Wednesday, 30 March 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

*Looking for Red pen*





 NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
CONFUSED BOYFRIEND.

Please I will love you to post my relationship issue. Thank you.

My boyfriend is driving me crazy, we've been dating for some months now and it's been good and bad, this minute he is a sweet boyfriend and the next minute he is someone else. 

He doesn't apologise when he is wrong, he would rather push the blame to me, when I try to talk about things that are bothering me in the relationship, he tells me that I worry too much and that there is no problem. He barely calls, I do most of the calling, we chat once in awhile and thats only when I send him a message, if I don't make arrangement for us to see he doesn't bother to do so. I know that he is busy and have tried to be understanding, but it's getting boring by the day and ‎it's possible for his busy schedule to stop him from doing all this if I don't?? 

I'm just so confused and I'm tired of thinking too much. I promised myself not to complain anymore since it doesn't change anything and take the relationship just the way it is. I dunno if I'm taking the right decision or not??


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
TORN BETWEEN THREE MEN

Thank you Stella for this great platform, God bless you abundantly.
Not to waste further time, let me go straight to the point.
Let's call them Mr. X, Mr. Y and Mr. Z.... Let me give you an insight on them.  Mr.X and I have been dating for over a year, he's 17 years older, he's a medical consultant in a reputable hospital, not married. We are not in a celibate relationship. Still really handsome for his age, He's very well to do but He is not emotional or caring in the very least. he blanks out on me for no reason sometimes and then comes back after a few days to blame it on stress from the hospital. 


He is some what stingy...

 He earns more than half a million in a month (i know his salary) but when I ask him for money, he doesn't give beyond 20k (and that's when he's being generous). He has his good sides too, he made me more serious in my academics (I used to be a party freak), he puts me through my courses, he tries to make me happy and he's a very good listener that I can always talk about anything to.


Now, Mr. Y is serving, two years older than me, very handsome, could be very caring, doesn't earn as much as the doctor but gives me any amount I ask (I Dont ask for much). He's very much in love with me, wants to get married but he doesn't understand me. He listens but doesn't hear me. We quarrel everyday over the same things that I complain about, he'll beg forever but still repeat it tomorrow. He never learns! Dont do something, he'll do it, I'll get angry, he'll kneel down, beg and I'll forgive him yet he'll do the same damn thing tomorrow, he also lacks courtesy. Apart from that, he's a very sweet person and we are in a celibate relationship


Mr. Z is a business man, very handsome, a millionaire too like the doctor, buys me anything and everything without me asking. Hes 10 years older, He's very serious about marriage and we are just getting to know each other well, we are in a celibate relationship. We were friends for over a year before i finally decided to date him. He was a very promiscuous person and he has changed but I find it difficult to believe him, he dated my course mate between those 1 year I refused to date him and told me he wasn't serious with her, when I told him that I can never date him because of that, he broke up with her and decided to wait till I'm ready. I Dont want to go into anything with anybody that I Dont have total trust in. He's proven his faithfulness several times but....


I'm in my final year in the university, almost done with school, I'm a sucker for very handsome guys and I'm lucky to have three. Yes, there are three men in my life and that's cheating but I learned not to put my eggs in one basket in a very hard way. I Gave everything to one guy, was extremely faithful, he proposed marriage, my parents knew him, yet he brutally dealt with me. Woke up one day and broke up with me for no particular reason. And before bvs eat me up with "he had enough of your cookie", I was a virgin then. It took me over a year to get over him. 

I know its no excuse but I'm having a hard time deciding who I'll focus on fully.  Dear BV's, Help a sister out. Thanks Stella.





180 comments:

Joblesshousewife said...

Hmmmmmm

RICHBEE said...

AMA BOOK THIS SPACE



BRB

em jay said...

End time chronicle!
Brb.



*******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******

pax dimond said...

No red pen today.

pax dimond said...

Poster one that guy is not into you, you should give him some space and if he truly loves you he will sit up.

Stop calling and sending him messages, he is not the only man on earth.

cakes by Bella's, Abuja. 58DA8ADF, 07080305132, instagram @cakes_by_bellas said...

Lol, where u keep your red pen oo , who took stella's pen

Sweetheart said...

Poster 1
Treat him the way he treats you, If he doesn't attempt to make things right after that, forget it


Poster 2
...If i make this decision for you, Will it count?

But then, what is the point in being celibate in two relationships and gbenshing in the third? smh
Seems like you are torn between Y and Z....follow your heart
I doubt if your heart can work here tho

Anonymous said...

So you are celibate with the other guy, while you are riding,sucking and fucking another dick. Stupid girl, I don't have any advice for you because you have been deceiving one with been celibate, look for 4,5,and 6 for fucking, peeing on you and anal$

Anonymous said...

So you are celibate with the other guy, while you are riding,sucking and fucking another dick. Stupid girl, I don't have any advice for you because you have been deceiving one with been celibate, look for 4,5,and 6 for fucking, peeing on you and anal$

Atheist. said...

Poster 1: Are u dating a pendulum that swings steadily? Note that, no one is too busy, i dislik hearing that "i'm busy".... If ure important he'd def make time 4u or make an xcuse.

