''Is it Okay to take money from your spouse' wallet without asking them first?''
Is there a thin line between taking and stealing?
Why do some spouse's accuse their partner of stealing their money when all they did is just to take?
I take money from DH's wallet without asking but later on i just add ''Hey honey i took some money from your wallet'' and its fine.If i forget and he asks me ''honey i am missing some money ''I just reply ''na me take am'' and its fine.
Is it different with you?Do you need permission to touch your spouse's wallet?
How do/did they react when they find/found out that you took without asking?
Caution - Different strokes for different folks.
dont read here that some people say they take their spouse's money without asking and you go and do same knowing it wont work for you.
BE WARNED!
Nawa was this question not on Thelma's blog some days ago?
ReplyDeleteI gueSs it depends on d r/ship..am not married yet but if na me, i go take .....if u vex, i take pass....if u no like am, tie am for waist sleep.....infact i go even still chook hand.......whr u want make i from take b4?.......beause i knw say shame no go let u talk am outsyd.......lol....i'll take in such a way u'll encourage me to take more......afterall, abu'm ori aku.
DeleteI gueSs it depends on d r/ship..am not married yet but if na me, i go take .....if u vex, i take pass....if u no like am, tie am for waist sleep.....infact i go even still chook hand.......whr u want make i from take b4?.......beause i knw say shame no go let u talk am outsyd.......lol....i'll take in such a way u'll encourage me to take more......afterall, abu'm ori aku.
DeleteThe person who wrote that meme up there must be an illiterate.
DeleteWhy the apostrophe in beer?
I had to read several times before it made any kind of sense.
Allready? #faints
We need to be careful with what we read on social media so it does not affect our vocabulary.
Now i feel like slapping that Teddy ...
Y not ask before taking, what if he steps out 2 do smfin important with d money and end up getting embarrassed cos u took it without letting him know? Am not married but have had a similar experience while I was accusing d person I handed money over to, told him he stole a 10k from d bundle I gave him, it almost lead to us going to Sabo police station, d young man broke down in tears, chai I look d whole thing finish just walked away in Anger feeling cheated, 4 days later I was gisting with d guy that gave me d money, b4 I got to d part of d incident, he went oh I forgot to tell u, I will balance u #10k I took out 5k each from d bundles 2 get something on my way here that day. WHAT!!!! I felt STUPID. I narrated what transpired bw me and d boy, he felt sorry, nxt day I went back to d shop just after d traffic light coming from 3rd mainland bridge, he sells seats office tables and all. I just went down on my knees on sighting him, he was SO MAD at me, he won't hear my plea, in fact I didn't blv it was same boy, he said if I don't leave d shop he will b d 1 to call police. I refused I needed him to forgive me for accusing him wrongly, it was a long teary battle, d same boy (his oga that vowed he doesn't steal) was d same that asked him to forgive, cos there are not many of my type in Lagos, that I cld have kept quiet and not come back to apologise wen I found it I was at fault, well he reluctantly accepted, I felt SOOO good within, tried to compensate him, 4where he refused.... my point is, ASK cos u don't know if he counted it for smfin. He may leave with dat assumption and go get embarrassed outside.
DeleteAnd so?
DeleteIf you don't mind the same thing done to you, then that's fine. I think telling him/her first before removing money from his wallet is the right thing to do, what if he/she has plans for it? What if the removal without telling leaves him/her stranded? If you know he will be fine with it anyway, why not tell him/her before removing it. Being "one" doesn't mean the spouses aren't allowed a personal space or respect. It might not be considered as stealing but it might be inconveniencing for the other party and may eventually lead to an avoidable conflict. Do I guess my point is, for the sake of peace and respect for each other, let him/her know before such act.
DeleteI didn't even notice the apostrophe aka hc.... if you know your grammar, you will be oblivious to such errors....
DeleteAnyway, different strokes for different folks....It shouldn't be a problem between spouses, after all what's yours is mine....just do not fail to let him know you took it afterwards. However, you should know your spouse before doing this....some men will never condone it...To each, his own.
I'm sure we've discussed this here before. Anyway, for me and mine it's never been an issue. I don't even tell him, cos when he notices he's missing some money he knows it's me. Never been an issue.
DeleteTwo of them are one. So wives can take without asking. but if husband take without asking the wife, na there wahala go shele.
ReplyDeletei take money from my husband. if he take my own na fight
Lol. You no well o.
DeleteSee selflessness *pun intended
Loveme, you are so right. Infact, if he takes, he has to return it but if I take, as long as I have told you, it's ok...
