This is for the Ladies alone whilst the men read...
Why do you plan to cheat?..YOU PLAN!
I think this will make for a good discussion for your "couch talk" .....
I saw the attached comment some days back and being that my woman did something similar to me and also my friends and colleagues went through similar experiences so I would love us to discuss this "on the couch"
Now to the ladies in the house, why all the drama, why don't you come out plain and have the discussion up front with your man?
What's the assurance that the other guy you're going to cheat with is down to get married immediately?
Why risk throwing away everything you've spent time building?
Why risk hurting the person you claim you love?
In my own case, she cheated on me with someone else who I honestly don't think had any immediate plans of marriage and who did not even love her. Now this is someone I've spent three years with and she practically knows everything about me from finances down to family and plans for the future. I have decided to forgive and try again with her but am I really gonna be able to completely forgive and trust her??