Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Finding A Husband Facts/Fiction.

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Wednesday, 17 August 2016

Finding A Husband Facts/Fiction.

What you think about women finding husbands and the baggages attached to them..
Its been long we had a couch session...




Is it possible to find a man who has no quality but is still husband material?No school,no work,no finesse,no money,not romantic,short,not too good looking.........

The problem with women these days is that the kind of men they are looking for does not exist in human body....lol





168 comments:

Adadioramma said...

Make i read comments

Anonymous said...

The truth is there is no perfect man nor woman out there
Just mange well the one you get and bring out the best in them

Anonymous said...

Let God find for you, he knows the best one for you, if you follow his leading you won't have regrets.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

*grabs cold watermelon juice and almond* na standing things i go do today

telema Cr7 present wife and drake girlfriend said...

There is nothing like a perfect man.
Anyone looking for a perfect man shld mould him

amanda favour said...

My opinion is that the right man is who passes at least 8 out of 10 of the characters you want in a man 👨

Kelvin Dat Edo Boi said...

Well! well!! Well!!!, me? Husband material on fleek! 200% come into my world, collect and kno!😉😚

Kelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )

crazyhornywife said...

You cant have it all!!!

Anonymous said...

Rubbish post!

Sharon john said...

Finding a husband ,is as hard as writing an Ican exam ,instead of me looking for right,i rather turn mr left over to my very own mr right

Adanne said...

That write up is so funny,
Stella I cannot agree any less with you.

Ladies of today are looking for something that doesn't even exist.

Or should I say they are looking for money overlooking the qualities.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Stella,not every woman!...
I know what I want in a man...I saw it on my husband and married him sharply without wasting time....
As a human being,he is not perfect but his good side is 100% bigger than his bad side!...

lovedoosh said...

most ladies don't even know what they want...

De Unbreakable said...

Lemme read comments.

The bible said HE that FINDETH a Wife..... Now you people want to turn the bible upside

Ladies Let the right man find you,you will fit in perfectly that way.

My 2 cent.

Anonymous said...

" the kind of men they are looking for does not exist in human body" Well said. No need to comment again.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Infact,my number one quality in a man is wealth!...
Choi!...
Poor men irritates the shit out of me!...

Ada Nwanbueze said...

It's simple there is no perfect man.

Mr. Chopalone said...

Yes o stella I agree with you. The kind of men women are looking for does not exist. They want a man is who's tall, handsome, rich, intelligent, romantic, God fearing, treats a lady right, etc. They want all these qualities in one man lol. Ladies pls if you find a man who's genuinely God fearing and hardworking with potentials/dreams, pls follow him.

School Life said...

No one z perfect. Once you find a man whom you find happiness with, just love him n deal with his imperfections gradually until he gets to change to the man you want him to be.
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The way your phone z right now ain't the way it was when you first got it. It took you time to finally customize/set it to the way you think z nice for u...

James said...

Hmmmmmmm

James said...

Just passing by

Ideato/IlajeBlood~ SDK FIRSTLADY said...

The kind of men they fantasize about are Married.

Oluwa provide a boo

Odi said...

I found one oooo BUT genotype wont let us be!!!

2B8DC62D said...

Hahahaha...

Anonymous said...

Here we go again. *yawns*


MISS Jacobs.

Trey Mama said...

Hmm, lemme read comments. *sits on the couch and sips coke*

Cynthia Iyede said...

You can't have everything in one package. You either work on the one you have, understand the situation and cope or you leave.

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...waiting to read commentz

Anonymous said...

I'm tired of dating... After having sex my new boyfriend stopped picking my calls... Dont know how to be a mermaid on a first date, as soon as I see preeq my number 6 will just disappear...

Blackberry said...

Hahahahahahaaa
Women don suffer.

Anonymous said...

