''Hi Stella, thank you so much for the opportunity to tell my own side of the story, I'm so happy you didn't judge instantly because I'm aware of how this looks already.....
The friend in question is someone I have known for over 10 years, I patronize her business and she tells me stuff when she's worried, she's been in Lagos for years and has never gotten an apartment for herself, she calls me and tells me how much she's going through, sometime last year, I came to Lagos and she came to see me, seeing her off, I got to where she stays and it turned out she stays in one of those apartments where they pay money weekly, I was moved.
when she raised some money for rent , she called me and proposed that I give her some money to add up so that anytime I come to Lagos, I can work from her place (knowing that I don't like spending too much time in hotels) I gave her 100k and I was happy she could finally settle down..... 4 months later,I visited the house for the first time, spent about2 weeks and left.
I came back last month cos I have work in Lagos, after 2 days she had issues with some girls, about 3 of them, they almost beat her up, I came into the matter and told her she was wrong and after listening to both parties, I made peace between them.
Next day I came back from work and the estate security said my friend left an instruction that I should not get into the house unless I speak with her first, I called and called, she didn't take my calls , I had to leave and got the police involved the next day, she was asked to report to the station which she did, after a long day at the station, she was asked to apologize and asked to write an undertaking that she won't repeat what she did.
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I signed the undertaking and left. Got back to the house and found out she changed the locks, she had to give me one key, I came back the next day and saw some of my clothes destroyed, I thought it was a mistake, the next day it happened again, I tried to reach her, she blocked my number,I knew it was time to leave plus I had a job in Festac. I parked my stuff and left.
Yesterday her whole family called me saying I destroyed things,I was shocked!
What will I gain by such act?if she hadn't blocked my line, I would have been the first person to tell her about my clothes being destroyed, I would have even asked her if she is sure the wrong person didn't get hold of her key, I'm soooo weak right now because I can't be this evil!i can't!
The girl has issues with a lot of people, which I even settled some, I left that house a longtime ago before yesterday.....
Stella I'm speechless! I reported to the police myself, they said they told the girl not to worry me, that she has not settled previous cases ........ All I can say is God is not blind and he will judge this matter..... Thank you once again for lending me the chance to tell my part! God bless you!
P.s I'm a huge fan of your blog.....