Why must it always be like this?
Out of boredom. I added this nigga from single and mingle. What i liked about him was that we both come from the igbo speaking part of Delta and he also bears my first love's name. I have a soft spot for people with that name. Apparently, he is doing his masters at Noun or whatever it's called.
Tbh I am not desperately searching, while it will be nice to have someone to gist about your day, i also enjoy the peace of mind that comes with being single. I was relunctant at first because i didn't want to seem desperate. You know how idiotic guys can be when they feel a girl likes them.
Anyway, i just felt there is no harm in trying. That's how I added him. I wasn't impressed with his written English. I hate when people abbreviate unnecessarily and he kept on spelling "graduate" as "gruduate". That was how he typed it on the SNM page but I felt it was a typo at the time. Anyway we spoke for 5 mins and stopped.
3 days later i chatted him up again. (Maybe he felt that since i added him i had to be the one always chatting him up) I am not a proud person so it was no biggie. Besides, I was considering deleting him so I felt I shld give it one last go. He started asking questions like,"how many are you in your family" I told him "6". Next thing he was was "your mother tried oh". "Your dad is a bad guy, he didn't let her rest".Like are we in primary school?
We hadn't even spoken for 10 mins when he starting asking me to send pics. Mind you my pic was on my dp. Nothing turns me off more than "send me pictures of youself" like am I auditioning for a role in your life? I feel it makes the relationship vain. I like organic relationships that flow. God know i am not ugly, he could see that on my dp. I let him know that i never send my pictures and secondly, that while my picture was up his wasn't, so I didn't know what he looked like yet, I wasn't complaining. (I cannot date a short guy. I am not tall and I have a preference for light skinned guys) He now said "if you want my pictures ask me I will send to you". Lol like wtf?
Told him I didn't want his pictures, (i wanted to actually like the person not the looks) thats how the brother started raking oh! That I was a man and that I wanted to deceive him, that he wants matured minds not a child like me. Before I could reply, he deleted me. Lol. The funny thing is that, the reason I was gonna delete him that morning before deciding to chat him up, was because that morning, my crush of like 6 months accepted my friend request and inboxed me.The guy is also from my side, a lawyer, light skinned, done with his masters and guess what? He bears that same name. Lol. We had started chatting and we were getting along very well.
I wasn't even angry when he deleted me, i took it as God telling me that I can only have one "O" at a time in my life. .
Sorry for the long post. I just saw the IHN where the girl is complaining about picture sending and I remembered my own. You guys (both ladies and gentlemen) will lose your life partner because you are being vain and materialistic. Not everyone must marry a fine husband/wife why not go for someone good? Someone that will make a good husband/wife or father/mother? Some that you get along with? The looks will fade away but the heart won't. Find someone that has the same goals as you and is ready to grow with you. Someone that will make you better.
Anyway Mr O, your loss baby .
My fellow bvn pls pray for me oh! I really like this guy and so far so good. He has ticked ALL the boxes I need in a partner. As in ALL!!! But I know that my plans for my life maybe different from God's plans for me. So pray for me that I will follow God's plans and not let lust or whatever blind me, that if he isn't the one, he will remove himself from my life like that other SNM brother did. I wish you whatever you wish me.
My fellow bvn pls pray for me oh! I really like this guy and so far so good. He has ticked ALL the boxes I need in a partner. As in ALL!!! But I know that my plans for my life maybe different from God's plans for me. So pray for me that I will follow God's plans and not let lust or whatever blind me, that if he isn't the one, he will remove himself from my life like that other SNM brother did. I wish you whatever you wish me.
*My Dear,i dont see anything that he did wrong before he deleted you..your expectations were too high.Wish you luck with your crush...*tongue click*
She didn't send it to Stella. It was in the comment section and Stella lifted it off from there. I saw the comment on a post from yesterday
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She didn't send it to Stella. It was in the comment section and Stella lifted it off from there. I saw the comment on a post from yesterday
ReplyDeleteVery true. Some ladies are quite senseless and petty.
ReplyDeleteThere is this guy I added...mehn that guy got issues,very rigid somebody not even jokes can lossen him up.Anyway me got no time for pple like *tueh*na siddon dey look I dey
ReplyDeleteWow, u actually sound very mature,u sound like a nice guy with a good sense of humor,i love chatting with ppl who can take a joke,life ain't that serious. If I had added u I'm sure we'd get along.lol
ReplyDeleteSeconded by me... Stella Biko eh... Make it happen!
ReplyDeleteOlalekan afolabi!!! Kai u don enter one chance
ReplyDeleteanon 8:42 she sent me this..she said it was in the comment section but she was sending to me.
ReplyDeleteDesperate girls who can't find love in real life yet they want the real thing on the internet. Dreamers!
ReplyDeleteAnon I hope you have money. Food wet sweet, it's money that kill it. Abi bawo no shen so mini yen.
ReplyDeleteIt have do nah abi.
ReplyDeleteAnon 20:42 I never added that mofo he added me ooo but after 24-48hrs of chatting he confessed he is married immediately my eye clear, that nigga can brag for Africa. He will promise you love like mad and will always be avail for you, oloshi, 19, jack of all trade master of none. Mr my pedigree, mr I will be the next gov of ogun state bloody liar. Tayo may God help me to punish you!!!!!! Thank God I never fell victim.
