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Wednesday, August 17, 2016

Finding A Husband Facts/Fiction.

What you think about women finding husbands and the baggages attached to them..
Its been long we had a couch session...




Is it possible to find a man who has no quality but is still husband material?No school,no work,no finesse,no money,not romantic,short,not too good looking.........

The problem with women these days is that the kind of men they are looking for does not exist in human body....lol





168 comments:

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    1. He Exist Stella. My ex was d best man I eva knew Even tho he's married He is d best man in d world..7years of Love,sacrifice and friendship. He has all d qualities any woman wants..bloody hypocrites will cuss me out n frustrated married women too..for the records I broke up bcuz I wanna decide to b wit him 4eva..am still thinkng..

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    2. Is better u go for a responsible guy that's not romantic
      Who romantic epp?
      Husband no too dey market but horseband full everywhere

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    3. Wait, he is married and you still thinks he is the best? Nobody will judge you dear, you are so lost

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    4. Bottom line:

      Humans are insatiable, so that's why it's difficult to find a live partner we are never satisfied with all the qualities.

      And humans are imperfect, so no husband or wife can have it all.

      When you see one that doesn't have the danger qualities like, anger and stinginess and being irresponsible and lazy please just do your best to keep them. The others like the beauty are just secondary.

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    5. Stella, i hv come to understand that everyone has issues and shortcomings so as a lady, please jst find one you can actually live with, try to understand,tolerate and compromise and i think it might actually work out.
      My 5cent

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    6. Anon 14:16 you are an idiot, you sound like my husband's ex, 7 years of friendship my Yansh, if he is so good why did u break up with him?, he is married but you are still thinking about been with him , you are the frustrated single idiot, old mama , go and marryyyyyyyyyyyyy

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    7. Why are all you frustrated single and depressed people attacking Anon 14:16. Is she complaining? Please always respect other people's opinion. Some women don't have issues being second wife and if the man is ready to take a second they are both adults. Stop playing holy and a lot of you women ranting here are side chics to irresponsible men who don't even care about you and yet you keep running after them . Whatever make you happy do it just make sure your man takes care of his home and don't be the reason to break his home. What if he is a Moslem and his first wife is ready to accommodate a second wife. Do you and be ready to take responsibility of your adult decisions.

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  2. The truth is there is no perfect man nor woman out there
    Just mange well the one you get and bring out the best in them

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    1. Hmmm... not that they don't exist just that these days men are becoming lazier and women are becoming more hardworking. the few good men still have comma but so far wife battering is not one of his commas he is manageable lol

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    2. Hmmm... not that they don't exist just that these days men are becoming lazier and women are becoming more hardworking. the few good men still have comma but so far wife battering is not one of his commas he is manageable lol

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    3. Some things can't be managed.

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  3. Let God find for you, he knows the best one for you, if you follow his leading you won't have regrets.

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    1. Heaven helps those who help themselves. Nobody has said you shouldn't be looking as you back it up with prayers.

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    2. My hubby is 7 & 8. Loolz. I call him 'lawyer ikpeama'. Just dat he's not a lawyer. Lol

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    3. Anon17:55 your hubby has the same xteristics with my hubby he knows everything and does not welcome any arguiment

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    4. @Anon 17:16,that heaven helps those stuff is not in the Bible oo

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  4. *grabs cold watermelon juice and almond* na standing things i go do today

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    1. There is nothing like a perfect man, is all about understanding each other and by this you grow in love. If he gives you joy,he doesn't abuse you in anyway and above all God fearing , he can be perfect in your eyes.

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  5. There is nothing like a perfect man.
    Anyone looking for a perfect man shld mould him

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  6. My opinion is that the right man is who passes at least 8 out of 10 of the characters you want in a man 👨

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    1. Did I hear u say 'at least'? Which means u are looking for 10/10, u never want marry

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    2. Amanda is righ. Men aren't prefect but let him rock most of the boxes at least.

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    3. Amanda is righ. Men aren't prefect but let him tick most of the boxes at least.

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  7. Well! well!! Well!!!, me? Husband material on fleek! 200% come into my world, collect and kno!😉😚

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )

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  8. You cant have it all!!!

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    1. Rubbish fool.
      Idiotic fool.
      Manner less fool.
      Nonsense fool.
      Now run along FOOL.

