Hmmmm this is what i call Love's Carousel!
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
LOVE CIRCLE WITH MR A AND MR B
My Stellalistica Stella how are you. I must commend you for always reaching out to people. God almighty will continue to be with you. Am in a state of dilemma and I need your RED INK.
Am currently dated 2 guys (covering my face) and am scared I might get caught.
Let me call them Mr.A and Mr.B.
A lives in Lagos and B lives in abuja.
Have known A for close to 8years and within this 8 years we dated for 3years. During the 3 years of our relationship I was cheating on him. Let's say I dated him out of pity. I couldn't continue cos I was dying of so much guilt so I broke up with him but we remained very good friends and I gave him my shoulder whenever he needed it.
I met B 2015 and after 3 months of constant talking we started dated. He came to lagos to visit me and I insisted no sex. After that day I noticed his sudden change in his attitude. I kept complaining but he told me his work schedule was really crazy so I stopped complaining. One fateful day, the cleaner in my officer invited me for vigil and told me not to miss it for anything. I was skeptical about going because am a Muslim but I honored her invitation. When we got to the camp ground, I greeted one of the men of God and as I took the next step he called me back.
He asked me a question and I was dumbfounded. He said and I quote " young woman, you have 3 guys in your life who have one point in time discussed marriage with you. But am hearing one name. " Low&behold he mentioned Mr.A's name and asked if I knew anyone with that name. I was so shocked. I told him yes I did. That we once dated some years back but I broke up with him. He then said that is my husband. After that vigil I deleted Mr.B and blocked his number. Then I started initiating conversations with Mr.A. As God will have it Mr.A just left a toxic relationship and he needed a shoulder to lean on. We both became very close and decided to give it a shot. I have been happy and I have promised God almighty not to cheat on Mr.A.
Mr.A is talking marriage and he wants us to have our introduction before this year runs out. Now the problem is Mr.B is back. I told him about Mr.A and he said he is ready to fight for our love. I talk more with Mr.B than Mr.A. Mr. B is all lovey dovey and he is also talking marriage. He recently booked my flight ticket to Abuja and am too travel this Friday and come back Sunday. I told him I can't come alone so he booked two ticket for myself and my friend. I lied to Mr.A that I have a job in Ogun state so I wont be around this weekend.
Stella I don't intend to sleep with Mr.B cos I made a promise to God that I will never cheat on A. But some of my friends are saying I should keep both of them. Some are saying I should discharge Mr.B and face Mr.A. What if Mr. A dissappoints me. Should I travel to Abuja this Friday or not. Should I tell Mr.B somethings came up and I don't think I can come down. I need your red ink. Blog reader please easy with the abuse Biko.
I need mature advice. Thanks and God bless.
N.B
Did I mention my sister is getting married ending of this month and I invited both Mr.A and Mr.B ........Kai
Biko advice a sister o beg you.
*My head is spinning from this story.....*Thinking and going round in circles.*
Your heart seems to be with Mr B....hmmmm
Side eyes @ chronicles for today
ReplyDeleteMmtcheeeeeeew
DeletePoster, yansh down somewhere.
I think Mr.B is loaded with cash while Mr.A is cashless.
DeletePoster shine your eyes.
God has delivered and showed you way by sending a prophet your way, yet you are bended on some frivolous feelings.
DeleteWho feelings help?! Feelings don baff?!
Don't let material things and some short frenzy otherwise 'infatuation' ruin you of everlasting... you know what I mean?!
Poster one ; plus give me the contact for Mr B, I was currently posted to Aruba for service , and I don't know a soul there .*In between* Am a guy
DeleteHmm when people like me are fasting for just one, issorai!
DeleteLike Stella said, I also think your heart is with Mr B than A. How do we advise you? You didn't say anything how how they treat you and make you feel, how then do we judge? Nne follow whoever brings the most peace, but I think A would make a better husband.
*msFerragamo
Do u know the irritating thing about ur write up is ur wrong use of "am" instead of "I'm "and "have"instead of "I Have".please go and learn the proper usage. Y are I confused u better pray well and seek the voice of God and not ur friends.
DeleteYou are about to make a big mistake by taking your FRIEND there. What if he sees your friend and likes her, you will come with another chronicle.
DeleteAda-nne not all friends are like you
DeleteI'm in the same dilemma but for me I like my Mr A more than B. B is richer though but I don't fancy him. @Poster; only take your friend with you If she's ugly to avoid stories that touch o!
DeleteChronicles!!!
ReplyDeleteBrb.
******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS******
You gave 'A' your shoulder or kpekus whenever he needed it?..
