Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Re- Memo To Men...MUST READ.

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Tuesday, 27 September 2016

Re- Memo To Men...MUST READ.

Sometimes calling out the men is useless when the women are no good themselves!
Did you read the first part?--Read MEMO TO MEN and then come back to read this.



Good day Stella,
I decided to write you today after reading the memo to men by Bv James, I will go straight to the point to tell my story.

Am from a family of 6, I was born with a golden spoon, my dad was the richest man in my community then, am talking of the 70s, but my life was a living hell, thanks to my mum. 

My dad was a living saint, he was the nicest man in planet earth, but he was so unfortunate to marry a devil for a wife, my mum destroyed my dad,dad was too quite for my liking, but my mum was a tigress,my dad gave her everything she ever wanted but she was never satisfied,dad was working in Lagos while we were at Enugu,mum will bring in men into her matrimonial home and she would warn us not to tell Dad,Stella as a child I was damaged,watching another man sleep with my mum on my dad's bed, eventually dad found out and sent her
packing.


Stella we were so happy and we begged dad not to bring her back, after about 6 months of living in peace, we were shocked when dad said he was going to bring her back ,this woman came back with 10 thousand demons,she went about borrowing money from people, what she did with the money nobody can tell cos she was not lacking,she was the one controlling dad's wealth, debtors were coming to our house everyday to demand for their money,the embarrassment was too much,that was the beginning of dads down fall,he sold the only house he had then to pay debt

mum separated dad from his family,when things became so difficult for dad,hisfamily members refused to help us because of what my mum did to them,Stella if I tell u what this woman did to us her children,you won't believe it,at a point we were doubting if she's our real mother because I have never seen a woman who hates her own children. My dad died out of frustration, till today we don't relate with her like our mother because even at this old age,she has not changed,her wickedness is growing by the day.


Stella you won't believe that all of us are praying for her to die,is that bad.


Have you ever seen a woman who derives pleasure in destroying the image of her children,no matter what u give to her,shes never satisfied, today my family is decided into 2 because of her,she gossips a lot,she has succeeded in causing division among her children, when I went through the comment section, I was glad when I read what Angelray4sdk wrote, I knew she was talking about the likes of my mum. 

Let me not bore you with my story, I just wanted to correct an impression in that article, maybe I will send more stories later. 



Thanks. Bv Jennifer.

139 comments:

stunning slim shady said...

Hmmm

STARRY LARRY said...

Mouth wide opened, this is the first time a child will speak so bad of her mum. Your mum must truly be a demon/devil in human skin. Sorry my dear, all will be well #E-hugs




*Larry was here*

amanda favour said...

Hmmm....
You're right though.

Anonymous said...

My dad would have married your mum,perfect match.

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

I wonder how a woman can be so cruel to her children, poster kpele, my uncles wife is worse than ur mum, maybe u guys should poison her to end her wickedness.

JACINTA MBACHU said...

What about meme for women?

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Hmmmmm. Things are happening.

Grabs watermelon Smoothie, turns system to Sleep mode!

Break hour na here I go sleep

Anonymous said...

@Poster, I can totally relate. I am married to a very bad girl.. Every day querrell over unnecessary things. Imagine a mother of 3 starting to prepare food yesterday by 9pm when I came back.

Adadioramma said...

I pray none of you learn from her. What a witch in disguise? May your Dad soul RIP. Nice men sometimes ended up with wrong wife.

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Hmm. Things are happening

Shileola Ayo said...

Africa! Even when your mother obviously doesn't like it, they still say shebi she's your mother

JACINTA MBACHU said...

Ur mother is wicked ooooooo why not pour her acid or give her otapiapia since d prayer for her to die didn't work

nicky onikan said...

That is the proper definition of a mother from hell. As I was reading this, all I could think of is patient Ozorkwo in nollywood movies

Scarlett said...

I think your mum needs deliverance. this thing isnt ordinary, biko

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Nwa Nlecha said...

Your story doesn't make all mothers terrible and neither did James' story paint all men bad......

