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Thursday, August 06, 2015

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

 *Hissing*
WTF!






 NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE.
 FEMALE IN-LAWS AS WIVES WORST ENEMIES 

Good day Stella, please I need advice from BVs, my heart is so heavy with regret, I regret resigning from my job to be with my husband, I regret putting in my all efforts emotionally and financially into this selfish marriage, madam stella can even remember one time I asked her for some help last year, she promised to help but I know she forgot, really I am too young in my mid-twenties to be going through all this in my present condition. 


I got married to a family with generational curse of multiple women in their lives, my husband wasn’t promiscuous when I was dating him at least for the 3 months we dated (we normally see on weekends because of my work and his)he was forming so nice and caring before work took me away from him and later we got married hurriedly, he hid many many family talk from me which I later found out after our marriage and which if I knew earlier I wouldn’t have married a man with such historical family baggage. I look back on my life and I wonder why?


Now to my main issue, my husband regards his family and what they say above me and my child, they made me resign from my job on the premise that we can’t run two homes in two different states, my in-laws are his 1st port of call whenever we have any small issue, he runs to them and paints the whole story to his favour making his people hate me for any I say or do afterwards isn’t believed by them, I have cried and cried but what I do. 


In bid to help out in the family by asking my friends for help,I am termed an adulterous wife even to my in-laws and our neighbours in the estate we live in. He has chased all my friends away by replying my ping rudely and saying that they shouldn’t contact me again. He  has tried to strangle me on many occasions and when my MIL calls and I tell her what her son does to me she doesn’t believe me, my FIL was even shocked to hear him confess to me that he tried to strangle me.


His aunties, sisters and MIL insult me at will calling me a fool, a bad wife and saying that they don’t need me and my child that my husband will soon get married by December to another woman as it is tradition in their family and in all these I have never talked back, all I say is thank you ma, yes ma to the extent that my husband lies about me, they have once told me to calculate what I spent on the house and they will pay me because I said I cant live a house I have 70% stake in. 


What surprises me is that he doesn’t say a thing in all these things is that he is not repentant. Last weekend we went to see my FIL and I had to stay in the car outside throughout because my MIL didn’t want to see me and while my husband went inside to eat and was listening to them hurl insults on me. I snooped on his phone this morning and I saw a text where his aunty insulted me but he didn’t say any thing. I have snooped on his phone severally and I have seen his friends and others urging him to treat his family well and stop telling his family about our issues but for where...

 When I was working I had my respect but now its as if my world is crashing down on me. My family has asked me to leave the marriage and come home but I cant leave because all my life savings is in this house.

I Am so confused maybe its because I knew him through his close friend that I dated before, please BVs how do I over come all these?.


What nonsense is al these?Mscheeeeew!!!
Why do some in laws freaking behave like this?
You are suffering emotional abuse and verbal abuse and this is even worse than the physical one.
Please insist that the house be sold and take what belongs to you.move out temporarily to get your act back together,get a job or start a busness from the proceeds.I will never advise anyone to leave a marriage BUT IF IT IS NOT WORKING,TAKE A BREAK AND SORT YOURSELF OUT.MARRIAGE ISNT BY FORCE,ESPECIALLY IF IT ROBS YOU OF YOUR PEACE OF MIND.!!!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO


NURSING AND PREGNANT AGAIN

Hi Stella, Hope this email meets you well. I am an ardent reader of your blog and I also comment as often as I can.  Please do not publish my name or email. I just realised that I'm two months pregnant while I'm still nursing my 8month old. It came like a big shock because we were as careful as we could be so I just don't understand how this happened. 

The problem now is that I am still trying to find a job and it's not been easy with this first child financially. Also I'm worried that my children will be too close in age. Now we are even thinking about removing the baby because of the situation of things. I have previously made some contacts to find a job and we were really looking forward to the good news but which employer will be willing to employ a pregnant woman. 

I am really confused and depressed now.Kindly post this on your blog, I would like to get advise from anyone that has been in a similar position.

Thanks!


Well i was in this 'nursing and pregnant situation that you described up there and it worked out just fine!
DONT TOUCH THAT CHILD GROWING INSIDE YOU!
As for the job,please forget about it for now.
Why do married some Nigerian couples forbid using condom for sex or the pills for protection?

I DO NOT UNDERSTAND THIS MENTALITY AT ALL!

How do you do careful sex when the sperm goes inside?

Anyways congrats Madam..Many seek to be in your condition,After this baby,discuss condoms with your hubby or go on the pills!









154 comments:

  1. I beat em Jay today, *dancing shoki ahnnn*

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    1. Just negodu!!!!!!!! Poster 2 don't touch that baby its God's blessing so leave it. Poster 1 I'm confused as you too.

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    2. Lol. The hustle is indeed real

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    3. *breathing heavily* at long last, I carry first. This Na the first time I carry first for my life, my people shout hallelujah!!!!

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    4. I just hate it when girls rush into marriage and when things ain't working out they'll be saying I'm to young for this stress when u were rushing into marriage didn't u know u were young? Poster2 if u guys can't take care of the child do the needful in as much as abortion is a sin, it's a greater sin to bring a child into the world dat will become a menace to the society due to lack of care from the parents. This is why I just love the whites too much hypocrisy in Africa mtcheewww

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    5. @poster 2, I want u to know that u are not alone in this! There's even more space between urs as compared to some others. Like in my own case, I got pregnant 4months after I had my first, hubby went all ballistic, he wanted me to have an abortion but I stood my grounds, as time went by, he came to like it and he has usual given me money and we have bought all necessary things in preparation for the baby. My babies will be exactly one year apart, and I am VERY happy about that. In otherwords, let that baby be!!!

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    6. Ah! Poster 2.. We dey plenty for hia oooo. It's not a new thing and it's no big deal abeg! I have 2kids and they are 11mths apart too. Not to worry, you gonna be fine. You will look back and smile.. It will all end in praise. Abortion???! It's a no no mamma twins! Lol.

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    7. @annon, I don't get it too. In fact is annoying when they say am too young for this....please babe's let's be mentally prepared b4 we venture into marriage. Poster 2. Please don't touch that child, after this please do family planning ooo is not a sin, d'hell!!!

