Lol.I totally agree with the 1st pic.Alot of people preach what against what they are
Of course I would cook for my husband.But certainly not a do or die affair.But this type of guy up there is the reason I put extra money in my offering, May I never meet your type!Amen.
Can't even argue with children.
Kikiki too many people ranting out dia future... Govt shud pls create more job opportunities so dat ppl wud spend less time on social media ranting over nitty gritties.
He made sense but his use of words was just bad, as in wrong
Nice one from this nigga...
Well.. he's right to an extent. If my man says he wont provide for the familys basic necessity and kids school fees bcos I work, I will put him on full blast as well.That being said, both parties can help each other out in every aspect. This shouldn't even be an issue in 2016 Or perhaps a girl he hates said this and he's pissed off.
Lol! Odiegwu o
Dis boy dey craze for head. This one na by force ! "You must cook". Hian.
Yea too much of all this rubbish from women.You're a wife biko enter d kitchen.I grew up watching my dad cook just that he will mess up the kitchen but he cooked and mom didn't take it for granted.Cooking does not make you less emancipated its empowering
Put on blast where? He's actually the one doing the blasting.A wife must be a cookI will be my husband's wife and cookY'all are on your own with that wife not cook bullshit.
Stella, who blasted who? He retweeted a tweet from @azed10 and the rest were his tweets. I don't understand your headline my eyes are playing pranks on me
Ana ako....a woman must Shaa cook nonetheless
All these cook sef! What's d big deal in cooking for ur man n children? Cook enough n freeze, whenever anyone is hungry, defrost naturally,heat up n eat.
Is everyone not entitle to their own opinions again?
SMH, I guess this serves as a memo to his future wife.whatever works for you Mr., I aint mad at you.SHARONNA
Hmmmm.Just that in the days of his father, women use to stay at home to Cook and take care of the house, while the men go hustle for the money. But now both genders do the hustling. a woman who truely loves a man will cook for him to eat, even if it ain't everyday.
I'm a lady and he said the Truth. Cooking is a Wife's thing,if the man choose to help...that's romantic. just like some women complain about them having cater for the family because it is a man's ting to provide for the family.
The guy is on pointStupid Noble igwe comman see a Man here
Who annoy this guy?
Mtchewww!!! These are the ones that their wives r beating at home. Twitter hero, home mumu
See the ugly mucheche self. Broke ass nigga. Ask dangote if he doesn't eat out
Hahahahha...who offended this guy nau???
Where do I send ur kisses pls?I love cooking not bcos I'm the only girl but bcos I enjoy itMy husband and I will eat out once in a while but definitely not frequently
Noble igwe ehnMake I just keep quiet
Some of those SM women that keep saying "I can't cook for any man" they're out there begging men to cook for them ... Boo can I make stew for you.. Is cooking now a difficult thing?
He is very correct !If ur husband eats out,what about when you have kids? Will they eat out tooI find it very hard to eat outMy mom prefers us taking garri at home than buying rice from a canteen
The young man is stating his opinion. Look at his last tweet. If you can't cook, he'll eat out or cook for himself. It's just that he's sounding so angry. Seems his gf told him that she's a wife, not cook material. But forget this 21st century and feminism bs. A woman's kitchen is her workshop. I don't understand why people are even making a debate about this. If you say that you want to be sharing days for cooking with your husband, then, don't be mad if he asks that you take half the responsibility of paying the house rent and school fees. Don't open your mouth to talk about a man not living up to his responsibilities, being worse than an infidel. There are some things that are never meant to be changed, gender equality or not. The thing is that some people don't even understand gender equality. It's all about how the society should treat men as no different from women, as regards jobs, political posts, education,pay checks et al, not trying to thwart the universal scheme of things. Don't go and start fighting your husband, because he doesn't enter the kitchen. It's all about luck. If he does, fine, if he doesn't, fine.Noble made a statement. How we understand it is our business. #WhiteDiamondOut
Go siddon ! Which one be "do or die affair" for cooking ?
Yes. Na by force !
Read again,is there anywhere he said he won't eat out,hypocrite
I'm telling youLeave me alone let me do the two😂
Y he dey vex na?
Yeye....Stupid guy had to refer her to her dadNa Una sabi@Galore
Any woman who say I can't cook,dose not know how to cook in fact they are single and bitter. Even if you are the goddess of love cooking for the family is a woman responsibility. I pity some dunce that listen to Internet girls,
Na dem sabi
I don't think this issue should be contentious. Cooking is the responsibility of the woman but of course Mr. can help out occasionally. You can tell your wife to rest once in a while and cook or you guys eat out, you can cook when she is ill, pregnant etc. If she is at work all day and you are at home, nothing wrong in fixing something in the kitchen. If you love your wife, helping her shouldn't be a problem, it only becomes a problem when she now sees it as the husband's duty and folds her arms.