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  10. Finding a husband ,is as hard as writing an Ican exam ,instead of me looking for right,i rather turn mr left over to my very own mr right

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    1. You cannot change a man Sharon, only God can.

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    2. I married the best man on earth. Am 26 now he's 29, 2kids and a beautiful life. Know what you want then you know when you have it. Am done having kids and working on my figure. I run a business and he works. I and the kids are currently on holiday only for my younger brother to inform me of the gift I just go, Brand new am so happy to come back home next week. I didn't meet him rich ooooo and I didn't marry him rich in fact we squatted when we first got married. Have a focus. Polish your man instead of looking for ready made.

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  11. That write up is so funny,
    Stella I cannot agree any less with you.

    Ladies of today are looking for something that doesn't even exist.

    Or should I say they are looking for money overlooking the qualities.

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    1. So you can follow a broke ass man abi

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  12. Stella,not every woman!...
    I know what I want in a man...I saw it on my husband and married him sharply without wasting time....
    As a human being,he is not perfect but his good side is 100% bigger than his bad side!...

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    1. Loud it queen. No man is perfect. If his good side is bigger than the bad side then he is good to go.

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    2. A thousand likes for this queen! Same here my husband isnt perfect but he's got the most important qualities i want.

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    3. Shut up idiot. Did u have a choice? U were married off very young to save your family from poverty so what the fuck are you yarning? Marriage of convenience with halitosis join. Na your 3 boys and pussy licking dey give you joy... Nkita

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    4. Saw it in or on. Thank me now

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  13. most ladies don't even know what they want...

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    1. I tell ya!!!
      Most single ladies are confused 😖

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  14. Lemme read comments.

    The bible said HE that FINDETH a Wife..... Now you people want to turn the bible upside

    Ladies Let the right man find you,you will fit in perfectly that way.

    My 2 cent.

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    1. As in eh... And most of them claim they are Christians. Go to their churches every Sunday and Wednesday and you will see preachers calling for women finding husbands.

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  15. " the kind of men they are looking for does not exist in human body" Well said. No need to comment again.

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  16. Infact,my number one quality in a man is wealth!...
    Choi!...
    Poor men irritates the shit out of me!...

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    1. Onye eziokwu ka i bu😘😘

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    2. Nyemm aka wannem!*high5!

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    3. Queen since your husband is so rich why don't you do giveaways on this blog once on a while.

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  17. It's simple there is no perfect man.

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  18. Yes o stella I agree with you. The kind of men women are looking for does not exist. They want a man is who's tall, handsome, rich, intelligent, romantic, God fearing, treats a lady right, etc. They want all these qualities in one man lol. Ladies pls if you find a man who's genuinely God fearing and hardworking with potentials/dreams, pls follow him.

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    1. You have said it all
      The number one tin single ladies should look out for is a man that genuinely have the fear of God.
      How can a man love u when he doesn't LOVE GOD?

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    2. Shut up bitch. Do u love God?

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  19. No one z perfect. Once you find a man whom you find happiness with, just love him n deal with his imperfections gradually until he gets to change to the man you want him to be.
    ..
    The way your phone z right now ain't the way it was when you first got it. It took you time to finally customize/set it to the way you think z nice for u...

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    1. Men hardly change. You just have to manage him....

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    2. Some people have done that and ended up with the ones that don't change. Me I'm up for accepting him as he is and like queen said sticking to the one that has be qualities you desire

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  20. The kind of men they fantasize about are Married.

    Oluwa provide a boo

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    1. With these your horrible altitude? Kwakwakwaaaa... Can i be honest with you?
      Nne, your type irritate the heck outa men! LMFAO

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    2. Ideato has entered fan Emmanuel trap. Wahala wa

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    3. Fan Emmanuel what altitude? You wan abuse person you no even use correct English.
      Your type 'irritates' Jeez!!

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    4. This bitch call chikito whores thinks she knows every shits. What's wan and your? What is your profession?
      Broke ass master degree my ass, go suck some dick bitch!

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  21. I found one oooo BUT genotype wont let us be!!!

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    1. Then he is not the one.
      The bible says: the gift God gives,he add no sorrows to it.

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    2. Same here , found one buh this AS ish is so depressing abeg! Thinking of going for CVS.... Just confused, pls judginas and judgines stay away from my comment.

