Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Labour Room Drama -1

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Friday, 2 September 2016

Labour Room Drama -1


We are starting another Chronicles that hopefully you all will take part in...

We want stories from the women and the men who have entered the Labour room before to tell us their interesting stories and how they felt afterwards.
This should be good and if not,we dump it..lol

Send in your stories if you have any!





Hi  Stella.

 I met my woman when I was 23yrs while she was younger and we were both planning to school abroad. While we were trying to raise funds she got pregnant and we decided to keep the baby though she wasn't too ok with it and I don't want to be involve in killing an innocent child o.

 E no easy at all as I would stay awake every night when the contraction starts and I was very close to her due to my part time job which a family friend offered me after I had my certificate in flight ticketing and reservations and there was no job too, we stayed with my parents  and I was busy struggling as a father to be. 

She got registered for antenatal , na so all the nurse and women be give me a nickname o,(the only man wey dey attend antenatal class). Each time my woman be get contraction, she go call me to calm my baby for womb, anytime I rub her tummy the baby go stay calm. 

Fastforward to the day she delivered o, she was having this big contraction and she went to the pee, na so my woman see wetin she be dey read online sey blood go drop when the baby is coming, I just heard her scream my name bae the baby is coming o , come and see blood, na so the sleep Wey dey my body just disappear sharp sharp and it was 5am that day, I got dressed like person wey something dey chase , called out to my mum and she got up. 

We set out to the hospital and she was just in pains ,requesting  for a seat every minute. We got to the vigilante men and they stopped us but immediately them be see madam in pain, they allowed us go. We got to the hospital gate and we were allowed into the premises, all the nurse no help matter  only the one wey I dey always they drop pocket money for each time we go for antenatal. 

Mum was scared because she lost my late elder sister during childbirth at that same hospital some years before I took my woman to the hospital, she was in fears and praying. 

Finally they got her into the labor room, see where my woman fall my hand, push she no gree push begin dey ask for induce,I got into the  labor room as well.  thank God for one short nurse wey climb her tummy begin dey push o, the baby was out finally after the water don burst and lots of issues sha, the Baby was big and weak. 

One big nurse just picked the baby and threw her to bed begin they beat am o, sey the baby must cry vex Don dey my body becos of that. The nurses begin to dey hail me for being a man in the labor room o sey e be get one man wey faint immediately he saw the baby head an blood when him wife dey labor. 

I'm daughter's best friend, I back my daughter no be small, spoonfed, change pampers no be small, na Huggies we be use for her. We be dey buy Nan cereals every 3days cos her mum couldn't breastfeed for long becos we had to use to breast pump to  pump milk. Now she's 4yrs plus, daddy's girl. I want to thank God for his mercies sha, me and my woman separated for a while due to family issues.

we are doing good afterward but trusting God for breakthrough and mercy becos e no easy oo.. I know God has a perfect plan for me,wifey and daughter. I will be adding another year this month and I'm grateful to God as we go through our tough times. I'm enjoying Stella's blog, carry on madam stella toh strong and beautiful 


112 comments:

Anonymous said...

Lol@short nurse and big nurse....

Anonymous said...

Awww lovely,coming from a man.God will grant you your desires in Jesus name.

SteffySoFynSoFly said...

Wooow I know plenty men that will run away after getting a girl pregnant.you stood by her tru it all. And to think you were just 23 yrs old.God will bless you jare.
Me am already liking this one.



* hangs leg on the window*

Atheist. said...

That's not beating brother, if a baby i born without cries, its a clear sign that something is wrong...

The Observer said...

The nurse climbed her tummy? And another beat d baby?
Hahaha! No wonder ur mumsy was "afear"

Bell Jacks said...

Wow...hmmmmmmm! I'll tell my story someday. Such miracle.

God chic said...

Nice. Really nice.

Anonymous said...

You are a man! Not the ego filled namby pambies we have around. I hope you and your wife fully resolve your issues and may God bless you all.

Bee10 said...

Nice one why una separate na? Ok u just advertise yourself it's all good.

Anonymous said...

I must sure send mine.

Stella maris Baby said...

Interesting post..
Good.

Loveme Jeje said...

Beautiful post. Lovely husband

Debbie me said...

Wow! You are such a nice man. Thank God your wife had a safe delivery, but wait ooo, did I just read the part where you said a short nurse climbed your wife's belly to help her push? Are you for real?

