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Sunday, September 11, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

This is a very long narrative but i have never read anything like this before....

Even James was mentioned inside this Narrative for helping out somehow...







STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

CAUGHT BETWEEN THE DEVIL AND THE DEEP BLUE SEA

Dear Stella,
 I am an ardent reader of your blog, just your blog only as I'm yet to see any other blog that catches my attention the way your blog does. Stella you are doing a great work. My story is a long one but I will summarize and hopefully send in all someday for other single and married couples to learn but for now I need you and your blog reader's advise. I'm in the middle of making a decision that I don't know what will be the repercussion either good or bad, I simply don't know as I'm confused and depressed now.


I'm  divorced and a single mom of one. I once sent my rant on your blog last month and I'm here writing back to you. Please Stella, I am not writing to beg for money as I already have options but just need advise.

It's been two years plus now and I'm still yet to recover from what happened to me in my marriage. My marriage was such a bitter one that i don't want to ever get married again and I don' mind anybody calling me aunty gwe gwe. I got married at the age of 23 as a virgin, I had my girl at the age of 26 after 4 miscarriages and at 27, my marriage was over...

I finally moved back to my parents house and that's not the first time of going back to my parents house.

Things have become so hard for me and my little girl. To feed is difficult. Sometimes I have to wait for my little girl to eat  before I can eat or I just pray for it to remain so I can have something to put in my stomach.  

I have searched for a cleaning / nanny job because that's what  I can look for, my certificates are not with me anymore. Everyone I told are wondering why a second class upper graduate will be in search of a cleaning job. What can I do? I don't have my credentials with me anymore. My ex husband destroyed them. During the heat of the fight, I left his house with my little girl with just few cloths (a very small box). After some months of separation and dowry returned, I went back to his house to move my things but he didn't allow me move a pin not even my little girl's cloths. I asked for my certificates even my brother that went with me asked, my ex husband said he didn't see anything like that. 

Maybe he destroyed them or hid them I don't know till date but that's his own weapon to destroy me I guess.

Now you all might be wondering what I did to him to deserve his treatment. I have asked myself this same question over and over again and the only answer is because I refused to remain his wife. The marriage was an abusive one. Constant beatings and public humiliation and within 4 years of living together as husband and wife, my ex husband had gotten three women pregnant.

 The first was a corper. People came to the house to give me sermons of how men are polygamous and I should forgive him. His family apologized and asked me to forgive him. Ok I let it go. I later heard the corper had still birth. My ex husband brought a lady to the house from his village to assist in house chores. This lady has a small stature but older than me. She's a single mom of one and her son is 18years. According to my ex husband, she is his uncle's daughter and he gave this pathetic story of how she was suffering. I so no reason to doubt him, I'm this type of lady that just believe whatever he tells me for peace sake in the home and NO I don't snoop, I love my peace. 

Ok my ex husband will tell me, dear this cloths, this shoe, bag etc you don't use them anymore, why don't you give it to her? I will be like oh that's true and I will give all to her. I treated and respected her as my sister in-law and not like a maid.

Some months after she said she was leaving. I asked 'aunty se mo se yin ni' (aunty did I offend you) she said No o. It's just that she is missing her people and she doesn't like Lagos life style. I can't force her to stay especially when my ex husband was busy forming vexation, shouting on top of his voice saying she is an ingrate let her go bla bla bla. I was the one calming my ex husband down that he shouldn't be angry with her. She left back to her village.


Months after, my father in law died. We went for burial. I saw this aunty or nanny or what should I call her? She was pregnant. Infact 8 months gone. My people if you see the way I was happy eh like at last this aunty has found herself a man. I teased her Iya Ibeji( mama twins) etc. After the ceremony, my sister and I took a walk( I'm not from that town/state). We stopped to buy bush meat and palm wine in one of the joint. As we were eating, the men at the joint started talking about my ex husband to the extent of saying see who lagbaja left to go and give that dirty girl belle. He left this beautiful educated woman for that dirty girl that even the village ode( hunters) has been 'toasting'. One of them was even beating his chest that he can write ABC more than the lady my ex husband got pregnant. 

My sister gave me a surprise look. I quickly paused my palm wine and bush meat and asked the men who are they referring to? They mentioned my ex husband alias and the same so called uncle's daughter. I shouted 'iro ni o' (It's a lie)! The woman who sold the bush meat and palm wine said 'se pe e ti mo' (so you don't know)? I don't know how I got to his family house in full speed. I called him out and ask him if he was the father of her unborn baby, he denied it. He said his enemies have started. I laughed and clapped for him. I was laughing like a mad woman. So I called the lady, I forgot to use aunty this time around.

 Infact her answer was straight. It was a yes. Even his family and almost the whole villagers said Yes , only my ex husband remained on No. I said my dear this whole people don't hate you to the extent of lying on you. Even your family? Just tell me the truth. Then he said yes. I cried. I threw things. I scattered the small room. Threw plates. He begged. He prostrated ( he is good at that. In short Yoruba men sabi prostate if they don do bad things lol). His mother begged, everybody in his family begged.


 They said he won't marry her that as soon as she births the baby she would leave bla bla bla. Uhm I was hurt beyond repair, two days later, I left their town with my baby. I was still hurting when I got another news that his ex girlfriend has a child for him a boy, my girl is just some months older than the boy. I remembered seeing this boy picture on his phone and i asked 'kilode ti omo yi se jo e bayi, haha oti jo e ju' (why is it that this boy looks so much like you) he said you remember that my cousin nau, that my mother sister, sister 3rd child in the village, that is his son. I was such a mumu raise to power 2. I called him to congratulate him on his so called mother sister sister third child son. He was speechless.


I had a business then. I was into importation. It was doing exceedingly fine. Trust me very fine. So I got myself an apartment. I was managing my business and taking care of my girl. She was just a year and didn't know what was happening and I'm so sure she can't recognize her father today. We were both living fine. I never dated any man because the fear was too much. It got so bad that when I see men, I see this monstrous look in their face. Sometimes when the opposite sex is talking to me,  I will say in my mind 'won ti de o, e jo e ko wahala yi ma lo o' ( they have come o. Please take your trouble away o). I became so independent.

 My ex husband was busy begging and sending people to beg me. I didn't love him anymore and I made it clear to him that I no longer love him but he could come around to see his daughter. I was so calm and friendly with my words to him.
Family meeting was held. My mind was made up to end the marriage. It was agreed that I keep my daughter with me since he had no job to cater for her. 


Uhm that was the moment where my nyash got opened. My family got to know that my ex husband has been out of job for the past 4 years. I was the bread winner. Catering for him, my girl, his relations and my relations. I never mentioned it to anyone. Infact whenever my mom asks for money, i will tell her 'let me tell daddy lagbaja. I am sure he will give you the money' Uhm shame catch me no be small. You all need to see the kind look my parents gave me. My mom was like ' so iwo lo bo oko e titi ko pata idi re' ( so you are the one fending for your husband even to the pants in his buttocks lol). 

His family begged me to give their son money to start a business to help him survive, I refused. My ex husband begged me to give him money, I refused.