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    8. P2 dnt abort that child. I beg of u

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    9. This coming Saturday, one very naive girl is still going to silence all the doubts in her heart, all the signs being thrown her way and still marry one pretentious bamboo and six months later, we will all read her sad story in chronicles! Marriage is not by force my people! "We women" know how to silence that inner voice that warns us and it's not a good thing. Poster one, The Lord is your muscle!
      Poster 2, touch not that baby! He/She is God's gift. He put that baby in there so he's going to provide for the baby!
      Also, consider the use of condoms or pills okay? It's not a taboo for married couple to use them

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    10. Poster 1...Leave.....If u die eventually fr him strangling u...Are u goung to take the "70 percent" with u??...Who would take care of your child???

      Poster1...my first child was six months when i got pregnant again. My 2nd is 3 months now, and im doing just fine. It isnt easy, but u will make it. Tell your husband to find a part time job, and add to his main job....

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    11. Poster 1: u amaze me,so after dating one guy u moved to the next friend, n u want bliss in ur marriage coupled with just 3months of dating.. Nne enjoy.
      Poster 2: my dear u r d one that know how ur finances r,if ur first is a boy do d needful if not nne think "Wat if"... Discuss with ur husband,what Eva u guys think is right for ur situation.

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    1. P1: Sweetheart, u married a stranger, a man u didn't know and now d consequences are haunting u. But God can make it beautiful if u give it to Him.

      Ur problem is not ur in laws. Ur problem is ur husband. He is d one inciting his family against u and tarnishing ur image. When u know d root of a problem, then can solution be found. Ur husby is d root of ur problem.

      U put ur money into ur house but right now ur sanity, ur life and ur peace of mind should take priority. For a man who is physically abusive, pls separate from him temporarily(I didn't say leave d marriage) before he kills u.

      Temporary separation to (1) get some space to clear ur head and have ur peace of mind and (2) to resort to prayerfully waiting on God for ur husband. Ur husby needs spiritual help and maybe all he needs is a praying wife to go on her knees and intercede for him.

      God wants u to enjoy ur marriage not to endure it. Don't look for quick fixes. People think prayer is worthless or that God is too slow so they opt for a quick fix out of their problem. Quick fixes may provide temporary relief but it won't permanently solve ur problem.

      But a prayer made in faith does wonders. It's time to turn to God and pray. When ur husby is restored, he will be able to stand by ur side and stop every interference from his family.

      There is nothing more u can do. May God guide ur heart.

      P2: Pls ,in God's name, don't touch that baby. God is well able to provide for u to take care of that life so u have no excuse.

      Don't judge urselves from ur present condition rather look thru God's eyes and see. Ur situation can change for d better tomorrow and then will u b able to live with d regret of having terminated d life of ur own child?

      Keep that baby. Years from now, u will look back and rejoice that u spared dat precious life. No condition is permanent. Ur children won't go hungry as God lives.

      When my first child was just three months I took in again. It's nothing unusual. It's a beautiful thing.
      Congratulations dear.

      There's so much u need to know! Pls check out my blog mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com and get informed in sex, marriage, family, end-time issues and spirituality.

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    2. Hian! This ur comment long oh


      Eheen SDKers am avin a hard time gettin a blog id...wats d way forward biko

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    3. Remain anonymous my dear!

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  3. Em Jay, try it today and see what I will do to you. Just gotten my blog id..

    Have not eaten since yesterday. First to comment.

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    1. Lmao continue with ur starvation, u r not the first

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    2. Sorry dear, u are not the first to comment. Try hard next time.

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    3. Rotflmfao! So many different characters on this blog. Smh!

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    4. I am laughing so hard now. Please,go n eat.

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    5. Hahahaha. Stories many. Abeg fast

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  4. Let me perch and read comments.
    I could use some advice myself

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    1. Dear poster one, quick question for you.

      If one day that man strangles you and from there you go and meet your saviour, what will be your gain in that house you contributed 70% to?



      Think long and hard then pray and make your decision.

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  5. Poster one what yeye life savings? Oya stay there let them run you mad. Be doing Yes sir yes ma to a man child and his abusive family. Nigerian women and marriage haba

    Poster 2 family planning, condoms are cheap, abortion is risky and expensive una no dey hear

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    1. Poster 1, u have to plan ur exit carefully, starting from now. Start moving ur things from that house, d things ur horseband wouldn't notice. U have to have a plan for each day that passes by and u need a friend to achieve that. Then on d final day of ur moving clear d house, ur horseband must not come back to find a pin in that house. Keep them somewhere till u're ready to move them to ur family house but PLEASE leave that marriage before he kills u. If u can't sell d house and he would definitely not agree for u guys to sell and split d money just clear d place and run for ur dear life before u become physically & emotional damaged.
      Leave and start a new life for urself and ur child before he brings in his new wife o, cos since his sisters have said it it will happen. U better run out of that marriage.

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  6. Poster 1
    Please, opt for a divorce. It's not by force to stay put in a marriage that's robbing you of your sanity. Divorce him abeg!!
    In as much as dating a person for years doesn't guarantee knowing the person wholly, but it does help at times. Stop rushing into things. You are in your 20s, I wonder why the rush.

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  7. Poster 1

    Well done oh. See as you dey make ur hubby be like demonic fool for our eye. I will never underestimate the importance of a two-sided story. You are the angel, i hear you. I greet you angelic poster. Everybody just hate you like that? na wa oh. Stories that touch

    Poster 2

    You need a job, you no mention your skills or familiar fields. Abi na menial job, house help, blow job or smtn. Please provide complete info next time with age and all, so people can have a better picture of where you can fit in.





    Stella, I dont love you

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    1. Oga Chauvinist,u too I greet ur own chauvinistic poster.lol!so what makes u think it's not possible for her inlaws to hate her just like dat?there is an adage that says,if u marry bad husband,come marry bad inlaws join,den u are finished!and dis is an example.such inlaws are always on alert against anything a wife of d family does cos they were never happy she took their space nyway!but her hubby should be her protection,but in dis case he is a lying immature boy that wants to be d saint,this scenario is very possible.i am so sad for this poster cos I understand how it feels.and she no get mind,she no get work!thats a double jeopardy.madam give dat man space,if he doesn't miss u and repent,just leave him and his cursed family.u are too young for all dese.