Poster2: How come they're all handsome?? Anyway, follow ur heart of roll a dice, ure the one wearing the shoe.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Poster 1,
Why are you putting all your eggs in one basket?...
I keep telling you girls here to stop keeping one boyfriend but you guy will not listen...
Ignore him joor and get another bobo...
Inukwa?...

Poster 2 I like you already for not doing Mumu boyfriend like poster 1...
Infact,your mama born you well...
The worst thing that would happen to any woman is to marry a stingy nigga...
You go hear nwii!...
Go for richest of them all that is Mr Z...

How I wish poster 1 will follow your foot step...

Anonymous said...

POSTER 2:

The one that dumped you "had enough of the cookie", the doctor is having "enough of the cookie" and he will soon dump you too. Keep sharing cookies; you are cheating yourself of marital happiness and think that you are cheating anyone else. You are cheating yourself from God's kingdom. Enough!

Anonymous said...

Will I ever get loved gosh its boring over here pls can some get me laid am huge down dir young sexy & fun to be wit add me if U re in Abj & wnt us to make ourselfs happy life is too short to hold it bck 7b60e9cf

cakes by Bella's, Abuja. 58DA8ADF, 07080305132, instagram @cakes_by_bellas said...

Poster one, receive slap.. thank God he is still a bf, easier to dump, you better do the needful... poster 2, na you biko. Waste of my time

Anonymous said...

Please how do I break up with my boy friend? Tried before put he tried kill him self..
Don't love him,with him because I pity him.right now I want out.
Note pls....been with him for four months have never ask him for a pin.
Thanks

Loveme Jeje said...

Poster 1.. leave chewing gum boys alone.

Poster 2... Tell the 3 of them you will marry them. Afterall Nija don dey behave like hollywood.

Marry Mr. A for 1 year
Marry Mr. B for the 2nd year
Then go to Mr.C for the 3 year. You will know who is sweeter.

May be you want to turn to Toyin Tomatoes in Sura

Anonymous said...

Poster 2:

Since you are sharing buttocks and vagina, what else can you give the doctor if he marries you? You see the reason you keep getting dumped and won't get married?

Anonymous said...

Half a million per month is not d biggest salary ooo. Am guessing u r making money cloud ur judgement. But half a million no follow for well to do salary. Anyways, u r still a student. *strolls away

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Poster 1- same old rhyme! If you're not happy why are you there?

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Poster one forget that guy. He's using attitude to discharge you instead of telling you straight that he wants out. You should leave yourself before he leaves and you feel like your world has crashed lol

Poster two so you're only sleeping with the first guy so that is good. I like that you are not putting all your eggs in one basket. Men are wicked so it's not right to put all your hope in one. Mr x is stingy goodness me. How can you bee with a stingy guy biko? And him being 17years older??? I get it. I like older men too but not that old. His age might be a problem for you layer too cos he wwill always see you as a little girl. Second guy seems like a good guy but I see you are frustrated with him. Chill and maybe have patience with him, and it might work. Your last guy Mr z is a skirt. Never be with a guy that is a woman wrapper. You will regret it

Anonymous said...

All I see here are guys eating the cookies and throwing away the wraps
! Hahahahaha

One trillion said...

End time chronicles

Monkeynofine said...

Who's busy? Y is he not busy to honour ur invitation? Which busy? See d way u're defending him and complaining at same time. Babe u're are dating yourself with sex benefit.

Miss Ferragamo said...

Poster 1...He's not into you.
Poster 2... lucky you!
Lol.

You Don't Say! said...

Mr Z

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Poster 2- take Mr. Z. Forget all this nonsense about him dating your course mate. Is she your friend? How e take concern you? What of the ones he has dated that you don't know about? Hian! Ejoor oh!

Monkeynofine said...

Hey @poster1) he's a spiritual husband. Spiritual husband only come for d sex. They are d only one who act d wey ur boo is acting. PEOPLE abi una don see where spirit husband dey call, chat, or even telling wen to meet??

tush baby said...

Poster 2,i carry yansh for u!!
Poster one, dem just dey fuck u for free

Asanwa Ndigbo said...

Poster 2, marry the businessman, I love dating guys that spends without looking back

Poster 1, you r dating yourself

Ideato/IlajeBlood said...

Pray and Go with the business man! He'll never run completely out of cash.

Jennifer Julius said...

Poster1 trust me u are a side chick.poster2 go for the one that adore and worship the ground u walk on ur marriage will last only if ur man love u more

La Sweet said...

Poster:
Reset his brain to factory setting but you sef, take a chilled pill.

So yesterday was my Main ovulation day. Me and Boo decided to nack akpako
at night. Chei, it’s never been that crazy. Boo raised my yansh up and supported with pillow so that the sperm will have a seemless journey
through the semi permeable membrane. After lots of fore-play, sucking and fingering, Boo climbed the mount-zion and started binding/
casting, danzing kuruke, azonto, awilo and finally had his anointing flowing
inside of me. I was prophesying why receiving the hot anointing, shouting,
singing, praying, clapping and screaming because dick almost touch my heart. Boo,
had to use his mouth as a concealer to make me shut the hell up. E-sweet
die and I came like a hot fire. Nigga yanshed the nonsense out of me.
Stella and BVNs, now listen, should my trap caught the meat last night thru that ejacutudutory process, know that ur BV will birth kids were go love conju like fire bcos the process making was fire itself. Una need sex tape?SDKBVN fit release am o.

