Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Tasting The Cookie..

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Saturday, 30 July 2016

Tasting The Cookie..

 Its that simple,if you wanna stay celibate,fine,tie your two legs together and pretend to be a mermaid but please dont Judge someone who decides to open their cookie jar!


THE MERMAID THEORY




Hi Stella,
I read the comments under beverly's post and was amazed at the comments.
We all talk about wanting to taste before buying, yet we claim to be Christians. I dont think that is right. Am not trying to judge anyone, am only trying to set the record straight,  so that we wont mislead the younger ones that visit this blog.
You can never partner with God and regret.  Let me explain that with a real life story.


There was this brother that was impotent and he knew it. He doesnt ask ladies out at all. All of a sudden, God told him to woo a certain sister.  He laughed it off and refused.  He eventually wooed the sister after continuous hearing from God. He kept reminding God about his impotency, but God said nothing. All along, the fiancee never knew he was impotent. 


Fast forward to the wedding night,  bros went into the bathroom to pray and ask God not to embarrass him. He came out and tried romancing his wife, nothing happened.  He went in to the bathroom a second time, yet nothing happened.  The third time, he was very angry!  He went into the bathroom,  he didnt even bother to pray.  In his exact words,  he said, ' God, you no fit! You cant do this to me' That was how the brother got healed o! He do the do well that night. The wife knew nothing about this until he gave the testimony in church during their child dedication. 


My point is, if we allow God to decide for us, we can never miss it. If God direct you to the right person, the sex can never go wrong.
The woman my pastor married was not his choice. He wanted another, but God told him no. Over twenty years down the line, they are happily married while the lady he actually wanted is a single mum with kids from different men.
I once belonged to the school of thought that sex is cool until God dealt with me. At this point, I get restless when I have sex with my boyfriend. I eventually ended the relationship after three years because my man cant have a sex free relationship. He said 'the relationship will be boring'. 


I was shocked, because that meant the only thing that made the relationship worth it to him was the sex. And when I pray about my future partner, I always tell God to make sure the man can satisfy me sexually because I looooove sex. I dont intend to taste the plantain before buying it, yet I trust GOD to give me the best man for me. God knows me inside out, he knows me more than I know myself, therefore,  he can never disappoint me.


 I BELONG TO THE PARTY THAT BELIEVE YOU DONT NEED TO TASTE THE PLANTAIN BEFORE BUYING BECAUSE AM BUYING IT DIRECTLY FROM THE MANUFACTURER.  THEREFORE, IT IS ORIGINAL, NOT FAKE.



*Sometimes it is easier said than done......Stop Judging and keep your legs closed.Some people cannot and thats their prerogative!


136 comments:

Miss Ess said...

Whatever anybody drrm fits in his/her mind its all good

Bianca BRUNO said...

Abi oh
Salvation is a personal race. I believe there are more pressing issues in Nigeria now than open and close legs

beryl said...

I absolutely agree with u poster. I have always thought and u just said all that was in my mind. I agree 100%

Anonymous said...

Stella, please how is she being judgmental? Even if someone adds sugar to a post, some of you will still squeeze out bitter juice out of it.

James said...

Madam Poster, you are not a Virgin. Why are you pretending when you are not?Men preeks has entered deep inside your wet Toto many times. So the celibacy is totally pointless

Anonymous said...

All these testimonies we hear without concrete evidence. Any way i believe God is not a deceitful God and if God sent him to the sister he should have told her the truth before marrying her and if God's hand is in it she would have still stood by him. My only problem with this your testimony is the fact that he did not inform her about his condition before marriage which is still deceit to me even though the thing started working after.

Anonymous said...

Stella I do not think the poster was judgmental rather I agree with all that she's said. That something is a trend does not make it right. if relationships are conducted God's way I'm sure we would have much less marital issued. we do it our way then when it gets messy we begin to call on God for a quick fix. God is not an alternative he should be the focal point.

NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN said...

*whistles gaily, strolls in an outta post*

OliviaSilk said...

I don't understand.
He was impotent or he couldn't do? ?