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    3. @brownsucre, or he is the perfect one and God has given us science to combat such illnesses?
      There are a million ways to skin a cat you know

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  22. Here we go again. *yawns*


    MISS Jacobs.

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  23. Hmm, lemme read comments. *sits on the couch and sips coke*

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  24. You can't have everything in one package. You either work on the one you have, understand the situation and cope or you leave.

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  25. Enter your comment...waiting to read commentz

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  26. I'm tired of dating... After having sex my new boyfriend stopped picking my calls... Dont know how to be a mermaid on a first date, as soon as I see preeq my number 6 will just disappear...

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    1. Lmaooooo!sorry,i had to laugh,the last sentence is hilarious

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    2. He was never your boo....u were a side chick...he came for ur cookie bar

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    3. He was never your boo....u were a side chick...he came for ur cookie bar

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    4. Clap for urself!
      #pam 👄 #

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    5. Looooolz madam try and close your legs! Prick no dey run so chill

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    6. Eya he has won election naa so he won't keep to his promise.

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    7. Eeya get a tailor to sew the hole because only few men will be serious with a lady they had sex with on the first date. Better still avoid been alone with a man. All the best

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    8. Your pussy stinks,its not fun to fuck it, wash it well next time and don't be a bore in bed.

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    9. Eeyah...Pelee. You just have to control it. Ask God to help you.

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    10. Hahahahahahahaha
      Try na
      You can do it.

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    11. Because u re so cheap. Respect ur body and respect ur self. You don't need to be a mermaid. But u need to always use ur six senses. Once they see that u re desperate, NNE they will chop the cookie and disappear. Voom!!!

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    12. Hahahahahahahahahaha...
      But I had sex the first day I met my husband...pretending to be a mermaid does not work for everybody...
      Anony don't mind the fool!...a better guy is coming...

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    13. Baby girl it not about not knowing how to close ur legs on a first date, is the the pussy clean? Is it tight? Does it smell right? And most importantly do u know how to fuck nd suck a dick well? There is a way u will fuck a guy, even if na first date, nd h will want to die untop your matter. Go and learn all dese tins, then come back nd testify. #iaintnosaint

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    14. If u like do it like a professional akwunakwuo, he no want u be say he no want you.

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  27. Hahahahahahaaa
    Women don suffer.

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  28. No human is perfect.Enjoy his good qualities and overlook or tolerate the rest. Hubby is born again,hard working and loving. He's not too romantic but he is a great guy and a wonderful father.Been happily married for 8 years.No issues. I'm grateful and thankful. The fear of the lord keeps your marriage from stories that touch.Listen to the leading of the holyspirit.find God for yourself in the place of prayer on your knees and extensive study of God's word.

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  29. truth is you cant find a man who has it all. my ex was drop dead gorgoues who was super intelligent, sweet, sexxy,and super proud. he knows he is fine and the thing dey shackam well well.when you find a man who you are comfortable being with just take the leap of faith.

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    1. I like that. @ comfortable being with. It's all about who you are comfortable with.

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  30. No man can be perfect or have everything. There are qualities that are most important to each lady. When u see it in the man,you go for it. You cant expect the man to be everything. Thats why a woman has to be complete herself because finding a man to complete you is a big mistake.
    Me for instance...i am hardly attracted to guys that are handsome. Once u are too fine and attractive,its a red flag fore especially if hes now the vain type thats too particular about how he looks.
    A husband for me has to be responsible and has deep respect for women. Each woman has what endears them to a man

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  31. Most women are looking for the antichrist(666)
    A 6footer
    6 packs
    6 figured salary.
    I mean, if u see dat kind man, who no want?

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    1. Kwakwakwakwa...
      Abi?...but who 6packs and 6 footer epp?...

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    2. Na u funny pass...see as I'm laughing inside bus

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    3. Best comment ever

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  32. Some women have too much problem. Some don't even love themselves enough but they will be the ones drawing endless lists about the quality of men they want to end up with.

    Very soon some women will start marrying their animal pets and also form a movement for it to be legalised. Enough of all the "I need a perfect man", are you perfect yourself?
    What do you have to offer?