If men must provide, women must cook. If women must help with finances then men must also assist in domestic chores. Shikena!
In as much as i enjoy WNB, this post really put some smile on my face.Abi somebody make the guy vex or what? This ''YOU MUST COOK'' with so much authority just killed it..Women own don too much.. UNA MUST COOK OOH
I just dont understand why some women think emancipation is all about trying to show supremacy. Pls dont cook for your husband. You would go back to your fathers house. And the sad part is that the ones championing this would be pounding at home for their husband, whilst the dumb ones would take this home to practice. Na so devil take dey enter house
U r one of the few single babe that jst said d truth. I am my husband's cook and I am proud of that. I can't even imagine buying food outside for my kids. When all those foods r packed we preservatives and unhealthy stuff. I cook and pack in my fridge and am cool like that
Why is this even up for discussion??!!!!! Marriage is about duties and responsibilities! It's a woman's duty and responsibility to cook or make sure there's food in her home! Please stop this nonsense debate! It's not even up for discussion! And we call me that can't provide losers? Smh
Yes ladies we cook. Even the whites we copy cook for their men. Can't imagine my husband eating out often when I can cook. Cooking ain't my thing but it's the load I'm to carry and I will carry with joy oh.
I love to cook and my husband loves to eat. Theres this joy i feel when i cook and he eats it all and is satisfied. My husband is a great cook. Infact he cooks better than me. A lot of talk just goes in when u are actually not in d situation yet. Communication is very important. Know d type of husband u are marrying. If you say u wont cook,its not by force,dont complain if he keeps eating out. If someone else is cooking for him,she could as well balance it up and sleep with him. Why satisfy only one hunger?
Truth be told, the major cause of his outburst has nothing to do with women cooking or not.The young man is poor. Owu ite saga the man. Poverty na bastard. Can you imagine F0, Dangote or Emoney (a young man like him) dedicating hours to sweat from the fingernails all in the name of ranting. LMAO. God chase the spirit of poverty away from your children in Jesus name. AMEN. People like him will seat behind that old laptop and be urinating sperm when he sees Kim kadarshian and Beyonce. Go and learn how to make money from Kanye and Jay Z first.Ogbenye onu ntu.
To cook is not even the problem. When I garnish that food with antifreeze /sniper dats when you will go and rant for your ancestors. People will just be ranting how they will benefit, have you thought that whoever is responsible for your food is responsible for your life? Make it a do or die affair and watch me silence you for life.
Is he married?I dont have strength jare
Lols, my hubby was like you until I got my Ph.D in TOXICOLOGY(poisoning), Mr would rather cook and with all pleasure.My certificate is hanging in the sitting room, with a DISTINCTION.
My ish is with him saying he wont eat house helps food and if u come in @ midnight ul still cook! That is just wickedness
I don laugh kill me myself lol.I love the first pics it says a lot. Mother Nature
The guy sounds so bitter, like he will beat his wife to death if she doesn't cook. Heavens save Nigerian women from such egoistic men and their entitlement. Because your father never cooked, you believe you can never cook bla bla . Can't even have some logical statement with these young people without them saying my father my mother.. Well that was why your father sent you to school , to develop and present new ideologies as the world changes..not sticking like a mule to what your father did. The kids you talk about... Aren't they yours too. What have you invented? What have you created? You want a coook, ewu Gambia. Your mates invented Twitter.. you're there tweeting your misery with your jobless ass. Tueh! Nigerian women are an unlucky lot. They have absolutely no respect or compassion from their men. They stay with such hopeless men who beat them to stupor and kill them cos it's a sin to not be married. They treat you this way cos you're not doing much with your life. Only having sex and borning children. The few that have jobs are all make up artists. So yes, y'all have all the time in the world to cook. So, cook.
*Women as no different from men, sorry.#WhiteDiamondOut
Me? Hypocrite? Lmao. Queen of hypocrite tayan
No mind the efulefu
It is as simple as this! I very much doubt that there is any house wife that will tell her hubby to cook. By if you say I should pay bills and also kill myself with house work? Ko jo oo
I follow you my bro,I don't roll with ladies that can't cook,GOD forbid,make dem go find their type of men like that mumu blogger when dey advertise "wife not cook".na over smartness dey worry many women and men for nigeria these days,me I nor kuku sabi boil common indomie so I will never ever be with a woman that cannot cook,never.my guys dey tell me say woman go use food take do me pepper,I tell dem say no wahala.and also note that I don't eat outside at all.I naturally dislike anyfood outaide of my house.