DeleteInviting them both isn't any problem considering d fact dt Mr b knws Mr A and u hv nt slept wt Mr b yet so keep it so but I see him forcing or raping u wen u go there so b ready
DeleteIf he doesn't succeed now,he will still bck out bcx I feel he needs d cookey
Em Jay, kpekus to lean on
DeleteMr B na side nigger
DeleteMr A is a big time manipulator. You mentioned you guys have been friends for a long time aye? So he probably knows a lot about you and your work place or he invested a lot of time trailing you. The way I'm seeing it, he probably bribed the your work woman and the pastor. That was why he conveniently ended his "toxic relationship". He was in no relationship, he's a psycho who wants to get what he wants by all means and as women, we are blessed with enhanced intuition that's why you were never in love with him, because there's so much layers, basically you don't trust him as a matter of instinct. Find yourself, be clear of the two men, make yourself busy, don't walk into complications, your sanity and peace of mind should be the most important thing to you. Find your inner peace and happiness. All the best.
DeleteNNE clap for yourself.....all the same follow your heart
ReplyDeleteHow do you even know Mr A did not plan with the pastor and your friend that invited you? Stay there make shoe dey wear you. I don't know how you people hang on everything these pastors/prophets say concerning who your husband/wife is, That you'll turn your whole life upside down because of it.
DeleteHow do people end up making their lives so complicated?
ReplyDeletePoster, I hope you make the right choice.
As in eh!
DeleteI don't understand.
Marry me A if he's rich,I think he loves you more
ReplyDeleteHow many men fights for love these days, even when they know that the gal in question is a public toilet... My dear Mr A might have interior motives..advise yourself..
DeleteThis is a joke right!!!
ReplyDeleteChronicle ti de
ReplyDeleteGod please help us. When will i read positive chronicles that is not about prick and punani.
ReplyDeleteDont know what this world is turning to?
Prick n punani brought u to this world, which other better topic is thr to talk about *tongue out*
DeleteHehehehehe....
DeleteYoung lady, you obviously are not worthy of their love and admiration.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe in a pastor said this and that so I'd ignore that part where Mr. A was mentioned as the right man for you.
You are not ready for something serious obviously else you will make up your mind and be serious. Just two men and you think you've arrived
You'd end up losing both then you'd probably marry the seer. All I'd tell you though is that the devil you know is better than the devil you don't know. Do not marry anyone out of pity or pressure because the day your partner finds out he or she will resent you.
Only you can say what you want and like about a man. Find it and stick to it. Stop playing around if you truly want to settle down. #Okbye
Good advise. What is more; since you are going to see Mr B with your friend, i guess saying congratulations to her on her marriage is in order.
DeleteI was once told Dat a certain guy Dat was on my case will be my husband. Lol. Guess what, the guy isn't in my life anymore. Babe, don't be deceived, tread carefully and pray ur way through.
DeleteHahahahaha...
ReplyDeletePoster,you are a sharp girl!...
I like your type jare...biko don't discharge any of them...
Infact gather more men mehn...the most serious of them should do the needful ASAP!...
Infact,marry the first to propose!...
Go to Abuja and enjoy!...even your boo get a boo!...
Kwakwakwakwa...
Lili you never disappoint..
DeleteI million like for this comment . Lmao
DeleteHahahah a....dis woman ure a witch
DeleteU don take overdose of weed
DeleteI know you will love her. Scrolled down for your comment 😂😂
DeleteI know linda will applaud this.
DeleteWhy not stick to Mr A? And stop confusing yourself. Infact follow your heart. You are old enough to know what's best for you
ReplyDeleteThis is my advice to you and other little minded folks that believe these "men of God". That scammer that called Mr A by name must have gotten the info from your cleaner- yes, your cleaner must be pretty close to you to invite you and tell you not to "miss it for anything". Be careful. You're the only one to know the type of man you wanna be with. Mr B sounds like your type of man. Go for him. Lastly, Nigerians need to wean themselves off these god of men you call men of God.
DeleteIt's very obvious Mr B is well to do than Mr A I guess that's why u re considering him or the flight ticket he mention to you is intoxicating you lol I don't know which of the above but I wouldn't advice u to lay all of ur eggs on just one basket. Go and see Mr B but never assume anything serious btw the both of you. And apart from that why not even keep dating the both of them and see what works out for you. I don't go by Wat that pastor said anyway. Just date the both of dem and see the outcome. Mind u, you are not cheating on anybody here, let me nt hear u make such statement again, that I do not want to cheat on Mr B, are u married to him yet? And secondly don't let money decide for u, just allow ur heart and God to lead you OK. Stay well and blessed.
ReplyDeleteI agree TOTALLY with your advice /suggestion. May God help this poster to make the right decision.
DeletePoster I will advice u to go with MrA not becos a man of God told u so but from ur narration MRB just want sex and dump u but MRA has always been consistent.
ReplyDeleteSo you think the flight ticket odikwa free? Be jonzing....
DeleteI hope Mr b will not finally give u and std or use for rituals..that man seems to be on a revenge mission.. Why would he want to pay for your friend... Oh to prov u guys won't have sex... Pls poster can u borrow me me your brain? Cos u r obviously not using it..
