Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Omugwo Chronicles -40

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Monday, 29 August 2016

Omugwo Chronicles -40

Nice story!






N.B. please ignore the typo errors, am #stealtyping in the office, so had to be fast.
Stella,I  hope my Omugo story will entertain some people here, hope to drop my wedding night brouhaha soon.


My first son came into our life during Christmas time (occupy Nigeria time). I had Episiotomy due to tears from the effect of a fat baby so  hubby will arrange for sitz bath, my mum could not leave her husband (Ruth) it’s not that the man is sick o, the maximum days my mom can spend outside her home is 2wks.  So we were at the hospital for 9 days because the baby had jaundice. 


My mom-in-law is late, so hubby and I had discussed how we were going to work things out without anyone’s help. He slept in the hospital all through and will go to work from there. Our routine, the nurse picks up the baby to bathe him around 5am, I feed the baby and the baby sleeps off. After that hubby would help do the hot water punishment (on my body) we will fight sometimes, I will call him wicked, that the water is too hot, since we had an agreement he will just ignore me and continue, we did this for like 4 days until my mum came to join us at the hospital, he was able to go home but he was still coming every morning for my hot water punishment.

 My hubby did most of the work his mom could have done, sometimes he will take the baby out of the room so that I can have enough sleep, and funniest thing is that the baby sleeps immediately he picks him up, but if na me, na to dey cry.


After 8days when we got home, my mom started bathing the baby and after circumcision she said she was going, I was heartbroken, I begged and cried, she offered me to follow her, I said I can’t leave my husband, she laughed and said “I can’t leave mine too” Omo see this old people after 38yrs of marriage.


Well the first day she left, WE bathed the baby ourselves (hubby and I), and there we laughed taya, see plenty water for ground, I was holding baby hubby was pouring water. Very funny, he will shout, please don’t drown this baby! It was fun sha, and we scaled through.

Although I had my fears, sometimes the baby just cries without reason and you try everything possible, sometimes I am afraid to use the diaper because of the circumcised penis. There were enough issues to be afraid but with a supportive husband and a dependent God, I survived it all
And by the time I had me second son, I don become pro! I can bathe 20 babies at once (side eye). 

As usual hubby did the hot water punishment and we bathed 2 babies lol, my first and second and we still go to work, we did division of labour, I cook, hubby does laundry, and we both do other chores. I really thank God for this kind hearted man. Omo if na only me dey do all the work I for don die!


If you are lucky to have your mom or mom-in-law, just see it as a privilege, they don’t owe you the Omugo, if they choose to do it, please appreciate them, and if not just summon courage and live your life.

And I hope I end up like my mom too, not being able to leave my husband for more than 3 days, I want us to grow old in love together. Till we are 120yrs. Lol




LOL@your mum saying she cannot leave her husband.Nice story,you have a supportive husband.


43 comments:

ukwu dimond said...

lucky you.

KEEPING UP WITH SDKB said...

See correct mama wey jasi, 38yrs no be moimoi o. Abeg celebrate their 40yrs of marriage, it really worth celebration. God bless you dear

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Nice!...

Chidimma said...

This is the quality of a man we all pray for...nice story. Ur mum tho. It's true she cannot leave her husband na.

Adadioramma said...

Congrats poster, your husband is God sent. Your parents are very fun, not even their children can't seperate them.

Anu Funke said...

Awwwwww!!!! 😍😍😍

j baby said...

The part that made me laugh more is the hot water punishment. The way she kept emphasizing on it, it's not punishment as such na. Hahahahaha.

You don't want your mum to groove her hubby too, my elder sis is always lucky my mum spends close to 6months for omugwo, the least she has spent is 4months. Super mama. Love you mum

Emy Wonder said...

Ur hubby is a good man, I swear... Some men don't care oo... God bless your home.

Cynthia Iyede said...

Your mum is just funny, that she too can't leave her husband....Shows they love each other even at their age. Nice one. God bless your home poster.

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

God bless your horseband jare. Wish most Nigerian men will be supportive of their wives. All most of them no how to do is to shout " am the head of the family" God bless your home.

