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Friday, 5 August 2016

Doctors In House Section

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EPISIOTOMY WAHALA

Good day Stella, 
Am in desperate need of help/advice /recommendations...i gave birth 12 weeks ago, had an episiotomy, and I have still not healed went to see the doctor, did a swab test and he has been pumping me with antibiotics said it was streptococcus infected but still no improvement.

 Initially i was told after birth not to sit on water cos it might loosen the stitches so I didn't even when mumsy kept nagging me to, but since the stitches are  out, I have started sitting on salted hot water, so the pain is a bit dull now, but where I was stitched is still very red and tender, can't imagine being intimate with DH sef, and dude although forming understanding is getting impatient.

 Lol. 

Please has anyone been in similar situation ?

What can I do to hasten the healing process?
I am tired and need my vayjayjay back to normal

Thanks stellz


52 comments:

Miss Ess said...

The great healer will intervene

Pearl said...

Give it time to heal. Meanwhile DH should make do with BJ until situation improves. You no get wahala, the way Stella screamed I thought something big was wrong. Mtsheeeeeeew.

best of luck

white Berry said...

You will be healed in jesus name

stunning slim shady said...

Is it as tough as 'kanda'?

amanda favour said...

Continue with ur sitz bath
You can add sodium chloride to the water too
I wish you speedy recovery

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

When I tell you women to opt for CS,you people won't listen...
See how you have scattered your pussy in the name of child birth!...
Reading this alone gave me goose pimple...there is no way that place will be tight again...
Never!...
Madam,I don't have advise for you...just endure...

Apple Juice said...

Sorry dear.

OlaGold said...

Na wa o. Just 12 weeks and your dh is impatient. Dh and I had sex 4 month after having our child. By then I was completely healed. Madam abeg heal well well before u give oga your something. Olorun a fun e ni alafia.

Anonymous said...

Just 12 weeks after giving birth you are already moaning for sex...Hope your husband is extremely rich to take care of many children. Smh

Ope Daniel said...

It will heal put ur mind at rest,get a bowl an mix with warm water (tat ur body can tolorate)salt n disinfectant(salon/purit) and sit in it n not on it.it will heal faster Tat way! After it heals do d kegel exercise .

linasparkle said...

The problem here is very common among mums who dont adhere to instructions, you started sitting on hot water even before the stitch healed, in such case the hot water melts the rubber thread used in stitching the tear thereby exposing the wound. You may be infected according to the doctor, but from other mums i met with similar cases, they had to stitch them up again. Pls dont sit on hot water, it isnt necessary, tell your mum that times have changed not same type of thread again.

Loveme Jeje said...

The queen oya help her.

ukwu dimond said...

Oluwa please heal this poster, doctors step in.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

This episiotomy thing I heard its so painful na wa

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

Na wa oooh.
Eermm I have a question biko, heard the pain from child birth is outta this world, but I see women who just gave birth gbenshing again so fast is that they suddenly forget the pain abi na bcoz dey too like fuck?
I ask bcoz I follow my friend go hospital when she wanted to birth her baby, come see shout! Choi!!! She was in serious pain, see her screaming and groaning in pain for more than 12 hours. She swore she will never fuck again in this life nor the life to come. After a very long hours of labor at the end of the day she birth a very big baby boy she also had an episiotomy too. She was discharged the following day. She was asked to sit on the floor for weeks at home,she couldn't even laugh sef for fear or her stitches loosing. But come see her after a few months na she con dey hang leg for window pass me sef. I just don't understand women sha.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Your own time will come and you will understand. As for vaginal birth, I no fit. Your pussy can never be the same again

Anonymous said...

Shut ur gutter mouth. I have 2 kids,all tru natural delivery. And anytime we wanna fuck, hubby still has a hard time trying to penetrate me. Even with d 2hrs foreplay. *side eyez @ james* Child birth doesn't slack d Virgina, and even if it does, it's just a little bit. Unless, the woman in question Has a 'well' for a vaginal.

Anonymous said...

ThankGod for this post.I am also in this same condition,14 weeks postpartum,episiotomy site still red and weeping,though d suturing broke down 3weeks after,did a swab at 6weeks the result stated clean wound,couldn't stand for more than 5mins and can't walk well until 8weeks postpartum.I was told they can't resuture that it will heal from inside out,tired of dis condition,having sex is the least of my problem now.Complete healing from above is all I ask for!