DeleteWell those friends of yours will still be the first to tell MR A how you traveled to gbensh MR B. Marry anyone you wish it's good for you. Above all, pray on your own and follow your instinct, don't wait and rely on what the Pastor said.
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
The same friends will burst her bubbles when the time comes.
DeleteI don't know why girls don't learn, 'please keep your business to yourself'
Ps: did you say you are Muslim? What's up with the 'biko'
Hhhmm igbo Muslim? Oriegwu!
Hehehehe..interesting read...ponderings of a serial manizer. .
ReplyDeleteI'm here to read the comments of others
simply a hoe and a bitch
ReplyDeletetripple dating
if na man write this one in now, we no go hear word
Mtcheeeeeew yeye de smell
ReplyDeletePoster,i pray in ur stupid quest u do not lose ur God-given hubby. Keep fooling around
ReplyDeleteLongthroat
ReplyDeleteIf u can't stay faithful while single u won't be faithful when married.
U are enjoying the thrill of being pursued.Pray u do not lose both
@poster, why are you covering ur face? Olosho
ReplyDeleteJames shut up..u unko are u sincere with ur babe?u too b olosho
DeleteWho dash James babe with that his 2 inch d**k
DeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis poster is confused. Stay with Mr A and rest jare. Pray to God to give you a spirit of discernment.
DeleteFollow your heart, I think you are more in love with Mr B. Babe, true love is all about being with one person, search your heart very well and follow your mind.
ReplyDeleteAll the best.
Hmm this dated dated sef anyway what's my own.My dear, u r only considering MR A cos u heard he's ur husband, What if MR B is actually ur husband? Now u shud try to be upright cos u can't come with unclean hands n expect God to fight for u.What does ur heart tell u? Do it but one @ a time.If u had done it this way u won't be this confused,men are around for a long time I'm not here to judge u but then do ur hearts bidding pls.If u keep seeing d both of them even ur "God ordained" husband (if he's not any of the 2)might cheat on u and ud remember the way u treated MR A.
ReplyDeleteJames is back. Where did the son of man port to?
DeleteI for one missed you sha!!!
Mr B is prolly more well to do than Mr A.
ReplyDeleteYou don't like Mr A, you are only with him because the prophet said he's your husband.
Why would you even invite both of them to your sister's wedding. Seems like you're enjoying the whole thing and I just pray you don't lose them both at the end of the day
Now forget what the pastor or whoever said, look inward and decide for yourself, who you really want to be with.
Keep both of them dummy, how can u vow not to cheat on A when he has not wifed u yet, I tot u are a smart girl, u are even more foolish for inviting both of them to ur sisters wedding, visit Mr B this weekend and tell him ur d wedding has been postponed, let me warn u, don't ever put ur eggs in one basket, keep both of them to avoid another chronicle.
ReplyDeleteOlojukokoro
ReplyDeleteChasing two rats?
You deleted and blocked his number how did he get to invite you to Abuja
Choose 1 and move on
dog wey wan die, no dey hear e master whistle. Continue you hear with your we started "dated". Mtchewwwww. Mr B will rape you and give you a disease don't worry. Imagine travelling all the way and saying "I dont intend to have sex"! Annoying person. #GrouchyMorning#
DeleteDon't go about chasing stone whilst you've got a diamond in your court ,those friends advising you wud still be the ones dat'll snitch about your a-way match to mr A.....mr b is only coming around now to confuse and distract you so u'd miss ur blessing with mr A......Put on your thinking cap and let wisdom guard you.
ReplyDelete*faithful bv enemuwe thelma*
#word! Dats how devil works most times. At the end you may loose both. We're was Mr B since and y didn't he propose since, he's just a distraction.
DeleteI don't like your chronicle........ thought i left alphabets in further maths and physics in secondary school,until i got hooked on SDKB chronicle section........ see how pointless i sound......that is how your story sounds.
ReplyDeleteSo it just happens that a colleague pressured you to attend a crusade, a pastor then called MrA's name as your future husband......could be real or could be a grand arrangement by Mr A.........sounds too convenient.
So Mr B now booked flight, then you talk to him more.....now you suddenly forgot about falling for Mr A out of pity before, after the famous prophecy......... Miss, you are the problem! You just want to get married.
Somewhere along the line, you wrote a wrong story....... You are a pleaser and deeply indecisive.....very easy to see from you double-dating,inviting both to a wedding, going to a gathering outside your religion.... you do not sound like a liberal muslim to me....... i could hazard a guess....you are a yoruba muslim.
Please, remove the veil of desperation, find yourself, pray for a discerning spirit and apply patience.... therein lies your answer. Mr A, Mr B are just the beginning of cross-roads for you.....get a grip of yourself!
On point!
DeleteBest comment ever
DeleteI think Mr.A loves you genuinely, not because a pastor said so, but because he's always been there and has been loving all through.