Dowry was returned. So my brother and I went over to his place to move my things but he didn't release them to me not even my certificates. He started saying that it is because I have money that is why I said I'm no longer interested in the marriage. He started threatening me. He even said I will see what will become of me. He said when my money finishes, I will come running to him. My family and I didn't listen to him. We took him for a joke. We only felt he was bluffing.


It didn't take long before things started going wrong/down. At first I didn't understand what was happening to me. It was as if there was this mark of hatred on me. People started avoiding me for no reason. Business wasn't doing well like before. Whatever I lay my hand on will fail or die sef, as in something bad must happen.  Before I knew it, everything started falling apart especially my business. There's no week that I won't have accident and I will be asked to pay for damages. I started struggling to put things back in place. At first I didn't suspect it was spiritual not until my account went from 8 figures to .0.


I couldn't pay my rent. I couldn't pay my girl school fees. I couldn't feed. My business completely got wrecked that's another story of its own. I fell into depression and suicidal. I was looking like a mad woman. 


So I went back to my parents. My plan was to stay there till things are cool or till whoever is pursuing me stops following me. I went to MFM prayer city for deliverance. Omo see fasting. I attended Holy ghost services and Daily manner programs but for where things kept getting worst. My cloths got worn out. I patch and patch so tey the tailor(customer) in the town got tired of cutting and pasting pieces in between my cloths. My jeans trouser nko? I have never seen where jeans dey loose elasticity except mine. My tops refused to retain their beauty and color. I kept on rocking them though 'oun lani la gbe laruge'.

 Whatever, I'm still the village champion after all na only me sabi Sdkblog for the town *wink

My parents went for prayers too. I started healing gradually. Before I will just be indoors crying, thinking, talking to myself but ever since I stumbled on sdkb, everything changed. Whenever I'm depressed again, I will quickly buy 100 naira airtime or simply borrow from my service provider to read sdkb. I won't even know when I will start laughing till I forget my pains. There are days that James comments  makes me laugh till I am almost passing out as a result of the laughter. 

Sdkb was my medicine and  not too long I got addicted to the blog. Yes God used this blog to heal me. I started laughing again. I started participating though anonymously.

I let go of the past. I took part in the SnM for the first time early this year. It didn't go too well because I deleted all the guys. I was afraid and besides, a lot wanted my picture and I don't have good clothes or hair do to hang out with some of them. Even the distance didn't help matter. I couldn't tell them so I deleted everyone of them. I tried the SnM the second time again, requesting for female friends because I was in need of friends. I accepted few that sent in invites but they deleted me except for one babe maybe because I'm not the Brazilian babe they expected. So I stopped partaking in the SnM because it's not for ladies like me.


I've looked for a job and asked people to get me a job but I'm yet to get one. I've dabbled into different business but it didn't do well because I need finances for it to grow. I've talked to some top shot I use to know in the past but these people are capitalising on my predicament. I talked business with them but they are taking it personal. Some of them want to have sex with me and that's why I'm still yet to get back on my feet I guess.


Stella I have prayed and I believe I'm delivered from whatever forces that's fighting me. I believe God has delivered me from the shackles of the devil. I want to return back to business, go back to school or better still get a job that requires no certificates because I don't have the money to process another certificates. Stella I have called those top shot I use to know before. I even begged them to get me a job but some of them are beginning to ask me out promising to take care of me and my daughter.

Stella, I have never had sex with another man except my ex husband. I have not had sex in two years plus now. Next year will make it three years and I don't masturbate. The one that is doing me is more than konji now. Since January, I have been rejecting their offers because of this my good girl attitude. I was consoling myself that God will do it in his due season.
Last month August, I prayed to God to send me help from above. I told God I wanted to start a food business. I made a pledge. There's this ori oke I do go to in the village. The pastor abi na prophet has been noticing my frequent visit. He called me during one of my visits. We spoke and he prayed along with me. Messages/visions were given. The pastor calls me all the time to check on me and pray for me. 


Stella, on Tuesday(6th September) 10am I saw a missed call on my phone. I didn't call back because I didn't know the person. 30 minutes later the pastor called me. He said he gave a man my number, the man called me but I didn't answer my call. He said the man is one of his candidate that comes to the ori oke for prayers. He briefly introduced the man and said he told the man about me and the man is willing to help. The pastor handed the phone over to the man so I spoke to the man.


 We exchanged greetings and introduction. He sound elderly and promised to call back. Some minutes later, the man called me. He did a proper introduction on the phone again and asked how I was coping, I told him God has been my strength. He said he is a very busy man that is always on the move. He is a car dealer with branches in Lagos and outside Lagos. He imports cars and trucks. At first his name didn't click not until I remembered that I have seen his company along mile 2 road and the island before. Stella I was very happy that help has finally come at least this one is from the pastor. That same Tuesday he called me and told me that he couldn't find me on whatsapp, I told him that whatsapp can't work on my phone so he said I should call him before sleeping that night which I didn't.


The following day Wednesday, he called me in the morning to check on me and asked why I didn't call or flash him before going to bed, I told him I was sorry I had no airtime on my phone,30 minutes later, he sent me 1500 airtime. I was surprised because it has been long I loaded such on my line and besides I didn't ask for it. I called him to thank him. That same day he called to tell me that he wants me to see him on Friday and probably spend the weekend together to discuss the way forward for me. At first I didn't understand but out of respect I said ok sir. He kept on calling and discussing about me coming to see him during the weekend. I became worried again. I asked myself I hope this man is not after dating me. 


On Thursday he called me, after greeting me he said his friend was around that he just came from Abuja that I should say hello to him. In my mind I was like O God, which kind thing is this na. I sha spoke to the other man on the phone 'hello sir...' and he said we are expecting you  I manage to say yes sir. He called me again and was pestering me on coming to see him this weekend, he then said we should see if not for the  relationship but to know me and discuss the way forward. I decided to inform the pastor that the man he gave my number to, ask me to come and see him on Friday. The pastor said 'ko si problem, ati jo soro'(there's no problem, we have spoken). 


Later the pastor called and asked why can't I do the whatsapp he couldn't pronounce it well sef then I told him my phone can't do it. He then said is there no way you can send your picture to this man, I said there's no other way sir. I got more confused again.

Stella I joined one or two together from the conversation between the pastor, this man and myself and I just concluded that this man wants to date or have sex with me. The way and manner he calls me too gets me confused. This man even said I should send him my account details if I know I don't have the transport fare to visit him but I'm yet to send it to him.

Stella it is true that this year I once thought of going into prostitution or even lesbianism whatever will pay my bills. I even searched google lol but I didn't know how or where to start from in short I have no cloths to put on to seduce anyone. It is true that I was tired of being a good girl because it didn't help me at all. All the bad girls  I know during my university days have a beautiful life to the extent that I'm ashamed to go close to them now.


Stella I have lost lots of help and money because I refuse going into relationship with these rich men I meet. Now this is yet another one. I have been praying since this man called me on Tuesday. I have been begging God to please take sex away from this man's mind. I cried this week. I've been confused and depressed. I've been asking myself, is selling my body in exchange for money the only way out for me? 


