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Friday, 23 September 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
BUSINESS BETRAYAL NUMERO UNO

Stellz

I just have to get this off my chest as it has been weighing me down.

So I have this friend who sometime early this year came and told me her company was laying off people at the end of that month and as such she was scared if her name would be on the list. I advised that this was the right time for her to think of a Plan B. Get another source of income I said. I mapped out something I knew she loved doing and told her to give it a trial. Instead of doing it for free you can now charge a token for it I said. She was very happy and thanked me. Even if you scale this sack at least U now have something to fall back on. At that time I also was running a small "buy and resell " by the side. At the end of that month she didn't make the sack and thus the biz idea died down. 

At around July(i had not been paid where I work then for 3months) I decided to intensify my own biz. Thanks also to Stella who supported me with a sum, my biz started booming gradually. Like a week later my friend said she was ready to start her own biz . I encouraged her and even followed her to the market. Two weeks after she told me she would love to add my line of biz to hers also. She begged that I showed her the ropes and on the Monday of the Sallah public holiday I took her to meet all my suppliers. She jokingly asked me what my next plans was for the biz and I told her. Told her of how I also planned to go about getting more funds so as to expand and other marketing strategies I had in mind.

The next day being Tuesday I fell very sick and had to be hospitalized till Friday‎. By Monday I found out that my so called friend had started working on all the strategies I told her. She had even gone the extra length of telling my suppliers to contact her directly first when goods arrive. As if that was not enough the channel I wanted to get the funds also had been sabotaged by her.

How can someone just decide to take advantage of another person's openness. Was I wrong in any way? Lord knows the only thing I wanted for her was her own good also. Shey they say the sky is big enough for birds to fly without running into each other. She knows I am going to be out of paid employment at the end of this month and that this biz means everything to me but still she chose to act this way.

To add insult to injury she's forming annoyance with me and is even putting up a bold face like nothing happened.


A part of me wants to bone her also while the God fearing side feels I should let go of the hurt and relate with her like nothing happened.

*Let go of the hurt but do not let her in on anything that concerns you or your business again....Loyalty is rare but in these Buhari times,it is hard to find someone whos honesty is 100percent,people be betraying each other for a plate of ofada rice is just another way to capture your story.
Wise up.


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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
BOYFRIEND ''IN THE ABROAD'' CHRONICLE..


Hi Stella.Can't believe I'm going to be sending my chronicles.Forgive my typo errors as I'm in a confused state right now.                                             

   I met my boyfriend on Instagram last year January and finally met December though he stays in d US met last year when he came.His loving always laughs at my jokes,checks on me always,doesn't want to see me sad talk more of crying. 

I'm sure he loves me and his the first man I've ever loved note that I'm in my middle '20' and I've dated other guys before but never actually loved them as much as I love this guy .

The problem is  when he came back December I travelled down to see him but before then he was complaining he had problems with his account in Nigeria and I should lend him money but because of the love I have for him I had to lend him,travelled down with my money he couldn't even give me money when I left note that I didn't complain cos I trusted him.

I noticed I was pregnant after one month and told him and by then he was still in Nigeria he asked me if I wanted to keep it and I said yes along the line he started acting,refused to take my calls...

 I cried and cried cos I didn't even know anything about him or his house.I removed the baby and tried to move on but April this year he started calling me and apologizing that I should forgive him that he was in a serious mess ,
now tell me the mess he couldn't say.He kept calling along the line I forgave him and we got back together but I lost all trust in him.

 we weren't talking the way we were but I still loved him.He came into the country last week and I went to see him but I was very careful this time around .Stella u need to see all the gifts he got for me to makeup and gave me plenty money when I was leaving..

   I went to church yesterday and the prophet told me he sees him and that the guy is not a straight forward guy plus he sees other women and still pretends to me like I'm the love of his life and that I shouldn't go on with him that I'm going to regret it in the future and that he sees I really love the guy.

Stella I love this guy seriously not for the money cos obviously I was there for him when he was down but my problem is the prophet said everything right except that I haven't noticed if he sees other women but hes never straight forward but I've been thinking I can manage him like that.

 I'm confused I don't know what to do

     Sorry for the lengthy chronicle it's as it is in my heart I poured it here please bear with me .God bless you    


*Manage him?he will get worse!..I am sorry but you do not even need a prohpet to tell you to pick up your shoes and RUN..you should have kept that baby,why did you take it off?.....

You have seen the signs,act wisely my darling!

115 comments:

ukwu dimond said...

CHRONICLES...............

stunning slim shady said...

Kronikles... *smh* but why?

ukwu dimond said...

poster one just let is go, this time around just be careful with who you call your friend.

Blackberry said...

