Did you walk in to a room and scream OMG? or did you snoop on evidence that
made you scream WTF?
Take deep breath and step forward please....
I dont know what i would do if i am faced with this situation,I cannot even predict how i will react...I guess it would depend on if it was a confirmation via snooping or catching them pants down..
Whichever way,it must be a traumatic thing.
This question is for both Male and Female..
What would you do?
Ever happened to you before?
God forbid.
ReplyDeleteI know one doctor,medical student then at IUO,dude was sleeping with sisters,cheating with the younger one. The elder one never knew,i was made to swear never to let her know. The younger one was just one spoilt evil brat. She got married before the senior one. You should have seen the way the elder one was catering to her even when she gave birth. Chai,i was just boiling inside,wishing I could call her aside n tell her. Thank God she finally married someone who genuinely loves her. Now the younger one is having serious marital issues and I won't say. I feel bad for her.
DeleteAnon. Gist us o. Is the younger one married to a lawyer and lives in d north?
DeleteHmmmm. It has happened and is still happening. Orji Kalu Uzor is sleeping with the wife's younger sis and she has 2 kids for him.
DeleteServes her right.
DeleteGod4bid
ReplyDeleteI will never be in such situation. Gat no female younger ones.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
If he's my bf gbenshing my sis,cousin or my friend (God forbid) i will walk away and never turn back.
ReplyDeleteI haven't been in such a situation!
ReplyDelete#comments will do.
Just wanna read comments.
ReplyDeleteNope.
ReplyDeleteGodforbid, I reject it in Jesus name, Amen.
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DeleteI will be devastated infact let me not think about it
ReplyDeleteNaah stelz! Never happened to me.
ReplyDeleteDnt even knw wat I'll do if found in such situation.
It has never happened to me before. It will really be heart wrenching. I truly don't know how I would react,but I know one thing for sure,that I would have lost a significant other and a sister.
ReplyDeleteJust found out my bf has several girls he is hvin sex with.this is someone I hv neva denied sex.i even gave him anal wen he demanded for it. Now he is cheating I snooped and askd him d only tin he said was hope I got what I am lookin 4 besyds he is nt married. I feel lik a fool.i need d strength 2 walk away I am finding it difficult 2.tired of jumping 4rm 1 relationship 2 anoda.i just want a good man 2 settle with. Sorry Stella I just want 2 rant
ReplyDeletePls drop your pin. Take it easy
DeleteThank God u said bf nd not hubby, so sugar pick up d pieces and move on...I pray u find someone deserving. Good Radiance 2 bad rubbish
DeleteIf you like give him doggy or leopard style, he will still cheat. He owes you no loyalty! Not yet anyway. Stay if u wish, but the only person who owes u loyalty and faithfulness is your spouse who made vows to you before God and the church (or courts). Dust yourself and move on. The next guy will probably be the same.
DeleteU re still looking for strength to move on?
DeleteAfter reading a thousand chronicles written by married BVs?
My dear, you need to give urself a break.
Why stay with a man who cheats and shows no remorse?
A friend noticed some funny characters in her Fiancé and asked for advice, we told her what we felt was good and encouraged her to make her decision herself. She decided to " join him" in clubbing and drinkingand today she is singing a different song.
She cries constantly koz she just put to bed and for the first 3 months, her husband continued visiting bars and clubs without her and also picking up random chicks.
When she complained he simply said " But u met me like this".
I had to digress and cite this story because it is a common problem in most marriages. What you cannot handle now, you certainly wont be able to handle it in the future and the flaws you ignore now will pose as a problem in the future.
The ball is in your court honey.
Good luck
My dear i can relate.you are not married to him yet so u have every opportunity to maje d right decision.i am married and its really tough for me.do the right thing.
DeleteGive your life to Christ. You mustn't have sex before marriage
DeleteIn response to Stella's question, if I found out through snooping, I'll simply walk away without mentioning it to either of them because it is just too shameful to talk about
Awwww
Delete*hugs*
I guess the problem is, you've not found yourself yet,hence making wrong relationship choices?
Desperate?
Need validation from a man,to be happy?
Want to be in a relationship because every other person is?
Dump his arrogant ass ASAP.
And why anal,your vagina don close?
After destroying your external anal sphincter now,he'll leave you for someone else.
Take a break from relationships for a while, abeg.
Find out what you really want in a relationship, and be whatever it is.
That way,you wouldn't ever settle for less.
Goodluck.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Tie your legs together and pretend to be a mermaid.
DeleteU r a DUPLEX FOOL!!!!!!!