Well the fact remains that premarital sex is SIN.
Simple and short.

nzube izuu said...

OK. We haff heard!

Anonymous said...

What works for one might not work for the other.

xhlrted p said...

Good article writer. Good one. If you claim a Christian stick to the doctrine. Abstinence is an easy task if you put your prayers and mind to it.

Young people should stay away from sex before marriage, that is the best gift any young girl will give her husband or vice versa, it is the beginning of many problems in life, social, biological and spiritual. I stayed away for a longgggggg time but when I found what I had been waiting for, I succumbed during courtship, of course after the proposal, not before.

7 months into, we were at the altar. Lucky was I, there are some that don't still work after the proposal. God does not want premarital sex. Obey the doctrine. It pays a whole lot.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmmm. If you Dont want to taste no problem but use your hand to check if the instrument can rise to the occasion. I Dont want to hear stories o.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Mtcheew...
How did that your brother knew he was impotent if he had never had sex??...
God told him to woo a girl indeed!...

Me I will tell my children to taste,gbensh wella before buying!...
Inukwa akuko?...

Tayan Taylor said...

Story, the reason why Nigeria is more Corrupt than most of the world is because, you commit many atrocities in the name of your God. Living in fantasies instead of waking up to reality. I will do what I feel is right nd makes me happy not cos of anybody or religion

Anonymous said...

Some church testimonies are exaggerated stories. Learn to mind your business like Stella said, I decided last year to be celibate but I don't push it in people's faces (I haven't told anyone even) or condemn them for their choices. ..Who celibacy epp? Again don't just assume everyone subscribes to a (your) religion which is where we get it wrong in this part of the world. Live and let live.

Ngbor Sira said...

Stella are you born again? Na question I ask.

There is no sitting on the fence when it comes to serving God,note I didn't say christianity. Premarital sex is all shades and angles of wrong and that is what this poster reiterated. I do not term it judging.

But because we know say body no be firewood is no reason to glory in iniquity. If you cannot go mermaid,it is between you and God but it doesn't make it right or laudable in public. Infact,hide your head in shame. Me,i haff shame my own finish.

Chummy cho cho said...

Stella she's not judging but stating her point of view which is the truth. Whether its judging or not the truth is the truth and God's standard is still His standard. Whether the world accept it or not, pre marital sex is a sin! I know that its not easy to abstain but wen we walk with God He will make it easy....

Lovely weekend biuriful people....

Kuchie said...

After you Don taste finish, you con turn judgina. If you are not a virgin, you are not a virgin, Kpomkwem! Except of course if you were raped . But you don fuck taya con retaya and you get mind dey form Judge Judy, abeg my dear πŸƒ go hide.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Pls! This story of yours sounds like all those stories pastors tell on the pulpit. Let people do what they want to and let their conscience be the judge. Don't judge other people just because they decide to take a different path. To Each man their own

James said...

U are not a Virgin and u dey do yeye celibacy. Keep deceiving yourself until you reach 40. No wonder there so many over ripe ladies on the last SnM.
They must have been pretending and deceiving themselves when they were still young.

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Ok but by the way who are we to judge people?

Mrs Diamond said...

I love your ending remark

ogo said...

Sister preacher maybe a sinner is currently giving it to your hubby or boyfriend.You don't. Fornicate but may be u steal.lie,hate,gossip,backbite,be,vengeful.But sister o swear that a man has never touched you since you were born and thunder will fire you.

Jenny Ekwe said...

Easier said than done. True.

I'm doing it doh.

Jenny Ekwe said...

Well said writer, but hmmmm....

Atheist. said...

*nodding* ok no problem, who get voice to shout should take the risk, me i cnt come n shout n crack my Yul edochies voice.

Lady j said...

I love ur writeup..BT I belong to d school of thought of sampling before buying biko..

Anonymous said...

Stella as crazy as it may sound like the lady wasn't judging,she was only stating that there's a better way to having a good man by allowing God do the choosing while living like a mermaid.