Deleteif your partner is stingy then you can take without permission...but if not then ask permission
ReplyDeleteWhy would you date or marry a stingy person?
DeleteDon't you love your life?
But I'm in love with a stingy man... Even my mama don warn me!!!! We are getting married soon. He has never given me a call unit that even the pin is not complete.... Chineke gini Kam mere onwem
DeleteAnon 18:26,
DeleteGo ahead and marry him...
Don't forget to send Stella your plea to help when the time comes...
Oshisco...
Team single, when I'm married I will know how to answer the question better. Over to the married women in the house
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
If you don't take from his wallet then which wallet are u supposed to take from? The last time I checked we were one.
ReplyDeleteI wonder.
DeleteMy own wallet no be oneness o...lmao
Deletethis is going to be very interesting
ReplyDeleteAre husband and wife not suppose to be one again?...I take my husband's money from the drawer and he dosent ask...
ReplyDeleteEvery man should be keeping some money at home before leaving the house no matter how small it is...
I see men that count their money all the time as stingy....
I take DH 's money from his pocket or wallet when I want to if he asks I will admit it and he doesn't have any problem with that..
DeleteBUT I don't keep my money where anybody will see it not to talk of taking it.. am an Igbo girl I like my money too much..
You are right Linda,my dh keeps money somewhere all the time.
DeleteYou aren't so right Linda..
DeleteThis is no big deal except for some stingy husband or in a family where any of them is selfish of self centeted..
Husband's please learn to keep some money at home for your family no matter how little..
Money at home incase of emergency is very crucial.
DeleteHmmmm!!thats a tough one cos am not married yet buh i know my sister takes from the hubbys trouser pocket without telling him..my sister will have to wait till when he in the shower before taking.and she will never tell him cos hubby never asks..so folks in my own opinion,sister is taking from hubbys excesses n its FINE..
ReplyDeleteHahahaha ur sister and I are twins... once hubby is in d bathroom d next thing I do is go 2 his trouser or wallet and take money lol
DeleteLmao@ BE WARNED!
ReplyDeleteTaking and telling later or telling before taking depends on the way both couple relate. Na both of them get the money na. I think this topic has been discussed here before. Make I read comments abeg.
ReplyDeleteThank u. Same thing I said, we've discussed this before
DeleteIt's always courteous to tell before touching, but if your spouse is not close by when you need it, you ensure to tell him/her immediately u see him/her.. it's for courtesy sake. nobody dey follow you drag am.
ReplyDeleteIt's not bad tho but courtesy demand, it isn't ur own wallet so u ask first, my opinion tho
ReplyDeleteIt's mine too...cos i wont hide mine from him.....
DeleteMe I just take o. And when I remember to tell, I remember. Else...sorry. Then again, DH and I don't take money that seriously.
ReplyDeleteYes and no
ReplyDeleteI really don't see anything wrong in that, but it depends on the guy cos, some men really don't like it, i can spend my man's money without he's consent then i will report myself later and he's cool with it, it's only stingy men that picks offence.
ReplyDelete*his consent
Deletelol
DeleteTaking stealing tapping all na steal as long as u no ask before taking. I would rather ask than take cos some men matter abt money no be here. In d end, it all depends d kinda spouse involved.
ReplyDeleteMy DH doesn't mind,but out of respect for him and our marriage,i tell him.
ReplyDeleteTo me I see nothing wrong!!!
well as for me i feel its only proper to ask before taking.i dont think i can do it but then its not a big deal.
ReplyDeleteStella that ur caution is Epic, got me laughing!
ReplyDeleteTo the subject matter! You should know your spouse well enough to know how to relate with them when it comes to money matters! For me I ask pls can I have this etc and if he his not there and I need it like immediately, I'll just take it and tell him afterwards that I took so so and so!
The bottom line is KNOW UR SPOUSE
I take money from my husband's pocket all the time especially if it's for the upkeep of the house. Sometimes I remember to tell him,other times,I don't. Funny thing is,he never takes money from my purse.
ReplyDeleteLol...the man is wise...he knows he can't forget if he takes from your pocket.
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Marriage and there wahala...... God help me make a better choice....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Its OK . as long as u let him know.
