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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

WHEN LOVER BOY SUDDENLY DISAPPEARS AND RE-APPEARS

Hi Stella, i got introduced to your blog  few months back and i have been an addict as this platform has been a great blessing to me. God bless you.

I am going to keep it as simple as possible. I have been dating this guy for a few months and everything seemed perfect because i thought he was everything i needed.He was loving, caring, intelligent, good looking, God    fearing, and even more. Stella i did not just get into this relationship as i put God first and i had this conviction God was involved. 

He made me feel really good about myself because at the time i was battling with pimples, i would apply a lot of make up usually and he would insist i wash it off before we go out that i looked better without the makeup. I fell even more for him.

Problem began when he stopped calling suddenly. To cut the long story short this guy blanked out for three months. No calls, no chats, no nothing. All my attempts to reach him failed as he would ignore me and on one or two occasions replied and said he was going through a lot and needed space and all. I felt very bad because he wouldnt share.

Mehn! I was confused, i prayed and wept most of the time. I was completely broken. Kept asking my self if something was wrong with me, i woke up most mornings sad and depressed. I even went to his house and dropped a book for him in his absence. It was a book i found and felt it might help the situation. He did not acknowledge it when i asked, he said i should com and take it from his gateman that he did not need it. I went back and it was with the gateman to my greatest surprise. At some point, i made up my mind and decided to move on. Not long he came calling, said he was sorry bla bla bla and that i know we havent ended it and so many things.

I sincerely am confused and cannot explain what came over him, i feel like he shouldnt have put me through all this if he really cared. Please i need your advise. I am still in love with him buh i am scared something isnt right. What should i do?

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

DISRESPECTFUL CHEATER

Dear Stella, 

A friend of mine reached out to me with this complaint this morning, I told her it is beyond me and I would share with your blog visitors for better input. 

Here is her story copy and paste :

''I met my husband when his long term girlfriend broke up with him, he told me he broke up with her because he felt she would be too old for him even though he dated her for 10 years, later I found out from his mom that she left him because he is arrogant and a cheat.

Anyway we were family friends and my mother pushed me into marrying him because he seemed a good catch, he is rich and from a good background so am I. 

Anyway we dated for a short while and got married. We have two kids. The problem is that even though my husband is rich and ensures we lack nothing he is arrogant and cheats without remorse. These days he is even rude to my mother and family members. He cheats and when I catch him he has no apologies. 

His ex got married and for the first time I saw my husband sober not because she got married but because she married a younger richer man while he had sworn to her that she would never find a better man than him and she would end up marrying as a second wife or a divorcee but the opposite happened she married a very handsome man and had a big wedding infact much bigger than ours with even the former President attending. My husband was so angry that day for the first time I knew him he almost cried.

Since then my husband has gotten worse, he insults me and ridicules me. He abuses my family members calls them good for nothing and calls me a waste there is nothing I do that pleases him.

I am so tired, everyone says I should endure, my sister warned me but I thought then she was jealous because her own husband was not as rich as mine. 

I have money,cars and travel as I want but I am very unhappy. I try to concentrate on my kids but he keeps upsetting me. I cry almost every time, what do I do? Some people say he would change when he grows older. What can I do? 

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