ReplyDeleteMr.B, I think, is after your pussy and may likely dump you once he gets it
According to you, he changed when you told him no sex, formed busy and eventually left only for him to resurface now,
Has he changed jobs?
I can tell you for free that your Abuja trip is for sex (regardless of your friend going with you, she won't sleep in the same room with you nah, in fact, as a sharp guy, I'm sure he'll keep your friend "busy" with one of his friends) and once he fucks you, you can wave him bye!
Mr.A, I think, likes you at least, stick with him.........except there are other reasons you don't want him.
SHARONNA
U make sense
DeleteGbamest!!!!
DeleteHmmm.....sharonna sharonna, I am beginning to like you on this blog making sense babe. keep it up
DeleteI stopped reading at the point you said uve been cheating...... I kinda lost interest.
ReplyDeleteLemme read comments.
Even the atheist has moral, the boss and queen of Synagogue of TBJoshua come and learn moral from the atheist
DeleteWetin concern synagogue now with this comment??? Must you comment?? Mtcheeeew
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ReplyDeleteFor your mind you the happy say you get two men and MrB wey you love is back ur yash don d itch you to do, make i congratulate on your nx gist. Congratulations for losing both men bcos e go soon happy like dream dem two go waka. Fight for love as per African magic movie make you d der d deceive yourself. Tizup
ReplyDeleteDear poster,if you are not careful,you might end up single and and lonely!
ReplyDeleteYou don't even need a MOG to tell you that your husband is Mr A.Pls,resist Mr B,the devil is trying to distract you.If you travel this weekend to seeMr B,he will make sure he sleeps with you,make you fall for him again and disappear from your life.Pls,concentrate on A,even though you don't love him...@least he loves you and that's all that matters!
According to you, it was the pastors prophecy that made you run back to mr A....whom you initially dated out of sympathy. And mr B suddenly became serious when you told him about mr A as well as started talking marriage and expensive trips.
ReplyDeleteI don't pity you, I pity mr A.. .it's obvious you don't love him but he loves you and he won't let you go. He has severally reported you to God via prayers which of course prompted the prophecy...God pitied him also.
Your love mr. B more.. ..it's glaring! So the confusion lies in whether to follow prophecy or your heart.
Honestly I don't know... ..
You sound like an Igbo girl and you say you're a Muslim? I don't understand that part. Anyway let me tell you that Mr Bigs or whatever name u call him is all over u because he has not tasted the cooking Jar. Ur ijere is he wants, to make sure he gains something after all the expenses. My opinion. Obey the word of GOD.
ReplyDeletenah cooking pot?
DeleteCooking jar? That's new! 😂😂
DeleteLol. When they won't read books...
DeleteHow people sit down and comment on such Chronicles I don't know.
DeletePoster please grow up.don't think you know what you want.
ReplyDeleteAll I want is the venue of that your sister's wedding,thank you in advance.
ReplyDeleteHehehe,I swear u don kolo.Nawti u
Deletewhat does your heart and your head tell you. use both
ReplyDeleteU invited both? U nor wise
ReplyDeleteI pray you don't end up loosing both of them shaa.
DeleteStick to one already.
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ReplyDeleteHehehe. Who do u prefer? What if the man if God was arranged to tell you what he told u?it depends on u my dear.
ReplyDeletePoster the only problem you have is that you don't have a problem.
ReplyDeleteI won't be. Surrprised if Mr B has already booked a guy for your friend too. All I know is dat the gbenshing will be hot this weekend cos Mr B no be learner.
Pls revert and gist us if he's big down there and use a condom. Safe trip
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DeleteBuhaha. Too Epic
Delete😂😂😂😂😂 #dead
DeleteI smell a rat hmmm!!!!! Don't be surprise d cleaner must have giving d pastor a hint about u... pastors of these days sha!
ReplyDeletehian! poster!!! Na u sabi! I believe u r not a kid, so be careful wit dis ur double-dating ish.. otherwise u may loose them both. wetin u want make we tell u? abeg oo, u know wat u want, choose wisely! enof wit dis ur confusion jare. ok, bye.
ReplyDeleteMumu... only GOD ALMIGHTY can tell you who your husband is through visions or dreams.
ReplyDeleteHow can you trust the words of a 'man of God' or whatever you call him, with such a serious and delicate matter.
Use your head woman and go on your knees.
When will people learn..... SMH.
Abeg it is not all the time dreams are right o , I had different dreams abt him n gbam I saw he was married all along.
DeleteIf both of them r muslims,marry any one cos at d end of the day they will both marry other women making two or three wives
ReplyDeleteHope your story doesn't end up like Ronke's own, shey na to enter plane de sweet you! Wish you luck in finding who your missing bone is, this one don pass becareful.
ReplyDeleteIf you find yourself caught in a fix btwn two men, choose the second because if you really loved the first the second would have been maybe a temptation but never an option. No confusion here madam
ReplyDeleteContinue dating d both of dem, e go shocky u when u loose d both of dem.