ReplyDeleteKikikiki. That's when there's plenty money in the wallet, you can help him reduce it
ReplyDeleteMe and my hubby can take each other's money without permission,we re in love and understand each other,also baby food can finish unexpectedly and I may need to buy it etc
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ReplyDeleteHahaha. Reading through this page, I heard my DH's voice in my inner ear "oo chim o, nwanyia ga agbakwa num ayaghana n'uno a". Meaning, Oh my God, this woman will not upturn my life in this house.
ReplyDeleteMost times I don't remember, but he has a funny way of accepting my faults. Anything more than a N1,000 note I won't touch it. Could lead to trust issues if not duly explained. There's a place for miscellaneous money in the house though.
Hahahahaha @ his exclamation
DeleteLol....
DeleteI take o but I always say I took But I agree with you, I always talk to avoid trust issues.
There is nothing wrong with taking money from your hubby's wallet.
ReplyDeleteNothing. ......
Depends in the amount and not mentioning it.
Well wen le boo comes visiting
ReplyDeleteI take money from his wallet
while he is asleep
And when he wakes up
am always like Cuddles I took so n so amount from your wallet
and he will jokingly be like
so I came to visit u n I have to feed myself
And I am always like c'mmon ur money is my money na..then we just laugh about it..we cool like that
Co Co Cuddles! Really?
DeleteSweet lol
No be small Cuddles.
DeleteStop cuddling.
DeleteLol... Your man's response to your taking his money cracked me up big time!!
DeleteIt's better she ask first before taking any money from my wallet
ReplyDeleteStingico
DeleteProper urhobo man, chai!
DeleteI dey take him dey take mine too.
ReplyDeleteMostly I do ask him to give me when I don't want to pieces/break/change the Mai-Borno/Isong I have.
Little children on this blog take note.....the topic is for married people not boyfriend and girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteBefore some oversabi pikin bgin give advice to married people.
Cuss me well well....
I take money all the time but I always tell DH before or after and he doesn't mind sometimes gets irritated when I ask before taking... It's not stealing depending on how one approaches it
ReplyDeleteif u take ones stuff without their permission is called stealing, and I personally hate thieves, I hate it when people touch my stuffs without me knowing! For me it's gross so DH or not is Nono bcos Na from clap dance dey start. My thought though
ReplyDeleteYou are weird.
DeleteUnhook your tight bra.
Life is not that serious.
Lol,Olivia.....chy, you took it too seriously...
DeleteHahahahahhaaaa @"unhook your tight bra"
Delete@oliviasilk there is more in a coconut than there is in your head! My opinion I said.
DeleteNo spouse yet so can't comment, strictly for Spouses, lol!
ReplyDeleteThere is no moral justification for stealing just because he's ur hubby doesn't give u d right to take his money. If u want u ask if u take without his permission it's stealing.
ReplyDeleteI think its always better to tell before or after taking it so dh doesn't start looking for money that isn't missing.
ReplyDeleteYes it actually depends on what works for you.I have friends that can freely take money from their man's wallet and I have a friend that always complain of how stingy the hubby is,if one kobo is missing na war. As for me, I only take when he says : Baby take money from my wallet and buy what u said u needed. I will give account at night tho.
ReplyDeleteOremi!
DeleteHmmmm am nt yet married n d few BF I v had knw whr them dey keep their money n fear of being labelled a thief. Won't let me take d money but I v a female friend that is vry careless n I can take her money n she doesn't know or rather wil never ask,sommetimes I get so scared that she wil knw.but I v seen my uncle's wife take frm my uncle's pocket n asked me to keep quite about it.some tk n het away wit it,some take n its trouble,diFffernt stroke 4 different folks
ReplyDeleteSo you steal your friend's money?
DeleteBut you know you're stealing from your friend. Exploiting her carelessness. I bind and cast people like you from my life.
DeleteUr own no be small stealing o...na Thief Major u be o!
DeleteLMAO
U be thief na
DeleteThere is a difference between taking and stealing.
ReplyDeleteWhen you take, if le boo finds out and ask, yoou own up
When you steal, le boo finds out and ask, u lie that it wasn't u.
I take, I don't steal.
Lol
DeleteLmao.. you so right bloggy.... kikikikikiki
DeleteGbam.... We all take...
DeleteStingy men will say you stole it. Understanding men will ask when they notice they are missing some money... In my opinion.
ReplyDeleteWell let me read comments cos the caption says its for the married. Let me learn.
ReplyDeleteMy girl really don't send me on this. I have shouted, frowned ,complained but she keeps going to my wallet and if u question her on why she took the money without telling me,she would say it is our money. I have resolved not to give myself headache but i always encourage her to be reasonable in her spending which she tries her best to abide. Women loves to spend their men's money..it is their major hobby
ReplyDeleteNot major. Our "only" hobby.