I've not had sex in two years plus and I don't want to do it now not even for money anymore. I've not shaved my pubic hair in two years now and that doesn't mean I'm dirty, its only my own way of saying gate closed. Since I left my marriage, I've not tamper with virginal. I only get to touch it when I clean up and change sanitary pads.

The year is running to an end and I'm yet to do something for myself. My little girl is 3 and yet to return back to school. So many things to be done yet no cash. The devil has been ministering to me. The devil keeps saying just do it once to be free from your financial handicap. Ever since this man started calling me, my head has been ringing 'don't loose this one again o, many girls will jump at this offer, do it for your girl etc'. Infact whenever I'm having my bath, I will just look at the gate down there and ask myself does it mean I have to clear this bush and make way for this man to drive in? Then I will start crying again because I can't explain what it means to spend the weekend together to discuss the way forward.

 Does it mean the pastor got me pimped or the pastor is not aware of the man's intention? 



Stella today is Sunday, I didn't visit the man. He called me again to tell me that unless I find all means to see him, there's nothing he can do to help me. Stella am I just being paranoid? Could it be that he has no bad intentions? Could it be that he just wants us to spend the weekend together without sex or whatsoever?

 What if I visit him and he then asks for sex, will it make or mar my future? What if I say it will be just once and it continues? I don't want to compound my problems. He is married and I have never dated a married man. I don't want to ever cause another woman pains by dating her husband. Now I'm left with the option of waiting on God even if it means forever or doing it in my own human way.


Below is an offer she got to make way for her progress-









HMMMM...I am in deep thoughts right now but before anything else,please do not take that pastor or the mans call again...and please call me,I have been expecting your call.

DO NOT TAKE THEIR CALLS AGAIN...THE DEVIL IS A LIAR!!!


290 comments:

  1. Awon wolf in sheep clothing

    Just negodu

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    1. Speechless!
      But something tells me your ex is behind all your problems...that one of the reason why we ladies don't have to marry jobless men...they are the worst cheats

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    2. This good girl thing never help anybody I swear. After all the good girl thing where did I land? This idiot impregnated another girl. Poster it is well with you. Please don't give in

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    3. Wow!
      This is a tough one,
      But please don't even try going to see the man, my spirit tells me they need you for something , probably rituals but definitely not for sex.
      Its well with you poster.
      Help is on the way.

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    4. Hmmmm....my dear poster u are not alone. U just helped me pened down my own chronicles. This is my life, no addition or subtraction except I was neva married nor had a child. This are the challenges some ladies faces. I have cried myself out today, cldnt go to church cos I woke up late after heavy thinking last night.(slept around 4am) shebi u still have family dat supports you and a place to stay? I'm about to be thrown out of the house now, owing 3months rent. No job, no capital to boost the little biz I started, no husband( not even a single boyfriend) it's as if the whole world just turned thr back against me. Written so many applications yet nothing is forthcoming. Poster, maythe Almighty God continue to bless Stella for creating this platform. It's a life saver. It's the only place where I can pour out my heart without been judge or mock.Sometimes I wonder why the good ones suffer most but I do console myself with God's promises and pland cos I know they are of good and not bad. It's just a phase that will soon pass. Pls, never you compromise for anything, I know it's tough but we will scale thru in Jesus name.I will be 31 in December so I added a guy frm Last SnM but he neva boda to chat me up or anything. I didn't even know is real name. I always initiate the chat but he seems not interested. Maybe bcos I'm not one of those Brazilian girls( mind you, ain't d SU type or local girl o). I know very soon I'll write in my testimonies in Jesus name. It is well with us all, amen.

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    5. Sweety forgive me. A phone dat cant whatsapp cant recieve messages lik dis. Nd how did u screen grab it..sorry love the Lord its ur strength

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    6. Kai....nne God bless u. U are a good woman. D truth is if am in ur shoes I might have had one rich bf. Biko, shave ur princess for health purposes. God b with u

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    7. I think you can get back your certificate from your school by swearing an affidavit. You can claim fire accident in your home. The school should be able to give you another certificate.

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    8. Madam am short of what exactly to say. But I will advice you to loosen on but don't give urself to that man but you can loosen up because life just have to go on. Because you can meet up with life even friends or lovers just the way you describe you are living ur life. I so feel ur pain but what to do, there is still hope of living nd living the kind of life you want. Even if you are given a million now to start up something but will you be friends only with your business or be a lover to ur business only? So you just have to loosen up okay. All will be well.

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    9. Lmaoooo. So both of you happens to write 'and' as 'n'

      You should have cut it short. The long story made it porous with holes. Stella you are being scammed. That phone can have whatsapp. She is saying no whatsapp so you cant ask for her face pix. Stella ask her where she is. I will personally travel from abuja to see her and her child and carry them if necessary. I repeat, you are being scammed.

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    10. Sometimes we ladies do have similar stories, we've suffered in relationship and life isn't fair to one at all, but sometimes who do one run to other than God almighty, waiting for him to intervene for us.

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    11. Stella please how can I help this lady? I am willing to help no matter how small my contribution.
      Poster please stay strong. This man is a lie from the pit of hell. That pastor of yours is evil. When next either of them contact you rebuke them with the Word of God. It will be well with you.

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    12. Poster... listen to me and listen real goooood!

      First of all, handle your ex husband spiritually. Go completely naked and read psalm 109 and palm 35 every 12-1am and mention his name. Do not relent on that for the next 3 months (90 days). Go through that psalm very well before you start the program so that you know the part to remove when you are praying and returning every arrow back to him. It is only God that can help you on this. I like the part where you said you believe God has delivered you...and He has surely delivered you. Your helper will locate you by God's grace, very soon. I like the fact that you are positive!

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    13. Pls, Stella can you clarify if that message was from the man prophet asked her to see or was it from another random man? Because she said she told the prophet's man that she doesn't have WhatsApp and that looks like WhatsApp.

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    14. A lot of people read and don't comprehend. Jeez. Stella typed 'below is AN offer she got..' not 'THE offer'. It means that the chats posted above are not necessarily the offer from the pastor and his man, could be one of the earlier offers she's gotten from other men. And for those wondering, the 'airtel 1' that keeps showing is only indicating the sim she's receiving and replying messages with. Not the other person's network. I'm not the poster by the way, I just hate how people display ignorance while trying to poke holes in stories

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    15. People really have challenges!

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    16. I smell well planned scam

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    17. Wonder woman, madam itk, it is not a crime to ask questions. To want to understand better does not necessarily mean one is poking holes in the story, if it had been indicated the question wouldn't be asked, besides it was a long read. You can answer without that unwelcome tone madam.

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  2. I dont believe the man can give you 30,000 Us dollars... Please trim dat pussy and stop punishing yourself, you are plus one no matter how decent you claimed to be...

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    1. So what if she's plus one? At least she gave birth to the child in wedlock. A won bad belle

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    2. The man has seen your destiny and star...he probably wants to use you in his posperity charm. They say good girls finish last,but don't give in to the devil. The lord will see you through.