JoblessHouseWife oya shift, na only bra and pant you dey tear! I dey open legs, hang legs, hang yansh collect live dick.

#WhenConjuTankIsFull

cece nene said...

@1realise that some people are just reserved and introverted. If you have a problem with it, tell him
2;olosho <20k. Don't you think runs is more profitable ex Virginia

Monkeynofine said...

U don't want to marry to a cheat but u have 3 boyfriend well that's not my business though.

Monkeynofine said...

You're fucking 2 and in celibate with one babe that's evil well dat ain't my business too.

pax dimond said...

Poster two babe you get mind o to they pull three grown up guys. NNE weldone o and continue until you finally lose all the three.

To me the final answer is in your heart, who will you tolerate and be submissive to if you decides to marry anyone of them? Who gives you inner peace? Which of them can protect you? Who understand you better? Babe wash your eyes to make the final choice.

Make sure you pray to God to give you direction, do not marry for money, wealth, status, face but marry for love and understanding, wish you all the very best.

Monkeynofine said...

U understand blog visitors thats y u try too hard to convince dem to ur side hummm well dat ain't my business too.

mambee said...

17 years old? or is it a typo error?
Deep within you, you know who you love and want to pitch your tent with. The choice is yours.




*no condition is permanent*

tracy James said...

P1 move ahead..leave him
P2 move ahead..leave them

Candid Naija said...

Poster 1 you are a sidechic
Poster 2 ain't you lucky,1st the doctor is not necessarily bad just that he was be domineering n controlling. He is not married yet at that age cos he is married to his carrier. He ll make a good husband if you are the "sir" type. He is exteremly independent so you can't be a partner to him but his assistant with no opinion.
D second guy is still a small boy.
The last guy however, you have to give him a chance and get to know him. If he truly broke up with the other girl for you,you ll know. Be very observant n register with team snop while being a mermaid.
If he is serious with you, he is my best pick.
Goodluck

Anonymous said...


Poster 1, don't waste your time on anybody who does not claim you, don't have time for you. This guy has probably somebody else with whom he is serious. You are probably his spare tyre and you he does not love you one bit. I would advise that you do not give me more consideration and dump him. Somebody more deserving is going to come and appreciate you for who you are and make your heart jolly.

Poster 2, well, you are very organised with your cookies O. Settle for someone who cares for you, who encourages you to improve on yourself and be independent, someone who show you appreciation and kindness, someone to move forward with. If a guy has no respect for you, ditch him!

calabar chick said...

Na wa o!
May God help you both.

Kelvin Ogun said...

Errrrm, yar fucking all three of 'em (in a Scottish accent) so pls forget this celibate tale u giving us and choose the one u have already chosen!

Kelvin dat Edo Boi ( Stellz cousin )

Anonymous said...

Close ur legs and focus on GOd

Anonymous said...

Go for the 3rd guy!

Ξ±Κ€Φ…ma said...

Lol
I'm a sucker for very handsome guys too
πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜†

Anonymous said...

Oh boy! See d second chronicle sha. Well, oga doctor dznt luv yu one bit sef; he shldnt b in d equation of who yu shld finally settle down wif. Corper dude aint connecting; dt kind of disconnection can wear luv out oh, be warned. Mazi businessman will sha cheat later on. Daz how I actually turned celibate for two preek-wrenching years jus 2 win a babe's heart but I still cheated later on. Not proud of that tho but I jus want yu 2 know, once a cheat/player, almost alwayz a cheat. Goodluck sha.

Medline Philemon said...

Poster 1: Just leave that your boyfriend please. His face is just next to joker in the dictionary.
Poster 2: Choose Mr Y (the 2nd person)...your issues are internal ones which could be solved the more you get to know each other. Mr X is not serious, as for Mr Z hmmmmmm.....promiscuity is not something you just stop abruptly so please stick to Mr Y and grow with him.

Zizzy Genovese said...

My dear 2nd poster, tag along with the three o, don't drop anyone yet and be prayerful. others will drop and the right one will tag along
I repeat do not drop anyone!
I am saying this from experience

Poster one are you kidding me? You are categorically dating yourself. Okbye

Olori footwear said...

Reading comments. Dating x, y, and z... soso ginwa?

BluntIjebuChic said...

Chronicless
Poster 2**choi*this life get as e be oo,only you 3 men*oya nne biko don't be *selpomo*selfish*transfer that very rich one to me*hahan*ill decide on ya behalf
Poster 1.can't rem wetin I read again,poster 2 oya oya

goober said...

SMH

DVICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Poster1 pls do away wt d guy
Poster2 go for d biz man guy but mk sure u knw him better and let him do all necessary test b4 going in

aniefiok samuel said...

Poster1 stick to your decision
Poster 2, marry the business man

Anonymous said...

Olosho alert! Only you? Continue

Ebizimor Egbejule said...

Poster one u are in a situation ship oooo. Better get determined and forget him after all you d one doing all the do-ables. So it will be very easy for you to let go of him.
Poster 2: you are very lucky ooo but medical doctors seems to have same traits you jux described. No advice for u sha. Marry the one u love and you very happy with.goodluck

ExoticEyez MiMi said...

Poster 1: You are a side chick.