DeleteIf we don't spend it, who will?
DeleteNah Ollie...dis and d "Other One" LMAO
DeleteWhen I take money from his wallet, I always let me know just in case he finds out when he is already at till and can't find his money, this arrangement works for us.
ReplyDeleteAmma just be here to read comments
ReplyDeleteI'm not married
ReplyDeleteBut when I was dating, I remember I use to take my boo's money,cos it was at my disposal.
And of course, each time he asked , I told him I did.
But not everyone would take it lightly, just ve to know ur partner, and what will be acceptable or not acceptable to him.
But Sabo, thought you had a boo currently?
DeleteDr sabosco,I don't understand d 'when I was dating' part o....u'v already broken up with d 'boo' u were talkin about last week?
DeleteAbi?
DeleteWhy will he even ask sef? Me and you dey use bedroom, you come dey ask who take money
Who again won take am?
Thank God my hubby is not so money conscious for him to start keeping tags of every penny he leaves at home
Na one of my ex then get that character, if you take 1000 from his wallet he will notice
One of my brothers is like that too Lol
I even see it as a way of showing love sef, if I don't love you, I wont take your money nao
This hoe be contradicting her self. Today single, tomorrow married! Cheap hoe still having eyes on peperenmpe's boo. Quack doctor!
DeleteAnony....take cold water OK? it will cool u down!
DeleteI feel it's not so nice taking money from your spouse's wallet without permission. This can only be allowed if the spending is urgent and important and you can't reach him/her that moment. But courtesy demands that you inform him/her about it even before he/she notice. Not tampering with your spouse's wallet even when it's kept right before your nose show the level at which you respect him or her. #justmyownthought. Ok bye
ReplyDeleteLADY IGO SAYS:
ReplyDeleteTHE ISSUE HERE IS "TRUST"
When one says "spouse" one is talking about "life partner"; husband or wife. If one has chosen above (all men or) ladies to live with "this fellow' as a life partner in love; then love is all about sharing. When one say "my husband's money" or "my money" is it not an anomaly? when one shares everything intimate (including sex); if they can't have funds together; where is the oneness? Hasn't the aim of marriage been defeated? The issue of oneness is in sharing everything. The excuses many give is "I don't trust her to know how much I earn or am worth". If one is a follower of Christ; who did Jesus give "his wallet"; was it not Judas? How much trust did Jesus have for Judas? These are some of the issues that intending spouses should define in courtship.
On a personal note; my husband and I had a common "account" from the moment I accepted to marry him. He decided to put me in charge of every financial spending. He makes contributions and there is no issues about that. There is no account that we have had since marriage that bears one person's name and the mandate is "either to sign". WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT "HIS WALLET" "MY WALLET" THIS IS THE POINT I UNDERSTAND FROM THIS QUESTION; YES; ANY MONEY THERE IS EQUALLY MINE, I'D TAKE IT AND TELL HIM OR VICE VERSA SO THAT HE WILL NOT GET EMBARRASSED LIKE IF HE ENCOUNTERS SOMETHING TO SPEND ON OUTSIDE. IT IS THE INTENTION OF THE "TAKER" THAT DETERMINES WHAT IT IS?
Finances usually breeds quarrel among couples and the taste of the pudding is in the eating. Married for more than a decade an NEVER ARGUED is our testimony by the grace of God. When there is concealment of finances, the lady makes demands, suspect the husband of keeping a concubine etc. But when the two are open to each other in the way described above; thee will be no room for mutual suspicion!
A couple we know lived financially apart. The man is reasonably well to do but the wife dared not ask or "take his money". He gave her "handout" of money from time to time; monthly allowances etc. All his businesses were solely in his name. He took ill and his doctor gave him a damning health verdict and he had a surgery fixed. He knew that he may not come out of the theater alive. He quickly summoned his wife and took her to all his accounts and made it Joint and she could sign. Made his kids 'next of kin" in all the accounts and re-registered all his businesses with the wife's name inclusive. Even the financial aspect of the surgery and bills, the wife was in charge. He told her, "If I do not come out of the theater alive, sell all the exotic cars and keep just two" etc. IT WAS NO LONGER AN ISSUE OF THE WIFE TAKING "HIS MONEY"; THE WOMAN WAS IN CHARGE. He confessed certain misdeeds to the lady and they prayed together and he got into the theater. AFTER 9 HOURS OF SURGERY, the news came . . . he survived it! It was this singular experience that changed his attitude towards family finances as concerns his wife. She knew about every penny that dropped or left the "family business" as it became.
