Another Drama at Igando Oooh...
A 39-year-old pastor, Andrew Ndubisi, has told an Igando Customary Court, Lagos, to dissolve his four-year-old marriage over s3x and food starvation, citing that his body is neither made of wood nor iron.
He said: “My wife (Saraphina) starves me of food and s3x. She always gives excuses whenever I want to make love to her. Despite all my pleading, she will not allow me; my body is not a stone or iron rod.
“Apart from sex, she also denies me food; she is a poor cook and hardly cooks. Whenever she does, is either the food is too salty or watery. “If I complain, she will take the food and dispose of it and she will never apologise; I used to buy food to eat or go hungry.”
The petitioner, according to the NAN, also accused his wife of infidelity.
“My wife is having an affair. Last February 1, I called my wife with a new SIM I just bought. “Unknown to her, she never knew who was calling; she said is it because my wife was around that I refused call or visit her. It was then that I knew that my wife was having an affair.
“I refused to respond. I waited for her to do the talking; she started calling me sweet names and told me how much she loves me. “She insisted I should say something; I later revealed myself to her and she was shocked. Before I got home, she has packed out with our three-year-old daughter.
“When she did not return for days, I reported at the police station; I also went to the radio and television stations including a newspaper, to place announcement of a missing person.”
Saraphina, a 31-year-old businesswoman, welcomed the divorce. The petitioner, however, denied all the allegations against her.
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Poor men are always the ones begging their wives for sex.
ReplyDeletePoverty na d origin!!!!
DeleteI have this strong mind that Stella has a link with Igando magistrte Court as she always have their activities. Pastor man shall not leave by sex alone, read the word of God, preach it and heal the sick.
DeleteNot really poor men, weak men do DAT a lot. Not weak in terms of strength but in terms of character. A man marries a woman for one thing and one thing alone. Sex and only sex.(never mind they sugar coat it by saying companionship). A man with character whose wife denies him sex should simply return the woman to her parents and tell them why. A man with character should while expecting unfeterd access to his wife's sex organ should be providing for the wife within the limits pg his capability. A man with character should not steal to satisfy hisvwife but his wife should be satisfied with what her husband is able to provide. If not they should go their separate ways.
DeleteU just ended up spilling thrash @anon 11:33
DeletePlz someone should create a meme and send it to Stella about the look on igando people's faces each time Stella post their news.
ReplyDeleteGood for them. Marriage is not by force!
ReplyDeleteAnother day, another drama at igando. Una do well.
ReplyDeleteMoral of the story: Never wife a bitch!
ReplyDeleteThey will wed in ikoyi registry and divorce in igando
ReplyDeleteMaybe his preek is too small
ReplyDeleteMaybe he never tasted her cooking before marrying her
Maybe he does only missionary movement on top her
Maybe, just maybe.
Bv kerry okoye
They both accept.......let verdict be given.
ReplyDeleteThese people and cheating is like 5 and 6.
ReplyDeleteThey pretend to be saints but we know they can cheat for Africa.
Their women cheat codedly with their hairy yam legs and moustache.
Yibo people, lmao.
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Ndi Biafrans
Even the Bible supports putting ur wife away for d reason of adultery... I pity women who tink marriage is garbage in n out anytim u like. Old age na him u go knw wetin u do ursef
ReplyDeleteWhat is wrong with all these women. I'm tired of women's infidelity everywhere and some pple will be advising other to get a side bobo, the bomb that will bomb you in waiting for you in sambisa
ReplyDeleteIs it men's infidelity that u aren't tired of? Anuofia
DeleteLol! All I have to say is be careful women! My husband almost caught me ooo! Chai! If not for my excellent denial skills and his lack of concrete evidence, I for don enter serious gbese by now ! In fact I form vex join sef ;)
DeleteThe man is always the saint while the woman is the sinner... Oga pastor you can see she gladly welcomed the divorce which means she is sick of you already so please move on.. When mwn want to report their wives they paint a nice picture of themselves.. Let us hear the womans side you will be speechless.