Anonymous said...

Mine was totally patient. Though, I was giving him head and sometimes, he fucks in between my boobs nd wen he cums, he's OK. We did it 4 3months before we had proper sex.

Nenye said...

Dear poster, I had epistonomy (big one) six weeks ago and the wound has healed, please buy augmentin, it will heal the wound faster, I took it instead of the amoxyl given to me on the midwives advice. continue sitting on hot water vapour it will heal, you didn't take care of the wound while it was fresh, please don't fail to wash the area you have the stitches gently with toilet soap and water.

Anonymous said...

See this one. The thing is, immediately u offload ur 👶 and leave the hospital u tend to forget the pains you went tru while in labour. I don't know he does it but God sure knows how to make one forget the pains. If u were to remember d pains, I swear u nor go near your husband again not to talk of fucking him. Lol

Adadioramma said...

Ajo nwa.

Anonymous said...

With what you described I think some part of ur P is not stitch. My elder sis had same expirence after child birth. It was a gynaecologist that detected it. She was in pain for a long time. He heard to stitch that part that was still open. I put to bed 4 weeks ago, my stitch has healed. Just feeling minor pain.

Anonymous said...

One forgets the pain after delivery. That the beauty of it

IJAY said...

Sis it will heal with time, jus be calm

Anonymous said...

Get original honey and always rub it on the wound after every toilet use. Try to wash there with warm water. it will close up with time. Cheers

Anonymous said...

Get original honey and rub it in the opening after every toilet use. Also ensure you wash up with warm water before using the honey in and around that opening . It will heal and close up with time. Cheers

Anonymous said...

Wait till you birth your own, then and only then will you understand.

Anonymous said...

The pain of childbirth is out of this world, everytime I remember mine, I get scared, it's 4 months now can't even think of having another child

Mrs James said...

Na wa o..
Fear is catching me..

All these talks just gives me goosebumps

Starjoy said...

Madame just take it easy, it will heal just give yourself a little time.

Mao Akuh said...

Just calm down it will heal, don't jump into sex yet.

Mama Afrika said...

Just 12wks postpartum and hubby is already impatent? Abi na u dey impatient sef. Pls take care of urself first. Sex is not food *side eyes*

Anonymous said...

Poster so sorry. Just drink coconut oil. Thank me later.

Anonymous said...

I started fucking my hubby 2weeks after I put to bed. Took in again 6weeks after I put to bed.
Call me a fertile ground!
No CS, no tear
Punanny still tight

Anonymous said...

My own case is different, my put to birth 4 months ago, mine has healed totally just that I'm a bit wide now after child birth. My husband complained that my tohtoh has no grip again. Don't know what to do.

Eastner said...

MADAM, PLEASE DO NOT SIT BACK.
YOU NEED A SECOND OPINION.
I WILL SUGGEST YOU GO TO ANOTHER GNAECOLOGIST/DOCTOR.
IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT,I WILL SUGGEST YOU GO TO THE PREMIER SPECIALIST MEDICAL CENTER,IF YOU ARE LAGOS.
THERE'S CERTAINLY SOMETHING WRONG BECAUSE 12WEEKS IS MORE THAN ENOUGH TIME TO HAVE HEALED.
PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FOR YOUR BABY'S SAKE & HUSBAND.
MAY GOD GRANT YOU SPEEDY HEALING IN JESUS NAME, AMEN

Fiona said...

Didn't you read the part where she said she didn't sit on hot water.

Blossom said...

Poster,so sorry about your pain. You should have start sitting on the hot water and salt immediately after you were discharged. Take augmentin and try to be patient. You will be fine in no time.

Fiona said...

Probably they didn't stitch it for her well. The stitches absorbs withing 10 days. Madam pls clean the area with warm water and purit. Just get a clean bowl, add purit disinfectant, dip your cotton wool inside and use it to clean the area. I would have told you to get a competent midwife from a government hospital to resuture it for you but I dn't know if you can bear the pain.If it is well stitched, it doesn't take a month to heal completely and your vjay will be tighter than before. Trust me.

Anonymous said...

I have two kids,had episiotomy in both. It was a doctor that advised me to use methylated spirit to clean that area every time after having ur bath and using d toilet. It works like magic, though is very painful I won't lie to u but it heals very fast. Try it,but get a good Moko spirit not a fake one oo.i know Ds will be useful to u.

Anonymous said...

