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Tuesday, September 13, 2016

Labour Room Drama 18 And 19

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LRD 18
Hello Stella, here's my labor room story.
I had a lot of medical issues while I was pregnant and one of those issues was very low platelet count. so, my doctor and I decided it would be better to induce me when my platelets has been increase by drugs and platelets transfusion.
Since I was alone in the US and my husband couldn't come around, I used my last pregnant days to prepare for when my baby was gonna be born.

 I was scheduled to be induced on the 8th of October, so I took my car for a tune up and bought food to stock the house on the 6th. I started cooking when I got home, Thats when I felt pains in my tommy like period pain. I tried taking a warm shower to release the pain.

After 3 showers, I drove to the hospital for them to check me since my baby wasn't technically due till the 21st of October. As I checked in, the nurse checked me and said I was already 8cm dilated and I was admitted into the delivery room. They offered to wheel me, but I preferred to walk. As I settled into the bed and the nurse was hooking the drip up, naso I jump up like mad woman wey craze just enter e body say I wan go toilet go shit. 😬😬

It took 4 nurses to hold me down, then they told me the baby already started crowning.. They told me to push and I pushed him out in like 3 pushes.. It was an easy birth but  I got 4th degree tears.
And nah me do my omuogwo myself. It just takes organization and planning

Each time I look at my bundle of joy, I thank God for his mercies and turning my fear in laughter.

Your baby is soooo cute but abeg explain something..which one is crowning again?and what is 4th degree tears?
This LRD people teaching new things like kilode!


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LRD 19

Good day stella, my Labour room chronicles goes this way. 

Being a nurse-midwife, I'v seen different scenario of normal Labour become complicated,  so I prayed, fasted, even sowed a convenant seed for the safest delivery ever. Truth is we catch headssss in the Labour room as we call deliveries but i'v never experienced it being a 1st time mum or primi-gravida.

 So I started by registering in a govt tertiary hospital and a private hospital close to me  which is what I advice would-be mothers.
On my last antenatal visit which was already tiring and stressfull,  my gynea told me that if I ddnt birth my child on my EDD (nextday)  before the next routine visit(7days) I would be admitted and induced. So I told her to give me a cervical sweep to hasten commencement of Labour which she did,  I came home   after strolling a distance all in the name of exercise, had a warm bath then waited jejely for hubby to koman contribute to the inducement of Labour . 

He came home asked about my visit, because we all have been eagerly waiting for her arrival having setup her room, packed my bag 'et al. I told him everything,  then coerced him into us having hot steaming coitus, mind you being preggy ddnt reduce my sexual appetite infact it increased it sooo much and hubby was at my beck and call. 

By 3am I felt a sharp pain, used the bathroom to empty my bladder and that was the beginning of the drama., lie down back, no way!, sit down, no way!.. I just started praying for the safest delivery of an alive healthy baby because that's the way hubby and i prayed for that stage. Hubby suggested we go to the hospital but I refused and told him to come pick me by 12pm because I was already monitoring myself and the contractions instead of going to the hospital and being told to pace around. 


Fastforward to the said time 12pm, hubby being a time keeper called to say he was driving home, meanwhile I called my mum around 7am but she got to my house around 9am. My mum was even surprised as to how calm I was to the extent that she said things like "it hasnt even started,when it does i'l know,  stop sitting down......". Hubby got home, and we went down to meet him only for my mum to say she forgot her phone, I had to climb 3 storey building to get mum's phone for her. 

Driving to the hospital didnt take long since the hospital was so close to the house(tertiary one ).. while going to the Labour ward,hubby would make sillyfunny jokes as to how I was squeezing my face and all. But on examination after admission the midwife found out I was 8cm dilated it became emergency, because certain long things/protocols were cut short. Delivery procedures like when to push to avoid tear and weakness wasn't new to me. My membrane was ruptured manually and within 5mins aftr ARM , I pushed twice with episiotomy while contracting  and my mini-me came out weighing 4.2kg which I praised God for, now that was were my bittersweet story started. 