Rather your the one giving voice to the people who disregard God's principle all in d name of konji n prerogative.
Premarital sex is a sin n whether stella decides to use her platform to preach about living Godly or not.
If God chooses a man for you the sex will be AWORESOME n you will not have to call stella's customers care for complaints.
To the folks with konji prerogative "why do u still feel guilty after the sex if it was all good"...make una answer.

Anonymous said...

"God, you no fit! You cant do this to me"...let's all strong arm God into doing things for us since He only responds to thuggery. Rubbish.

While you are celiebate and being a Virgin for the 'Lord', Do you also lie or cheat? Are you proud, unforgiven, given to drunkeness? Do you take bribe and are quick to anger? Need I go on?

Spare me the Lord dealt with you story, you got tired of the relationship with your boyfriend and left!
This ridiculous theory of God rewarding those who kept themselves till marriage is beginning to irk me. My twin sisters, the fire-brand chirstian, virgin sister married an idiotic, poor and lazy Christian...the wild one is adored by her husband and kids. Explain that? She always had the same silly theory of God will reward blah blah.
If you are being a virgin or celibate because God commands it, I applaud you but don't shove it down the throat of others and most importantly don't expect the reward to be a 'pastor' who can fuck. In fact, keep all of God's commands without expecting a reward, that's true faithfulness.

By the way, I am a 27yr Virgin (Following commands) but I have no empathy and unforgiveness runs in my veins. Am I better than a female who isn't a virgin but has lots of empathy and forgiveness.

Anonymous said...

U must be very stupid for this useless comment. U succumbed during courtship, what does that make u? U are very mad. Idiot

Tilly said...

Not bad. The right thing really is too abstain but sex b4 marriage has become acceptable so much that it has become right. Anyone that cannot hold themselves should not castigate those that can. There are still virgins. Yes there are. Above 20yrs and even about 30. People always assume everyone is like them. some people have self control.Just the same way...not all husbands cheat. Accept it or not. There are still some people that are not controlled by their feelings and emotions or by down below. Deal with ur choices.

Mao Akuh said...

If you close your legs, you save yourself from unnecessary headache but if you open it, don't murmur or complain just keep having the headache.

Anonymous said...

I love you STELLA...... such wonderful speech

Anonymous said...

What's your point exactly? Come on shattap there

optimisticlady said...

She ain't judging tho.
Truth, they say is very very bitter.
Premarital sex is still and will always remain a sin.
Thousands are doing it doesn't make it right.

Spirit said...

I agree with this Poster and I understand Beverly's post.

If we are sinning then it should not be glorified publicly.. especially if one has the fear of God living within them.

Many people think it is okay to have pre-marital sex and nothing happens apart from pleasure but my people you are so mis-informed.
Just through one round of unprotected sex - many things happen spiritually. What you need to pray for is that we don't fall into the wrong hands.

Those who abstain from sex properly normally experience a more direct spiritually connection with God with good network coverage even without then knowing.

On the other hand, not every one believes in God and understands that we live in a spiritual world. Therefore we must be careful not to judge but to appreciate honesty, teach and educate instead. This way the message will be delivered appropriately.

There is nothing more fulfilling than a strong spiritual life, not even great sex can beat that, so it the sex worth it?

May God give us all wisdom.


KARMAisabitch said...

Way more pressing issues than mermaid and octopus.

This obsession with sex sef!its either they are having it,not having it,talking it,discussing it,gisting it,watching it....
Its too much.
Are we all christians?

Roseflower said...

Thank you for saving me the stress of typing.Where do I send your kisses to?

Anonymous said...

Stella, I am not judging anyone. Why is it that when someone is saying the truth, its termed judging? I only stated my opinion o! I no judge you. Its between you and your God. And Ogo, I never said am perfect, God is still moulding my life and my short comings
are numerous. A true Christian knows what I said is
true. Sorry for the mistake in my article. The brother wasnt impotent. He could not have an erection. One
love people, no hate. Have a great weekend.

Ibukunoluwa said...

Pls hold my hand
Let's stroll togetherπŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Stella, I am not judging anyone. Why is it that when someone is saying the truth, its termed judging? I only stated my opinion o! I no judge you. Its between you and your God. And Ogo, I never said am perfect, God is still moulding my life and my short comings
are numerous. A true Christian knows what I said is
true. Sorry for the mistake in my article. The brother wasnt impotent. He could not have an erection. One
love people, no hate. Have a great weekend.

