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Monday, October 10, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

WHAT nonsense !!!





STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BREAK UP ISH

Good day Stella,I'm in a confused state right now,it's a complicated situation but I'll try to make it as simple as......


my younger sister who is 19years old just broke up with her boyfriend not less than 3weeks ago,the guy had engaged her and wanted to marry her by December.he met her while she just came into the university,...but she wanted to study abroad so she applied and gained admission in Canada,tried for visa twice and finally got one,meanwhile she and this dude were barely communicating at the time of her visa procurement.

She was in lagos at the time and mentioned it to the said bf,he Picked interest and started pushing for marriage....time for her travel he booked her flight ticket to and fro,by fro I mean March this year,without the knowledge of my parents guess he had his plans,he gave her a ring of which I didn't know it was for engagement,cus she was not bold enough to let me know but I later found out,he bought her phone,laptop,clothes etc.and for the BTA he provided 1000cad which my parents tried to give him back but he refused...

She travelled by May and he's been sending her money for accommodation and feeding but my parents paid her school fees.i personally wasn't in support of her getting married at such age and then coming back to Nigeria by Xmas for trad,white wedding,and court,I always felt he was up to something...

he'll talk bout he's plans to start doing business in Canada after they had gotten married,how he'll be visiting her four times a year and also she coming back every Yuletide season.i just felt marriage will deter her from concentrating and focusing on developing her life,at such young age,I even told him to let her be for at least two years but he'll prove stubborn!

Meanwhile in all of this he hasn't seen my dad,the couple of times they spoke on phone he'll tell him my daughter isn't getting married now...but I guess he was moving with his plans he had with my sister.my sister called it quits with him recently for some reasons....the story is long!!


he's asking for refunds of all he has spent on her,my sister agreed to pay him back,he asked she returned the phone and laptop....he called my parents and threatened to go diabolical with revenge in his words....here are some of the chat he had with my sister please stella make it anonymous......I just need To know what you guys think on this matter,and Stella please your input will be appreciated.thanks 









 Too upset to even be articulate..What a childish man,please make sure your sister returns his things to him....Cant deal with men like this!..haba!!!



229 comments:

  1. Check for the meaning of 'independent'.

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  2. Buahahahahaha chei! stella, these your Bvs will not kill somebody. Which one is basic travelling allowance? PTA: Personal Travel Allowance. BTA :Business Travel Allowance

    I honestly don't see what the poster wants with this publication. Since your father can afford the flight tickets, rent etc, let him pay back the man na. Your sister comes across as unremorseful and arrogant in her chat and I believe she used him knowing your parents will not be able to afford the full cost involved. Has she gotten a scholarship or bigger Maga? Complete the gist na. There is a way you dump someone and they won't feel too bad. If it was your brother that was so deceived, what will you advise him to do?

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  3. You did not read where it said he gave her 1000 Canadian dollars and paid her rent et al? Are Canadian rents, feeding etc quoted in naira?

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  4. Madam chikito as d HR dat u r now see ur saying wen dey come to beg for job, oya na clap for ur self, president for d association of Nigeria employees,d fact DAT u have a job nw doesn't mean u will have 2morrow.

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  5. Thank you Mrs Bee!! I'm on this blog and I don't famz or insult anyone. And I know I give very very good advice,better than most. And I share experiences from my own point of view. So what is it? Did I kill anyone? They won't let Chikito be! Today they say I'm bragging, tmr they say I'm lieing. Am I your next door neighbor? Do you even know me? Have I sent my picture here before? The other day someone accused me of being molested by my dad when I was a child just because I was defending the fact that children i know from broken homes shouldn't be stigmatised in marriage and I was empathising with them. When you people want to abuse you change to anonymous mode. Why am I even wasting my time..... that's typical nigerian behaviour. People won't learn to leave and let live.
    As for you ideato, keep your scrawny fingers off my comments and go and buy hand lotion so thwy stop looking like chicken feet. You think i cany abuse too, because i see and ignore. Now I know why they call you ideato idiot. You just won't mind your business. The other day you insulted someone calling them a janitor on the job interview post as if you're any better. Many people have shared their experiences under this particular chronicle it's Chikito you want to gang up on. Crab feet!

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  6. @ Mawi, you've saved me the stress of typing; very well said!

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  7. Well said, don't mind the yeye poster. Simply return the money since your parents can afford it abi? They all used him, how will a father speak to the boyfriend of his 19year old, be OK that the man bought ticket, paid for accommodation and is taking care of his daughter?? Just say that your sister has caught a bigger fish which is good for her but I don't understand why you guys can't quickly transfer the money back to him. Oops, that wasn't part of the scam was it?