ReplyDeleteMadam, what does your heart tell you? Because pastor say A is your husband does not mean it's the truth. Shebi na pastor go marry the A abi na you. You are not even a christain, why believe that kind prophesy. My dear, pray as u Know u can and settle for the one you're convinced in ur spirit is the one you can be with. Leave that pastor and his prophesy biko ooo.
ReplyDeletesmh... Jesus fix it.
ReplyDeleteNa wa ooh ... Why we women get problem like this??????? God has given u a man who loves and care for you. You still have the heart to cheat on him ... Go to your abj, u never enter flight before nonsense
ReplyDeleteAlso .. mumu poster
ReplyDeleteJust by me hearing your voice, i can tell you about your past, present and imminent future.
We all have the gift, some tap into it and other don't, while some use magic and others guess work.
one thing i have realized is that there will always be a better man, a more lovey -dovey man even after marriage. you just have to be contended and believe in your man.
ReplyDeleteAnother whore!!! This generation had better woke up cos the rate at which you guys are going, let me not say what's on my mind
ReplyDeleteWoke up ke? Haba! Fear God o!
DeletePlease in the name of whatever you hold high & holy...leave both men and find yourself an English teacher that will undo this bad grammar disease you have. Are these men blind and deaf abi you be their trophy catch? Tufiakwa...some men dey put hand for shit & rub it all over there mouth in the name of dating
ReplyDelete*their mouth. apparently you also need an English teacher
DeleteNne you can't eat your cake and have it. I really don't think you are ready for marriage. Because if you are you should know better than to entertain another person when you've decided to commit to Mr. A.
ReplyDeleteFirstly, did this your cleaner know about your relationship status? And the names of the guys in your life? If she did, then be wary of that 'prophecy' 😊
now, if she didn't and the man of God truly had a word of knowledge, the stick to Mr. A. But ask God what he is saying and hear from Him first . Take time out to fast and pray. Marriage isn't beans.
If there are things Mr. A isn't getting right, Nne teach him. If he doesn't know how to make phone conversation, talK to him about it and find out what interests him to talk about. Focus more on trying to make him a better person, as long as u admit you're not perfect and you need some 'work' too.
If he is God's will for you, God will open your heart to love him and all his excesses without complain. So it is important to pray about it.
me? I don't like that Mr. B. And maybe the devil has sent him to come and confuse you at this Dire minute. Better be wise.
as for inviting them both to your sis wedding, come here let me knock you 👊 is that what I taught you? See your head!! Better comport yourself that day so they can both spray your sister. And don't be lovey dovey with anyone. Thankfully family members would be there so there would be need for anyone to demand unnecessary attention or introduction. It would be rude to disinvite any of them, except of course you turn down Mr. B's abuja offer and he uses his head not to show up anymore.
I'm sure Mr. B is finer that's why your head is spinning. I lie?
When you put your eggs in ten baskets and have to carry at same time. Silly chronicle
ReplyDeleteAt times is good to marry someone out of pity though it is not healthy. I think it is better to be more loved than doing the loving and the man feeling on top of the world. At times if I remember how I treated my Akwa-Ibom Ex, I just feel sorry for him and wished I had married him but I can't even if I'm not yet married. There is something about him my spirit never accepted and feared for and that is 'Aggression'.
ReplyDeleteSo my sister, follow your heart. Most men that behave like this Mr. A I dey fear them I can't say for sure why but I feel they are deeply wicked and can do deadly or even violent. They can also fall cheaply for women - then begin to misbehave. My sister idk but I know my spirit has never accepted people like that.
You can try Mr.A anyway and have you asked why his relationships keeps ending? Na why I say forget this over loving men... dem head no correct. They can be a pest in your life and over controlling as well. I still thank God I never married that man even if he was super nice to me. I remember how he will want me to respond to his every conversation and my body then is weak to even react kai! or na the stalking?? Lord have mercy!!. Sister abeg watch both men from afar biko. If you want Mr.B why not? after all your heart pounds for him so follow your heart but don't forget to take it to God in prayer.
All the best.
Dear poster you must know one thing- God doesn't have grand children we all are his children and if he talked to someone about your case that means he has interest in you. So I'd advise you go to God in prayers and ask him to confirm to you that which he revealed to the man of God about your marriage so as to avoid confusion because he even said in his word that 'out of two witnesses a matter is confirmed'. Ask him to make you the 2nd witness so as to avoid confusion. Here, some will ask you to stay with A, some would say go back to B while others 'especially ndi obi akpor' will ask you to leave 'the two both of them' lol, so you'll be single and miserable, trust me you don't wanna go there...I know! So please my dear go back to God and get the confirmation you seek. May God answer you speedily.
ReplyDeletePoster, don't marry someone bcos a certain pastor said this or that.