The point is, if you find yourself in that position right now, just change.

Moreover, you are a lady, are you like your mum? Am sure the ans is no, so it means every woman isn't like your mum, and every man isn't like the man James talked about.


There will always be the Good, the Bad and the ugly in the world.

Anonymous said...

Women have had enough memo''s. ...There are bad men and women all over...Good People are good people..has nothing to do with gender...

Loveme Jeje said...

hmmmmmmmm what a painful read.

I remember our former late landlady, an isoko woman, any of her children that gives her more money is her friend. If you dont give her money, you are an enemy.

she caused lots of problem between her children and this is korokoro. what can you do about it.

I pray men find women who loves them and have their backs.

KEEPING UP WITH SDKB said...

Haaaa, what did I just read? You mean you mum is this wicked? Can't belief it.

For my own mum, she's prayerful that she can go on 12hrs vigil prayer for her children. But since I've known her, she doesn't have a stable work, or maybe I should say she doesn't like working. Up till this time in my life, can't boost of her spending #1000 on me. During my Uni days, daddy eloped with another woman when I was in 300l, so I paid my 400 and 500l school fees, reg fees, house rent, feeding and others myself. My mum didn't step into that shoes, but whenever I'm leaving for school, she will pray that I will find favor, will even drop from the foodstuff I bought myself and even drop no matter how little money for them (like #200 or more). Well, I give God the glory that I scaled through. But my mum will be the first to pray that once we're well-to-do, that she will reap the fruits of her labor. Different mothers we have, only God will helps we struggling children

Ibukunoluwa said...

Bo she wa ni liki,be lo wa ni gbanja
Its in both men and women
Marriage scares the shit outta me!😩

NORTH DAKOTA SIOBHAN said...

Holly Molly!
Akozikwana!
You don't say!
Pray tell, why give birth to kids you can't show unconditional love to?
When I hear the word 'mother' I see a god, I see a kind soul..
I see a heart that knows no malice even when maligned..
I see a lovely woman with a dazzling smile.
I see a woman that laughs out loud, and says "it's okay, mistakes happen' when her kid mistakenly breaks something or spills stuff.
How can a mother not be any of these?
I am so sorry that you had to go through all that poster.
Hopefully, you still have a positive outlook on life, relationships, and marriage.

Iyke Emma said...

God bless you for this my dear. I like it.

Sweetheart said...

This is serious. Mothers are always not like this. Tis well.

beeolah said...

Hmmmm some women are devil sha

crystal said...

Hmmm, will comment soon make I waka finish

young FOREVER said...

Hmnnnn.

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Chai,your mum is a rare case oooo,my family is different

JANET said...

To me it's 50/50. God help us

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmmmm
My mum is like your mum's relative o very manipulative somebody! All she ever does is scatter! She's the only woman I know that will have grown daughters without bf talk more of hubby and be very happy. My sister is 37 no bf no hubby! My mum has never asked her how far or at least show concern she doesn't even talk about it, she just acts like its normal, when she finally brought a man home my mum rejected the man because according to her, the guy's mother gossiped her and made her loose all her friends over 20years ago. Very vindictive! Na her pray pass but she NEVER forgives! If you wrong her she will bear the grudge for decades! When I was growing up which kain insult I no recieve from her? Animal, anuofia, idiot, akwuna, Wicked girl, heartless girl, Onye iberibe, which man will marry you, you are very ugly, she made me feel like the ugliest girl on earth. If I hear people hail their mums I just sad for myself. Even when my brother wanted to marry she bad mouthed his wife so bad am shocked that woman didn't run away, when she went for my sister's omugwo she won't let my sis and her dh have sex if she hears my sister moaning she will go to their door and start knocking, pls don't kill my daughter o! Open this door! What are you doing to her that she's shouting like that, they didn't even let her stay more than a month. My brother's wife practically did her omugwo herself even though my mum was there na after 10days them buy her things tell her thanks for coming you can now leave. I dey pity my sister 37years! My mum still doesn't want to release her, she keeps bringing up different excuses why she shouldn't marry her fiancΓ©. When my turn reach, she started her drama again, that my dh can't take care of me, he's too broke, that she spent a lot of money training me and I want to pay her back by marrying someone she won't gain anything from (mind you my dh was doing ok, he was not super rich then), I just quietly did my court wedding and took in while still living with my mum o, it was when I started showing that she called all my siblings to come and see how I've disgraced her, how she knew from the day I was born that I will always be a disgrace to her. I laughed like that day, I told her this is just the first child, I will still have the second and third if she doesn't respect herself and free me to marry my man. When I was about 7months gone, na her come beg my dh to come pay pride price. I gave her hell. While she was trying to hide the news that I was pregnant, I was flaunting my baby bump upandan. It's been 3years now and I she has never stepped her foot in my house but who cares? I am living happily with my husband!

