Imagine your MIL knocking on your bedroom door at 2am just before the action starts...WHAT DOES SHE WANT?
I like the WNB posts, so I decided to send mine in. Please hide my info. Thanks!
I met my now hubby almost three years ago through family members. We had a beautiful courtship. We fell in love and decided that we would make a great team. He proposed after 1.5 years. His parents refused to acknowledge the relationship and didn't think I was wife material simply because I was born and raised in the diaspora, one year older than my guy (28 and 27) and my parents were separated.
Long story short, his family insulted me like you people wouldn't believe when they realized that we weren't backing down to them.
They stopped talking to him and informed us they wouldnt attend the wedding. Through it all, it made us draw even closer to each other and appreciate what we had. But it wasn't easy!
Wedding planning, though super stressful, with not knowing if anyone from his side would be there, came and went. The date was set and we got married earlier this year.
We had a beautiful nuptial mass ceremony followed by the biggest party I had ever thrown. His family was in attendance but you would have thought that they were attending the guy's funeral.
See sad, angry faces!
After so much bullshit from his people, we were even more determined to enjoy our wedding reception. We danced for all of Africa that day. I smiled, laughed and posed for every single picture. Danced until my Dad and uncles were out of money. Danced until I was sweating profusely. Looked over at hubby and he was beaming!
Our happiness made up for their anger and bitterness.
We took a carriage ride to our B&B to make things official. We were super excited as we hadn't been intimate throughout the relationship (long distance relationships suck) and I was eager to see hubby's skills in that area.
I showered first and had to beg hubby to shower afterwards because I needed more time to prepare. He goes in and I turn on some music, put on my black lingerie and as I started to rub cream I heard a knock on the door.
My MIL is on the other side and asks to see her son.
Standing there in my lingerie, facing the woman who had tried to make the last couple of years a living hell for me and her son I lost it.....
I asked her if there was an emergency. No.
If someone was sick? No.
What was so urgent that she needed to come to our room at 2am looking for him?
She wanted to tell him to use protection because it isn't a good idea to get pregnant so soon because I would just use the pregnancy to live off her son!
So even after we've been married before God, in her mind I'd be a baby mama?!
I told her quietly that MY HUSBAND was preparing to make uninhibited love to his new wife and whatever advice that she wanted to share was unsolicited and unwanted. I then told her that if she ever tried to come to this room or disrespect me again she'd be sorry. Said goodnight to her in the most polite way possible and then slammed the door in her face.
Had to give myself a pep talk so that the woman wouldn't kill my mood.
Hubby came out from the bathroom and immediately stood at attention when he saw what I was wearing. He kissed me gently and laid me on the bed, showering kisses from head to toe. Gave me the best foot massage of my life.
Then he gave me a full body massage while telling me that he wanted to take his time with me. After what felt like an eternity, he finally removed the lingerie and the lovemaking began! It was so slow and sweet and beautiful. I swear we gave it our all. It was unspoken but it felt like we were making love and celebrating that we had made it to that point.
After so much pain from his family, the distance, the stress and then a beautiful wedding, we were finally doing what God had intended all along and nothing/no one else mattered. There were no crazy acrobatic moves that night , just straight up missionary. What ain't broke doesn't need to be fixed. ;)
We left for a one week honeymoon the following day and it was great. We literally spent the first three days making love, eating in bed and sleeping. It was only on day four that we remembered all the activities and sightseeing we had planned to do. 😀
I didn't take in immediately but I'm happy to report that we'll be welcoming our first child early next year. I never mentioned our wedding night visitor to hubby. Hopefully I won't have an omugwo story to send in. 😝
*WOW,What a story!