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    2. .....lol @blowjob!this guy u are sick
      Btw am sure dats d only kind of job u can offer her.poster keep off.
      Don't I just hate u too?on behalf of Stella....lol

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    3. Hmmmmmm I was kinda thinking the same thing. Poster didn't say what caused the sudden change in her hubby. But some men are wicked.. Whatever you do will not be enough either way

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    4. Reading in between the lines from poster one's story, one would deduce that she either talks rudely to her husband whilst claiming part ownership of the house or she insults the guy's family infront of him. Reading where she said she wasn't gonna leave the house because she spent her life savings in it, one doesn't need to be told there's clash of ownership and authority between the couple. That's practically the reason why her in laws wants to refund her the money she spent in building the said house. She sounds domineering and authoritative. Woman be submissive to your husband and stop dragging equality with him so you can enjoy your home. There's no way his family would just gang up against you for no reason. Watch how you talk to him.

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    5. Anonymous 18:44, biko how does she sound rude in any part of her story?? I no understand you o.

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    6. Well she has looked at it from another angle. Which might be true. I have to say o have met manipulative and domineering women
      ah if not of discernment you can never tell. They play the victim card well well. They don't tell you what lead yo reaction.
      In life you know you attract what you got. What type of relationship e be? Looks to me like some revenge. Your ex friend. Introduced by your ex. Men are vengeful oh. Did you treat your ex right? Y'ALL are bunch of selfish people.
      Ask for your money Get your money,break all soul ties fast and pray and start afresh by receiving God's love. Have your documents in tact. Title deed.

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    7. And being domineering, rude n authoritative is enuf reason for him to strangle her. U are very funny oh. Pity ur wife

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  8. Was it desperation that made u build a house for ur husband? Cos a house which u have 70% stake in is practically yours. Je ne comprehend pas o!!

    P2 manage jor! U weren't careful.

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    1. I no get oo!
      Seem she used her whole savings while working....d things women do for love!

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  9. Poster 2. Do not touch that child. Please. Otherwise his blood will cry out to God for justice. By the way, how do you know who he'll be when he is grown? Or what makes you sobsure you would have other kids? The God that put that baby there is able to provide for all your needs and who knows, the baby's arrival might even open doors for you!

    Poster 1. Maybe a separation would help you and your hubby. E-hugss

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    1. lol at his blood will cry out for justice. Se na Africn magic be this? Mscheew

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  10. @1, ur inlaws called u a fool, to be honest u are indeed a fool, u resigned from ur job without telling ur hubby and ur so called inlaws to find u a job or provide money to start a business before resigning, abeg get d hell outta dat house or care ur cross after all marriage is for better for worse.
    @2, u don't ve money but u like fuck, wat happened to condom and pills, abeg carry ur cross.

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    1. Why do you always have negative advice or are u a sadist?

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  11. POSTER1 You mean you married a guy introduced to you by your EX??? Loool Your value is LOST!!!! Only God will restore it

    @SHB

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  12. Pls single ladies should enjoy their singlehood. Marriage is not worth all this drama.

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    1. U think so? Marriage is beautiful with God on ur side and the right partner. Change ur orientation pls

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    2. Whoever told u dat , marriage is beautiful with God an ur side and the right partner. Change ur orientation.

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    3. I am telling u! I will rock my singleness till whenever anybody who wan asm me wey ur husband? Thunder go fire them well well

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    4. Nwa Amaka that is not true

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  13. Poster 1, so you want to remain in an abusive marriage because of what you invested in it? They've asked you to calculate that they'll pay you back,if they do please use it to go and start something if they don't please move out as soon as possible. You don't belong there. You need to be alive for your child.

    Poster 2 please don't touch that child.

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  14. @poster 1 your really suffering from emotional abusive, nothing as bad as that, sorry about your ordeal, you shouldn't be concerned about what percentage you have there but should be concerned about ur health, if you really want to stay then you should intensify effort in getting another job or let your parents raise cash for u, so u start a business. In all pls be prayerful and look for a strong man of God to break the curse u talk about.

    @ poster biko don't abort oh, children re blessing its well drop ur email so we can get in touch and contribute the little we can, but try and be careful, look for the best family planning method. Its well

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  15. Poster1,u dated him for 3months,and met him through his frnd u dated before? So bcos of ur share in d property and all that u want to die,even wen him attempted to strangle u,call ur family and his ma,make una talk una mind,but don't forget to also go on ur knees,

    Poster2,leave dat baby plssssss.


    ********LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******

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  16. RE: NARARIVE ONE;;
    WHY DO PEOPLE RUSH INTO MARRIAGE????????? WOMEN SHOULD NEVER ABANDON THEIR OWN LIFE FOR THE SAKE OF MARRIAGE. IT TAKES ONLY A FEW HONORABLE MEN TO STILL HONOR THEIR WIFE WHEN SHE STOPS WORKING.. ASK THEM FOR YOUR MONEY, BEFORE THEY POISON YOU IN THAT HOUSE. YOU'VE REALLY BELITTLED YOURSELF THERE. KINDLY STROLL AWAY...

    RE: NARRATIVE TWO
    NO WORDS.... or let me say JESUS FIX IT!

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  17. Rule num 1.advise 2 single ladies out there,no matter hw rich ur hubby is pls get a job or smth doing b4 getting married.if paradventure u get married wtout one pls as am typing this msg go put out ur cv there or learn a skill.teaching jobs are nt so hard 2 get.if not inlaws goo see ya finish,even hubby sef at some point.poster 1.pls go get another job and have ur respect and self esteem back.pele dear

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  18. Poster 1: listen t Stella"s advice.
    SteLla nwunye Kork u tooo gbaski today.

    Cheers

    E-hug

    Poster 2: pls don't take out dt innocent child in ur womb cos u dnt even knw d one dt wud stay. Wot if u abort now, and ur 1st child dies Lata? Wot wud becom of u? Wisdom is profitable t direct. D Lord dt gives children wud giv u n ur hubby wot t train dem with. Be strong inugo!


