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Monday, August 15, 2016

Wedding Night Brouhaha -55

 Imagine your MIL knocking on your bedroom door at 2am just before the action starts...WHAT DOES SHE WANT?




Hello Stella,

I like the WNB posts, so I decided to send mine in. Please hide my info. Thanks! 

I met my now hubby almost three years ago through family members. We had a beautiful courtship. We fell in love and decided that we would make a great team. He proposed after 1.5 years. His parents refused to acknowledge the relationship and didn't think I was wife material simply because I was born and raised in the diaspora, one year older than my guy (28 and 27) and my parents were separated.


 Long story short, his family insulted me like you people wouldn't believe when they realized that we weren't backing down to them. 

They stopped talking to him and informed us they wouldnt attend the wedding. Through it all, it made us draw even closer to each other and appreciate what we had.  But it wasn't easy!

Wedding planning, though super stressful, with not knowing if anyone from his side would be there, came and went. The date was set and we got married earlier this year.

 We had a beautiful nuptial mass ceremony followed by the biggest party I had ever thrown. His family was in attendance but you would have thought that they were attending the guy's funeral.

 See sad, angry faces! 

After so much bullshit from his people, we were even more determined to enjoy our wedding reception. We danced for all of Africa that day. I smiled, laughed and posed for every single picture. Danced until my Dad and uncles were out of money. Danced until I was sweating profusely. Looked over at hubby and he was beaming! 

Our happiness made up for their anger and bitterness. 

We took a carriage ride to our B&B to make things official. We were super excited as we hadn't been intimate throughout the relationship (long distance relationships suck) and I was eager to see hubby's skills in that area. 

I showered first and had to beg hubby to shower afterwards because I needed more time to prepare. He goes in and I turn on some music, put on my black lingerie and as I started to rub cream I heard a knock on the door. 

My MIL is on the other side and asks to see her son. 

Standing there in my lingerie, facing the woman who had tried to make the last couple of years a living hell for me and her son I lost it.....

I asked her if there was an emergency. No. 
If someone was sick? No. 

What was so urgent that she needed to come to our room at 2am looking for him? 

She wanted to tell him to use protection because it isn't a good idea to get pregnant so soon because I would just use the pregnancy to live off her son! 


So even after we've been married before God, in her mind I'd be a baby mama?! 

I told her quietly that MY HUSBAND was preparing to make uninhibited love to his new wife and whatever advice that she wanted to share was unsolicited and unwanted. I then told her that if she ever tried to come to this room or disrespect me again she'd be sorry. Said goodnight to her in the most polite way possible and then slammed the door in her face. 

Had to give myself a pep talk so that the woman wouldn't kill my mood. 

Hubby came out from the bathroom and immediately stood at attention when he saw what I was wearing. He kissed me gently and laid me on the bed, showering kisses from head to toe. Gave me the best foot massage of my life. 


Then he gave me a full body massage while telling me that he wanted to take his time with me. After what felt like an eternity, he finally removed the lingerie and the lovemaking began! It was so slow and sweet and beautiful. I swear we gave it our all. It was unspoken but it felt like we were making love and celebrating that we had made it to that point. 

After so much pain from his family, the distance, the stress and then a beautiful wedding, we were finally doing what God had intended all along and nothing/no one else mattered. There were no crazy acrobatic moves that night , just straight up missionary. What ain't broke doesn't need to be fixed. ;) 

We left for a one week honeymoon the following day and it was great. We literally spent the first three days making love, eating in bed and sleeping. It was only on day four that we remembered all the activities and sightseeing we had planned to do. πŸ˜€

I didn't take in immediately but I'm happy to report that we'll be welcoming our first child early next year.  I never mentioned our wedding night visitor to hubby. Hopefully I won't have an omugwo story to send in. 😝


*WOW,What a story!

139 comments:

  1. Eeyah! Bitter sweet story. God bless and keep your home

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    1. Wow! I love this one.
      Mother in laws and their wahala
      I'm glad I'm even the master of silent treatment, I'll savagely shut you out, one time!

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    2. Wishing u safe delivery in advance. God bless ur home. Love ur story but try & make peace with ur MIL pls.

