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Wednesday, October 05, 2016

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives.

This is one horribly shocking narrative number two..ah!!!!





NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
 BETRAYED...

Good Day Stella,
I love your blog like kilode, more grace and God bless you!
I never wanted to say this but it's been bothering me because I don't know if am doing the right thing. I decided to write you because of what I read on your blog about the lady who told her friend about her business plans but stole her ideas... Pardon my long story ooo abeg!


Now here's mine: I have this good friend of mine I trust so much because she was so nice, understands me so well and I love her so much that I can do
anything for her and her family. We support each other in different ways, been there for each other and her kids holiday in my house.


 We are both married.

After I got married, I began TTC but to no avail, she became worried and was running around for me trying to help so I could have my own child until she suggested I visit a gynaecology who confirmed I had fibroid so I told her and we started thinking of what to do next. After sometime, I began to notice body movements from her other friends but I just ignored it until her sister in-law told me that my friend told her I had fibroid hence my inability to conceive.


Stella, I was so confused and felt betrayed that my friend could reveal such secret to another person so I avoided her somehow and stopped visiting her although she noticed my changed behavior and tried asking if she did anything wrong but I didn't tell her. 

Our friendship is no longer the way it used to be because I feel she was pretending to be a good friend. If she was good, she wouldn't have revealed my health issues with anyone. I feel she's mocking me and happy with my situation.

Should I ask her or just forget and let go and don't tell her anything about myself anymore ( I've stopped telling her) or just avoid her?


Thank you..... Anyway, I later had a surgery which she's unaware of till date and please put me in your prayers. I am still TTC, I will testify soon. 
Love you guys!
Please Stella, I need your red pen and comments from other BVs.



Since it hurts so much then ask her but then STOP telling her anything that has to do with you or your life.I pray that God grants you your heart's desires soon.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
CAUGHT IN THE ACT BY THE KIDS

Please i need serious advice and i need this to be posted as soon as possible because i really do not know how to handle this.


So we leave in our personal house ,a three bed room apartment.Dh and i in one,kids (girl 8 and boy 2) have one and one for visitors but dh doesnt like the idea of kids sleeping in their room so they sleep with us. Before we do begin any show,we must make sure they are fast asleep but it seems our daughter is smarter or she monitors us .....

   Apart from any other occurences, let me focus on what happened recently. On Monday which was public hols,i woke up quite early to do some laundry.


Immediately i put the clothes into the machine in the bathroom,i saw someone grab me from behind turned,and saw it was hubby,he wanted us to gbensh but i warned him kids might be awake and even the sound of the machine might have woken them but he was so hard that he couldnt take no for an answer  so we decided to go into the guest room and we had the show. 

As oga was about to "land" see heavy banging on the door then he shouted whos there?but no answer so he came and i came out first to go check on my clothes being washed.I saw my daughters face ,she was so angry and looked at me with hatred and disgust mixed together.Hubby came out and she had same look.i wanted to speak with her but hubby said i shouldnt put so much effort into it because she might take it too important that she doesnt know what shes doing so i chilled and she actually forgot after a while (so i thought)

  my people the worst have happened o. kids were sleeping and dh and i were watching a movie in the sitting room.we went into the room at about 1am.He was on heat again and wanted to gbensh i made small shakara and gave in thinking my madam was sleeping. 


The sex was so hot,we did many acrobatic and we couldnt hold ourself.when i had the big "O",i nearly brought down the roof when hubby came,he was really vibrating.


so when we were done,he went into the bath room and i laid to rest before he comes out and my hand mistakenly touched my madam see the way she flung my hand and shifted far chaii, to say i was/am embarrassed is an understatement. Dh came and i signalled him(the room was dark) he just signalled me that i should relax.So i went to the bathroom and latter came to sleep. 

Hubby left for an appointment early this morning and i am left with weather to call her and explain things to her or just "relax" no i didnt go to work today and kids do not have school today either.