    Cheers


    E-hug

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  19. @poster 1........sincerely dunno what to tell u.....but i pray God fixes ur predicament.
    Poster 2:....sorry..next time, use a more effective birth control method.....condom is only abt 85% effective or thereabout.....but dont kill that child growing inside u......he/she might be ur joseph.....or u can give it to someone else.....there r many women who who gladly give up an arm for a baby.
    @ Aunty Stella, she said she was careful....which means she used protection....it just didnt work out as expected.....surgical removal of d mans' sperm duct or d womans' oviduct is 100% effective.........which one is Nigerian couples dont use condoms again?......if u r guilty of d same thing like u said above, do u think u should judge anyone?.....really?.....even with some of these birth control methods, they'll ask u to use condoms along with it.....to grant u less chance of getting pregnant.....

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    1. When Nigerian's say they are being careful, it's usually withdrawal or billing method.

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  20. Poster 1 - Please I beg of you in the name of God forget about the money you put into that house and leave with your child. You are so bless to have a family that loves you and even encourages you to leave. Please go home to your parents. They would rather have you alive than dead. There is no future for you in your husbands house unless Jesus make it so. Hand over everything to God and leave. God will give you back your money in other ways. What is a marriage without peace of mind.

    Poster 2 - It will get worse before it gets better. The Lord is your strength. Whatever you do, please do not remove the child.

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  21. P1 pray God to deliver ur DH from every generational curse and family hold. I tell single ladies to run away from guys who are still tied to the apron strings of their mum or sister's. A man who can't make a decision himself is not ready for marriage. Nobody decides for me or my hubby. When u get to hear about anything from us it's a decision nd not asking for ur opinion.

    Wen DH wanted to marry me, his entire family refused but he stood his ground nd told them even if he doesn't marry me he won't marry their choice or spec. And I don't go seeking any inlaws approval. I stay on my lane, call them once in a while, Infact they call me more and respect my self. Familiarity breeds contempt they say.

    Poster stay away from them and go on ur knees but leave that house if he threatens your life or lays his hands on you.

    Jesus fix it

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  22. Plus I just created my blog Id. Used to comment as P........ wife but I changed cos it's d season of change. Any goody for the newbie?

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  23. Poster 1 if I type now, cyham cakes and her gang will tell me how Internet remembers everything... But ur story, I can relate with.....

    Poster 2, will read comments on top ur matter.

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    1. @poster1 : did you say all your life savings are in that house?
      Ok,continue the suffering and smiling
      Na only you waka come!
      @poster2 : you are on your own!

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    2. Sharaaaap madam. You are becoming a nuisance here. Respect ur bespectacled face

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    3. LOLZ @bespectacled face. She is a pretty woman so go siddon for shit.

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  24. poster 1, I will advise you and your husband have a heart to heart talk, If he is no longer in love with you and wants to end the marriage, pls leave alive b4 he turns violent.
    Poster 2, Pls DO NOT ABORT the baby, you are not wiser than God, His plans for you and that of man is not the same.

    This is my very 1st comment on this blog!

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    1. Hell no,he doesn't have a heart she will talk to,he's family has taken the heart.just walk away but if you want to remain .take it to God.no case is too difficult for him to handle.
      Poster2:My 1st baby was7month when I discovered I was 7weeks gone for another one and I breast fed her till 9months.the 2nd one was 11months old and another one was already on the way same with the 4th one.if u see them now u won't believe I had them with such age difference. If your hubby isn't capable just get a teaching job.am happy with them and with my self.
      #Just Glamour

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  25. First poster, are you sure you aren't living in hell? Because your story can only happen to someone living in hell. What are you still living in that house? I have two elder brothers who are married and you'd have to put a gun to their heads before you hear them say anything negative about their wives. Is it not when they say something negative that we can interfere? For where, they are as mute as mute when it comes to their wives and tell me, why won't we respect their wives? Your husband still has a lot of growing up to do.

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    1. Bamm!
      I learned the hard way
      never listen to the ranting of your siblings'. Them go take your name run am too for their spouse.
      So when they rant all I say ndoh sorry. Mouth sealed.
      Just learnt psalm has the quote 101:5 he that slandereth his neighbour him will I cut off.
      You have come off under the authority and the lions may get you.
      You can't love any one and slander them.

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    2. I just love you. Despite all the cussing out you received sometime ago on this blog, it didn't deter you. You are so mature and your advice on any issue shows it. May I say you are the definition of a true woman.
      For those who'll come here saying I'm a boot-licker, na una sabi. I say give honor to those who deserve it.

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    3. Andromeda I concur. Oluyomi has always been a very calm bv. I just love her composure. Don't mind the trolls and continue to rise above the hate darling.

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    4. Andromeda i agree with u. I have observed this lady and i like her spirit. She is also mature

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  26. First Poster give yourself a break before u break down. And take your child with u. U married a weakling! Dont think about the things u put into d marriage. Cos it will be hard to get them back. This is Nigeria. I would have said get yourself a good lawyer but u said u aint working. I think u should focus on getting a job. So that u can be stable a little before u leave or if u have a place to stay, leave then get a job. start making money n supporting yourself and YOUR child. Ignore, i repeat ignore your husband's people in d best way u can including ur husband. Dont be disrespectful but avoid him. Act like u dont give a hoot again. CHANGE. He will be surprised. Never cry in his presence again! But most importantly, try and get a job. Cos when u have ur own money, u become more confident. Goodluck. Second poster please dont abort it. #my2cents

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  27. Abeg stella has said it all.
    Poster1; leave your marriage. They will gather and strangle you one day. Your husband is married to his family and has no respect for you.
    Poster2; It will be well no abortion.

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  28. Poster 1 ... I honestly dont understand this your epistle..na only u waka come? Hian o! Marriage is not a do or die thing .. Take a break... reassess your life! All these men that will be forming saints when courting and monsters in marriage...GOD is looking at y'all in 3D. Poster2 ...I pray you get the help you need ....My own is dont touch that child!

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  29. Poster 1 pls leave d marriage, look for a job & move on with ur life..Wish u d best..
    Poster 2 may got fix it for uu.