No human is perfect.Enjoy his good qualities and overlook or tolerate the rest. Hubby is born again,hard working and loving. He's not too romantic but he is a great guy and a wonderful father.Been happily married for 8 years.No issues. I'm grateful and thankful. The fear of the lord keeps your marriage from stories that touch.Listen to the leading of the holyspirit.find God for yourself in the place of prayer on your knees and extensive study of God's word.

Miss Itohan said...

Lmaooooo!sorry,i had to laugh,the last sentence is hilarious

Anonymous said...

He was never your boo....u were a side chick...he came for ur cookie bar

Anonymous said...

He was never your boo....u were a side chick...he came for ur cookie bar

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

truth is you cant find a man who has it all. my ex was drop dead gorgoues who was super intelligent, sweet, sexxy,and super proud. he knows he is fine and the thing dey shackam well well.when you find a man who you are comfortable being with just take the leap of faith.

Anonymous said...

Clap for urself!
#pam 👄 #

Anonymous said...

No man can be perfect or have everything. There are qualities that are most important to each lady. When u see it in the man,you go for it. You cant expect the man to be everything. Thats why a woman has to be complete herself because finding a man to complete you is a big mistake.
Me for instance...i am hardly attracted to guys that are handsome. Once u are too fine and attractive,its a red flag fore especially if hes now the vain type thats too particular about how he looks.
A husband for me has to be responsible and has deep respect for women. Each woman has what endears them to a man

Pink shell said...

Most women are looking for the antichrist(666)
A 6footer
6 packs
6 figured salary.
I mean, if u see dat kind man, who no want?

Anonymous said...

Looooolz madam try and close your legs! Prick no dey run so chill

HOUSE OF LAWOF said...

Hmmm... not that they don't exist just that these days men are becoming lazier and women are becoming more hardworking. the few good men still have comma but so far wife battering is not one of his commas he is manageable lol

HOUSE OF LAWOF said...

Hmmm... not that they don't exist just that these days men are becoming lazier and women are becoming more hardworking. the few good men still have comma but so far wife battering is not one of his commas he is manageable lol

Cissy said...

Is it your post?

Ada Nwanbueze said...

Eya he has won election naa so he won't keep to his promise.

Mrs. Romas said...

Some women have too much problem. Some don't even love themselves enough but they will be the ones drawing endless lists about the quality of men they want to end up with.

Very soon some women will start marrying their animal pets and also form a movement for it to be legalised. Enough of all the "I need a perfect man", are you perfect yourself?
What do you have to offer?

HOUSE OF LAWOF said...

Eeya get a tailor to sew the hole because only few men will be serious with a lady they had sex with on the first date. Better still avoid been alone with a man. All the best

Miss Itohan said...

Women don really suffer. Now every tom,dick and Harry writes a book or memo about what and how a woman should be. If y'all direct just a quarter of your memos to grooming the men folk,our generation will be happier for it. By the way,i think men are even more insatiable than women when it comes to relationships,a woman in love is more likely to make excuses for her man.

Anonymous said...

He Exist Stella. My ex was d best man I eva knew Even tho he's married He is d best man in d world..7years of Love,sacrifice and friendship. He has all d qualities any woman wants..bloody hypocrites will cuss me out n frustrated married women too..for the records I broke up bcuz I wanna decide to b wit him 4eva..am still thinkng..

amanda favour said...

Receive honey 🍯

Anonymous said...

Your pussy stinks,its not fun to fuck it, wash it well next time and don't be a bore in bed.

Cynthia Iyede said...

Eeyah...Pelee. You just have to control it. Ask God to help you.

amanda favour said...

I tell ya!!!
Most single ladies are confused 😖

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

That's why am crazy bout Lee boo, his good side outweighs his bad side. No man can have it all. So better manage the one you have. But then some men better pass others.




*spread legs to 180degrees*

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Is better u go for a responsible guy that's not romantic
Who romantic epp?
Husband no too dey market but horseband full everywhere

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

Hahahahahahahaha
Try na
You can do it.

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Loud it mama

The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog said...

Loud it queen. No man is perfect. If his good side is bigger than the bad side then he is good to go.

