #3: sweetheart, standing for the truth is often unpopular but it's the right thing to do. I really commend your bravery. You knew blowing the whistle might cause you your job yet you did it anyway, I'm super proud of you though I don't know you personally. One thing is certain, the world will be a better place with more of your kind in it.

    I know you are angry and confused right now, maybe a little part of you wonders if it was worth the trouble. All these are normal reactions, considering what you've been through. Of course, it's easier for us to dish out words of encouragement moreso when most of our jobs are secure but honey, what you did was and is worth losing your job over and guess what? God is going to elevate you to a position where this same sick man will come crawling to ask for your forgiveness. You know that awesome trademark of God working in mysterious ways? He allows trouble befall your enemies and puts the solution to their problems in your hands. God surely has a robust sense of humour.

    Be comforted by the knowledge that some people are so passionate about a course that they don't mind dying for it. In your case, you're actually going to live and reap the reward of your sacrifice. This act you've done will favour your generation and you'll be amazed at how many doors will burst open for you. The principle of causality I mention ofter, doesn't apply to only evil deeds, it works both ways.‎ You will be celebrated sooner than you expect.
    #e-bearhugs my darling. ‎

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  68. poster 2 the funny thing is we ladies know the right from wrong but yet ask people for option and at the end of the day u still go ahead to do what your emotion is telling you and not your head..
    you know your problem..it been 8yrs,,were would i start from,what will people say..all my friends are married,can i ever love someone else like i love him...forget about all that..when u marry him and the suffering start people will still talk..there i every possibility that you will leave him and meet someone that you will court for 6month and be married..i have a friend that dropped his bfrined of 5yrs,she did not even tell anybody about her decision,so that you wont convince her to stay...less than 2month of leaving the guy she met someone else and she's about to marry..stop looking for excuse why you should stay in that relationship.there is a proverb that says 'tyelll a man you can carry a load and he will go ahead to even put cloth on ur head to carry it..my sister did the same thing for her husb..helping him pay bills..and up till now after 13yrs of marriage she is still carrying the burden...pls dont make that mistake of been the husb he wont change even if he have the money,,he will say my wife will do it..anyway use your head and not the love you talking about cos u are only loving urself...someone that i using your money for other babes..chaiiii

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  69. poster 3,pls note that you have done the right thing but don't worry the good lord will reward you and show forth for you. don't be discourage,God is not a debtor unto any man,,am sure you will be back here soon to testify about your new job with a better pay ijn. you have sown a good seed that will germinate..it might even be a seed for your children..God will favour you ijn

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  70. Stella, I don't see why you were shouting OMG o...

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  71. Poster 3: get a lawyer and ensure that you get all your entitlements. Talk to the parents as well. One of them may be able to help u get sth.

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  72. Don't know why people take Mamie serious.....bipolar thingzs....
    Poster 1: God does not consult your past to bless you...keep your head up and keep busy, your man will come....our society just judge single mothers without any basis...majority of wayward runs girls never get pregnant cos they know about abortion n things....don't let people define you, your future or how God will bless you..he can give you a man never married before as husband, believe it cos it has happened and can happen for you....
    Poster 2: hahaha did you say love? If u knew the meaning of the word love you will realise that your fiancée does not love you...take that to the bank...if he can behave like that after donkey years in a relationship trust me he is just using you..foot the wedding my royal arse...I have 2 personal friends who footed the bills for their wedding, u don't wanna hear their story now...then we were not married so it was like we were jealous for pointing that out...nothing wrong in supporting a man but when he does not even show appreciation and expect u to do all the work then you know he is self centered and irresponsibile.....sweetheart run like there's something chasing you...
    Poster 3: if you can get legal services pro bono pls sue him...that will shake him up and also let people know what is going on...alot might be going on that have robbed some of his pupils of their youth and scarred them for life..we allow people get away with so much in naija and leave all the work for God to do..you did the right thing but don't let him slide off easily since u have already paid a price...God will protect you and give u another job soon...
    Madam anonymous....run away from that boyfriend ASAP...he hasn't married you and already bullying and abusing you..what will he do when he marries u and feels he owns you? All u mentioned are classic signs of abuse....

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  74. Sm pple yeye ooo hw wud u even dare cme here nd cmplain about such a guy when d handwriting is clearly written on the wall.

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  75. Why r u guys complaining about Ronalda's posts? It's written for the poster to read, learn and be encouraged. If its too long for you, skip it.

    But Ronalda sha, you too dey
    over-analyse everything. Both d one wey poster write and the one wey e no write.
    Love you still Ronalda.
    #ebear hugs!
    lol

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