Poster one, no vex, maga fall, guy man chop, ur friend was just smart, so u try and outsmart her too. 'my friend my friend' no follow for business o! Find way n outsmart her too, may d best cunny business woman win.

telema Cr7 present wife(way maker miracle worker,that is who my father in heaven is) said...

Poster 2,The signs are clearly there so what advice are you still looking for?
Pls move on
Poster 1,forgive and forget but stay far from her cos that kind of girl can kill

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Poster 1,
You are so naive!,..
Haven't you heard that you should not take your friend to where your bread is buttered?,..
You are a Maga!...
The deed has been done!...I would advise you stay very far away from this your friend!...
How can you even think of making up with her?or is she your les partner?...

Poster 2,
I feel like slapping you now...
This is someone that weren't there for you when you were pregnant!,..
Are you a child?...
Can't you see he no send you?...
Ewu!...

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Stay away from your friend and next time keep ur business idea to yourself, it seems u talk too much, u obviously don't have a secret.
@2, I hate it when girls fall helplessly in love, don't ever give him money again, keep collecting money from him and keep a side boo, is dangerous for any woman to have only one boy friend, I hate abroad love.

Blackberry said...

Poster two, u mumu ehn, 'I'm sure he loves me' how sure are u? Kai, I hate slow babes ehn! Wtf! He fucked u raw doggy style n poured his akamu inside u, impregnated u, u abort,u gave him money, u transported urself to see him with your money, all with your money, chooooooi, I'm outta here! Can't deal! Hahahahahaha abeg abeg!

White Diamond said...

Poster one: Let it go. There's nothing else you can do. Still keep on doing that same business as long as it pays you. If your former suppliers don't want to work with you anymore, look for new ones. Now you know the kind of person she is. Even if you get back on talking terms with her, never let your guard down around her. Never. Like you said, the sky is big enough. That she did this doesn't mean that you won't get more customers. Goodluck.

Poster two: Oh, you had to wait for a prophet to make you think twice? Issokay! I wonder how you got pregnant for someone whom you know next to nothing about, in the first place. Please, make use of your head ehn? I hope it's not because he's 'in the abroad' that your senses have fled.

#WhiteDiamondOut

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl loves Aeegurl for 24 hours said...

Poster 1- My sister, accept that you weren't wise before you start abusing your friend. People say I'm too paranoid, but that's because I've been stung like this before. In my quiet moments, I took stock my life and accepted my faults too. It's not easy when you always want to help people and they stab you in the back. But this is you first lesson in business: Never let anyone in on your core competence.
Dangote has never really told us how he is the major cement producer in Nigeria, has he? People speculate ABCD. But we don't know how. Alakija hasn't told us how being a seamstress landed her an oil well. After all, Na only she dey sew cloth for those people?
Not everyone has to know your succes secrets. Which is why when I hear people say my friend is rich yet he/she won't let me in. I ignore. Cos letting people in 80% of the time is a flop. And that's cos as STELLA said loyalty is rare.
The God who gave you that idea will give you more. Make she carry go. Don't quarrel with her, but don't hate her. Infact be happy for her. You are the smarter more calculated one. She is the opportunist who doesn't have original ideas. She won't last very long until she needs help again. And I hope by then you will be wise enough to tell her 'I DONT KNOW'. Bear in mind that anything you do henceforth, she will try to copy. Cos she sees you as a threat. So keep your eyes open even at the back of your head. Get well all and good luck!!


As for poster 2- I have made up my mind to start ignoring silly chronicles. 😊

Anonymous said...

I guess poster 2 should have patience ,wait while you play along.

Lizzy T said...

Poster 2, the only word that I saw boldly in ur write up is "Manage". How can you manage a man in this times we are currently facing. We are still trying to manage the wind of change and you want to add manage man to your own management list? Abeg drop him from that list, stop loving him, chop his money well well afterall he has chopped your own money too and when you are done walk away with your belly full. Don't mind those that wld say why did you remove the baby, many of them have been there before o, someone that keeps popping pills and you that went under the knife is the same thing, one was just wiser to do it fast enough.

Poster 1, na today u sabi say nyash dey back? That's why I find it hard to keep friends attimes. Humans are becoming disloyal by the second. Pele, just dust up and move on. You are the one with the main idea, just think of how to improve on your strategy or you re-strategize. When she realizes her mistake, you would ve upped your game far higher than hers. Don't let this discourage you from friends, just wise up about what you tell them.

stunning slim shady said...

Poster 2: u r not only desperate for a yanky hubby, u r also greedy and u called it Love. Longer throat for green card n greener pastures. So @ midlle "20", ds d 1st guy u r loving, I see! Ngwanu clap for ursef.