DeleteSo with all d chronicles of both single and married, u still went and gave a man ANAL????
Gosh.......
God saved u dat u are not beside me, would have PLUCKED one of ur eyes....
Oniranu.....
**walks outs post angrily **
You want a good man. He is NOT a good man. He's into anal, he would have HIV soon-if he doesn't already. Run!
DeleteThank God you discovered early. A broken relationship is better than a bitter marriage. Do not worry, be yourself and the best man will see you.
DeleteNa ooooh
DeletePlease @anon 16:51: please where do you girls met such men?
Is there a particular place, state you can meet this dogs!
Start running oooh,thats if you know what is good for you.
I hope you enjoyed the anal atleast. Besides did you think that was going to keep him? Considering the fact that you mentioned sacrificing you a-hole.
DeleteA word of advice, better bresk that relstionship before it breaks you.
Single ladies need to stop sleeping with men they ain't married to...this is what clouds ur thinking n makes it difficult to walk away.. U need to leave that relationship and make a clean slate...move on sweetheart... Stop throwing your body all over the place...give utself some dignity n value...this is not about any man now. Do it for YOURSELF!
DeleteLmfao.....sexy boocalher Pls take it easy o. Hehehehe. Dont pluck any eyes.
DeleteHmmmmmm nw I am scared 4 my life.the anall was painful I felt lik I was being raped.i did it coz I loved him.i am so broken I just want 2 stab dis dude a million times
Deletewell now you know... stop feeling sad and move on. u deserve a whole lot better. Next time don't lower your moral standards to please any man
DeleteSo sorry,honey. Walk away, don't let him see you cry...join a gym,learn to swim,learn to drive,learn lawn tennis just anthing you ve always wanted to learn bt never had the time to
DeleteIt ll be hard but you ll be just fine *hugs*
Hmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteSinging "Murder she wroteeeeeeee....
Murder" by Chaka Demus and Plyers.
#LaraCroftModeActivated.
English Premier League...Arsenal Arsenal Arsenal. How many times did I call you people?
Is this how to start a Premier League?
Oh Jeez!
This Kouyate and Zarate just take style disgrace my team. And this 29 yr old Spanish babyman Nacho go bang yellow card join.
Chaiii.
My Sunday don spoil.
DH whistling one losers' Igbo song for me over here.
Notin gives me more joy today dan dat match...@XP,good to know u also listen to SOS...I don't joke wit buki n schullzz,dos ladies sabi good music ehn!
DeleteGirl....Arsenal made me so sad today, but all good. Tired of saying"i have a good feeling about this season"....lol, but i do
DeleteKo possible... Nma's Blog
ReplyDeleteMake I siddon read comments on dis one...
ReplyDeleteI have a story to tell.buh it's sooo sad.it happend to a friend,so u guys understand....
#Chukwuabiama
Storyteller! Go on! Tell the 'story'
DeleteAwwwww. I'm so sorry but I also like gist. Go anon if you feel you can. We can learn a lesson or two from your tale
DeleteTell your story, we want to hear.
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Wtf! I don't knw wat to do oooo
ReplyDeleteI'm female and my 2 siblings are male. No comment.
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Thelazynatural, not to reign on your parade or anything like that but there's now a sexual orientation reffered to as "being gay" in case you haven't heard of it. So the scenario could happen to anyone. A woman with only male siblings can still be in that situation, it has happened to people before. I know it is almost impossible to even try to imagine especially concerning one's brother and partner but it's still a possible scenario in our world today. Sad but true
DeleteGod have mercy oooo......if dis happens den I will walk away
Deletedunno..I would probably sit down quietly or walk out.....but I would definitely be in shock.
ReplyDeleteI can't even imagine it...
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in secondary school that is how my sister gisted me about girls in her hostel quarreling and one insulted the other one that she's sleeping with her sisters husband. She would leave school and go to lag to see her sisters husband so someone saw them but never knew she's her sister then informed the lady and she caught them red handed. The way gist fly now they heard in school
ReplyDeleteA similar thing happened btwn my friend and her brother inlaw.
DeleteDude raped the girl when we were in S.S1 or S.S2. Raped her in his hotel room, begged her not to tell her sister and she kept quite koz she " didn't want to destroy her sister's marriage"
Dude was in lagos, poor innocent girl lived in Asaba. Some years later, we realized everytime we this Dude was in town our friend will have a new hairdo and will cancel all appointments to hang out with us.
Soon we discovered he wooed her into a relationship and she agreed. He will come down to asaba claiming that he wanted to pay his inlaws a visit and she'll be the one to take his meals to his hotel koz he never stayed in their house during his visits.
