Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Actress Halima Abubarkar Says She Has 9 Years More Before Menopause..

..

Sunday, 31 July 2016

Actress Halima Abubarkar Says She Has 9 Years More Before Menopause..

In a swift reaction to the mounting criticism that trailed her online ‘revelation’ penultimate week that she was looking forward to losing her ‘virginity’ and having kids, sultry Nollywood actress, Halima Abubakar, has lashed out at what she calls the negative stereotype of women in the make-believe industry.





In a chat with Punch, Abubakar  was unapologetic about her hugely controversial claim of being ‘a virgin’ and took a swipe at doubting Thomases.

“Why would people become annoyed because I said I am a virgin? Just because I’m in the industry does not mean I am badly behaved. Not everyone is sexually active. You can have a boyfriend and not be sexually active. The reaction I got shows the mentality of the people. 

If I say I’m a virgin, I am and if I say I am not, then I am not. They tell me to go get married, should I go after  someone else’s  husband?,” she said.

Abubakar added, “Everybody thinks one should get married from age 18. A lot of marriages are complicated. Marriage will come when it will come, one doesnt need to force it. People are getting divorced with pregnancies because they got married under pressure. We should let people be. People are saying if you are not getting married, go and get kids because menopause is approaching. What kind of thing is that? Is it your menopause? 

 I still have about nine years before I hit menopause all things being equal. I am not one of those people that will kill themselves because of marriage. I can’t have kids outside marriage.”


Source: Punch.


*lol@should i marry someones husband.
We once had a chronicle here of someone who hit menopause at 22 years so its nothing to do with age.times have changed.
Wish you the best Hally.


39 comments:

Chidinma Grace said...

She can do IVF, that's if she is interested in having her own baby if d hubby isn't coming. Oh! She is a Virgin, where will they insert from? Let me research n come back.

Anonymous said...

22 is serious pathology.

Shennel said...

Attention seeker

Atheist. said...

This mumu won't quit talking about her uterus region, which doctor diagnosed that? She might hv evn entered sef, some women xperience earlier...

Lilian Fc Barcelona said...

Hmmmmm.

SDK Babe (AMAQ COLLECTIONS)..fashion designer at your service..bbm 58DB44B1 said...

Ok

white Berry said...

Make una nor blame her, she seriously needs a life partner. May God provide it for her ijn

Sharon john said...

I wish you the best in finding your life partner,who said marriage is not important ,that person is lieing ,having your home and seeing your kids around you is the most happiest thing,cause loneliness and singlehood is bad.
Oh God direct me to my rightful hubby in Jesus name ,amen

kelvin happiness said...

she acts drama quite good but its bad whn u start acting drama with ur private parts in reality. we all no hw Nigeria drama end hence u shud no hw dis wil.

Cynthia Iyede said...

Na wa!

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Aunty stop deceiving your self...
You are almost a gwegz and no man wants an Akpa akpu like you...
If you are a virgin,that means I am a virgin too after 3 kids...

Anonymous said...

Some women start menopause at 50....so that means you are 41....

Anonymous said...

Please Is there a particular age in which women gets to menopause? My mom reached menopause when she turned 51,some can be later or earlier than that, this chic Really is not well or does she think menopause age is 40¿inordere words saying she is 31?this is all you get when one is all ass no brain

Leema said...

Is it your menopause? Hahaha

xhlrted p said...

God will dear. As your soul desireth.

Halima may God honour your plea.

stunning slim shady said...

Bv James And Bv Kelvin pls help Halima out...

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

God will do it for you.......
Some people will keep deceiving theirselves by forming single n happy
Marriage is sweet with the right person.....even with ur beautiful kids

Sharon john said...

Amen

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Choi

Anonymous said...

Abeg goan tke several seats!! Ur oversabi is too much. U re always quick to castigate others nd spew trash on d blog cus u fink u re always right...evn if she's a gwegs nd a virgin hw is dat ur business? Its pipo like u dat bully grls into marriage nd wen dey go thru hell nd wnt out, na still u go cuss dem say dem no fit stay inside marriage. Learn to learn pipo alone madam.