Queen Jay said...

OK we Don hear

Anonymous said...

Madam God bless you...stella forgets that with God there r no shades of grey n his standards will not be compromised because of ur konji.
Plus madam stella stop sitting on the side of inquiry cos of Internet traffic, use ur platform wisely n dnt encourage inquiry all in d name of giving opinions.


Anonymous said...

Madam God bless you...stella forgets that with God there r no shades of grey n his standards will not be compromised because of ur konji.
Plus madam stella stop sitting on the side of inquiry cos of Internet traffic, use ur platform wisely n dnt encourage inquiry all in d name of giving opinions.


PLATINUM said...

Poster that brother might hv been exaggerating, in the catholic church if the wife had found out her hubby was impotent after marriage without him telling her, the would hv dissolved the marriage on ground of lies. I believe that God speaks to pple, n his words areb the truth, bt it doesnt mean that pple with infertity issues should go ahead not tell their partners abt their problems. Wat if God decided to delay giving that couple a child do u think his wife would hv found it funny that he didnt tell her he was impotent on ground that God spoke to him?. As christains we are knw the right tin bt some pple still prefer to lie abt it.the way alot of pple claim to hear from God, nobody really knw wat exactly they are hearing from.
There is nothing lie faith. Faith is a deep belief that because u hv God, nothing can go wrong. I bilv its faith that worked for that brother though.my 2cents.

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

I don't think she is being judgemental........
Premarital sex is a sin just that people now see it as a way of life n a normal thing ........that being said,I won't go about deciding for people.
If testing will work for u,so be it.
Testing has broken a lot of heart n brought about countless diseases n abortion.
If u have not had sex b4,people tell u that u have not arrived yet..
I tested,but that does not make it right.......

Anonymous said...

Guys i gux majority of us here claim to be Christians and go to church. Pre marital sex anyway you look @ it is absolutely wrong b4 God. Y don't we take pride in d act in d presence of God. 90% of us are engaged in it yes. It still doesn't make it right.. look out dere today u'll understand d degree of moral decadence in the society. Teenagers are very free now to even flaunt their promiscuity in public with reckless abandon, all in d name of coping d west see where we are today. There is no right way of doing a wrong thing. Let's all make conscious efforts to change it. BTW i also battle with pre marital sex myself but it's still wrong...

Anonymous said...

Bore-hole

One trillion said...

End time ogede

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

And who sex epp?
If u like, don't close that ur watery tohto

Anonymous said...

The thief on the cross beside Jesus didn't see salvation at 'that point' pointless...he became saved at the last min.... Her celibacy at this point isn't pointless, James. May God help us all.

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Thank u ngbor

St.FranKooL.... said...

#When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at Changes because we see things not the way they are but the way we are*

Monkeynofine said...

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Chinyelugo Esther said...

Hahahahaha I just tire ooooooh

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

bia poster is opening toto the only sin one commits? dont you lie,keep malice,cheat or commit any other sin? oooh puhlease get your smelly, hypocritical, unholy, useless, judgmental, black ugly ass off this blog. how is it your concern if we spread our toto? is it your toto? is it not own own?
i will rather test and collect wella before getting married than marry and only for me to discover that the man has a penis the size of a finger battery which will ultimately lead me to cheat or has a monstrous size that could condemn my kidneys and bladder. live your life and allow us to live our lives biko.

at the end of the day na only God go judge us all.



Anonymous said...

Stella am surprised at you!!! Can u hear yourself? I thought you are a born again Christian and u are saying dis? The poster is not judging anyone, she's just stating the facts....

Pre marital sex is bad and God frowns at it, i know i engage in it, but after doing it, i always feel guilty and condemning myself... am still asking for the grace to overcome.... The poster is on point.... Pre marital sex comes with alot of baggage not just physical but spiritual too!!