Sweetheart said...

There is no perfect being, man or woman!

The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog said...

Kpakam

Kikiki

The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog said...

Because u re so cheap. Respect ur body and respect ur self. You don't need to be a mermaid. But u need to always use ur six senses. Once they see that u re desperate, NNE they will chop the cookie and disappear. Voom!!!

The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog said...

Preach it

The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog said...

Loud it.

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

You have said it all
The number one tin single ladies should look out for is a man that genuinely have the fear of God.
How can a man love u when he doesn't LOVE GOD?

Brown Sucre said...

Then he is not the one.
The bible says: the gift God gives,he add no sorrows to it.

Brown Sucre said...

Rubbish fool.
Idiotic fool.
Manner less fool.
Nonsense fool.
Now run along FOOL.

adohr said...

I'm tired of everything. my bf broke up with me days ago and I can't seem to get a hold of anything again..av been begging him back cus I hurt his feelings . He changed a whole lot about me for good , I can't imagine life without him .I still love him and I think I'll always do..it pays to be loyal...

Omah Cindy said...

As in eh... And most of them claim they are Christians. Go to their churches every Sunday and Wednesday and you will see preachers calling for women finding husbands.

Anonymous said...

Even if Jesus Christ should come and tell a lady that he is Jesus Christ, the lady will still find fault in Him, Just the same way an Igbo Trader will still cheat HIM if HE tells him that He is Jesus Christ during a business....


SHe will say Jesus Christ is not romantic always spiritual.

Thats women for you.


Mind you, I am IGBO...

Anonymous said...

Wait, he is married and you still thinks he is the best? Nobody will judge you dear, you are so lost

Anonymous said...

Same here , found one buh this AS ish is so depressing abeg! Thinking of going for CVS.... Just confused, pls judginas and judgines stay away from my comment.

Alloy Chikezie said...

Bottom line:

Humans are insatiable, so that's why it's difficult to find a live partner we are never satisfied with all the qualities.

And humans are imperfect, so no husband or wife can have it all.

When you see one that doesn't have the danger qualities like, anger and stinginess and being irresponsible and lazy please just do your best to keep them. The others like the beauty are just secondary.

Your comment will be visible after approval.

Yemi7up said...

There is nothing like a perfect man, is all about understanding each other and by this you grow in love. If he gives you joy,he doesn't abuse you in anyway and above all God fearing , he can be perfect in your eyes.

Mao Akuh said...

No one is perfect, but there are things to consider.

Mao Akuh said...

Side chic Chairlady

Fan Emmanuel said...

With these your horrible altitude? Kwakwakwaaaa... Can i be honest with you?
Nne, your type irritate the heck outa men! LMFAO

Tilly said...

Hilarious

B said...

You cannot change a man Sharon, only God can.

Anonymous said...

Pls s not a joke. I ve made up my mind. I wld ve sent an email but I don't want my name out. Virginity up for give up. I will be 37 years old in 2 months nd I ve decided 2 ve sex . Let me be explicit here. Never seen a penis b4. Kissed only one guy twice out of curiosity in my teens. My parents were pastor nd preached no to pre martial sex every day. Just lost a friend who died nd realised life is damn short. I need 2 experience everything in life. Will repent after it. This is serious no married man pls. Only one sin abeg. I need dis 2 happen b4 my bday. Pls drop comment below if interested

Miss Ferragamo said...

Some things can't be managed.

Jasmine said...

There is no perfect man. Just check his flaws. If his good side is more than his bad side, then u r game.

Pray about it and allow God pick a spouse for u

Anonymous said...

Contradictory to the post... You found a good one but you stupidly allowed him go, now u r crying like ......make I no talk.


Yet the post we are discussing says no good men again

@Zinny said...

You can't have it all, just get the best quality and manage the rest. But if can cope there no point.

dashen duch said...

Yimu

dashen duch said...

Lol@antichrist

dashen duch said...

God ll see u through

Tush baby said...