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  30. TEMPORARY STELLA??WEN DE HUSBY IS LUKIN TOWRDS DECMBER TO MARRY ANOTHER WIFE??HE WIL SAY SHE LEFT HS HOUSE TO COMIT ADULTRY AS SHE IS TERMED AN ADULTEROUS..BABE UR CASE GET AS E BI OOH,DTS ONE THNG ABT LIVIN ONES JOB CUZ DT NYC MAN WIL SOO CHNGE WEN HE FEELS U R A LIABILITY..I PRY GOD HLP AND VISIT U..LET DEM NOT MYN DIA BUSINES BT BE ABUSIN U..IGNORE DEM ALL IF U CN AS IF DEY DNT EXIST, DONT SNOOP AGN, CUZ WAT U DNT KNW WNT PAIN U..EVN IF U KNW DEY WIL CALL U NAMES OR TALK ANYHW ABT U TRY TO BLANK DEM N B FINDIN CONSOLATION FROM UR FAMILY..NO2...DONT DSTURB DT BBY IN DE WOMB, GOD CAN SUPRISE U THRU DT BBY..TOMJERRYSWIT

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  31. NA TO SELL THAT HOUSE O...MID TWENTIES??AND U DATED HIS CLOSE FRIEND BFOR...U SPOIL VERY EARLY KWA OOO

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  32. I dont just know why some women cant stay out of their brother's or son's marriage.

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  33. Poster 1; have you tried talking to the Holy spirit?

    Poster 2: keep the baby. After this one , start using a contraceptive as early as 2 weeks post delivery. Do exclusive breastfeeding (it's cost effective ) while u look for job. The older baby already has things the new baby can use.

    U can still look for job now at least you re not showing yet. It won't ve easy but it'd doable.

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  34. Poster 1, so you dated this guy for just 3mths? where we'r you running to at ur age. I wld have said stick to d marriage, but this one u said ur hubby is strangling you on several occasions, I fear for ur safety and that of ur child.
    I advice you go and stay with ur parents for like a mnth, clear ur head and let ur mum advise u. She is in a better position to do that. Put ur marriage in prayers.
    Poster 2, I don't advise married people to abort o. You might start regretting the decision. D deed has been done. Just go to d hospital after delivery and let them fix IUD for u, or some other form of birth control, so u don't get pregnant a 3rd time. Ween ur kids 2geda and when dey are abit older you start job searching again. In d mean time if u can find a small scale biz u can be doing from ur home, it can help.

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  35. Poster 1: If you continue to stay because of your stake in the home what happens if you he kill you and eventually marry another woman, won't he still take all? Just try I get job a job first if means going back to where your families are for the right contact then later with money and power at your disposal fight for what is yours.
    Poster 2: If you understand what it is trying to get pregnant you will keep the baby, don't forget some even after first child they try for ages.

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  36. Poster 1. My people will think I asked you to write this on my behalf. What???. No wonder they say whatever you are going through in life, someone else somewhere has gone through it or is currently going through it. The only difference between you and I was that I had no child for him. I have once posted my chronicle here sometime last year, My dear, after posting my chronicle here, I got so many positive advice that made me stand up for myself. I left the marriage empty, not even a pin. God has turned my life around for good. Ah. God thank you. I have found peace like a river. I am yet to get married again but trust me I am warming up for a chronicle of hope here. May God give you wisdom. Its well with you.

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  37. Poster. 2, I understand your situation please don't touch that baby! My baby is 8months old and I even wish to take in again but because am currently job hunting I had to slow down but if it happens I will gladly accept it. I understand it can be soo depressing atimes but please don't touch that innocent baby, at the end of it all you will be happy you did.
    Same thing happened to my sister, her first child was just 6months when She took in but today they are fine.
    God's grace in your job search

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  38. Poster 1 it's such a pity u are in this situation but all hope ain't lost. Pls get a job or business doing. I know it ain't easy and all. pls remember these are trying times and only God can pull u through. Weeping may endure in the night but joy cometh in the morning. Seek the face of God like never before. Go on a 7 days dry fasting and break every chain that he's in because it ain't normal.

    Poster 2, I was a nursing mum of a 9months old girl when I took in for my second baby. Pls u will survive. Just get into a business. Look for something to do! U will be fine.

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  39. Poster 1 d only I can say is dat your hubby is a Fool.

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  40. I've been trying to comment for almost a year now without luck until I saw the steps in in house news. Pls welcome me officially into the family Lool. Anyway poster 1, I think you should look for a job and damn what your husband will say. Marriage is not a do or die affair and if you aren't happy then walk out. I know it's not easy but you will finally Be at peace the minute you do so. That husband of yours doesn't deserve you so your mind should be on your children. The minute your husband sees that you don't need him anymore I bet he will come crawling back to u. I wish u good luck

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  41. Today's chronicle is not sweet

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    1. U want d one d woman will say her husband beat her to death and she resurrected and went to hell abi. .see ur head like iron sponge. .

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    1. P1: I have to give an unbiased view. I may be wrong....
      Now you're in your mid 20s (abt 25)..How long have you been married? How many years did you work before resigning? In my mind, even if u graduated at 20, were through with service at 22, then uld have worked about 3years Or less before u resigned last year. How is it that you were able to contribute 70% to the building of a house? It's possible but I'm still wondering..
      To the part of the house, How was it bought? In whose name? Hubby's name? His brother's name? Or did you ignore these details in the beginning. Now that things are bad, have you make effort to find out where the land documents are kept. Do you have copies of co-owned property? I hope these are not in the names of his parents Or family members.

      Your family has asked you to come home. This is rare, and yet you want to live in a home where you are being strangled, literally!!! Is money worth more than life? If you could make money to build a house, don't you have confidence that you can do better Even if you have to start afresh?

      Finally, u say u ask friends to help to support your family and hubby fights them. Does this mean that you take your family problems out to friends while hubby takes his to his family? Should We judge with double standards?

      I feel your marriage is still young and the power tussle is overwhelming you both. I believe that there isn't a marriage that Can't be fixed. But at this point, I wish you could take a step back. It would be good if you go home to your parents for a break. On the other hand, if you feel another woman may take over your home if you give any gap, then you need to learn How to be very patient. Try not to be emotionally involved in conversation. Listen, think well before you reply. You can get a counsellor to help. At least That's a person you can share your thoughts with and get good advice.

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  43. N1 sell d house and take ur own share n leave b4 u leave in a coffin. I know it isn't easy but it's obvious d whole family is against u n u re all alone,so pls bounce. It will surely be well again. N2, dis case normally happen after first issue, so try n no how to handle it but pls don't remove d baby. Goodluck.