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    3. So horny. Need a coded clean girl thats into girls. 5597E558 BBM

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  2. What a story. Even if there was emergency my man ain't going nowhere.

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    1. I love you poster. Chop kiss😘😘😘
      My kind of wife. The mother Na joker. If you had let her in on that night she would have controlled your home. Thank God you put an instant stop to it. She hasn't mentioned it, you haven't mentioned it. Everybody happy. Case closed. Haha!! *high 5 ✋🏾*

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  3. Wow your husband is a good man for choosing you over his family and I'm sure their hearts will soften towards you in time.
    God will keep you and your Unborn. May no harm befall you and yours.
    Have a blissful married life dear.

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    1. His husband is a good man for going against his parents, sha u go still read her chronicle

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    2. Henry it is your own chronicle. Tufiakwa gi. Oji ka nsi aboki.

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    3. His husband....

      @Henry you try...


      Lol

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    4. Man going against family in this part of the world, that man must have very thick skin And strong mind and the wife even thicker skin and stronger mind, cos the family will always try to frustrate the lady at any given time. You got yourself a good man. God bless your marriage. And a good thing you never mentioned the midnight visitor to hubby, you r wise

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    5. This Henry guy sometimes I wonder if u are from the abyss. It is ur chronicle that would be read here. Itibolibo.

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    6. My sis husband did same. No biggie. They've been married 10 years with the most amazing boys ever 😍

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  4. Hahahahaha

    Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...God bless your marriage abeg.

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    1. Pipi lee and laughterπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      I really love this WNB. You guys made it and I'm damn happy for you.
      For not creating a scene out of your MIL's night visit and for not telling ur husband abt it shoes you are a good womanπŸ‘πŸ‘. O pray that your new extended family learns to love and accept you.

      But some MIL shaa...she came to your room on ur wedding night to tell her soon to wear rubber?😱😱😱😱😱😱 I'm gobsmacked!

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  5. You even opened the door at all....as for me, whoever it is go knock tire.

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  6. Good for you...
    But your inlaws are right!...
    I can't imagine my children getting married to someone that is older than them!...
    Hian...
    Inukwa akuko?....
    See eh?you better don't add weight cos you will look like his mother after some time...

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    1. Nice advice!
      Poster needs to watch her weight and take extra care of her body, women age faster than men.
      God bless your marriage again.

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    2. That is if you're aware of it. Na your type no dey get month talk for real life.

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    3. Madam must you always be like this?? Because she's older doesn't mean she'll look old. Mschew

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    4. Nne, age is just a number. Our society really make us conform to some meaningless and rigid norms that does not add value to the society and personal growth to individuals. These are weak and conventional ways of thinking, the height of shallow mindedness and absurdity. What should matter between to people should be love, respect and compatibility as in the case of health issues, taking into consideration such things as blood group/genotype, diseases(HIV/AIDS), sickle cell anemia and a few other things. People this days through public enlightenment now marry HIV positive folks. Yes! You still live your normal life and if properly managed, you'll give birth to healthy kids free from the virus.
      These are things that we should worry ourselves about and not things like age, race/ethnicity, religion etc.
      This is just my opinion. You may choose to think differently.
      GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

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    5. You are mega weird.Even though your husband is older than you agewise ,I bet you look like his grandmother already hence,yourcomment.mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

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    6. Gbam,I support queen on this

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    7. Oh well.... They're married now right? Case closed

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    8. This yeye Queen and Pipi Lee sef. Did poster tell you she has weight issues. Rubbish all bcos she said she is a year older than her husband. Rubbish mentality. Na una type dey marry una grand father age. hissddd

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    9. This yeye Queen and Pipi Lee sef. Did poster tell you she has weight issues. Rubbish all bcos she said she is a year older than her husband. Rubbish mentality. Na una type dey marry una grand father age. hissddd

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    10. @d Queen n boss, so'ro ni yen? Wat diff doz it makes 27-28, just a yr. Na wa ooo. Wat if she gets fat na u b her husband? Be giving wrong advices. Chief judge

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  7. Lovely Story..
    That your mother in law na better winch. Naa wah
    Super glad you guys worked it out and may God continue to bless and keep your home in peace and harmony!! Safe delivery in advance

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  8. Nice1.
    So hubby didn't hear the knock and his mum didn't tell him either? Come and finish it under anon, the amenbo in be is active this morning.