Sexy Ebony said...

Your story looks so interesting,you are really a man with a brave heart,this is really good platform Stella ,keep it up,am loving it already .I will seat here and wait for comment .

Anonymous said...

WOOOOOW! POSTER I ENJOYED YOUR COMMENT NO BE SMALL! SINCE YOU USE PIDGIN MAKE I USE PIDGIN TOO. LOOOOL. I LIKE AS YOU DEY THERE WHEN YOUR WOMAN DEY BORN. SEE AS YOU JUST DEY NARRATE ALL THE PROCEDURE! I SURE SAY YOU NO GO EVER FORGET AM FOR YOUR LIFE. IF TO SAY ALL NAIJA MEN DEY ENTER LABOUR ROOM SO..FEAR NO GO DEY LET THE USELESS ONES RAISE HAND TOUCH THEIR WIVES! BECAUSE THEM GO KNOW WETIN WOMAN DEY FACE. THANK GOD FOR YOU OO AND MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY!

Jasmine said...

Awww. Nice one. Stella, can I send?


Am I a mother? Yes o coz I was in the labour room when my nephew came out. Hehehehe

Anonymous said...

WOOOOOW! POSTER I ENJOYED YOUR COMMENT NO BE SMALL! SINCE YOU USE PIDGIN MAKE I USE PIDGIN TOO. LOOOOL. I LIKE AS YOU DEY THERE WHEN YOUR WOMAN DEY BORN. SEE AS YOU JUST DEY NARRATE ALL THE PROCEDURE! I SURE SAY YOU NO GO EVER FORGET AM FOR YOUR LIFE. IF TO SAY ALL NAIJA MEN DEY ENTER LABOUR ROOM SO..FEAR NO GO DEY LET THE USELESS ONES RAISE HAND TOUCH THEIR WIVES! BECAUSE THEM GO KNOW WETIN WOMAN DEY FACE. THANK GOD FOR YOU OO AND MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY!

Bella D Chemist said...

Nice story bros you try. Stella many stories to come. Eku se

PORTABLE VIV the beautiful n sexy queen of sdk blog said...

Woooow
This will be fun menh
All this govt hospital that use to beat pregnant women during labour .......the thunder that will fire u people eeh

Geraldine Ogwe said...

Lovely story.

Nonye Baby said...

Hmmmm...some will put salt and pepper in their stories.

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Aaaae. I enjoyed every bit of your narrative. Please do not use pidgin next time. I struggled to read

Debbie me said...

You guys later seperated? Hmmm, it's a pity.

Sonia said...

Wow. Nice one Stella. Lemme send in mine sharp sharp.

Esther Okoro said...

Interesting, women go through a lot during labour. The pains no be here.

Miss Cute said...

Gosh! Wish i can find a man that truly loves like you do? I want to settle down and God knows i need a man as supportive and sincere as you. Very helpful even at that tender age. May God bless ur family especially ur daughter.

Anonymous said...

Interesting! He is a unique man. Most Nigerian men don't go into the labour room, so I'm sure this post won't have much feedback from the men. As for me, I'm newly married and don't have a child yet but the day we will, I'm sure my husband will be there to support me 100%

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Beautiful story but poster,go and look for that girl and marry!...
Na whom you wan leave her for?...after scattering her toto through childbirth you now ran!...
Go and beg her abeg!...

stunning slim shady said...

Wow neva a dull moment on ds blog... LRD is Bae...I trust d folder neva to be empty cos even for a woman who has experienced more than one pregnancies, d labour story will def b different.

Becky Divine said...

Hahahhaa azzin ehn.. very funny story sha
Oga may God continue to keep you guys in peace and harmony. Breakthrough is on the way

calabar Chick said...

This should be fun

Becky Divine said...

Before nko? Hehehe
So the story go sweet well well na

temitope bunmi said...

menh this blog is ever bubbling lol i go enjoy this one die with different blow and slap lol

PinKy berRy said...

This is so interesting. see me smiling like mumu.lol.

Stella i just hope this chronicles won't be scary o. Labour room fears and all.

Justina Michael said...

Hehe, this is going to be fun. Let me go and type my own.

chioma ekwugha said...

Lovely idea

Anonymous said...

Ideato abi wetin be your name,wats all these your forming. Run along,goan hustle for recharge card and shataaaaaaap.