Poster 2: did I read X is 17yrs? Typo I guess. Lucky you three men, biko choose carefully becuase stingy men dont change. The best criteria to choose with is the friendship factor sha. Be wise

Anonymous said...

D'Royalty says:
Poster two
You are a sucker for very handsome guys, do you realize that handsome guys rarely stay faithful? Women chase them if they don't chase women, even the broke ones. Yes, women spend on handsome broke guys. Now, two of your handsome bobos are rich, prepare yourself for side chicks if you are choosing any of them.

Poster one
Are you fat?*inmoneymakersvoice* Are you ugly?*inLindaEzesvoice*
Stop waisting your time, leave the guy, a man who will love you and care for you will locate you.

Adeniji Bisi said...

Poster2..u are a fool.....Mr X is stingy and gives u nothing more than 20k,he is handsome and listen to u

Mr Y is a blabla,he loves u,handsome and u quarel every minute

Hmmm
Mr. Z is a business man,but u are scared,he has dated ur frnd once,he dumped d lady cuz u complained or cuz he wants to date or marry u....

Analysis

You are a sucker of handsome men and u have 3....I tink u need prayer and hot slap..Y is stingy cuz u know his salary which means,u are a TIF...u have answers 2ur wahala my sisiter.that's just d fact dia


Mc pinky

300 said...

Poster 2: Leave All The Celibate Talk! You Have Slept With Them... Children Of Nowadays!!! Health Is Wealth!!!

Anonymous said...

Hian! Poster1, why don't you read your write up after sending it in and see the logic and answer in your essay. Love yourself mrs manager!
Poster 2, are you for real? You talk about trust and money but you are lacking in both obviously and then blame it on some guy. Sweety, the world doesn't work like that so therefore try to make it a better place. A lot of people have had heartbreaks but that made them better people. It never derailed them but made them stronger. P.S your love for money will purge you of good things if you don't learn to blind yourself to how much they earn and earn some youself with your perfumed sweat! *truth*


Oma

MichoHay said...

Poster two: My dear stop deceiving your self you are not in any celibate relationship, as long as you are gbenshing, the fact that your are not gbenshing Y and Z does not make you celibate. Being celibate means you are not having any sexual relationship or abstaining from sex, but which you do with Mr X...
My advise goes thus: That Doctor would never marry you, as far as facts is concerned, reason is because most doctors marry each other and 99% of them do, at most they will marry a nurse and that is even if he is not married yet or have a fiancΓ©e, he is not stingy, for someone that earns that much, the reality is that he doesn't see any need to spend much money on you because there will not be a future between you both, you are a side chick that satisfies his thirst whenever he is hungry, his listening ability is because he probably has a younger one your age.
Mr Y is still a hustler, does not have his feet yet, not experienced, will not settle down soon, he feels there should be room for exploration as per youthful exuberance. Mr Z will continue to be promiscuous, he dated your course mate, broke up with her because of you and am sure he did that after eating her cookie, now he is running heel over you. You can never change a man only God does. Once a promiscuous person will always be promiscuous except if he is now born again and tongue talking. His changes is for a while and will give you anything to eat your cookie, he is a player and taking his time, that is what players do, professional players are always patient, and they don't have to date two or more persons in order for you not to take them serious. Lastly from all indication you are a player too, keeping three relationship at once all because of your past na waooo. As far as Karma is concern the right man will not settle down except you change your ways, and pray to God for the right man to come your way.

Anonymous said...


writer 1; You are alone and you do not know, hope you now know

writer 2; You are hawt like that, 3 handsome men. wow! So Mr X is the one you give the cookie despite the fact that he wont marry you and Mr Z, you say he was promiscuous, please what are you now? Promiscuous professional. Look out for the basics, even a straight man can turn promiscuous tomorrow, you just have to hold your corner as a wife and hope he doesn't cheat. I think that is your concern.

Mr X is your comfort zone and i don't think you should marry him cause, you will resent him in due time. You will compare him to these other 2 guys. By the way, Mr Z, is a millionaire, he will set you up and you will be able to afford the life you want. Babes, go and marry and free the single men.

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

@1, ready the second chronicle and learn, u are not a wise girl, go get another guy and pay him less attention, he will be d one running after u.
@2, I personally hate stingy guys, doctors, lawyers & bankers are very stingy, except very few who do not have poverty mentality, dump Mr X, Y, try Mr Z since he's generous.

Dewdrop said...

U can have x n y just give me z😌.

Ammie said...

Poster 1: please free that guy
You can't make a relationship work all by your self
If he doesn't come around then he isn't into you
Stop worrying yourself biko..it's not like he's the last man on earth

Anonymous said...

Well Poster 2 its too damn obvious because we have a winner; Mr. Z!!!
Congratulations.

Anonymous said...

@ Poster 2 you are confused because you are a big thief. Your complaint was much on Mr Y cos he is presently financially broke.
All I see in your confused write up is money! Money! Money!
Why do you depend on men? why not try to live your own life.
Am sure if Mr. Y is financially stable you wouldn't fight Him everyday and the complaint wouldn't be much.
My only advise for you is to take it to the Lord in prayer.
You are a confused thief!

Doctor'swife said...