I always laugh at your BVs who make mouth about pre marital sex... so many destinies have been destroyed through pre marital sex.... you think satan doesn't know what he is doing by enticing people with pre marital sex.... God saw the danger in it and warned us....

I am not judging anyone, if u want to gbensh, gbensh but don't send chronicles when u start seeing the consequences.....

NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN said...

But yul edochie's voice is already cracked naa..

Anonymous said...

So if someone decides to stop stealing and turn a new leaf, its wrong abi but should continue stealing since he or she has been doing so before

Anonymous said...

You are the one is being stupid anon, she is real n mature

Anonymous said...

May God humble you

NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN said...

*and*
@ibukun..i've gat you.

Rocky said...

Your comment though πŸ˜‚ ..how can you say virginity is the best gift a girl can give her husband? Plixx, if you want to be a virgin, be a virgin because of yourself not because you want to present a 'best gift' to your husband cos these men aren't loyal!
BTW, why can't the man present the 'best gift' to his wife? 😏😏

Rocky said...

Gbam! πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘Š

Krix said...

My WNB loading. Looks similar though, no time to write long epistles at the moment but I promise u all that it will come and I will let u guys know it's me that sent it in cos it's a testimony too.
Last to comment be nwa ekwensu!
Krix via iPhone 6s Gold!

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Love people for who they are instead of judging them for who they are not*

Rocky said...

Lol.. Why do I find this comment funny?

Anonymous said...

My dear don't mind dem, i understand you perfectly well... what u said is 100% true!!

I am a man and one thing i noticed on dis blog is dat most people here want to belong... they don't have a mind of their own but follow crowd mentality.... most of dem know dat pre marital sex is bad yet they want to feel like big girls to belong... and datz why men will continue to gbensh dem and dump dem...... come and see the way my friends gbensh dem and discard dem here in,Lekki... and when they want to marry, they will look for the good Christian girls...

Nigerian girls abeg make una borrow sense, all your big girl is nothing when at the end of the day, one Lagos big boy will still gbensh u mercilessly like an ashawo in a 5 star hotel on the island, sometimes record the it and make jest of ur moans and cries among his friends lol ..... you don't worth anything to him and at the end of the day he will still go back to his wife and you end up with heartbreak, low self-esteem,suicidal thoughts & plenty chronicles lol!!! Be wise...

My sister, thanks for ur post, you are sensible.... and God will grant u your heart desires....

EESAH (ORDINARY ME) said...

If you're still looking for that inner peace, learn to accept everything the Almighty has decided for you. Be grateful. Be patient and you'll be content.

It's only When you finally trust that the Almighty knows what's best for you more than you'll ever know it yourself that you'll be at peace.

We are all human beings here and not animals. We know what's good and what's bad. You can either listen to what's good (the voice of God) or what's bad (satan) which is cureently reigning in the world. The choice is yours

#Enuff said

Anonymous said...

Thank you my dear... plz tell dem.... sex is soooo spiritual!!! I am not a saint and i know what am saying...

Thelma Thinks... said...

Stella she's not being judgemental. It's unfair to call this poster judgemental, I think we should applaud her instead and encourage others towing that line. All she's doing is sharing her own opinion on the matter having once been on the other side of the divide. Poster as you have said it so shall it be; you are buying from the manufacturer therefore you will not buy fake. Good luck hun.

Anonymous said...

Lol. Why so pained though@anonymous12:55.

DonMayor said...

Abeg writer, fuck off. After gbenshing so much like a borrowed bicycle na now you wan come preach ? Carry your rubbish go your church Sunday school tomorrow go preach.. Here no be your parish.

DonMayor said...

Go sit down for gutter !

Anonymous said...

Well said poster but all dis sex talk make it look like virginty and celibacy is the gateway to heaven. Is sexual sin the only sin? No sin is higher than the other. If you lie, steal, keep malice e.t.c All this little foxes and secret wrongs will bear witness aganist you and then you are no diff than those that commit sexual sins.
God has standards and its only his grace that will help us attain them. Salvation is very personal.

Anonymous said...