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    3. You are a fool,she has ģrace,unlike you fornicator whose grace has been taken away by the numerous meñ you have slept with.

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  3. God!
    My heart is broken
    Why all these on you?😩

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    1. Me too, was moved to tears while reading this. We women do go through a lot I swear. Poster it is well with you, so sorry about all you've been through. I don't think this new married guy has good intentions for you though. Please be careful!

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  4. Where's the strenght to read so much suffering on one person?? If you were teamSnoop thgs wldnt hv gotten this south, you chose to look the other way & present ur left cheek wen the right on is slapped... Just be glad ure not buying HIV drugs 2day.
    Sadly, ladies wld keep living in despair and denial till thgs are outta control like wild fire.

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    1. Well I'm not shocked but then, the signs he was up to no good was there. Airtime you'd use to reply better people you're spending on this riffraff.

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    2. This is really Deep... Hold on Dear... This thing called Marriage has really frustrated a lot of peeps. Both Men and Women. This your pastor self get connection o...

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    3. Valar Morghulis!

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  5. This is sad. I can relate very well

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    1. Madam please go to court and swear affidavits and go bk to ur school and get ur certificate.

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  6. Sorry I can't read this till the end. You irritated me with your words.

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    1. Shut up!
      Supporters club, cos the man is exactly like you...
      Anumanu

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    2. What's irritating there, even at that must u say it? So immature

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    3. She did what with her words?
      I mean no disrespect but Are You Okay?
      Like are you well at all?
      You went through that and instead of just maybe keeping quiet and passing (since you don't have anything nice to say) you decide to type dis.
      Pray never to be in a tight place in life.
      Good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over...

      Poster!!!
      I just wish there was a way to reach out to you...

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  7. What a long read!
    Indeed it is a wicked world we all live in... people that are opportuned to help others without breaking a sweat won't help bcos of their selfish reasons.

    My dear, even though you claim you're not begging, it's obvious you need. And i pray that God Almighty will bring a helper your way! You shall be favoured from the East, West, North and South In Jesus Name...Amen!!

    Just hold on darling.. Don't lose faith. Do not sell your body ok, help is near! Hugs

    But that part about not shaving for two years tho... nne seriously that is absolutely disgusting! Please shave that thing off i beg you.

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    1. As for the shaving aspect, poster I don't believe you lol... reminds me of the movie Don't mess with the Zohan.

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    2. What is disgusting? As long as she is cleañ,does hair on your head make your dirty ode

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    3. Hian! Anon 16:23
      Abeg no kill me oo, just imagining that much hair down there is not pleasing at all. Biko no vex o but ayam not an Ode oo

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    4. Hian! Anon 16:23
      Abeg no kill me oo, just imagining that much hair down there is not pleasing at all. Biko no vex o but ayam not an Ode oo

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  8. Go back to your university and tell them what happened to your certificates, I am sure they will have backups. This is 2016 and ask for copies of your certificates. You are entitled to them. If employers want to know the validity of your certificates, they will phone your university. Be brave. Wish you well.

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    1. Is it not money she would use? She already wrote that she cant afford it

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  9. The man us into ritual, and I guess the pastor is his herbalist, they want to use you.my dear run for ur life.

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    1. I thought so too. Why give a stranger you haven't met 10k dollars for a one-night stand? Very strange indeed

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    2. My thoughts exactly, are you new that you don't know that not all pastor's are real. Please anyone that has lost their certificate before and retrieved it please tell her how to go about it. Don't pick that herbalist call again

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    3. Exactly my my thought, the man is a ritualist no doubt,stop saving ur dirty hairy pussy, use ur pussy to make money instead of begging,I really don't believe ur story. U may ve deceived others into believing you not me, use what u ve to get wat u want, quit begging.

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    4. So true! The guy is a prophet, they are always into things like that.

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    5. Angel ray 4 idiot. Is an idiot. Insensitive ewu nmeeee

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    6. AngelRak4Sdk mehn is it just me or is it so obvious that u are senseless u this fool how will u say she is lying idiot is it until u go through what she is going through that u will know that she is saying the truth?? Why am I even asking u sef it is obvious u don't av any brain inside dat ur head if u av a daughter raise her to use what she has to get what she wants!!

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  10. Poster: I'm here to encourage you and the title of my message is
    ' God will remember you'
    The lord will surely remember you, 2 years isn't too long.....
    Pls don't listen to the voice of the devil.
    Those men want to use you for something spiritual as well

    May the eyes of you understanding be open.

    Sweetheart pls wait on the lord. Joseph was a slave to his own brothers for 12 years. The lord remembered him and made him a minister @ the right time.
    Pls my dear, your hour is nigh ... Your breakthrough is close... But it's definitely not through these ' devil agents'.

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  11. God bless u stella. I'm in tears for my fellow woman. Pls don't fall into d temptation of ruining d temple of God which is your body. Remember Job in d bible...
    Stella, pls display her account details so I can help in my own little way whenever I can.
    Remain blessed poster, God will make a way where there seems to he no way.

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  12. What if the pastor and the man really wants to help?
    What do I know

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    1. Help ke? By 'licking her two holes'?

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    2. If they want to help,why do they insist she sees them on the weekend and not on a working day in an office to make things official?

      The man is dubious.

      Poster..God is already working for you.

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    3. Poorbee, you must be living in a cave or your brains are covered with cobwebs. How can a pastor be pimping out a supposed member nd u call dat help.

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    4. If he really wants to help her, he doesn't need to see her. Trust me I know

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  13. Na wa oooo pastor dey arrange this can business ? Ô di egwu ! Sister do as u wish ooooo ! ENDTIME pastor !

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  14. An offer that sounds too good to be true may have a repercussion that will put you in the dark for the rest of your life. This man was introduced by your pastor and most Nigerian pastors with "ori oke" add other spiritual enforcement to their ministry. Be careful because this may have a spiritual undertone.

    The greatest test of faith comes when God is about to open the windows of heaven. This may just be the last battle you have to face so please don't give in. I LOVE YOU. From a friend that cares about your story.

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  15. Scratches head,just go back to d school n complain,surely u would get anoda copy of ur certificate, DTS all I cn say

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  16. Fake pastor cum ritualist!
    They want to use your destiny to make money!

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  17. Well, somebody has to help her out else, she's gonna fall for it, and soon.

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  18. Pastor ke, they wan steal ur destiny/use u for ritualm

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    1. I agree with you. They want to steal her destiny and riches. Poster do not pick the man & pastor's call again. Do not go to that ori-oke or whatever. Ignore all of them and keep praying to God in the confine of your home. May God be with you. Pls dn't be tempted to do it. What you have is far more than the money he wants to give you. Just keep praying for it to manifest. Debi, may God answer you and your daughter.

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  19. Wat if d man is diabolical and wants to use u fr something? Think my sister think.

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  20. This is absolute ritual set up. That pastor actually gave that rich man some juju to use it and have sex with you. YOU BETTER RUN WOMAN! ....RUN!!!..... its a ritual set up to use your success and glory. RUN RUN RUN AND DONT LOOK BACK!!!!!

