Now,let me paint you a scenario.....
Your best friend is dating someone and the relationship is the talk of town..you have hung out with them a few times and their professon of love made you bashful.
Something happens and the relationship did not work out and both of them part ways bitterly/sweetly.
Now that EX is giving you the green light after a few months of breaking up.
Your friend that used to date this EX has moved on and is in another relationship.
You like the EX and both of you are free to date.
Would you date your best friend's ex?
Hell NO!
ReplyDeleteSeconded
DeleteHell No
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Don't ever date him
@Galore
Hell no there are other fishes in the sea he swim deeper biko
DeleteLol. I will if i feel it's genuine. There are no rules to life and love! As long as y'all don't hide like teenagers. It's not bad. I will just be coivil enough to let my friend know of the development, at least prepare her mentally for it. Then me and the Ex will be civil enough not to disrespect her by flaunting ourselves in front of her. That's all. But as for dating the ex, I will
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DeleteHell no wont do that
www.glowyshoe.blogspot.com
He should swim deeper ohh and leave me. In short hell no over and over again
DeleteOpinion **
DeleteAs for me no.... but look at it like this,Well its inappropriate to date yur friend's ex, but den again, you are going to meet yur destined partner in one way or the other, so if yur friend's ex is the one for you, are you going to not be with him because of yourfriend who may not even be with you for a long time....still as for me, its No. I dont want to have my friend's leftover, besides it will be as if i was jealous of their relationship.
DeleteI would not even get attracted to my bfs ex not to talk of dating him. Kilode.
DeleteEveryone saying 'no'. Doesn't apply in all situations. If I have strong feelings for him, I will go for it. Life is good short to care about ppls opinion #yolo. The first rule in any relationship is to always put yourself first. There are lots of guys but when one is in love... it seems like only one guy exists. Love is too strong.
DeleteHeaven yes!!! So what if he dated my friend? That it didn't work for them both doesn't mean it won't work us. If he truly loves me and I truly love him too. YES!!!! I will date him.
DeleteI am currently dating my friends ex and guess what??? He proposed last month. My friend supports us cos she always knew he loved me not her. He only used her to get to me!!! He dated her cos I was in a relationship then and was always telling him off so he would back off cos i knew he liked me. I hooked him up with my friend and when I was single again, he came back to his true love. It's 3years already and we will be getting married soon. You Only Live Once. Why will I withhold my happiness cos of mere sentiments???
NO WAY. Infact, that's a rule for me. NEVER DATE MY BEST FREIND'S Ex
DeleteNope! Before dem go say u and d EX been dey run tinz before dem even break up
DeleteHell to the No! 2 of my friends r currently dating 2 of my exes. I dont mind except for one ex then i will show them. lol
DeleteA friend asked for permission from her friend to date her ex and she agreed thinking the relationship won't last like hers. When the guy proposed to my friend she started spreading gist that she snatched her bf. They married now and she's expecting her first child
DeleteGuess i have to resort the Almighty formula to solve dis equation. ..
Delete.
first let d Ex be Y and d lady b X....
...using first principle ...
substitute d variables inside d equation and ur ans would jump out...
okwa ighotara asisa m ?
Guess i have to resort the Almighty formula to solve dis equation. ..
Delete.
first let d Ex be Y and d lady b X....
...using first principle ...
substitute d variables inside d equation and ur ans would jump out...
okwa ighotara asisa m ?
Anonymous 15:03. As peculiar as ur situation is, or was... the person who shouldn't have dated ur guy is that ur friend. How can u agree to date a guy whom ur friend rejected, and the guy came to u just because ur friend whom he likes isn't available? She rubbished her self esteem and that scenario of urs is one kind abeg. Your friend no get shame. A man who sought to date u just because the one he likes ain't available has turned u into a contingency plan. Spare tire tinz. Huh
DeleteTotally agree with u sisi eko. She was used. Plain and simple. Don't think l can hang around such scenarios biko
DeleteThat x is a bad person,coz there are other people out there why me, I can't date from same circle.i can't date my frnds x.
ReplyDeleteCode #1 rule of friendship. NEVER date the EX. Except you no longer want to remain friends.