ReplyDeleteFollow your heart. U will be the one to spend the rest of your life with the man not d pastor.
Don't marry bcos you pity someone
Why are u by ursef complicatin ur life, which one is this mrA n mrB tlk everywer,frm ur story mrA doesn't sound like such a bad person bt u dnt wnt to bring ursef to love him,u wnt mrB dt plays arnd with ur emotions n acts all lovey dovey wen d moment hits him. Asyd d fact that pastor said somtins to u,u sef reason am nau,mrA loves u n mr B might jst be der to waste ur time n leave u, please give ursef brain this is a simple matter that quick thinking can solve. While ur at it, remember u dated both of them n marriage doesnt mk pple better it might bring out the worse in them.
ReplyDeletei'm here looking for love and some people have two...chaaiiii, see life.
ReplyDeletei'm here looking for love and some people have two...chaiiiii, see life..
ReplyDeleteSomebory ...pls answer me " what do women want"
ReplyDeleteSips some beer
Maybe your husband has same name as Mr A bit isn't Mr A. Anyway I have to tell you Thai it's not sound christian practise for any one to impose a spouse on another.
ReplyDeleteThere's no precedence for this in bible....God can facilitate couples meeting up but doesn't impose requirement for you both to marry.
You need to hear from God yourself.
So me I dey find just one man oo wey go love me till death do us part, one woman dey play ten ten with two. It is well. I no get advice for u.
ReplyDeleteSo me I dey find just one man oo wey go love me till death do us part, one woman dey play ten ten with two. It is well. I no get advice for u.
ReplyDeleteYou have no problem. When it's time for the next SnM, post A's digits with a lil description. Cheers
ReplyDeleteYour eyes go soon clear. Make that Abuja guy catch you, he go make sure say you no sleep. Na gbenshing throughout for you and he no go still marry you. Carry anybody follow you, he must bang you.
ReplyDeleteHope you write us for feedback
Most of the bvn here are ass likers so few days ago read a chronicle where a young lady of 24yrs was complaining about her man not footing her bills and just because stella said what she feel about the poster's(poster 1)chronicle almost all the comment about the poster that day was a photocopy of what stella said,what happen to having our own opinion?how can someone even think she was wrong for saying her man does not pay her bills?she has every right to be scared cus most men married men that allow their wives to take full responsibility of everything in their homes today started that very way so she has the right to complain.
ReplyDeleteTrue! Stella or whoever comment first sets the tone
DeleteIdiot don't go & look for who to gbensh, be here commenting & arguing with your useless self
Deletethis is just stupid. Can waste my intellect on this.
ReplyDeleteLmao. See chronicles o. I think Mr B is doing everything possible just to get your attention and get u laid. Mr A loves u more but is not capable financially from your story and you don't love him as much as u love Mr B. Why not take sometime out and pray about it. Tell God to destroy any relationship that is not heading anywhere and watch Him work wonders.
ReplyDeleteposter nothing do you o, nothing dey happen and nothing dey sele. babygirl use ya head, i like sharp babes that don't place all their eggs in one basket. continue to chat with Mr B and go and see him since you are not going alone but DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM i repeat DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM. If Mr A is your husband then i'm sure he is making moves to marry you, remember actions speaks louder than words. Let him make moves and marry you first then you know if he is really serious. A day to your wedding or night before drop Mr B, from now on do not commit to him just be stringing him along that you are thinking about it and let him work work work work work. eventually drop him like its hot boo.
ReplyDeleteGuys do this all the time and if the shoe was on the other foot Mr B WILL DO IT TO YOU or another babe.
as for your sister's wedding find a correct babe to keep Mr B company throughout the wedding i fit do am for you but i dey UK kikikikikikiki. beg one of your correct friends to give him serious close markings throughout the day so he doesn't have time to see you or see who your are with but occasionally swing by his side to greet him sha.
boo use your head men do this ish all the time.
Marry the one that loves you more.
ReplyDeleteOn your own, pray and follow your instinct not what anyone says.
That was how one Pastor gave me false prophecy.
You can't chase too rats at the same time. By still inviting Mr. B. shows you still are not loyal to Mr. A. Make your choice and face the consequences.
ReplyDeleteFuck both of them, then your body will calm down and you'll then realize who among them you prefer. Until then your body will be shaking and you won't be able to make a sound decision.
ReplyDeleteExactly it's the thought of having not fucked mr B and your imaginations. Of course I'm sure you have fucked him severally in your head.
DeleteMy own is whenever I decide to pray to God to reveal my life partner, i will start dreaming of my ex,that guy can cheat for Africa that's why I left him b4 Hbp kill me for young age. So i stopped praying for a partner.
ReplyDeleteBreak soul tie. IJN
Deletedear u need a hot slap cant you see mr A is all over you why did mr b leave when you said no sex and why did he come back all of the sudden and start saying he want to fight for ur love why did he left then if truly he loves u he will stay then .