This,shouldn't even come up as argument in the first place... Some do not have what to cook not to talk of who to cook what......our society is going bonkers.
Me too!!! I must cook for my husband! It feels good to see him eat and literally lick the plate.
Stella Na before I Dey talk say I no go fit Dey cook oh..but believe me I will be a cook to my husband..I will love to
Madam ITK, nobody is saying they won't cook. So if a woman goes to work and comes back by 11pm, she should go and cook abi? So where's the love? Abeg swerve
Ibukunn you must be a very ugly woman.
When you see people that list what a woman must do, they never sit down to think of what a man MUST do.Can you afford a range rover sport for your wife? Diamond and gold jewelery? Quality clothes and fat bank account? When you ask him this one now, he will start stammering and calling God and turn humble preaches of how virtuous a woman will be and how a woman should manage yet as a man he has to be static. Idiot.
Tefe you better marry your mother because you will not get exactly what you want in this day and age especially if your wife works and brings home the bacon.
If a woman's job carries her out of the state you live in or out of the country, don't cook or eat in a restaurant oh. Starve yourself until she comes back to cook for you. Anon 18:03 true talk. Some men cannot provide adequately for their wives or give a woman what she wants but they will sit down like idiots and be making stupid demands. Women want the good things in life but they cannot provide it.
My sister ooo! Meanwhile Noble who started this matter is busy enjoying his wife's ofe nsala and pounded yam... While some babes will be deceiving themselves...
Anonymous 18:03, thumbs up for that comment.I'm sure the guy doesn't have a job sef, he wants cookOf course he cant afford a car or house for his wife, he wants cookNo, he can't afford gold or diamonds or a crown for her, he wants cookThe olden days men they keep referring to were a far better lot.They toiled all day at the farms, planting and harvesting yams cos it was a shame to them for their women to starveThey were warriors, then the men go to war to protect their women and children So they went to war determined to die for their women. Cos if they lost, their women will be kidnapped and turned into slaves by the winnersSo when they come back from toiling at the farm or fighting at war,, they deserved all kinds of foodNot these men of today that rape and beat the women God gave them strenght to protect Nowadays, women are the ones doing the toiling of the farmWomen are out at work till 10pmfemale surgeons, female CEOs, female breadwinnersYet this efulefu wants a cook. What have you achieved? Nothing
Na ur type de spend their whole lifetime staring at their phones,u want all the good things that money can buy and a man can provide...but when it's time to do a simple woman chore ,u go turn feminist..na dat time u go remember gender equality Mumu !! Just pray make u jam my type of person..U don ask Dangote wife weda she no de cook? U de call person broke ass nigga bcos u get cheap data for dat ur china phone...na u be him account manager?? Na craze man de quick call person madman ...If u are so classy and rich ,how come nobody know u...Ewu!!
Taaa! Jassy no tok am again! Dat boy no bad at all! Chronic gwegs like u, d boy go marry before u!
If I have to bust my behind toe to toe with a man to bring in money, hell no am I doing all the housework. So because I was born with a vagina I must cook and clean? Condolences in advance to his future wife. African women work like field hands just because patriarchy has fooled them. Many don't even know why they are doing some of these things, except some idiot said they should and it gets passed down for generations. What is there for the African woman to enjoy in marriage? Marriage sounds like a workhouse with no pay. May the Goddess protect her daughters.
Awwwwww, pele oh, eeyahh Mr.AnonymousHow painful it must be for guys like you to find out that there are guys who actually treat their wives to breakfast in bed, hahahahaha like mine!!!There are guys who give it all to make their women happy and well restedGuys who make dinner for a change cos Mrs is a CEO in her office, pulling in 200k$ a yearSo romantic that your African ass can never understandYour broke ass can never comprehendYour insecure ass can't even begin to imagineIf you like tear your pant, hang it and smoke it Be pained, be very pained ohhTurn your wife into a help if you want, break her handsWe shall hashtag for her and offer her our pityWhile we go back to our fabulous lives, loldon't go and hustle to be a better man and offer more to your wifebe there commenting in poorly constructed EnglishNincompoop
Ok this got me laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂
So what happens if your wife is ill? You will drag her to the kitchen to cook for you?