Ammie said...

Bottom line is it takes both couple to make a marriage work
Don't just pray for a good wife, also be a good husband and vice versa

PLATINUM said...

Heya, kpele dear, in as much as there are demons in human form, there are still good people in this world.

Anonymous said...

you are right, some mothers are so wicked even to them self,always sad even when they have everything,drives happiness for outside instead of their home, at times i believe they were forced into the marriage or they are cheating and in love or naturally wicked. i am married to one demon and i am living in bondage. i will soon divorce her,just trying to make up my mind. if i don't, then i will die before my time. Mr coker

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Chummy cho cho said...

Hian!! Patience Ozokwor kind of mother raise to power 10..

St.FranKooL.... said...

#People say you don't know what you've got until it's gone. Truth is, you knew what you had, you just never thought you'd lose it*

Chidinma Gift said...

No gender is perfect, all these things na 50:50, we have cheating men likewise women, we have evil and heart less women likewise men.

VELS said...

eeya....jenny its well dear

Madam Small Chops said...

hmmmm ...This one pass me.

Well i think your mum was treated same way as a child thereby taking it out on you and your siblings.Am not making excuses for her,its just that i understand how a woman after going through labour pains and all we read on LRD will treat you the way you described.

I know some people are gossips,nag, backbite etc but not wicked to their own children.I know a fixer,his name is Jesus Christ.Before you condemn her to death, have you shown her the way to the Lord?

Do you even pray for her?? I feel you are consumed with hate for her.Am not judging you but you need to let go.

Your distancing yourselves from her is enough punishment already.

Truth is just as we have bad women, we have bad men too.

Jay Moore said...

Interesting story coming out from a woman about her own mother. Thanks Jennifer.
I have realised no matter the post here, "NIGERIA MEN" are tagged as no good to most of the ladies here. We are the worst human on earth reading by their comments daily. Men are bashed frequently here forgetting we have evil women as well as men.
Stories about women are fine, normal.
In their eyes, I quote, "No woman do wrong unless a man push her into such".
A lot of men have loads of stories to tell about their wives,girlfriends,fiancΓ©es but choose not to. A lot of guys read post here daily but hardly Comment to avoid unnecessary women bashing. Few men like us who even comment avoid most posts or chooses not to put up our opinion sometimes to avoid unnecessary ranting.
We can only pray for the best partners but both gender have issues.

I understand @James made a lot of sense but lets not always tag men as evil or tag Yoruba men as "No Good or being controlled by their mothers. Same thing happens with our own igbo brothers. They are individual cases.

Do we have bad men in Nigeria? Yes we have bad men and irresponsible men same way we have in western world (white/black).
Do we need reorientation as African/Nigeria men? Yes we do. I wish our fathers did good job talking to us as men same way our mothers nurtured our sisters.
Do we have bad women? Yes we do, we have bad women and irresponsible women as well.
We read blogs to get better as men and change some of our actions, i learn everyday same as most guys who visit this blog. No man is an island.
#Myopinion#

300 said...

Jennifer, Worry About Your Own Sin. You Will Not Be Asked About Your Mother's.

Anonymous said...