*smh* Am sorry f u: just hear ursef "..but my problem is the prophet said everything right except that I haven't noticed if he sees other women but hes never straight forward but I've been thinking I can manage him like that."

Mschew u deserve resetting slaps n blow πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠπŸ‘Š. With ppl like u there will Neva be an end to chronicles.

Onyi Ekeh said...

Instagram kwa...
abroad based
you got pregnant he stayed off you
when he found out you terminated he became apologetic
came back with gifts for you so he can eat more cookies
you went to see a prophet to clarify the signs you yourself had already seen?
i just pray you dont terminate again for him
those who have experience advise more....
run without looking back

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl loves Aeegurl for 24 hours said...

She's smarter tHan her so no need to compete with her. And the friend knows 😊

Falcon said...

Poster 1: Sometimes is good to keep somethings to yourself. Anyway like you said the sky is big enough for everyone, this time around be wise and don't forget to be smart.

ukwu dimond said...

poster 2 you said prophet told you blah blah blah you better be careful with this prophet talk, you said you want to manage d guy cos you love him ko? are you a manager that you want to manage him? give yourself some sense and focus on important things. once ladies hear that a guy is in obodo oyibo they will just fall yakata for the maga, the maga will smoke your ass and forget about you. you better just keep him far from your heart. you can be pretending to love him just be collecting his money and gifts so that you will not do two zero. later biko.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2 is the typical "foolish girl". When you say someone is in USA, the next question I ask is "doing what?". Isn't it the same USA I live in? You start dating and you begin to open legs. once you get pregnant, you remember that you "don't even know his house"?

Now, Who has killed a child; an innocent child? Did your prophet see that you are a murderer or he sees only boyfriends? If so; dump both prophet and toyfriend! Who is confused, depressed, sending chronicles? Whose womb is compromised? Who is afraid of the burning hell?

Girl, repent and dump that your "toy prophet and toyfriend".

PLATINUM said...

Poster two, that guy might genuinely love you then again he might not. You dont need a prophet to tell u shi* go n ur knees n tlk to ur almighty father. Dont completely through that guy out the door like that, i knw we are always quick to scream leave him,run on this blog bt its not always easy, if he isnt a serious person God will reveal to u bt at the same time keep ur eyes open.
Poster one your problem is that u trusted the wrong person, this is 2016 person no de carry another person go wer dem dey butter im bread, i trust that u are a very industrious person therefore i believe that u will def get bck on ur feet, bt before then, stylishly the cut that friend out of ur life, as she de form vex so u too vex join her, do ur own tins, go to ur suppliers and talk to them, tell them that u guys had a fall out n that anytime there is a business they shud contact u directly, double ur hustle n i promise u that she will come bck with her tsils btw her legs, bt dont get bitten a second time, be as wise as serpent n as gentle as a dove. Onye nya na ekwensu na eri nri na eji ogonogo ngazi. Becareful

kazzy prisca said...

Poster ii did he tell you what he do for a living better leave him.befor he pregnant you again and y will you abort ur child?

Anonymous said...

1. You be learner. You still want to be friends? Ya cuppa tea.
2. Kwantinu. You have seen the signs, but the thing still dey do you abi? When you get broken don't comman send foolish chronicles. Mtcheeew

Anonymous said...

To poster one:

Romans 12:17 Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,”[d] says the Lord. 20 On the contrary:

“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”[e]
21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

Anonymous said...

Some one I love and trust so much really hurt me yesterday.Dear.....,just knw u got me really angry and yes that was y I took u off Bbm.btw....i hav decided to stop goin out of my way to make u happy since u are unappreciating.
I know u wil definitely read this but I just bore my mind.*okbye*

stunning slim shady said...

Poster: dat ur friend is a Frenemy but u sef why did u open all ur "privates" down for her? Anyways d deed is done already; I think u shud pour out ur heart to her n let her know how u feel then severe evry form of relationship wt her... Ciao.

Sunny said...

Poster 1: this is the more reason you don't tell friends everything about you. Yes you hoped for the better but it turned out this way. Sorry about that

Poster 2: the signs are glaring but you still want to manage him like that? Kwantinue, we shall be expecting another chronicle.

Anonymous said...

POSTER 2 IS A FOOLISH LADY:

If "he is in a mess" and came back with "plenty of money" then you have received "messed up money". You have messed up your womb, self esteem, prestige, hands (full of innocent blood), and messed up your eternity too. Jesus blood is there to cleanse you if you repent.

And do dump both this boy and that "prophet" that do not tell you about your sins but only sees boyfriends for you. Eternity is real!

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Poster 2 u are on our own oooo poster 1 dat ur friend is a jezebel.

Anonymous said...

I follow u go out

Rosie and kids said...