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  44. Another Inlaw-related trammel......a lot of families are not just getting it right with the way they handle family expansion via marriage....over interference and meddling in activities they have no business in.
    Excerpts from my comment on tuesday's chronicle reads.....'we need to fix our mindset, and also train our kids to be self dependent without over interference in their actions and decisions. This would have an added benefit to male kids as they grow to understand how to protect their immediate family(wife n kids) from unnecessary external issues including MIL interference' This comes to play in today's chronicle as well.

    Truth is, we need to continuously preach PEACE and LOVE in this country cos some peeps are soo hate-filled and unwilling to change. Why would a family treat a human this way??

    Dear Poster, you need to stand your grounds and stop taking crap from them. Pick your self esteem and live to please yourself and your child.....take a break from them and get talking with your family, make a plan, and a back-up and other back-ups if necessary and seek counsel from a lawyer regarding how to recover 'your input' in the house as you said.
    Whatever the case may be, be careful with the 'weakling' you got married to...if he is attempting to strangle you and can't protect his wife from external forces and interference then you are at a position of high risk and any situation that goes out of hand can trigger a quarrel that might have drastic consequences. Also, always rmbr to pray when you are down and lift your spirit, donot stay down for long dear...this is a time to ACT. Wish you the best.



    Li-yon Vls.

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    1. Haha Li I have tea your Tuesday comment and laughed out loud with you.
      Haha but I do indeed agree.
      Impose control yes, emotional manipulation and pity party must go.

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  45. Sorry p1 listen to stella

    p2.......DON'T TOUCH THAT CHILD, why can't you see it as a blessing

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  46. Stella yaf talk it finish

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  47. Poster 1, u are apparently fed up with the marriage but looking for someone to tell u what ur heart already knows. And u keep insisting u don't want to leave the house(not marriage) when u have invested a lot in it. Obviously u value the house more than the marriage, so I advise u revaluate ur life and find out what's important and what u really want. Only u my dear can tell urself that.
    P2, In Nigeria, d onus tends to lie more on the woman for family planning than on d men. So my dear, u should have seen to it that u dont get pregnant till u are ready cos u can never be too careful (referring to ur coitus interruptus). Have ur child, TOP is not an option at all and soon afterwards, please go and enroll for family planning. There are lots of centres and family planning methods readily available and easily accessible.

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  48. Poster 1, how many times have we advised ladies here, NEVER to resign their jobs when they get married, no matter what? Your MIL don't want to see you? You met him through his close friend, whom you dated before? Why hurry to get married if not pregnant? My guess is that, he did not want to marry you initially, but use and dump you, but things changed. 3 months is too short a time to know anybody! OBEY YOUR PARENTS AND LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE! When you are at your parents house, hire a good lawyer to make him either sell the house or pay you off. BUT, with a family of generational curse and probably into fetish things, are you safe? Another wife coming in December? SMH, and you want to STILL stay because of property?

    Poster 2, DON'T ABORT THE PREGNANCY! You are not the first or last it will happen to! You are not financially buoyant, yet you have sex without protection? Children come with their blessings. You have 7 months to plan for the baby.

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  49. P1, if I want to say whats on my mind now tomorrow someone will come out and say the complete opposite of what you narrated here. So I say to you let God take control. It is well. P2, children are blessings in disguise. Even in that condition you will see that before you know it everything will change for you and your man in no time

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  50. Poster 1,i am going to Ask God to FIX dis for u.
    God FIX THIS For Our Dear Sister.
    CHAI! Some Men are not worthy to be Called Humans oooo Let Alone Husband....CHAI.

    Nne Kasie...
    U are fighting soo many battles.Ur hubby,MIL Aunty,Uncle,FIL,Maid in law,all of dem!
    CHAI...have u told ur people oo?let dese people not go and kill u ooo...
    Inukwanu bikonu...
    Nne Kasie oooo....
    Take heart oooo....


    Poster 2,u see say ur own no be problem.After reading From Poster 1,u seem to be having Γ  Party on A Beach!
    Congratuations!

    #SourMood#
    #NwanyiIbem

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  51. Orisirisi......
    U were enjoying sex without a common condom!!!!
    What were u expecting? I guess a blackberry passport!!
    If u touch dat baby dat didn't ask to be brought to this world, u will see what will happen to u after u "TRY".....mtschewwwwwww.....iranu

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  52. P2

    You have nothing to worry about. You new baby will be born when the old one is about one and a half year old. You will not reget it. This thing happens a lot when both parties are very fertile. It's after this you start a proper dedicated family planning to space. The suffering is more of an imagination than real. You have nothing to worry if your first child is healthy. Eight months of breastfeeding is good enough to stop and being baby food and also keep uorself healthy. Good luck.

    P2

    Today's generation insist the way to go is only by befriending someone and then squeezing marriage from it. There is nothing wrong with it as long as it is done with ones head and not one's groin. But sadly most people do it with their groins. A man or woman who uses his or her head in a relationship of any kind would get a sound idea of what the other person is like through a few days conversation. Tell man or woman that does not start with packaging at the early stage of a relationship yet giving out hints only the the discerning will catch. There are so many innocent hints always dropped unconsciously by everyone. How to get these hints and avoid avoidable is a matter for another day. So your problem is that your husband is not a man of his own. As it is now your only road is to end the marriage. First leave the house. If his father was shocked to hear he tried strangling you as you said you can then see that his mother runs his father, a fact a real smart discerning person will pick from innocuous discussions if your groin allows you to have your antenna working. That you passed from his close friend to him like people smoking cigga makes you worthless on arrival for a man that is not his own man. Don't be ashamed of yourself because over ninety nine percent of men today are marrying women left for them by other men due to the menace or relationship( I call our wives of today leftovers, no porn intended because some men left over for me and left over some women for other men). So leave the marriage with or without asking for support from him. Ignore amy plea. Restart your life. Accept it as the consequences of your own voluntary decision. They only way to shame them is to call their bluff. When you stand back on your feet and his next wife who knows the kind of fily he's from ang gets a favourable commitment from him before marrying him, when she starts rubbing his lip on the group d he will come back to you and you will give him conditions he will sweat blood to meet and he will do anything to to meet it. How I wish spinsters would learn

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    1. Bam bam you nailed it.
      So y all the fuss Bvs being called leftovers? Does it define you lot?
      Any way back to the point. True we women turn to ignore the signs during courtship.
      You have a supportive family..let pride not overtake common sense

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  53. @ Poster 2:somethings are avoidable,what happened to contraceptives,Condom,withdrawal method and even abstinence from sex,since you just had a baby,when sex is not food and you know there is financial issue.....well,my advice is that you should not abort the baby...Everything will be fine...Ogadinma.