ReplyDeletei just pray u dont loose mr A
Was the camp meeting at gospel camp ipaja? I think I attended it too. Organised by pastor Onos?
ReplyDeletePoster 1, I think you are confused about who to choose..it is obvious that Mr B does not love you, trust me he is only coming back cos you denied him sex and now that he is back, he would do anything to have it. Learn to be content with wat you already have Mr A...A pastor told you mr A is ur husband, have you consulted with God personally, if not please do and you can as well take it further by meeting your alfas.
ReplyDeleteIt is trouble that you want to cause by inviting the both of them to your sister's wedding...you better be careful because there is no how you would be able to deal with the presence of both of them there, you would only be confused. Go for Mr A before it is too late my dear, and that trip you are planning for: the Abuja trip, you had better cancel it before your eye go tear finish.. ok? Goodluck!
I do not even see the need why you have to involve your friends in your relationship abi relationships?! can you not keep a low profile?...you these gurls sef, later now you will be sending another chronicle upandan bout how your frnd snatched ur bobo..You better be careful...
Mr B again
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Man might not like m advice, but times are hard, guys are not smiling and babes shouldn't too. Desperate times calls for desperate measures. I will say go to Abuja, enjoy yourself and collect plenty money oh, my only only problems is that you involved our friend, hope she won't leak your secret someday to the one you finally marry. Hold on to both of them, make up your mind on the one you want, like that mr A , lead mr B along till the day you married mr A, not before. I did something lime that, I got away with it cos both are not always in the country. After you got married to one, discharge the other.yes I said so. Someone did that to me and I did that to another too. Infact I continue giving one hope even after my trad till I got pregnant. Yes oh, if I didn't get pregnant ,I might have switched and tried with him, they finally move over to him. Men can't not b trusted oh, we should deal with them accordingly. You can call me names, but I guy posted me and used me as back up till after he wedded, if the babe had dumped him, he would have come to me forming love.shine your eye and play that game well, learn the act of seduction by phone ,both will be eating out of your hands and will not suspect a thing. Don't ever invite both of them at the same time to any even.play that game very well Biko.
ReplyDeleteMany might not like m advice, but times are hard, guys are not smiling and babes shouldn't too. Desperate times calls for desperate measures. I will say go to Abuja, enjoy yourself and collect plenty money oh, my only problems is that you involved your friend, hope she won't leak your secret someday to the one you finally marry. Hold on to both of them, make up your mind on the one you want, like that mr A , lead mr B along till the day A finally married you or the first person to start marriage proceedings wins,not before. I did something like that, I got away with it cos both are not always in the country. After you got married to one, discharge the other.yes I said so. Someone did that to me and I did that to another too. Infact I continue giving one hope even after my trad till I got pregnant. Yes oh, if I didn't get pregnant and it didn't work ,I might have switched and tried with him, then finally move over to him. Men can't not b trusted oh, we should deal with them accordingly. You can call me names, but I guy posted me and used me as back up till after he wedded, if the babe had dumped him, he would have come to me forming love.shine your eye and play that game well, learn the act of seduction by phone ,both will be eating out of your hands and will not suspect a thing. Don't ever invite both of them at the same time to any even.play that game very well Biko.
ReplyDeleteif the two of them attend that wedding, A will dump you
ReplyDeletekeep jumping from pillar to post. i pray one gal comes and steals Mr A heart na that time your eye go clear like colour Tv. you are just a confused gal making us confuse too with this upside down chronicle. how old are you sef?
ReplyDeleteI should send my chronicle someday, so I didn't know I was in a situationship all this while. This guy always told me he needed to sort out something until I saw a picture of him on the internet married with kids. Where do I start from ? I put all my eggs in one basket, I am very a fine lady you cant believe my age if I don't tell you. Guys are indeed callous but God dey, I wish I can let the wife know the kind of man he is but I will leave God to judge. I am aunty geweggs now , lol
ReplyDelete"DID THE MAN OF GOD" TELL YOU THAT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN BEFORE "GOD ALMIGHTY"?
ReplyDeleteYOU TOLD US THAT YOU HAVE "TWO MEN IN YOUR LIFE" BUT YOU DID NOT TELL US ABOUT A THIRD; "MAN OF GOD" IS TALKING ABOUT "THREE MEN IN YOUR LIFE"
DID MAN OF GOD TELL YOU THAT "JESUS IS THE ONLY WAY TO BE SAVED"? DID HE TELL YOU ABOUT ETERNAL LIFE? MARRIAGE WILL COME AND GO BUT HOW ABOUT YOUR SOUL?
Hope Mr B is not looking for a way to chonko you. He looks like someone who is just interested in sleeping with you. Be smart
ReplyDeleteSimple English you can't write. Which brain do you now have to make complex decisions as these? It's obvious you are only useful for sex.
ReplyDeleteWhatever your choice, get educated before getting pregnant.
