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Monday, February 22, 2016

Women This Is The New Break Up 101?

Hey Lady...If your boyfriend has been displaying any of the under mentioned,then you know what's up!




92 comments:

  1. Once the communication declined, the relationship will soon die




    *Larry was here*

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    1. End time communication satellite relationship terminator strategy.

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    2. End time communication satellite relationship terminator strategy.

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    3. Pls let me know.. I prefer that a millon times to the draw soup thg... arrghhhh

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    4. I dey tell you. Na the parole be that but I think is cruel.

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    5. Nigerian men are so wicked. That's what they do. Slimy

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    6. Heheheheheheheehehehhehehe
      I don't know what it is but am so happy










      Baby blues.........Kikikikikikikikikikikikikik

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    8. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship if the communication is dead so is the relationship.

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    9. Potable viv, you've been commenting since 7:28 am as usual. This your job sweet die. Abeg any vacancy at your end for a sister?
      I studied criminology. Please.

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    10. Dis is wat my bf of 4yrs just did, it really hurts would ve been better he openly breaks up with me instead of this. Since dec he stopped calling, som1 dat calls me severally everyday I tried reaching out he'll always say nothing is wrong, people have told me to move on but its quite difficult. I still can't understand y he's doing this n where I went wrong. To tink I was planning 2work my service to lag cos of him. Am still confused but God knows best

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    11. That's the best way to break up. I'm not a guy but that's how I break up. When you start saying its over, they would be begging. Just slip away abeg. Its even less painful

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    12. I just get tired and start giving the guy space.

      Most times I know when I'm not needed anymore. I see the signs early. If you don't call I won't call.

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    13. So how many times dey don break your heart@la fresh...na why you chose a sabbatical relationship. Lol

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  2. Hehehe, this is a known fact, the reason I don't pity men, stupid people

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    1. You might want to think about your dad, brothers and uncles

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    2. Same way my boo broke up with me. He stopped calling, and checking up. As a sharp girl I use my sense quickly deleted him from my BlackBerry. I don't have time for nonsense. Agboro like you. In fact God punish you stupid ex anuoffia di ka gi

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    3. That is cowardice. People that do that do it so that tomorrow,the girl becomes big,they will crawl back like a crayfish that they are. Nonsense.

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  3. If I want to break up with any1 I just call the person and after the whole sexing thing I will just say it today is our last day as lover call this act a parting gift. It is Over between us.

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    1. This was exactly what I did to my ex. Slip away. U owe no one an explanation. U can call them up after 3minths

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    2. Nawa oooo..una bad gan ooo..anyway,we men r just too crazy.glory to God that am a changed person*lol*

      Mc Pinky

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    3. Exactly. I prefer that than to elongate things

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  4. This is such a common way of breaking up

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    1. Act irresponsibly..make a move on her friend or sis/cousin

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  6. Mtchewww. U never jam be that. Some will still pester u till u say those words.

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    1. Hey sweetie, is that what your bobo did?
      He broke up over the fone?
      Sorry oooh

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    2. Ah, you a here again?? Hian!

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  7. Not only BFs, if u wanna dump a guy, just withdraw too, pick calls when u want n speak in monosyallables...lol

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  8. I tried that with my ex, the babe storm my office sharparly, i just tire, nothing could keep her away, she make sure say my mother lov her scatter.....

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  9. Aaaww! This is so sad. I hate humans!!! I wish I came into this world as super glue or A4 Paper.

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    1. Stoning humans while you act like them in character nd written words. A4paper? And you chose to go anon to spew gutter, appreciate God nd get yourself together. Your man willl come

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    2. Lol,u funny die!!

      Sherry's Daughter

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    3. Hahahahhahahah. Omg. Do you have the strength to pass through printers and photocopiers in this heat?
      You are a clown.

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    4. May it be done according to ur wish

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    5. Lmao!your comment though...

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    6. Lool Omdz! Mate Your just made my day

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    7. Lool Omdz! Mate Your comment just made my day

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    8. Kai! This is so funny. Some ppl won't just take d humor in this but will start preaching yeye preaching, yea gracee, I'm referring to u.

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  10. I just have this God's given instincts to know when a guy is getting bored. As a matter of fact I have never experienced heartbreaks. I just know when to move ahead or maybe I was never really emotionally attached to anyone.

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    1. I tot u r married.. still doing guys?

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    2. U just described moi. I've never been a nuisance in a relationship, don't intend to start now,or anytime soon.

      Sherry's Daughter

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    3. I was once like u dear, untill I met this particular guy and the rest was history.

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  11. To me honestly that is the best way, especially when the woman is so much in love, than when the man makes her feel worthless and all that, that way the woman will feel she left the man, because if shes tired of the communication gap she will just let go.