PG 18
Good post. Some people are just naturally bad, u don't need to do anything b4 they just want to hurt, hurt and keep hurting people. People are quick to call out men, when woman are worst.if man no mumu for woman he is named a bad man.
ASHAWO WAS 1's A VIRGIN

ZIONA said...

Hehe, ur mum na modern day jezebel, haba, the wicked ones never die,

Rhoda Rex said...

Praying for ur own mother to die? Why not pray for her to change instead of wishing her death? 😯😯😯😯😯

Rhoda Rex said...

Praying for ur own mother to die? Why not pray for her to change instead of wishing her death? 😯😯😯😯😯

Cindy Babs said...

Hian,Chim ooo. Some women can be all shades of evil. God help the good men to marry good women.

Dat Business Woman said...

Hmmmmmmm.......Deep
Marrying a bad woman is terrible

Greenland hostel (add up 55979E98, Apete Ibadan affordable modern self contained for all) said...

Well just like there are useless men so also there are useless women which is why courtship is advisable.

A colleague of mine married a womaniser and after marriage she expected him to change. Well he is worse now. He is possessed by the demon of sex.

Your dad made a mistake marrying her, even made worse mistakes calling her back. Women too make mistakes of marrying womanisers as husbands but console themselves with the lie that all men are like that.

SINGLES SHINE YOUR EYES SO AS TO AVOID ONE CHANCE

Anonymous said...

JayMoore abegi make we hear word Are you not a baby daddy?

Robyna Fenty said...

Some human beings are just bad. It doesn't matter their sex, age, tribe, religion, sexuality etc. Unfortunately some of you use these things to determine whether someone is good or bad. "OMG a Yoruba man? He must be a cheat" "She's Igbo? No wonder she's like that"."All men are evil". "Gays shld be shot" "Muslims are always causing problem". Take the comments during the Oba of benin's daughter's wedding to the hausa muslim guy. Most of you Just assumed that the marriage will crash or she was wedding out of desperation. Nobody considered the fact that maybe he is a good man or atleast good for her. You were all complaining that as a Muslim he wld marry another wife as if Christian or Edo men haven't gone behind their wives back to marry a second wife. Like there arent muslims with one wife. Don't people that marry from the same tribe or church divorce? Doesnt DV exist amongst couples that marry from the same village? The bigotry on that post was appalling. Only a few people actually wished her a happy married life. The most important thing is to end up with a good husband or wife regardless of tribe, religion or whatever. May God help us all. Amen.

la effizy said...

Wow.
Maybe she was possessed o.

Bluntly blunt said...

Hmmm,,so deep, sorry dear, it's well

Anonymous said...

Madam please keep quite! Who ever said women were angels? There have been millions of memos,articles,lectures telling women how to love,respect,care,in other words baby their husbands and becausr of just one article telling the men to learn to do same,you came to tell us your family history. All that memo was saying was couples,both husband and wife should learn to appreciate,love and care for each other. Otan!

Chiamaka L said...

This is really horrible, when we advise people not to remain in abusive relationships, it goes for both sex. I really feel bad for your Dad and your family, But as a BVn that you "is" nah, you can bring your family together, not by rubbishing your mum o, but with love, love and lots of love. start by keeping in touch, sending love quotes and you can seek God's guidance.
I love my siblings and parents way too much to allow any rubbish come between us.

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

Hahahahshahahahaha hahahahshahahahaha hahahahshahahahaha
You people will not kill me in this blog. So because he's a baby daddy he's automatically evil?
That's how Angelray told Ibukun to work on her height...hahahahshahahahaha that statement still cracks me up every time I remember it. Work on your height? Like Seriously?hahahahahahahahahaha

Anonymous said...

some women can be so heartless...

Eka Joy said...

Reading these stories about people's mum just made me appreciate my mum even more. That selfless woman that keeps supporting her husband. Worked tirelessly so that we'd all go to good schools. Worked tirelessly so that she could assist my dad in building a house and a home for us. Still working tirelessly till date to make sure there's always food at home.

Gosh! I love mum and dad. May u live long to reap the fruit of ur Labour.

Will be sure to give her a hug when she gets back from market today.

