You Are In A Friend Zone If........

Where are the singles in the house that are hoping to be in a defined relationship? Please step forward and learn some of the things that might let you know whether you are in or out...or in the friend zone corner!

So you've been dating your boo (or so you thought) for sometime now and you thought he/she is "the one"?

Or you are friends with this person and you are thinking that you can win them over And then he/she ends up telling you"I like you... but, not in THAT way. You're like a brother or sister to me..." 

Sound familiar?

Have you ever liked someone so much that you thought the best way to get him/her is to be their friend? Maybe sneak in through the back door and win them over later...

Read my lips......YOU - ARE- IN- THE - FRIEND- ZONE!

Here are the common signs that show that you've been friend-zoned.

**Sign 1: You're In The Friends Zone if they call ONLY to ask for a favor...

Do they ONLY connect with you when they need something? Like, ask you to drive them around, pick up some stuff at the store, or even ask you to go shopping with them so maybe you'll buy them something? (Girls do this more).

And you do all these things for them...thinking it's their way of spending quality time with you. You're getting closer...

WRONG. They are only using you - and you're a handy "orbiter" that they can depend on because they know how you feel - but won't reciprocate.

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**Sign 2: You're In The Friends Zone if you get a late reply. Again and again.

You send them a message on the phone, Facebook, or Twitter and they don't reply. You wait for hours, resend your messages and still no reply.

And when they finally do, you get a short one-word responses like "yep", "okay", "fine". That's a sure sign - you're friend-zoned!

C'mon, if they were hot for you, they'd be excited to hear from you. They'd use any excuse to communicate with you. They'd jump on it and reply QUICK because they are excited and anticipate hearing from you.

If they don't act that way, then that means that they're not thinking of you and don't feel that rush when you contact them. And that's not a good sign...

***Sign 3: You're In The Friends Zone if they tell you about someone of the opposite sex they like...

If they talk about another guy/girl they like in front of you, that's a sure sign that they see you as only a friend. And if you're thinking that she/he is doing that to make you jealous... then think again.

What you'd want is for them to know that you're there because you like them. If they really like you back, they'll try to get to know you – and you'll NEVER hear about any other guy or babe.

Next time this happens, take a deep breath and decide if you belong in this zone and if it is worth it,if not please cut your losses and walk before you begin to look like a chump.

***Sign 4: You're In The Friends Zone when they introduce you as a "friend"

This is pretty much the clearest signal that they are not attracted to you.

You see, a woman tells her girlfriends about the guy she likes whenever she talks to them. And when she introduces that guy to them she'll never say "he's my friend" - because she wants that guy to like her back! NOT think of each other as just "friends."

If they like you, you'll see their friends giving you that look and will even tease you both about being together.

That's just how straightforward everything is.

So, if you hear the words "Meet my friend Joe or Vicky" then you are just a friend!

**Sign 5: You're In The Friends Zone if they don't flirt back...

Have you ever noticed her treating you like the way she treats her girlfriends? The way she hugs and kiss them when she greets them.

Do you try to flirt with her? Touch her arm, her hair - and she's blind to everything you do? She laughs and teases you just like she does with everyone else? Friend zone alert!

   

Remember that that most important indication of interest from a partner is their BEHAVIOR. If they are aren't  doing the things people normally do when interested, then they are just not into you.

It's up to you to treat them like a stock on the market that you're investing in. When they refuse to give you the return you demand, you need to "sell" and go find an opportunity that's going to pay you dividends.

Anything less than this is only going to leave you emotionally bankrupt at the end of the day. And you deserve to get a partner that wants you just as much as you want them.

 ''Put simply, people value what they work to obtain and invest in. They have more attraction and respect for individuals for whom they perform favors (Jecker & Landy, 1969). They also find relationships more valuable and commit more fully''.

In Conclusion: The friend zone can be avoided. All it takes is a little personal development to be more attractive, finding better partners who "fit", being a bit more assertive about what you need, and/or motivating others to give back and invest in you too.

Are you in love with someone who has put you in friend zone and you are hurting or pretending you dont know and wishing for things to change?..Do you give them sex as a bait?

Honey put on your running shoes and cross over to the next Boulevard!

Easier said than done right?Well you are the one who is in a friend zone,not me!

*Side eyes to all those in friend zones right now*.