Then he said to them, "Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions." (Luke twelve vs. fifteen)
LADY IGO WITH REGARDS.
I don't take money from DH's wallet, because he gives me anytime I ask,so no point of going behind him to take/steal. Anytime I see money in pockets of his trousers in the laundry, I feel tempted to take but my conscience tells me to return. So I return
ReplyDeleteReturn fire..I go only tell am say guy I see money for ur pocket and I don pocket am..he go laff say I don pay for my laundry be that o..
DeleteIf he gives you anytime you ask, and see no point in taking or stealing, why are you tempted to take money found in his pocket during laundry? You contradict yourself. In trying to form, you shot yourself on the foot.
DeleteI take my hubby's Money from his wallet most times without his permission, Later I inform him or when he ask I say yes I took for so so reason. it does not work for all thou
ReplyDeleteShinyelu no be coins we dey talk 4 hia
DeleteLolololol @ no be coins. SDK BVs! They can never disappoint.
Deleteshinyelu eh? your accent even entered spelling....choi! what did u get in English language?
DeleteTaking money from your husband's wallet is not a problem if you tell him before or after taking it but it's becomes a problem if you don't tell him at all.If u bahaved as if u did not take money from his wallet,then,u are a thief.
ReplyDeleteMy DH no get wallet...
ReplyDeleteBut him get pocket abi?
Deletedont see anythin wrong in it wen no b say na beta monie de dey wallet on a good day.except d wallet in qstn includes atm. in any case am of d opinion d monie would still b spent for urgent needs thus no issue(s).
ReplyDeleteRazz fool. Can't even type intelligently. Na to use Yaki flip fix lashes. Olosho!
DeleteU come across as dumb. I've never read any reasonable comment from u
DeleteThere is nothing wrong with it atall.i do it all d time,d most important thing is dat when he finds out and ask,d best thing for d person to do is to open up.
ReplyDeleteI ve not tried it and will not. I dont just buy d idea maybe bcos i ve mine to spend. But it's not a bad thing so far u can own up taking it for a wise spending, it's not stealing.
ReplyDeleteWELL FOR ME,I TAKE MONEY FROM WHERE DH ALWAYS KEEPS IT AND HE KNOWS,ITS NOT ALWAYS SERIUS MONEY,MOST TIME IT'S JUST IF I NEED TO DO SOMTHING AND HAVE RUN OUT OR DONT HAVE ENOUGH OR WHEN I'M JUST PLAIN STINGY JARE LOL ! BUT HE NEVER COMES TO ASK ME COS HE KNOWS I AM NOT A THIEF,NOT EVEN SURE HE NOTICES LOL ! BUT MOST TIMES WHEN I REMEMBER I VOLUNTEER THE INFO 'LIKE HEY ,SO I TOOK SOME MONEY FROM SO SO & SO EARLIER, THANK YOU! AND I SMILE ,HE JUST SAYS OH NO BIGGIE ! SHIKENA
ReplyDeleteStop shouting.
DeleteWell.....anything taken without the knowledge of the owner is called stealing.
ReplyDeleteIt's advisable you talk to your spouse before taking money from their pockets.
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Its not stealing dear, even if you ask them at times they will still refer you to where they keep money, so why bother asking
DeleteE no mean anything jare.
it is wrong and that's what they call stealing,he/she is your spouse doesn't mean you won't ask them before taking cash from there wallet
ReplyDelete#GODWIN
I wish u happy married life when that time reach
DeleteI wish u happy married life when that time reach
DeleteShurup
DeleteBroke arse nigga.
DeleteHahahhahahahahaha
DeleteAll Of Una no well esp u Ollie baby
which one is Shurup
Hahahhahahahahahahahaha
Una no go kill me for dis blog.cha-cha.
Shatap! 4 married couple, not for children, go and play with your pstation.
DeleteInitially, i found it strange when he first took some money off my wallet (infact i raked and brought down storms) but subsequently i found myself doing it and it seems ok (somethimes i even forget to tell him i got some money off his wallet. well bottom line is i think its fine provided it doesnt happen to me more often ....
ReplyDeleteFor me it's good to tell ur spouse ddt u took money out of dia wallet. Yes I no dt what belongs to ur spouse belongs to u too, but courtesy demands it. It will even help u guys to no when an intruder steals from u, bc ur spouse should be able to say I no my wife or I no my husband, if she/he takes my money or valuables, she/he will let me no abt it. So for trust, courtesy, respect, security reasons etc, it's good to tell ur spouse whenever u take tins from each oda.