Poster 1 No friends for me after being betrayed by someone very close to me in the office.I still feel the pain deep in my heart.How people are worst than the devil himself.

Poster 2 Take this hot resetting slap!!!! How can you manage him like that? are you for real or is he the only man in the world.You better put on your running shoes else don't send in another chronicles of jilted house wife in few months.

Ibukunoluwa said...

Poster 1- e dey happen
Frenemy
Poster 2- let me borrow u my legs so u can run faster

DonMayor said...

Poster one why are you giving out your business plan?? You messed up there.
Put that your friend at arm length.

Anonymous said...

poster1..forgive but don't forget
poster2...ur mumu dey smell...as Instagram man no go kill u I no no wetin go kill u...And Stella u keep saying keep d child na u wan train d pikin...

DonMayor said...

I don't know what to tell you @ poster one

Loveme Jeje said...

Poster 1..... kai na your story dem share for church yesterday. Dont tell your friend, family your next line of action because they will lead you to lose your God's given destiny and ideas. Painful it has happened. Next time kEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT. You are lucky she no even kill you join self.

If you have any business idea, keep telling it to God Almighty.

Poster 2.... Abeg leave that abroad guy. Na your type my aunty in the village dey call abroadian lol

Anonymous said...

Poster 1,please,let go of the hurt and forgive her. Don't let her in on anything pertaining you and your business.

Poster 2, Sorry darling,that man doesn't love or care about you. Let him go.

Daisee.... said...

Poster 1,just do as Stella says. Forgive her, but don't let her in on your plans anymore.
Poster 2, you shouldn't have removed that baby. The guy obviously doesn't love you. A guy who loves you wouldn't act the way he did. Forget about the money or the gifts. All is just to fool you. Be wise

Empress CHO said...

Poster 1: Hello!!!!!
You are still considering still continuing the communication with that frenemy of yours.
I am sorry, i know you are hurting but well, you strike me as someone who is...naive, trusting, has a problem with defining boundaries, senselessly selfless, in need of validation, a pleaser and has self-esteem issues. It is clear to see with people who latch on too closely with another in the name of friendship and it's misguided obligations.
But then, i applaud the fact that you have a good heart and that alone counts for so much.

Now you need to get your brain out of the lala land of female friendship where there is all rainbows, candies, pink, more pink, lovely shoes, selfies, nice outings and cool talks. Great! But hey, this is reality.... Your "friend" is your RIVAL.

Make no mistake about brushing this over.....as you are considering. If you let this pass, you have established yourself as a person who is a footmat, can be ridiculed and forever taken for granted. You further downgrade your self-esteem and confidence. That would definitely leave you open to more hurt, gift you with an abnormal high threshold for il-treatment and, trust me...it will spillover into relationships with men. In the long run,you will realise that people who have no boundaries have a greater chance of embracing suicide.

Your frenemy sees nothing wrong with what she's done and puts up attitude coz she has absolutely no regard for you, envisions herself to be in a better place than you, expects you to be a tag-along friend to her divalicious self and for you to always take second place. Give yourself brain, take stock of that friendship, decide it is over.....you can do it!
Revenge will not give you closure. Learn the lesson here, never go all out for people, keep your strength secret, accept the fact that there is evil in everyone and let that guide your interactions,develop yourself mentally so you will never be this person who sent this story again....It is great she did this now, when you have little. Believe me, you do not know what God has done for you exposing that fakeass, coz something great is coming your way and she isn't supposed to be around you when that happens.
You got delivered!.....Congrats.

Poster 2: All these social media contracted relationships...well?
Stop catching feelings and move on from that guy.
You are terribly weak and emotionally malleable... Lovrboy threw some attention , was non-chalant about your pregnancy and health....then re-appears with gifts and you went bonkers.
Then a prophet's opinions spins your thoughts and decisions around......you are such a girl.
Grow up and woman up!

Anonymous said...

I be guy ooo, but some girls mumu sha...is it interiority complex or the sex is good?

MrsB said...

I actually agree with you today. Poster 1 stay far away. Someone like this would kill without batting an eyelid because in my opinion, someone who blocks your means of livelihood can kill you. Do not make up with her.
Poster 2, you don't need a prophet to tell you to move on.

Samuel Jackson said...

Poster 2, shie you want to be second wife abi?
Perhaps you just love him for the papers! The signs are all over, you really don't need a prophet to tell you anything because its all over in your post.
Abeg manage am so that we go read anoda chronicle tomorrow!
Women will see signs and be blinded by love! Who love epp when it's all shades of wrong and deceits?

JOYOUS said...

poster one, confront her and tell her that u didnt like what she did to you then you forgive her and wisen up cos no sentiments in business o....poster two pls listen to stella n run for ur dear life hw can he abandon you when u needed him the most, what if you died during the abortion who will he be begging now..my dear RUN!

madam said...

