In a post dedicated to women pursuing their dreams, Comedian Bovi has said marriage shouldn't be at the expense of one's dream as an individual, he suggests to press delete if it kills ones dream as an individual.
If you marry someone who kills your dream,you should delete the Marriage?
Marriage itself is a dream killer and it takes a lot of strength to tow the dream path...
I am happy Bovi isnt a dream killer.....Lucky wife he's got!
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DeleteWell said...
ReplyDeleteI have always loved this nigga...
One of the best comedian in Africa...
Bovi,your mama born you well...
Nice 1 Bonvi
ReplyDeleteThe whole idea is to marry a man who shares your vision, who will help you build and focus on achieving your dream.
ReplyDeleteWhat the woman should invest in, is choosing a dream that can balance her life.
Life is not all about money.
Life is about family, then money then success.
But the most important is family.
A woman who misses this, is gonna have herself to blame when she views and evaluate her life in the long run
Thank you. Sensible comment
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DeleteI need to send you a dozen roses for this comment.
DeleteBovi not every dream comes true! What if she leaves her beautiful home to follow her "dreams" and ends up losing it all! What then? But I don't support domestic violence of any sort oo, just saying!!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm.....
ReplyDeleteI go with him
ReplyDelete#GODWIN
Oh am officially so in love with Bovi....
ReplyDeleteGbamest @his comment!!
All ye desperados if Una like make Una nor hear....i must marry by fire by force women
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You really must be one frustrated human being in the real world. So much bitterness and vile from one person. Na wa.
Delete@cheerup AKA anty gwes Aborkorku oshi
DeleteOya go and die for man na....idiot!!
U think say men send you?? Oloriburuku jati jati
Back to sender @okija wife. Every single insult and cuss is landing back on your head right now.
DeleteTrue talk..Stella I don't believe marriage is a dream killer..thats what we have come to believe ..which is not true..we shouldforget we have been taught as women..a true man will never kill his woman's dreams..
ReplyDeleteSome women kill this dream naturally..because to them they say 'I am married,i have kids what else should I do??.. When I hear that..I get angry tho
You've said it all. And by the way marriage is God's command and blessings always come with obedience. If you choose within God's will, your dream will even succeed more than you imagined. What you believe is what you get and you get what you believe. If you believe that marriage kills dreams then that's exactly what's gonna happen to you.
Deletehmmmm........ what do I know about marriage?? I'll just sit and read comments. pop corn plssssssss
ReplyDeleteA lot of Naija women would rather stay in an unfulfilled marriage than pursue their dreams....that's the mentality we have but thn.......Stella u must enjoy me
ReplyDeleteEvil mentality my dear.....very evil....
DeleteI support this, marriage is supposed to enhance ones dreams because it means you have a partner that will cheer you on at all times and be a shoulder to lean on, as no man is an island. If you aint getting that from your better half then step rather than lose yourself.
ReplyDeleteI believe everyone whether man, woman, child, animal should follow his/her/it dreams.
ReplyDeleteBut on a more serious note, its ones ability to manage family, marriage and career abi na dream that truly makes one a success. This especially when one has had to sacrifice one or two things and still achieve that same success people who left their marriages brag about.
Women abeg draw inspiration from real successful women like the late Prof. Dora Akunyili, Indra Nooyi (CEO Pepsi cola) or even our own Stella Kork.
I am not married but I know that every marriage has got its own challenges. Therefore, I do not agree completely with his assertion.
Good words from a wise man
ReplyDeleteI agree
ReplyDeleteSharply, no time
ReplyDeleteIf you love me you won't kill my dream!! Shikena
ReplyDeleteHnmmm
ReplyDeleteBovi keep quiet. too much money is worrying you. You and others talk too much.
ReplyDeleteAllow people to do what they like in thier marraiges, your advice is not needed.
Sofre Sofre dey vex
DeleteHe didn't say anything wrong.
Oh ye anty Madame Mrs miss I must die with man by force......
DeleteNnor ooooo
Lmao waiting for stories
ReplyDeleteTrue talk Bovi
ReplyDeleteHow I love this guy
My fav comedian
Press Delete Button
ReplyDeleteEasier said that done !
True bro,I agree
ReplyDeleteWomen must do d ultimate sacrifice!
ReplyDeleteAll d marriage advice in this world is directed at women!
Men dey enjoy o!
Just lay back n rule
Hahahahahaaaa
Anya agbara is watching u all.
Women must do d ultimate sacrifice!
ReplyDeleteAll d marriage advice in this world is directed at women!
Men dey enjoy o!
Just lay back n rule
Hahahahahaaaa
Anya agbara is watching u all.
Women must do d ultimate sacrifice!
ReplyDeleteAll d marriage advice in this world is directed at women!
Men dey enjoy o!
Just lay back n rule
Hahahahahaaaa
Anya agbara is watching u all.
I love you Bovi...God bless you
ReplyDeleteOk we have HEAD
ReplyDeleteLol @ the picture he used!
ReplyDeletePlease BVs is it normal for your husband at any slightest provocation to tell you that you will leave his house. My husband dragged me out of his house the other time and just yesterday because another trivial issue told me I will leave his house. do your husbands say that to you?