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  8. Thank you nwa amaka..that guy is a true son of igbo land and he has just made us proud!

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  9. She shld refund every dime! Story is too one sided joor.

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  10. Sex for money? If he wanted that kind of sex,he wldnt hv been this neck deep in commitment with a prostitute. D girl shld return every dime,from her response on d chat,she is even making d guy look like a fool. Although d guy is greedy,a lot of single mature girls around him that will not take him for granted but he was running after a 19yrs old like a homeless puppy.πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  11. If they had a normal boyfriend /girlfriend relationship, your story will make sense but they went a step further. He made his intention known that he wanted to marry her, she accepted his ring hence his willingness to sponsor her. That does not mean that she cannot change her mind but from the chat, it appears your sister is not a nice person and played him from beginning with the way she is lol on such a serious issue. We read a story of a girl that sponsored a boy's masters and was even considering leaving her practice to join him only to find out on SM that he got married to someone else everyone was abusing the dude. How is your sister different? Your parents acceptance of his help infers consent to his intentions unless they are not responsible people. No responsible parent will allow a 19year old accept such gifts from a man they don't want as a son in law. If you like, make una do strong head and not return, you didn't seek our advise when your sis was enjoying the dividends of her scheme. I will not be surprised if your sister was even the one that said she can pay him back at the beginning of the chat. Girls before her have said that in situations like this (when they use a guy they know they don't like enough to marry to get to where they want be it Uni education, etc.) and many will still say it years to come.

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  12. πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚anon 18:44

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  13. That was how God saved my friend from 1 chance marriage, she met this dude who happen to be a former classmate on FB, they started a long distance relationship as my friend is based in Lagos while he is based in Calabar, the 2nd time he came to see her, he proposed after 2 months dating mainwhile, my friend had not gone to see him in calabar,cos she was too busy with work i guess ,that was how bros started pushing for wedding, they did introduction, after introduction my friend went to visit him, he paid for her flight ticket, but guess what the moment my friend got back home, bros called and said he was broke and his car had issues that my friend should pls send him some cash to fix his car,the money he requested for was equivalent to the flight ticket, after plenty story my friend sent him the money, so bros started making demands, his rent was due in Dec, he told my friend that they will both contribute money for his rent since they plan to be married in Feb.That was when my friend refuse to accept the condition and told him to sort his rent and move the wedding to July, bro come vex dey threaten "fire and brimstone" my friend just called his family that her family has concluded to move the wedding to July. Bros wanted to commit suicide, my friend was not move,(stubborn babe) no gree o.
    My friend then went to visit her boo for xmas,(they both paid for her flight, as he paid half of the ticket fee) that was how bros opened his mouth and started talking that he went to several prophets to get my friend to accept his proposal and the prophet gave him soap and some other things to use, after he used it, that was when he proposed her,my friend could not believe her ears, but she played cool and did not act strange,a few days to her departure, bros opened her wallet and took out some money,my friend noticed but played cool cos the guy suddenly started displaying some aggressive traits.
    When she got back to her base she told her family that she's no longer interested in the wedding/marriage. Mainwhile, the dude is really pushing for the wedding, he sent her 100k to kickstart the planning. That was how my friend said she's not interested again.
    The guy started threatening, that my friend must return his 100k 1st,my smart friend returned his money instantly, he now started begging and pleading o.
    Did i mention that my friend is 34, there's nothing this dude did not say.
    Guess what, he got married 3 months after to his pregnant ex.


    FO

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  14. Stella Childish man indeed. I wish one of your brothers encounters same. The girl and her family are criminals. Shameless family. The guy made his intenstions known from day 1. If you don't want such agreement why string him from day 1. Your shameless family should pay back every kobo to that guy. Ndi oshii. Wish someone does this to one of your brothers. If you have any.

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  15. The family has washed dem sef with hypo.. he bought ticket to Canada, paid for BTA , buy her stuffs, and your parents has never met him and allow your sister to collect all that and bring them in without any formal introduction (face to face tlk) @ least to ask for his hometown, his kind of job et al, u said u ain't are of the engagement ring but u saw it on ur sis and u think that karate gold was panda smh.
    Don't be confused, it's simple yours sis should refund him, thuo it can't be same @ least she got the ticket and all on point needed.....
    All of you shaking head like agama lizard, assuming it was a guy one babe help with tick and the guy said he isn't interested you will scream gold digger, fuck boy, yoruba demon, Igbo amadioha ..... Make baboon dey work monkey dey chop abi tufiakwa