Blackberry said...

Nurse climbed her belly?

Cynthia Iyede said...

This will be interesting....Nice one Stella.

Gabriella Idele said...

I love you Stella!!! Will be sendind mine in soon. Yay!!

ZIONA said...

Brave young man, u sound like a good fellow.
Stella when are you starting the happily ever after series, I want to read true romance stories, especially for singles like me. Let the singles out there know that good marriages still exist and that all men are not bad

IVORY said...

Gleefully rubs hands together. This should b interesting

ololade Salaudeen said...

yay!Stella is bae! you are really making me enjoy my stay at home....the story make sense #aregbe is wicked
....re open lautech#

ov o said...

@Ideato, thank you. I got confused in the pidgin part. Nice narrative tho.hehehehe

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

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Anonymous said...

Nice to know that some "sane men" still exist. Better not to fornicate but when a baby is conceived, never kill.

Anonymous said...

Stella, God will bless you for this LRC. Some yet 2 be mothers, needs to gather all the information we need.thanks alot

serenah said...

Stella expect mine
Funny narrative by the way

Aya Williams said...

Hmmmm all ds big n small nurse for this ur story get as he be ooh, Stella nice idea,will try to send mine soon.

Starjoy said...

Brave man! I like this platform am going to send my own soon

Cissy said...

Very interesting...I enjoyed every bit of it.
God keep your home poster & Happy birthday in advance

Emilia Peter said...

Good to hear

LAS GidDY said...

Nice one there.

Glad we'd not be bored with "hotel room-ish" as in WNB

Martins Aboy said...

Orimma!!

@MARTINS ABOY

Wait for it said...

Okay ooo, welcome o this new chronicles
We hope you last long , and we pray your labour doesn't

Welcome
Na so them beat me ooo

Wait for the original comment

White Diamond said...

Hahaha!

The small nurse climbed on top her abdomen and pushed the baby out. Lmao!

Good man. Jisike!

Stellz, i go like read your one o.

#WhiteDiamondOut

Ehi Human hairs and handmade wigs London said...

Yes you are, given the experience you have gained. My husband was always with me during my child bearing year's.

Anonymous said...

Is very interesting d way u use pidgin i laugh although

cakes by Bella's, Abuja. 58DA8ADF, 07080305132, instagram @cakes_by_bellas ,twitter @CBellaabuja said...

Enjoyed the story but struggled to read it.... he has a good sence of humour... wish you guys all the best

Anonymous said...

please stop the pidgin part,i lost the plot because i was struggling to read in pidgin, will send mine soonest.

redbotafly said...

Interestin piece.

Chidinma Gift said...

Wow... May God bless and keep your family

Anonymous said...

Now this blog has officially turned mummy and daddy boring blog.

Mao Akuh said...

To be a woman e no easy. Thank God for that

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Waoh

Miiiii said...

I was shocked too. Climb tummy ke?

young FOREVER said...

Beating a pregnant woman with the pain she already got in her? I refuse to believe it. That's wickedness of the highest order.

Miiiii said...

πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹πŸ™‹ off you goπŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

Sweetest Honey said...

Please, anyone sending in their labour room experience should be write it clearly in English andd not pidgin pls!

I developed headache while reading this, also found it hard reading smoothly!

In the name of trying to sound funny, it made the story difficult to read!

U can still be funny even if u write in plain English!

young FOREVER said...

How will a trained nurse climb a tummy???. Does she want to kill the baby? Dumbfounded.!!!!

As for beating the baby. Its normal for a baby that doesn't cry immediately after birth. Its just a way to make d child cry.so that the lung can open up Nd it works most times

LoveTo Hate said...

This is a real man talking, not all this fuckboys we have around...

esther ese said...

This is interesting. Stella nice initiative. God will continue to enlarge your coast.

Iphie dearie said...

Yes!!!!
πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½
Legoooo

Naya Nuel said...

D separation was imminent considering they were living with his parents, I already saw it coming at d beginning of d story.

Naya Nuel said...

Comment ke?

ukwu dimond said...

women una strong no be small.

Naya Nuel said...

Read properly, he has married her. They were just separated for a while

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Anon15:09 kisses..... Now run along

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

@ov o mwah

I'veBeenTouchedByAnAngelWithLove said...

