Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

PROPHECY REGARDING FUTURE WIFE

 Dear Stella,

Big ups to the good job you doing.

I do like you and fellow BVs to learn and advice me on this chronicles of life.

I dated my first for 10 years but on the 10^th year, precisely 2013, my church Evangelist told me that my girl is not the one for me, you know, as a future wife.  

Twas hard to let go but we mutually agreed to break up.  I met current bae last year and we are already so connected.  Issue is 5 different people / prophets already confirmed unanimously that she is not my wife o…WTF!

My question is, are there God’s creation out there who are destined not to marry or I have to spread my net beyond the shores of Nigeria?

P.S : I can so love in my relationship too..Dunno how to handle this inevitable heartbreak that is staring at me in the face.

You walked away from a 10 year relationship because your pastor said she wasnt the one?And you are about to do same again?What exactly do these men tell you that makes you believe them?can you not hear from GOD yourself?

were you born without a mindset?did you lose your thinking faculty growing up?Is there a problem with you?I am asking you all these questions before i land you the hottest E-slap ever!

Wait wait wait!...Do you still attend the same church that told you to break up with the first lady?

Let me tell you this now,if you have not heard from God,then he probably hasnt said anything!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

ABOUT TO SNOOP ON A NON PERFORMING BOO..

STELLA bae. I don come again oh..... 

So I've been seeing this guy now for about a year and sincerely speaking the relationship has been good. He is a nice person and I have no reason to suspect rubbish. I am also team no snooping, so I don't give myself any headache. He has a good job (that truly many would do dry fast for - lol) and he has a good Christian background - just like me. Seems to be good at his job and very smart. I'm sapiosexual so the quality of a guy's thinking faculty is very very key in my relationships. 

I knew from the start that he was an upcoming young man so I wasn't really focused on his pocket and finances, so I didn't 'chook' my eye there. I am equally a hard working person so I maintain myself while he does what he can from time to time. He came across as someone who was searching for a life partner and didn't want to play games. So we got that straight from the start. 

Recently, I noticed he doesn't go to church. Since I met him. So While we were discussing, I somehow chipped in the fact that I don't like his not going to church habit. He's from a staunch Christian background and was even a pastor in his Uni days. So the sudden turn around I don't understand. Anyhoo, he started saying all this semi-atheist talk about not believing in any religion cos religion is destructive and he is on a path to find his own God in his own way. 

But he won't be pulled to ANY religion. Mind you, this was not the impression I got when we started. At all! He was always telling me he is happy I'm God fearing Christian cos it's important for his future wife to be. I asked him if we raise kids what religion would he encourage them to practice. He said he would encourage them to live based on morals. And do whatever they like. I told him it doesn't hold water for me since today's morals are spiralling everyday. 

Anyhoo, we somehow landed on the discussion of future plans. Stella, dude has been working for 5 years + in a multinational organization with steady promotions. I say make I even ask questions in respect of family (not wedding oh) preparations-  if he has any savings, investments, or if he dabbled into a lot business that sunk his funds or if he has fixed funds somewhere - NO. NO. NO. 

So what do you do with your salary? Silence. 

He doesn't dress expensively, he doesn't drink or party to the best of my knowledge, doesn't drive a flashy car, his family is ok. He is the first son all his siblings are graduates. He doesn't live in a house where he pays rent through his nose, Infact his house was upside down and so bachelor-like when I met him and I took it upon myself to make it more like a home (TRUST ME!!) - with his money of course. So what do you spend money on? No answer. 

BVs, please are these issues or am I just a Mrs. Worry, as my friends call me? I suspect bae has a spending problem or a secret. Because he's above 30 and I don't see why he is planning for the future and dreaming only with his mouth and not backed with action. Or have the future expenses of starting a family never crossed his mind? I am a planner, a saver and an investor. With the little I have. 

So it's fine to say I will help his weakness. But is it normal for a woman to be the one to teach a man how to manage his money? And is his current religious disposition anything to worry about or is it just a passing phase? I'm really not one who likes arguments and dragging over issues so I've swept the conversation under the carpet since then. And I've acted normal. But honestly I've been scared inside. I'm 27 and under no pressure to marry at all. I am team no snooping but honestly I'm tempted to snoop oh.... 

From all description this man has a very very lazy mindset....if you end up with him,expect to be the decision maker all the time and if you ever get tired of leading,things will fall apart.

Snooping?I am almost tempted to say PLEASE DO!.....Hmmmmmm!

You know what?why dont you help him adjust the settings on his phone and see if any messages pop up?LMAO.....