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    1. You better parkwell. Since you no fit read. Amebo in you ko.

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    2. How do you expect him to her it when the bathroom door is closed and with shower on?
      @Emjay you are just a sad frustrated old Gwegw. Pray for your own and quit trying to be brainless as always

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    3. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha!
      Emjay, you dey madt oo.... Phoolish girl.
      GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

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    4. Hahahahahahahahahahahaha!
      Emjay, you dey madt oo.... Phoolish girl.
      GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

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  9. God bless your home dear. Enjoy your marriage

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  10. Wow! I like the way you handled your mother in law that night. Well done and safe delivery.

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  11. Wow! That MIL though. What an unprecedented way to disrupt your son's wedding night.
    Poster, I like how you handled it and the fact that hubby doesn't even know what happened.
    Wishing you a safe delivery!

    Weekly meal plan

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  12. Chai! God will help you with that family o and wishing a safe delivery




    *Larry was here*

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  13. Wow what a MIL! I'm so happy for u! I left my fiance because his family judged me,because I'm from a broken home I wasn't good enough for their son. Too much drama,i couldn't stand!

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    1. I'm soo sorry dear. Ur own man would surely come pretty soon.

      This is why most women do not want to leave their abusive homes cos they feel it would cause a dent to the image of their children in future.

      Parents especially igbos do not regard people from broken homes especially when any of their children has d intention of marrying one. They don't even care to find out the root cause of the break up. There's already the finality that these adults from broken homes would not be able to make good homes as well.

      Its a pity and may God help us all

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  14. Hahhhahahha*lmao
    That woman self,I hope you will prove her wrong.God bless your home

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  15. No worry by the time you born now, your mother in-law go calm down. She go happy say she don become grandma.
    The birth of your your baby will bring peace and harmony to your family.
    GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

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  16. You will have a beautiful Omugwo story to share dear. Or don't you plan to birth your patter of tiny feet?

    Illiterates everywhere

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  17. Be there forming yankee babe.... U are just lucky ur mother inlaw is an easy cake if not, u go hear am. I blame your stupid husband though, not like i am a mummy's boy but no b*tch dare disrespect my mum even if she's my worst enemy

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    1. You've managed to Subscribe abi? Ngwanu clap for yourself.

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    2. Mumu yarning okpa, na only you abuse the babe. What stupid MIL is that.

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    3. Oh shut up!

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    4. E see ya life?

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    5. E see ya life?

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    6. C'mon disappear from Here!


      Cockroach!

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    7. This Isi ngwere and his stupid comments,who open gate for you again????

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    8. I pity the girl wet go marry u...God help ur soul, calling ur future wife b***h...SMH.

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    9. See the shape of your head....

      Apology

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    10. @ Henry, The Educative,Entertaining And Inspirational section is for you go read n learn. What are you doing here BOY?

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  18. Be there forming yankee babe.... U are just lucky ur mother inlaw is an easy cake if not, u go hear am. I blame your stupid husband though, not like i am a mummy's boy but no b*tch dare disrespect my mum even if she's my worst enemy

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    1. Oh, will you just shut up."itibolibor"

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    2. U most be very stupid so she should watch d woman tell them how to make love,you can't even be a mommy's boy do you call ur mom mommy's abi mama poverty mentality. Any mother dat don't want insult should respect herself bcos d person you you're trying to kill with wickedness also ve a mother. My mother respect herself that's y non of her daughter in-law mess around with her der love her like der own mom if not more sf but my mother in-law hmmmmm she hate me like crazy bcos she tot am d typ she will control up to d extend of telling her d son's income jst imagin i should tell her his salary n how he spend it n she wants to even tell me wen to make baby nonsense i still respect her at dat bt if she start yelling n telling her kids lies abt me i give her my own peace of mind with respect too. All dis lofofo mother mk God help dem. I will try n be good as mom bcos her daughter in-laws love like crazy all of them

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    3. Gbe enu e soun! Awon agba n soro eleyi na gbe enu buruku jade!