Bvs will d mama drama. So sorry for u. Really wish u had a mum like mine.

Nwa Nlecha said...

..... and what will be the difference between the wicked woman and the children if they take her life.

Anonymous said...

Lol

Mosi Jubelo said...

Wow, lol
Talk to your elder sis na, hmmmmm

Oby O said...

That will be an easy way out.. She must livelong to reap the fruit of her labout.

KEEPING UP WITH SDKB said...

It is well my dear, truly we have many pathetic parents

JANET said...

The earlier the better. Send her packing

Anonymous said...

This is my mother inlaw. Real witch.

Anonymous said...

When we still growing up, she will wake is up by 4am just to wash plate and make breakfast which can be done in less than hour woe betide you if finish your own chores by 5am and go back to bed, you must stay awake till its time for school and our school was just down the street. Na her go church pass from chosen -Mfm-winners-redeem-Christ embassy-sabbath-plus some other churches . If she quarrels you don't bother cooking in the house because she will pour anointed oil and all sorts on the food so that the poison you put in it won't affect her. If she quarrels with anybody and you greet that person, you will be homeless for 1week straight na for inside compound you go dey sleep. If you get ajob no matter how small you don turn housemate be that, you have your own share of Nepa bill, na you go dey buy fuel for gen, and food items too. On my wedding day I danced like mad woman because I was finally leaving my mum's house. Only God knows if it was just heart attack that killed my dad. Imm tired of typing jare

Anonymous said...

Guess your mum his related to my mum, I pray that my husband should locate me. When I was younger In junior class I heard her telling my neighbor how rich a passerby is and who his wife was, when the my neighbor left, I told my mum that I will marry a rich man the next thing my mum said in igbo language is Dem never marry girls wey fine finish na me wey ugly go come marry. I felt so said,abi na curse,that one na story for another day. Posted it's well just be prayerful for yourself and love ones.

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

Hehehehehehhehe @please don't kill my daughter oh.

Mao Akuh said...

Vice versa

Amacastel said...

Hahahahahahahahahhahha u be badoo u knw there rough coin & gave it to her. In my next world my mother will still be my mother but I don't wish my worst enemy the kind of father I have, a tyrant,bully aproko,bad belle, yet has not buy pant for any of his children, he is telling any1 dts cares that I don't give him anything well To me dts the beginning cos my father will merge with ur enemies to fight you his child or wife I wonder why God still keeps him alive.

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

Possessed since how many years?
That's her person
Nothing spiritual.

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Anon what does being a baby daddy have to do with what he said?

Starjoy said...

Thank you Jennifer, your mum is the elder sister of my own mum.

Anonymous said...

Your dad and his/her mum are psychopaths. I'm serious. These people are evil and totally self-absorbed and self centered. They destroy everything and everyone in their lives. As an adult steering clear of them is the best policy, even if you are their child.

pink lady said...

OMG!

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

Didn't you hear that vengeance is for God?

Mama Afrika said...

Best comment so far! We have good/bad men/women everywhere.

Anonymous said...

@Janet I don't want my kids to experience broken home but how long can I do this?

Anonymous said...

Ibukunoluwa why the varnacular? Don't dissapoint me abegi

CHI EXOTIC CHI EXOTIC said...

You psychos must sha bring someone's personal life into blog shit
So disrespectful and lame.

Anonymous said...

@sdk babe am just pointing out that he is not holy himself

Mama Afrika said...

woww... just wow! Its good you have a mind of your own.

stunning slim shady said...

Bros Watch war room

Watch fire proof...

Its well wt ur marriage.

Robyna Fenty said...

Are you sure she wasn't working all through the day?

Mama Afrika said...

And so what if he is a baby daddy? Pay attention to the message, wetin 'consain' you with the messenger. . .

Robyna Fenty said...

Pour acid or poison a fellow human being? Do you even think before you talk?

DonMayor said...

You better separate yourself from her. If you die, your children will live.

Anonymous said...