One day, @ Christmas, I went to pick her up koz we had to go somewhere and saw he kissed her on d lips on her way out......
Smh....
We lost contact after that. Still praying her sister finds out though
The thing some girls do sha. A cousin of mine was sleeping with my uncle cos of money. Her dad is rich too but the father cut down on their expenses cos they demand too much so she went to my uncle and that one asked for sex and she agreed. She almost died so she confessed. The first question I asked her was 'as you fit use tohtoh get money why you no do prostitution instead' she could not say anything.
DeleteI could not continue to be close to her
Prostitution
DeleteAnd sleeping around are relatives
Will be devastated but will definitely move on. This happened to my head teacher as we speak d younger sister hz taken over d elder sister's home. She even has children for d so called shameless man..some sisters are......
ReplyDeletehaaaaaaaa! jehova ekwena! via snooping,i don't know.i guess i will start sweating whenever i see him because ,i will be trying not to wretch and at thesame time thinking of how to pose the question without sounding crazy..so yes,i will start sweating.
ReplyDeleteif i caught them pants down *faints!*...i dey come.
I will tie my two legs and pretend to be a mermaid.
ReplyDeleteMy sibling is too tush for such. :p
Odee! Soro ni yen sha???
DeleteHmmmm. I hv only walked on strangers
ReplyDeleteImma just walk outta there....like i saw natin...
ReplyDeleteI will be gravely disappointed. To think that they should be ones to get my back, not rip off my heart.
ReplyDeleteOur relationship will never be the same again.
Donno wat i will do either
ReplyDeleteGod forbid! Tufiakwa! Let it be far from me.
ReplyDeleteI will jejely walk away from both of them for life. Any sibling that can sleep with ma hubby can definately kill me.
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine it. Only a wicked sibling will do that.
ReplyDeleteStella nawa o, don't know what I'll do a beg. I don't even want to imagine it happening to me. *shivers* ehen, for all those holy nwejes who spewed trash under my comment on the SnM feedback,kitikpa gbagbuchaa unu dia.If you believe in abstinence, good and fine but please don't come with your judgemental self to talk rubbish. Sin is sin and at the end of the day, we are all sinners so abeg, shush it.Potable, yes I don already nackeep, if you weren't more interested in judging rather than reading and understanding, you would have seen where I said I didn't participate in the last so I've known him for a while'v.Not like I owe you any explanation. For the idiot saying I slept with a married man, may God grant you understanding.
ReplyDeleteEeeeh. Mini drama. And u always skip the S & M post. Wait. Mo nbo! Anam abia!
DeleteHeyaaa
DeleteSweety
Sin.is.sin
But then desist from this one na
Eh ?
Everyone is not a sinner
Some people striving to perfection
Why not try to do so
Eh nne ?
That's why the bible says we should drop every weight and run the race
So because sin is sin,i should clap or close my eyes on it and pretend is well......
DeleteHow many men do u tend 2 sleep madam sin is sin?
Stop deceiving yourself........am a sinner and I try to avoid it as much as possible!
Not everyone is loose like you!
Tie your legs 2geda n pretend to be a mermaid.....sex is not food!
Portable abeg allow her jor. Shey is d pussy urs? Is d style n hanging urs? Is d burglary urs? D sin nkor? Is it ur sin?
DeletePotable, stupidity doesn't begin to describe you. ..idiot. Na your toto I use nack? People will not mind their business rather they keep looking for other people so lives to mind.How many men I sleep with is in no damn way your business.
DeleteI don't pray such happens but mennn!
ReplyDeleteBe stunned at first!
ReplyDeletePain of betrayal!
Shout, rave
If it's bf n gf matter, I call it quit!
If na spouse! Geez, i'll poison d man with untraceable poison....or maybe I can't? I dunno yet....lol
Thank for u lordddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddAm d latest Aunty in town,baby gurl that i ve been looking for ohhhh,first gurl among 6boys,ama gonna spoil her silly.
ReplyDeleteBaba God I thank u,may ur name be praised now and always.
Oya shakiti bobo.
Oh conglats ooooooo.
DeleteBaby girls rock
Thank for u lorddddddd! Ama gonna spoil her silly. Isorai! Congrat in Pats voice. Btw, is dat y u were late? Rme.
DeleteWow am really happy for you. Am d only gurl among 5 boys too.....all d guys take over my mum, they keep producing male kids lol......