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    4. See ur mouth! How did she disrespect his mum? His mum disrespected her by trying to disrupt her wedding night. Sha you won't understand cos you're mummy's boy and no good mother ll train her son to call a lady bitch, hence you lack good morals

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    5. Henry Iwu OTELE. Mama's boy.

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    6. That is why you are a BOY!!!!!

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  19. Next please i dont sucumb to being rude to your mother inlaw in whatever way you try to paint it.

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    1. Anon, you try. Succumb to yourself.

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  20. Now this is what a WNB should sound like! My head was spinning! If any Gagool judges or goes south I will use my fat body to pyess u! 😁 😜 😚

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )

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    1. Lmao

      But, who said my Gee is fat???
      Who be that person?

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    2. Stop claiming fat and proud, lose weight because fat is nasty. Because we now know u re fat u re now saying it like u re cool with it? Why weren't u saying it before? You have nerve to call people gagool o.

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    3. Pyess your own bweast, I'm sure they re bigger than my 38C.

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    4. Lmao! See painment! 😝 anywais sha dont let it go south 😚

      Kelvin Dat Edo Boi ( Stellz Cousin )

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    5. @pipi Lee, he is fat indeed. Some of us added him during the last SnM

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  21. Wwow, don't mind your wicked in-laws, enjoy your marriage and you'd deliver safely(amen)

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    1. You are not son of Solomon because you lack wisdom

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  22. Wow.... Am in love with yesterday and today's WNB.... So calm! Lemme send my own WNB oo, just that my mail to Stella no dey go, why?

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  23. This wnb bin dey do me Like say make the story no end...

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  24. I like ur sense of humour.

    Was kinda scared on ur behalf at the Beginiing of ur story but u handled it well. And everything turned around for ur good.
    I almost clapped when u shut the door on ur MIL's face. World Wide Witch!

    Happy for u dear. And congrats on ur soon-to-be-born Baby.

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  25. I seriously pity your husband. On no occasion should he be against his family bcos of woman. Whatever the case is, he must settle it and be in peace with his parents before marriage. Watch out for your own kids at the appointed time.

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  26. Love ur wnb,may God continue to bless your marriage,n plz b prayerful,wishin u safe delivery.

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  27. I need to ejaculate in someone's mouth ooooo!!!

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    1. Who is this one?
      You are delicately senseless!

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  28. Some MIL's sha,.... God pls bless me with a good family

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  29. May God bless your home continually poster. Oluwajuwon lo.

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  30. It is very advisable for intending couple to call their parents bluff if they oppose their marriage, that's if the man is financially comfortable. And they are both sure that they will not disappoint each other in the future.

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  31. Dear poster,you are everything I don't want my son to bring home.Your Wnb is stupid and annoying.It's amazing that everyone from hubby's side is bad,wicked and against you,wow just wow,not even one person is on your side.....when jungle mature you go know,calm down oh biko...bring your eyes down,reduce this gragra.......be friendly to them,avoid confrontations,be wise as serpent and gentle as dove,love weakens witches,bitterness breeds them......if you have ear hear........be prayerful oh,hmmm,if she said wear condom then she doesn't want your child.....hold God by His blooms biko

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    1. Good advice!😊
      Life is too short.
      "...be wise as serpent and gentle as dove,love weakens witches,bitterness breeds them..."

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    2. Did you say love weakens witches? Then no be better witch be that. Hehehehehee.

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    3. Mhen with your likes witches are second grades in ranking. Fearless and the high grand witch cuppy whatever, pure evil is your traits.

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    4. Here comes the first witch,Lovelace ,cuppy loves you,pure good with wisdom is my trait...your assignment will not work under my post.....move along.

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  32. Loool u go fear mother in law...which one is use protection,she must be a witch...don't mind her,for d fact he went ahead nd married u dey cn do nothing...be prayerful nd be a good wife..all d best
    Stella please tomorrow's own should be hot nd raw!!!

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  33. You sound very disrespectful. How can u proudly marry a man against his parents wishes, so technically u do not have their blessings. Is he the only man in the world? If (Godforbid) something happens to him tomorrow you're on your own! You are even older than him too. Na you know the jazz wen u take hold that small boy.

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    1. Kwakwakwakwa...
      This mother africa is crazy!...
      I like you!...

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    2. Shut your Rotten month. Mrs judgey judgey. Ogbonu kpomo.

