You assured her everything will be alright, how can you advice someone to abort a four months old pregnancy and you said everything will be alright
WTF! 4 months is far too late for an abortion woman. It would have been better if she was just a few weeks gone not months. Adviser Nowamagbe
she'll will be fine.All this spirikoko mothers na their children this kind thing dey happen to.
You that is feeling like a counsellor is even worse than the devil, how sure are you that her mum isn't always talking to her? She wanted to taste prick now that's the outcome of it! So why is the 18 year old girl scared? Was she raped? NO! Is she aware of protective sex? Should her mum live with her in uni? Bullocks!
The blood of that child is on your head.4 months pregnant? What if she dies? Don't be an instrument of the devil.
You tried by counselling her but my dear abortion is not the best option.
End time homicide
Oh please!An 18yr old girl is not clueless That's a grown woman.You can only be deceived with love if you want toI was a virgin until I was 20And NO I wasn't deceived into giving up the coochie When you do something,own up to it and stop playing the victim.
Congrats to you for killing an innocent child you don't what he would have been tomorrow, and you're proud of it. Jisike!
@Ogeee, In the words of Sr Nkechi, clap for yourself, chief adviser and accessory to murder of the unborn child. Have you finish advising yourself? To commit abortion is the best help you can give her? The girl, yes, naive now suffer the consequence of having per-marital sex, maybe the parents are part of it but why want to complicate her life more by making her a murderer at 18. Are you sure that after this one she will not do another and become an expert. Instead of helping her you have succeed in adding petrol to fire just as you have ruined your own live you have recruited a new member. You better go and talk her out it before she kills an innocent child who has been destined to be born. The thunder that will fire you and the man involved... will come from the four corners of your stupidity and karmaliscious proportions. - Cyberghoose says so.
Eayah what a pity
Hmmmnnn... U prayed wv her to hv a safe abortion? God dun suffer
Hian...nawa o but the poster is saying reality, some parents go about spreading the gospel while their homes is rotten, ndi deepa lamp na ndi green banner, it is well
Really @ogeeeeeeee? So her mother should back to the city she went to preach? Is just unfortunate things happened the way it did, but please do not blame the mother. I don't have strength for plenty talk this morning. So vexed.
I hate later term abortions, there is just the possibility for things to go wrong. Why she waited so long to seek help? So many parents do not have a clue or to speak to their children or render practical guidance. If at the age of 14-15 parents would take the time out to demystify the sex act, more kids would wait. They allow the internet, friends or TV to do what they should be doing.
Oge better she abort it,single mother She is too young
Another attention seeker.abnormal people everywhere. How can you be talking her into having an abortion for 16 weeks pregnancy. If anything happens to that young lady, she (oge)should be held responsible. Who told her the mom does not talk to her daughter. Some of them don't listen no matter how you talk to them they still choose the part tgey want to follow.
But she's far gone na. Madam talkative, if anything happens to that girl, just know you've already implicated yourself; since you people have decided to bring everything to social media.I wonder how you people do it. Is it normal to put everything on SM or am I being too private? Because the things I see now ehnn... Issoryt!
Hey blunty. Is that your picture on your moniker? You're lovely!
Thunder this, thunder that. Can't you'all advice without spewing insults and hate? It kills your good intentions.
long time one trillion.
This is really sad, that girl needs help, telling her to have an abortion is risky.Let the girl make her choice, she made her choice to have sex, so she should be ready for the consequences. In as much as she's grown and can make her own decisions but her mother/parent is partly to be blamed too. No matter her busy you are have a lil time for your children.
Mmmmmm Four month is Damn too late for such advice of urs mr advicer on pregnant teen.Berra suggest something else after all,you are in no position to give such advice, are you a parent? Have you father a child before to know how it's done or you feel talk is cheap and that's the best you can offer.What do I know sef....
Exactly!At 18, she's an adult and has her own life to live.She should stop all the blame game and own up to her own bad choices jare
Really? That was the best this poster could do? Abortion!!!! What if in the future this girl can't have another child or worse. No one forced the 18 year old to have sex, these girls of today think they know more than their parents. Children of today just like so much enjoyment without realising that there is consequences to every action. Look stop blaming parents all the time kids will do what they want to do. Killing an innocent child is just so sad and selfish on the her part
Don't know what to say. 18 years is too young to have a baby but four months is too far gone to abort. I fear 4 her health.when parents don't have time for their children, outsiders will train them positively or negatively.
You all hypocrites should shut the hell up. The reality is that when u become a baby mama it becomes even more difficult to get a good single man to marry u. How many of you 30 something single ladies has gotten a husband.I read yesterday about a baby mama on FB that threatened to kill her child because she is lonely and no man wants to marry her bcos of her baby.
This doesn't even make sense.
It's well o... that's a decision one should make alone o, being an instrument or instigator of it is just wrong
Toh, when the mother is not available, see the kind adviser her pikin go meet.