I read all ds stories wit tears in my eyes..i like my mum bcuz she's my mum n am a christain...My mum made life unbearable 4me wen I dint get admission..she constantly reminded me ow every1 was better dan me even my broda,she constantly cursed me n made life unbearable 4me..she made me learn ow 2hustle n b my own boss..today she wd rada beg 4rm me cuz my broda her Golden child doesn't care bout her...Am 26 nw n she has resumed her trouble bcuz am not married..she has opened old wounds..May God bless me fast so I can lve ds misery..

HRRT FBI said...

Like the Poster said yesterday"some men are sent from hell while some women are not nice" this kind of chronicle can go on till God knows when because some fathers are horrible while some mothers are terrible..have had friends with stories of fathers and mothers..some happen right in front of a visitor(me) and they dint care.

Anonymous said...

Just like my land lady. Nwanyi ahu by witch. Imagine, people do call her India Amin.

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Then die the way this posters dad died out of frustration, stop complaining since u don't want to do the needful.

Anonymous said...

If she kills you or an illness from frustration your kids will suffer more,even now they are suffering in silent. I mean growing up in a broken home is not the best but I didn't turn out badly, I think growing up in a damaged one is worst.

Tilly said...

But Yoruba men are being controlled by their mothers na. Thats one of the basic characteristics of a yoruba man. About 95% though..
To be fair

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

Oga divorce her already, marriage is not a do or die, I hate people who decide to suffer in marriage.

Alabi Ganiyat said...

Lord have mercy.....

teetee said...

Madam God bless u 4 dis comment. U must be well travelled n exposed to kno dis. Which one z behind dia bcks? Ryt in dia presence, n dey cnt do shit. Worst is dey even give d 2nd one belle first out of wedlock b4 marrying her

teetee said...

Lol. Cant stop laughing. Dis cracked me up

Jay Moore said...

Anonymous 14.45, I don't usually respond to comments by lunatics but i will this time as some of you with little brain always refer me as baby daddy. Of course i am proud father, thank God I didn't waste the sperm. A Very Very proud Dad with the most intelligent,smart,handsome boy,well looked after. Not by mouth ask those who know me here.
If you see my boy, you will wish you had yours today.
I understand your frustration due to hunger in the land, i guess naija situation is affecting your brain.

White Diamond said...

Jeez!

I really felt so sad reading this,Anons and Amacastel. So, bad because you lost out on the joys of having both parents love you with everything in them.

But not to worry, you'll find happiness soon. First anon, I'm glad you're happy in your marriage. Please, keep praying for your sister, that God would bless her with hers, so that she can leave too.

* sigh *

Na wah!

#WhiteDiamondOut

White Diamond said...

Jennifer, come take a hug, sweetheart.

I'm so so sorry about your mum.

I'm sorry that you don't know what it means for a mother to love her child.

I'm sorry that your dad who loved you all is no more.

Life's not fair, but we can still find happiness in it. I hope that you and your siblings do someday.

Hugs and kisses to everyone on here from broken / dysfunctional homes. It can't have been easy growing up like y'all did. *e hugs*

#WhiteDiamondOut

Tilly said...

How is speaking her mother tongue disappointing?

Anonymous said...

my own mum Is a devil,ThankGod she is dead now

Anonymous said...

story continue...

would av thought she has finally realized her mistake over d years nd try to make up with us d children.. but she still doesn't care,I do go to her father's aus where she now lives (my grandfather) ,I don't care about her thou. infact I thank my dad always for taking us with him

dad didn't remarry nd he is still young nd handsome..lol. sometimes I feel she has a problem (spiritual) cos I don't know how a mother will live like she doesn't av children. I don't seem to get it. I am glad she left with her lover den,I am more happy my dad took us in..i nd my brothers always pray dat they dont end up with a woman like my mother.

I am happy, I av a loving boo, I grew up well even better than other children who have both parents, I am not in anyway psychologically damaged..naaa!. My father is d most supportive human I av ever seen nd the person I love most in this world.


