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Hi Stella

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I'm a regular Bvn on this blog though I rarely comment but have learnt a lot on this blog. I got married in 2012 to a man I didn't love. It all started one afternoon while I was strolling with my friends . 

This guy drove by then stop to say hi and asked If he could take us out on a date. Of course we agreed. After the first date with us, he asked if i could later hang out with him alone which I accepted. 

Make i add pigin o my dear Stella and fellow bvns. Na so we reach there naim heavy rain begin fall with serious storm. I suggested that since his house is closer than mine let drive to place pending when the rain would subside so he could drop me off because we were hanging out in a public place and the place was crowded. On reaching his house, we had unprotected sex which got me really mad.

 He later begged me for forgiveness and said he is usually not like this but couldn't control himself around me, I had to leave in the rain because I wasn't happy about the whole incident. He dropped me off at my place.

After that incident I never wanted anything to do with him again because he was not my kind of man moreover, I had a boyfriend so l told him to back off but he persisted and we become friends for a year meanwhile this guy now husband was not based in the same state with me). My elder sister was getting married and I was her chief bride and I had to do some shopping in the state where this guy was residing so I decided to call him and inform him of my coming not because I wanted him to pay my bills but because I was new in the state and he would have a better idea where to shop best.

 The journey was delayed as per I used public transport,  so l arrived really late and could not do any shopping. By this time I thought this guy now my husband understood my kind of person but I was so wrong. On getting to his place he forced himself on me again, this time I got pregnant without even knowing,  I didn't want to tell him about it b' cos I didn't love him and wanted to give the pregnancy to my boyfriend now my ex.

 But my friends  advised and threatened to tell this guy so I had no choice than to tell him. He was very happy and quickly performed all the marital rites traditionally and we wedded in the church.

The problem started after I put to bed barely a month, my hubby started complaining that the baby does not resemble him but I didn't take him serious after sometime I realised he was serious with friends feeding with all sort of information that he is fathering another man's child, 

This really got me pissed and confused b'cos I had no reason to marry him except for the pregnancy and nothing else. I have asked for a DNA test to be done with consequence attached whether it comes out positive or negative I'll leave his house. I have also reported the matter to my family and they have summon him for a meeting.

Apart from the aforementioned, my hubby is very unromantic when it comes to bedmatics. He is the type that goes straight to the point without any form of romance. The highest he can do is suck your boobs and that's not all the time once he is satisfied, he doesn't care about me. I have tried to talk to him but he doesn't seem to get it as he is addicted pornography.  We are still young, but I am so tired right now that I'm craving for my happiness and satisfaction. 

The worse part is that i crave for  any guy I see but have been controlling myself as I have not cheated on him  since we got married.

Now he is pretending to be a changed person and acting as if someone is telling him what do to please me which is really annoying to me. I'm really confused on what to do and how to go about this whole thing.

Pls Stella I need your red ink , cusses and advices of fellow  bvns. 

Please pardon me for this long chronicle .

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