Pray to God to give you your own husband bc if you marry ur own beyond every imperfections their will be perfection, he will love, toelorate and understand you.

Tush baby said...

Pray to God to give you your own husband bc if you marry ur own beyond every imperfections their will be perfection, he will love, toelorate and understand you.

ukwu dimond said...

there is no perfect man, there is also no perfect woman, all both parties need to do is to come together with love, understanding and prayers work towards perfection.

If God is the head of your relationship, marriage you will never have issue with your spouse.

viva said...

You are very stupid

Stella maris Baby said...

Seconded

Starjoy said...

There is nothing like perfect man or woman, you can't get a man with everything, relationship can be build up expecially if you are not the lucky one that suitors came to knock their door, pls women work on yourself first before looking for Mr perfect 👌.

Stella maris Baby said...

Sweet post
Interesting post.

Anonymous said...

Men hardly change. You just have to manage him....

IJAY said...

Gbam

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Shut up!...
So it's only Igbo traders that cheat people?...
Ewu nmee!...

IJAY said...

Lols, try harder babe

Anonymous said...

I like that. @ comfortable being with. It's all about who you are comfortable with.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Shame on you for begging a man to take you back...
Where is your pride as a woman?,..
You must be very ugly to be crying over a man...

Stella maris Baby said...

Onye eziokwu ka i bu😘😘

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Kwakwakwakwa...
Abi?...but who 6packs and 6 footer epp?...

IJAY said...

Perfect man,hmmmm OK ohh

PLATINUM said...

Stella, i hv come to understand that everyone has issues and shortcomings so as a lady, please jst find one you can actually live with, try to understand,tolerate and compromise and i think it might actually work out.
My 5cent

Stella maris Baby said...

1000 likes.
Me like..


Noted.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Hahahahahahahahahaha...
But I had sex the first day I met my husband...pretending to be a mermaid does not work for everybody...
Anony don't mind the fool!...a better guy is coming...

Stella maris Baby said...

Seconded..
1000 likes.

Booboo kitty said...

Baby girl it not about not knowing how to close ur legs on a first date, is the the pussy clean? Is it tight? Does it smell right? And most importantly do u know how to fuck nd suck a dick well? There is a way u will fuck a guy, even if na first date, nd h will want to die untop your matter. Go and learn all dese tins, then come back nd testify. #iaintnosaint

Stella maris Baby said...

No one is perfect .but they are some important things to look @..
God fearing.
Potentials/dreams..

And the give of God adds no sorrow.

Adanne said...

Lmao@brown

amanda favour said...

LMAO @boboi kitty

Stella maris Baby said...

No one is perfect .but they are some important things to look @..
God fearing.
Potentials/dreams..

And the give of God adds no sorrow.

Cyndilicious said...

When a guy has a lil bit of all these good qualities..wt else ar u lookin for abeg nobody is perfect.

Eneres said...

Na u funny pass...see as I'm laughing inside bus

Franglais said...

Hey,let's hook up.

Eneres said...

Cry and get over it. Soldier come, soldier go,barrack remain

Anonymous said...

Have come to find out that majority of we ladies just want a man we have painted d pix in our head..doesn't work that way.. if u act responsibly I believe God will compensate you with a good man..I always wished for the TDH kinda guy then this not too good looking guy came along.. He's very tall and dark..just d H part missing. yet I kept praying for my own despite dis guy being all over me..it took prayers and some sense mom talked into me to redirect my steps and realized he's d one for me..now I thank God every minute that I didn't miss this diamond while I was searching tirelessly for a stone..I bless God for d patience of this guy..he's the best I have dated so far..in fee months time God willing we will be walking down d aisle..I'd advice us to think twice and quit chasing shadows..let's be realistic cos time waits for no one..

Booboo kitty said...

Wat do u mean by only one sin? Wetha u fuck married man or single man na d same fornication o aunty. Better look for rich married man to disvirgin u, nd be set up for life! Properties in ur name, open biz for u nd trips abroad! Better don't dull it! If u want to fuck better do it well.