Anonymous said...

story continues..
u would av thought she has finally realized her mistake over d years nd try to make up with us d children.. but she still doesn't care,I do go to her father's aus where she now lives (my grandfather) ,I don't care about her thou. infact I thank my dad always for taking us with him

dad didn't remarry nd he is still young nd handsome..lol. sometimes I feel she has a problem (spiritual) cos I don't know how a mother will live like she doesn't av children. I don't seem to get it. I am glad she left with her lover den,I am more happy my dad took us in..i nd my brothers always pray dat they dont end up with a woman like my mother.

I am happy, I av a loving boo, I grew up well even better than other children who have both parents, I am not in anyway psychologically damaged..naaa!. My father is d most supportive human I av ever seen nd the person I love most in this world.


Anonymous said...

hmmmm, it's just as if dis poster is talkn about my mum..sometimes I wish her death(atleast it will be better to know I dnt av a mother).. my dad is a quiet man.
my mom had numerous men she was sleeping with,one of them even came to the aus to ask about my mum from dad(he didn't know dad was the husband. funny ryt?)

thou, my mum had 3 children from her previous marriage ( they are all dead nw..sad).eventually mum nd dad separated about 11yrs ago..my mother didn't fight to have us ,she went straight to her alhaji den nd left us with dad,it wasn't easy for us cos dad became broke nd me being the only girl among 2 brothers it wasn't easy for me.I was 12 den,all dis puberty stuff no one to put me through.

thou my dad is a mother,he provided everything for us ,he protect us.we all grew up well,now I am 23yrs,unfortunately for mom,she is back to her father's aus which is very close to where we live.ignore any typos,i didn't prove read

to be continued

Jenny zee said...

Pour her acid? That's cruel!! Where are u from ?

Esther Mgbolu said...

What are u waiting for anon?divorce her with speed of light

Esther Mgbolu said...

@anon14:45 what does being a baby daddy have to do with what he said?u must b a dullard

Anonymous said...

Some mothers are mean. My mum is a very good woman, I would not trade her for anything in this world. May God continue to bless and keep her

Esther Mgbolu said...

I thank God for my mum,shes d best mum.i feel so sorry for those have nothing good to say about their mum,i pray that God comfort you all

Mrs T said...

Amcastel, hope you're not my sister oh, cos that's my father you just described up there. My father head cooled down since I wedded my husband who came from Yankee out of nowhere to marry me despite my wretchedness. It was then he stopped yoking with our enemies and all the people that never wished us well.me I don't care for his supposed changed behavior.if not that my mum is there and they are living together.he wouldn't see shishi from any of us.since I came here I have not spoken to him directly and don't care.i only hear his news from others.

Oby O said...

But if she said it French you will be impressed abi? Funny people on this blog.

stephan said...

Oga did you drop money for food or she has to go workout/sellout the money,go to market to buy grocery with money before coming to make dinner afterong traffic.

Kusopa Dude said...

You deserve an award for this comment.God bless you.

D mbaise gurl said...

Lord have mercy. Did u actually see a man on top of her. As in screwing her? Dear lord pls come already

Opens totoh

reemah said...

Informed comment. Very sensible. You've just said what most people have refused to admit to themselves even though they know it deep within their hearts. Good and evil are individual traits of persons. Not a religion, not a tribe, not a race, not a gender. Simple!

stephan said...

Then I have no other option than appreciate my mum,she naggs to ease of her displeasures but she can sacrifice her life for us. Just don't piss her off else she will remind you of her sacrifice for you.as for prayer, awww she is my backbone.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Poster - you really don't know why your dad accepted her back. If it's not jazz then there must be another reason.
Secondly, your dad's family is wrong for not helping you because of your mum's wickedness. God forbid!they should have shared you people equally among yourselves, moved you away from her and helped train you. It's not your fault you have a wicked mother. They are very wrong for taking it out on you. Please watch them with side eye. I know someone who has an evil brother who married an evil wife join him own (YES I KNOW SOMEONE!! You people can die 😝). But when he returned for Xmas and saw his brothers 3 daughters suffering in poverty, he called a meeting and told his siblings that it's their responsibility to see those girls make it in life. Cos na the same surname them dey bear and if anything happens to them and they become prostitues tmr, it will be a genersl family problem. That truly made sense. They shared the children amongst themselves all the way to the US. And today, the girls are in their 20s - doctor, lawyer and architect. They don't even call their biological dad their father cos they don't relate well with him. Even though the same evil man and his wife have threatened to deal with them for taking his kids from him. He's not seeing the good in what they did.
That said, please BVs when a relative has offended you if the kids call you for help, don't take it out on them. Help them, they are just children. Don't repeat the cycle.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Lol. She's a lazy woman. Them dey!