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    3. Shut your Rotten month. Mrs judgey judgey. Ogbonu kpomo.

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    4. Small boy .....a year younger?
      Chai
      It's only God that knows the narrow minded upbringing most Nigerians got??


      Just wow @ the hatred!!!!!

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    5. But when you read of how White families hated and ostracized their kids for marrying blacks, you say they were wicked!!!!

      When you read of how they might have refused to acknowledge the offspring of such relationships, you shake your head and wonder why

      But here you are hating....
      Because you really do not believe in love...
      Or that true love should conquer all...

      Or that adults should make their life decisions ( not minding the consequences and yes, they will live with those consequences

      Or maybe you fully do not understand what familial love should be like
      That you should be supportive
      Even if you have your reservations
      That you can exercise the right of expressing those reservations
      But shouldn't impose your decisions on another adult

      That is love!!!!

      You applaud when love conquers all in movies
      But you don't want to live the reality of it unless it conforms to what you want/believe/expect

      So you would rather your child married someone he is older than but no deep affection or the parents still together but miserable, the girl raised in your village but totally incompatible....

      Ask yourself, what am I afraid of?
      Also ask yourself, what is REALLY important?

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    6. Mama Africa don't mind any1 insulting u. You have said d truth. It isnt always good to force things like dis. Even u madam if he starts to misbehave u wld b forced to swallow a lot of shit in order to prove his family wrong and u won't have who to meet in that family to caution him. Just tread carefully all in all.

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    7. I don't get the age wahala. I am from igbo land and I know a few of my elderly aunts were older than their spouses, but it was no big deal. All their spouses even passed away years before they did. So to me age, especially a difference of 1-3 years, does not mean a thing.

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  34. Ur mother in law must be a wicked woman. Haba!!! U shouldn't av even bothered to open the door self.

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  35. Vote SDK for Best Blogger of the Year!

    http://www.podiumawards.org/VOTENOW-PAGE/

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  36. Lool u go fear mother in law...which one is use protection is she a witch? Pls don't mind her nd enjoy your marriage..for d fact d guy went ahead nd married u den u dnt ve to fear..just be prayerful nd be a good wife

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  37. God bless your home poster! You are safe cos dh is on your side. Safe delivery

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  38. Waooo happy ending, may God blessing and happiness be in your home

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  39. pls enjoy ur marriage,ua older dan ur hubby n he kns n loves u,so fuckin wat,jes one yr sef.shs sick for knockin on ur door by dat tym,sh jes didnt want u to have fun in peace.some mother inlaws b actin lyk karashika

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  40. pls enjoy ur marriage,ua older dan ur hubby n he kns n loves u,so fuckin wat,jes one yr sef.shs sick for knockin on ur door by dat tym,sh jes didnt want u to have fun in peace.some mother inlaws b actin lyk karashika

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  41. my dear God will bless your marriage and please don't relent in praying.

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  42. Look good and don't do things that will make you age fast. #AvoidStress
    God bless your home

    Sterra you dey really train amebos..lol

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  43. What's the Big deal about their age? Hubby is 33 while I'm 36. We get along just fine,if you see us you'd think hubby senior me with 5 years , ohhhh we also have a very cute son and I am not fattttt, we are both not fat, I am beautiful and he is handsome.

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  44. Kikikikikikiki, something is very familiar about the tone of this poster. Biko are you the one that studied abroad whose boyfriend's mum doesn't want you to marry their son because they see you as a hoe and when you had a problem with him that made soldiers beat you up or something as a teenager?

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  45. Omo,sha be praying well,dt MIL be evils tho

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  46. As much as i praise the way you treated you husbands family, i rebuke the way you treated his mother.. She wouldn't have snatched her son away.. Banging the door to her face? Haba... thats too far. Let love lead. Too early in your r/s to start having beef o. Who would you run to tomorrow when/if hubby starts misbehaving. Please build bridges, not vacuums

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    1. The mouth some of you on this blog make ehn. Yet you'd do worse in her shoes. Wait until you have a terrible mother in law. Then come and repeat this story

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  47. Your WNB story made me smile...as for your in-laws, they would either come around or won't; no matter live your life.

