Hey Stella of life!!
Decided to share how my wedding night was....
I met my husband at the age of 15 (he was a year older) in a Jamb lesson and I decided I was going to give up my virginity after my last paper in university which I did,passed out during the process because of the excruciating pain and after six months my indigestion and protruding tummy was diagnosed as pregnancy and my mind didn't even go to that day.
Our parents ruled that we were too young and refused to give their consent but we with the help of my mum went to the registry.
After 3years we approached them and they still ruled we didn't know what life was all about but took a bold step, planned our wedding ourselves rented and furnished our flats ourselves and, when they saw these ones weren't backing out they had to support us. We already started counselling and we were advised to abstain from sex.
Our wedding turned out to be a carnival and my husband had the time of his life he danced like he had won a jackpot.
At a point the wedding got over rowdy we had to disappear from the venue. I went with my sisters and mum to perform the traditional rites in our in-laws home.
When we arrived at our in laws house we came in with singing I was prayed for by eldest Aunty , my feet were washed and I was taken in to my father-in-laws room where my husband was waiting, we were actually supposed to do the first thing there.
We kept laughing at each other until we left for our hotel room.
When we got to the door of our room my husband insisted on carrying me into the room he almost collapsed doing this act he was lucky the bed was not too far from the door till date he has never tried this again.
We landed laughing , then he helped me undress. We kissed a bit on the bed with his right hand caressing my nipples when we realised what was happening, the intimate stuff we broke out in laughter again , we had a shower together laughing at how he danced like a mad man.
After having our bath we changed to our swim suits headed to the swimming pool to continue our kissing which we did for about an hour came back into the room still wrapped in our towels slept off.
We woke up about 6am had another bath together and went for our thanksgiving service where we finally picked our son and headed to Calabar.
It took us about 2weeks before we got down to doing the serious business thing again and I think it was just because of the whole wahala we got from our first attempt but when we eventually broke that jinx we have practised every style on our Kama sutra book which I had to eventually had to dispose because of the kids.
Its 14years and counting since our white wedding which everyone predicted it would not go past 1year but we always choose to celebrate our 20years of friendship. Its hasn't been easy though like they predicted but somehow we always look back at where we started and still hold on to what made us fight for each other back then.
*At a point in this story,i got confused.
So you mean after that first attempt that got you preggy nothing again for how many years before two weeks after wedding?
James,please behave yourself here.lol