Poster 1.. No man is ever too busy for the woman he loves, I'm very sure mr busy takes a few minutes out for lunch or even goes for a wee in the little spare time he can call you if he really wants to.
My conclusion please look for another boyfriend cause this your boo has a boo plus in the meantime to test his love don't call him again, trust me if he's serious he will look for you.

Poster2 lol I really think you should continue seeing all 3 of them so long you don't have sex with any (stop having sex with Doc too) and marry which ever one that proposes first but if I were you.. I'll go with the Mr Z.

RICHBEE said...

Poster 1.. Who told you he is your boyfriend? Or you mean HE IS YOUR FRIEND THAT IS A BOY?
My dear you're dating yourself


Poster2...if mrX is 17yrs older than you, how old are you? And how old is he?

You're the one wearing the shoes.. I can't decide for you

Good luck

Anonymous said...

Poster 1,ur boyfriend is going thru 'see finish syndrome' he has seen u finish. As it is,if u decide to break up with him,he won't even notice that u left.
Poster 2,hmmmmmm,only u,3 guys,well that serves guys right. I choose mr Y for u.

RICHBEE said...

Mayb he is the only man on earth for her

Anonymous said...

Stella wen is the next SnM I no get boo not even one

RICHBEE said...

Travel
Change your sim
Stop communicating with his friends and family (?)

Nicole said...

Lmao! I'm just glad she isn't sleeping with the corper. It's guys like him that'll knock her up.

Anonymous said...

AMA shit here before u come back.... Mmmmmm, ':-hskhxh$#*@

Candid Naija said...

*will

Nicole said...

Join a convent.

Atheist. said...

Or roll a dice*

Nicole said...

Gbam! P2 needs one more guy to gain clarity. Lol!

Nicole said...

Lol! TMI!

adah befash said...

Poster2 Leave the three of dem. only den will u focus....Lol

Anonymous said...

Mmchew rubbish

Rob said...

Poster 2 all I kept seeing his he gives me he gives me. What do you have to offer apart from your two timing cheating ass. Linda ikeji is your mate. Get a carrier and focus on a reasonable man undercover whore

Rob said...

Poster 2 all I kept seeing his he gives me he gives me. What do you have to offer apart from your two timing cheating ass. Linda ikeji is your mate. Get a carrier and focus on a reasonable man undercover whore

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: u have no RIGHT to talk about faithfulness u are almost dating the entire alphabet ooooo...if u can't put all ur eggs in 1 basket, so will Z not put all his own eggs in 1 basket(u) too...

Anonymous said...

In relationships we think we may end up getting the right person by cutting corners but at the end of the day, you gonna end up with someone like you which is a man that lacks integrity with a poor value system. You may think you have made the right catch through the game you are playing but at the end of the day, you gonna see that they are lack integrity just like you. Until you fix your value system, you gonna end up with a fools gold. We have all had heart breaks but it should not lead us away from the path of integrity and truth

yasmeen s said...

Poster one kindly waka to d single ladies bus stop n await d next available guy abeg.one that will cherish n take good care of u not this one making u insecure u hear?

Anonymous said...

You are right jare

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Shut up biko...
I'm sure you are a broke ass...no chick wants people like you...

Anonymous said...

Dr Ekwa... Ryt, believe me u re not d only one.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2: so because aeroplane dey crash, u go trek go London?...ur excuse for being reckless is nonsense!...imagine! U think it's only ladies dat get der hrts broken? What if all men decide not to put all der eggs in 1 basket? .....

Hmmmmmmmmm Na dis kind of networking dey encourage the spread of HIV/AIDS and other STD's.Only u! X Y and Z. Be careful oooo

Atheist. said...

How to breakup with a cry baby boyfriend? That one easy na, you for don ask since.....
Procedure 1: Simple fake a HIV doc, but don't tell him directly, use an anonymous number to send him a txt, makin him bliv its one of his friends, he will confront u... Hope u can form crocodile tears sha.

Procedure2: If he's AS, then u better form AS too.... The rest will be history.

Procedure3: Supply him the necessary substance & method of use to impliment a perfect suicide, then tell him its over & he can go ahead and use it..... Trust me he will never use it, psychological research has proven that a jilted lover will never use it, it kills depression & makes u not worthy of him taking his life.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1,ur boyfriend is going thru 'see finish syndrome' he has seen u finish. As it is,if u decide to break up with him,he won't even notice that u left.
Poster 2,hmmmmmm,only u,3 guys,well that serves guys right. I choose mr Y for u.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

*guys...

Anonymous said...

Christ is coming soon.Repent before irs too late

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Holy nweje!....
Biko swerve!...

Anonymous said...

Madam alphabet boyfrnds...So imagine dat u pick Z....u have succeeded in adding to the numbers of men who can't trust women...
I see ur chronicle is all about what faults dis men have...My sister, u no mention ur own ooooo!....

Doby said...

Ur comment makes mega sense!

Anonymous said...

Four mnths is too shrt for dieing love. B firm in ur decision, just leave!!!! No one ever died from heartbreak

Anonymous said...

Please send me Mr X and Mr Y's contact

Anonymous said...

Hahaha poster 3, runs girl alert!!

fresher said...