She has been acting up since morning and throwing ever errand i send her on my face.


my people pardon my gbagauns in this write up and help a sister. should i tell her that was how i had her brother?and now that she needs a sister shes being disturbing me over thats how i am going to have her?
Stella please i need you to post this asap o
Thanks


This story so messed up that i am reading it with my mouth open...WTF,you make love with your kids liying on the bed near you...OMG OMG OMG

I am so lost for words.


229 comments:

  1. Thank you Anon,poster one should snap out of her self pity and melancholy.she is just transferring her frustration on her friend. people share info to get info. I don't know what the fuss is about.you hide a sickness,it will hide you six feet below.only an ignorant fool will mock a person's health issues. I had a breast lump removed in my younger years,some ignorant fools thought their lives is finished not mine as they feel I won't be able to get a man.i didn't really feel mad, was just amazed by the level of their ignorance, but my dear, i was more exposed than them and should take better care of myself.i didn't hide myself.i told some few close friends,yes,not one person. After everything,my life moved on as if nothing happened both in health and dating. All of them started coming out. One even asked to feel her breast cos she noticed lump,it was lump and like mine nothing cancerous,she went and removed it. Even after I got married,some that are having low self esteem cos of one health issue or other do ask me indirectly if it have ever affected my relationship life which it has not cos I have always dated educated and exposed men even if they are not rich not some ignorant fool that will make issue out of a mole hill. What you are having is low self esteem and health issues can do that to a person. Mine didn't last cos my then boyfriend supported me both financially and emotionally and didn't make a big deal out of it. No ttc mother closes mouth oh, talk to your fellow women,you will always get some valuable information to help yourself.my cousin is ttc and we got married about the same time. I'm on number two and I pass along any info of things I have tried and the ones friends have tried. Even if I have to her the name of friend that told me. We don't mind. Your friend is not the problem but you. Make yourself happy and stop thinking every body is gossiping about you.people have their wahala to dwell on yours.

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  2. Thank you Anon,poster 1 should snap out of her self pity and melancholy.she is just transferring her frustration on her friend. people share info to get info. I don't know what the fuss is about.you hide a sickness,it will hide you six feet below.only an ignorant fool will mock a person's health issues. I had a breast lump removed in my younger years,some ignorant fools thought their lives is finished not mine as they feel I won't be able to get a man.i didn't really feel mad, was just amazed by the level of their ignorance, but my dear, i was more exposed than them and should take better care of myself.i didn't hide myself.i told some few close friends,yes,not one person. After everything,my life moved on as if nothing happened both in health and dating. All of them started coming out. One even asked to feel her breast cos she noticed lump,it was lump and like mine nothing cancerous,she went and removed it. Even after I got married,some that are having low self esteem cos of one health issue or other do ask me indirectly if it have ever affected my relationship life which it has not cos I have always dated educated and exposed men even if they are not rich not some ignorant fool that will make issue out of a mole hill. What you are having is low self esteem and health issues can do that to a person. Mine didn't last cos my then boyfriend supported me both financially and emotionally and didn't make a big deal out of it. No ttc mother closes mouth oh, talk to your fellow women,you will always get some valuable information to help yourself.my cousin is ttc and we got married about the same time. I'm on number two and I pass along any info of things I have tried and the ones friends have tried. Even if I have to her the name of friend that told me. We don't mind. Your friend is not the problem but you. Make yourself happy and stop thinking every body is gossiping about you.people have their wahala to dwell on yours.

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  3. Poster 2, Madam your children must not stay in the same room with you guys.

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  4. wwooooooo no children and lineage of mine will disturb the love and enjoyment of my husband and i. all the universe should hear me ooo. my first priority is my husband. i believe he should be my first child. then the products come second. woooo,, once the child can handle cup on his/her own, can waka to urinate, in fact from 1 n half years,, they will start sleeping in their room. GOD gave me my husband first. so ama give it to him as he wants it. we were partying b4 they came, nothing will spoil that party. lie lie. at all at all. thats how women end up stiffening up, then you get upset that he's going clubbing at night, you follow him to hotel room then you embarass him. most men, end up sending the woman packing and i am in full support. you will not give him milk, you still dont want him to go and buy outside. mtchewwww.