Poster 1.. Forgive and forget
Poster 2... You do not need a prophet to tell you that the guy is fake. You can actually see for yourself if you pray to God to show you who your boy friend is.

Vivilicious said...

P2, how naive can you be? So, you are waiting till you actually see him date other woman before you realize he no send you abi. Do you even need to be told by a prophet. You are seeing the signs and you still dey 'chook' head. Exactly what kind of advice do you want now?

Robyna Fenty said...

Posted 1: Nothing wrong in helping a friend but you shldnt have disclosed all your intentions to her seeing as she was getting into the same line of business as you. Your "friend" isnt a nice person but I'll put the blame on you. At least you've learnt from this. Be friends with her but don't tell her anything about your business again.
Poster 2: You don't need a prophet to tell you that he is bad news. He knew you were pregnant and abandoned you. He only came back cos of you had an abortion. He isn't a reliable man. I dont want to judge you for getting pregnant for someone whose house you didn't even know like you said, but next time use the morning after pill. Postinor 2 is #450. There is really is no excuse for an unwanted pregnancy. It seems like you got carried away cos he stayed abroad. Leave him. Long distance relationships hardly work.

Obyst said...

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poshcupid..contact us for affordable 1 and 2 bedroom flats in kubwa abuja.07054581038. said...

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Chidinma Grace said...

N2, u re a big MUMU n N1, don't beat urself up for being nice. Just don't tell her anything abt biz ideas again. Do ur thing n outshine her. Goodluck

Anonymous said...

i use to have a friend like that, i just distance myself from her, we still chat once in a while, this one will take what belongs to you and still see it as God's blessing even give testimony. i pick race.

Emilia Peter said...

Poster1 forgive her but don't let her know ur plans again biko. Poster2 I feel like giving u hard knock on ur head.

Miracle Brown said...

There is no sent I meant in business. Forgive your friend but try to out start her.

Beautiful and GIFTED said...

POSTER ONE: Yes, you were wrong. Coming to this Lagos has thought me a lot. Don't tell shit to even your blood sister. My dear, times are hard and the hearts of men are getting even more deadly.

WHAT TO DO: Bone her. Forgive her. But please relate with her with the proverbial long spoon that people eat with the Devil with. Don't beef her but keep your distance. As revenge, THINK, THINK and THINK. The ideas you gave her came from your head abi? Then chill and ask God for more inspiration. Still in that Business, she'll see you soaring and her conscience won't let her ask you 'how far' again. Don't forget to LOVE her in the process.

chikavincent1 said...

1 Taking your friend to where ur bread is butter Na wa for you thankGod ur eyes done clear now. 2 it is well with you o u berra wise up collect Enough money and find your way...

Beautiful and GIFTED said...

POSTER 2: seriously???

Ok, scratch that. I get how we ladies are soft and very unreasonable whenever we're in love. But please when dealing with men USE YOUR HEAD. Don't ever trust your heart with especially Nigerian men. 1 + 1 will always be two. Don't ever expect a miracle to change it to 3. I'm not saying this cos of what your prophet said. God has given us all we need to make the right choices so we don't really need prophets. Our problem is the fact that we're too sentimental. Again, USE YOUR HEAD.

Anonymous said...

Sometimes eh, your English can be sooo wrong.

Which is someone that weren't there for you?

Pls stop speaking all this yeye grammar abeg am sure you are a university graduate.

Woke up sad said...

I only meet married men these day , I am 32 and I need to settle. I have never dated married men before can't start now. God help me and I am smallish

mama wonder said...

Poster 2,u be mumu,u loaned him money,plus u opened ur legs for him to dive into u bare and got u pregnant???? U get mind oh! All these abroad guys that commit here and there. Nawah!

Anonymous said...

Poster 1:Like Stella said,let go of the hurt.Greet am well no mean say make u tell am tinz.Karma is knocking at her door.kpo kpo kpo

Cynthia said...

Poster 1 God will an idea DAT will make your bigger and dan hers
Honest ppl are scares as madam Stella ppl can betray demselve for a plate of ofada rice
Poster 2 i stopped reading in the middle
I just wish you well

Juliet Johnson said...

Poster one don't do anything. Just continue wit ur business I give her 1yr she would close up. U can nva progress wen u hurt pple just to get to the top.God is not sleeping.

Anonymous said...

Poster 1 have u read The mafia manager?
Poster 2 na wa is all I can say

Fierce of SDK blog said...

Hehehehehehehe you're cray as wear,you painted a very vivid picture in my head,I actually saw the guy pouring the 'akamu' The babe is naive and foolish is all I can say.

Fire cracker said...