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  16. The family has washed dem sef with hypo.. he bought ticket to Canada, paid for BTA , buy her stuffs, and your parents has never met him and allow your sister to collect all that and bring them in without any formal introduction (face to face tlk) @ least to ask for his hometown, his kind of job et al, u said u ain't are of the engagement ring but u saw it on ur sis and u think that karate gold was panda smh.
    Don't be confused, it's simple yours sis should refund him, thuo it can't be same @ least she got the ticket and all on point needed.....
    All of you shaking head like agama lizard, assuming it was a guy one babe help with tick and the guy said he isn't interested you will scream gold digger, fuck boy, yoruba demon, Igbo amadioha ..... Make baboon dey work monkey dey chop abi tufiakwa

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  17. The family has washed dem sef with hypo.. he bought ticket to Canada, paid for BTA , buy her stuffs, and your parents has never met him and allow your sister to collect all that and bring them in without any formal introduction (face to face tlk) @ least to ask for his hometown, his kind of job et al, u said u ain't are of the engagement ring but u saw it on ur sis and u think that karate gold was panda smh.
    Don't be confused, it's simple yours sis should refund him, thuo it can't be same @ least she got the ticket and all on point needed.....
    All of you shaking head like agama lizard, assuming it was a guy one babe help with tick and the guy said he isn't interested you will scream gold digger, fuck boy, yoruba demon, Igbo amadioha ..... Make baboon dey work monkey dey chop abi tufiakwa

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  18. The family has washed dem sef with hypo.. he bought ticket to Canada, paid for BTA , buy her stuffs, and your parents has never met him and allow your sister to collect all that and bring them in without any formal introduction (face to face tlk) @ least to ask for his hometown, his kind of job et al, u said u ain't are of the engagement ring but u saw it on ur sis and u think that karate gold was panda smh.
    Don't be confused, it's simple yours sis should refund him, thuo it can't be same @ least she got the ticket and all on point needed.....
    All of you shaking head like agama lizard, assuming it was a guy one babe help with tick and the guy said he isn't interested you will scream gold digger, fuck boy, yoruba demon, Igbo amadioha ..... Make baboon dey work monkey dey chop abi tufiakwa

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  19. The family has washed dem sef with hypo.. he bought ticket to Canada, paid for BTA , buy her stuffs, and your parents has never met him and allow your sister to collect all that and bring them in without any formal introduction (face to face tlk) @ least to ask for his hometown, his kind of job et al, u said u ain't are of the engagement ring but u saw it on ur sis and u think that karate gold was panda smh.
    Don't be confused, it's simple yours sis should refund him, thuo it can't be same @ least she got the ticket and all on point needed.....
    All of you shaking head like agama lizard, assuming it was a guy one babe help with tick and the guy said he isn't interested you will scream gold digger, fuck boy, yoruba demon, Igbo amadioha ..... Make baboon dey work monkey dey chop abi tufiakwa

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  20. If it doesn't feel right, then it's not right. She knew what she was getting into..All I can say is tell her to handle the break up as maturely as possible.

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  21. I love this Chikito girl.. You people better leave her alone o

    @Rolanda, you said it all

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  22. Omg!!! But this family is shameless.. I'm even ashamed for the poster

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  23. The guy in question is obviously not looking to gain any materially from your family. Your parents should be ashamed that a stranger sponsored their daughter while they were clapping and failing to agree they understand the guys reasons. Your dad was obviously aware the guy wanted to marry your sister hence his words that 'Your sister wasnt getting married now". The guy continued bcos he had hopes for the future as your sister had also accepted his ring.
    Your family better coughs out the guys money before things get ugly...
    Try this with a Delta boy who is hell bent on collecting his money and you guys won't walk around without looking over your shoulders.
    Ole family!!

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  24. In order to avert problem pay him back all that he had spent on you. If you want to reject the devil you reject him totally..

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  25. Anon 23:23....the girl want dey use Canada dey threaten men ooooo...I believe that guy sponsored everything from the beginning to the end..madam majority of us here are educated and can smell foul play from a distance..pls your family should pay this guy every single penny.

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  26. How many women ever consider that the man contributes his erection and milk during sex?
    Do you think it is easy to keep an erection? Ask your father and he will tell you.
    Ask your elders and be wiser. It takes two to tango.

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  27. Anon 18.44 πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚chai! This ur story shoukd be a seperate post

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  28. U see ur dead reply bah @whiye berry. U av dix foolish mentality DAT its only guys DAT benefit frm sex nd DAT ladies only av sex to offer in a relationship.. Ur very stupid

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  29. return what, will he also return all the gabashing back? that guy is still a sucking baby.

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