ReplyDeleteIs he still wearing baby diaper?
DeleteIs he still being spoon feed?
Your Horseband is just plain stupid and childish.
Get busy ma,maybe he sees dat u can't make it without him, that's y he is always spewing trash.
Ur horseband is a boy for always doing such
DeleteOlolololo ooooooo....otuocha!!!!
DeleteGather money and leave woman!!!!
Always have a strong mind!!!
Mine says that to me o nd if I tell a friend Incase he really drives me out, he would get angry nd say I carry family matter go outside .. Person don suffer
DeleteMine doesn't. Take heart dear
DeleteMy dear please get a job if you don't already have one, or business anything to generate your own income. He is behaving like that because he thinks you can't do without him. It's a control mechanism for me with insecurities.
DeleteNo be Una no fit to without man??
DeleteKeep suffering and smiling na...
Tufiakwa for useless marriages!
Serious?. I hope you are working oooo.
DeleteThat guy is childish abeg
I don't have children yet after 6 years. maybe that's y I'm so insecure. I've left my life to fate and God. whatever comes my way, if God allows it . Let it be.
DeleteHis got a temper obviously and am positive his not the quiet type. You too wetin you dey do to provoke the statement. Both of you need to sit n discuss like adults. Some advice on this blog though. Must every marriage end in divorce. Common sense should be able to lead you right.
DeletePlease get yourself a job and generate income for yourself if you don't have one.. I bet you he will think twice when you have your income.
DeleteIf you do, please horseband brain need reseting.
Leave "his" house?
DeleteI thought both of you came together as one?
My dear... if you don't have a job..get one,even teaching job...anything! Get busy..save well...
It is well with you.
Spot on!
ReplyDeleteLol, that picture cracked me up. . .
ReplyDeleteI agree with him 100%
ReplyDeleteInspired Messi proved Guardiola was right, says Pique
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Yu suck ur mama breast wella nobi lie...
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Annonymous 12:16
ReplyDeleteThat is an abuse "dragged you out of the house"
So wrong why on earth will he threating you with such.....
Somebody that probably want to come in, is fanning him outside to this act.
Am not married but even I know dat normal men dn't threaten to or send their wives out of their homes. One day,he'll drag u outside nd even beat u up if u refuse help. Pls seek advise frm those who hv experience in sure matters.
ReplyDeleteAgreed 150percent. Dts d gospel truth.
ReplyDeleteMy own problem is dat I'm becoming addicted to porn and masturbation because my husband is married to his work. I av complained to him times without number but he doesn't care, there is dis guy I'm getting close to and i think i like him. Well let's see how it goes, the most painful part is dat my marriage is just 7 months old.
ReplyDeleteChineke!!!!!! Just seven months? Were there any signs of his current behavior before you got married? I can't judge u my dear, but please remember you are about to enter a never return zone.
DeleteDONT DO IT.
DeletePersevere
He wasn't like this oo.. in fact i don't feel any love for him again, i treat him exactly the way he treats me. I knw cheating is wrong but every woman deserves to be loved and shown attention. So i pray God 4gives me for dis affair,i never thought i will find myself in this mess. @ anon 14:40.
DeleteChai! Report him to his parents and is something he is hiding from you?
DeleteAct fast before you commit something oooo
Aww nice one bovi,as for me no one can kill my dreams, I'd rather remain single...very soon Stella will start posting interviews about me too,just very soon hehe
ReplyDeleteIt is quite surprising that these days anybody can give advice on social media and many we take it as the gospel truth. Marriage does not kill dream, that is why you go into it with someone you share the same dream and both of you have agreed to support each other. Marriage is a big project that both partners have roles to play in that both a re willing to make sacrifices and changes to make it work. It is not just a project but a vocation and the continuity and fulfillment of life as man and woman but if you are not ready to play the role of either husband and wife as is expected then marriage is not for you. But the key still is what you and your partner agree to. I believe a man should aspire to dream but you cannot eat your cake and have it or allow your dream hurt your role as a wife and a mother. Choose which is more important to you and be ready to pay the price. There is always a price for whatever decision we make. This is not only for women, even men must make the same choice. The problem is that we want a stella career while the home suffer and we are not ready to pay the price.
ReplyDeleteAnon 12:16. if your husband threaten you again, threaten him too. why must he say you must leave the house.
ReplyDeletedo you work or you depend totally on him. Dont allow him to abuse you emotionally because that is what he is using against you. stand up to him.
If its also a woman that doesn't want u to attain a certain peak in life ,delete her too!
ReplyDelete@bloglord what you said is irrelevant to what Bovi said oh. I agree with what you said but not in relation to this. some peeps get to marriage and see fire when there were no signs before the marriage. delete................
ReplyDeleteanon 12.16: its not normal oh. your husband clearly does not respect you as a partner. looks like he thinks he did you a favour by marrying you. you need to tell him at a time when you guys are at peace that,"you do not appreciate that sort of language. he needs to find another way to express his disdain order than threatening to kick you out".
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