Your advice to poster one is spot on. I wish blogs had a like button.

Jasmine said...

Poster 1: that your friend is a wicked fellow. Just avoid her. Her business will fail.


Poster 2: even without the prophet saying anything, u don't know u'll run? Stay na. U never chichomthing

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Poster 1, learn from your mistake and move on, remember once bitten, forever shy!!!!!

Excuse yourself from that relationship.

Fire cracker said...

Something tells me poster 2 will ignore the advice that's being dished out here. From her post you'll know that.

Bolty said...

Poster 1: Sometimes is good to keep your plans to yourself. You've said it all the sky is big enough for everyone.

Poster 2. Just follow Stella red pen.

Rolls-Royce said...

Poster one.... Sorry ehn. But come what may, you are older than her in the business therefore it shouldn't be difficult for you to look for another apain way to outsmart her. All you have to do is use your head. THINK
Poster two.... Na wa o, won't you just calm down and Wait for a decent gentleman to come your way? Because he just got back and gave you plenty gift and plenty money you think you've arrived. I'm sure he will also give you plenty pwick and when he nacks you another pregnancy with the pwick, you will use part of the plenty money he gave you to terminate it AGAIN. God!! Why do girls think money and petty gift is everything?

rillyniddy said...

Poster 2..keep loving him until u remove your womb for him, am very sure u will get pregnant again and u abort again as he has shower u with gift Nw u will open ur punani and hang leg for window for him to browse you. Some ladies got chicken brain. That man does not love you stop deceiving urself
Poster 1. Please stay away from that kind of friend because she might snatch your husband in future, wise up gal.

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Poster2: you are just stupid n dumb.... Receive sense 😠

IJAY said...

Poster 2, it is obvious now I don't think the guy is a straight forward person, poster 1, you can still make it in the business seems you started it first, jus be careful of such friends please

Anonymous said...

Cant deal with what?dont be soo quick to judge others..havent u read whr d bible say" let him to think he stands take heed b4 he falls?" Its people like you with all your mouth that makes mistakes u nvr tot u would make.

Dani_Tuny said...

poster one, just let go. but never ever trust her again. don't even let her know your next step. cos she will come back again when d chips are down
poster two, is it "the abroad" that is shacking you abi na wetin? of course he has other girls now. what do you expect? how well do you know his family? he might even be married for all we know. he has a white woman over there. be kiafull!

chiamaka said...

Poster2: baby why do you want to hurt your self so bad? Leave that guy pls so you can be found by a man who is worthy of your love. Mrs korkus you rock!!

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Confidence comes not from always being right, but from not fearing being wrong*

Anonymous said...

I love this comment

DOMINA said...

All of you that say mu prophet said this, my prophet said that, make una continue.

Can't you seek God's face? Dunno what kind of church or where yoh guys meet all these prophets

Mrs. Romas said...

Poster1, people sell business ideas for huge sum of money all over the world; but some Nigerians want it for free.
Please, next time, keep your business ideas to yourself and only lay it before God or someone that you know will be of a positive help to you.
Forgive your friend, tell her you don't like what she did by sabotaging your business ideas and also trying to play a fast one on you by calling your suppliers, asking them to always call her first when they have fresh goods.

Don't allow business to cause problem between you and your friend.
Don't avoid her, is better you trash it out with your friend and be free.

Poster 2, Are you that desperate? Giving money to a man that returned from the US, because you believed you're in a relationship with him.
You even slept with him and did not even use protection. (Lord have mercy)
You went ahead to kill your unborn baby, don't you have a brain and a head?
That guy is not for you. He's a player, using you to pass time whenever he visits Nigeria. Keep decieving yourself because you want to go to America.

Anonymous said...

PG 18
Post 2: when will you people every think well? Prophet again?. Plz,which prophet told ur parents you would be born? Since this prophet was not there when u we're born,how did he locate you or you located him? This the reason I can never have something with a girl that seeks for power, what do you people need this power for sef? That you keep seeing prophets? Na only Una waka come this world!
ASHAWO WAS 1's A VIRGIN

Aisha Izebuno said...

hmmmmm na wa

Joke said...

I used to tell a colleague at work about my business interests until I noticed my interests were hers. I started Shea butter, she started. I started cray fish she started asking questions- where do you buy, how.......... I just ignored her.

Madam Small Chops said...

@ Poster1:

Let the God side of you prevail but learn to keep your business strategies from her.I pray God will bless your hustle.

@ Poster 2:

Can't believe you are even thinking of managing the 50 shades of deceit... Love is more than the letters L.O.V.E .I bet if you tell him you are pregnant again(even though its not true), he will call you in 2017.

To stay or not to stay is your call... All the Best.

Anonymous said...