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    1. Your children should come first dummy. If peradventure something happens to you.. Your husband would marry another wife. But kids can't have another mother. Be wise.

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    2. You probably shouldn't have kids..........till you understand what it means to be a mother..
      What am I even saying? By the time you become one, you will totally understand

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  5. Poster 2...Give the guest room to your daughter......and let your the 2 boys share a room...smfh...

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  6. Thank you bare sunshine.
    P1, unless you think only women who have had abortions get fibroids, I don't see why the secrecy.
    Intact there's a study that says fibroids grow as a result of hair relaxers that's why its predominant in the black race.
    And yes I had fibroids and now I have the most adorable son.

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  7. And then instead of you to drop a number, you expect me to click on your name abi.

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  8. That your daughter's jealousy is not a good sign. I hope nothing is going on behind you? Why ask an 8 year old to sleep with you on the same bed?

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  9. Sandra thank you very much for saying my mind fibroid is not a secret thing nah is not as if she told her enemy but a sister who has diarrhoea of the mouth there is no big deal in fibrosis making a hill out of ant hole.
    Poster 2 u made mistake by allowing ur 8yr old daughter sleep in d same bed with u wen u have other rooms so u don't need to discuss anything with her ooo if she disobey you flog her wellwell, meanwhile send her to her & her brother to their children's room, u pple lashing her wot do husband& wife that stays in 1 room yet have six children do? They will stop gbenshing cos they have children abi? Odiegwu leave matter for Matthias madam change am well well for the naughty disturbing daughter, blamer seem una no her wia she said she came to hit the door in their 1st round in d visitors room, the girl is being inquisitive flog her if she misbehave it will wipe her brains & reset it to normal & non inquisitive brain kpam kpam inukwa akuko mike ejeagha.

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  10. I tire ooo can u imagine throwing her errands if na me I will beat the hell out u sharply with good cane brain resetor.

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  11. @Poster 2:

    To everyone who thinks that child doesn't understand, you are wildly mistaken. She might not have clarity on what is happening, might not have an explanation for it, but her instinct is telling her something is up and she is eliciting strong emotions. Sexual instinct is one of the few basic instinct humans are born with. It doesn't mature till puberty but its there. So, she is aware but just can't explain it herself but the experience is definitely a strong one for her.

    Also, there is something called the Electra complex (in a male child it's the Oedipus complex). Maybe the reference to this complex is a bit extreme but it is merely an excessive expression of a somewhat normal grounding which is usually exposed by the tendency for female children to gravitate towards their fathers and male children to gravitate towards their mothers (I leave you to research about the complex. I am wary of typing).

    Witnessing your act this way is causing a form of jealousy - not much different from a male child pushing his father away when he tries to openly show affection to his wife.

    This much I will tell you, you are playing with a keg of gunpowder!!! NEVER EVER ALLOW YOUR DAUGTHER WITHNESS OR EVEN HEAR THE SOUND OF YOUR SEXUAL ACT AGAIN, NOT EVEN THE SQUICKING OF THE BED. Her brain already probably created an association between the sight, sound and smell emanating from that experience. Eventually, you guys will need to have a word with her and by that I mean together!!! Now move them out of your room for goodness sakes. If your son witnesses it, it might be worse!!!

    She needs reassurance and some level of explanation for your actions. Then she needs love and time to heal. Finally be prayerful! It will shock you how little of sexually involved childhood experiences never gets erased from memory and this time I speak from experience of myself and a few people I have interviewed. So, pray for her, so your error doesn't cost her to walk in error herself.

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  12. This is how I became sexually active at age 13. I was very curious. I pity you. You sound like it's normal. Your children shouldn't see u make love.

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  13. Poster 2 Haba!!! What da hell!!! What nonsense!!!! You and your husband need cane. You do it with your kids in the same room??? Tf is wrong with you guys??? Una craze gan ooo. Madam your kids are old enough to sleep alone Biko. You sure say ya husband no dey even **you know**** ya daughter? You better do the right thing and stop being foolish Biko.

