NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
THE INTRUDER IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Hi Stellz , for all the good values you have impacted in my life,i just want to let you know you will always be in my heart and I love you damn much 😘 . Please your advice is needed badly o as I am very pissed with the guy involved. Just yesterday I went to bf place to chill,so I decided to cook for us
(me ,bf and his friend ,a business colleague).
Let me give you a brief gist about the colleague,he is bf close pal aside being a colleague and he stays in bf apartment most times when they have to work late . The guy is nice but a chatterbox,hes inquisitive and can be obnoxious,he doesn't know how to mind his business or when to talk and before now there was a time he got on my nerves ,that day I was very sick (I had toothache) so bf begged me to help them make egg sauce with plantain,i didn't add salt to the plantain because my bf doesn't like salt in his plantain,na so this uncle start to dey complain that I didn't put salt in the plantain that I should pack the food and take it home even in my sick state.
I was not happy and expressed myself to bf when he was going to drop me home and he begged that I should not be angry.
So back to yesterday,while in the kitchen cooking,i was on WhatsApp chatting with my friends,colleagues and truthfully with an ex bf ,it was just a random talk with the ex,you understand how this ex can like to disturb you with talks and memories when chatting with them just to bring you back.
P.S - my ex knows I'm with bf now.
I dropped my phone in the sitting room to go check on what I was cooking in the kitchen, that was how uncle carried my phone and read all my chats and when he got to the chats with my ex,he read that too and had the guts to show my bf about the chats ,that one came to meet me in the kitchen annoyingly and started questioning me and was forming vex,i was surprised he saw my chats reason being that we don't snoop on each other's phone.
While trying to explain to him,bf colleague was already in our midst judging and shouting girls girls na wa o, I confronted bf that what was meant to be between us that we can settle amicably he went ahead to tell his friend ,I asked him to drop me home,on our way home that was when bf told me it was his friend that saw the message and showed him...
Imagine that kind of thing .
I asked bf that what if I had private pictures or something very very personal on my phone ,that is how his friend will snoop my phone. Stella I'm not happy at all and I don't know what to do to the guy ,I don't understand what he's trying to achieve or gain. My bf is this quiet type that likes his peace or should I just say that guy has so much control over him or what , because I've asked him to help me warn the guy on my behalf but he said he won't do stuff like that ,he even said it was God that allowed him see all what he saw on my phone through the guy,i asked him if it was my nude pictures,will he still be saying such. Sis please advice me on what to do to the guy and my bf because I'm not just happy at all. Sorry for the long story.. thank you
Ah ah,what is this?....A snooping friend keh?A boyfriends friend who snoops and doesnt mind his business?...Hmmm this sounds like bad news.If that snooper has a hold on your man then wahala dey cos it looks like he aims to break you both up...Maybe you should reduce your edible catering services to your boyfriends house and if you stay alone,let him visit you more.
NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
Hello Stella ,am one of your ardent reader ,and I love this blog so much.
I would love your advice and advice from my lovely bvs.
My elder sister is engaged and she is panning her wedding but Stella here is the thing ,my elder sister invited my two sisters over to her finances house in another state to come and chill with her ,and things got out of hand and the guy and one of my sisters started chatting on WhatsApp and my sister started sending him nudes and stuff ,talking about on how to see each other and sex themselves rent a guest house and he is going to give her money .
my elder sister didn't know about this ,they were just doing this codedly and my elder sister later found out through my immediate older sister ,my elder sister cried her eyes out ,I felt for her and I was thinking she will receive sense but No she didn't .
Stella the thing is that my elder sister wants to continue with the marriage and Stella to be honest am really scared .I feel the foundation of the marriage is already bad ,and I also feel God is showing her signs about this guys ,but she doesn't want to see it cause maybe she is feeling that people now knows about her engagement ,and the urge to get married is there ..
Stella I love my elder sister so much but am so scared for her ,cause once a cheater is always a cheater ,I don't want a situation whereby she will get married to him and the guy will now start his cheating and he might even come for that my younger sister.
She is staying with the guy in another state and they are not having sex until marriage , my sister that caught my younger sister and the guy said my younger sister has a bad spirit that a man cant resist but Stella I don't think so ,cause that my particular younger sister went on Facebook and found my ex, but they didn't do anything cause when I found out I threatened him but he said they didn't do anything that they were just friends. I talked to my mom about it my mom said there is nothing she can do that my sister has made up her mind ,and mind you my dad was not informed about what the guy did .
Now the guy said he is coming to do introduction but Stella my mind is not at rest at all . I don't want to see my sister get hurt cos marriage is a life time.stella please I need your red pen .
And I will refer her here so she can read your comments ,so it won't be like nobody told her or advised her .
Please let me read the comments