Well said poster but all dis sex talk make it look like virginty and celibacy is the gateway to heaven. Is sexual sin the only sin? No sin is higher than the other. If you lie, steal, keep malice e.t.c All this little foxes and secret wrongs will bear witness aganist you and then you are no diff than those that commit sexual sins.
God has standards and its only his grace that will help us attain them. Salvation is very personal.

Anonymous said...

He did not inform her, it is called faith ( since he had a go ahead from God). No concrete evidence, so she should have added the video of how the prick rose up or how he did it with his wife?...Mrs Thomas I hail!

And no I'm not the poster.

Anonymous said...

I am a christian and i totally agreed with the poster that pre-marital sex is wrong. I also understand stella's point of view too.

I have prayed personally to God to help me because I just feel weak whenever am with my boyfriend cos I realized I cant control myself with him but that doesn't justify my action.

My advise to young ones over there, if you haven't tasted it wait for the right moment as ordained by God to do it cos its not easy abstaining once you are in it. I pray to God to answer me everyday ( and let this man propose- am 35 and he is 39).

Anonymous said...

Lol

Workaholics Anonymous said...

He was impotent, meaning he couldn't get an erection, therefore, he would be unable to 'do'. They are the same thing.
Not to be confused with being sterile in which case, the man can get and sustain an erection, but will probably have low sperm count or poor sperm motility... Or even azospermia. In other words, can 'do' but can't get a woman pregnant.
So many people making the same mistake.

And yes, we can argue this back and forth and BV's probably will... they will insult themselves even, but it remains a sin.
Rationalising it and giving 'good' reasons for doing it doesn't change the fact that premarital sex is not part of God's plan for man.

I too had the unrest in my spirit till I stopped. I can't trade the peace of mind I have now for anything. People don't even understand how I cope. I've stopped trying to defend my decision and gotten used to talks like "after all you're not a virgin" and "all sin is sin"... God sees my heart and efforts and that's all that matters to me.

What surprises me is that those who indulge in premarital sex will not let those who don't, just be. It's like the devil knowing he's going to hell and trying to recruit as many souls to join in...lol.
BTW bashing from team test beforehand is allowed, but remember today's laughs... Beyond screaming at me in caps locks, what more can you do?

"You can never partner with God and regret" WORD!

OliviaSilk said...

Simple. Either you are a born again Christian or you are not. There's no middle.
Premarital sex is a sin and shouldn't be discouraged. Simple.

OliviaSilk said...

Preach!

Workaholics Anonymous said...

Poster, you were correct. Impotence and inability to have an erection are the same thing.

Cissy said...

Him not having an erection is the same with being "Impotent" ok dear,
Definition : impotent "abnormally unable to achieve an erection or orgasm"
Thaz how you cancel the write answer in an exam thinking it was wrong one...lol

Chidinma Grace said...

Ok o.

Pipi Lee said...

Ibukun, you wan leave me go, shey na me and you dey together...wait for me abeg.

AUSTRALIAN SAND said...

I believe in tasting before buying and dis mindset is not because I'm expecting the worst,it's because we really have to be compatible sexwise before I can agree to marry you.

Elixir Ray said...

It still boils down to the fact that you had premarital sex, leave matter for Matthias.

Lemonade said...

Why is it that people on this blog cannot comment without insulting , you could have made your point without insult.πŸ˜”

Anonymous said...

Someone needs to have sex b4 knowing he's impotent? U never cease to show ur stupidity. With gbagaun again. "How did that ur brother 'knew'?"

Joe

Cissy said...

Exactly...thanks for the summary, you open your legs at your own risk, you close for Peace of mind. And Peace of mind surpasses all. God has given us something called Free-Will. There is no right or wrong answer to this, but our minds made it so.
Every man to his/her own conscience.

Anonymous said...

James shut up,this is my first time of commenting..You are so annoying.The writer is so right, you better change.Even if she is not a virgin but the fact that she has repented, makes her one because the blood of JESUS has made her new! @ Stella please she is not judging and one of the things that makes your blog better is the fact that you include GOD. Please continue and don't encourage immorality.@ James am sorry @ shut up....GOD blesses

Cissy said...

*right

OliviaSilk said...