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    1. You're right. You don't bring anything to the table and you're looking for Mr. Right. Are you Mrs. Right?
      When you're independent you won't beg men to stay. When you know your onions they will fall in line to get your attention. But no, some of us spend most of our time chasing them and spreading legs for them. So how do u want to be valued? Even when you're broke to your last dime, carry yourself like you have he world and you know where you're going. Let no one tell you bullshit and you take it because you don't have and he has. To me, confidence and ambition are the sexiest thing a woman can have. When you don't have it, sorry.

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  33. Women don really suffer. Now every tom,dick and Harry writes a book or memo about what and how a woman should be. If y'all direct just a quarter of your memos to grooming the men folk,our generation will be happier for it. By the way,i think men are even more insatiable than women when it comes to relationships,a woman in love is more likely to make excuses for her man.

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  34. That's why am crazy bout Lee boo, his good side outweighs his bad side. No man can have it all. So better manage the one you have. But then some men better pass others.




    *spread legs to 180degrees*

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  35. There is no perfect being, man or woman!

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  36. I'm tired of everything. my bf broke up with me days ago and I can't seem to get a hold of anything again..av been begging him back cus I hurt his feelings . He changed a whole lot about me for good , I can't imagine life without him .I still love him and I think I'll always do..it pays to be loyal...

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    1. Contradictory to the post... You found a good one but you stupidly allowed him go, now u r crying like ......make I no talk.


      Yet the post we are discussing says no good men again

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    2. Shame on you for begging a man to take you back...
      Where is your pride as a woman?,..
      You must be very ugly to be crying over a man...

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    3. Cry and get over it. Soldier come, soldier go,barrack remain

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    4. He only made you better for your final bustop

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    5. Begging a man? Sorry. He's not into you anymore. He's found someone else

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  37. Even if Jesus Christ should come and tell a lady that he is Jesus Christ, the lady will still find fault in Him, Just the same way an Igbo Trader will still cheat HIM if HE tells him that He is Jesus Christ during a business....


    SHe will say Jesus Christ is not romantic always spiritual.

    Thats women for you.


    Mind you, I am IGBO...

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    1. Shut up!...
      So it's only Igbo traders that cheat people?...
      Ewu nmee!...

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  38. No one is perfect, but there are things to consider.

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  39. Pls s not a joke. I ve made up my mind. I wld ve sent an email but I don't want my name out. Virginity up for give up. I will be 37 years old in 2 months nd I ve decided 2 ve sex . Let me be explicit here. Never seen a penis b4. Kissed only one guy twice out of curiosity in my teens. My parents were pastor nd preached no to pre martial sex every day. Just lost a friend who died nd realised life is damn short. I need 2 experience everything in life. Will repent after it. This is serious no married man pls. Only one sin abeg. I need dis 2 happen b4 my bday. Pls drop comment below if interested

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    1. Wat do u mean by only one sin? Wetha u fuck married man or single man na d same fornication o aunty. Better look for rich married man to disvirgin u, nd be set up for life! Properties in ur name, open biz for u nd trips abroad! Better don't dull it! If u want to fuck better do it well.

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    2. Lolll
      No comment yet 😃😃.
      Nne.
      Keep it
      Ask God for a man and thank Him for it
      Write down your wedding date and begin to thank God for it
      It would happen very soon
      Don't give yourself out...its not worth it

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    3. Nice reply booboo kitty...
      Anon follow her advise!...
      You will soon get old without tasting life...

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    4. Who wants your old pussy? You sound like sey na privilege 2 f**k you. Like sey make me buy raffle ticket 2 win lottery. Who needs your virginity. Pastor daughter wey go be like log. Find good use for your time. Hope u no go carry disease at the 1st dip. Yeye

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    5. U better receive sense & close those legs of urs.
      Is having sex d solution 2 ur problem? Smh
      Don't loose faith, continue 2 hold on 2 God. Ur miracle is just around d corner.
      Dat ur friend died untimely doesn't mean d same fate awaits u.
      Pls think positively. God be with u

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  40. There is no perfect man. Just check his flaws. If his good side is more than his bad side, then u r game.

    Pray about it and allow God pick a spouse for u

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  41. You can't have it all, just get the best quality and manage the rest. But if can cope there no point.

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  42. Pray to God to give you your own husband bc if you marry ur own beyond every imperfections their will be perfection, he will love, toelorate and understand you.