Anonymous said...

Anon 14:16 you are an idiot, you sound like my husband's ex, 7 years of friendship my Yansh, if he is so good why did u break up with him?, he is married but you are still thinking about been with him , you are the frustrated single idiot, old mama , go and marryyyyyyyyyyyyy

Anonymous said...

Heaven helps those who help themselves. Nobody has said you shouldn't be looking as you back it up with prayers.

MOTHER NATURE........ said...

I'm sorry but this is no topic of discussion because it is the duty of the man to do the searching/finding. Why should a woman do the searching? What then will the man do? The woman's duty is to make herself available with all the good qualities. After all it is said; he that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the lord. (Who does the finding? 'MAN').

Case ended.

Mama Afrika said...

A thousand likes for this queen! Same here my husband isnt perfect but he's got the most important qualities i want.

Anonymous said...

If u like do it like a professional akwunakwuo, he no want u be say he no want you.

Mrs James said...

So you can follow a broke ass man abi

Anonymous said...

My hubby is 7 & 8. Loolz. I call him 'lawyer ikpeama'. Just dat he's not a lawyer. Lol

Mrs James said...

He only made you better for your final bustop

mma cee said...

Lolll
No comment yet 😃😃.
Nne.
Keep it
Ask God for a man and thank Him for it
Write down your wedding date and begin to thank God for it
It would happen very soon
Don't give yourself out...its not worth it

Krysty Odinma said...

Did I hear u say 'at least'? Which means u are looking for 10/10, u never want marry

mimie said...

Nyemm aka wannem!*high5!

Anonymous said...

Queen since your husband is so rich why don't you do giveaways on this blog once on a while.

Anonymous said...

The 37yr old virgin,better be very careful because the devil is luring you to destruction when you are about to get your trophy.

Anonymous said...

#fact#

Anonymous said...

If I wasn't married,i will go for d humble one because my hsbnd is rich bt has no time for me or d kids.money isn't everything

Anonymous said...

If I wasn't married,i will go for d humble one because my hsbnd is rich bt has no time for me or d kids.money isn't everything

Florence Huttons said...

Qualities that a woman looks for in a man (1)Brave
(2)Intelligent
(3)Gentle
(4)Polite
(5)Emotional
(6)Nice
(7)Innovative
(8)Successful.......

Put all the first letters together and send me what you got.�

Anonymous said...

Ideato has entered fan Emmanuel trap. Wahala wa

Anonymous said...

I read about that woman whose husband is maltreating because she has just girls and I shake my head..i have not given my husband even one,not even a miscarriage and this man shows me so much care and love,test shows he is very okay but I have issues.if u want to see him mad mention the issue of having a child to him,whenever I see my period and get worried he gets mad at me asking me if I am God?he says the only time he will get mad at me is if I start going up and down looking for a child cos I might end up where I will be given an evil child or initiated into what will destroy our home,he says he will rather if we don't get a baby soon.if u meet him for the first time he can never tell u he doesn't have a child,only people who know us from day 1 know we don't have kids yet...and to think we didn't really date?it's just God!..God please help me and bless me with a child so that our home can be complete..

Anonymous said...

Anon17:55 your hubby has the same xteristics with my hubby he knows everything and does not welcome any arguiment

Anonymous said...

Amen. Your home will hear the cry of children in Jesus Name. Amen!!!

Anonymous said...

Stella, my husband thinks he is god. But he is not. There is only one God, and he is not him.

Anonymous said...

Most guys say they are graduates but cannot speak basic English. Is it too difficult to ask "that he should at least be able to speak basic english?

Blue Sky said...

Anon then sow seed in my life

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Amanda is righ. Men aren't prefect but let him rock most of the boxes at least.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Amanda is righ. Men aren't prefect but let him tick most of the boxes at least.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Mistake of the century!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Some people have done that and ended up with the ones that don't change. Me I'm up for accepting him as he is and like queen said sticking to the one that has be qualities you desire

Anonymous said...