Thank you dear for the clarification.

Anonymous said...

James shut up,this is my first time of commenting..You are so annoying.The writer is so right, you better change.Even if she is not a virgin but the fact that she has repented, makes her one because the blood of JESUS has made her new! @ Stella please she is not judging and one of the things that makes your blog better is the fact that you include GOD. Please continue and don't encourage immorality.@ James am sorry @ shut up....GOD blesses

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Lolz

OliviaSilk said...

*encouraged

Cissy said...

@ anon: 14:25, Him not informing her is also called 'Deceit' pure 'DECEIT' why didn't he tell her, then both of them join their Faith together, whatever happened to being Truthful.

Anonymous said...

Workaholic, you took the words from my mouth. Thanks. Narrow is the path and only few people will follow, so I'm not surprised at the multitude.

Will devil entice you with what is bad and unattractive? No! Only the sweet things, sex inclusive. So from now till tomorrow, some will never see reasons why they shouldn't before marriage.

Ask yourself how come inspite of the test driving men still cheat on their wives, and women likewise? So many questions...

But it's well, each to his God.

Anonymous said...

So on point.

Anonymous said...

Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound?

Anonymous said...

Rocky where did you read virginity in what Xp wrote, I'm beginning to have pity for some of you, coming to blogs with hate in your heart over nothing.

You can stop having sex after having a child out of wedlock or realising what is wrong in having sex with a man that is not your husband as a teenager, the topic is on living as a Christian that you say you are, not on Virginity.

Anonymous said...

do whatever you want!

Minding my own said...

Ir total agree with the poster. For those having premarital hope u realize its a sin. God will forgive if u ask him but, u will always face the consequences because God cannot be mocked. His word is yes and Amen. Even David in the bible faced the consequence of his sins despite his prayer and fasting. When we decide to do things our own way, we are telling God that he is wrong with is words and that we are smarter than him. Remember that asg good as sex can be, its not the most important thing in marriage. We all need partners that would love, cherish and respect us. All this is more than just goodsex. May God help us all. I guess when God said that in the last days, even his own shall be deceived, this is part of what He is talking about. My fellow Christians please lets rededicate our selves to our creator. He created us, though it might be tough, He knows best. Dont let us all troop to hell oru distroy our destiny because of sex. SEX B4 MARRIAGE IS A SIN. No other wayto say it. Stella, a love ur blog but, am dissapointed in u for ur comment. U have thousands of youth on ur blog. Please, lead them aright. God will reward u for it. May God helpt us all. Amen

Anonymous said...

You better get pregnant for him, at 35 still waiting for marriage proposal. Smh

Anonymous said...

Thanks for being truthful

Omolord said...

Truth!

Jenny Ekwe said...

Pipi baby, biko carry me on your back as you people are going.

Jenny Ekwe said...

Lmfaoo.

Jenny Ekwe said...

Lmao @last to comment be Satan pikin.

We are waiting for your WNB.
+ sow that iPhone gold into my life biko.

Anonymous said...

Amen Aunty gwegz. Amen. Surely surely, he will propose

Asada Yvonne said...

the fact that premarital sex has become the order of the day and almost everyone is doing it doesn't make it right. whenever we hear the truth we run under the canopy of "the person is judging us". we forget at the end of the day we will all answer to God... just make sure to argue with Him about why premarital sex is right. #justmy2cents.

Dominion said...

He didn't inform her because he knew that God is too faithful to fail him. Remember, faith is calling those things that are not as though they were. God bless you dear poster. Fornication is not just a sin against God, it is also a sin against your own body. Stella and dear BVS, let us choose this day whom we will serve. We can't begin to say premarital sex is right when we claim to be Christians. I know someone will say premarital sex isn't the only sin, if you are staying away from any other sin, why is this one so hard. Please ask for grace to do God's perfect will and you will be surprised how easy it is. God bless us all and help us not to end up in hell.

Dominion said...

The standard of God stands for ever. Sex is sacred, people . It is beyond physical pleasure, it is the mingling of two souls.

Anonymous said...

