Happy Sunday Mrs. Korkus, God bless you abundantly for your good work. SDK is Special, BVs are Bae.
I don't know if to call this my write up chronicle because I don't know where it falls into. History has repeated it self again. Here goes my story.
3 years ago, I came to my shop, that gracious morning and was about to open my shop, a lady friend of mine that worked for my neighbor then came and greeted me and also gave me a hug, because we are close (we are not lovers) and then went to her madam's shop which is 3shops away from my own.
As she left, the guy next to my shop told me that it is not proper for a man like me to hug a lady in the morning, that it brings bad luck because ladies have evil spirit in them that destroys a man destiny.
I got angry but maintained my cool. This conversation went on between us. Let me call him John.
Me: is your mother still alive?
Me: you are married with 2kids and 2 of them are girls?
Me: do you have sisters, cousin sisters, sister inlaws, mother in law and aunties?
Me: good. You are surrounded by evil spirits in human form, go and fight your spiritual battles and leave me alone with my angelic hug. If my words pain you, then respect a woman next time and don't refer to them as evil spirit.
He kept quiet and did not say any word again. Fast forward to yesterday being Saturday 17/09/2016. I saw a post on Facebook which was shared by a female friend of mine and it reads:
" If you are a young man and want to make it in life don't associate yourself with ladies because they will bring set back in your life because they have evil spirit living inside of them"
Actually, I am not promoting fornication or adultery. I commented under my friend's post (the lady) let me call her Jane.
Me: this is not true. We live by grace.
Jane: it is 100% true.
Me: let me tell you, if that is true 2face, Davido, P. Diddy, etc. Are well known world wide as Baby daddies but they are doing well in their hustle.
Some people are good Christians but they find it difficult to eat. So people live by God's grace that is why we pray to God to make HIS grace sufficient for us.
Me: or are you trying to tell me that some men don't having evil in them?
Jane: No dear, but we ladies are not what you think we are.
With that her reply I got dumbfounded. I remembered what John told me years back, but I refuse to agree with their ideas.
My question now is, my fellow BVs what these two people said, are they right or am I being stubborn to admit that?
I have proves to defend my own opinion. I have beautiful and amazing ladies as sisters, mum and relations.
They don't have any evil spirit in them. I don't know why Nigerians see fair skinned ladies as mermaids or ogbanje. It is totally unacceptable. Most Nigerian men see all ladies as set back in life.
I just got kinda confused about Jane's reply yesterday. Please, BVs clear me.
SDK is Special, BVs are Bae.
*Errrrm My Grandma is an Albino and let me call her very 'gifted' and because of this sometimes i tend to think that most light skinned Ladies are not ordinary,though they may not know this..I am not talking about the ones who bleached,I am talking about naturally light skinned Ladies..They all carry a certain gift and because one person has been bad doesnt not make all bad.
What am i saying?let me not confuse myself..lol