Anonymous said...

Abeg goan tke several seats!! Ur oversabi is too much. U re always quick to castigate others nd spew trash on d blog cus u fink u re always right...evn if she's a gwegs nd a virgin hw is dat ur business? Its pipo like u dat bully grls into marriage nd wen dey go thru hell nd wnt out, na still u go cuss dem say dem no fit stay inside marriage. Learn to learn pipo alone madam.

Anonymous said...

Not everyone is single and sad ,it is like that because there is too much pressure for marriage in Nigeria,there are loads of widows who had a chance of remarriage but prefered to remain single and serve God,What about people insulting her who may later loose all their kids later in life,or have you all not seen where a whole family of 8 is wiped out or some women who later regretted having their kids because of the disgrace these kids brought them and also many people will be dumped in their villages by their kids and its other people's kid that will take care if them while some will have a very blessed family and live to see their children's children,so people unless you are 80 and have seen it all,better talk less in some issues and laugh with caution in life because life is a teacher,Stop laughing at the unmarried and Childless.

Anonymous said...

I'm single and v ssd.

Anonymous said...

some peeps keep saying is not possible to be single nd happy,hw about those that are married nd sad.
If she is cool with her life,then beautiful,wish u d best halima.

Is it ur menopause really got me laughing,lol

Anonymous said...

Stella go and sleep, because you manage marry old man, whore. She has 9 years before her own menopause, stop citing useless, fictitious examples.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Anon 14:34...
I have never seen a gwegz that is happy so shut up and stop deceiving your self!...

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Imagine how miserable life would be if you actually let other people's opinions dictate YOUR life*

Lady j said...

Dis girl talks too much for a lady..

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I was going to say that whoever came up with that menopause @22 story was lying. And Stella, you believed the person? Do your research pls. I realized ppl on this site are creative with their lies, just so they can see their story on Ccronies lol. I'll give them credit for their creativity.

Anonymous said...

Queen or Loser, whichever you call yourself, if you're located in Naija where the pressure is ridiculously out of this world of course you'll be unhappy. Live in other areas of the world and you'll see women who are content. Stupid idiot. And the sad thing is that it is your own fellow woman who will want to make you feel like shit because you are single. I don't understand the concept, if you're happily married you wouldn't have time to call out another woman for any reason unless you are secretly envious of her or you believe your husband has a thing for her (you feel threatened by her). Because if you weren't miserable and married yourself, you'd face front and attend to your happy marriage. Some married women will spend their time and saliva cursing out a single person who has done nothing to them (unless you feel threatened) instead of tending to her own "happy" marriage.
A

Anonymous said...

Gbam!
Live your life. The ones coming at you telling you to "go and marry" are usually miserable themselves that's why they get time and are so angry.
Dictate your own life my dear as long as you're not hurting anybody and minding your own business!

ORDINARY PEOPLE said...

Some women even start menapause at 56.

Teacher said...

Exactly

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Halima didn't you date yemi in Gbagada? What's that his name again. He was staying in Gbagada phase 2. And we used to hear you people gbenshing. Except it's anal you were doing. Or was your statement an experiment? Mscheeew! Stop trying to be more relevant than you are. You're not a virgin. Period!

Starjoy said...

Exactly

Derbyshire Williams said...

Wow a virgin

Jasmine said...

Anon 15:32, at least stella (a whore) married an old man and she has kids o. Very cute ones. Halima that is a virgin can't even boast of a bf.

Go and sleep abeg

Zee said...

Anon 16:36, there's such a thing as premature menopause. It's rare, but entirely possible... Even if you don't have friends or relations in the medical profession you could get information from, make Google your friend.
Thanks

Anonymous said...

shut ur gutter,which 3kids,ur not evn married,if u had 3kids u always will not b on blogs talkg tru ur shit hole,suwegbe!

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...