@xp, your comment would only go a long way in confusing others. You did it during courtship doesn't make it right, it's still premarital sex unless courtship is now marriage.

Omolord said...

Nah wa o sister, impotence is same as not having an erection if it's an exam that's how you will fail. I agree with you, sex is spiritual and the bible states that our body is the temple of the holy spirit. I understand Beverly's argument but if we say we are Christians then we should obey God's commandments by trying to live right in all aspects and trust him completely concerning our needs.

Nnechi Spicy. said...

Bwahahahahaha Chai oh...
The poster is all correct, but what that bro did is deceitful. He shoulda told her...

Cissy said...

...it's still Deceit, he should have told her, don't also forget
"For the word of the Lord is right; and all his works are done in TRUTH"

Cissy said...
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Anonymous said...

Toto matter ti take over.

Pipi Lee said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

This Portable Viv get bad mouth nor be small, wet pussy is better than dry tohto if you ask me

Anonymous said...

The truth is we like to deceive ourselves with religion, and trying to please others. First of all let's answer a simple question..... Who has the authority to judge? Even God says we must NOT Judge cause he is the only one that has and knows all the facts. So leave judgement to HIM. The bible we Christians use is meant to guide us and when we stray we are meant to ask for forgiveness. A lot of people cry wolf when the relationship does not turn out as planned, They turn celibate when they have been hurt in previous relationship and most virgins are scared of all these relationship drama that they stick to abstinence for fear not because they want to. The truth is how many people who end up having premarital sex do you see complain when they have a happy marriage. None....for them it's not about the sax it's about knowing what they want in the relationship. And please if they ask for forgiveness won't God forgive them. It's only God that can answer that question. And is there any guarantee a virgin will make a good wife..... Hell No! Let's stop putting or generalizing complicated issues.....everybody should be ready to take responsibility for their actions. Do you and don't come trying to impress people like you are a saint. A lot of virgins commit worse sins than fornication. Sex is so cheap these days that you wonder who are those having it when everyone is denying it. Let's educate ourselves more rather than judge people. Am a married man for the past 15years and yes I married a virgin. But trust ma we were the only ones that knew we were NOT having sex cause we were always holding, touching and even Pecking and kissing in the presence of friends. But sex never happened while we were dating. So stop using general standards and do what works for you and be ready to take responsibilities when things go wrong.

alicia said...

You'll tell your children to test? In the hospital or in th bedroom? You're a very useless mother. Aswear

Anonymous said...

This is the best reply i hv seen here .............. You are blessed dear.

Whirlwind said...

Well said, yes we are humans and we stumble, we fall, we sin. The issue is God does not approve of pre marital sex no matter how we justify it.

nzube izuu said...

Anon 13:25, just like your mama's own.

Jasmine said...

E.g, Stella. Lol

Jasmine said...

Sin na sin. U steal, I cheat!!! Sin is sin! Fornication, unforgiveness, adultery, lying, cheating, gossip, all sin na sin

Jasmine said...

Read and understand b4 u start typing rubbish! The poster is only saying premarital sex is a sin. That's all. Haba!!!


Hypocrite like u. So u know stealing, lying, cheating and gossiping is a sin? But premarital sex is normal abi?


Mtchewwww!!! SIN NA SIN

Jasmine said...

Sex is not the only sin. Sin is sin. All sins r committed outside the body but sex is inward.

Like the bible said, all sins will be forgiven but the sin of blasphemy against the holy spirit will not be forgiven.

Baby Oku said...

Lol which Stella be born again? Cos she dey do charity work and quote scripture? Their some fruits about a person that will tell you that that...the poster has not judged in any way..there has to be a diff between the church and the world...sex before marriage is a sin....if u choose to then don't justify it in any way cos it's personally your choice

Lilly simple said...

1 million likes to you

Anonymous said...

End time mumu James jamiu

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Fornication and adultery are not just like other sin,these two kill both the body and the soul. Do you not know that you were bought with a price,you must glorify God with your body.
Finally woe!! Unto that man that will lead one of these soul away from God,do what you want to do but please don't be the reason another is taken from God. Mind your words.
(All bibles quotes paraphrased).

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