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  21. My dear I really don't comment
    But please don't give in to this man and any temptation.
    Keep praying and crying to God, I have this feeling that your breakthrough is near and rhe devil want to use money to blind you, pls don't pick the pastor calls or the man. Keep seeking God's intervention, the money will finish and u will regret it.

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  22. Hmmmmm. You have really been through a lot and I commend you for keeping yourself. I tell you that you are already at the edge of your breakthrough. The devil knows this and that is why he is bringing such temptation your way through a so called pastor. You should know that not everyone who calls himself a pastor was truly called and chosen by God. You have come this far, so do not give up, the lord will uphold you. Since you have decided to remain with God, know that he will not forsake you. Meanwhile, isn't there any of your ex husband's family member(s) you can meet to go with you to his house to get your certificate? Also, do not stop praying and asking God to fight for you. You will overcome as long as you are with God. God bless you.

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    1. Thanks. We involved his family and he insisted that he didn't see my certificates. 2+ years now and I'm yet to set my eyes on him. I don't want to see or hear from him anymore. I will go back to my schools, waec office and state of service to get my certificates back as soon as I can. Thanks once again.

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  23. I feel so heartbroken, I wish I can help you out of this situation you're in, I truly wish so, favor will find you, thus I'm sure of..... main why, shave that pubic hair you've been be nurturing for almost 3yrs now, it's nt hygienic,you can shave it off and still continue with your celibacy.
    *Faithful bv*

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  24. Poster check out the way the pastor and the man are insisting on this escapade. E no pure at aaalll. There's a catch to it and the person who will lose is you. There's more to this than meets the eye. Be careful. God be with you m

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  25. Your story touched me more than I could imagine
    May the Almighty send help your way
    Amin

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  26. Na wa ooo for life. First,am so sorry about all the pains you went thru in your marriage and how you were able to pick yourself up and move on. if things are not working out now,it doesn't mean that God has abandoned you. It just means that he is preparing you for something great. As for that fake pastor and that yeye man,please don't pick their calls again. have faith and everything will work out fine

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  27. Your story brought me to tears madam. Pls anybody who can help her should help her. I can't advise you as I am feeling emotional. I am not much different from you. I feel hopeless. Though I have never married, nor have a child, I am what they would call gwegs on this blog. No job too, I depend on what family can give me, I am a laughing stock, always depressed. I have two certificates but can't secure a job. My family is fed up and they have tried. I can't afford clothes, I spend the little I have on food and other small necessities. I have been employed a few times, but it doesn't last and I usually end up being abused verbally and emotionally and forced to leave. After investments in my education I can't help my family, rather I depend on them. Why should they respect me? The few guys I have gone out with only used me and left. Now I am simply tired, I am just existing and waiting on God. I don't have what it takes to be a call girl and I am trying to be close to God. I really understand what this poster is going through and she has a child. God help her and please help me too. I am trying to take life one day at a time and trust God. My faith in God is what is keeping me, because I was suicidal.

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  28. Oh boy! See temptatation
    Why so eager? Without even seeing your picture? I think they are ritualists and you fit a certain requirement for a certain ritual.
    This is worrisome.
    But let me ask o, do you plan never to date again?
    You dont have to turn to prostitute but you can get yourself a rich boyfriend, you can even marry again so biko kpuchapu that forest

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    1. The thought of prostitution is in the past now. Dating is a No No for me. Ok I will kpuchapu my forest. Thanks.

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    2. Lmao @ kpuchapu the forest

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  29. Abeg give me the mans number.
    Santa nwegbe.

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    1. Fool. Collect number and go meet your Waterloo. Long throat, na so them dey take ur types do ritual on a daily basis

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  30. Men this is really painful, take heart dearie

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  31. Life is never fair tho...

    @poster,i don't like rushing into conclusion as a person..hence if I were to be in your shoes;i would take that risk and visit him,hear him out,and if what he has to offer is money in return for sex,i would then take an action..
    one thing I have learnt is not to rush into conclusion without a just reason!!

    I'm not asking you to visit this man;but why still live in regrets over an action you can verify by yourself in just one day??

    Bottomline is that you are you,and this is just your own perception in this situation;and this is just what makes us different individuals..cos personally I would give him a listening ear,than living each and everyday of my life with the line "WHAT IF" or "I COULD HAVE"..

    Call madam stellz sha since she said you should do soo..

    #My2cent

    @MARTINS ABOY

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    1. Give him a listening ear over the phone. Not in person. He has already made it very clear ... He wants sex....
      And, poster has made it clear, that is not what she wants.
      Have you heard of people vanishing into thin air?
      What if she goes and her body parts are harvested for money ritual.
      I beg, she's been gullible all her life. Let her "shine her eyes" this time.

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    2. Thank you martins

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    3. Thank you martins

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  32. Someone dat wants to help does not need to see u. wat he needs is ur bank details. There is an ulterior motive.

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  33. God have mercy!

    This story gave me goosebumps, walahi!

    Your problem isn't being a good girl. It's being naive.

    You're asking us what this guy really wants, meanwhile the texts say it all.

    Yeah, Stellz, the devil is a liar.

    My dear, you don't want to do this. It's temptation in its highest form. And seriously, a pastor arranged all this? This world sef.

    Biko, call Stellz like she said. Something good must come out of your putting your story out there.
    And no, you wouldn't need to be used by that man. He's obviously a destiny hunter.

    Gosh!

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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    1. The text up there is just one of the messages I get from people I run to for help. I turned them down and now this is another one. I've heard people say 'ones destiny is in ones hands', I began to ask myself if it means me doing it in my own way or waiting for God...

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  34. Poster you sound very foolish.. Are you sure you went to Uni? Or night school? Even people from the bush have more brains than you!

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    1. You are welcome pastor(ritualist).

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    2. Anonymous 15:56, you're more demented and foolish. You apathetic imbecile.

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    3. Shut up stupid Anon 15:56 idiot if u av enough courage put ur name and picture and stop thinking upside radarada as if u av brain

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  35. That man is a ritualist and your so called pastor is his human supplier. If you know what's good for you, stop taking their calls. Infact, block both their numbers. Do not be tempted. You will not come out of it alive.

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    1. Professor X!! Where have you been??

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  36. May God hasten d feet of ur destiny helper. It is well with your soul and that of ur baby girl. It will end in praise. Hol up, ur victory is nigh

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  37. Reuben Abati second, haba. My dear, the Lord will make a way for you where it seems to be no way. Just believe it and never go closer to that man. He is taking advantage of you. But why can't he help since he can afford that. Wicked generation in this wicked world. Just shave your ajike biko, it must have turned to ajo ofia by now.

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  38. Who would reject 30000dollars for Just a night fuck. Please tell another lie.. This is so fake. That's about 12million naira right now.. And with your predicament you can start selling cars with that money.. This is fake and filled with bullshit.

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    1. You think everyone is like you right?

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    2. Rob, if u got brains, u ll try to figure out why someone would want to pay dat much for ordinary pussy. Na gold dey d pussy ni? But as an ode, u can't think na.