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Why are all of you now going g under anonymous to abuse your mothers?

stephan said...

Truth is there must be something that man did to that woman that led to her living such life expcially venting anger in her kids 1 the man might be a chronic cheat, 2 her parents might have forecd or even sold her to the man all in the name of marrying a rich man who she dsnt luv,3 those kids might not be fathered by that man. You all don't knw the story even deep down that woman there must n a sceretshz going to get grace with. My 5cent based on what i"g seen. And No my mum gave us her all,which m doing to my kids.

Wumipwesh said...

My mum is kind,nice,prayerful. My mum is bae.
My dad hmmm,think of the worst words to describe him.

Anonymous said...

Adulterous wife alert! Evil mother signal!! Oloshi! Despite years of men bashin here, you have never crawled out of your hole to say women should worry about their own sin and not of men. Stanky women everywhere!

Bay said...

You have always been a very sensible person. You mum did a good job. To all other BV's, specifically the ones who keep displaying their continuous bigotry and shallowness, keep it but but going far in life with that attitude won't take you far.

Anonymous said...

Stephan I give her money in the morning She doesn't work only watch tv

ZIONA said...

Hehe, what won't I hear on this blog, so na only prayer she sabi

Vicky said...

God I am grateful for my parents..loving and peaceful...

Would never taje that for granted.

Vicky said...

That*

Anonymous said...

I married a she-devil from Omuma in Imo State. A very occultic family.

Anonymous said...

Stella, my mum is like that ooo. I leave her to God.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Hahahahahahahaha...
Jaymoore,this your reply na gbagam!...
Oh how I "rove"you!...

Anonymous said...

I feel bad for everyone that went thru one thing or the other in the hand a of bad parents. I have wonderful parents and I thank God everyday.

Jenny Ekwe said...

P.S
I am not the poster o

Anonymous said...

Senior sister who don join mama wickedness tey-tey is going 45, not married and not bothered infact eagerly waiting for her mama to give her husband.

Growing up till now, mama dey boast say no body match her for wickedness and I suffered endless, well calculated assorted wickedness even as she vow to make me a single mother just like herself and succeeded; and still boasts today that she achieved her evil goal.

Even claims that no mother is worth celebrating bcos all mothers are terribly wicked just like her only that others do so more codedly(hidden), to their children's ignorance.

Kept telling all her children she would bury them all and has succeeded in burying two now.

This no reach below quarter sef*

Anonymous said...

Why are you so quick to suggest divorce? Would you like if your own hubby/ future hubby suddenly divorces you. That is not always the answer, madam.

Chikito The Professional Runs Girl said...

Anon you no do thanksgiving reach me πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Chei! See suffer head. Now I know why there are so many angry people on this blog. God heal you guys oh. It truly pays to grow up in a sane home. It keeps you sane

#Miss Kay# said...

I think you should emotionally distance yourself from her for a while, don't answer her greetings, don't eat her food, no sex...all women like attention from their men, her head will soon reset...but Oga where u see this kind girl to marry na??? TV all day, Hmmmm Haba

Anonymous said...

Lol...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Shut up Chikito! It is people like you who are claiming "sane home" status that have horrid undercover stories. Later on Now we will hear your father was fingering you at three... πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚

Ayomide Adenike said...

may God give you guys the wisdom to leave and relate with her but don't ever think of poising her, biko.

super woman said...

Jesus wept! Whyyyy

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