Deletecongrats but richard kard nko since Jesus has fixed it
DeleteLol @Oya Shakiti Bobo. That song be driving people crazy.
DeleteCongratulations jor
#WhiteDiamondOut
Congrats oh em Jay, my second person I'm liking on this blog after doppelganger....
DeleteDoppelganger is a bitch.
DeleteHey anon. 20:19 mind your mouth before I stuff it for you.
DeleteThanks sweethearts!!! Forgive my my typo,d happiness is outta this world o'jare.#bbm big smile.
DeleteI will kill them at the spot
ReplyDeleteOseee... serial murderer....
DeleteReally? My husband was just telling me about a close friend of ours,whose wife is presently abroad with their kids for summer holiday but her sibling is 'sleeping' with the husband .He is meant to come and meet his family on Tuesday,meanwhile,the wife's younger sister is playing wife. I just told him to mind his own business .I hope they stop before the woman knows,it's so heartbreaking.
ReplyDeleteCheck well...yr husband cld just b telling u abt himsef...
DeleteABOMINATION!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteCarefully plan how to kill d spouse without evidence or trace
ReplyDelete#water wey dem take do Eba dem no dey see am #.
DeleteEnd of discussion.
It will be hard for me to forgive such act. I don't think i can stay married to a man that is having affair with my sister.
ReplyDeleteOmo..God abeg may I never be faced with dat kinda situation ijn!...cos frankly out of anger I fit kii my sibling or hubby depending who I stone or stab whatever!..#betrayersofdcentury
ReplyDeleteA tough one....will jst read comments mbok
ReplyDeleteI will organise some guys to beat them up.............::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::Click my name to contact me for lovely office wears
ReplyDeleteOnly child so not possible.
ReplyDeleteWhat of amother who sleeps with her son inlaw?
DeleteWhat of amother who sleeps with her son inlaw?
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is for BVs with siblings si Owerre baa nne ha afo.
Ngwa nuu.......
#WhiteDiamondOut
Via white diamond!owu naani owerre ka IMA?MPA GI owu onye owerri?nnu onwere uyo a Douglas?respect urself n don't insult us again.I like u that's y am kuul with u.to say an that lie lie nwunye G eh chai she for hear am
DeleteAnon,no offence abeg.
DeleteI didn't mean to insult any state or tribe.
It's just a saying,like we all know. Not meant to spite anyone.
I don't reply anons,but you were civil and again, I don't want to be misunderstood.
Have a beautiful night.
#WhiteDiamondOut
I dont want to even imagine what i will do...God knows that that day will not be funny
ReplyDeletewww.glowyshoes.com
What will I do? Leave them to continue and walk away. That will be the end.
ReplyDeleteIf I find myself in such situation, well am always calm in the heat of trouble. But I will just go with what Jesus said. It is finished
ReplyDeleteIf na my hubby n sister,hmmm
ReplyDeleteI pray it never happens cos someone will certainly die.
I have no idea... But the type of person I am, if I caught them I would apologise for barging in and walk away. What am I making noise and disgracing myself for? Causing a scene won't erase the fact that my boo's penis was in my sister's vagina LOL
ReplyDeleteI cant even begin to imagine,but I will most def feel mad. Then I will start planning on what to do in revenge
ReplyDeleteGod forbid ooo... I don't want to find myself in that kinda situation cos I myt Lee person oo..
ReplyDeleteBetter leave the relationship or marriage for both of them, because one day they will plan to kill you!! Lord Jesus, I feel that's the worse that can happen to anyone... A certain woman told my mum how she caught her husband& her niece, tho in this case think the girl was being forced cos she's still a kid, oh my the woman was shaking and crying, I will never forget her face that day!
ReplyDeleteTough one
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm.... Lemmi read comments. But. I guess no one would use his or her blog identity to tell this kind of story......
ReplyDeleteIt is well!
With d kinda sistas I av, m soo sure it can't happen! Not even in my dream!
ReplyDeleteI pray i never face that kind of circumstance in my life.. Its an abomination and disgusting in the sight of God.
ReplyDeleteI'm done with the two of them. Not my help, friend, neighbor or anything but my sister? Nonononono I am so done abeg. The 2 of them could team up and kill me, better to leave them to their deviousness. A man like that isn't worth fighting for.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteworst thing to ever witness. Not sure what I will do though, but I know something bad might happen to one of them. choi.
ReplyDeleteI can't picture myself in such scene even when I tried to. God is a perfecter of good things. So, I believe it such I'll walk into.
ReplyDeleteLadies: 1)Never fall in love until you're sure his first and last name belongs to him. 2)Never fall in love until you've stolen his last name
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DeleteEasier said than done.