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  48. Congrates& Hml
    Poster from ur story is obvious u are arrogant and full of ego is just a matter of time u show ur arrogance to ur husband .pls whom do u talk to wen u av issues with ur hubby, cos wen all the family members hate u their must be something wrong somewhere .Bring ur self down with humility to win some of the family member's heart, Remember u will be a mother inlaw tomorrow and u wilm not be happy wen ur child marry some1 u didn't approve ur type may even do worse as u av shown that u are wise and expose, prove ur husbands family wrong with gud character and humility soon they will grow to love u else they will make that marriage hell for u, cos men change then u will need them.
    U think ur mil kept quiet about ur open confrontation with her on ur wedding night ? Hell no she did not if u have to marry a man against his family wish in Africa then u must be strong in prayer/spirituallly cos is WAR AND DRAMA

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    1. Humility to a certain tribe means taking shit and acting like its okay. Are u one of them?

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  49. Congrates& Hml
    Poster from ur story is obvious u are arrogant and full of ego is just a matter of time u show ur arrogance to ur husband .pls whom do u talk to wen u av issues with ur hubby, cos wen all the family members hate u their must be something wrong somewhere .Bring ur self down with humility to win some of the family member's heart, Remember u will be a mother inlaw tomorrow and u wilm not be happy wen ur child marry some1 u didn't approve ur type may even do worse as u av shown that u are wise and expose, prove ur husbands family wrong with gud character and humility soon they will grow to love u else they will make that marriage hell for u, cos men change then u will need them.
    U think ur mil kept quiet about ur open confrontation with her on ur wedding night ? Hell no she did not if u have to marry a man against his family wish in Africa then u must be strong in prayer/spirituallly cos is WAR AND DRAMA

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  50. I like your sense of humor may God bless your marriage and watch over your pregnancy, wish you safe delivery.

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  51. Today I realized that most people on this blog are senseless , u got no regard for family , just imagine d guy turned down all his family just because of a girl , I pity him

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  52. my body is shaking, you people want to spoil us.

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  53. Yeye dey smell, I pity d so called husband , rubish

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  54. Poster,this is Africa and when you marry your hubby,you have married his family,even though your MIL was a bit nosy and controlling,guess you didn't handle the matter well,it was very rude for you to have slammed the door to her face,however,Please try and make peace with your in laws cos you might need their help at any point in time...wish you all the best in your marriage.

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  55. From your write up and the way you said you insulted your MIL.It is obvious you not well trained and they might be right saying that you'nt Wife Material.I pray God bless you with a Son and your son's wife treat you like that.No matter how mad and wicked your MIL,You cant disrespect her.I think it high time you Practice Humility with them(hubby's Family) because marriage is not bed of rose.Your eye go soon clear.I wish you nothing but the best

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  56. U banged the door on ur MIL's face? That's too much, don't be deceived by all this pple cheering u on. What is bad,is bad!

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  57. Stupid talk. So in your myopic mind cos they all hate her they are right? Why must your child marry your choice? They are the one s to live with their wives so it has to be who they love.....most African parents have superficial reasons for denying children their choices of spouse.....tribe, age, bla bla bla....how is one year a problem? My mother in law initially refused my husband marrying cos she did not want him to marry when he did....she wanted him to bring all his siblings abroad before settling down....very greedy family. How can a whole family depend on one human while the rest just lazy around cos their son is abroad...work hard for your money. Yes take care of your family but not at the detriment of your wife and kids....thank God I come from an independent family and all my siblings work. Most of his greedy siblings are still jobless and waiting for handouts for their brother....finally when my mother in law saw I was not a financial liability to her son cos I earn very well she started to be more friendly till she died.....poster u did well to put her in her place...the female hypocrites saying she is rude or not well behaved on this blog are those who enable all this family interference rubbish.....

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  58. I didn't disrespect her. I didn't hit her with the door. I simply closed it in her face. I told the woman years ago that I would love to have a wonderful relationship with her and all of my hubby's siblings but to no avail.

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    1. Babe u owe no one any explanation whatsoever. The people critisizing u here would do worse in ur situation.

      My mom also didn't approve of my brother's fiancee... But she later had to keep an Open mind and support her sons decision.

      MILs need to support and pray for their children no matter the decision they take

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