Poster one "Nagina" ..is his name Raymond? Chai dis guy would turn you into a crazy woman...I would suggest you read DAT book " why men love bitches"...get busy girl,the moon nd d sun nd d stars don't revolve around him.. You chasing him up and down, why won't he be hot nd cold...get this book sweetie, it will give you sense,nd I bet you he would be d one chasing you nd not d oda way round...

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

Just four months and he's already wanting to commit suicide ontop your matter?
Death has been calling him since he's just looking for who to take the blame.
Stupid senseless boy.

Glow! said...

Poster 2 I concur with Linda Eze, you better be a smart ass and stick to Mr Z like glue cos he's the best of the trio.
I envy you sef but I like you wella!!!

Elixir Ray said...

Then ask him for biiiiiig money so that he will run by himself. Lol...

Ruby Rubicon said...

Just watched the film "STALKER " what an interesting movie!

Poster 1; unless are. Dating yourself!

Poster 2; now that u are hot, be wise and you really need to see dis movie

Anonymous said...

posta 1: stop being side chick


posta 2: who is asking whether you dey gbensh all 3.
shatttap dia and continuu to donate your pussy to the 3 handsome men afterall your docta go dey treat you all the yaya you are taking and giving.
u think you are smart ,

Glow! said...

Didn't you read where she stated she didn't sleep with the dude that dumped her cos she was a virgin then? Mumu i must comment! Mtschewwwww

Roseberry said...

Hope X, y, z are not on SDK.....

tracy James said...

Hian!!

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

Dropping anyone is the stupidest thing she could ever do.
Since guys are allowed to have side chicks,girls too should be allowed to have side niggas.

Just play along and the most serious of them would be the last man standing.

Anonymous said...

It took me 5 good years to get over my ex. These men dey do us strong tin no be small.

Anonymous said...

getttttttoooooooouttttttt
its not funny
find something to do with your time and stop writing nonsense.


Angel micheal.

Thatigbobabe(Lilyflower) said...

Hope you no collect HIV join

Anonymous said...

Ur comment really cracked me up

DonMayor said...

Poster one. Go and love yourself and stop ranting.
Poster two. God bless you with three wise mugu. Enjoy yourself while making the best choice. You know what's good for you.

QUEEN AMY D PEACE LOVER said...

Yea give him space girl, he isnt into you.

All these chronicles are becoming boring
Can we just talk about another thing apart from love, sex, relationship huh.....Hope we aint watching much of zee world

QUEEN AMY D PEACE LOVER said...

Lol the gal is crazy

QUEEN AMY D PEACE LOVER said...

Or that shit eating stuff too making it no 7
Lmao

QUEEN AMY D PEACE LOVER said...

Will you consider my 4months ekuke dog
His name is fogoso all the way from Marima philipine

Mao Akuh said...

Poster 1 - I beg you leave that guy alone, he's wasting your time. A guy that loves a girl will definitely call, chat, text, etc and since your boyfriend isn't doing any, please WAKA before he WAKA leave you.

Poster 2 - One thing with some Doctors when they want to marry they'll marry someone that's older than them or same age bracket or even with little age different. That Doc may not marry you. Stop sleeping with him and watch how the relationship will be, get your conclusion from there.
- The corper guy thought he's still in school. Close your legs and watch him. How long are you gonna correct and correct a grown man? If he loves you more, then give him some times while you watch how mature he is in tackling issues.
- Let me ask - What kind of business is he into? Is it something that can last for a longer/life time even if there's a 'shake'? In case, he loves you more, use the opportunity to get him to invest in other things while you save money from him BUT try build your career first before marriage, above ALL-
TALK TO GOD ABOUT IT.

QUEEN AMY D PEACE LOVER said...

He wont be the ist to kill himself and I bet he wont kill himself

nice said...

Chronicles

Jamess Bond said...

Travel. Take his calls once daily, then once a week. Act like poster one's boyfriend till u taper it down till u guyss won't see forever and talk like once in forever. Goodluck.

cynthia chioma said...

That's very true...poster one, you know you deserve better, although breaking up is not easy but you have to break up with that guy cus if you continue with what you jst wrote up dia, am telling you from experience that he won't change. That was how my ex was giving me attitude till I broke up with him and moved on withouth looking back, only for him to come back after 8motnhs wanting us to start over,even sent his friends to help out...I was just laffing. One day he saw me and was like "I have really missed us oo" I laffed soo had and shouted "stories that touch the bom bom" my dear..leave that guy and better guys will come.

Missy Jay said...

Poster 1 that guy does not love u i was once in ur shoes but I walked away and am happy I did instead of worrying myself
Poster 2: Only u hmmm na wa oo make ur choice fast so that u don't end up losing all of them..they were not the one that hurt u so pls stop double dating

J.Analyst said...

Poster2: You seem to be acting fast and intelligent but that not true, Mr. X is the smartest of them all,for him to be eating from ur honey pot and still careless about you(He is an elder state man). the two other are just being careful not to loss you but u have taken there simplicity to redicule them. Also u complained about Mr. Z being womanizing... then what are u doing as well in 3 men in ur circle... u must be manizing (LOL) or exploring your God given talent.

It will be better to be objective to yourself, knowning what Mr. X really want from you and putting Mr. Z into test of his genuity about his love towards you and least let Mr. Y be keep in silent cos if you put him first and things didnt work the way u really want because of his finance, i doubt if u wouldnt regret leaving the bouyant ones for him cos u don know money wella.