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    1. It's actually the other way round. You feel more worthless when the man is playing around doing the communication gap thing. You'll keep worrying what has gone wrong and how to fix it. But when he just comes out and tells u straight its better. Unless you're a woman that prefers being lied to

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  12. Even when you try and use lack of communication, you will still be tempted. anyway goodluck to any one breaking up

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  13. That's the best way to part and who knows the man might turn out to be your friend someday.

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  14. for me if you want to break up with me, just tell me straight. the break in communication thing i find so annoying and insulting. or i ask you what is wrong and you keep telling me nothing but you plan to break up. i prefer you tell me straight up and we go our seperate ways

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    1. It's totally disrespectful. That's a caward behavior

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  15. Old trick.
    Take the hint and move on.

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  16. End time action...una never jam wayre girl..she go wahala u like mad..by force u go continue the relationship

    Mc Pinky

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  17. I hate this slipping away of a thing like draw soup. When he wanted to ask me out no be mouth he take talk? Since he had the confidence to ask me out then he should have the guts to break up with me.

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  18. This is what we call withdrawal symptoms.
    Start pulling out little by little till there's not any of you remaining in the person*ShinesTeeth*

    but it hurts if someone you like does it to you. chai! e can hurt!!!
    It's not new jare.

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  19. My guy came 2my house with lots of gift! After presenting dem to every members of my family, he burst in to crocro tears! My dad slf support am my mum wanna cry with him self! He is so dramatic so the easy way was to tell him I'm in a man's place,dressed half naked(p guy may pass him level) he nearly die.

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  20. I actually don't think this is a good idea. If you want to break up, don't just walk away and leave them hanging and wondering what they did wrong. Help people find closure before leaving. Sit them down to talk it through. Don't just start acting up and make them feel they have spiritual problems.

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    1. Talking it through in relationships is what create unnecessary hatred. PEOPLE that talk are people that wants it to work out for them. If it's over, it's over .I don't want to talk about it.

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    2. I love this reply @ Nwa Amaka

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    3. True @ miss blackie. it'seems easier to take a chill pill when you really do not care about the person. When you do, you could turn into a maniac without realising it. I've been crazy before, omg, when I remember those days, I cringe...love is bad.

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  21. that is rubbish, a full grown up man should be able to make it clear to a lady that am done here, why killing all communications cos you wanna end it up? I don't understand why a guy cnt man up enough to look into a ladies eyes and tell her I don't feel anything anymore for you, but you were the one who woo her for so long to get her. am not in support of that shit up there.

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  22. My bf is gradually drawing away! It hurt so bad cz i love him. I have not loved in a while but when i met him, i fell in love with him but now he has stopped communicating and i am dying silently. God help me

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    1. My dear that what they do.I encountered that last yr; after I got tired of calling I had to let go .it hurt so badly its a year now I still cry sumtymz though.giving up my virginity was d stupidest thing i ever did.. I hate love ..guys you don't just lead a woman through and dump her..that is so so wrong and inhumane...wish I stumbled on dis blog right on time..would have been much wiser..am working on myself, I would become the woman I've always dreamt of becoming.its all phase

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    2. Anon 14:38 pls always follow the commandments of God and you will never make a mistake in life,many people's advise here can also mislead you.may JEHOVAH heal you

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  23. Na so Naija guys deh break up name, its not new

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  24. Get over him my dear.

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  25. Just what Drelk did.. And till this very minute I haven't found closure cos I can't stop wondering where I went wrong,but it's all gud. Guys it's wicked to draw like okro or ogbono or whatever, tell it and move on and stop being cowards!

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  26. I am currently going through this stupid thing o. A guy i really like and thought we where on the same page started drawibg away after i gave him the cookie a couple times. The last convo we had was normal and all. Next thing i call and he stops pickn or responding to my messages. Like how can someone be so cruel?? Men are heartless mehn! They always forget u will still see them na. What will they then do? Say hello how u been? Na wa

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  27. dont breakup o...else u lose the damn cookie-- ask Lucius Lyon, niqqurs know better these days.

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  28. Interesting cos for me, I never slept with d guy but smooches and believed it was even love and this was the method he used when I did something wrong. He could tell everyone but not me even when I asked him. All I see was a method of insult to injury, abuse, ego & raw wickedness despite he even hurt me very deeply first even more than the so called wrong I did and I never said a word but just forgave the creature.
    But, the worst and best part, is that it took almost 20yrs to get over him. Yes. Extended long periods of staying away(only me communicating thru mails without replies or acknowledgements) to repeating the whole process just to make any form of peace or...
    The good news is I finally see how shallow he is but how deep in psychological abuse and massive ego,and reading about similar experiences CUT me off the sick cycle finally.
    *maybe, this would help someone cos I even began to suspect it was really something "spiritual" sef.

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