Sadly that is how it sounds in this patriarchal society and our fellow women follow to propagate patriarchy. If a woman decides that she isnt very interested in cooking and her husband (who is in the marriage contract with her also agrees), whose business is it to judge? If your wife is a slave to you, some men value theirs. If a man decides not to be the bread winner and the woman is comfortable providing a visa for him and bringing money till he is able to work and do fine for himself. Who is to talk? Jeez! I knew a guy who did just that and now he's living very fine. Those insulting him then that his wife provided for most of the wedding, paid his flight to the US and helped him with Green Card are still wallowing in poverty, drinking at bars. He does a good part time job, contributes his own and assists his wife in housework and baby care. The POINT IS, HE IS COMFORTABLE with the woman taking the front row. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being practical. Some men are domestic by nature. Some women are money makers. Be true to yourself, forget gender roles and what people are chatting! These people who talk on the internet are different at home. This guy up there could even by an emasculated soul.As Anon 20:54 put it. Now it seems marriage is a burden. -Woman works lest she's called a housewife.-Woman is forced to have sex-Woman cooks and cooks-Woman cleans and washes-Woman carries the pregnancy-Woman takes care of the baby and kids-Woman gets beaten and must bear it.-Woman gets cheated on and told that its a man's world.-Woman stays home while husband parties and travels.-Woman is made to change the way she dresses because she is now married.-Woman has to cut off all her single friends.-Woman has to accommodate the in-laws and bear anything they do unless she is the bad one. -Woman bears the burden of childlessness or giving birth to only female kids-Woman bears the pain of widowhood and is not expected to re-marry so soon!PLS, Where is the joy in this patriarchal cycle?
Odiegwu o...Ohioze u have gotten to Stella blog too?? Pls don't bring ur Uniben mumuism here o. Let ur lawyer gf cook all the time for u. Kmt jare.
Dear future hubby,I will cater to you, I will untie your shoe lace , I will massage you, I will give you my bomb pussy.I will cook for you, You will tell me how your day went and I will listen attentively , you will tell me your challenge and we will look for solutions together .I will wear your favorite fragrance and lie on the couch,waiting for my king to come home .I will kiss you passionately , we gonna have a lot of pillow fights 😀I will show you love in it's purest and rarest form .I'm going to be a busy wife (I know that ) but I will always make out time for FAMILY😀
Which force again, this type of men ranting no go even fit afford Keke for woman but them go tell u say them no dey eat pepper from blender Na grinding stone. End time wizard of Ozz!
I hate cooking. INfact I am not domestic. All that changed when I got married. It's my duty to cook for my husband and kids. I'm well read with an excellent job. All I do on Saturdays is cook cook cook and cook some more, the day my husband likes he helps, but when the kids are hungry they don't go o him, they come to me. And biblically, it's the woman's duty to cook.
Lol,I see. Maybe the lawyer gf refused to cook and,he couldn't just face her to rant;he had to take to social media. "Infact weder you like it or not you must cook" See,all this woman dis woman that you people are doing,you guys are just using it to create more rooms for laziness for some very serious lazy women;just like our wife that will rather use feeding money to buy fuel in her car and recarge her phone then start calling people that shez coming to visit them,that they should cook and, She can eat for africa lol funny woman. Only wise and,educated women will apply it when neccesary. Like he said,most girls saying it are single. Men are not smiling. Man wey never satisfy or show you love finish,naim you go tell to go cook, that means you don finally give am ticket to bring in his gf as 2nd wife and,send you to your fathers house to go tell him to be cooking for you while you watch telemundo or zee world ahhhhhhh I love that guy.the trust is bitter but,has to be said. He nor say him nor go cook but when him like..ahhhhhh the matter vex am badly. Before my guy come start to rant like this ahhhhhh rtfl lmao ahhhh
This guy up der is the best guy you can ever think of marrying. Provided you dont start quoting laws for him why he should do certain things or,making it a cumpulsory thing. He will care for you like no other.. I sense he is straight forward gentle man.
Very sensible comment...if you want me to pay half the bills then I expect you to help out at home too.
The guy self, me I love cooking shaii but that does not me hubby won't cook sometimes
Please what is this one saying? What is our business with what you want to do?
Truth be told this guy is very sick. What is our business with his father? Who made his father a standard? Your father should have starved while he was on leave, why did he cook? The heartless thing even said even if she gets back home at 11PM she will cook. It is that food that will poison you. Ode
All you single females, when you are married please don't cook ohh, we would read your chronicles here as well. That's why modernisation has made most of you single to stupor..
Biko is this supposed to be a poem or a song ? Mtcheeeew
Bona you are the TRUTH. Thank God for the man I married. Once you love & respect your wife you treat her like an equal with feelings.
Chop knuckle dear 👊
She's advertising for husband na. lol
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