The Man of God said 3 men but you told us of 2. Hmmmm. why do I havce the feeling you might loose both men if you are not careful and make up your mind fast on who you want. On issues like this, I would advice you go to the Almighty God and get a response. You will know when you have peace within you that you cannot explain. Stop seeking and discussing such issues with we, the ordinary beings.
ReplyDeleteLong throat deal with your greed. Work on itself pray discernment r u even ready for marriage
ReplyDeleteHmmm...we are all human and I understand where you are coming from. It is normal to feel the way you are feeling now, who I'm I to crucify you. Pls my advice for you is that you should pray yourself and you also know what you u want in a man. Search you heart very well. Are you considering Mr B because of Money? Money is very important but does not guarantee happiness in a marriage! Watch both of them closely, pray and search your heart very well. I can't tell you to choose either of the two but I'm very sure you know what is right. God bless you.# when fear knocks, let Faith open the door#
ReplyDeleteHi people, pls this is for the lady who opened a boutique between January/February in ph around Slaughter. I didn't quite get the address. Pls can you put up the add in the "In house News"? Or in the comment section. Will like to check your shop. I live in ph. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteFirst,The pastor said three men?But they are only two. And simply because he mentioned a right name you swallowed the "prophecy" hook ,line and sinker?.Babe, if there's an imperfection in one part then its not God. Period. That should have been your alarm.
ReplyDeleteSecond, Follow your heart. There must have been a reason you kept on cheating with Mr A. And that's probably the reason you are still considering Mr B.Marriage is no beans girl. Marry the man you love. Marry the man who in your calculation will make you happy.Marry the man who will make you financially comfortable. Because girl , when the chips are down ,you will find that money really matters in deciding a happy marriage.Let Truth be told.
Why are you asking if you should go when he already booked your ticket? And that of your friend?You let your friends know about your life? That's not very wise. But I think Mr B is only interested in getting in between your thighs. If you can keep your resolve not to give in to him, then good. He sure sounds like he's after the challenge of the chase! Once he conquers,you're probably not going to see him again.
ReplyDeleteBut biko, Why are you confusing yourself? The only reason for this confusion is the "prophecy" by the "man of God"! If that never happened, then you probably would have clearer thoughts about whom to marry! Wow! This is the very reason I keep warning my husband about giving any prophecy to any young girl or man about a life partner.I have seen beautiful lives messed up by the confusions that these so called prophecies give to the youths.
Girl. Remove that prophecy from your head. Then YOU pray that God will direct YOU! Then follow your heart. Please stop following prophecies on such important decisions -decisions that determine the rest of your life. God is able to direct you. YOU don't need a prophecy to tell you who to marry.Trust me.
Why is this world like this. The person u love might not love u, but the one u don't, is madly in love wit u.
ReplyDeletePoster: Mr B is just after your vagina, when he enters by the weekend, your eye will open. So just go and give him the pussy, because obviously your friend is not sleeping in one room with you two. Wonder when ladies will learn.
Poster. You must be a very unserious person. Get something valuable to do with your life.
ReplyDeleteU are a shameless lady, if u had learn about your religion very well you won't go to vigil or be deceived by the so called prophet, only Almighty Allah knows what will happen tomorrow not ordinary human being like u tagging himself prophet, pray and use your head, don't count on the nonsense the man said, it has lead many people astray..... Pray to Allah, choose a religion don't be an hypocrite...
ReplyDeleteMy dear, regardless of whom you choose as your long term partner..you've got to be full blown firm that he is the one you've always wanted. Other things outside that, are just shady distractions. Good luck
ReplyDeleteNow ppl shud stop giving stupid advice.We still have gud men of God irrespective of d evil in d world nw.My dear u re choosing Mr B bcus of his money n cus he stays in abj.how mch is ticket dat is blowing up ur mind,u funny.It's wen u get married 2 d wrong person dat u wud knw wat life is.Most ppl 4gt dat prayers is d best solution in choosing d right partner.Mr B esho is rich 2dy cn loss all 2mrrw,Mr A who u fink has none 2dy can have more 2mrrw.Go n ask most ppl who marry rich men aint happy in der marriages cus he sleeps with everyfin on skirt.We need 2 b careful of d advice we dish out 2 ppl so dey don't make a mistake.NO one here wud join u in ur misery wen u marry d wrong person.If it's being reviewed Mr A is ur hubby,go on ur kneels and ask God 2 review who ur hubby is.Most marriages re in shambles dez days cus of bad decisions taken in d past.NO one knows d mind of a person xcept God.So pray,pray,pray dat God will review d man who wud give u peace of mind n happiness. Never take d councell of d children of God 4 Graneed. If u still have doubt after d prayers,kip asking Allah 4 a clearer picture.He answers prayers
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ReplyDeleteYou cleary don't know what you want. You might be in your late 20's but you're not ready for marriage or even commitment on any level. Find yourself first!
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