DeleteHmmmm... So my frnd once dated my EX, she didn't even ask if it was ok,n I kinda didn't care or so I tot....then one day he was sick n she asked me to go help her check on him cos she was held up smwhere n I agreed since I was close by,while there he told me how much he's missed me n how he only asked my frnd out only to get close to me blah blah blah..... Long story short,I was stuck in his house 4 d nite cos it was raining terribly n its pretty impossible gettin into my close after dat kind of rain, so we talked over a bottle of cognac n these feelings started comin up (plus remember d cold) n we slept togeda. Didn't tell my frnd,dunno if he ever told her cos she neva asked n after a few weeks they broke up n life went on...
DeleteHmmmm memories
Bitch you revenge
Deletelmao
She didn't. Value your friendship based on selfishness.
Anyway without an explanation your conscience and instincts tell you its wrong. Soul ties and all that shit.
Be a friend to yourself and choose your friends wisely
You dated the guy and broke up. Your friend starts to date him. Then he tells u he only went to her to get close to u? How's that? But he already had u na? "Trying to get close" would mean a babe he couldn't get and has been dying to date! Anyway..
DeleteCapital No. I cannot chop cander wey dem remain.
ReplyDeleteOmo! There is no right or wrong here ooo depends on d situation. Cos I know a relationship turned happy marriage that started off like this.
ReplyDeleteErm erm, like sexy Asa would say, it's all about the comfort, lol.
ReplyDeleteBut nna mehn, I won't be comfortable leaving the two of them in a room alone. Different crazy thoughts will be running through my mind eeee.
On a more serious note, of all the guys in the whole world, why my girlfriend's ex? I can't oh. Because whenever I look at him, all I will be seeing is two of them, naked!
Lol you having spiritual eye by seeing them naked
DeleteAshewo u sef dey talk. gerarahia
DeleteTricky one here.
ReplyDeleteBut with the scarcity of husbands these days, the girls wont minddd!!!
Husbands are scarce in your family?maybe the girls in your family wouldn't mind. You shoulda said some girls wouldn't mind.have some respect for the female folks! That's why you keep looking for ladies that will rape you and take you out cos in your lil mind,you think men are "scarce".you have some serious growing up to do.
DeleteHusbands are scarce in your family?maybe the girls in your family wouldn't mind. You shoulda said some girls wouldn't mind.have some respect for the female folks! That's why you keep looking for ladies that will rape you and take you out cos in your lil mind,you think men are "scarce".you have some serious growing up to do.
DeleteLmaoooo. North don vex. Obinna ndo
DeleteNo I fitn't. Umunwoke Ka nku naaa.make my gf ex carry his barrier dey go elsewia biko. To avoid stories that touch and tickle the bumbum.
ReplyDeleteLMAO..story that touches and tickles the bum bum
DeleteIs he the only "EX" in the world? I can NOT date my friend's Ex even if she has moved on.
ReplyDeleteNot interested
DeleteOfcourse i will date him if i love him that much. People should get over themselves with this friends ex ish. You are someone else's ex, your bf is the other lady's ex. At the end of the day,we all are someone else's damn ex, so what?
ReplyDeleteTrue say
DeleteI just tire for ladies and sentiments.
DeleteRegardless of your logical approach to this the truth is most women won't like their best friend dating their ex. It takes a very mature person to overlook it because it calls your bff's loyalty to question. She may think I've always secretly admired her ex.
DeleteMy taken on it? I don't think I'll ever date my friend's ex but if he's my soul mate I'll ask her permission .
Been there and was threatened by my friend not to even conceive the idea of dating her ex
ReplyDeleteWhy?
DeleteWho is she to tell you who to date or not to?
Yea, after plenty years, maybe not too plenty 1or 2 years
ReplyDeleteif he has money I can even betray my friend and accept his advances behind her back.
ReplyDeletemoney makes me tremble.
money can make me date even a dog.
thanks
Don't I just love dis babe? Lol, blunt 2rut but nnem d dog is a no no biko!
DeleteReally mamie??? Even date a dog??
DeleteChineke m eh! Laff wan kill me for here.. Mamie oh Mamie.. u are something else.
DeleteAm sorry for those that take u serious and will start freeing their madness under your comment.
Mami hahahaha gerarahiaa!!
Deletebitch lol!
DeleteLmao!