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    3. I rejected it earlier this year and I have rejected more after then and this is another one again and I will reject it. The society is so full of evil vices and I am so afraid of exchanging myself for spiritual/physical sickness or problems because of money. I have a girl to live for. My prayer for you is not to encounter such in life.

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    4. If not you. I will reject more than $30k for such lustful acts of sex.
      That's if you are alive or wholly healthy to enjoy a cent of it.
      Greed

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  39. oh my God! what a narrative. I pray favour comes your way soon. pls do not be tempted to give in to that man before u will go and carry problem that is not your own.

    If u had snooped im sure u wuld have seen all those issues with ur Ex before it exploded in your face. ladies pls do not believe everything a man says, hook, line and sinker. Some men can lie o, that is why I always laugh at women dat boast unneccesarily over their husbands. "he cant do dis, he cant do that". Na siddon look i dey

    I am TeamSnoop because I once dated a liar from the pit of hell............literally. Snooping is not for the fainthearted oo but it sure does save one from unncessary wahala in the future. i do not like suprises biko. Poster, May God help you to find your feet. It is well. Go to ur uni and previous schools to request for your documents.

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    1. What if she snooped and didn't see anything. Some men are good at what they do.

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    2. Thanks Kimberly, you are on point.

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  40. Poster first thing first, go and change your line and stay far, i mean very far from that pastor or prophet. The man is fake, he want to pimp you. Please don't be tempted to go and see that man! Those are among the people that uses people destiny.

    And please, remove the thoughts of prostitution and lesbianism from your mind. How could you even think of doing such after going for fasting and prayers, and also believing God that you have been saved.
    God will answer you, in fact, He has already answered your prayers. Some offers are too good to be true.
    I feel bad for your situation, but i thank God on your behalf. For keeping yourself, that is a pass mark.
    Have faith in God, for He will answer your earnest plea.
    Go back to the University you graduated from and ask for the backup of your certificate. There is no way they will not have a copy of it.
    May God Almighty see you through and send helpers your way.

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  41. Let Ur Faith be more than Ur fears.

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  42. My dear don't pick the man call again. God is not author of confusion. Pray more for grace to keep on trusting God. Not all men of God are from God. You are about getting your breakthrough. Holdon

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  43. Joblessness can make you want to kill yourself. I experience something similar to her story. I have refused to trade my body too but my kids needs to go back to school. It's not easy. Thank you Stella. I will send my own success story one day.

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  44. All these fake hello pastor, only God will help the congregation. word of advice not only to the lady but guys too always scan ur docs/credentials and save it in ur mail box.

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  45. Reuben Abati second o. Chai, I tried reading all cha. My dear, the Lord is your strength. Don't give up on doing good girl, God have a reward for that. And for that man, delete him asap, he is up for something. Why can't he help if he can than giving condition. May God locate you soon.

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  46. Wolves in sheep clothing. Please no true man of His will try to pimp a woman! Avoid those men. You can get something from your school as per your certificates.It's possible. You toucheI paid my widow mite some weeks back. Praying for a successful program and all the very bestd me what with your story. Please hold on, God will come through for you.
    Tee

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  47. Hmmmm! Dear lord lead us not into temptation, this looks too good to be true, am man that wants to help u doesn't even need to see u most times just Ur details is OK. The amount he promised is way too suspicious abeg, my sis I know it looks hard but run. Am sure the pastor connived with the man and rituals is going to be involved. All this kind pastors, it is well.

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  48. Aunty. You sent message to yourself to use style to beg. Study the two messaging styles. Bye.

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  49. Pls run from that pastor n that man.
    Help is on the way.
    But why not go back to your school n get another copy of your result ? You can get it if you want to.

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  50. Thank you stella for your advice to this lady. Baby girl, wipe your tears. Same thing Potipher's wife did to Joseph daily but he refused, ended in prison falsely accused, forgotten by men . . . but what happened . . . "remembered" by God and became a king in Egypt; a foreign land where he was a slave prisoner!

    Lady, let not your heart envy sinners but be in the fear of the Lord all the day long for surely there is an end and your expectations shall not be cut off.

    If Joseph had yielded to Satan, his inheritance would have been stolen. Now let's see Psalm seventy three; take time to meditate on this psalm.

    12This is what the wicked are like—
    always free of care, they go on amassing wealth.
    13Surely in vain I have kept my heart pure
    and have washed my hands in innocence.
    14All day long I have been afflicted,
    and every morning brings new punishments.
    15If I had spoken out like that,
    I would have betrayed your children.
    16When I tried to understand all this,
    it troubled me deeply
    17till I entered the sanctuary of God;
    then I understood their final destiny.
    18Surely you place them on slippery ground;
    you cast them down to ruin.
    19How suddenly are they destroyed,
    completely swept away by terrors!
    20They are like a dream when one awakes;
    when you arise, Lord,
    you will despise them as fantasies.

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  51. How come both you and d man just happen to be using Airtel?

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  52. These people are ritualistic, they don't mean well. Run away from them. Go back to your school and request for your certificates, you would get it and help would be proffered through your story.
    Stella, please when you have verified and you're assured of the authenticity of this lady and her story. Do something for her. Open an account and put someone you trust in charge of it, let people begin to donate their widow's mite. By the time 100 people give 1k each, that's a 100k, clothes, food, vocational and business support, employment opportunities and so many other things that would change her life...she won't consider that man again.

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    1. Yes o.
      Even 1k from 30 people sef... can start something. I support this idea.

      But madam, you need to go to a Bible-believing church where you can be sure that the badluck is gone forever oooo. Unless all work done hereforth will turn to zero!

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  53. And since March? We are in Sept. Is he still disturbing you? Go to your school and collect certified copies of your results aunty, and find a job. We ain't contributing shishi. Mentioning James name won't make us contribute any faster

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  54. Any help u get, pls go to your school and apply for a new cert or statement of result, it's not difficult.

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  55. It is well,d lord u believe in will see u through and all your lost will be returned in ten folds(amen)

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  56. First get another copy of your transcripts and school results from your school.

    This deal is with rituals setting...they know you won't be missed, you are a good candidate.

    They have HIV

    Run.

    Remain resolute...joy cometh in the morning.

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  57. She hasn't shaved in 2years cracked me up seriously. Woman, u must be carrying a forest down there. Wat a sad story. Dear Stella I volunteer to sow a fone into her life. Trust me woman u will come out victorious. All you need is afresh start.

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  58. Yoruba men are destiny killers,very unfaithful,fetish anď lazy bastàrds.

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  59. I'm sorry but why does the date read March while we are in September? #confused#

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  60. Good afternoon dear.. I was indeed touched and all I can say is God is on the throne and he never forsake those who diligently seek it. Don't know how to get across to you. Would really love to talk with you.

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  61. Poster I can so relate with ur story, your daughter is even agemate with mine.
    We are in the same shoes. May help locate you.

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  62. Poster,follow your instincts,do not succumb to the wimps and caprices of some mischievious elements.....Be thankful for life and your little one.Once there's life,there's still hope...