End time adviser. 4months... That's risky
If the girl felt free to confide in her mother, there would have been no need for the counsellor. Now who knows what the repercussions will be. Charity begins at home. And that also goes for fathers.
And she prayed with her when she agreed to the abortion. What an irony!!!
So she shudder keep the baby when she herself is just a baby....Abortion is not totally bad especially when it concerns teenagers who still have a long road ahead of them
Onome u will be surprised that in this age no and time most parents are still very UNCOMFORTABLE with discussing sec with their kids, so the story may be true
Leave blood a beg like u haven't done worse
I am not understanding #inagu'svoice# instead of assuring her everything will be alright after abortion, why not encourage her to inform her parents about it and keep the baby. She has made a mistake, she's suppose to bear the consequences. Just pray nothing happens to her negatively coz you will be the one responsible. 4 months preggy is far gone, that's MURDER
So many people will judge the 18year old girl by the truth is most of this girls don't really know much about protecting themselves and as for the mom I hope she wakes up from Wakawaka and talk some sense into her kid...In all of this if she doesn't learn from her mistake then the abortion was a waste cause another pregnancy is not far from her.
U are so dumb
I am tired of naija. Every time you watch the news there is always an expert in one thing or the other. Today on the news they were talking about monkey eating camel and out popped Dr. Oji an expert/advocate on monkey eating camel. Haba where did he learn it from. Help.
I am not "understanding" oh...you talked her into having an abortion and then prayed with her? God have suffered oh; it will be interesting to know the wordings of the prayer. Why didn't you contact the mother? You are so quick to judge oh, how sure are you that the mother did a bad job raising her up? I've seen girls who go haywire inspite of strict monitoring and prayers so what are you talking about? An 18 year old is not a girl but an adult so leave the mom out of it afterall we have ladies without mothers and parental guidance turning out well.Better fly back to her and redo that your useless advice. You didn't think of the future consequences? Other alternatives like giving birth and giving it out? Agencies that accept such girls? Madam adviser msheww
Why couldnt u hv advised her to tell her mom,how cn u advise an 18yr old to abort without either of her parent's consent!
In her mind she's better than the girls mother abi. She should give us feedback ooo. Hope nothing happens to the girl?
Thank you. Teenagers of now that knows more than adults.
I will disown my daughter if she becomes a baby mama in fact I will personally chase her away from my house with a Cutlass
You talked her into getting an abortion? Oya clap for yourself.....what's the difference between u n her? May God punish you for this n may the blood of the innocent child be on ur head. 😠
Abortion is not murder. Technically the foetus does not meet all the characteristics of a person. If abortion is the most realistic way out of the situation then its ok. Abortion is not murder.
Up to 7 months is the legal period to abort in the UK.
I pray she even survive. Four months is way too gone.
It's not too late.. At 4 months, it can be removed via Surgery or MVA.
Every one has a right to abortion. Italy not be the best option for you, but may be for her
That's why sex education is necessary. When I say sex education I mean proper one in proper way and not the usual...*if a man touch you, you will become pregnant*...Parents should know the world we live in. Educate the girls on monthly circle, tell them how to calculate ovulation and all. Tell them the essence of condom especially boys. Talk to them about STDS, talk to them about the implication of abortion and all the rest of them. And above all commit them to God.
September 28 - Global day for access to safe and legal abortion..
Women eeh.. So she wants to abort it because the guy is not a celebrity. If na Flavour or davido now, will you advise her to go for an abortion? Ladies deceiving themselves since 1800
She prayed with the girl for a safe abortion when did she become a decision maker in the girl's life. let her parents decide if the baby should be kept or not.
Yeye anonymous. If Dangote impregnate her, story go change abi?
What an ironyMchewwwwwwww
Hahahahahah...... and they'll come here cussing ogee out! Lol! Hypocrites! Most of you here has aborted 6months pregnancy before. And anoda most abort 4 times in a year. For me, abortion is still an option at 4 months. She should save herself the suffer biko. some of u eat 5 times in a day yer e get the ones wey no dey even see half chop sef. That's how most of these small girls end up in 'waterside', Ogee if u can, please take her to a very good hospital wer a good doctor will handle her with care. Awon hypocrites be coming here to preach.