P1-U didn't do anything wrong my dear... These days, it's jst better to keep ur plans to ursef... I've learnt to do dat too

PLATINUM said...

*throw

Anonymous said...

Oh men. See epistle. Gawd! Una dey try o.

Anonymous said...

Where you not like her before Oga Lamborghini begin roll your Royce. Stop acting like you're any better.

Anonymous said...

All these ladies una need better kwale weed to fit hep una begin use head think. What's all these?

Adanne said...

Poster one, forgive her and keep your distance(frenemy alert)

Poster 2, the guy has something up his sleeves, be wise.

Ehlarh said...

@Poster1,Pls stay away from that friend if possible change all ur suppliers,God who gave u that idea will see u thru it believe me. Look for new suppliers,pray and work smart and the sky will be ur starting point. Pls forgive her but don't let her in anymore. Good luck.

Amacastel said...

U said it all.

Abaraonye Nonye said...

Dear Poster 1: Have you heard a saying that you don't mix business with pleasure..Haba ma you shouldn't have done that , you were only finding your feet and you just vomited everything to her . Of course she took advantage you..The Bible said ''be wise as a serpent''...we all have best friends but we don't reveal all..if you are well established that's when you help out..anyway sorry now you have learnt your lesson the hard way...F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Dear Poster 2: Don't allow your ''longer throat'' to put in a problem for a lifetime..once a man goes black , he cant go back...Yes you did a good job by forgiving him but yourself some respect by distancing your self away from any thing relationship with him..he left you high and dry and he will do worse when you eventually marry him..Tread with caution and allow ''Uk-American wonder''deceive you..Be wise as a serpent na so bible talk

Just Glamour said...

Where is the like button,Chikito is on point.

Lilly simple said...

Post take d advice up there

Anonymous said...

Poster one, rule of thumb, never disclose everything. Out of 10, you can disclose 1.5. You have learned the hard way. Personally I don't know how to pretend so I'll ex the person.
Poster 2, you sound oh so dumb. Until the truth slaps you in the face. You need a virtual slap.

Komimi Solomon said...

Chronicle 1, I really feel sorry for you, the best thing to do is let go of the hurt and dine with her with a long spoon(distance). You can't trust people of today. Keep on praying and everything will be just fine dearie.
Chronicle 2, Pick your bata and run for your life. Are you a manager? LOL he will change indeed, you better move on, someone better is waiting at the door.

Chidinma Gift said...

Poster 1: Just forgive and ignore her God will fight for you but be a little wiser.

Poster 2: Nne just try and forget him and move ahead with your life but please collect plenty money before leaving ooo just watch he is been nice now because he has plan of asking for bigger money from you

plenty money said...

POSTER 1. just one sentence for you.... The secret of success is secret......


POSTER 2. Stop running to prophets. you have the same power they posses just that you are too blind to see it

Anonymous said...

Na wah ooo. Dear, why evils? Babe abi guy, you for give us more of the Tory na. We for help you put mouth, tell am say wetin he do nor good. You don't goan drink sniper ooo.

Mrs T said...

Wise advice, use to have a friend I was so open to till I find out that she can't even share the little info she got. I borrowed my self sense and my only response whenever she ask me of anything is I don't know.well she got stuck and can't move forward while I kept in my planned progression,she use to drop side talk how people don't want to help you and tell you what they know cos they are afraid you will be better than then.me? I keep mute,I can't fall mugu twice oh.you want to borrow my knowledge,add to yours without sharing anything.haba ,who told you my mama raised a fool?

Anonymous said...

You sound desperate. I understand that your biological clock is ticking, but if you rush and marry the wrong guy you will wish you remained single. Men seem to smell desperation, they will use it to either take advantage of you or run away from you. So just keep praising God and focus on improving your own life. Your man will come.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl loves Aeegurl for 24 hours said...

I hereby hand you the epistle awardπŸ˜‚πŸŒŸ

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl loves Aeegurl for 24 hours said...

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Deluna G said...

@beautiful and gifted, u re so right about poster one, used to be like her. Cant still believe how i was so used by friends, i must hv been very naive, buh not anymore.

Anonymous said...