#WhiteDiamondOut
Stella! May God help us nt to be in such position
ReplyDeleteShit happens! How about a girl of 22yrs old staying with the elder brother who lured and had sex with the 15yrs old Son of the elder bros.Got pregnant.lied to the elder brother that her village BF was responsible. She was sent to the village.she later had twins(boys).the boys are now 10yrs.Now threatening the elder bros son who is now based in US that she will expose him when he came for xmas last year.
ReplyDeleteShe fucked her nephew??!!
DeleteIn sure a situation i will make sure i design my sistas body n hubbys body. I mean since i will leave with such memories dey shld hv a lasting mark too.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid! I don't know what I will do. May we not witness nonsense things.
ReplyDeleteForgive
ReplyDeleteNigerians are so over-religious ..simple question una don Dey cast and bind, tufiakwa ds, God forbid dat bla bla bla..
ReplyDeleteI'll give way to d guy and warn that relative to stay farrrrr frm me. If she no careful I fit give her scar ..
I will charge my tazer and electrocute the hell out of them
ReplyDeletegifted hand,its spouse and your sister not his..lol
ReplyDeleteLolz.... my bad!!!!
DeleteSpouse and my sister abi?
That's the worst form of betrayal
* can't even imagine it*
Nah!
Gifted hands is telling us of a friend that sleeps with her sister's husband so yes it's similar esp if the wife of the man/her sister finds out.
DeleteShit truly happens @ anon 19:29. My neighbor's wife (who came for 'omugwo') & her lovin husband havin WICKED sex. After ravin and rantin, threatenin heaven and earth that she was goin to leave the marriage, it's all over, blah blah blah, the husband calmly looked her in the eyes and said : IT WILL BE BETTER IF U LEAVE THE MARRIAGE SO THAT I CAN MARRY UR MOTHER, THAT AFTER ALL UR MOTHER IS FAR FAR BETTER THAN U IN BED!!.
ReplyDeleteWhat will someone do in such a situation??????????????
I See Paradise!!!!!!!!!!
I want to say this to help my fellow Nigerian women married to Nigerian men, Please my dear married Nigerian married women, STOP bringing your junior sisters into your homes to live with you after marriage, DON'T! your husbands sleep with them. ( Many ) I am not saying abandon your family, brothers and sisters NO, but bringing brothers and sisters to live with you ( especially sisters ) is a BIG mistake. I beg make una no vex o, nah advice. Note i didn't say all o.
ReplyDeleteI want to say this to help my fellow Nigerian women married to Nigerian men, Please my dear married Nigerian married women, STOP bringing your junior sisters into your homes to live with you after marriage, DON'T! your husbands sleep with them. ( Many ) I am not saying abandon your family, brothers and sisters NO, but bringing brothers and sisters to live with you ( especially sisters ) is a BIG mistake. I beg make una no vex o, nah advice. Note i didn't say all o.
ReplyDeleteI know of a case whereby the hubby slept with the wife's younger sister, who was leaving with them. The sister got pregnant and died while attempting to abort it. That was how the wife found out and they separated for years, came back together after the children's intervention and separated again.
ReplyDeleteHhhhmmm! This gist? Better left unimagined.
ReplyDeleteOtapiapia is cheap, just use it on dem
ReplyDeleteThere was this rumbling in my tummy that I had to loose my belt and after which I was sweating I knew it was time to cry.
ReplyDeleteIt happened when I invited a friend I tot was my bestie obviously she didn't see me dat way and to think I use to put it pass her.
On her birthday my then boyfriend and I invited her over since it was boxing day.dude cooked for her and all. I dosed off only to wake and everywhere was quite I went upstairs opened d door as gently as I could and by best frend was under my supposed boyfriend. I was shaking as though there was earthquake.
Today am greatful that happened else I would have been deceiving myself in that situationship
I met my husband the following year.
Na mostly igbo comments dey talk about the actual experience. Na wah o.
ReplyDeletethis happened to my parents, my dad was sleeping with my mums sister, i caught them but was too ashamed to tell my mum, then my sister caught them and told my mum so my mum now became very observant and she caught them, what annoys me the most is that he doesnt have respect for my mum and she still stayed and sent her sister away, she was hurt no doubt but she stayed back with him. The story goes on and on. Well I have moved on but she is still with him, like her whole life is suppose to be there. I am so unhappy with both of them, and to think that he married another woman after her and slept with her sister and cheated on her to her face. Which woman takes all this. Well not me sha.
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