ReplyDeleteIgando oooooooooo
ReplyDeleteabeg that one na their own cup of tea. when singles & mingles dey come up ojare
ReplyDeleteNawa for all this marriage palava. Why will a wife starve her hubby of food n sex. When they say learn how to be a good cook,most of y'all be screaming 'wife nt cook'. even d lazy ones too that can't make eba. What's d essence being a wife when u can't perform ur duties?
ReplyDeleteEnd time couple
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo..marriages and adultery.God epp us
ReplyDeleteEnd time wife
ReplyDelete...but pastor, what happened to for better or for worse...practice what you preach!!!
Mizz majesty is now a valid ID on sdk...watch out for me
*evil laughter* *runs away*
Married women becoming something else these days.. I don't pity men tho. They re getting paid back for all the years they think having side chic is their right. Good for them.
ReplyDeleteSo before d pastor married her,dint God reveal to him her true character?hehehehehehehehe
ReplyDeleteNo b poverty make am become pastor?
Deleteis well
ReplyDeleteLol @ welcome the divorce.
ReplyDelete#Wife not cook
ReplyDeleteHe didn't state his own faults but painted her completely black. I would have believed but I have also seen situations where the man is a complete list. So I can't say. So what will he now preach to his congregation? Will he remarry when his wife is still alive?
ReplyDelete*complete liar*
DeleteThat's how men are! They paint the woman black and make themselves look good. I have had several instances in my marriage where my husband involved his family and painted me as the wrong doer infront of them. Currently non of them talks to me and I don't bother to talk to them either. I can count many instances where my husband has duly offended me but he never mentions the things he has done. It's always me me me me!
DeleteI just wonder if it's even healthy for a man to be involving his family in every altercation that he has with his wife. Aren't these people third parties?
Stella, leave my Igando alone oooo.
ReplyDeleteI stay at Igando but still don't know where the court is.
You seem to like Igando, will you come sight seeing soonest? LMAO.
Stella, chop knuckle 👊
Abeg the man should go and watch War Room while sipping on coconut oil, and stay put in the marriage!!!
ReplyDeletelol another one from igando lol
ReplyDeleteAt times those accusing their partners of cheating are actually the ones doing it. Never judge from one side of any story.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm sex is very important to a man oooh. Most men don't joke with their sex time table. Give a man good food and good sex and you will have his world.
ReplyDeleteHe even said she is a bad cook sef. When he begins to cheat now she will be the first to cry fowl.
Not every man is moved by sex o...one that choses to masturbate than to sleep with his wife. Either he is gay or just addicted.
DeleteWhen he begins to cheat indeed, who told u he isn't already cheating? Just that we live in a society where there is more stigma attached to a woman cheating and our men generally can't handle it but want to be forgiven when they are caught
DeleteIgando pple always on the news..
ReplyDeleteNa wah oooo
Marriage is not NY force.
If d woman open up her mouth now u will be shocked so live matter for Matthias. No be today wen useless men sabi paint there wife black to suit them.
ReplyDeleteSo all you tribalistic bigots can now hide and not say anything about this story abi? What tribe are this couple from ? Especially the woman who cheated on her husband ,sheybe cheating is only peculiar to a certain tribe in this country ? Una do o shiorr
ReplyDeleteSo all you tribalistic bigots can now hide and not say anything about this story abi? What tribe are this couple from ? Especially the woman who cheated on her husband ,sheybe cheating is only peculiar to a certain tribe in this country ? Una do o shiorr
ReplyDeleteBest for them to separate
ReplyDeleteHonestly, he sounds boring and lame. Why can he not show his wife how to make the meals if she is not a good cook? We can't all be good at everything, so help her and show her.
ReplyDeleteI have a feeling something about his body turns her off from being intimate with him.