I only read the first chronicle and would like to share mine now my best friend of 7 years did something to me in the past month that has thrown my life off balance. I had called my friend and told her my office is sacking people and it's only a matter of time before I join the list I intend to redirect my energy into some other activity I would be apply to study abroad after which I can draw up a plan for a new business idea. My best friend totally disagreed with me... stating that if I leave my job she would never ever support me... I cried and cried in the presence of her friends nobody said anything noting that am one of her strong chair leading I supporting to the tiniest level of her plans. ... I pursed my dreams and damp I meet all requirement for school and funds started gushing in from people I least expected would even help I moved t the abroad and became very settled I have never worked for one day all these happening I would call my friend to update her how each money has come in. Sonia was time for vacation I had already travelled to some countries and thought I should explore some parts of Europe I needed to pay for my accommodation checking the countries accommodation money came to about 1000 gdp undo I told my friend she said she had a business I could help her make a purchase and she was give me some amount of money... I was excited I made the purchase which got me into a new problem here I regretted this transaction but I already crossed my mind I was doing it for my friend... mean while there was an aspect to the business she wasn't aware of I gave her the line and it yield 3k pounds an so my dear friend send me 200 pounds keep 2000 for herself.... I was in shock... I couldn't believe it. I called her and asked her why she said that's what friends are for.... They support each other.... I had no right asking for more... There is recession in Nigeria.... I returned all of her money to her and here I am still battling to recovery from the damage my loyalty has caused me.... everyday I tell myself that I have forgiven her but wait is this world turning into I have blamed myself endlessly for everything... I really wish I know what I did wrong to this girl... I just still can't figure it out but am so hurt I have been unable to concentrate to finish school.... This is someone I could have done anything for.... I am so sad

Anonymous said...

The sad part is she was like my family; I am still In pain but I keep telling myself that I have forgiven her...! She has little or no regards for me.... I swear,., it hurts so bad!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl loves Aeegurl for 24 hours said...

Mrs T, but some mamas raised 'fools' oh. Sorry to say. I once met a lady. Hmm... She Infact opened up to me that she was helpless. That people always take advantage of her and she knows but she does have a soft heart and she can't help looking away. She gave me some examples and I was like WTF? From friends, to bfs to step siblings. Some more than once. Said she has a weak heart and she knows. And she knows that they know. but she doesn't know how to help herself. I just pity her that day. But me, just do ONE tiny thing I don face front. It's like reflex. And ppl say it's bad cos I hardly give people 2nd chances, even when they repent genuinely. But the few times I've tried to give 2nd chance, still comes to the the same thing. So I can't kee myself joor.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl loves Aeegurl for 24 hours said...

Are you from Akwa Ibom? Na u a dey get all this Hollywood movie names. Waiting for your reply. And before you cuss me out I be Akwa-Cross too.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl loves Aeegurl for 24 hours said...

My sister, ride or die friendship ends in secondary school. Don't go and kill yourself. I've told you. Now you wan concentrate for school because of one yet friend. She join you pay fees? Mscheew!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl loves Aeegurl for 24 hours said...

What countries would accommodation money cost 100GBP? I'm only wondering. Except you're saying accommodation and flights across the EU. And how many days are you staying? Can you book tourist packages instead? Check booking.com too. You can use cheaper flights nau. All them Ryan Air. That's if you just want to tour Europe. There's always a budget friendly option to travel in those parts.

Anonymous said...

I know that feeling dear, God will heal your heart and give you reasons to be happy again.

karma?...please said...

P2: I just want you to think of Buhari and the change promised and if it's happening now and how we are managing. Just think my dear and you will know what to do

sisi eko said...

Poster 2, why do I have this strong feeling that the guy doesn't live abroad? Dude is playing you out seriously. He disappeared into thin air and you're still saying you aren't sure if he's seeing other girls? Are you OK?

He prolly lives down the road from you sef. You met on the Internet, remember? Not that success stories aren't told of Internet hook ups, but this one seems like he's up to no good. Anyone can claim to be anywhere and you wouldn't know. Anyhow, where he lives doesn't matter because there's no relationship here as far as sisi eko is concerned.

Imagine when he left you preggy and you had no one from his side to contact.. you know nothing about him. No family or friends? My dear you had better leave before it's too late.

Anonymous said...

Poster 2. This instagram meeting people ehn...i dunno oh. As it is, just forget abt the guy. Then all you prophet people...i dunno what to say o honestly. Cut ur love for the guy, u hv not seen bus stop yet
Poster 1....i always laugh at people like you as i am a biz person myself...what do you think you were doing opening up on ur trade secrets like that...forming the good samaritan, next time you will learn to shut up your mouth and code your biz. I no get pity for you.

Anonymous said...

@ANGELRAY4SDK , na everybody go be ashawo like you. Can you advise your own sister to have more than a boyfriend and they both will be sleeping with her? Grow up and keep your body.. Ewu

Anonymous said...

@PLATINUM .. why do I just love your comment? Seriously wish we can have like buttons here because some fools are just here who don't know what an advise really is.. while some are heavily frustrated here and talk rubbish.. I love your comment well done

men dru said...

Somethings are meant to be kept top secret,regardless of how you feel about someone..You need to look further for love and hopefully someone made for you will come your way..cheers.

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