DeleteI think she meant someone who cheats
DeleteLmao Mamie ooooo always cracking me up!
DeleteLai Lai! Iranu! Ajeku! I was trained to go after mine, no matter how hungry I am, I will and have always waited to cook mine. Don't want some one to tell my story better than I will. Such EX will always preferred my friend especially if I was there when he wooed her. But then again people. Sha
ReplyDeleteMba o, I wont date my friend's ex
DeleteActually I can relate to this topic,my friend 's ex have always liked me even whil he was with my friend altho I tot is was just normal likeness, not until he broke up with my friend and started hunting for my love...to me it is madness
Hell no, I cant date my friend 's ex
I cant even put my self together to tell about it cos it will break her cos she loved him, now she has move on with her life, in love with sum1 else bt I stil cant tell her about her EX
Like ifeoma and Esther's case!!!
DeleteAll dis Ashewo worthless friends....
I know ifeoma will b sad any time she comes across post like dis....
Mtshewwww
Only irresponsible men go after their ex - girlfriend's friend. He either has no respect for women or reckons they're birds of a feather.
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DeleteLike innocentia Joy Magbo -ExBiotech Dept EBSU and guilty party Linda Ogbonna -Exbiotech EBSU her bestie wey dey codedly date Joy Ex kiiiikiiiikiiiiikiiiiiii
Mba!!!
ReplyDeleteBt what da heck!!! Y not if not?
Tongue would always wag and say stuff.
So if d guy is truly in2 me as much as I'm to him,i just might gv it a try.
Bt for d main time,my answer remains MBA!!!
Nope..things are gonna be weird between us.(me,my friend and her ex)
ReplyDeleteCan't date my bestfriend ex.
ReplyDeleteNever!
ReplyDeleteWhy not?
ReplyDeleteThe devil you know.......
Tried and tested
First?
ReplyDeleteYES......
ReplyDeleteYes. With her knowledge. No hiding. Life is too hard already, give someone a break today
ReplyDeleteThat's a very deep one and I ve been there but trust me, I don't think I would date my friend's EX.... Guys can be very funny o
ReplyDeleteNo had d encounter twice,can't stand eating my bestie's leftover mbok.
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing like leftover jare. You are someone's else leftover too. So will your hubby-to-be.
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ReplyDeleteNeva! I can't date a guy my female friend introduce to me talk more of dating her ex! Problem that comes with such relationship are so devastating.
ReplyDeleteYou're right my dear.chances are he has slept with your so called friend or will do so eventually. If he was so wonderful why would she pass him on to you? I don't trust women at all.
DeleteLee boo was introduced by my gf...she been no want..turns out Hez d best on earth..lol she judged him by skinny looks...he worships me oo..chai if Ur gf giv u pls collect
Delete@ anony, when she realises how happy you are she'll regret it and may even try to hook up with him. Don't let your guard down. Trust no one!
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ReplyDeleteok.....i just scrolled up again and saw bestfriend....i cant date a best frnd ex but i can date a frnds ex
ReplyDeleteHell no!!
ReplyDeleteOfcus
ReplyDeleteWe've treated this issue before. Answer is MBA!!! He's not the only one in this world. I probably wouldn't have met him were it not through my friend! Uko enyi nwoke akoghi m. Azhi di agbaghi m. #Nwanyidikanwanyisiadi
ReplyDeleteNo.
ReplyDeleteEven if i want to eat a "vomit" , it shouldn't be the one vomited by my bestfriend. Considering Okafors law, there is a possibility that both of them can still meet up and gbensh each other.
That is the easiest way boosting a man's ego , he will gbensh you, gbensh your bestfriend all in the name of a relationship, the dude will be feeling the best that has ever happened to the female folk.
Whether she has moved on or not...
Nope.
XOXO MYSTERY
Very smart..
DeleteFor someone like me that likes to visualise,I'd keep visualising my best friend's face whenever I'm with the guy.
Matter of fact I can't date a guy that has dated someone I remotely know.I'd like to have pure thoughts of me and my man only.and not thoughts of him and someone else.
So true! They'll hook up again.
DeleteI think that this your feeling is genetic. A lot of people are like that. Lol
DeleteDare not ,you where never a friend ,one day you will marry my ex husband and call your self a friend .bitches arent loyal
ReplyDeleteNEVER! Men never finish 4 d world.