Sorry abt ur pains.pennicilin ointment heals like magic.dats what I used,apply it on d spot always.and always bath with dettol

Anonymous said...

WHEN I HAD MY FIRST FIRST CHILD IT WAS HELL FOR ME, BECAUSE DH WASN'T COMING CLOSE, IMMEDIATELY HE NOTICED I WAS PREG., MY VG WAS TOOOOOOOOOOO TIGHT THAT THEY OPEN IT AFTER CHILD BEARING, THE PAIN WAS HELL, AT FIRST I WAS SITTING ON HOT WATER DIRECTLY, BUT IT WASN'T HEALING TILL SOMEONE NOW SAID IS THE VAPOR OF THE WATER I NEED TO SIT ON AND NOT DIRECT ON THE HOT WATER, POSTER GET A PAINT SMALL BUCKET, PUT HOT WATER, ADD SALT AND DETTOL, THEN SIT ON THE BUCKET THE HEAT OF THE WATER FROM THE BUCKET WILL HEAL YOU, WHICH YOU HAVE TO DO 3 TIMES A DAY WITH THE ANTIBIOTICS YOU WILL BE HEALED FASTER, AND ADD PENICILLIN OINTMENT ON THE STITCHED SURFACE.

Anonymous said...

WHEN I HAD MY FIRST FIRST CHILD IT WAS HELL FOR ME, BECAUSE DH WASN'T COMING CLOSE, IMMEDIATELY HE NOTICED I WAS PREG., MY VG WAS TOOOOOOOOOOO TIGHT THAT THEY OPEN IT AFTER CHILD BEARING, THE PAIN WAS HELL, AT FIRST I WAS SITTING ON HOT WATER DIRECTLY, BUT IT WASN'T HEALING TILL SOMEONE NOW SAID IS THE VAPOR OF THE WATER I NEED TO SIT ON AND NOT DIRECT ON THE HOT WATER, POSTER GET A PAINT SMALL BUCKET, PUT HOT WATER, ADD SALT AND DETTOL, THEN SIT ON THE BUCKET THE HEAT OF THE WATER FROM THE BUCKET WILL HEAL YOU, WHICH YOU HAVE TO DO 3 TIMES A DAY WITH THE ANTIBIOTICS YOU WILL BE HEALED FASTER, AND ADD PENICILLIN OINTMENT ON THE STITCHED SURFACE.

Anonymous said...


WHEN I HAD MY FIRST FIRST CHILD IT WAS HELL FOR ME, BECAUSE DH WASN'T COMING CLOSE, IMMEDIATELY HE NOTICED I WAS PREG., MY VG WAS TOOOOOOOOOOO TIGHT THAT THEY OPEN IT AFTER CHILD BEARING, THE PAIN WAS HELL, AT FIRST I WAS SITTING ON HOT WATER DIRECTLY, BUT IT WASN'T HEALING TILL SOMEONE NOW SAID IS THE VAPOR OF THE WATER I NEED TO SIT ON AND NOT DIRECT ON THE HOT WATER, POSTER GET A PAINT SMALL BUCKET, PUT HOT WATER, ADD SALT AND DETTOL, THEN SIT ON THE BUCKET THE HEAT OF THE WATER FROM THE BUCKET WILL HEAL YOU, WHICH YOU HAVE TO DO 3 TIMES A DAY WITH THE ANTIBIOTICS YOU WILL BE HEALED FASTER, AND ADD PENICILLIN OINTMENT ON THE STITCHED SURFACE.

Dr. Beautiful said...

It's probably infected as your doctor said. Since he took a swab, he probably cultured and knows what medications the organism is most sensitive. Please note, it's salt in WARM water, not HOT water. Hot water is only going to make it worse.

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

Kai! You people should stop making me scared biko.

IXORA said...

Pls CS is not a better option.....I had episiotomy also, healed after 4 weeks and started collecting at 6 weeks. And...Yes, I started sitting in hot water vapour plus detol plus salt the night after i put to bed (my mother's prescription). I was also sitting strictly on wooden stool with legs forced closed. During the healing process, I usually see the stitches falling into the hot water. Now am healed and still intact.

dumbi faith said...

so scaryyyyyy...please God help her and help me

Obi's jewel said...

I tire for u ooo she said she didn't sit in hot water. Mk una try dey read well.

JSBunny said...

Read and understand. Mba!

Awesomeness said...

queen of the blog.nne idikwa mean.

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