    Go back to your school and retrieve your certificates.Talk to your friends or don't you have female friends as well?

    Butiii that Pubic beard gang you've been grooming for two years is out of this world mehn......Sambisa forest within your pubic vicinity,you sure our chibok girls are not lurking around somewhere?

    Anyways,you would be fine at the end.....God will never give you more than you can handle.If you face a big challenge,you have a big destiny...

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  63. I did not finished the reading. What I know is that your husband placed a curse on you. You did not take it seriously feeling oyiboish.

    Better go for deliverance so that things can get better for you. If you are interested let me know because before 3 months your story go change.

    Next time when they curse you take it serious and begin to send such curse back. It is well. Una dey suffer no be small

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  64. Wao ooooo ur story mk me cry, don't give up dear, cos it will surly end in praise, ok I luv ur courage.

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  65. SDK I feel you should be able to recognize a scam when u see one. This up here is a well planned scam. The phone 'she' is using is Whatsapp enabled. That message layout displayed up there from an android phone. Why did 'she' bring the story here if 'she' doesn't need money from us? Okay, are we supposed to advice 'her' to give in to the man or continue rotting iin poverty? The scammer knows that 'she' will get money if the story is posted.

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    1. Complete scam..this bvs are surprisingly gullible...lol

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    3. Thank u anon, Na only u get head, I said it dat it's a scam, I know this story is as fake as the poster, Stella stop falling for these scammers, they are taking advantage of ur simplicity.

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    4. Allow Stella carry out her own investigations

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    5. Anony @16:35 I get what you're trying to say about the android phone but maybe when she said her phone isn't "whatsapp enabled" she meant she can't afford the data charges and didn't download the app?

      To be honest, I feel for the person but with the numerous scams that unscrupulous riff-raffs have perpetuated now, one can't help but be cautious when it comes to believing such tales! Sad times we live in now.

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    6. Thank you very much. I'm glad someone else saw through this story.

      Tight Format.

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  66. That pastor is a pimp.Please stop seeing him o,whether he has even arranged to sell this poor woman for rituals,nobody knows.Please stop associating with the pastor for your own good.I have been through this so i know how it feels.Its sad that many men render help to a lady only when they are sure of sleeping with her.We live in a sick,twisted world.Just keep your head up,and believe that this too shall pass.Your story would soon change for the better.
    On a lighter note,that your ex husband na Chief impregnator o!See how d guy just dey multiply the earth on top e joblessness!

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  68. To be frank this story did not do anything for me. The lady came across in a manner that is not pleasing at all. The story also has so many holes just like kanye west's clothing line
    (1)she opened by saying she is not asking for help that she has options. I read the chronicle from start to finish and i didn't see any of the "options" she talked about, unless she is talking about the car dealer, then i asked myself, if she is already taking that as an option, why then is she asking for our opinion.
    (2)she said she is a 2:1 graduate but her ex destroyed her certificate so she can't look for a good job, but that got me scratching my head because replacing the certificate is really very easy, she just had to go to her school and apply( a friend of mine did it at little or no cost with just an affidavit from the court ) and lets say she was even told to pay before the certificate will be replaced i don't think that whatever amount she was asked to pay will be too much for someone with 8 figure in her account(that is nothing less than #10,000,000)
    (3)That screen grabbed message between her and a supposed man can easily be sent by any person. she can even be the one sending both messages using different phones. That cannot even begin to serve as evidence.
    (4)I can't even wrap my head around a 2:1 graduate not even bothered about her certificate(I expect her to have questions about how to go about replacing the certificate if she is), i know jobs are so difficult to find these days but she would have been able to find at least a teaching job with that certificate.
    I am not trying to rain on her parade here but i am just saying it as i see it. There are numerous people who are genuinely looking for help out there, i don't just think think this is one of them.
    BTW: Not cutting your pubic hair for two years does not in any way indicate that you are closing your legs to sex it just indicates a really poor personal hygiene( i cringed when i read that)

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  69. This lady is smart trying to solicit for help... Nice gimmick Nigerians are gullible anyway. Enjoy I know someone will help you here...

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  70. See my problem ?
    How do u know the real from fake pastors this days
    So confusing
    Lord have mercy on us

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  71. Hian,I nukwa good girl.I raise Beyonce hands for you.You've not had sex for the past two years going to three? Wonderful!! Madam,hope this your good girl pays off o,else eh? Make I no talk.
    You have a 3 year old daughter to take care of,you can barely take care of yourself,hmm.
    Pastor,aka pimp,one of the reasons I never trust these Pastors.
    It's well with you madam.

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  72. It is well with you poster. Heaven will open unto you in Jesus name. Amen

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  73. If u want to bust this scammer, tell her to send her CV, that u want to employ her not minding absence of her certificates. Or you tell her to come and see you, that you have a job for her.

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  74. Stella Pls display her acc details, I believe sdkers can help in their little ways. Helping is not only when it comes to physically sick ppl, helping her out will save her from being ruined. My dear Pls don't visit dt man, he is evil.

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  75. The offer of $10000 and $30000 dollars seems too good to be true o.In this recession? Something doesn't add up except the person ismMark Zukerberg.

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  76. Yes anon 16:35, Stella should know a scam due to experience. I wonder why she posted this. Abi na juju. This story looks suspicious. You didn't ask for help in getting your result from your former school or plead for a job, instead na cock and bull story you dey talk. That phone is a tablet or android phone or even Blackberry. I can relate with that message format.

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  77. My dear sister really feel ur pains but I beg u In Jesus Name do not call the pastor or the man again, u don't have to go to any mountain before God will answer ur prayers...pray to God urself.
    The the way devil works at the verge of one's blessing, pls be patient with God he remembered Joseph he will definitely remember you.
    It is well with you In Jesus Name.

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  78. My Dear,
    It is well with you IJN.
    Firstly, stay far far away from the Pastor and Mr. Rich man. Why should a man who has never seen or met you want to sleep with you and offer so much money? Is there a shortage of babes in Lagos? Did you ask your Pastor to set you up on a date? Something sounds fishy. Don't let them compound your problems.
    Just like Job in the Bible was tried, you are going through a trial. Do not waver in your faith.
    Secondly, please be aware. You can get copies of your certificates from your university. But, go there in person. Letters via mail may not be attended to.
    Lastly, there are three very important steps to take when looking for favor from God
    PRAYER, FASTING & ALMS GIVING. Do these things for 3 consecutive days. Pray at midnight and again 3am.
    But, LADY, YOU ARE TOO TOO GULLIBLE and that is the root of all you problems. He wants to lick two holes 😳......but maybe he has no bad intentions. Ok oh!
    God Bless, you. Be strong. Resist temptations.

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  79. I believed this story a bit till I saw the messages,big lies they were made up, how can a man offer u this amount , someone he has never seen just like that? Not like u r classy or he has seen u ,this is a scam .trust me Stella this is a scam,this person is looking for money indirectly here.