ReplyDeleteNay, wouldn't try that. Some desperate gitls will tho...
ReplyDeleteI can't.
ReplyDeleteIs my best frend"s ex d only guy in d world? Mbanu! why wuid I go f a used product wen I can get a new one!
ReplyDeletenew one is a day old baby kikikikikiki
DeleteI can not categorically answer this because I've never been in such situation, however, I will answer No based what I believe/wouldn't want someone else to do to me.
ReplyDeleteExcept heaven has ordained it and in such case, I must have sincerely tried all escape route from that relationship happening.
No, never.
ReplyDeleteIts going to be difficult to date him especially if the lady is still my friend then he is not for me. The fact have even gone on outing with them when they were together. I see it as a form of betrayer , no one would believe have not always have eye for him.
ReplyDeleteYoruba people and english wahala!
DeleteHahhahahhahhahhahaha. I can marry my friend's ex but I cant date him.
ReplyDeleteSomething similar happened to me back then in the university. A guy asked a friend out( she was my roommate then), she didn't want to date him ( according to her) and introduced him to me.
I happy, begin date the dude o!
She begin get problem with her own BF.
Small time, the story became a remixed version that she introduced me to her Boyfriend-to-be and I snatched him.
The scandal or whatever you may call it was not a minor one since I was known as a church girl then. People began seeing me as a pretentious bitch and that's where my problem in school began.
Eventually she got something poisonous for me, was to mix it in my tin of milk that night ( according to her confession) but somehow-somehow, God intervened and she said she couldn't go through with her evil plan.
She moved out of the room we both shared the next morning, I didn't even know what led to her moving but I was glad she was gone.
2months later, I and the dude broke up, koz of her matter. Eventually she came to me asking for forgiveness and confessing. To say I was shocked is an understatement BUT I learnt my lesson.
#storyOfMyLife
Lawd... one of the reasons I never have roommates, ever!
DeleteHia!!!!!! Watin person no go hear?
DeleteBy the way, I heard this same story while in Enugu! Poster, you sure say I no know you?
........ one of the reasons why I never had a roommate......
DeleteThank God for your life. A friend of mine didn't live to tell her story
R.I.P Kemi
........ one of the reasons why I never had a roommate......
DeleteThank God for your life. A friend of mine didn't live to tell her story
R.I.P Kemi
Poison you? What a wicked girl!
DeleteWhirlwind
4 me, CAPITAL NO.
ReplyDeleteYour friend might even think that you were part of the reason they broke up, but who cares.
Won't try it though!
I wouldn't dare. its going to be so awkward. The only reason I can date a guy who was interested in my friend is if she is happily married and doesn't live in the same state. jealousy can spring up from places u can't imagine. to avoid stories that touch,I'd rather not.
ReplyDeletePersonally, i would not do that. For global peace and unity. lol.
ReplyDeleteY not... I will date him. Bt I will tell my friend first. If she gives me a go ahead and am madly in love with d guy. I will gladly date him.
ReplyDeleteReal talk there
DeleteI can never take permission from anyone to date anybody. Don't need no go ahead from no one.
Deleteyea one of my friends asked for my consent but d other one did it behind my back. And now d guy is disturbing me on fbk like kilode. Oriegwu... D one dat asked for my consent is still with d dude n they r both happy. I care less. Only about my friend's happiness. D guy can "kee imsef"...
DeleteMy dear, some girls will smile and give you a go-ahead. Sometimes it's best u leave the ex but whose fault is it if truly you two were destined to be together?
DeleteFor me, if I am sure it will lead to marriage ( but who is even sure these days) I will go ahead but if it's to play pin-pom pin-pom, I wont date the dude. Just to avoid stories that touch
Never!
ReplyDeleteI don't do best friends ...
ReplyDeleteSecondly I have never had a thing for any guy in any of my girlfriends life. I see such guys as friends no more
So its really going to be hard to even be in that imagination or that scene
..
But if that were the case why not if not?. After all my best friend has moved on...but there is this unwritten girl code that says one should date their gfs ex. But who really cares ...
I don't know o.