ReplyDeleteSoo that's how I was going to have sex with a stranger for the first time, because man issues...lmao.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how I let myself get to this point but I'm grateful for great friends, Lord knows if My sweetie boo didn't decide to have her party yesterday an drag me out of my house literally, I won't have shared with her and I'd have done it. *cringes*
But anyway if you read this s&m guy that was looking for fwb... I'm so sorry for wasting your time, and I had to delete you for obvious reasons. I hope you find what you're looking for.
Cheers!
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ReplyDeleteThe kinda girls on this Blog ehn! Very dirty$cheap! I met some babes who participated in the last single$mingle and I fucked them all, all I say o. Because I drive a Range Rover which they even fueled by themselves. Thirsty lousy bitches. Not that I couldn't fuel my SUV but because they wanted my car parked in front of their houses just so they can do show off! Yet I fuck their dirty pussies free, give them serious attitude, yet these girls won't form or let me be. Instead they still come for me and one thing I know that it's my car that wouldnt let then dump me, till I dumped them. They are still calling me till this moment$i ain't picking their calls. Grow sense$leave me! I have gotten new sets from this Sunday own
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The kinda girls on this Blog ehn! Very dirty$cheap! I met some babes who participated in the last single$mingle and I fucked them all, all I say o. Because I drive a Range Rover which they even fueled by themselves. Thirsty lousy bitches. Not that I couldn't fuel my SUV but because they wanted my car parked in front of their houses just so they can do show off! Yet I fuck their dirty pussies free, give them serious attitude, yet these girls won't form or let me be. Instead they still come for me and one thing I know that it's my car that wouldnt let then dump me, till I dumped them. They are still calling me till this moment$i ain't picking their calls. Grow sense$leave me! I have gotten new sets from this Sunday own
ReplyDeleteThe kinda girls on this Blog ehn! Very dirty$cheap! I met some babes who participated in the last single$mingle and I fucked them all, all I say o. Because I drive a Range Rover which they even fueled by themselves. Thirsty lousy bitches. Not that I couldn't fuel my SUV but because they wanted my car parked in front of their houses just so they can do show off! Yet I fucked their dirty pussies free, gave them serious attitude, yet these girls won't form or let me be. Instead they still come for me and one thing I know is that it's my car that wouldnt let them dump me, till I dumped them. They are still calling me till this moment$i ain't picking their calls. Grow sense$leave me! I have gotten new sets from this Sunday own
ReplyDeleteI just died laughing at ur comment lol
ReplyDeleteIf I have my picture on my profile why should I send you my picture particularly when I haven't seen yours? Just like when some one approaches you for the 1st time, he first telsl you his name as an introduction before proceeding to ask you your name. Dude should have sent her a picture of himself before demanding her own picture. I don't send pictures to anyone. I rather upload it on my dp then you can download it screen grab, which ever way
ReplyDeleteI met a Pretty Corper serving in PH here. Jst 7days and it feels like have known her a long time. She is d most amazing person have met dis year and I just wanna say thanks.... U don't want me to put ur name here but U know I appreciate ur friendship right?
ReplyDelete@steffysofynsofly .... What's your question got to do with the issue on ground. You must have a POOR sense of processing information or you are just too poorly intelligent to understand the guy's post.
ReplyDeleteThis guy that added me on the last snm was begging me for pics after I sent him two pictures of myself. Mind u I have a picture of myself on my dp and I obliged by sending 2 pics which is fair bc ppl do like to scam alot on this snm. But can u imagine when I asked the guy for a pic of himself he sent me a pic of a cartoon taking a selfie. I was really annoyed.lol. I told him why can't u send me a pic of yourself other than what's on his dp.The crazy guy just said he will only send me pics if I send him more pics of myself. I just blocked him right there. Then the guy had nerve to call my number bc I blocked him off my whatsapp. Dude was begging me that he was joking he sent alot of pics of himself I should just unblock him on whatsapp. I said hang up I will. Then I blocked his number. This is meant for u to mingle stop being obsessed with pics. If u see how he was begging for more pics it was irrating. Like damn.I didn't know if he want use my pics to jack off. But anyway it always good to give things a try. I did meet another dude. So far so good. Very cool cat. We will see how it goes. But all I'm saying u don't have entertain idiots. Just hit the block button and keep it moving.
ReplyDeleteLmao @Don mayor. see them. HIV is real. Tmr if they abuse one person, you'll add yours too. Rme
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ReplyDeleteLMAO. This Steffysofyn no just gbadun. Which one is "are you poor? LMAO.
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@ anon 18:20.
ReplyDeleteReally? You threw up just looking at my picture? Wow. Anyways, just to clear the air. Anon 14:09 wasn't referring to me. And she should identify who gave her crabs.
Stella well done be removing comments you hear, let single ladies fall victim to the plenty married men wey dey dat s n m. Plenty married men are on that s n m fucking girls steady. Anyway I don talk my own sha.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 16:15. 3 of your colleagues slept with the same guy they just met within a period of one week? All the 3? Are you guys working in a brothel?
ReplyDeleteFYI. I am Lekan, working and living in Abuja. I have not met any sdk lady physically yet. And I don't have crabs.
SteffysoUgly---You are a yahoo..
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of uncouth moron are you?
Bet you reek of poverty...
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Stella I met a cool guy in the last s&m but he is Yoruba am igbo n stays in Lagos I don't like distance relationship I no fit shout will keep on trying thanks stella
ReplyDeleteI think say na only me o.. got confused after the first line I come begin wonder whether na really English I dey read or french..
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