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  14. Poster 2: your foolishness and that of your husband has no bound. Dammit!! Three bedroom Apartment and you subject your lil girl to such act?? What Moral are you both passing to her? BTW, what Kind of husband do you have that would tell you not to speak with ur child concerning such issue? or even tell you he doesn't want the Kids to sleep alone in their room? wahala dey ooo.. ..i hope and pray your foolish act won't subject that lil Girl to some early sexual experience

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  15. Poster 1 go with stella's advice, poster 2 go with Martin a aboy's advise

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  16. POSTER 2,WHAT YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND IS DOING IS VERY BAD, YOU ARE DAMAGING YOUR CHILDREN'S LIFE WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THEM IT THEY SLEEP IN THEIR ROOM AND THE BOTH OF THEM ARE NOT EVEN SUPPOSE TO BE SLEEPING IN THE SAME ROOM WHAT IF SHE DECIDE TO TRY IT ON HER BROTHER ,AND FOR YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE BEHAVING LIKE THAT TOWARDS YOU AM SUSPECTING YOUR HUSBAND HE MIGHT JUST BE DOING YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER WHICH CAN ONLY EXPLAIN HER JEALOUS ATTITUDE ....YOU DESERVE AN E-SLAP

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  17. Poster 2..please ur kids should sleep in their room, not a fan of kids sleeping with parents except in rare cases. Biko

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  18. God! Why would any one think an 8years old child is still a baby? Madam, she's old enough and probably understands stuffs better than you can ever imagine. It is wrong to sleep in the same room with ur kids and also wrong for a male and female child to sleep together if aware of stuffs like this. Pls madam, waste no more time in educating her, mildly put it in a way she will understand it. At age 8, my lil niece is already in secondary school and know what menstrual period is, knows male and female organs. Kids are way smarter than u think ooo, b4 she starts practicing it with her lil brother of better still in school. I remember seeing my dad's kini when i was very very lil, that was my first sight of it and the thought, shape and color never left me till date. To actually think the innocent man was merely trying to get dressed after having his bath and I carelessly ran into the scene....I was only 6.

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  19. Dear poster 2,

    Indeed you and your husband deserve every curse being given to you here. Make sure you ask your husband to read all this to see how his(your) decisions have totally changed a child and how suspicious he is looking right now.

    I hope you listen to the advise given to you. You may need to seek professionals help, to help your daughter, because her mind is messed up now. There are certain things that a child should not be exposed to, that is why they are children. Their minds are not yet ready for such and can totally destroy their perceptions about the subject. I pray you make effort to turn this around for her, it will not easy but it can be done, has to be done if you want her to grow into a healthy woman.

    Abeg, for anyone reading this,
    1. Do not exposed your naked self to your child once they turn 1. Children are very intelligent, such images never leave their minds.
    2. Do not have sex or make love (or even make out) in front of your children.

    Na waa.

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  20. poster 2. I was angry reading your post and if I type now, you will cry your head out. You are destroying your daughter with your own hands. She is not a kid anymore. You guys will be stirring up her curiosity. Please move them to their room.

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  21. At poster 1: when did fibroid become such a huge secret??? You now want to use this little "mistake" she made to judge her and kill a good friendship, like seriously?? You just will forget all the good things she has done for you in a jiffy cos she told another person that you had fibroid...I am not understanding oh. Just talk to her about it since you feel deeply hurt and also learn to accommodate some people's faults too. I'm not saying that you should take nonsense oh. Nobody is perfect. Friendship has its own ups and downs so act wisely.

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  22. Gosh mimsy, you're the only one who said what I was thinking. Asides the obvious concerns about why parents are fucking in front of their kids, my second worry is your daughters reaction. Your daughter shouldn't be feeling upset. Please investigate. There's a problem somewhere.

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  23. Poster 2,your husband local,he believes in sleeping with kids in same room,you're messing up your own daughter,you better stand your ground for them to sleep in thier own room,she probably sees you as a slut already

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