ReplyDeleteI won't because i can never feel comfortable knowing that i am being intimate with my friends leftover.
ReplyDeleteyes I will o with permission from him sha
ReplyDelete#GODWIN™
No I won't. It's a G-code (girl code), unwriten one that should not be broken. Though some shameless girls break this code all the time because of long throat. This kind of act is enough to make any sane person uncomfortable, but some girls are crazy. Hmmmm
ReplyDeleteWhich kin G-Code? Be true to yourself! If the dude is Dangote's son or some rich, tall dark and handsome dude with a very fat bank account, you will remember one invisible G-code abi?
DeleteIbegi!! it's a dicey situation but if you feel the dude is meant for you, my dear, jump in but also be ready for the drama that follows
You're right about the girl - code.
DeleteI can't date my friend's ex. To me it doesn't seem right.
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't even consider him,after my best friend don such all the ingredients,...Never,i will look at him as an expired product,...it's better I don't know whom he dated before than know,it will hunt me,and I wouldn't be proud to introduce him publicly.
ReplyDeleteI once dated my BFF's EX but I wouldn't call him EX per-say,his name is D***,he was in love with her but she was in a relationship with another guy and was so in love hence she doesn't love this guy but gives him attention because he buys her stuffs and cooks for her...
ReplyDeleteThe guy D*** who is now my Ex saw me with her then,later got my number with the intention of reporting my friend but we fell for each other and started dating,my friend being who she is was angry but overlooked it and we still hangout but she was always hinting how my bf do dote over her to get at me....
After some months she and her bf had a bitter breakup then some months after D*** and i broke up because he was a cheat...
So now my Bff and I are still going strong but I wouldn't date my friend's EX ever again,I won't feel bad if any of my friends dates my EX,its a free world you know...
Ashewo friends everywhere!!!!!!
DeleteAnita and ifeoma in d making
Oshisko!!!!!
Mtschewwww
I don't know about others but as a matter of principle I wouldn't. I have been in such situation over and over again but I won't compromise. I can give details even one proposed marriage to me I turned him down. I might send in a chronicle.
ReplyDeleteOmah
No i will not biko
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said..
ReplyDeleteAs far he is her EX and she had long moved on to the extent of being in another rship,then YES!!!,there's no big deal in it,she dated him before me means nada as far as i did not snatch him from her and am not the cause of their brkup!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
I can never date my friends ex reason been that with time they may reconcile, I ve seen cases where 2 people who separated for yrs reconciled and got married.
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said..
ReplyDeleteAs far he is her EX and she had long moved on to the extent of being in another rship,then YES!!!,there's no big deal in it,she dated him before me means nada as far as i did not snatch him from her and am not the cause of their brkup!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Absolutely NOT. If I date him, I should be prepared to lose my best friend.
ReplyDeleteNaaaa..
ReplyDeleteBut IMO,i normally think it is only when u crushing on ur friend's guy or girl,that is when u jump at any opportunity to date them...else if u weren't crushing on him or her, u won't date them.
Spot on !
DeleteNo...
ReplyDeleteI don't have a best friend *I don't do that shit*
But dating your friends ex is like reusing her used pad!
No besties for me too.....
DeleteLeft to me I don't think its a good idea to date one's friends ex,some friends would make your life miserable for doing that but personally I can't date my friend's ex and I wouldn't care if any of my friends does,its a live and let's live world....
ReplyDeleteLeft to me I don't think its a good idea to date one's friends ex,some friends would make your life miserable for doing that but personally I can't date my friend's ex and I wouldn't care if any of my friends does,its a live and let's live world....
ReplyDeleteLeft to me I don't think its a good idea to date one's friends ex,some friends would make your life miserable for doing that but personally I can't date my friend's ex and I wouldn't care if any of my friends does,its a live and let's live world....
ReplyDeleteNah nah nah..
ReplyDeleteTHELMA ENEMUWE said..
ReplyDeleteSterraKORK,i put it to you that some BVSsss are comfortably dating the surpose EX of their friends but they'd enter this post and lie about it,they'd start acting all weirdo and saying lailai they cant.....all na wash!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
THELMA ENEMUWE said..
ReplyDeleteSterraKORK,i put it to you that some BVSsss are comfortably dating the surpose EX of their friends but they'd enter this post and lie about it,they'd start acting all weirdo and saying lailai they cant.....all na wash!!