I'm 35yrs, I get compliments like, I wish I wasn't married I would have love to be with you, 'you are such a nice lady, I pray you find a nice guy'.

But they are not just coming along. I've tried to be responsible in my relations, serve God like all my life, educate myself but it's as if the naughty ladies sleeping around are all married except me.

Why are things that way?

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Fan Emmanuel what altitude? You wan abuse person you no even use correct English.
Your type 'irritates' Jeez!!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Depends on how you see it....

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

You're right. You don't bring anything to the table and you're looking for Mr. Right. Are you Mrs. Right?
When you're independent you won't beg men to stay. When you know your onions they will fall in line to get your attention. But no, some of us spend most of our time chasing them and spreading legs for them. So how do u want to be valued? Even when you're broke to your last dime, carry yourself like you have he world and you know where you're going. Let no one tell you bullshit and you take it because you don't have and he has. To me, confidence and ambition are the sexiest thing a woman can have. When you don't have it, sorry.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Agree

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Begging a man? Sorry. He's not into you anymore. He's found someone else

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Potentials he is using and dreams he is working on.
Not potentials and dreams that he uses to sit on his bed everyday

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Amen.

Anonymous said...

God has already answered your prayers dear

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Who his time epp?...
I'm sure you have never tasted poverty before!...

Favourlistic said...

Oh yes

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Nice reply booboo kitty...
Anon follow her advise!...
You will soon get old without tasting life...

Anonymous said...

Who wants your old pussy? You sound like sey na privilege 2 f**k you. Like sey make me buy raffle ticket 2 win lottery. Who needs your virginity. Pastor daughter wey go be like log. Find good use for your time. Hope u no go carry disease at the 1st dip. Yeye

Anonymous said...

Best comment ever

Anonymous said...

Shut up idiot. Did u have a choice? U were married off very young to save your family from poverty so what the fuck are you yarning? Marriage of convenience with halitosis join. Na your 3 boys and pussy licking dey give you joy... Nkita

Anonymous said...

Shut up bitch. Do u love God?

Anonymous said...

@brownsucre, or he is the perfect one and God has given us science to combat such illnesses?
There are a million ways to skin a cat you know

Anonymous said...

Big Penis..lol

Drealbarbz said...

U better receive sense & close those legs of urs.
Is having sex d solution 2 ur problem? Smh
Don't loose faith, continue 2 hold on 2 God. Ur miracle is just around d corner.
Dat ur friend died untimely doesn't mean d same fate awaits u.
Pls think positively. God be with u

Drealbarbz said...

It may seem so now, but trust me, He will make everything beautiful His time.
Keep holding on
U will laugh best

Anonymous said...

Why are all you frustrated single and depressed people attacking Anon 14:16. Is she complaining? Please always respect other people's opinion. Some women don't have issues being second wife and if the man is ready to take a second they are both adults. Stop playing holy and a lot of you women ranting here are side chics to irresponsible men who don't even care about you and yet you keep running after them . Whatever make you happy do it just make sure your man takes care of his home and don't be the reason to break his home. What if he is a Moslem and his first wife is ready to accommodate a second wife. Do you and be ready to take responsibility of your adult decisions.

Anonymous said...

This bitch call chikito whores thinks she knows every shits. What's wan and your? What is your profession?
Broke ass master degree my ass, go suck some dick bitch!

Anonymous said...

Saw it in or on. Thank me now

Anonymous said...

I married the best man on earth. Am 26 now he's 29, 2kids and a beautiful life. Know what you want then you know when you have it. Am done having kids and working on my figure. I run a business and he works. I and the kids are currently on holiday only for my younger brother to inform me of the gift I just go, Brand new am so happy to come back home next week. I didn't meet him rich ooooo and I didn't marry him rich in fact we squatted when we first got married. Have a focus. Polish your man instead of looking for ready made.

Porsh beibe said...

@Anon 17:16,that heaven helps those stuff is not in the Bible oo

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