Please think twice. Good luck!!

Pete said...

MrX is a no no. 17 years difference? . What thhe fvck are u doing with your ancestor. That man doesn't want to get married. Ssounds like Ekuazi from UNTH. They keep changing girls like pant. There is a reason no lady hitched him since. Don't be thhe one to find out. Ur choice is apparently Z from what u have described. Though if u ain't comfy with hhis past, get Mr W. Get a fourth guy. Meanwhile, start demanding everything u can and start warming up to leave MrX. Its cos of young people like you that hhe never gets old. He'll keep on refreshing.andd u'll keep looking older than ur age.

QUEEN AMY D PEACE LOVER said...

Thank Allah say na boo and for this hot kpanshing, I wish you quadruplet.

Anonymous said...

Kikikikiki! I swear u too get am! Celibate my ass!

Anonymous said...

Poster one my experience is like yours so will read comments. Poster two go for Z. If he starts acting funny drop him fast. What I know is when you find the one, you will know deep down, there would be little doubt. It's not just about money. You will be happy with that person. I cannot judge you, all I can tell you is if you follow God in spirit and in truth you will get it right. I myself am trying to get things right with God, I have seen a lot. A friend who I know was faithful to God is happily married today. There are those who were not celebate, yet, God had mercy on them. So all in all, we should put God first.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Why men love bitches
Why men marry bitches

Those two books changed my life!!
Me that was single since 1900 I now had numerous wanna be boyfriends to pick from. Chai!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Na so una go dey comment without reading

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Story! The next day you will catch him in mama ngozis joint tearing isiewu and drinking palm wine.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Another ignorant reader. No wonder una dey fail exam

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

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Chai! Words out my mouth. That's really chicken change. Really he's a 20k guy on that salary. And that's the truth. Although once in a while he can try to do something extra. But on that paycheck, he's a 20k guy most def. don't expect anything more.
You're still a student when you graduate you go see paycheck you go faint.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

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Anonymous said...

Poster2, how about you focusing on completing school and making money for yourself. Is it a crime if you become rich and have your own money? All I see in your chronicle is he is rich or he is not rich. If YOU were rich, money won't be an issue, then you'll see who really loves you or not. That's the problem with women in Nigeria. No one wants to hustle and make it. Every one wants ready made.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

*career

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

*snoop

Anonymous said...

Well said @ michohay

The General's Wife said...

Hahahahhaha @ Atheist.

But wait o.dat last one no follow.dude might actually go ahead and kill himself. Some people are not as normal as dey seem.

And at that 1st hilarious suggestion.though I veto it but den we have to weigh the mental balance of this dude.
Is he gonna freak out and do away with our girl here cos of d "Death Sentence" oh yea! Dats how some peeps see HIV.

Bia babes,who crying Don help?
Biko do what u have to do and get on with ur life.
Inukwa pleasing someone to displease urself.

Zizzy Genovese said...

Hehehe chi exotic gbam!

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 15.07, your mumu past poster 1 own. Why can't you read?you must belong to advisers club

StraightLaced Aunty said...

One trillion where have u been?

Riri said...

Poster 1...babe you are d side chick...I once had a bf like that and I broke up with him few months ago...seems to me that it is him you are dating... But I no go talk sha...he s an ass...and d sooner you realize it and leave him the better it would be for you o...that guy s just gonna leave you hooked and even at that.. I know you are not gonna leave him...I was once dere...I saw the signs...friends saw d signs but he was such a sweet talker...but trust me...you can't endure it...so don't think that

Anonymous said...

The babe is lying.. She is fucking three of them.

Anonymous said...

Half a million a month & ur brain wan breakdown when some young guys earn over 1.5m a month.

Anonymous said...

I tire oh, utility bills for a month sef don pass 100k, I need more than 500 yet I follow for I dey manage

Jojo said...

Gbam

Anonymous said...

Awwww please may i be your boo.
I just want to make you happy and love you. Hope you dont mind

Anonymous said...

Poster 2, I hope the Mr. X who is a doctor, is not the who that I am thinking, Dr. Victor Osakwe, Onitsha based, very fair and handsome.

SONYES SIGNATURE said...

Chronicles

SONYES SIGNATURE said...

Atheist oooo lmao

aisha jane said...

Hehehe.. Bvs oh, Nne berra listen to them

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

Hahahaha
Queen amy bet why?

Anonymous said...

Poster 2, You are very silly, Can you hear yourself? the idiot you're sleeping with is stingy? Poor the rest od them, only if they know that their future virgina is not so celibate. The doctor is married off course, only you haven't find out.

Sweet Mother said...

Eyah!

Anonymous said...

Good books. I feel sad I read it after my ex dealt with me but it's all good. My boyfriend now don't mess with me.

Imo Chic said...

Poster 1, if u r d one making most of the calls, it means the guy isn't into you. You are likely to be a side chic or the one forcing the relationship to happen. If a guy loves you, no matter how busy he is, he will make time to hear your voice. Find another boyfriend and stop deceiving yourself.

Poster 2 why date someone 17 years older? When he retires, u will be d one to sponsor your kids in university.πŸ˜‘

The millionaire will still be a womanizer. How can he date ur friend? If u marry him, u go hear am

The corper....he is my best option but it depends on ur age. He may not get a job early. So marriage won't be on his mind.