Loveme Jeje said...

Beautiful

nzube izuu said...
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nzube izuu said...

Nice story. Marriage is sweet when you are with the right person. Congrats dear.

Miss Ess said...

You have the best husband husband I tell you. You are so lucky. God bless your hom

Anonymous said...

Awwwwww I like

delta babe said...

You're so lucky poster,may God bless and continue to keep your home

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

Short brief and beautiful

Anonymous said...

My mum own on can't leave her husband is d worst..My mum was shuttling 2towns for Omugwo..Her routine is sleep at my house,bath d baby and off she goes to work in another town,runs her business and attends to her husband b4 returning back to d town I am..Most times she gets here late at night..But she try,e no easy...Am still grateful for her help..

Anonymous said...

My mum own on can't leave her husband is d worst..My mum was shuttling 2towns for Omugwo..Her routine is sleep at my house,bath d baby and off she goes to work in another town,runs her business and attends to her husband b4 returning back to d town I am..Most times she gets here late at night..But she try,e no easy...Am still grateful for her help..

Anonymous said...

Your husband get brother? Abeg I wan marry. Your hubby is a gentleman to the core, hardworking and with a good heart. He obviously loves you and loves his kids.

Anonymous said...

My dad is lyk that sef, doesn't allow his wife out of his sight for more than 2wks, him go just dey quarrel dey frown face for us lyk say na we thief him wife.
My husband is too lazy, I just dey target am,make I get belle 1st, he will be forced to do chores.
I was sick that I couldn't sttand up nd I told him to make tea for me since I don't have appetite, he told me he can't, that I said saywhat I want to eat,so dt he will go to the fast food and buy, I told him I don't feel lyk eating anything, Mr man say him wan go buy tea for me. Lyk Wtf, there is electric kettle in d kitchen nd u can't boil very hot tea for me? I just shakemy head, nd went to make my tea with my last strength... I just dey wit till wen I go carry belle.

Chidinma Gift said...

Thank God for your husband... His kind dey rare to find

falcon said...

You have a lovely husband. Nice story

DOMINA said...

God bless his mum for bringing him up properly

Isolde Fontaine said...

Thank God for your husband! Beautiful story!

Anonymous said...

And u feel e will change becos of pregnancy..i don't think so..Some men just hate chores

James said...

Good to know

Jasmine said...

Awww, nice story. Ur husband is a nice man

Mrs. Romas said...

Your husband is a very good and understanding man. God bless your home.

Mama Afrika said...

Very interesting!

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Yes ooo

Starlight. said...

Lucky you. Nice one.

Blossom said...

Nice story.

Anonymous said...

Nothing like a supportive hubby esp at that stage. Left to my husband he for just throwey me n the baby so he can be free.

Chidinma Grace said...

Lovely chronicle.

Anonymous said...

I like I like I like.

Anonymous said...

But come to think of it. ...if it was your mother in-law that said she can't leave her husband that you should come over....you go vex or not?

ify onyekwelu said...

Awwww!!
Supportive hubby!!
Funny momsy!!
May God continue to bless your home, Amen.

Anonymous said...

Lovely one....just smiling all tru...pray to hav a hardworking nd caring man lyk dis...may God kip ur marriage

jumiakindipe said...

Most husbands should be like this. I hate liability hubbys

I'veBeenTouchedByAnAngelWithLove said...

I love your story.... My hubby couldn't carry our baby until weeks later, anytime he manages to carry the baby you will notice him shaking, always says the baby is too tender and he was afraid not to break her.
*God bless my Angel in human form*

Anonymous said...

My hubby is differentoo,i av workers at home,but recently one travelled for burial,my hubby does almost everything at his levels,i had fever over the weekened,and my hubby went to park my scatter scatter room,with mighty cloth on the bed,cleaned my toilet,with de help of my first son,both my clean cloths and dirty ones,i saw them in laundry room,lamooo some guys are humbles chaa,mine is,

Amacastel said...

God bless ur home dearie

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