STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BEHIND EVERY UNSUCCESSFUL MAN IS HIS WIFE CARRYING THE BLAME.
Stella, please I need advice, suggestion seriously,concerning my husband, because I was just been told that for my husband to be successful depends on me.
My Dh is a good,honest,dedicated, faithful to God and to me and hardworking man as in a hustler yet nothing to show for it. He was working before he later
joined his brother in his business, the business started booming all BUT
of a sudden, the brother said he wants to close down the business.
DH started looking for job everywhere but nothing was forth coming, He was
introduced to somebody that gets work for people, the man started
posting him, today, tomorrow, next week and all that, later he met one
man that owns a company and the man told him to start work, getting
there they met the admin who is the mans brother stated talking to the
man in their dialect that was how the admin said bring CV that they
will call him, up till today no show.
He has applied and applied still nothing, in fact so many cases which I can't begin to mention. On my own I said ok let me start something maybe that is where open doors will come, I applied to some places still nothing, I later got 17,000 naira job which always leave us in debt because is not enough. Feeding
is a big issue, we are not talking of good food again because basic
food is not there, my children are even at home no school this term,
because last term we did not pay.
I cant go and beg the school again,rent is almost due infact everything is upside down. We have prayed,night, midnight, early morning, morning, nothing, fasted end of the month, beginning of the week,month, middle of the month yet nothing.
Gone to Church programs, mfm all to no avail, he keeps on meeting
people they will be making promises, whenever I come back the first
question I ask is did anybody call you, and the answer which I have
been praying against will come out which is no, dh is a hustler, at
times small money will come out when he helps people do things. In
fact is better imagined than experienced because we are in a very bad
The main thing that made me write this is that on Sunday 4th
September, one woman was preaching in my Church she said that for your
husband to be successful that it is in your hands the wife, and if he fails
it is also in your hand, many women that their husbands are rich nodded
Stella I was weak I started thinking what I have I done,or what am I doing that is wrong, that is causing all these I can't think of anything,I know I have prayed all manner of prayers personally,have done thanksgiving prayers, sown seeds and so many others but no result. I have not been able to sleep well and I have
not gone to my church since then.
I am asking please bvs, men that are successful what has your wives
been doing or done to help, women whom their husbands are successful
what did you do to achieve this ? advice me on what to do,Stella your
red pen is needed too because I know your DH is a successful man.
thank you and God bless.
*I am sorry but i do not understand what the woman preacher means.....
What every man needs is encouragement and as long as he has the zeal it will happen.I dont know what else to say but DH wasnt rich when we married but i saw the light behind him and just pushed and encouraged.He was just coming out of University so you can imagine how scared i was thinking if it would work or not.
Maybe you will find answers in the comment section.