The doctor s age.... 17 years....
He seems like d best but no matter how handsome he is, its only a matter of time b4 ppl think he is ur dad

*lights weed*πŸ˜ˆπŸ˜’

Ada-nne said...

It has been said by emjay

Ada-nne said...

Poster 1, leave him
Poster 2, stop opening your legs, focus!

Ronalda. said...

#1: Honey, most times the simplest explanation is the true position of things. I'm assuming he chased you initially, yes? It appears you are now chasing him and that is the fastest way to lose your dignity to a guy.

It's only been months and you are the one fighting to sustain a relationship with a guy who clearly doesn't feel the same. I don't care how busy a guy is, the early stages of a relationship is usually intoxicating, especially if he really likes the lady. I'm not even talking about love because that's an emotional opiate on its own.

I'm sorry, darling, perhaps I'm old school but I think the 1st six months of any healthy relationship should be the time the guy dedicates to proving that he deserves a lady's affections. It saddens me each time I hear of or read ‎about a situation where a lady in a relationship barely 6months old is already feeling neglected. Apparently, something was done too fast and too soon. It's either you showed him too much emotions too soon or he got a better deal with someone else. When I use the word "emotions", I'm not referring soley to sex. After all a lot of virgins get dumped before the 1st quarter of the duration of their relationships. You can still choke a guy with too much attention and become clingy and needy even with your legs closed.

Stop whatever you're doing because, obviously, it ain't working. If a guy wants you, he should be man enough to jump through hoops for you. If he can't, please let him go. Trust me, every man has the woman he will do anything to have. Please, my love, don't allow him occupy the space of the man who will bring Empires down just to see you smile. It's no fairytale, he is out there somewhere.‎

This is your time to shine, how can you be the one initiating calls and dates? He should be so restless if he hasn't heard from you in a day! He doesn't have to come over in person, he can call or even text. Listen, darling, there's no such thing as a man being too busy to check on the woman who holds he heart. If he isn't checking on you, it's a safe presumption that you don't top his list of priorities. Don't make excuses for him or blame yourself. He isn't feeling the relationship the way he ought to so let him go. If he really wants you, he knows how to reach you. If at all he comes back, you should be the one to decide whether or not you want him back, he should be an option because he treats you as such.‎

#e-bearhugs.‎

Anonymous said...

She's in love with Mr. X. Maybe because he is not paying her that much attention. Babe, love the one who loves you best and stop giving Mr. X your cookies.

Anonymous said...

Poster1 u r a side chic d sooner u move on d better for u....Poster2 I think deep down u know who u want...follow ur heart

Nkylorah said...

Poster 1,you are on your own. Poster 2,you need deliverance and serious prayers.

Anonymous said...

This blog harbours the silliest and most embittered women in the country...

Iphie dearie said...

LMAO@Atheist.
But GW,the last one will definitely work.
He will just eye her and realise she's too much of a "meanie" for him to take his life for.

LWKMH ooooh!

Anonymous said...

Thats true oo.. if d geh is too young shes 20 den d guy wld be 37. My bf is 32 and earns way more dan dat but still complains dat hes underpaid. Anyway.. maybe d poster is from a poor background.

Emjay Baba said...

Pass me the ganja

Anonymous said...

Poster 1: learn to love e yourself, I bet you've slept with him, you're the prize, a queen! Why would you let a guy treat you like trash

natt nathaniel said...

Mummy, where is your end time red pen?
End time confused posters.

Dre said...

Poster 1. Have you been living in a cave? Wake up and smell the coffee. He's not that into you. Move on please.
2. Whenever I come across a Chronicle where the sender begins to talk about Mr A and Mr Z and Mr what not, I lose interest. Goodluck.

Crush said...

If you think 500k salary equals well to do millionaire,poster 2 you are very naive and you must be living in a fools paradise.i am questioning your definition of handsome too.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1,grow up abeg! If you are unhappy in a relationship leave! It's not marriage.
Poster 2, stingy emotionally unavailable millionaire out, broke ass corper who doesn't listen...? really? as for the 3rd guy.. , there's definitely something sexy about ur husband being older than you and for me, 10yrs sounds just right. that he has money is a plus but it all boils down to it you like him enough to marry him. as for his past indiscretions, I hold the belief that if a man doesn't have past indiscretions he may have future ones. Shebi you said he has changed. And who is to say your other candidates will tow the straight and narrow? Nne pls pick one and settle down before karma bites your ass and you loose all three.

Anonymous said...

Gbam!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Ronalda,no one could've put it better.God bless you immensely.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1: you just described my last relationship with my ex before I got married.
My dear, that guy doesn't love you. He doesn't at all.

He isn't your boyfriend. He just wants sex from you and nothing more.

I will advise that you shift very well. Fall in love with yourself and wait patiently for the man who will love you and infact is crazy about you.

God just sent me an angel in form of my husband when I decided to trust Him. I feel you should do the same

Anonymous said...

Poster 1
I was once in ur condition n decided to show him d way forward, single n happy is better.
Poster 2
I would prefer Z, but d story wey follow him brings in a question mark tk it to God in prayers.

Meanwhile, I won't loneliness kill me new frnds r welcome 58DCB7F6