ReplyDeleteMarried ones on this blog this is for you!!!
ReplyDeleteMy DH is always angry when i take money from his wallet but when he takes from mine is alright...i feel is my right since GOD has made us one and its not stealing afterall i inform him once am about to take it or after the deed has been done.lol
ReplyDeleteYou mean OUR Wallet?
ReplyDeleteHahahahahhaha
You mean OUR Wallet??
ReplyDeleteHow does one steal wot belongs to her???
Thre things that give me Massive orgasmic Joy:
28th Of Every Month
His Dark Sexy Wallet
AnD The Other Thing
Bwahahahahahahaha..
DeleteFunny u
Lolololol, werey. What happens on 28th?
DeleteI take money a lot frm hubby's pocket or wallet without telling him, especially when he is sleeping or bathing lol, sometimes he asks and sometimes he doesn't lol..not like he is stingy but I dont always like begging him 4 money tho he always give me once I ask him.. but I really need 2 start working .. I don't like asking 4 money in anyway.
ReplyDeleteI don't just take..I tell him to give me his wallet..he gives me without asking me anything..I take wetin I wan take finish,I give am back..all he says is,are you ok?I go dey form chairlady say yeah I'm ok..
ReplyDeleteLiar! Liar! Pants on fire! Lolololol, are you ok? Dangote don't even try that mistake with his wife.
DeleteThere should be asking/communication b4 deeping hand into ur spouse wallet. Bcos you don’t knw if he/she has plans for it. U on ur way to a friend’s wedding, and u decide to stop by and fill up ur car for the week. after fill up, then u find out ur money is missing, automatically u cnt pay fuel attendant, only for you to call your spouse and he/she says sorry I took it and forgot to tell/ask u.
ReplyDeleteI take DH' s money, I don't steal.
ReplyDeleteAfter all we are one.
Abi oo
DeleteI take money from our walk-in- wardrobe and I don't tell him because most times he doesn't even notice or maybe he does and didn't bother asking I don't know
ReplyDeleteBut there is nothing wrong with it
After all we are one.
Liar liar.@Olori the same person dat said sometimes ago that she richer than dh how come u re stealing his money?
DeleteThat is how they forget their previous lies. Lolololol. Who dash you walk-in-closet, yahoo-yahoo woman? Did the maga eventually fall for your lies?
DeleteMy own didn't take ,he stole thousands of pounds . The pain ull go thru for that money u stole ull wish u weren't born. Thief !!!!! .
ReplyDeleteM not married but... My bf willing gives me his wallet anytime am going food shopping... But one time I spent all in it.... Be he was like babes did u spend all and I was like yea... Lol ... Why he said... Lol
ReplyDeleteLmao! You sef must comment? Wots dis point you made now? Lol.. Why he said...lol. Shutup, and stop lying you dont have bf.
DeleteWhat is yea Lol all over the place? For common food? Your upkeep nko?
DeleteIs it only for food he gives you money?
can't make head nor tail from this comment eji
DeleteMy hubby don't Av no wallet.i am d wallet.he keeps his moni with me...the fear of dashing my food moni is the beginning of wisdom.so wen he needs he comes to me.
ReplyDeleteLol mumu
ReplyDeleteMe richer than my hubby? You must be kidding me
My wealth dey learn for where my hubby own dey ooo
And even if I was richer, I will never ever give my hubby the impression that I don't need his money, I dey craze? Delta babe no dey mumu like that ooo
Fools like you are the ones always forming miss independent thereby allowing lazy men to live off you
Ewu!!!
I dont like anybody taking my stuff without my consent, so i dont do that to people either. He knows i dont ask for money for unnecessary things, so whenever i ask he gives. So no need for stealing/ taking however you want to call it.
ReplyDeleteStella you dey funny oyinbo dey put money for wallet or for house no be plastic oyinbo dey spend.
ReplyDeleteI think it depends on the family's financial condition. If times are hard it may not be wise to take money without prior knowledge,as you could leave them in an embarrassing situation. Now, if things are good and money is flowing then you can take without notice.
ReplyDeletewell, the bible calls it stealing but my hubby is too stingy. He claims not to have money but each time I check his wallet I see wads of naira notes and even when I "help myself" with some notes he does not notice. some men are just too irresponsible.
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