My placenta ddnt follow suit, so it kept me in there for an hour and my mum/hubby became worried, I knew the implications so I started calling God,reminding him of the convenant we had and his promise of my birthng like the Hebrew women. After a while it came out but left behind some contents, which needed to be evacuated manualy. During this procedure I screamed and screamed even more than I did while birthing my baby. 


You know when a full arm is being fixed into your uterus just to  manually peel out the remaing membrane,  thank God I ddnt bleed soo much because it would have been crazy. The Registrars both senior and junior were there considering the fact that I am their colleague.it was done ,I was packed up and sent to the recovery room and discharged on full  recovery After 3days.

After the usual 6weeks post natal visit I was still bleeding which was unusual and i felt my menstrual cycle had returned,  I had to go to the private firm I registered with to lay my complaint, since the doctor is a gyneacologist and i was sent to run a pelvic scan which confirmed I had retained fluid which antibiotics could clear. I took the drugs and went back after one month and the fluid was still there as seen on anoda scan . By now it was almost 2months and 2weeks. Took another set of antibiotics and finally on the 3rd month I manually aspirated the fluid. My baby and i are doing well and I'v even resumed my normal coital entanglement. I love coitus, its best when you got no guilt doing it. *winks*




OMG..You made love when labour started? *eyes wide open*


71 comments:

  1. @ Stella, yeah. S*x helps to bring out the baby.

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    1. I follow you open eye o. Lol

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    2. How do women feel about stripping and giving birth in front of their colleagues. I would be embarrassed

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    3. You wouldn't even care, trust me.

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  2. Stella, u don't know what crowning is and you've given birth? Abi na CS you use born? Take time o.



    Nice stories.

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    1. Yes she said all her kids were cs

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    2. Stella, doesn't hide the fact that she gave birth via CS.

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    3. Had my 2 kids through Cs and sometimes I wish I can experience labor but has said it is not for me so......

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    4. Even if it's CS, at least in antenatal you supposed don learn.

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  3. @Namesake,simply put, Crowning is when you begin to show through the vaginal opening during contraction
    4th degree tear is that tear that has reached the mucosa of the anus. It is deeper than an episiotomy(which is second degree)
    @ Posters one and two,I am happy that both of you are doing great. Thank God.

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    1. *when the head of the baby begins to show through the vagina during contraction

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  4. Hahahahahahaha @ poster 2 u and hubby Una welldon o
    Poster 1 u are a strong woman I pray make God giv us strength during our time

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    1. Lol.. Data somtin you and try out

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  5. Hahahaha beautiful stories. God bless you all

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  6. Poster 2.I can relate o.when they put hand inside to comot all the orishirishi wey dey.dat one dey pain pass the Labour self.kai.

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  7. Oh my....waat did I just read..lol!

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  8. Wow wonderful experiences. Una well done. God bless and keep you guys.


    Stella, crowning is when the baby's head is visible in the vjay's opening. This is when most people experience the "ring of fire " e dey pain wella.

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  9. Poster two - I want to love sex when I'm preggy too😂
    Poster 1-kisses😘

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  10. Coitus this, Coitus that! *rme*
    Stop abusing the word madam mbok lol

    Thank God for both of y'all! God is great

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    1. That's her way of expressing herself.BTW is it ur Coitus?

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    2. You want to hear collect? Bush geh

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  11. Hahahaha Stella na dis kind tin u dey like. U no faint again lol

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    1. True!
      See as I dey sweet her pass me sef!
      Lovely stories.
      Maybe I should send in mine? Well just maybe!

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  12. OMG, the second story got me shivering.

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    1. Nope don't shiver.. we are fine.

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  13. Stella oooooo lol crowning means when the babies head is already visible!!!

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  14. What a nighmare@ second poster.
    I hate any sort of pain after that whole process. Ahn ahn!!!

