Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

I hope you have learnt a thing or two since the narratives birthed?...I have and i encourage you to share your stories to help others......share with us.

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

TIES THAT BIND LOVE ALL THE WAY TO CANADA.

Stella dear, I am confused and getting depressed. I'll like to get advice from you and my fellow bv's. I am 23 years old, I have been in this relationship with a delta guy for 3 years now. we met when I was quite young. I have been faithful to him, yes, he isn't my husband yet but we are so good together I have no cause to misbehave. The problem is he wants to travel to Canada for masters, we really love each other and letting go is hard for us, especially me. Since he graduated there have been no forthcoming jobs, hence the masters abroad as he has someone willing to sponsor him. Please any advice on how to work it out? I don't mind waiting 2years for him,I am not so old yet and also want to face my job search (I am done with school and NYSC) and masters here in Nigeria, building my life too. But I don't know what to do, I have considered us doing an intro or something to bind us before he leaves but I don't want to feel like am clinging too tight on him. I introduced him to this blog Stella 

(miss Mae gate please stay away lol). 

I'll like to show him the answers on this post so we can make our decisions. Please bv's don't cuss me out. You know that feeling when you meet a guy and you seem so perfect even after years? We love each other deeply, It's just money and no source of income that stopped us from getting married. I don't know why love gets so complicated.  

Ps: he is about 4years older than me. Thanks Mrs Korks.

Whether you do introduction to bind yourselves together or you use rope,what will be will be....I would advise you not to do any introduction,please let him go without ties,if he comes back without a wife/babymama then pop champagne.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WHEN GBEGE COMES CALLING.....

Good day, Nwunye Korkus, sending This narrative on behalf of a friend that confided in me....

She got married last year and has a 2month old baby.. Her husband travelled and she bought a new sim card and decided to inform her husband using the line...she called and the husband asked who she was, she mentioned her name and the husband immediately thought it was one of his concubines and started asking if she's still available for him and that he would still love to be servicing her vjayjay, she now asked if he hasn't gotten married all these while and his reply was that he impregnated a useless girl and his family members are forcing her on him

Fast forward to last night, she sent an Sms to him with her regular line saying she loves him though he was in the house, he didn't reply she now asked him why he didnt reply, he said it was because they are both in the same house, She now went to the kitchen to send an sms with the new line, immediately, the husband replied. 

This morning, he told her he was travelling and immediately he got outside, he called the other line telling her that he was coming to spend the weekend with her, she asked of his wife, he said he has told the ugly idiot that he is travelling to see his people. He can't even recognize his wifes voice!!!

She has removed the sim from the phone and is clueless about where her husband is.

Sorry for the structure and lenght of the story...not good at story telling. Please what advise would you give my friend??? I really don't know what to tell her.

Your friend isnt telling you the truth,she bought that sim card to test something and i bet you that she changed her voice so that hubby wouldnt recognise her voice.

Now that she has unearthed a can of worms,i hope she will handle it well.

Its even possible that he knows its her sef cos if she didnt say a name then where does he know that he is going to?

Tell your friend i said she should stop playing with fire.

If it is you,please stop right now and confront your hubby in a subtle way

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NARRATIVE NUMBER THREE

....WHEN MAMA IS A DRAMA QUEEN

Good day Stella,

   My heart is really troubled and it's about my mother. I know most people especially in Nigeria refuse to discuss issues about their mother but I just have 

to say it. My mother is a drama queen, there's nothing we do that satisfies her. I can't even give people things cos if she finds out am in trouble, she'll go on and on about how I neglect her, the most painful part is that I can't discuss personal things with her because any day I offend her, she'll use it to insult me. How can a mother use her daughter's ex to insult her. Stella I am tired, even my sister has stopped telling her anything. The day you offend her, she will use everything you told her to abuse you. There are many things that she does Stella that I can't go into right now. It hurts me that I can't tell my mother things for the fear that she'll use it against me. Any time we have issues she starts singing funny songs

(yoruba people will understand what I mean). Stella I am tired,I am just praying to God to give me a good man to marry so I can leave this house. Some times I just wonder if am the only one on earth going through the same thing.

Your mum sounds like she is emotionally sick....when last did you show her love or tell her you love her?Love is the only weapon to disarm parents who go to war with their kids.Please ignore her drama.When you become a mother,you will understand.