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  54. Poster 1: Stella has said it all. U guys should sell the house, take ur share and leave. Simple.
    Poster 2: I won't say it's ur fault sha. Children r blessings from God. A job will come soonest

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  55. Poster numero une-Get a job ,do buying and selling if you cant get a job ,do anything to earn money ,then you can get your life and respect back ,some people mistake this thing called marriage for slavery .
    Post 2-abeg u are two months pregnant ,by when you will be 9months your nursing baby is already walking ,so dont touch that child growing inside you .

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  56. Is it not how one of my future sis inlaw is forming for me, like we are on the same level....who get her time kwanu, if not for MIL that is disturbing me to be close with all of them........
    In other news i'm getting married in some days time

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    1. Hahahaha u just cracked me up
      Congrats o! May God Bless ur union.amen.

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  57. N1, Please take a break before you die in that trap you call marriage. If possible, let go of the so-called investment and start afresh. God willing, you will get a good job and take care of yourself and baby. The mistake you made was leaving your job to please your wicked In-laws.
    N2, 8 months is not too bad na. Haba! You can cope with it. Except for the financial condition yet you should have considered that before eating the apple. Atleast, you should have protected yourself. Whatever, don't tamper with that pregnancy please. Children come with blessings. I pray you get ur divine connection soon.

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  58. Poster 1 I would not advice any woman to leave her home but this one is draining you pls leave asap. If a mil cannot let her son take care of his Wife and child it means she doesn't like her son let alone her dil
    Poster 2 pls kip day pregnancy my mum got pregnant 3mths after her first child
    You will do just fine after all
    I will give anything just to be pregnant but I believe God's time is the best

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  59. Poster 1 my heart broke for you when u said your hubby left you in the car to go in and eat.i don't even want to imagine how you would have felt.am really sorry for all you are passing through,I think you need to leave that environment entirely.your peace of mind is worth more than any material thing.do you want your child to watch you suffer?God will reward your inlaws with the type of wife they deserve.emotional torture is the worst type because it eats you from inside.please don't let this consume your life and define your future.poster 2 please leave that baby alone!! God bless u!

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  60. @poster 1, plz go with Stella's advice, Plz save ursef and ur baby b4 dat immature husband of urs strangles u to death next time, poster 2, nxt time use condoms, pills or coil

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  61. nawa for some inlaws...
    poster 1- be strong
    poster 2-na wetin too much prick dey cause be that..leave that baby.

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  62. @1st Poster,your hubby is the cause of all the insults from his family members.He isnt man enough.He should stop reporting you already. I hate men with this kind of attitude

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  63. Poster 1 it is well
    Poster 2 you don't have problem

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  64. Second poster
    I just discovered that the high rate of abortion in this country is done by married women,but the way you lot hang the stigma on single ladies is shocking.

    Why are you worried about the age gap?
    I can understand the financial part you mentioned but my dear there is nothing wrong with that age gap.
    As long as you have assistance from your hubby,you can swing this!
    This is coming from experience,Lol
    Am even preparing for the next!!!!

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  65. Narrative 1: you dated him for just 3 months??? I won't say you were desperate cos you are in your mid 20s. Anyways, verbal abuses hurts as much as domestic violence.

    Was the apartment bought or rented? If rented, then whenever he's away from town, pack everything and disappear. He aint worth your tears.


    Narrative 2: I aint taking any chances. Why will my kids be of the same age bracket. I will use pills oh! Sex is not that sweet to make me get pregnant yearly.

    Pls DO NOT abort that child.

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  66. There is always 3 sides to a story! Not even 2. For the whole family to be against u. Haba. There is more to this issue. Na so i see am O! But in any case, leave once u are not happy. Life is very short to live the rest in pains.

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  67. poster 1. Is the house owned by you and your hubby or is it 70% contents of the house that you have a stake in. Pls if it is the latter, just leave, God will replace if its the former, get a lawyer to help you have a clean break.

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  68. Poster 1: I guess your husband is one of this Uchenna and Uchennas. If you are Igbo person, you will understand. Is he the only guy in the house? Is he surrounded with many sisters? Now, stand up and raise off the dust from yourself. Start searching for a job seriously, don't rely on him any longer. If you still have some savings, start up any business. Hold yourself to high esteem. I will advise you not to leave, stop crying for them. Take your cries to God because your husband is the main problem here. Why did he marry for the first place, he would have married his sisters nah. It is well dear.
    Poster 2: Don't touch the baby, the baby might be luck carrier. Be careful next time. And beside, 1year and 3months or 4months is enought time to have another baby. 2nd pregnancies are sometimes like that.

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    1. Say again.
      Lord those domineering and abusive

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  69. #1 Everything can still work out for good if you trust God. You have made a mistake by not using the opportunity you had before saying 'I do'.
    If you really wanna leave don't rush, make sure you get a lawyer first for advice on how to sell th3 house so as to get your money back but pray.
    You can as well talk to God first after it, wake yr man up in the night and have a talk with him. God still does wonder.
    The only weapon you need now is prayer not money.
    #2 - You will experience sleepless nights as a result of not controlling yourself. My friend hear'am, hers was 2 months n she took in- mbok the stress no be here. Nobody told her to do the needful after that 2.
    I don't feel pity for you and do not touch that child.
    Nothing like careful o cos me I don't joke with condoms. I dey even back'am up with prayers make e no enter sounds funny but na God dey do'am cos He knows my heart. Bear it and start saving for the arrival of the baby and you can learn hand work to support.

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  70. Poster 1;If your story is not one sided, is better you take a break ,marriage is not a do or die transaction. May God help you to take the right decision.

    Poster 2; You know get issue, just make sure you include family planning as part of your plan after you give birth.

