Chronicle Of Blog Visitors Narratives.

Hmmmm the heart is not so smart is it?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

PROPHECIES AND CONSTANT BICKERING AND ITS

EFFECT ON A RELATIONSHIP.

Calvary greeting to you Stella and your lovely family (BVs)

I am a guy in my late 20s, and currently dating a girl who earlier told me we were age mates only to change it later that she is a year older but that is not an issue.

My main grouse is her spiritual rigmaroles, when we started dating two years ago, she came up with a story about her pastor asking us to stop having sex until marriage or else we would suffer financial hardship at the initial stage of our marriage, but upon quizzing her and asking her to give me till evening to decide, she refused and wanted an instant answer, and then went ahead to claim she drank her nail polish in an effort to commit suicide,and that episode killed the whole suggestion from her pastor

Although he later told her she had a spirit husband and I volunteered to join her in her mid-night prayers to break his hold over.

Now, sometime in March, she said a prophet just literally(she has never met him or has he seen her before because he is blind) summoned her and told her about my future and how my father's people will strike her with sickness when it is time for her to enjoy her children, and I being who I am, laughed it off because my father's people are less concerned about me and the feeling is mutual, she also claimed a beggar told her same and her mother's prophet said the exact thing also.

Seeing that it did not work, she came up with a dream and a mad dash to her brother's prophet because a woman wanted to kill her, and the prophet said my mum will disturb her later in the marriage because am her only son, she is using all this claims of unsolicited prophesies because I warned her before about visiting pastors and prophet even though I was born in a white garment church but have since left.

The last camel that broke the horse's back was when the prophet asked me to pray for 7 nights while putting on white clothes that would be discarded after then, I just lost interest in her that moment and all the memories of how she had insulted me silly came flooding back to the extent I was wondering if I really forgave her like I claimed.

My question is, how do I end it without being seen as wicked, besides she has no qualms about ending it because she has ended it over five times and I had to beg even when she was the offending party, now am drifting away and she is feeling worried, can I use the so-called prophecies as a smokescreen?

There is no easy way to ending it..just do it.Tell her you need time alone..say like five years..lol

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO.

WILL THIS WORK OUT?

I have an affair with this man that told me he's divorced but has a baby mama abroad(he's based there) with 3 kids,i am also a single mum.i like him so much hoping that the relationship would lead somewhere but it obviously won't cos he told me before he went back abroad that he's gonna be getting married to he's baby mama next year April. 

Reason why am sending this chronicle is because i am kinda confused a friend of he's that knows about our affair is asking me out 

PS: this friend is single, divorced with no child. 

He seriously wanna date me or even marry me according to what he's been saying. Truth is the friend am seeing is never gonna marry me cos he has a family abroad even though he claims he hasn't married the woman yet. I have more chances with this other guy cos he's single. And we are from like same place even though he's quiet older than I am he's in he's early forties while am in my mid twenties. 

My fears are I really don't wanna look stupid if it doesn't work out between I and the other guy.

What if he just wanna have fun with me?

Please I need your advice cos he's been pressing me for answers but am yet to give him a response 

my dear make i siddon read comments cos if i was to advise you i would tell you to follow your heart and marry him if thats what your heart says...After all guys dumps their girlfriends and marry the girl friends friend or sister and it works out!

Make i siddon,mind my bizness read comments.