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
because you dey reuse your friend used pad no mean say every girl be like you.so STFU
DeleteI'll ve to ask my frend if she's kk abt it and whatever happens depend on what she wants bcos I know girls it's goin to be oh so u ve bin liking him all dis yl and secondly ve a knowledge what caused d break up bcos he might jst do d same to u its a dicey situation
ReplyDeletejust friends
ReplyDeleteWell I married my friend's ex.. We weren't friends while they dated. Wen she became my friend, she was dating someone else. She introduced him to me as her ex. She was even the one that told me about his interest in me, told me to go ahead if I liked him. Well I went ahead cos I liked him. She later started acting up wen we became serious. We got married and we stopped being friends. She got married last year. I miss her but life goes on. And yes, He's worth it!!
ReplyDeleteTorrrr!
DeleteNow this is a different scenario..you never knew him while they were dating..infact he was already an ex when you met, it is a manageable scenario.unlike the one hu wentvon outings with dem.i still cant.
DeleteNa real torrrrrr....i fear u sha!
DeleteIfeoma....
DeleteCome back and give dis same gist in 3yrs time
Yes o. Live and. Let's Live!!!
DeleteLife goes on my dear.... Me I didn't even ask anyone for permission Na gini mee?. In my case She was my very close buddy in secondary school but we lost touch and hadn't seen or communicated since secondary school. Met him on my own once, then bumped into him again before the stories about past relationships started flowing out during courtship, that was how I got to know my friend was an ex. When my friend got to know about it she stopped taking my calls and didn't attend our wedding. Reconnected with her recently, He is an amazing man... So worth it, we r Still happily married but I sense an awkwardness around her....na so life be
DeleteHmmm. Deep ish
ReplyDeletethere's nothing bad about dat since my frnd is already in another relationship and I love the ex so what's holding me back
ReplyDeleteDon't think i will stand the sight of seeing the person that was there before me constantly in our life! No i won't, but i don't mind if my friend dates my ex.
ReplyDeleteofcoz I will
ReplyDeleteRelationship and dating are man's design to enjoy sex and affection and of course the fallouts before you see who marries you. It is said that friends of your friend are your friends. Women are simply jealous hence they don't want a woman they know to take over the meat that is no longer Thiers. That shows that irrespective of what they display, women feel a sense of loss each time a man leaves them even when they claim they left the man. If a man leaves a woman he actually looks forward to see who takes the leftover. He doesn't care if it is his best friend as long as the man had first left the girl before his friend took over. Once the relationship ends anybody is fee to go for anybody. Women should stop petty jealousy. By the way there is nothing wrong in your friend snatching your bf/ gf if he/ she wants and can because is only gullible bf/gf that would fall to such and who needs gullible people. Certainly not me. In fact any one that success in snatching my wife/gf has shown that she doesn't belong to me and so I will move on
ReplyDeleteThank you!!!
DeleteRelationship and dating are man's design to enjoy sex and affection and of course the fallouts before you see who marries you. It is said that friends of your friend are your friends. Women are simply jealous hence they don't want a woman they know to take over the meat that is no longer Thiers. That shows that irrespective of what they display, women feel a sense of loss each time a man leaves them even when they claim they left the man. If a man leaves a woman he actually looks forward to see who takes the leftover. He doesn't care if it is his best friend as long as the man had first left the girl before his friend took over. Once the relationship ends anybody is fee to go for anybody. Women should stop petty jealousy. By the way there is nothing wrong in your friend snatching your bf/ gf if he/ she wants and can because is only gullible bf/gf that would fall to such and who needs gullible people. Certainly not me. In fact any one that success in snatching my wife/gf has shown that she doesn't belong to me and so I will move on
ReplyDeletealways writing epistles that are void of common sense.you talk to much abeg.
DeleteI think he made a lot of sense
DeleteWhat if the EX is my supposed husband ordained by God for me? Mtchewww. I can date him. Ex kor, Ex ni. After all, all na second hand
ReplyDeleteYes il date a friend's ex. Not immediately tho, I d see anything wrong with it. If she is my best friend il let her know, to get her opinion, not that it will particularly affect my decision. If she is a normal friend, she will find out when she finds out.