Some of you reason from your anus! Nigerians are way too pseudo-religious, too judgemental and hypocritical to face reality. Everything is about "image."So she had sex at 18 before marriage. Big fucking deal! How many of you are virgins? In fact, how many of you were still virgins at age 16, not to even talk of 18?Have you considered the fact that maybe she was lonely and thought that sex would give her the love and affection she wasn't getting from her parents? A lot of women have sex for reasons like that!Has any of you had parents who don't want you? Like, they make it clear that you are a burden and they don't know what to do with you? That is the most painful thing in the world! It happens when people who were not ready to or meant to be parents become parents! It is much better to save the child the trauma of being with parents who don't want him/her by aborting the child! Mom doesn't suffer, child doesn't suffer.Religion and society make you believe that motherhood is the greatest gift a woman can receive and that its compulsory for every woman but that's not true for every woman. There are plenty women who regret being mothers. There are plenty women who would rather have careers. Society needs to stop judging women who choose to have abortions and respect the fact that every woman has the right to decide what's best for her!#TeamShoutYourAbortions#TeamPlannedParenthood#TeamProChoice#TeamMyBodyMyChoice#TeamUnapologeticFeminism#TeamLiberalsAndDemocrats#TeamHilary2016
The world i truly coming to an end. Jesus Christ come already!She prayed with her for a successful abortion of 4 months old fetus. She is sick, who told her the teenager's mother does not talk to her daughter? As someone asked, was she raped or forced to get pregnant?She forgot that teenagers of these days can be desperate and curious.She should arrested. Who/what gave her the right to make decision on the girls behalf.
This is so wrong on every level
Hope this adviser general knows that if anything happens to that girl she is in deep shit. Biko who died and made her God? Nawa o.God help us
@ blue bird hahahhahahaah na really adviser nowamagbe
Heavy duty homicide! That foetus is alive with all the organs formed and developing albeit tiny..kai!!
I was of her age when I aborted my baby that was four months..chai,was so horrific mehn.I was psychologically down cos I gave birth to it after labor of about 6 hours,my relative disposed it off but the guilt almost killed me.When I saw someone carrying a baby then,would say in my mind...my baby my baby.I still remember it up till now.Pre marital sex is so destructive!Just my first year in school(4months in school).Thank you Lord for your mercy upon my life,even in my unfaithfulness,you gave me children.Thanks for forgiving me and making me a changed person☹
Na really end time Homicide. Lol
@star She must go and live with the Dangote that impregnate her
And you came under anonymous to chant abi? Shame dey catch you to come boldly under your own name? #teamshoutyourabortions indeed! Get an ID first then come back and glorify abortion. There's no kudos in getting an abortion under such circumstances.
From frying pan to fire. You've committed a sin of premarital sex please don't add to it. Bear the bruntDon't listen to your counselor, she probably has done same beforeConfess to your mother and God
This is total ignorance, is abortion not illegal in Nigeria? This is Criminal abortion, except there is a medical indication to terminate the pregnancy either because it is poses a threat to the mothers life or the child. This girl just gave an open confession against herself. God help us.
This one is wicked oh. 4 months pregnancy??? That baby would have been formed fully, hands, legs, fingers and all. And this one seems to have something against preachers. What makes her think the mother hasn't spoken to her daughter severally. Will she follow the girl everywhere she goes???
and the boy that got her pregnant will be happy seeing her with no baby bump and probably continues from where he stops. Where didn't you meet the 'father' of the pregnancy?
Thank God for you💋💋
Portharcourt bluntly is miss aboki, Miss aboki is Hannah.Lemme go and find the link
Jeeeeeeeeeez! See counsellor that needs counselling herself. The thunder, the thunder,the thunder dat will fire u will come in 3 shades of aso ebi colors.. Chinese white, ewedu green and cockroach brown! (in sister Nkechi's voice)
7 months ke? E don reach to born the pikin at once na
It's so sad when mothers can't really relates to their girl child, even if you are absent in their lives create an atmosphere that they can easily reach out to you. In this case even if the mother is around that girl won't even be able to talk to the mum.
Nor be only 18yrs and clueless, nor be one 17yrs abi na 12yrs send chronicle come here when she say she talks to be everywhere even in the bus and that she is a virgin but not a virgin, the counsellor was wrong, it wouldn't have been easy for the gurl tho but she would have advised her to keep the pregnancy and when she delivers the baby she should put her up for adoption, finish
Don't mind them. Hypocrites!
Ralu M, is she suppose to use her full name just because she wants to drop a comment? Let's be realistic abeg. That girl can not take care of herself not to talk of a child and the mother is not always available. So why subject her thru another suffer?
U think leaving ur baby with another person is easy? Ok o.
@ ideato no matter how you try to link me with miss aboki, it's not gonna work and am not gonna even argue or bug even one bit.
Very very true.
Nobody is saying she shouldn't own up. Not every body has the same upbringing and sense. What will you say of a child that us always told to stay inside.don't go out ..don't socialise and then no sex education. Maybe even neglected by the parents while growing up. And one guy just comes and talks sweet things.makes her feel special for the first time. Forget oh Parents need to do a better job! So madam responsibility.not everyone is like you. If not the word experience or mistake will not be in existence.
Enn jasmine which do u think is best, abortion? Or giving birth at such early age when she won't be able to shoulder the responsibility, where it will be difficult for her to settle down being the fact that she is going to be a single parent, or the fact that the baby will not be loved properly.
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