This means I have another mail to compose soon. Sweet pain is what I call childbirth.
*God bless my Angel in human form*

bakejimmy said...

i am in. loving this, at least i have 2 stories to write and 12 to go! ahahahah

Mrs Power aka MP said...

Just drop pidgin. Its not meant for everyone. U speak English just fine so continue with it. Nice story though.

Anonymous said...

I read this story smiling all through
You will always be a wonderful father

Never mind said...

All you peeps saying you lost the plot cos it was written in pidgin, lemmi ask you guys, are you literate atal? whoever is educated and passed thru the walls of school(no matter where) should be able to read, pronounce and decode words so far it is written in English or the language you understand. Una go just dey behave anyhow like sey una too sabi. make una dey guided oo.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Don't try it oh!,..
Dude will start running away from you...

#datFATuvwiegirl!!! said...

so, you mean to say you don't speak pidgin? Stop the pretence please!

Chijay said...

I love this version of chronicles

Anonymous said...

....and there is always that one person in the comment section to ruin the moment.....Poster...I'm happy people like you exist, a very nice narrative.
Anon 16.12, take your time o

Anonymous said...

Wait, what?! They beat women in labour? Choi, they've not gotten better slap ni.

vincent cent said...

You are a caring man, I wish you all the best...thanks for the motivational story..

Anonymous said...

@Steffy, wetin you dey hang leg for window for, abi your own labor don start ni?

Esther amaka said...

Lol @ portable, the thunder will be multi talented! Especially those nurses that will always say "shebi wen you dey do am e dey sweet you"

Anonymous said...

Amen, thanks

Komommo Omini said...

Nice story. Stella is a bae, this is very creative,thumbs up and more of God's Grace upon you.Amen.

Anonymous said...

65 comments (as at the time of me commenting right now); 64 positive and 1 negative (anon 16:12). I don't think I've ever experienced such a majority of positive comments since I started reading this blog. Just shows that this will be a very well-received topic for discussion! Kudos Stella! ��

Anonymous said...

We are each other's best friend, just little family request (sorted) and trust me it's been great and our lil daughter Don dey ask for baby brother. Thanks stella for putting my post, bless you sis. A man must treat his wife with care bcos one day your daughter will definitely be in a man's house too. Communication is just the key to an healthy family

Anonymous said...

My woman dey tanda for my life, trust me a woman who gets love and care will always stay with you even when it's tough. We got back after doing the needful, we no waste time sef before we arrange small things and got back.

Miss Wande said...

And u had 2write in caps

Aachy said...

Stella, Na you biko. This new chronicle na Gbam !!!. I hope the useless and hopeless haters will say we are selling babies on SDK now. Thunder fire them. We making progress and getting better and they getting bitter. Carry go SDk

Didi said...

Okayy...this will be fun!!!....

isoko man wife said...

I'm sending mine asap. Stella you will hear how ur isoko brother ran four forty when he saw the baby's head..lmao
I love this post

St.FranKooL.... said...

#When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves*

Myzticzizo😊 said...

Boring like you. Open your blog let"s see what you can do. People like you with your head full of air will be under anonymous to type rubbish. If you are not ashamed of yourself and your consience, sign in with your ID.

Anonymous said...

In other words, you the advertise yourself, so poster go know say you single, in case you didn't notice, the poster is still a small boy. Abeg stella see one gwags for here, link her up with poster.

Anonymous said...

1. You want this guy to think you're a wife material and start chasing you instead of wifing his baby mama.
2. You want him to think you will be nice to his daughter if he mareies you hence the last sentence

Miss cute

Anonymous said...

Very nice that a man could launch this segment.Cool to read a labour room experience from a man's perspective. God bless you stella, I will surely send my labour room story when God blesses me with the fruit of the womb

Anonymous said...

Must you shout!

Yemisi Ajayi said...

That is what nurses do in quack hospital when they cant do CS for a baby that is not coming down. I witness nurse jumping and pressing Belle for baby to come down. Smh. Na God dey help

Obama's Sister said...

Well narrated! This is gonna be fun! Loving it already. Dude u re a real man,even at that age, u tried! Real men are not just sperm donors,but taking responsibilities of the outcome. God bless&keep u both.

Nana said...

Wow I love this

Topaz Interiors And Exteriors said...

Its a nice concept. Pls do not dump it. This might probably erase the scary labour room myth. Where do we send it to? Ur email?

SuperMom said...

great idea. sending mine.

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