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  80. My dear, don't succumb. The feelings will pass. Konji no dey Kill. They want to steal your destiny. It's a lie and set up. Don't do it. God will Honor you and settle you soon. It is a trap, your sunshine is around the corner. This is you last test. Don't fail, Be strong. $30,000 is a bloody lie. It is a bait to death. The devil is liar, h promises and does not keep. One Sex exposure can shangri-la the course of your life forever. Honor God, whether he is married or not, it was a set up. It may even just be a test. Be warned oo, don't open the doors shut through the deliverance to the devil again. Instead let's help you get started here on SDK, it's OK to ask for help. Much love.

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  81. I'm sorry but why does the date read March while we are in September? #confused# meanwhile the phone you are using looks like and Android and is definitely what's app enabled. This looks fake. My spirit tells me it's fake!!!

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  82. Stella dear, I suggest you try to verify this story. Also look at the writing pattern on the two text messages. The screen shots are also from a good phone

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  83. I would love to be your friend, can I pls get your wassup number through Stella? Pls.
    *God bless my Angel in human form*

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  84. Stella, this story reeks of lies. First she said she doesn't have a whatsapp enabled phone but the munched chat is from whatsapp. This is coded begging and that's the type of begging I dislike. Whoever sent this knows that Bvs are sentimental, she's just trying to prey on the emotions of Bvs in order to defraud them. Like Stella always says, if you need help don't be shy about asking for help. Enough with the lies.

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  85. Anon 16:22 Debi ekuse oo. Keep pitying urself and soliciting for help in anon mode. This might even be a yahoo boy. They are very good in writting long epistle like this about sickness, widow and inheritance.

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  86. My dear, don't do it! Go to your school, you will get something as per the certificate. God will lift you up and that man will need you one day. Things work in mysterious ways. "God girl" no de pay, yes, that's what the world has made it look like in more ways than one but eventually, God remembers good. Period!

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  87. Anon 16:22 Debi ekuse oo. Keep pitying urself and soliciting for help for yourself in anon mode. This might even be a yahoo boy. They are very good in writting long epistle like this about sickness, widow and inheritance.

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  88. I dnt kno why i dnt believe dis story

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  89. it seems some Bvn's are mumu, as regards the person asking why the sender and the receiver of that message are using airtel,if I send u a text on your Mtn line abeg se na glo sim e go show.

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  90. Poster nice try but u failed. This is a scam,those messages are doctored by u obviously and the phone you got his from is definitely android. You want people to contribute money to ur cause and want to play on the good girl image to make it look like you could have gotten it else where? Shior! Shebi u said u even googled how to go into lesbianism or runs,how come this one that fell into ur lap u are refusing. Negodu! U feel say u don jam mugu bvs abi? Tueh

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  91. Hmmmm,Oga o, I have someone going through something like this too, olorun ayi igba pada si rere.

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  92. This was in march and this is September, big scam

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  93. STELLA STELLA STELLA!!!! HOW MANY TIMES DID I CALL YOU? I DO NOT BRLIEVE THIS STORY ONE BIT AND YOU THIS POSTER THAT SENT THIS STORY IN TO SCAM PEOPLE OF THEIR MONEY AT THIS TIME, ANY KOBO CONTRIBUTED FOR YOU WILL BE SPENT ON CANCER TREATMENT FOR YOU AND YOU WILL STILL DIE. YOU ARE VERY WICKED. GOD PUNISH YOU

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  94. STELLA STELLA STELLA!!!! HOW MANY TIMES DID I CALL YOU? I DO NOT BRLIEVE THIS STORY ONE BIT AND YOU THIS POSTER THAT SENT THIS STORY IN TO SCAM PEOPLE OF THEIR MONEY AT THIS TIME, ANY KOBO CONTRIBUTED FOR YOU WILL BE SPENT ON CANCER TREATMENT FOR YOU AND YOU WILL STILL DIE. YOU ARE VERY WICKED. GOD PUNISH YOU

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  95. Hmmmm. No be small thing o. From the whole narratuin , I can tell your husband is either from ondo state or from ekiti state. Their men and families are terrible like that especially if you are not from their side. Them fit impregnate like 5 women at a go and they can so liiiiieeee.

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  96. @ Poster may your helper locate you.
    Favour will surely locate
    Your blessings & testimony is loading.
    Keep trusting God..


    Please call Stella,as she said..
    Good luck dear..
    It is well.

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  97. My own observations us that from girlhood womens rights are ripped. It's automatic that those who comply for the sake of peace will meet other abusers.
    Learn to love yourself and stand for your worth.
    No liar manipulators have the right to destroy you. Respect yourself.

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  98. The country is getting tough, therefore people will come up with all sorts. I do t believe this story- not because it is impossible(things like this are very possible); but this one looks like a well- thought out way to get money from people. Poster made the story long and spicy in a bid to engage readers and attract sympathy. I know you will get help here. Good luck to you and please spend the money wisely. Don't also forget that "wayo money nor de last".
    I'm entitled to my opinion, so please save your cusses. The way you aired your opinion is the same way I'm airing mine.

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  99. Stellz please what's her number? How can one reach her?

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  100. I am thinking same thing here @anon16:35 may God help us not to fall, but poster if your story is truth go back to the University you graduated from for reissue of your certificate.

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  101. My dear it is well God will answer ur prayer pls dont pick d man call and don't go back to that pastor again

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  102. first of, a phone that shows msgs like this is definitely whatsapp enabled.

    secondly, your school can give you copies of your certificate which you can validate as 'certified true copy' and they will work as originals for all intents and purpose.

    thirdly, this seems like a beggy post even if you say it is not...anyone can device the above with their friend for the purpose of convincing stella.

    stelz, do yourself a favour.,,.remember how we verified the issue of one boy that wasn't going to school a while back? lets verify this one that way too...let BVNs go to her residence and confirm all these vo i van see your heart is melting and you are ready to help otherwise chronicles will now officialy turn to 'sob stories or money'

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  103. This story is fake jor.....nice try lol

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  104. No one wil dare seize my credentials dt i suffered al those yrs to get.hw can he seize ur docs n u just didnt do notin abt it?wat happened to settin him ablaze?y didnt u involve d police?wat happend to takin him to court?y didnt ur family summon him to produce ur docs?fake story.

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  105. Hmm. My dear, it is well with you.
    You have stood for The Lord, He will stand for you. For your shame, He will give you double. He will fulfill the desires of your heart, He will hear your cry and will save you.
    It is well with you!

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  106. It is well with you poster...this really touched me to the bone marrow. The Bible says our heavenly father clothes and feeds the birds of the air. How much more you and your daughter who are of more value to God than the birds.
    Keep holding on and trusting God with his words.the darkest hour comes close to dawn....I believe this is your darkest hour. It can go worse than this as your dawn is already here. Cheer up start thanking God for bringing you to your dawn.
    It is well with you and your daughter. I'll say a prayer for you and your angel

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  107. My dear pls don't give in to the pressure. It's not the will of God. Your miracle is just around the corner. God’s is able to do what He says pls believe in him.

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  108. I wonder what kind of pastor that gives out his member's contact without her consent and also advises her to spend the weekend with a man she barely knows. My dear look before you leap,I think this is a trap

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