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  15. Poster 1, u r one strong woman. Poster 2, dt ish must hv bn painful, gosh!. Js found out my dh has bn texting so may gals, saying things like 'I managed to take my eyes off you 2day', 'u r amazingly beautiful'. There is eveen onee girl that pimps out girls 2 dh. She sends him pics of girls and he seelects which he wants. I've confronted him b4 after finding incriminating msgs on his fone, n he begged n begged. Now, he's bk 2 same old shit. I don't wanna confront him again. I Js want 2 leave d house for @least one nyte, get him worried n blast him 4 wat hez doin. I hope dt will b a gud decision. I'm so tired of snooping n finding out crazy shit on his fone. We r barely 2yrs old in dis marriage. Pls bvs, advise me!

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    1. My dear he is not gonna change
      He will only stop for a while nii
      No need confronting him anymore
      Go out ,enjoy,do things you've not been doing befr...ignore him
      On a lighter mood
      fast for three days using prayer points from war room and use coconut oil to break😂

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    2. Pls park out, so many singles waiting to jump in, u ain't happy he's doing fuck n drop, what if he's renting houses for like 5 n fucking n wasting their time? When u were doing married men in ur days u forgot ur time would come? Chill n endure like me, those babes time will come too, what comes around, goes around. I did it too.

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    3. Stop snooping, u Will only hurt yrself the more. Find something to occupy yr mind. Thèse girls are outside. U are his wife. Yr snooping and nagging Will not stop him, but yr silence may. He Will get tired and advice himself.

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    4. U married a dog.

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    5. Poor u....
      Madam,even if u must remain married, please stop any form of sexual relationship with your hubby to avoid any form of std.

      Abeg...

      It's unfortunate you married a fuck
      Man.

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    6. Anon 14:24 i hope ypu4 will give her this same advice when HIV comes knocking? Very wise advice on ypur part.

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    7. My dear watch War Room n wake up to pray @ midnite. Remember to annoint ursef wt coconut oil bfr n afta praying.

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  16. Poster one and two, you are both strong women. I thank God for the easy safe delivery of your babies.

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  17. crowning is when d babies head s visible externally,like it is out of the cervix

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  18. Enter your comment...issorai

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  19. I love poster 2, no time wasting. May God bless and remember those in His waiting room.

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  20. Sex dey swEet during preg dan anytin

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  21. Thank God for safe delivery @1&2.

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  22. Cant wait to have this glorious experience.
    God remember your promises concerning me birthing like Hebrew women.

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  23. The pain that comes with the sweeping eh,cannot be described...atleast I had a feel of labour pain b4 I was taken to the theatre...after I don dey pain for ova 8hrs...afta dat experience,i choose not to go into labour again ooo...God bless all Mothers

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  24. #Everybody isn't gonna love you. Most people don't even love themselves*

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  25. Ineresting!God will keep your babies strong and healthy.

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  26. Wow! That manual extraction of acenta is excruciating! I had a miscarriage @20 weeks and had to be induced to deliver the baby(Sleep on my little prince,Gabriel. Mummy loves and misses u so much!). After the baby was born,placenta refused to come out and the nurses had to go in to my uterus with their hands to tug it free. I saw hell! I screamed and screamed and screamed!!! The pain is indescribable...labour pains is beans compared to it. I was left traumatised. My next pregnancy,I might opt for an elective c.s biko.

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  27. Hmmmmm LRD will send in mine soon God bless you both and your babies.It ain't easy to birth a child vaginally or through CS.God bless all mothers and TTC women.

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  28. Poster 2this ur story is a ghenghen something oo......sex during labor??it is well

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    1. Yesoooo . E dey sweet pass sef

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  29. I had goose bumps while reading the second story. chai... Thank God you and your baby are doing fine

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    1. We are doing well now dear.

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  30. congratulations to u both

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  31. Membrane sweep..chai..very painful something

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  32. Is it possible to give birth without tear, am scared

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    1. If your baby isn't big.

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  33. May we mothers inherit the fruit of our labours

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  34. can't wait to carry my own baby....God bless all the mothers and d potential ones

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  35. the second poster..you were just using medical terms to write your story kilode na?

    interesting stories anyway

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