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  71. Poster1.what kind of life savings do you have in that house
    Your hubby is not man enough,move on
    Poster 2.dont abort that baby
    You and your hubby should learn withdraw method

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  72. @poster1 this same issue was dealt with on YourView TVC dis morning, well my advice is get your parent involved, Also get a job as soon as possible.
    @Poster2 it is well, but please don't abort the baby.

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  73. N1, is not as innocent as she is painting herself. everybody can not just hate you. Search yourself. Mtcheeew. You are so good yet you dated his close friend then switched to him. You are good, your in-laws are bad abi? Yea right.

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  74. @poster1 this same issue was dealt with on YourView TVC dis morning, well my advice is get your parent involved, Also get a job as soon as possible.
    @Poster2 it is well, but please don't abort the baby.

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  75. Poster 1: m sorry, but I'll be rude here. You're being abused n ur waiting for ur life savings? If dey kill u now, will u go with d "life savings?". Use ur head woman n leave that marriage! Go back home to ur people and start from scratch, u said u worked before. Dust ur Cv and look for a job, if u don't find, try n do business but pls leave that family before u become a walking corpse( which it's obvious u r already). Goodluck!

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  76. @ poster 2. Keep your baby. The storm will pass.

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  77. Our wives are LEFT-OVERS? How can you use such a word to describe women? No pun intended? If that be the case, your sister is also a leftover, I don't want to mention your mother, because I don't want to be disrespectful, no 'porn' intended also!
    Men and women date, to find the most compatible partner! Regardless if sex is involved or not! Why is it only women that must have the moralistic sword dangling above their heads? Most men have lost body count and hang it up like a trophy! That is why a King in African is looking for a virgin to marry, as if he is also a virgin!

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  78. P2 I read this and trust me I know where you are coming from. It's all about the finance. I found my self in a similar situation, mine was children and pregnancy with no job and money but I want to let you know that though it will not be easy use the word of God to see yourself through this. Don't think about aborting you will regret it. Better days are ahead of you. Just trust God and keep praying.

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  79. Poster 1. Stay there and fight for your house you hear, maybe when he finally kill you then Angel Michael will help you collect your money and build another one in heaven.
    Na who dey alive they fight for right oo, live that place ASAP and save your life first before you think of your right, thank God you have a family that is ready to take you back.

    But the way u sounded, (up to three month that you people dated, he was nice), what do you expect, u think he will start beating you from when he started dating you? Everybody pretend, both ladies and men, they show you one mumu sweet side and you feel like you in paradise before they expose their real self.

    You can't know someone behavior until you stay with such person for at least 6Months by then you would have known him/her to a reasonable extent, coz the person would have exhausted his chameleon oil and the real self Will come out.

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  80. POSTER NO 1, DO YOU HAVE YOUR NAME ON THE PROPERTY(IES)? YOU NEED TO GET THE HELL OUT OF THE HOUSE TAKING ALL NECCESARY DOCUMENTS WITH YOU BEFORE HE STRANGLED YOU TO DEATH. GOD FORBID.

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  81. Owo ni koko.

    Women, women women, how many times did I call you ?

    Owo ni koko!!!

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  82. Owo in koko.

    Women, women women, how many times did I call you ?

    Owo in koko

    Stella I beg post ooooo. God bless your hustle.

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  83. Poster 1, your husband and his family are slowly rubbing away your sanity. Better save yourself. You can keep some distance from him. Make sure that when you depart (temporarily of course) you hold into something that is dear to him.
    Forget about staying back because of material possessions. Do you have the power to get yourself out of the effects of the abuse you are currently passing through? I bet you can't. Save your self, sanity and dignity now before you go crazy.

    Weasel

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  84. Poster two I was nursing my six month old baby wen I took in for d second n I was desperate n confuse. DH wanted me to remove it, but tank God he change his mind n named my baby wen he was still in d belle n was just three months. Now he is happy, I was working den n i carry my baby to work wit my pregnancy until two days bfore I gave birth. Yes it mit b stressful but I will advice u not to temper wit d pregnancy. If I need a job u can luk for a teaching job. Most private school are looking for mothers bcus of parents demand on ppl to take care of their kids. So just luk for a teaching job instead of a highly paid job dat will not give u dat peace u need to take care of ur kids. #myopinionanyway

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  85. @poster 2,dont worry God will see you thru.mine is 3months difference but we are doing just fine.take care of yourself and make sure you feed your first baby well especially enof milk

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  86. Thanks so very much everyone for the advice.
    I really do not want a broken home for my child
    Guess I jus have to dust myself up
    Narrative 1

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  87. Poster 1 plz try and get yourself a job or start a business, to keep yourself busy and take care of your child.if you are busy and have your own money, the inlaws drama will reduce.

    poster 2, i don't have experience. no comment

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  88. Poster 2, pls don't touch that baby.

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  89. Poster 1 all u need right now is God. Don't stop praying n try n have a heart to heart talk with ur hubby. Find out what is really wrong and d things that u are doing that he doesn't like. Submission is the key woman.secondly, avoid ur husband's family for d time being n work on ur marriage first. God will see you thru. Poster 2. Pls I beg u in the name of God, do not touch that baby. I know of someone that did it after her first issue and is yet to have anoda child 16 years down the line.

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  90. For me..... u can pray o! but that ship has long sailed. I would leave. Ur husband is the problem and not his inlaws. Fight for ur stake in the house. Hope u have proof. Let them give u ur share. Sell it and be sharp and get ur money. He is a good for nothing man. Go back home to ur parents and gradually rebuild ur life. U will find another job and u will be ok but u must take the first step which is to leave!!! Goodluck

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  91. Poster--- believe God and everything will work out for God. My first child was 3 months, I was doing exclusive breastfeeding, studying for my Masters and anxious to find work only to realize I was pregnant with my 2nd. She arrived 2 weeks after. The brother's 1st birthday and is a real joy!!!! Thanks to my loving hubby who was there in everway possible. It was tough, I has no nanny, no help, my boy stopped breastfeeding the day before I gave birth to the sister.

    If you see them today eh.........coolest kids on the planet. People think they are twins...

    Meanwhile, oga didn't touch me after the birth till I got IUD inπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

    So you can do it....and you'll be happy you did!!!! let me tell you a Secret, go do your first scan, hearing the heartbeat will make you fall in love!!!

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