ReplyDeleteMy dear people, if friends don show u shege u go know say ur happiness is all that matters oo.. I'll ask some questions, know where we're going, it won't be playing as usual, & do some research before jumping into that, but am not ruling off the possibility. These days, I keep my circle very very small smtyms I find myself being my own friend o. Av done things for friends & at the end of d day I wonder if this was actually the person I called "friend". Don't trade ur happiness for anybody. Just let it be worth it sha! Don't go & destroy a lifetime friendship over some idiotic unserious boy.
ReplyDeleteBut bia..all of you just running your mouth saying leftovertjos..leftover that...you boyfriend wasnt someone's left over too..biko mechionu! Eheen back to the marra..as for me ...i cant date my friends ex and if i have to we cnt simply be friends again..thats jerz it..nd i cnt say ill be ok with my friend dating my ex...na when that time reach..u go noe whether you dey ok..ehen..i have spoken.
ReplyDeleteOya clap for yourself!!
DeleteJust stay true to yourself..*no games*
ReplyDeleteAll I cud say is that somt is wrong somewhere.
ReplyDeleteSecret crush while datin from eida party.
The frd is most cases is always more beautiful n prolly with a bigger ass or boobs.
The relshp doesn't lead anywhere most times
They jus help the guy feel superfly about himself.
God forbid! I can't even date someone who previously showed interest in a friend what more a best friend's ex, haba!!!
ReplyDeleteI would like to say I can but... The 'ick' factor no go let me.
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ReplyDeleteI will never.. Fine, everyone is someone's ex but the beauty in it is that you do not know everyone, hence, you treat each person as new. Now dating a friends ex or a friend dating my ex is like a slap to my face or my friends face. Where's the loyalty? Someone wrote 'yolo.. Life is too short'.. The irony. Yes my dear, life is too short to cause someone you call a friend misery. So I ask again, where is the loyalty? Why are we friends or lovers? Even if the relationship should end, respect what once was and move on.
ReplyDeleteI don't blame people for not wanting to have friends as we humans are our own worst enemy caring more about ourselves and leaving the other to suffer at our own detriment.. I don't care if my friend and I don't talk no more, that won't justify me dating her ex... I once dated a guy, became really good friends with his brother and after we broke up, he started hitting on me. I had to end that friendship because I wasn't going do his brother grimy like that.. Anyway, to each his own..
Friend, best friend's ex is a NO for me. But if you feel comfortable leaving them in a room and the guy is your 'ultimate joy' then go for it.
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For me is a NO
ReplyDeleteOne of my closest friends went ahead to date or rather slept with my ex. Apparently the relationship spoilt a lot of things between myself and my friend, and my ex with some of his friends.
ReplyDeleteI guess my Ex wanted to hurt me but they both made a fool out of each other,..... Believe me when they say Silence is Golden.
My friend called me a few years later apologising but girl I told I moved on a long time ago, I don't care who she sleeps with it's your life.
The whole story is you should wise enough and not let yourself be used in a game of two Ex's....
Hmmm
ReplyDeleteYou won't date him but to be a side chic, you'll hold flag.
Everybody is someone's ex.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is someone's ex. That is the more reason you should date another person not your friend's ex.
ReplyDeleteKeziah's law state that if you date your friends ex, no matter how long it takes, that relationship must end.
XOXO MYSTERY
Anyway without an explanation your conscience and instincts tell you its wrong. Soul ties and all that shit.
ReplyDeleteThis act has broken homes. Children are in the mix don't know y they are suffering
I know endless kids who gone through this... Not worth..it it might look rosy now check few years later.
Stay clear permission or not
i have and it doesn't last so hell no again
ReplyDeleteDating my best friend's ex for me is a no no. No one can change that for me.
ReplyDeleteN-O = NO!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat if your friends ex did not sleep with your friend? Cause everyone is looking at it from the sex bit. If they did not have sex, would it be better?
ReplyDeleteMy sis in law told me about her friend whose elder sister's ex wanted to marry. The wahala come be who will bell the cat. My in law told her ' tell him to inform your sister that he wants to marry you. Once that is out of the way the rest can be handled'. Whosai. My guy had the liver not. That was the end of that relationship.
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