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  43. Pray to God to give you your own husband bc if you marry ur own beyond every imperfections their will be perfection, he will love, toelorate and understand you.

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  44. there is no perfect man, there is also no perfect woman, all both parties need to do is to come together with love, understanding and prayers work towards perfection.

    If God is the head of your relationship, marriage you will never have issue with your spouse.

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  45. There is nothing like perfect man or woman, you can't get a man with everything, relationship can be build up expecially if you are not the lucky one that suitors came to knock their door, pls women work on yourself first before looking for Mr perfect 👌.

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  46. No one is perfect .but they are some important things to look @..
    God fearing.
    Potentials/dreams..

    And the give of God adds no sorrow.

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    1. Potentials he is using and dreams he is working on.
      Not potentials and dreams that he uses to sit on his bed everyday

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  47. No one is perfect .but they are some important things to look @..
    God fearing.
    Potentials/dreams..

    And the give of God adds no sorrow.

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  48. When a guy has a lil bit of all these good qualities..wt else ar u lookin for abeg nobody is perfect.

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  49. Have come to find out that majority of we ladies just want a man we have painted d pix in our head..doesn't work that way.. if u act responsibly I believe God will compensate you with a good man..I always wished for the TDH kinda guy then this not too good looking guy came along.. He's very tall and dark..just d H part missing. yet I kept praying for my own despite dis guy being all over me..it took prayers and some sense mom talked into me to redirect my steps and realized he's d one for me..now I thank God every minute that I didn't miss this diamond while I was searching tirelessly for a stone..I bless God for d patience of this guy..he's the best I have dated so far..in fee months time God willing we will be walking down d aisle..I'd advice us to think twice and quit chasing shadows..let's be realistic cos time waits for no one..

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  50. I'm sorry but this is no topic of discussion because it is the duty of the man to do the searching/finding. Why should a woman do the searching? What then will the man do? The woman's duty is to make herself available with all the good qualities. After all it is said; he that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the lord. (Who does the finding? 'MAN').

    Case ended.

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    1. The 37yr old virgin,better be very careful because the devil is luring you to destruction when you are about to get your trophy.

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  51. If I wasn't married,i will go for d humble one because my hsbnd is rich bt has no time for me or d kids.money isn't everything

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  52. If I wasn't married,i will go for d humble one because my hsbnd is rich bt has no time for me or d kids.money isn't everything

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    1. Anon then sow seed in my life

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    2. Who his time epp?...
      I'm sure you have never tasted poverty before!...

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  53. Qualities that a woman looks for in a man (1)Brave
    (2)Intelligent
    (3)Gentle
    (4)Polite
    (5)Emotional
    (6)Nice
    (7)Innovative
    (8)Successful.......

    Put all the first letters together and send me what you got.�

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  54. I read about that woman whose husband is maltreating because she has just girls and I shake my head..i have not given my husband even one,not even a miscarriage and this man shows me so much care and love,test shows he is very okay but I have issues.if u want to see him mad mention the issue of having a child to him,whenever I see my period and get worried he gets mad at me asking me if I am God?he says the only time he will get mad at me is if I start going up and down looking for a child cos I might end up where I will be given an evil child or initiated into what will destroy our home,he says he will rather if we don't get a baby soon.if u meet him for the first time he can never tell u he doesn't have a child,only people who know us from day 1 know we don't have kids yet...and to think we didn't really date?it's just God!..God please help me and bless me with a child so that our home can be complete..

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    1. Amen. Your home will hear the cry of children in Jesus Name. Amen!!!

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    2. Stella, my husband thinks he is god. But he is not. There is only one God, and he is not him.

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    3. God has already answered your prayers dear

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  55. Most guys say they are graduates but cannot speak basic English. Is it too difficult to ask "that he should at least be able to speak basic english?

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  56. I'm 35yrs, I get compliments like, I wish I wasn't married I would have love to be with you, 'you are such a nice lady, I pray you find a nice guy'.

    But they are not just coming along. I've tried to be responsible in my relations, serve God like all my life, educate myself but it's as if the naughty ladies sleeping around are all married except me.

    Why are things that way?

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  57. It may seem so now, but trust me, He will make everything beautiful His time.
    Keep holding on
    U will laugh best

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